I had such narcissistic parents, my mom always said that I left job because of you. As I was not good in maths, my parents discontinued my hobbies since class VI. My father used abusive language and there was a perpetual disconnect between me and my parents. My father expired three years back but I was not in grief. I did my motal duty of last rites. I did my duty. My parents always said that we did our duty to our daughter. Even at the age of 40,my mom still tries to control me.
I could feel your pain. We cant live in the pain of past and create a Happy present or future. Whats not of no use we throw in the dust bin. What is valuable we preserve. Liberate yourself and your father by forgiving and forgettig. Passing on fatherly love to wounded daughter
Children are taking advantage of parent being easy with them spending time with video gaming , playing , chatting . If we are not making them study now , we are worried , how many become Sachin & shariah . if there is no alternative talent , then we are worried of their future.
Absolutely true. I realised after a year that I’m forcing my son to study and learn for exams. Later I realised he has his own time to study and I felt I shouldn’t make him study study study. I left him explore life first and then I won’t force unless he says let’s do study or reading… Younger age is more of tender age.
my daughter is 3 year old i always try to make her understand things by talking, whatever u have is best p, never make her fool n say lies etc it really works
I am a single working mom.mere bacche k sath mera bonding bahut accha hai.but abhi to bas 5 yrs ki hai.mujhe ye soch k darr lagta hai k main sara kuch akele kaise manage karungi.its a long way to go 😢
I can vouch whatever she has said is 💯 percent correct. But at times it’s very hard to follow the basic rules . Coz we have grown up like that where parents n grandparents had no clue about correct parenting. Scolding n comparisons ke bina din shoru nahi hota hai 😊. It’s still going in every household. Most of Asian parents are like that . Chinese n Korean upbringing is worse intact . I work with them so I can tell they are much more harsh than Indian parents with there kids. . So it’s in human DNa . We can change gradually by this kind of awareness n rolemodeling I guess . Also as u said balancing is the key .
Aap shi bol rhe madam , but i feel stress by getting know reality through u , about my parents. I am pregnant. And i feel to learn good parenting so that i can be a good parent to my coming kid atleast despite of i dont get good treatment from my parents .and i feel to study psychology .how to study ?? Where to get admission ?
Experiencing Brief Moments of Mind Blanks - Seeking Advice I am 18 year Old Boy, My mind goes blank for 5-10 seconds when I'm stressed, thinking too much about topic / thing , or scared. I can feel it coming also... but can't do anything, it's scary! Any idea what's happening with me? Thanks,
Mam mera beta 12 years ka h usko ADHD H last year wo mobile se addict ho gya tha abhi addiction nhi h pr adhd h to usko consantration bilkul nhi h padhai me uska mn nhi lgta h abhi uska occupational tharapy chal rha h mam use hm kaise treat kare jisse uska padhai me consantration bne please guid kare
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Mam sorry but you are too constricted in your thoughts, everything is needed in various phases of life as a child grows. Same was given to me as well daant ladai pyar sab, parents also have their own life, they are not slave to their choice of having a child. You are just referring to the few negative cases that you solve. Just spreading negativity also excites or increases the negativity exponentially of someone who maybe even have just a small problem. Just making a business. Great mam. You are doing a noble job, but atleast don't spread hatred in the unique and sacred relation of a child and parent(*Don't plant seeds of doubt in teens with a difficult pre-teen life, their parents did the best of their capability*) . And it's life mam every family has it's own issue and struggles and they overcome it by various ways., you are no one to judge. Rather you should preach about the real struggles and the root cause of a teen coming running to you complain about parenting. If anyone is not able to handle the way of parenting whatever be it a rough one or a pleasent one, how will they face actual problems of life. It's goes on mam. You are doing a Noble job great, earning a great amount awesome you should. But atleast don't poison the teens mind of India. India has its own culture and struggles so stop thinking ki western way of parenting (always pamper, love, understanding and freedom, etc.) will solve anything. Rather it would lead to a western culture where teen will start living without parents. #Shame on such thoughts. #Embrace and learn from the western culture but don't adopt it.
