Social skills are very important part of resilience, valid point 👌 In today’s world especially we Indians are so busy with our profession, academics etc we have no time for social interactions. There is a lot to learn from this video. Very meaningful advice. Thank you for your advice Ma'am ❤
Mai jab school jaati thi yaa kahi bhi jaati thi to papa ne hamesha sikhaya beta khud strong bano..kisi pe dependent mat rho....Papa mummy hamesha sath nhi chal sakte...agar to aapke sath mis behave kare to uska samna kaise karna hai ye bhi unhone sikhaya...jab bhi mai school se aati thi yo hamesha mujhse aate hi puchte the ki school me kya kya hua...I m proud of my father because of him only today I am very successful in my life whether it is career or in family
Dr. Trivedi , thank you for your clear views and suggestions. As a mother of a 21 year old young man and an educator, your video is very vaildating. I greatly appreciate it❤
Mam how to contact you, will you provide personal interactions or training’s to the parents, your interactions are very helpful, we need more and more videos
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Hello maam !! My son is 6 years old and he cannot make friends he wants to makes friends but they avoid him because he is too loud and excited! I tell him dont worry i will play with you, he enjoys that too but i cannot manage to play outdoor all the time with him! Pls suggest !
Mam I have a 4 years daughter and I made a lot of mistake because of unknown..but now I try to learn lot of prenting tips..but I have a question that will all my miskil overcome or not??? Will my daughter have a healthy growth?? My English is very weak sorry for that.
in gujarati we say 'jaagya tyaar thi savaar' - from teh time u wake up, its morning! u can start changing ur approach now and ur child will also change. brain is constantly changing and nothing is permanent. so pls do not worry focus on changing ur methods
My daughter is 7 years, she is very mature. But when dealing with a situation which is not in her favour, she becomes very aggressive, cries a lot makes huge drama and streches this drama for long time and most of the time says I dont want to live. It will be better if I die. How to stop this?
At the end, she is just 7 year old it’s okay for her to cry and be dramatic. And as for her saying she wants it is a possibility that she heard somewhere try to make her stay away from such negativity
Maam i follow ur videos they are very informarive i try to keep calm with ny child but sometimes ny voice gets raised up like yesterday he was having cold and was repeatedly playing witn water so i had to scold him wht should have been done did i do wrong
children do not have the brains developed yet to understand consequences of theri actions. so they have to be told again and again without losing patience or calmness. there was no need to scold. u can simply life him and move him out of that space and if he is angry, then say 'i know u feel angry but we cannot play with water now' and soothe him.
Maam ..my son is 8 and he is now arguing in most cases and either shouting or crying even in very small things or incase we are trying to say him something or correct him in something. How to deal with this can you please guide 🙏🏻
children learn to argue when we argue back. do not engage in verbal arguments. back off when anything becomes argument. u can be firm about ur stand and not indulge in arguing or having the last word. also be choiceful about correction - focsu on connection and spend 80% of ur time in connection and only 20% in correction - choose ur battles
My parents are Not that Mature and thoughtful..how they gonna Teach me? They made me servile, obedient and not to fight even whenever I got abused, harrassed at workplace they did not saved me. They themselves are abuser..for me. Wo he mujhe humiliate krre h, nag all the time, gave me shame for everything..inspite of being obedient and serving them Today i have no career, no friends, no money, no marriage..no social life. Nothing Zero. And now i m an adult. When i stand for myself they always start to yell, abuse me..they Never understand and never will..unhe to lgta h ek ladki ko paida hone diya, padha diya Itne me he bhot mhaan ho gy. Me hmesha se ek achi bachhi rhi pr mere parents kbi mere liye ache ni rhe. Kbi ni pucha ki me kaise hu? Mujhe koi problem to ni. Bhed bakri jaise life h meri ..but now i m fedup. Mujhe samjh ni ata ki jb wo log meri care ni krte to me kyu krti hu?? Aur ek he chij mangi thi ki mujhe padhne do , ek respected job lene do.to b ghr ki sari kam, market k kam, inki ladai, bimar maa sb mere he sar p dal diya..akele. aur bolte h papa ..padhne wale bache isme b padh lete h. Khud tujhse kuch ni hota. Bow i m 30+ with no job, no hope for gd future .aise life kyu de God ne mujhe? Mere parents ki baat manne ki sja mil ri h mujhe? Mere maa baap ko to koi afsos ni hota ki meri life kharab kr di dono ne. Jb me roti hu to mujhe he dosh dete h.😢😢 Ek awara, sharabi,abusive se shadi kr rhe the meri to meine mna kr diya. To bolte h ki kya tere liye Rajkumar ayga? Meri ek achi Police job lgi thi but my father told me police job girls k liye thik ni hoti.. Now i m jobless,overage. Maa baap h ya haiwan? Phir bolte h tu krti he kya h. Kmati to kuch h ni? Kmane dete he kha h. Bachpan se to ghr me kaid kr rkha h.
