Women Love A Challenge
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Challenge is a crucial component of attraction. If a man isn't a challenge and gives his love away too easily, it won't be long before a woman starts to lose attraction for him. If you want to keep a woman interested in you or get a girl to like you, make sure you're not too responsive and not too available (in other words: be a challenge) and women will be drawn to you.
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Chris Canwell
yes, its unfortunate but true...Women respond best to guys that don't care...If you love a woman you may be in for a bad time...
roadstar499 never get attached.. Alpha male don't do romance
Adit Jonathan yes,that really is the only way...every time I was like that a never failed...but it kinda sucks.
We all want what we can't have.human nature
This is the problem in reverse in my experience with men. I think it's a human issue. Yall sound bitter. Man of us women have been hurt over and over by men who dont know what they want too.
yes, it is a human thing for sure...even many of us being hurt or blowing someone off has done it also... kinda like people that are bullied..many were also bullies,but never talk about that... People in general are all in very selfish even the ones pointing the fingers...But there are also really great people mixed in with all of us...
"A young man with a small fortune should not be in a rush to find a woman!"
The Count _ no truer words have been spoken
@@ephapax1 what should he do ?
Don’t bother looking for woman it will be time wasted!
What's scary is if you don't improve and fix yourself, you can repeat the same mistakes like he said for decades!!!!!!
Extremely scary. Extremely
Thomas yeah bro that really got me thinking hard. I felt that.
@@ephapax1 me too
one of the best channel of dating and relationship on TH-cam.
Agreed
You are the best on TH-cam. You focus on the fundamental psychology rather than a bunch of gimmicky tactics, and you constantly reinforce the central message. We'll done sensei!
He's the KING he deserves more subscribers...
i did all what he said, n it's make me more happier than chasing the girl
Well done*
I have gone out with 4 beautiful drop dead women and I was always the one to bring up the ideal of relationship. All of them turned me down and I stopped talking to them. They were all attracted to me but I was relationship focused. That for some reason switches their biologically wired brains to lose attraction for me even tho they were attracted to me in the first place. That was before I started learning the psychology of women and found this dating channel. I will never focus on the relationship from now on. I will accept that women are different
Don't act like a woman. That's their job to worry about the relationship and where it's going.
Essence of all ur video. Never run for girl. Keep doing ur work with focus.
You change my life man, thanks for that
You are one of the few many who only speaks about the real content and main point of the video. Makes us very easy to understand. Kudos to you master. Keep it up the good work ! Sub immediately.
This guy is real as it gets.
Why would you want to get an ex back ? Instead of improving yourself and finding someone better and more compatible
Feelings ?
Really sorry I didn't find this guy channel earlier!
Man you need to have more subscribers!
You are free good advice that many youtubers are not even close
Girls love a "good looking guy' who's a challenge.
Lol. True
Lol
No shit Sherlock
A good looking guy with a huge wallet
yup, my ex admitted it to me
Just on time, I really need this now
If men aren't supposed to "move" a relationship forward like this then what does it mean for a man to be the leader in the relationship ?
Boundaries, protection, make the big decisions etc. To be fair you make a good point.
Mr LOLinventor the relationship is always her idea: you are the leader in terms of protection, stability, and authority.
@@jasonh8212 A relationship takes two, it's the idea of two people.
I dont know why i love this guy..
Because he spits facts unlike others
Believe me this whatever this guy saying 101% true
I love listening to you bro keep doing what you doing 👊
Ur a life saver sir ...thank you
So I broke up with my girlfriend. I told her I’d come back as soon as I can I just needed time to focus on other things (long story) she said she will be waiting for me. After I broke up with her I thought I made the right choice so I told her we should move on and find new people. She begged and stuff and a week later I decided I made the wrong choice and I still did really love her. So I asked for her back and she told me she was too hurt and she now needs time because she’s scared I’ll hurt her again. For 2 months I tried convincing her to come back she kept saying she needs time and space. We talked and she would come over sometimes but then she started getting distant. Now she told me she thinks it’s best we aren’t together right now. Just the other day she told me she misses me and wants to get milkshakes I’m scared she just wants to be freinds, I don’t want that cuz I want to be with her really bad. Right now not talking to her till see teaches out to get milkshakes. Basically In no contact right now. Any advice?
