It happened to be before - she became less interested in me and more distant as time went by. Then I started to withdraw from the relationship. I had no contact with her for three weeks. No calls. No text messages. No likes on social media. Then - all of a sudden - she started to call me and send me text messages. I responded without trying to manipulate her, but I promised myself that I would never run after a woman again. Now she's addicted to me. She's blowing up my phone daily. Sometimes she's upset I'm not reaching out to her; she's asking 'Why am I the one who's always calling?' And I respond in a fun manner: "Because I'm the most amazing guy in the world?" She gets the joke and starts laughing. Once you are in the relationship phase, you rarely have to reach out. Or never if you know how to deflect questions about 'not reaching out to her.'
Detach & keep an abundance mind-set. If they move on, let them and find someone who appreciates you. You're the prize. The prize doesn't worry about someone losing interest.
Definitely true. Don't text her all day and always be around. Women want men who are "mission focused" because women want to be left alone. Be there at the end of the day after work and at night. Not all day long.
Has nothing to do with shit you said. Stop being a simp be selfish make women earn a spot in your life keep them on their toes and they'll love you forever. Been this way forever and I have women I left still check on me to this day.
Guys move at your own pace towards progress. Dont let any woman pressure you or threaten you in the name of ambition, youll eventually have your unlimited pickings.
Sometimes that might indicate, she categorized you as, "filler"... She might have used you to fill in the space between two guys she wanted, but couldn't get to commit. It's happened to the best of us...
@@georgeelder8415 yeah, who knows, her behavior before that showed she was all over me. I gave up relationships and i don’t want them anymore, been single for 2 and a half years now. I couldn’t do it any better, i was followed red pill content since 2016 from coreywayne to ams, darius, stephiscld, fitx ect…. I could write my own book now. What hurts me most is seeing some 100% simping beta males happily married for years. Makes me question my own reality
Women like men who are "mission focused" or simply men who are just not around all the time and do their own stuff, not because they find them attractive in a sexual way or anything, but because they know it means, they will get to have their own free time as well. Nothing is worse than having a person hooked on to you all day long, someone who needs to be taken care of all the time. A man with his own hobbies and life is simply better suited for a relationship, because also women have hobbies and interests they want to pursue or friends they want to spend time with (and no, not shopping, and no, not other lovers). A person, who is neither obsessed nor totally insecure, does not need permanent attention (and that is, by the way, true for men as well as women).
I went through this, I applied no contact, she was excited again for some days, then she withdrew again and now she's sending me random messages once a day, but I'm not responding until she shows a clear communicative intent
Because hypergamy makes them less satisfied with the person they're with as time goes on. And if she is attractive, with social media giving them endless options, they are on to the "next best thing". They are slaves to their emotions and once the "butterflies/tingles" aren't as strong as before, they're looking for your replacement. That's the modern dating scene now. Also most have been ran thru so they are no longer able to pair bond like before.
Based on what information is available on the situation, it seems its just her strategy to get him interested by being nice and pulling away gradually to focus on others to get you to chase. It's up to you in the end to decide wheather shes worthy of you or not regardless of how she plays.
Chris .. you say to let her talk to other people. In our personal consultation we agreed it’s ok to totally ignore a woman that talks to other men, no? Because, I have a really crucial question… What’s the line beyond of which we accept to continue with for long term ? I mean if they talk to other people while in relationship with us , and we are unaffected and ok , so should we let them also date and get laid and take them back when they got bored the other guy ?
My mom knows the family of this girl(she’s a virgin) that I’m seeing and they are all very traditional where they set up us for marriage and she is actually renting a room in our house so I see her pretty often, first few weeks were pretty good we were hugging and touching each other a lot but now around week 8 she seems to have slammed a break on us she is acting bitchy and cold, I understand it can simply be moving too fast for her plus she’s a virgin so should I just wait and pull back too?
Yes. Pull back. Since she lives with you then you must be more conscious of this. Don't touch her unless she touches you first. Spend time in you room with your door locked and phone off. Work on your purpose for 3,4,5 hours at a time. Get your stuff done and keep space. Try to avoid her unless it's to take her out on a date.
I’ve got a girl going through a divorce and her ex is a psycho so she’s too scared to see me for her own safety etc - horrible situation to be in, I’m just busy talking to other girls trying to move on from her and some days I’m fine and other times it just stings
@@benjaminholt6640 tell me about it - it would be a lot easier if she wasn’t a smoke show! The ironic thing is atomic attraction along with way of superior man, models and 3% man enabled me to pull a very hot woman who’s a multi millionaire, great personality etc and now I’m back at square one after a year of dating her in no contact mode - it’s disheartening. Thanks for the message of support though my dear fellow, I’ve definitely felt worse in the past before I consumed all these books multiple times
Best to focus on other girls. Women going through breakups, divorce or a rough patch are like the calm of the seas, you never know whens the next storm.
Bruh, if your woman is talking to other guys on the phone, you CAN'T be unaffected! Are you nuts! That's disrespectful. You have to check bad behavior or it will continue.
@@benjaminholt6640 Well, it’s the gym then. But, it’s never spoken about how when you stop working and you retire, how does this affect your relationships with women.