You are an independent adult, you can start speaking for yourself now and this way stand up for your own self, as you start doing this, it will be better for you in the longer run.
Social skills are very important part of resilience, valid point 👌 In today’s world especially we Indians are so busy with our profession, academics etc we have no time for social interactions. There is a lot to learn from this video. Very meaningful advice. Thank you for your advice Ma'am ❤
Very well explained mam thank you so much
Mai jab school jaati thi yaa kahi bhi jaati thi to papa ne hamesha sikhaya beta khud strong bano..kisi pe dependent mat rho....Papa mummy hamesha sath nhi chal sakte...agar to aapke sath mis behave kare to uska samna kaise karna hai ye bhi unhone sikhaya...jab bhi mai school se aati thi yo hamesha mujhse aate hi puchte the ki school me kya kya hua...I m proud of my father because of him only today I am very successful in my life whether it is career or in family
My childhood was not good and subconsciously I made mistakes with my daughter..and I try to better myself all the time..
Dr. Trivedi , thank you for your clear views and suggestions. As a mother of a 21 year old young man and an educator, your video is very vaildating. I greatly appreciate it❤
Amazing video, very clear and constructive points. Thank you so much.
Bahut acchi information mam aapane Diya Aaj very very very thank you mam❤
Best tips...you are spot on
Thanks Dr. Riri ma'am ❤from the core of my heart
My pleasure 😊
Baut informative hai thnks ma'am, Mai be parenting pr काम kr rhe hu
Thank you so much ma'am ❤
Most welcome 😊
i sometimes think it’s more about nature rather than nurture..
In my opinion nature comes from nurturing.
This is fabulous session...❤🎉
Thank you so much ❤
Nice video 👌👌
Superb mam
Which is the plant in the background? 😊
Mam how to contact you, will you provide personal interactions or training’s to the parents, your interactions are very helpful, we need more and more videos
We have parenting workshops. Pls see our website for details
Ma’am,are you doing teenage counselling?how can we contact you?
For therapy or consultation queries please fill up this form 👉🏼
forms.gle/EP8FsWkmhe2bDTS6A
Once you submit the form our team will reach out to you in the next 48 hrs🙏🏼
For further questions please WhatsApp us on +91 9099853844 between 10 am to 6 pm IST
Meanwhile please see the video on what our consultation process is like 👉 th-cam.com/play/PLa4jfO4aTSvtuDRNpUU5RO3xIuvQBieDx.html&feature=shared
Can i show it to my 10 year old boy
Yes but with guidance and little bit of explanation.
Hello maam !!
My son is 6 years old and he cannot make friends he wants to makes friends but they avoid him because he is too loud and excited! I tell him dont worry i will play with you, he enjoys that too but i cannot manage to play outdoor all the time with him! Pls suggest !
Do you feel he is loud and excited or he feels that ?
Mam I have a 4 years daughter and I made a lot of mistake because of unknown..but now I try to learn lot of prenting tips..but I have a question that will all my miskil overcome or not??? Will my daughter have a healthy growth?? My English is very weak sorry for that.
in gujarati we say 'jaagya tyaar thi savaar' - from teh time u wake up, its morning! u can start changing ur approach now and ur child will also change. brain is constantly changing and nothing is permanent. so pls do not worry focus on changing ur methods
Thank u so much maam
My daughter is 7 years, she is very mature. But when dealing with a situation which is not in her favour, she becomes very aggressive, cries a lot makes huge drama and streches this drama for long time and most of the time says I dont want to live. It will be better if I die. How to stop this?
