Yesterday I found out that some family friends were talking about what a failure I was and even though I went to good schools, I amounted to nothing. At first I was angry, thinking "who are these people to say this about me? How are they so special? Where is there tremendous success?" But then I realized I was angry because I was triggered by what they said and the reason I was triggered is because I believed it to be true. As much as they were judging me, I was judging myself 100× more - for not being where I thought I would be at this time in my life. For all the challenges and hardships I have been going through for the last couple of years. For not being a "success" but feeling like I am a failure. This feeling of both anger and resentment for being judged stayed with me through the night. I awoke this morning, still feeling this way, so I started tapping, but I couldn't find a tapping experience to help me relieve these feelings even just a little bit, until I found this tapping video. As I was tapping along with the video, I realized that I am on my own journey and for the very first time I fully honored that. Then suddenly I realized it didn't matter what others thought or how they judged me but how I felt about my life and myself. I can see where the challenges and hardships are shaping and developing me to be not only the person I desire but maybe even something more than I could ever imagine. The most important thing I got from this tapping video is that not only do I not have to feel bad about being judged so harshly, but I can see it as a gift because it allowed me to re-adjust how I see myself and realize I am not a failure. I am right where I am meant to be and from everything I have experienced over the past few years has made me a success. Successful at preserverance, resiliency and determination. In a way, their judgement allowed me to stop judging myself. Others can judge me but that does not stop me from honoring myself, knowing my own journey and feeling blessed for being who I am right now and being where I am right now. I know this is a very long comment but I had to share it. Thank you so much Brad! Your work helps me in ways I couldn't even have imagined. It os helping me to reprogram my brain in ways that make my heart sing. Many thanks and blessings!🙏🙏❤❤🙏
Man, I am going to have to do this multiple times after the election. As a black woman, I am being very judged and the tropes from the election, I have faced and unfortunately continue to face. American racism has spread far and wide and it is hard for people like me. This tap provides relief. I will continue to tap on this all day. Thank you Brad for making this tap and having it available 🙏
Excellent video. if somebody criticizes me because this person wants me to adjust to their expectations, so why I am hurt by that? It is time to let it go.
This video is so helpful since I feel judged all the freakin time at high school cause I'm different and some people just can't understand nor accept it
Aww I really needed this one! It’s true - if they are not able to show up maturely, that’s on them. I can love and respect myself anyways. Thank you Brad ❤
When I first started on my spiritual journey I was just out of high school, this video brought up a lot of nostalgia and a deeper understanding of how far I've come. Your videos helped me heal a lot of trauma and establish a routine of self-care. Much love Brad❤
What would I do without your videos? Always there when I'm in need. I type what I need help with on TH-cam and there you are, with the perfect video for every possible scenario 😄
Thank you. I used this one to related to the judgement and assessment from a job interview, changing the language as appropriate for being wrongly assessed, or mis-assessed in an interview. Thanks!
Thank you. These videos are so good. You made this 10 years ago and it is the first time I am watching it, but it will always be relevant and very helpful.
I LOVE tapping with you! You are like the encyclopedia of tapping! It's so effortless to tap along. I sometimes insert my own words to make it more personal to me and "ShaZam!" the shift happens!
Thank you for such as time as thiis!. Thank you, thank you, and thank you! Needed this sooooo much!!!! I have faved this video to remind myself. Unfortunately we live in a very cruel dog eat world world and cannot take things personal..... WOW. Keep posting like this...because there are others like me out there who need this loving,reassurring reinforcement! Bless You! Thank you again my dear friend
Dear Brad, I wish you a very happy and peaceful and creative new déccenium and a happy 2020. And thank you for helping me to feel more safe in me. Do you know what also helps me? It looks like you see me in the eyes and I see yours, because we look each other in the eye .. That creates trust too somehow, even though you've long been busy with other things! haha.. Hope your doing well and thanks a lot for your effort!
Brilliant, Brad, timely as always. This video had me yawning almost constantly, the energy really shifted! Thank you. PS. I like you better with your glasses....how's that for judgment? lol
@DonAntonio91 You can do what's called 'surrogate' tapping. You just go through the video with the intention that the tapping is for the other specific person, and you can start by saying 'Even though my name is ______, and I might be feeling a certain way, causing me to do this or that....' Then just do the video verbatim. It's all about intention. Just remember you can't force change upon anyone else, but you can change the way someone treats or interacts with you. HTH
I'm discovering that, as an empath, I draw the opposite to me. Does this tapping work on people with NPD - Narcissistic Personality Disorder? I'm guessing it does.
Finally a video that really talks about being judged and not the "fear of judgement" !