@@VoiceOfThe Career isn't necessarily your purpose, often times your purpose and career will/should tie in together for most of your life. Woman will also date guys who are slobs and have no job, as long as they have something that is attractive to women (confidence, charm, charisma, etc) The point of you prioritizing your purpose over women, is to help you achieve more in life and not get too easily attached to the wrong types of women that come and go like the wind.
They are only loyal to their feelings. Social media has made that trait 100 times more apparent.
Yep Loyal to their feelings and survival
She's being suffocated by him
It happened to be before - she became less interested in me and more distant as time went by. Then I started to withdraw from the relationship. I had no contact with her for three weeks. No calls. No text messages. No likes on social media. Then - all of a sudden - she started to call me and send me text messages. I responded without trying to manipulate her, but I promised myself that I would never run after a woman again. Now she's addicted to me. She's blowing up my phone daily. Sometimes she's upset I'm not reaching out to her; she's asking 'Why am I the one who's always calling?' And I respond in a fun manner: "Because I'm the most amazing guy in the world?" She gets the joke and starts laughing. Once you are in the relationship phase, you rarely have to reach out. Or never if you know how to deflect questions about 'not reaching out to her.'
So say some examples please on how to deflect such questions
@@GeorgiosStarakis "Im busy", "I want some space for myself", "I forgot"
Enjoy it while it lasts and it's still your turn, because that won't last for ever.
@@zombiedeutsch god you're bitter and hurt
@@zombiedeutsch wimp
Detach & keep an abundance mind-set. If they move on, let them and find someone who appreciates you. You're the prize. The prize doesn't worry about someone losing interest.
Definitely true. Don't text her all day and always be around. Women want men who are "mission focused" because women want to be left alone. Be there at the end of the day after work and at night. Not all day long.
whoa that's a lot, are you married
Why would any man want to spend 24-7 with any woman,, that's nuts
A rich woman ?
@@pf844male gold diggers are more pathetic than female ones.
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Good women don’t lose interest. The insta 304’s do but the sensible 6 won’t lose interest by getting swept into the riptide of social media
This’s such a huge cope. They all act like that. They’re easily bored.
Has nothing to do with shit you said. Stop being a simp be selfish make women earn a spot in your life keep them on their toes and they'll love you forever. Been this way forever and I have women I left still check on me to this day.
Yeah but I don’t want a 6
all women lose interest if you stop being attractive. don't kid yourself.
You've clearly not been with a lot of women.
It can be any reason. Any. The list can be as low as wet towel on the bed or no goodnight text message.
Best advice it is just your turn don't invest,as soon as she shows disinterest
Don't waste your energy,she is a side issue
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Excellent 👍 advice 😃👍 thanks Chris
This is why you gotta deal with three or four other women. Once you drop the others and focus on one, it's over.
From your comment I can tell you've never dealt with one woman forget about four.
@@PyroShields lol back to the frontlines meatgrinder. Jody will be taking care of your bish.
I agree sometimes 1 woman is already a headache, can't imagine multiple women to deal
Better focus on more productive things
Absolutely
One gf is zero
2 is 1
Three are three
Sucks how true, and messed up that is. You'd think loyalty would mean something to them as it's important to us men.
You are the best Chris keep up the good work. 💪🏻
Guys move at your own pace towards progress. Dont let any woman pressure you or threaten you in the name of ambition, youll eventually have your unlimited pickings.
Really can realate this. thanks a lot.
The more I watch your videos, The more I want to stay single for lifetime
But that’s the easy way out brother. Women challenge men to be the best
I understand how you feel but we can use this information against them and live better lives knowing that they can’t manipulate us
So true. Women are just such a pain in the ass.
My favorite video
It can be any reason any reason no logic no reason. Just like that. A million things
I didn’t do any of these mistakes and yet she still lost interest after 18 months of a relationship.
Sometimes that might indicate, she categorized you as, "filler"... She might have used you to fill in the space between two guys she wanted, but couldn't get to commit. It's happened to the best of us...
@@georgeelder8415 yeah, who knows, her behavior before that showed she was all over me. I gave up relationships and i don’t want them anymore, been single for 2 and a half years now. I couldn’t do it any better, i was followed red pill content since 2016 from coreywayne to ams, darius, stephiscld, fitx ect…. I could write my own book now. What hurts me most is seeing some 100% simping beta males happily married for years. Makes me question my own reality
@@georgeelder8415we need to know more about his situation to know
Thumbnail is fire! 🔥
Women like men who are "mission focused" or simply men who are just not around all the time and do their own stuff, not because they find them attractive in a sexual way or anything, but because they know it means, they will get to have their own free time as well. Nothing is worse than having a person hooked on to you all day long, someone who needs to be taken care of all the time. A man with his own hobbies and life is simply better suited for a relationship, because also women have hobbies and interests they want to pursue or friends they want to spend time with (and no, not shopping, and no, not other lovers). A person, who is neither obsessed nor totally insecure, does not need permanent attention (and that is, by the way, true for men as well as women).
mostly its just because they found a shiny new object.
