Don't Let Fear Control Your Life

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ต.ค. 2022
  • I wanted to talk a little bit about fear and how it can so easily control parts of our lives. #fear #motivation #degeneratejay
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  • @KnightsRealm98
    @KnightsRealm98 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Thanks for uploading this, man. It's honestly inspiring to see how much you and Jill have pushed through these last few years. Life's not been ideal for me either lately, and fear of failure's a lifetime struggle. It's heartening to see your honesty and determination through your rough times.

    • @DegenerateJay
      @DegenerateJay  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Thank you very much for saying this it means a lot to us. A lot of the stuff is very hard to talk about for anybody so I think many people just kind of keep that fear inside of them and don't know how to deal with it. I will say even talking about it, I don't really fully know how to deal with it lol. But I'm doing my best! I'm sure you will continue to do the same and things will improve. It's an overused quote from the Dark Knight but its always darkest before the dawn.

  • @lightofhope7880
    @lightofhope7880 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    People like you Jay are the ones we need in this world, the ones who like to be kind, supportive, and likes to talk to others and make everyday issues something bigger than what people think they are.

  • @isidoro19david65
    @isidoro19david65 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the encouragement i AM not going through a good moment in my life right Now,i am 22 years old i AM a university student second year of law school and i have been depressed for quite some time (i currently don't have a diagnosis but i know that what i am feeling or not feeling since i am constantly numb isn't normal)every Single day i hear a voice trying to put me down and even affecting my brain in so many ways that i can't understand,but despite the brain fog,concentration issues and the pain both physical and mental i push myself to do things because if i just Stay on my bed i won't feel better instead it Will just keep getting worse,i hope that you can recover from This✌️.

  • @gaelgonzales3672
    @gaelgonzales3672 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not to make light of fears and real problems. It's why Batman is so relatable and popular. He is the embodiment of fear and a man full of fear of being alone or of losing people or whatever it is, it's very human and we aspire to be someone who can "get over our fears" it's hard and develops in many shapes and forms. Many times our fears ARE more than just rollercoasters or spiders and those are the ones that are hard to just get over and conquer. Like Batman we hide our fears in many different ways, he uses his fear to serve out justice and vengeance but we can't really do that

  • @mojoe4204
    @mojoe4204 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jay thank you truly needed this…..it’s similar but feelings/fear can stop us from doing what we love/are passionate about….I’ve never known how to explain/express it appropriately but u hit a nerve with this video(in a good way😅) but needed to hear this thank you and don’t stop uploading (if u can “help” it) much love and respect to you and your family

  • @handonherpanz6779
    @handonherpanz6779 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ay bro this hit close to home. My homies back home backstabbed me all the time. I was always afraid to make new friends after that.

  • @phillipmorgan2017
    @phillipmorgan2017 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really don't know what to say but you are one of the best people on TH-cam I know you don't know any of us in real life Jay but we do believe in you ❤️♥️❤️

  • @SpeedDemon55
    @SpeedDemon55 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey man. I hope things get better for you. Fear is a hard thing to deal with, we’ve all experienced problems like this but the best we can do is stay hopeful and optimistic

  • @jakeyoutube4341
    @jakeyoutube4341 ปีที่แล้ว

    i been down that path i got betrayed by my best friends and thats why im afraid to get friends cause they might betrayed me again i know where your coming from it hurts to lose a friend

  • @j03T3XAz
    @j03T3XAz ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Fear destroyed my fucking life.

  • @-Teague-
    @-Teague- ปีที่แล้ว

    I love that you're using your platform to help people, this is great

  • @SNESfan8
    @SNESfan8 ปีที่แล้ว

    … I’ve always looked at this channel as “Successful” in my humble opinion .. while I’m not an expert.. I feel like being able to have a TH-cam channel where you can talk about things your passionate about .. and have a community..be a part of the conversation is a dream..
    … I think it was John Lennon who said… a “dream you dream together is reality” and if you can dream your dream with others your pretty successful in my book

  • @fandomsuniverse6896
    @fandomsuniverse6896 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for videos like these, really helps in dark times

  • @Adz-ym2ji
    @Adz-ym2ji ปีที่แล้ว +2

  • @r3gul4rmarauder98
    @r3gul4rmarauder98 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The title reminds me of batman speaking and giving like an advice to people in gotham city.

    • @r3gul4rmarauder98
      @r3gul4rmarauder98 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Your speeches show the reality that in school no one cares about me even my "friends" when we have to make something and work together and stuff but every time I talked they kept talking and didn't respect my opinion nor me :(

    • @DegenerateJay
      @DegenerateJay  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The good thing with realizing that early is that you can find new friends who genuinely do care about you. I know it probably seems like they're not out there, but they are. And I will say it can take forever to find them, but it is worth it.