No contact period. I know it's a gamble but trust me it's a win win situation.. if she texts you to break silence it means she is definitely willing to hear you out. If she doesn't then it's best you leave it alone and you'll be better in the long run.
Dude you brought this unto yourself. Stick to what you told her and move on.
What happened man? Did you get back or did it fizzle out?
@@truthseeker5886 People make mistakes...you're watching a video on going no contact to win a girl back and look at your comment
if she can't handle monotony then she's not worth it. Monotony is key to success
Monogamy
@@Flamey34 both
so's MONOPOLY!
This guy is as real as it gets
Chris Canwell channel is like the Mercedes brand classy dynamic powerful smooth and efficient
Confident strong emotionally stable secure
0:00 ‐ 5:21, very very TRUE! 👍🏾
Excellent channel! Keep up with the good job!
4:40 if you are doing too good and she's insane for you, you'll still also be dealing with the devil lol
9 girls disliked it hahahah
14 already lol
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Chris here saving lives
Amazing info as usual. Thank you
What about in some cultures where Marriage is considered “status” and part of a rights of passage..in West African cultures women typically consider men who aren’t bringing it up “not serious?...@developattraction
Been watching your videos for a while buddy. Thank you. You helped me a lot.
Sir, you are a genius!!
Really really thanks all your advice was so useful for me .
The funny thing is that we as men approach these creatures and next thing we should act like they came for us first 😂😂
Just do what you like to do, eat what you like to eat. Spend on yourself rather than on women, it doesn't worth it until the person spend on you
100% agree with the video.👍
Should I block my x? We broke up 2 months ago but she keeps reaching out. She call it off and I haven't reach out once but she keep texting telling me she loves me and misses me but when I ask her to see me she won't. Should I block her completely until she looks for me physically?
If she annoys and doesn't respect your boundaries I suggest you block the hell out of her.
When she asks you what are you doing? Say going to strip club 😂😂
If you’re still interested in her you should have asked focused on seeing her face to face. Everything else is extra.
If she doesn’t want to see you just ask her to see her once every week/2 weeks and basically ignore her the rest of the time.
Asking her to see you, that’s what’s wrong. She has to be the one that puts in the effort to come to see you.
Great video.
Great vid💯
To become good with women and relationships you got to go out and meet women
Well said
Hi chirs thankyou for your efforts. It's worth.but help me
1. How to be mentally stable in relationship as a boyfriend.
2. How to be a boyfriend role in a relationship.
Find your value. Respect and love yourself first.
This man is a superhero !!!.
I need some advice. I've been dating my girlfriend for 5 months now. And I follow most of the things as per this channel, and the relationship is going great. The other day without really thinking much I told her I love her (via video call). She was blushing and very happy bit didn't say it back. I said you can take your time, I don't need an answer now. When I asked her if she was terrified she said she feels the complete opposite. She's overwhelmed, happy, etc. And she said I'm glad your chill about this and not forcing me to say it as well.
What do I do?
She obviously likes you a lot, perhaps loves you already. She just not ready to tell you that. Just give her time and never ever ask her if loves you back or talk about commitment related topic. I know it's kind of hard thing to do when you're crazy about a girl. Just be a rock. Don't get emotional with her. Don't give your love way too easily. If she really loves you as well, she will surely say those magic words to you someday. Just don't expect it to come.
Don’t say it again. It seems like you said it with the hopes she’d say it back (don’t blame ya) but always let the woman say it first
Good work
The best one ever
this recently happened to me, girl pulled away and now she doesnt even message me or reply back. i would tell her how much i like her by my text messages size and replies and emoticons every now and then like a dumbass -.- , im just going through no contact right now. she still sees my instagram stories so its like.... dude. -__- im sure maybe she felt like i was too easy, how do we show a girl that we are a challenge after making this mistake, if they dont even reply back and am during no contact?
I was mysterious and slow in to the relationship and let they bring it up. However i got dropped twice from LTR because i didn't move things forward and evolved the relationship (engagement, kids, marriage, house etc etc). And when you dont care about the other one its not fun either way to be in it so whats the point.
So I've just ruined up everything ..
Yes lol
superb sir. as is your book...