Nice analysis sir I am from kashmir india
love the new thumbnail concept
agreed
All that has to be understood is that she's only there temporarily, and it's best to be ready to cut her off at a moment's notice.
Never got jealous. Always gave the girl plenty of space. She still lost interest
That can always happen. Weird creatures.
I went through this, I applied no contact, she was excited again for some days, then she withdrew again and now she's sending me random messages once a day, but I'm not responding until she shows a clear communicative intent
Women want and want but what do they offer??
Sex
Let her go! Let other guys pay for her!
Been doing that for 18 year's before came to youtube always watched women actions. No one teach me this.
Because hypergamy makes them less satisfied with the person they're with as time goes on. And if she is attractive, with social media giving them endless options, they are on to the "next best thing". They are slaves to their emotions and once the "butterflies/tingles" aren't as strong as before, they're looking for your replacement. That's the modern dating scene now.
Also most have been ran thru so they are no longer able to pair bond like before.
Give Chris 5k subscribers more tell all your friends n family we need him savior of men kind
The Girl I’m dating said she always messages me first and how comes I don’t. What do I do or say?
Based on what information is available on the situation, it seems its just her strategy to get him interested by being nice and pulling away gradually to focus on others to get you to chase. It's up to you in the end to decide wheather shes worthy of you or not regardless of how she plays.
Chris .. you say to let her talk to other people. In our personal consultation we agreed it’s ok to totally ignore a woman that talks to other men, no?
Because, I have a really crucial question…
What’s the line beyond of which we accept to continue with for long term ? I mean if they talk to other people while in relationship with us , and we are unaffected and ok , so should we let them also date and get laid and take them back when they got bored the other guy ?
You are not paying attention. That statement of Chris is for when you are dating. Not applicable for relationships. There was a caption below.
She won’t lose interest if you’re never there!
My mom knows the family of this girl(she’s a virgin) that I’m seeing and they are all very traditional where they set up us for marriage and she is actually renting a room in our house so I see her pretty often, first few weeks were pretty good we were hugging and touching each other a lot but now around week 8 she seems to have slammed a break on us she is acting bitchy and cold, I understand it can simply be moving too fast for her plus she’s a virgin so should I just wait and pull back too?
Yes. Pull back. Since she lives with you then you must be more conscious of this. Don't touch her unless she touches you first. Spend time in you room with your door locked and phone off. Work on your purpose for 3,4,5 hours at a time. Get your stuff done and keep space. Try to avoid her unless it's to take her out on a date.
Hey @Develop Attraction (Chris) what is your stance in regard to ‘raising a woman’s level of attraction for you’?
Should you or should you not do it?
Love the Thumbnai Coach !!!
How do you deal with women who have trust issues?
you don't, dummy. I can tell you're a real casanova.
@@PersistentPatriot😂😂😂
You can’t do anything tbh
You dump her
Don’t
I’ve got a girl going through a divorce and her ex is a psycho so she’s too scared to see me for her own safety etc - horrible situation to be in, I’m just busy talking to other girls trying to move on from her and some days I’m fine and other times it just stings
Take the pain brother and keep moving. You don't need a woman going through a divorce in your life.
@@benjaminholt6640 tell me about it - it would be a lot easier if she wasn’t a smoke show! The ironic thing is atomic attraction along with way of superior man, models and 3% man enabled me to pull a very hot woman who’s a multi millionaire, great personality etc and now I’m back at square one after a year of dating her in no contact mode - it’s disheartening. Thanks for the message of support though my dear fellow, I’ve definitely felt worse in the past before I consumed all these books multiple times
Best to focus on other girls. Women going through breakups, divorce or a rough patch are like the calm of the seas, you never know whens the next storm.
@@mefik I hear that brother - Just got to remain an oak tree and let their weather beat you until the skies turn blue again
Been there done that just don’t - no matter how smoking hot. Don’t.
Bruh, if your woman is talking to other guys on the phone, you CAN'T be unaffected! Are you nuts! That's disrespectful. You have to check bad behavior or it will continue.
When you’re dating she’s not your woman yet. It’s different in a relationship
What about if you’re retired Chris, so you no longer have a purpose, per se.
You need to find a purpose. It could be anything. Literally watching the sunset could be your purpose. Just put the thing you want to do first.
@@benjaminholt6640
Well, it’s the gym then.
But, it’s never spoken about how when you stop working and you retire, how does this affect your relationships with women.
@@VoiceOfThe Career isn't necessarily your purpose, often times your purpose and career will/should tie in together for most of your life. Woman will also date guys who are slobs and have no job, as long as they have something that is attractive to women (confidence, charm, charisma, etc) The point of you prioritizing your purpose over women, is to help you achieve more in life and not get too easily attached to the wrong types of women that come and go like the wind.
Why? Because they are not virgins. Women high body count kills pair bonding.
Honestly who cares just enjoy your life bro lmao
Women like you until they don’t like you.
What do you mean don't get jealous when she's disrespecting you right in your face?? Are you serious??
Look at the video he said not applies in a relationship
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Who cares if she loses interest. You spin plates. You move into the next one. Your at a buffet so act like it
Guy,s always have a girl on the back burner for her replacement
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