I don’t think my talks or videos are poisoning anyone’s mind. I am a parent to 2 kids myself so last thing I would do is blame parents! But yes if parents are doing things that are damaging the child - even if intentions are right, needs to be called out. Today’s youth knows what i am talking about and also most parents who follow me. I don’t just find faults but I also give solutions and positive parenting tips - if u have seen the full video
Maam jis age group ko aap spich de rahe ho .wo to na jane kitne bache ka jivan barbaad kar deye.is se acha garib log hote hai jinke bache ka budhi vikash apne halat se taal mel kar lete hai.
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I had such narcissistic parents, my mom always said that I left job because of you. As I was not good in maths, my parents discontinued my hobbies since class VI. My father used abusive language and there was a perpetual disconnect between me and my parents. My father expired three years back but I was not in grief. I did my motal duty of last rites. I did my duty. My parents always said that we did our duty to our daughter. Even at the age of 40,my mom still tries to control me.
This is me. At the age of 43 controlling parents
I could feel your pain. We cant live in the pain of past and create a Happy present or future. Whats not of no use we throw in the dust bin. What is valuable we preserve. Liberate yourself and your father by forgiving and forgettig. Passing on fatherly love to wounded daughter
Thanks ma'am aapke videos sahi time pe mile just one year of married no kid's yet but video dekh ke kafi kuch pehle hi prepare kar sakte hain.💚
Children are taking advantage of parent being easy with them spending time with video gaming , playing , chatting . If we are not making them study now , we are worried , how many become Sachin & shariah . if there is no alternative talent , then we are worried of their future.
That is called OLD IS GOLD....Ma'am Salute to yoir Knowledge❤
I am only 50!! he he he!! Yes old is gold!!
@@riritrivedi 😂😂
Look at sister Shivani's concentration. Such a knowledge soul but still giving full attention to Riri Ma'am
Useful . Thank you mam.
Lovely maam.. i wish n pray it reaches to more n more parents.. om shanti
Absolutely true. I realised after a year that I’m forcing my son to study and learn for exams. Later I realised he has his own time to study and I felt I shouldn’t make him study study study. I left him explore life first and then I won’t force unless he says let’s do study or reading…
Younger age is more of tender age.
❤
It's worth watching every parent should watch this.
Excellent
my daughter is 3 year old
i always try to make her understand things by talking, whatever u have is best p, never make her fool n say lies etc
it really works
Ma'am m the mother of 1 year old.. and working women... All ur videos have always helped me wenever i felt frustrated about parenting..
Aap kise sambalte ho.kya profile apki job ki
Too good
Welcome from Nepal Dr ma'am, You're great.
Ms. Trivedi, its a great advice for every parents. Excellent 👌🏽👌🏽🙏🏽♥️
What a wonderful way
Absolutely true I HV tried all this to my son,n believe me he is a bachelor now n perfect in all things.
Excellent..bohut sare mistakes krti hu..sudharungi khub ko
yes pls. iss liye videos daali hai
Thanks Mam definitely i will change my behaviour
My parents destroyed my childhood. But I'll try my best to give the best environment to my baby.
Yes you can be the change maker who breaks the cycle of trauma :)
@@shrishtikhare4037 Hope your children are enjoying the childhood
I am a single working mom.mere bacche k sath mera bonding bahut accha hai.but abhi to bas 5 yrs ki hai.mujhe ye soch k darr lagta hai k main sara kuch akele kaise manage karungi.its a long way to go 😢
Same same
Good
Mam ese seminar sabhi school me bhi ho to hum 21 vi century ko energy me convert kar sakte hai ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏
sahi!! pls organize! i will come!
You are wonderful and helped many. Thankyou
Thank u❤
Bilkul 💯 ☑️
Thanks!
thank you so much ma'am 👏😊
welcome!
Thanks Madam it was nice
Great job ma'am
Assalam o Alaikum
I am from Pakistan. Your lecture is very informative. Kindly deliver a lecture on how parents control their anger before children.
So good
Thanks!