It's not even about a challenge the majority of women want to be taken care of these days if you don't have the money you don't have the Necessities that they want they won't even bother or even waste their time with you or even try to be in a relationship I'm a martial artist but most women want to take up with my stuff because they just don't see a future and they rather go with something that they know it's going to be more secure so it's not even about them being challenged it's their own way that they want things
I can't understand why women don't want to be loved madly🙄🙄
how you deal with women who are not confident enough to try anything...she won't act even when you leavec the ball in her court
Great video. Thanks
I got the probleam i really understand know why my ex Leave me.... That's why she lose interest...btw bro i know true love not beg for attention and attraction...idk where i fine true love💔💔
At first they do, then definetely not!
Dammit! I just made one of these mistakes yesterday with my ex by telling her i want to marry her! FUCK!
Txt her said said you lied but if she lucky enough you could think about it if she good to you
Me to bro. I just said it too, fuck my mind
Interesting video. But how can it be that men are the ones who're supposed to ask women out on dates, yet you should let the woman lead the relationship forward? Seems contradictory?
Read my book to understand the natural seduction process.
Not too keen to at this stage to be honest. You've made a couple of contradictory points here so don't see the value in reading your books unless you can explain this...
Yeah this really happens,then what would you do if you know youve already done that
Thbks Man.
Hi, there's this girl at work that I really like. It's been 2 months since I started saying Hi almost everytime we meet. How long should I wait till I say that I have a crush on her?
till she start say "i miss you'' lol
Wait till you get white hairs 😂😂
Dont its work. Keep it seperate if you make anything over 30k, and you dont just say omg i got a crush on you. Tease her, "damn that looks good on you, or hey you been thinking about me lately? ;) "
Thank you.buddy.nice nice .videos.
..thanks buddy
As an anxious person.. one date?
Damn son. I made the mistake after one year.
You wanna get married after one date??!
In my case she mentioned or insinuated things first.. I’ve just been an anxious ninny as of late and she’s avoidant.
Even if she's really attracted, can a girl just say "fuck it he's too difficult. She's 19 n super pretty so she's not used to guys like me. She's shy and unsure of herself around me, and I never text her first. I've shown her intermittent attention that I'm into her but then I pull back n let her come to me. So yea I'm just wondering if she'll get sick of it based on me appearing so unavailable
I wonder why?
One way to look at it is when the guy brings up marriage and kids etc he's acting emotional aka acting like a woman. That's her job to want all the sappy stuff.
Also don't be cheap with your words. It's the energy behind yours words. Are you saying I love you with neediness attached to it? Or are you saying I love you freely??? WHere your energy shows there are no expectations or attachments??
Thanks for your work bro, but my question is, can you tell a girl you love her first?
Michael Gregory never tell her you love her first. Your role as a man is to make her feel good when she's with you. Do this repeatedly and she will naturally fall in love with you.
you will kill it if you do it.
No. Let her say it first
well make her be confortable with you touch her hair touch her hands but dont tell her ''i love you'' she has to do it let her know that she is secure with you
paul thomas thank u
What if i joke about it?
Chris 📈
Please someone reply so I’m talking to a girl and if she calls do I always ignore? And call later or next day or day after what to do?
I think he just means to not make a girl or spending time with her your priority. You should just focus on doing things that you love and make you happy, work on your goals and she will come after you.
Am I wrong for calling a girl out on flaking ? And cutting all contact ?
I3orn2Win I say yes the best response would be to back away and ignore her never let a women see your but hurt it’s like showing her she can get underneath your skin I know it sucks but you gotta hold that anger in let her chase you now since she flaked you stay focused on your mission and purpose bro
Shawn H any chances she’ll come back ? I always told her I will take no disrespect and that was just complete disrespect. Flaking the day of at least gimme a notice. She knows I’m a strong and have other options .
I3orn2Win she could bro she’ll start to miss you when she sees your not chasing her there no guarantee but in the mean time date other women fight the urge to text her if she reaches out to you don’t do to much texting the phone is for setting dates only! Set the date and say ok see you on so and so then don’t text her or call her again if she flakes again then delete her number and completely move on
Shawn H I’m moving on I’m 80 percent t there. But I just wanted to show her that I’m not taking that disrespect. I went NC on her before cause I was cligly and needy now I can back as a alpha and showered her who I am. She found me very attractive I guess not when I called her out.