    • @r3gul4rmarauder98
      @r3gul4rmarauder98 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DegenerateJay thank you for your response felt more like I matter and a guy that I met in reddit from last year is more honest, fun and better friend than my "friends" have a good day

  • @seananih7609
    @seananih7609 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks 🙏🏾

  • @bone-crusher8041
    @bone-crusher8041 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this. KEEP GOING! 🎉

  • @tripogata5846
    @tripogata5846 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u for this video

  • @jamesmclean8623
    @jamesmclean8623 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're a great guy jay. deserve way better. hope you're well man, look after yourself

  • @Frosty-owl
    @Frosty-owl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You know Jay, If you enjoy reading, I recommend reading “Bonds that make us free” by C. Terry Warner.
    I think you might like it a lot and that it relates to the principles of this topic(:

  • @rokzupan1306
    @rokzupan1306 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the video that really inspired me that fear will not control my life

  • @mikeress1784
    @mikeress1784 ปีที่แล้ว

    I appreciate these real talk Jay, and I can understand that fear and ironically situation (something VERY similar happened to me) just hearing you talk about it lifted my spirits and I like the videos were you just talk with us. You got this man! 👍 (I know it’s corny and overused) but I believe you can make it and be successful at the levels you want ^_^!

  • @unicornbunny6307
    @unicornbunny6307 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching these kinds of videos is hard because I feel like a really weak person for having been in-and-out of inpatient for many years now and can't sustain relationships or employment longer than few months each takes all I got to not commit die to myself or others every day, I think you're doing great Jay you're successful more than me and probably more than anyone who thinks you're better off doing something you will get burnt out on just for a more "normal" living, and often all I can do right now is tune into this channel and the community to keep myself in this world
    just being in this community as mutual fans of comic heroes I take inspiration from to be a better person, I want to deserve to be in the Degenerate Jay community and make stuff better by providing you this support, anyone who reads all this or my comments here
    Saying I struggle with the bullies in my life bringing me down, making my already very unstable bpd identity more unstable, even being a bully myself when my anger takes over, I have more than enough fear that I would never want on anyone else so I want to help others which then helps me with my own purpose
    Hopefully people like me help you in some way if you hear us and know we're listening to all of what you have to say and truly being supportive of you instead of wanting you to do something you hate just to make a bit more money short-term and then burn out
    My attempt to right those wrongs and make good of my life is to support you and others by letting you know the amount of money a friend or fellow member of a community has shouldn't matter and success is a personal thing, but for what it's worth I think you're successful, I'm trying to learn there are a lot of factors when determining who is the "stronger" person but you're doing what you prefer, you're financially independent doing it and you have your wife jill and a home, you have alex, and this community you're someone I can say I aspire to be like in a lot of ways, and if we disagree on anything, we can talk and maybe learn from each other that's community and friendship to me

    • @TheKoloradoShow
      @TheKoloradoShow ปีที่แล้ว

      Holy shit I feel your first paragraph in my soul. Try to stay strong (I know it's so easy to say but hard to do lmao)

  • @brendancox6462
    @brendancox6462 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey sorry this happened thanks for making this video hope you have a great day

  • @LonelyGamr
    @LonelyGamr ปีที่แล้ว +2

    we are our own enemy

  • @Flanavision
    @Flanavision ปีที่แล้ว

    May you grow and be successful in your endeavors.
    Fear is but a shadow, an allowance for the universe to have the worst happen.
    Stay positive and never fear.

  • @PoopyBarfy
    @PoopyBarfy ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm afraid of dying, so I guess I got to make the time I have left worth it.

  • @Gamefit28
    @Gamefit28 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fear is a tool and when that light hits the sky...jk good idea on this video btw.

  • @TrentAdam
    @TrentAdam 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Real friends and real girlfriends/wives let you be you. They dont determine you to be some kind of loser. People dont want to hear that cause it invalidates their current relationships.

  • @anakinskywalker2533
    @anakinskywalker2533 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Last time I said third and for some reason you loved my comment, why?

  • @NotTomorrow1
    @NotTomorrow1 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's too late

  • @theAverageJoe25
    @theAverageJoe25 ปีที่แล้ว

    Im sorry you had to suffer a snake in the garden.

  • @obamalover2113
    @obamalover2113 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sadly my fear of Obama not getting a third term came true

  • @juliobarrios2520
    @juliobarrios2520 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We all got 😢 depression everyone on earth 🌎🌍. But is 🥇 🪙 gold that he's talking about it. Most people say put in your pocket but not it's right. Speaking about us this topic therapeutic. Society shames depression.