Thank you for another engaging and informative video, Mrs. Trivedi. Here are somethings I have been engaging with my son since he was a preschooler. Today he is a 20 year old adult and we share a beautiful, respectful relationship :) 1. Time out to reflect and calm our impulses 2. Squeeze a ball/toy 3. Jumping jacks and count 4. Write or draw in a journal explaining how he feels. 5. Play an instrument or sing or dance or simply listen to music 6. Run a lap 7 . Shower 8. Count together 9. Ask him open ended questions (he may or may not have an answer ) 10. Acknowledging his anger and suggesting healthy ways to express his emotions. Most importantly, we talk about his behavior or my behavior. Whenver I have been in the wrong, i acknowledge my mistakes and seek an apology.
Thank you for so much for this enlightenment. I am struggling with my 11 yr boy and being single makes it difficult. He is addicted to phn. I know now how to engage and not enrage.
yes phone addiction is a global issue and even adults and parents are addicted to it. it snot our childrens fault because they are in a world where. mobile is the new friend, parent, caretaker, entertainer, computer, bank, etc. work together with the child to manage the usage and model that behaviour u want
Very nicely explained. Though my son is 29 Years old and sometime he scolded me whenever he is in trouble now after seeing this video I will manage more accurately
my son is 15 year old ,he talks with me rudely as and when i tell him to study , we got into fight because of study ,he is in 10th standard , he only watches study related videos when i ask him to study aur jab me tokti hu to muze batata hai ki vidoes ki wajah se mere concept clear hote hai.. ye videos ki wajah se me bahut pareshan hu ke ye padhai karta hai matlab sirf videos dekhta hai..marks nahi aate..wo kab samzega reading writing habit is also important part of study..
What would do more damage? You screaming at your kids? Or the people around you blaming you? If your child is your priority you know what to do:) Best wishes
If child always ask I don't want to go to sch. I am attending academy. Its enough then what. In grade 10th he wants mobile . Always through tentaram. That buy a mob for me otherwise I will misbehave and can't do attention towards studies.what can I do. Age 17years boy. He always want mobile and free fire. Plz help.
today children all want mobile because all their friends have it. so its not ur sons fault - because everyone has it, he also will ask for it. you need to share ur concerns about phone and give ti to him if he addresses ur concerns about it. provided u can afford it. Or he can do some chores and earn money and buy it from his money. If he is threatening then its not good. u should make it clear u are buying not due to threats but because u feel he will use it well :)
hi maaam mera beta class 5 mai hai,cbse board mai uska studya mai learning aacha hai oraly answered aaha deta hai lekhin exam mai spelling misstake bahut karta hai.or usko har wakt study time Mai,tu pass bas jaoo bota hai.. construction se study karta hi nahi or usko kitni bi trick dedu to instructions follow nahi kartA please help me uske vajhase choti beti per dhan de ne ke liye tie hi nahi milta.
Thank you for another engaging and informative video, Mrs. Trivedi. Here are somethings I have been engaging with my son since he was a preschooler. Today he is a 20 year old adult and we share a beautiful, respectful relationship :)
1. Time out to reflect and calm our impulses
2. Squeeze a ball/toy
3. Jumping jacks and count
4. Write or draw in a journal explaining how he feels.
5. Play an instrument or sing or dance or simply listen to music
6. Run a lap
7 . Shower
8. Count together
9. Ask him open ended questions (he may or may not have an answer )
10. Acknowledging his anger and suggesting healthy ways to express his emotions.
Most importantly, we talk about his behavior or my behavior. Whenver I have been in the wrong, i acknowledge my mistakes and seek an apology.
Thank you for sharing❤ I am hoping others also read ur comment and incorporate those ideas
It's a blessing to me🙏
My child is a 3 years old.... Your video helps me a lot... 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for so much for this enlightenment. I am struggling with my 11 yr boy and being single makes it difficult. He is addicted to phn. I know now how to engage and not enrage.
yes phone addiction is a global issue and even adults and parents are addicted to it. it snot our childrens fault because they are in a world where. mobile is the new friend, parent, caretaker, entertainer, computer, bank, etc. work together with the child to manage the usage and model that behaviour u want
Very nicely explained. Though my son is 29 Years old and sometime he scolded me whenever he is in trouble now after seeing this video I will manage more accurately
this video is for small children - if 29 yr old is scolding you its not appropriate. respect is important in parent child relationship - both ways!
Very nice explanation mam. Thanku
Thanks for liking
best video mam learning a lot from ur videos please keep posting😊
Sure
Loved it❤
Thanku mam...its a very good video....try to use all d tips that u told
my son is 15 year old ,he talks with me rudely as and when i tell him to study , we got into fight because of study ,he is in 10th standard , he only watches study related videos when i ask him to study aur jab me tokti hu to muze batata hai ki vidoes ki wajah se mere concept clear hote hai.. ye videos ki wajah se me bahut pareshan hu ke ye padhai karta hai matlab sirf videos dekhta hai..marks nahi aate..wo kab samzega reading writing habit is also important part of study..
Thank you so much ma'am ❤❤
Most welcome 😊
Thank you
❤❤❤Thank you Ma'am for the wonderful video. Our prayers for your good health so that you keep making the difference in the world. ❤❤❤
Thank u so much❤
Mam plz make vedio on Academic challenges
Yes madam I m trying these method to my child and mee..thanks madam
All the best
What is regression therapy
Ma'am, how to nurture gifted children? Is there any book to parent such children. I benifit a lot from your vidios
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Thank you mam. But unfortunately other people around us blame us for kids behavior and we get more angry on our kid. What to do mam.
What would do more damage? You screaming at your kids? Or the people around you blaming you? If your child is your priority you know what to do:)
Best wishes
If child always ask I don't want to go to sch. I am attending academy. Its enough then what. In grade 10th he wants mobile . Always through tentaram. That buy a mob for me otherwise I will misbehave and can't do attention towards studies.what can I do. Age 17years boy. He always want mobile and free fire. Plz help.
today children all want mobile because all their friends have it. so its not ur sons fault - because everyone has it, he also will ask for it. you need to share ur concerns about phone and give ti to him if he addresses ur concerns about it. provided u can afford it. Or he can do some chores and earn money and buy it from his money. If he is threatening then its not good. u should make it clear u are buying not due to threats but because u feel he will use it well :)
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hi maaam mera beta class 5 mai hai,cbse board mai uska studya mai learning aacha hai oraly answered aaha deta hai lekhin exam mai spelling misstake bahut karta hai.or usko har wakt study time Mai,tu pass bas jaoo bota hai.. construction se study karta hi nahi or usko kitni bi trick dedu to instructions follow nahi kartA please help me uske vajhase choti beti per dhan de ne ke liye tie hi nahi milta.
he is just 5 yrs old, let him strengthen his oral learning skills, spelling will come with practice...
@@riritrivedi no he is 11 years old and studing in gread 5
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