I3orn2Win yea bro like I said sometimes a women will do things just to get underneath out skin and women test to see how we would respond in your case it wasn’t good just don’t let it happen again I know it sucks and pisses you off but you gotta hold that rage in and blow it off don’t get me wrong don’t let her disrespect you and call you names and shit but some things just can’t be addressed
Hey I know it's the man's job to take the woman out and have fun but we like certainty. How do we know if a woman is into us so we're not wasting our time. Maybe do a video on it.
I did ALL these mistakes 😁
pump and dump, dont chase relantionship
Hello! I have a problem and I would appreciate your advice. I think you've already figured out what it's all about. My girlfriend told me she is not sure and that we do not fit it after 3 months of relationship. The last few weeks have been a bit distant and not very close to me, the reason is because I did something I promised I would not do, something intimate. Coming back to breaking up, I told her I love her, I adore her, and I want to make things go, but if she wants to break up, I respect her decision and call me if she changes her mind. What should i do ? i suppose all i have to do is nothing and let her came to me. After i said call me if you wanna make things works she said she ll do that when she fells it
Vlad Hagiu Live your life. Focus on yourself. Let her come to you.
Advantage SkillsTraining quick update. She meet up with my sister and asked her if im upsat. What does that means
She still cares but don't read too much into it. Still focus improving yourself. Let her reach out to you first. Live your life.
should i delete picture of us ,together, on fb? i dont know what to do about that. i can see that she still has a picture of us on instagram when we are kissing
Only god is capable to love
God IS Love.
my brother Chris...rechd 22k Subs
why the hell women are so complicated !!
when she pull away do she still love me that time
she lose attraction for you that time.
In summary, you just wrapped up by saying that it dont matter how you act, a woman is going to definitely act crazy...... Hmmmm
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
No we don’t!!!
This guy couldn’t be more off! It’s a shame so many men are watching him and probably believe every word he says.
Speed up 1.25 and thank me later.
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Are you sure. Is this all women?
wanting a relationship is bad? wtf
Lol
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I am currently going through some trouble. My girlfriend and I kept having fights and I have been depending on her too much. She asked for a two month break, I have been following the 30 day rule. She called me 5 days ago telling me it's an emergency since we agreed to only talking when it's an emergency situation. She called asking for help, her PC had some problems, but she was giving signs that she wanted attention.
But just yesterday she posted on her status spending her day with her "God brother" she even included a heart emoji, and then another status of him kissing her cheek , her sister told me not to worry about it. I didn't like it at all, because the way they looked it's like there is a thing going on.
So I was thinking of calling her and tell that I am going to be in her town this weekend to sit and talk about what is this we are doing and what we both want.
I do not want to get my hopes up and then after the two months she has moved on and I end up devastated.
I really need your help on this one to know if I am doing the right choice.
Ivandro Manuel Pereira Don't have the "talk" with her. This will most likely back fire. The "talk" has to be from her. You are feeling insecure because there's another guy potentially in the picture, unfortunately you guys are not together at the moment, and there's nothing you can do about it. Anything you do out of that insecurity to try and control the situation, will only push her further away.
Ivandro Manuel Pereira her computer not working is not an emergency. She misses you and wants your attention. The way she laid out her day with her godbrother on social media seems like a jealously trap to me. Think about it, if she really was into this guy what are the chances that she would post it in a place that your guaranteed to see it. Very slim
@@Ninja4hire110 I actually told her that I am moving on. She wanted us to remain friends but I blocked her everywhere. She has been toxic
I think I did push her further away
Ivandro Manuel Pereira Yeah. Unfortunately you did. Do you still want her back or are you done?
woman are the prize were supposed to earn there love its in the bible
What a fucking simp 😂😂🤡
That's the most pathetic line I read on TH-cam, have some respect you ain't chopped liver!
This Man is a Blue Pill Mentality...Man you're the prize not these Emotional creature's which is the woman... always remember that!!!
Why are men always viewing it as everything is a mistake getting the girl? Get married. You will understand the concept.
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Human Nature?? Is she knows that she can have you just like that??? she loose interest??? ISNT IT CALLED SINFUL NATURE??
men should focus on their job, business, women should focus on family. Genesis 3:17< tell that. bible.
GK it’s all right there.
I dont know why i love this guy..