सही कह रहे हैं। मैं भी यही बात पेरेंट्स टीचर्स मीटिंग में कहता रहा,पर कुछ ही अभिभावक फोलो करते हैं।
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thank u ma'am
perfect rules…
So wonderful mam..... ❤❤❤❤
Teacher specialy Convent teacher must be needed to learn something about how to teach and what to teach it will be proved helpful for a healthy child.
I can vouch whatever she has said is 💯 percent correct. But at times it’s very hard to follow the basic rules . Coz we have grown up like that where parents n grandparents had no clue about correct parenting. Scolding n comparisons ke bina din shoru nahi hota hai 😊. It’s still going in every household. Most of Asian parents are like that . Chinese n Korean upbringing is worse intact . I work with them so I can tell they are much more harsh than Indian parents with there kids. . So it’s in human DNa . We can change gradually by this kind of awareness n rolemodeling I guess . Also as u said balancing is the key .
Thank u
May to I stand with my children masha-allah
Mam I have question inlaws ager toxic hn to kase kren parenting
Aap shi bol rhe madam , but i feel stress by getting know reality through u , about my parents. I am pregnant. And i feel to learn good parenting so that i can be a good parent to my coming kid atleast despite of i dont get good treatment from my parents .and i feel to study psychology .how to study ?? Where to get admission ?
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Experiencing Brief Moments of Mind Blanks - Seeking Advice
I am 18 year Old Boy, My mind goes blank for 5-10 seconds when I'm stressed, thinking too much about topic / thing , or scared. I can feel it coming also... but can't do anything, it's scary!
Any idea what's happening with me?
Thanks,
this can happen due to lot of stress and anxiety. pls do some calming and relaxing practises
also doing 10 mins of simple humming can help you focus and concentrate
Mam mera beta 12 years ka h usko ADHD H last year wo mobile se addict ho gya tha abhi addiction nhi h pr adhd h to usko consantration bilkul nhi h padhai me uska mn nhi lgta h abhi uska occupational tharapy chal rha h mam use hm kaise treat kare jisse uska padhai me consantration bne please guid kare
❤
Thanks madam my baby 3 years old kuch dino se meri mar kha rhahe but ab nhi hoga thanks so much
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@@riritrivedi thanks mam . Could you please tell me the fees?
Ma'am mere 2bete h dono apas me bahut jhagarte h 11year and 8year ka beta h mam please koi solution bataeye
8s
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Mam sorry but you are too constricted in your thoughts, everything is needed in various phases of life as a child grows. Same was given to me as well daant ladai pyar sab, parents also have their own life, they are not slave to their choice of having a child. You are just referring to the few negative cases that you solve. Just spreading negativity also excites or increases the negativity exponentially of someone who maybe even have just a small problem. Just making a business. Great mam. You are doing a noble job, but atleast don't spread hatred in the unique and sacred relation of a child and parent(*Don't plant seeds of doubt in teens with a difficult pre-teen life, their parents did the best of their capability*) . And it's life mam every family has it's own issue and struggles and they overcome it by various ways., you are no one to judge. Rather you should preach about the real struggles and the root cause of a teen coming running to you complain about parenting. If anyone is not able to handle the way of parenting whatever be it a rough one or a pleasent one, how will they face actual problems of life. It's goes on mam. You are doing a Noble job great, earning a great amount awesome you should. But atleast don't poison the teens mind of India. India has its own culture and struggles so stop thinking ki western way of parenting (always pamper, love, understanding and freedom, etc.) will solve anything. Rather it would lead to a western culture where teen will start living without parents. #Shame on such thoughts. #Embrace and learn from the western culture but don't adopt it.
I don’t think my talks or videos are poisoning anyone’s mind. I am a parent to 2 kids myself so last thing I would do is blame parents! But yes if parents are doing things that are damaging the child - even if intentions are right, needs to be called out. Today’s youth knows what i am talking about and also most parents who follow me. I don’t just find faults but I also give solutions and positive parenting tips - if u have seen the full video
Maam jis age group ko aap spich de rahe ho .wo to na jane kitne bache ka jivan barbaad kar deye.is se acha garib log hote hai jinke bache ka budhi vikash apne halat se taal mel kar lete hai.