Thanks for this. Lots of my favourite bands play here in Manchester but i've been too nervous to go and see them alone. I'm not too bothered about what happens when i get inside, it's seeing everyone queue outside in groups, then imagine myself being there alone and being awkward.
Yeah man, i feel i should have hit that point harder in the vid - the feeling of being awkward. I know guys are worried they have to explain to people they meet that they are alone, but when you do that it doesnt go as badly as you think it would
thats all in your head brother no one cares more than you yoyrself does i went to 50cent & busta alone and 2 girls behind me i heard talking and all they said was how nervous they themselves are what if this what if that going through security finding their seat to the point it got annoying cuz they were saying that for like 40min lol so dont worry and just go know the exits drink water and you are good bro
Your choice mate My goal in life is to experience life to its fullest, I want to achieve social freedom where I can do what I like without feeling bad because of social anxiety or false expectations, or maybe even my past experiences dictating my hard limits. It is true that our past shape us but you have consciousness - it only depends on you whether you stick to your animal instincts and remain scared and hard trained into certain behaviour(s). By the way, you can't logic your way out or into anything, your logic serves your "heart" so if you are scared/genuinely excited and given enough time you definitely will be able to find an excuse/reason to think a certain way about the thing you feel something about. Not what makes more sense, what do you want FROM life, it doesn't really matter what other people think, just continue doing it and after a while you will make it happen, don't even think about the quality - become the process, become the task, just do 1 thing like a worker on the belt in Ford's factory untill you perfect the skill and become good at it
I have a pool rave I bought tickets for this Friday , and non of my “friends” got their tickets I’m scared going aloneee but that is not gonna stop me from going . 😩 wish me luckkkk
Drugs. While not healthy might be a good way to end up in the ER and you can also make good friends there.
ok this is a really good topic
Thanks for this. Lots of my favourite bands play here in Manchester but i've been too nervous to go and see them alone. I'm not too bothered about what happens when i get inside, it's seeing everyone queue outside in groups, then imagine myself being there alone and being awkward.
Yeah man, i feel i should have hit that point harder in the vid - the feeling of being awkward. I know guys are worried they have to explain to people they meet that they are alone, but when you do that it doesnt go as badly as you think it would
thats all in your head brother no one cares more than you yoyrself does i went to 50cent & busta alone and 2 girls behind me i heard talking and all they said was how nervous they themselves are what if this what if that going through security finding their seat to the point it got annoying cuz they were saying that for like 40min lol so dont worry and just go know the exits drink water and you are good bro
THIS MAN IS ON POINT
I went to Amsterdam alone and it was mental. hahaha great time. Would recommend.
What place you went to. Mostly have basic techno or tekno but i want something different
I'd rather just stay home alone
Your choice mate
My goal in life is to experience life to its fullest, I want to achieve social freedom where I can do what I like without feeling bad because of social anxiety or false expectations, or maybe even my past experiences dictating my hard limits. It is true that our past shape us but you have consciousness - it only depends on you whether you stick to your animal instincts and remain scared and hard trained into certain behaviour(s).
By the way, you can't logic your way out or into anything, your logic serves your "heart" so if you are scared/genuinely excited and given enough time you definitely will be able to find an excuse/reason to think a certain way about the thing you feel something about.
Not what makes more sense, what do you want FROM life, it doesn't really matter what other people think, just continue doing it and after a while you will make it happen, don't even think about the quality - become the process, become the task, just do 1 thing like a worker on the belt in Ford's factory untill you perfect the skill and become good at it
I have a pool rave I bought tickets for this Friday , and non of my “friends” got their tickets I’m scared going aloneee but that is not gonna stop me from going . 😩 wish me luckkkk