Yesterday I found out that some family friends were talking about what a failure I was and even though I went to good schools, I amounted to nothing. At first I was angry, thinking "who are these people to say this about me? How are they so special? Where is there tremendous success?" But then I realized I was angry because I was triggered by what they said and the reason I was triggered is because I believed it to be true. As much as they were judging me, I was judging myself 100× more - for not being where I thought I would be at this time in my life. For all the challenges and hardships I have been going through for the last couple of years. For not being a "success" but feeling like I am a failure. This feeling of both anger and resentment for being judged stayed with me through the night. I awoke this morning, still feeling this way, so I started tapping, but I couldn't find a tapping experience to help me relieve these feelings even just a little bit, until I found this tapping video. As I was tapping along with the video, I realized that I am on my own journey and for the very first time I fully honored that. Then suddenly I realized it didn't matter what others thought or how they judged me but how I felt about my life and myself. I can see where the challenges and hardships are shaping and developing me to be not only the person I desire but maybe even something more than I could ever imagine. The most important thing I got from this tapping video is that not only do I not have to feel bad about being judged so harshly, but I can see it as a gift because it allowed me to re-adjust how I see myself and realize I am not a failure. I am right where I am meant to be and from everything I have experienced over the past few years has made me a success. Successful at preserverance, resiliency and determination. In a way, their judgement allowed me to stop judging myself. Others can judge me but that does not stop me from honoring myself, knowing my own journey and feeling blessed for being who I am right now and being where I am right now. I know this is a very long comment but I had to share it. Thank you so much Brad! Your work helps me in ways I couldn't even have imagined. It os helping me to reprogram my brain in ways that make my heart sing. Many thanks and blessings!🙏🙏❤❤🙏
Thank you for sharing your story.
Thank you for this comment. It was exactly what I needed at this time!
Man, I am going to have to do this multiple times after the election. As a black woman, I am being very judged and the tropes from the election, I have faced and unfortunately continue to face. American racism has spread far and wide and it is hard for people like me. This tap provides relief. I will continue to tap on this all day. Thank you Brad for making this tap and having it available 🙏
It’s about shame, this person is trying to shame me. Moving through this in knowing who I AM, and who I am not ❤️
Thank you, Brad, this has helped me so much today! I absolutely love your calming and reassuring energy. You heal so many people, thank you!
Hello Maria! I love your ASMR videos and brads EFT #1. U guys rock!!!
Excellent video. if somebody criticizes me because this person wants me to adjust to their expectations, so why I am hurt by that? It is time to let it go.
You are one of my favourite persons. Love you😊
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I was harshly judged in a toxic workplace lately. Really needed this. Thank you
you deserve 1000000000000000 subscribers
Thank you I can hear the love in your voice🆙✅🆓🙏🤩🖼❤️
One of the best on
Self-Respect and Self-Love
This video is so helpful since I feel judged all the freakin time at high school cause I'm different and some people just can't understand nor accept it
Aww I really needed this one! It’s true - if they are not able to show up maturely, that’s on them. I can love and respect myself anyways. Thank you Brad ❤
Thank you so much dear Brad🙏You’ve helped me so much in so many ways. Truly grateful for all that you do for us🙏
Sending you many blessings🙏
Brilliant Brad!! First one up again today completely synchronous to what I need. I wrote another poem this morning. I'm going to adapt it for tapping!
Law Enforcement Agent Wanted
Oh, I wish we had a love Sheriff
Who spotted all love crimes,
And strolled in with a relaxed gait
And positive state of mind;
Who came in with a balmy breeze
And would not condescend to leave,
Until the criminals were low,
Then, finding nowhere else to go,
Accept to swear that love and light must last,
To root around into their past and
Find the day the seeds were sown
That caused the strangling weeds to grow,
Wrap themselves around the neck of love and squeeze.
The long-term way to find their ease
Is to see their perfect selves were hurt,
They changed their way to stay alive,
But the adapted form into which they changed,
Could and would not let pure love survive.
The Sheriff would recite the law
And, meantime, keep the peace.
No trial or verdict would there be,
But sentence, yes, to their chain-gang tasks,
To do the work so,
Through sweat and tears,
The bindweed grip of old dark past
Would finally release.
Oh, I wish there was a love Sheriff.
© Kim Cunningham 19.06.2020
Amaze- balls! Thanks for this Brad.
your videos are like daily vitamins for me. thank you, keep up the fantastic work :)
Thank you, you ve changed my life ❤
If I could like this video twice, I'd offer it gladly.
Thank you very much for the work you do.
It is very much appreciated.
LOVE YOU, Brad!!!
Thank you so much for your tapping videos. It helps tremendously! Lots of love and happiness to you and your family.
Being judged is the adult version of being bullied. Oh my God that hit just the right spot
Marvellous today, thank you Brad 💜
Thank you from the bottom of my heart for this video Brad 🙏❤️!
I am truly grateful that i found you. You are an amazing being that brings tremendous value to this world. Thank you Brad.
Being judged caused the biggest pain in my heart and I don`t know why... Thank you very much. God bless you.