At the end, she is just 7 year old it’s okay for her to cry and be dramatic. And as for her saying she wants it is a possibility that she heard somewhere try to make her stay away from such negativity
Maam i follow ur videos they are very informarive i try to keep calm with ny child but sometimes ny voice gets raised up like yesterday he was having cold and was repeatedly playing witn water so i had to scold him wht should have been done did i do wrong
children do not have the brains developed yet to understand consequences of theri actions. so they have to be told again and again without losing patience or calmness. there was no need to scold. u can simply life him and move him out of that space and if he is angry, then say 'i know u feel angry but we cannot play with water now' and soothe him.
My son manipulate the situation , lies too what to do in this situation I get confused how to tackle him
How old is your son?
Mam..what to do if ur girl child 11yrs old watches adult videos..
Try to speak to her and make her understand through connection
@riritrivedi how.i hv tried many times..but still sometimes it happens
Ma'am kis age group k bachcho ki baat kar rahe hain??
Esa koi specific age group nahi hai
Maam ..my son is 8 and he is now arguing in most cases and either shouting or crying even in very small things or incase we are trying to say him something or correct him in something. How to deal with this can you please guide 🙏🏻
For children you can sit with them and talk to them patiently.
children learn to argue when we argue back. do not engage in verbal arguments. back off when anything becomes argument. u can be firm about ur stand and not indulge in arguing or having the last word. also be choiceful about correction - focsu on connection and spend 80% of ur time in connection and only 20% in correction - choose ur battles
My parents are Not that Mature and thoughtful..how they gonna Teach me?
They made me servile, obedient and not to fight even whenever I got abused, harrassed at workplace they did not saved me. They themselves are abuser..for me.
Wo he mujhe humiliate krre h, nag all the time, gave me shame for everything..inspite of being obedient and serving them
Today i have no career, no friends, no money, no marriage..no social life. Nothing Zero.
And now i m an adult. When i stand for myself they always start to yell, abuse me..they Never understand and never will..unhe to lgta h ek ladki ko paida hone diya, padha diya Itne me he bhot mhaan ho gy.
Me hmesha se ek achi bachhi rhi pr mere parents kbi mere liye ache ni rhe. Kbi ni pucha ki me kaise hu? Mujhe koi problem to ni. Bhed bakri jaise life h meri ..but now i m fedup.
Mujhe samjh ni ata ki jb wo log meri care ni krte to me kyu krti hu??
Aur ek he chij mangi thi ki mujhe padhne do , ek respected job lene do.to b ghr ki sari kam, market k kam, inki ladai, bimar maa sb mere he sar p dal diya..akele. aur bolte h papa ..padhne wale bache isme b padh lete h. Khud tujhse kuch ni hota.
Bow i m 30+ with no job, no hope for gd future .aise life kyu de God ne mujhe?
Mere parents ki baat manne ki sja mil ri h mujhe?
Mere maa baap ko to koi afsos ni hota ki meri life kharab kr di dono ne. Jb me roti hu to mujhe he dosh dete h.😢😢
Ek awara, sharabi,abusive se shadi kr rhe the meri to meine mna kr diya. To bolte h ki kya tere liye Rajkumar ayga?
Meri ek achi Police job lgi thi but my father told me police job girls k liye thik ni hoti..
Now i m jobless,overage.
Maa baap h ya haiwan?
Phir bolte h tu krti he kya h. Kmati to kuch h ni?
Kmane dete he kha h. Bachpan se to ghr me kaid kr rkha h.
You are an independent adult, you can start speaking for yourself now and this way stand up for your own self, as you start doing this, it will be better for you in the longer run.
My mom is of negative nature 😔😢 . Even my bro also got some mom's negative character 😭
aapne yeh kabse observe karna start kia?
Pls help me I worried for my son
How old is your son ?
please ma'am hindi me bnaiye vedio
stay connected will upload soon
Bache ko galti lagati nai it's ok it happens bolte to sikhe ge kese
its okay bolne k aage samjha na bhi h