Dear Brad thank you so much for this wonderful eft, it made me cry and it made me feel safe and heard
When I first started on my spiritual journey I was just out of high school, this video brought up a lot of nostalgia and a deeper understanding of how far I've come. Your videos helped me heal a lot of trauma and establish a routine of self-care. Much love Brad❤
What would I do without your videos? Always there when I'm in need. I type what I need help with on TH-cam and there you are, with the perfect video for every possible scenario 😄
This is very, very powerful! 🌹
Love and respect for you and your loved ones 💚🌺
Feeling and moving so so much emotion with this today - anger, sadness, fear, shame..... the Truth will shine again 🌻🐧
Thank you, Brad. This was perfect, exactly what I needed. Blessed be.
Many thanks for this Brad, much needed.
Brad... I appreciate you spent your precious time helping others by making this video...
Thank you for healing..
thank you Brad, for your courage to be true, open, vulnerable and so wise! and then sharing it all with us! ! out pouring of love and support to you.
Thanks Brad, you really helped me, what I really needed. ❤
GOLD!!!! 🤩⚡️🙏✌️🧘♀️
Thank you .
Thank you Brad
And another video rendering me speechless yet cultivating much more of my own strengths and beauty from seeing yours shine ❤
you are definitely saving lives with your videos :) if they are lucky enough to fall upon them
You are amazing! I love your videos and do at least 1 every day. My life is changing and opening up so much. Thank you ❤
This was perfect!
Thank you Brad for posting these wonderful healing videos
Thanks Brad. Issues with a co-worker, so this helps.
Thank you! I was feeling very hurt and now, in just a few minutes, I feel relief!
Thank you for taking the time to make this for us
Thank You 😌
Thank you. I used this one to related to the judgement and assessment from a job interview, changing the language as appropriate for being wrongly assessed, or mis-assessed in an interview. Thanks!
Thanks!
Thank you. These videos are so good. You made this 10 years ago and it is the first time I am watching it, but it will always be relevant and very helpful.
This script seems to hit every mark of my situation. Thank you.
Excellent. Thank you for this wonderful video.
This was wonderful and so helpful Brad. Thank you for sharing your gifts.
I should've found your videos long ago. Thank you!
Thank you
Thank you so much. These videos have made such a difference for me.
Thanks Brad
We live in world were everybody judges me because they are uphappy with them selves
like two of co workers Thank the the earth for you
Você é o melhor!! You are the best!!
I LOVE tapping with you! You are like the encyclopedia of tapping! It's so effortless to tap along. I sometimes insert my own words to make it more personal to me and "ShaZam!" the shift happens!
thank you for wonderful message !
Thank you for such as time as thiis!. Thank you, thank you, and thank you!
Needed this sooooo much!!!! I have faved this video to remind myself. Unfortunately we live in a very cruel dog eat world world and cannot take things personal..... WOW.
Keep posting like this...because there are others like me out there who need this loving,reassurring reinforcement! Bless You!
Thank you again my dear friend
It’s anti-judgment day 🥰🌎
Lots of love your way today, from one magnificent child to another magnificent child ❤️
Thank you dearly Brad, you are magnificent Xx I'm really benefiting from your technique 😊
Dear Brad, I wish you a very happy and peaceful and creative new déccenium and a happy 2020. And thank you for helping me to feel more safe in me. Do you know what also helps me? It looks like you see me in the eyes and I see yours, because we look each other in the eye .. That creates trust too somehow, even though you've long been busy with other things! haha.. Hope your doing well and thanks a lot for your effort!
Fabulous 1 one. thanks Brad !
Thanks Brad 🙂☺🙂☺
im going to court tomorrow and i know this helped thnx alot
Brilliant, Brad, timely as always. This video had me yawning almost constantly, the energy really shifted!
Thank you.
PS. I like you better with your glasses....how's that for judgment? lol
Really good!Thanks!
Thank you Brad this was AMAZING!!!!! “Don’t let the turkeys get you down”” hahahah I LOVE THAT
Excellent, excellent! A very loving and uplifting video! :-))
@DonAntonio91 You can do what's called 'surrogate' tapping. You just go through the video with the intention that the tapping is for the other specific person, and you can start by saying 'Even though my name is ______, and I might be feeling a certain way, causing me to do this or that....' Then just do the video verbatim. It's all about intention. Just remember you can't force change upon anyone else, but you can change the way someone treats or interacts with you. HTH
Thanks, Brad! Could you do one sometime for feeling misunderstood?
This isn't quite that, but I hope it will be helpful: th-cam.com/video/mT_PcYCPmLA/w-d-xo.html
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that was a long one *whew*
*you sir just got another subscriber
lol i thought at first you said "Brad you are allergic!"
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I'm discovering that, as an empath, I draw the opposite to me. Does this tapping work on people with NPD - Narcissistic Personality Disorder? I'm guessing it does.
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A little bit of a turkey farm here right now 🦃 🙄
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