Break Bad Habits

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  • @GenaJoy
    @GenaJoy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    "Our job is not to win every battle. Our job is to win the war." - Brendon, nice 👌

  • @rizelannejose6272
    @rizelannejose6272 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    12 yrs.old🙋 watching from philippines i love watching motivation.

    • @artsylady1747
      @artsylady1747 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for you! You have found the right guy to listen to. This guy is amazing.

    • @ahsanasif6752
      @ahsanasif6752 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Big up lil bro! You’ve got a long way ahead of you. Always remember, self help education will get you further than anything in life.
      Always remember to stay a life long learner!

    • @567ohyeah
      @567ohyeah 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      That’s because you are exceptionally intelligent keep it up!

    • @oliverkhoo
      @oliverkhoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I was 12 years old, my neighbour and I climbed up the rambutan and mangosteen tree to play. Times are so different now. All the best young friend 💪~

  • @EverydayMatters
    @EverydayMatters 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Pacifying is a major bad habits for most. We pacify ourselves by do things to try to distract ourselves from the pain or issues that are going on deep within us. Thank you so much for these tips Brendon

  • @khawajasadiqyarsediqi6867
    @khawajasadiqyarsediqi6867 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Bad habits fall in one of these four categories
    1. desire to protect ourselves
    2. to pacify our negative feeling
    3. placating
    4. proving ourselves
    Rehears overcoming our bad habites .

  • @thetriumphanthustler7001
    @thetriumphanthustler7001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    "When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you'll be successful" -Eric Thomas

  • @Spotofgardening
    @Spotofgardening 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just stopping and saying in any situation "what would my highest self do in this situation" can help in so many circumstances, thank you!

  • @AndreyZenperial
    @AndreyZenperial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Habit “stacking” has been so essential for me to deal with anxiety and depression aa well as get my business off the ground! It’s so easy to either add a new positive habit or get rid of a bad one✌🏻

    • @irisgonzalez-caulder9352
      @irisgonzalez-caulder9352 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      and king of KINGS
      you sound like a Lawyer
      with ulterior motives
      or
      Dr of law
      a spouse or colleague influence
      therefore
      cause irreparable problems among
      you and I
      Miami Herald 10-28 front page
      Raquel
      loop whole poster escape
      Shawshank Redemption
      CPA and his blackman friend

  • @VictorRegouin
    @VictorRegouin 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Its so important to break bad habits! Great topic! Btw the book atomic habits really helped me out!

  • @habithon4083
    @habithon4083 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    A summary of the 4 types of Bad Habits:
    2:02 1. Desire to Protect ourselves
    4:08 2. Pacify our Negative Feelings
    5:50 3. Placating/Pleasing others
    7:10 4. Proving Ourselves
    8:40 Rehearse overcoming a bad habit by practicing how you would act as soon as you get the feeling that cause the bad habit

  • @MathyLisikaMinsende
    @MathyLisikaMinsende 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    *Some habits are easier to break away and others are a real battle in the mind. It may take awhile to break them.*

  • @LifeNavigation
    @LifeNavigation 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Rehearsing overcoming bad habits, thats a great tip, I guess it's similar to visualisation used by athletes and using the premise of neurons that fire together, wire together, great video!

  • @AskBobnFran
    @AskBobnFran 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Terrific video! We are both in our 80's and feel better than ever! We are all about healthy aging -- maintaining a strong body, a calm mind, and a very positive outlook. We are doing research for our new Healthy-Aging Advice TH-cam channel to make it a success. Our hope is to inspire others. Learned a lot here. Thank-you.

  • @taniaquiros
    @taniaquiros 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exactly what I needed to hear today. I've battled overcoming bad habits for a long time and I had never seen it from this perspective. Great advice as always Brendon!

  • @vikramrao7629
    @vikramrao7629 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brendon , my name is vikram and am your fan in every way.i adore you . I have learnt a lot from you n i.use some of these learnings in my leadership training. I want you to know that you are making a significant difference to many lives through your videos..god bless you n your team!!

  • @rafaelc.decarvalho1457
    @rafaelc.decarvalho1457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Boym this one was a really god one. Straight to the point, objective and full of good energy! Tks for this.

  • @truenorthaffirmations7049
    @truenorthaffirmations7049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Life is a collection of our habits
    ..BETTER THOUGHTS BETTER LIVING

  • @fenabra
    @fenabra 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am using this for sure in my podcast. I have a podcast in Spanish where I digest and translate content from amazing people like you and make it accesible for latinx immigrants. Brendon, you are making a positive dent in the universe, endless thanks to you

  • @Rosstheboss-kg8ve
    @Rosstheboss-kg8ve 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just wanted to let you know, I really appreciate the help on these videos!

  • @guitarsz
    @guitarsz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    “Open JOURNAL! NOT CHIPS!” LOL

    • @daniellecance1174
      @daniellecance1174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was the best!

    • @Taylor-ot3rk
      @Taylor-ot3rk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I feel like that could be on a t-shirt :)

    • @scenepunk09
      @scenepunk09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me:opens journal then chips lol T.T

    • @guitarsz
      @guitarsz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@scenepunk09 lol

    • @itsmylife8164
      @itsmylife8164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Open journal instead of Oreo 🍪🍪

  • @lindseylush
    @lindseylush 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You're amazing Brendon! Thank you so much for this video, I really needed it right now!

  • @guitarsz
    @guitarsz 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So great Brendon. So great to have the awareness BEHIND the action. I realize I passing a lot.And the visualization component will be huge! Thank you!❤️✨🙏🌸

  • @veronicakadinsu9375
    @veronicakadinsu9375 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you,love you brendon, you give direction to my Life.
    Thanks so much ♥️♥️♥️♥️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @h3arty
    @h3arty 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you!! I love you! I aspire to be just like you. You're my mentor!! Much love.

  • @SJ-vd1jh
    @SJ-vd1jh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Practice what you will do to break the bad habit.

  • @moobyali7480
    @moobyali7480 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lots of thanks my smart coach as usual . God bless you .

  • @padamhastraina6381
    @padamhastraina6381 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely amazing and helpful...♥️🙌🙌 We love you Brendon sir💕💕💕

  • @marlonmitchell355
    @marlonmitchell355 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I listen to U brother! I'll continue too grow ,Thanks for all U do.

  • @liamodonnell6465
    @liamodonnell6465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks for the tips, I will do my best to implement them.

  • @mitgiannis
    @mitgiannis 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you again. Great advises.

  • @taichiwisdom1209
    @taichiwisdom1209 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey bud thank you for all your videos they're really helping me.

  • @mistachu5216
    @mistachu5216 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much Brendon.

  • @conniegreco8409
    @conniegreco8409 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Brendon.
    Needed this.

  • @sherryel8615
    @sherryel8615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brandon, I like to show up strong and I was never afraid or he fears of anyone or anything, however I've been facing a police harassment and abuse. I’ve changed a lot and I don’t know how to deal with this situation.

    • @scenepunk09
      @scenepunk09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm not Brandon but I rly think u should try to gather any evidence u can, document everything and report someone above them. I dont think u should stay quiet, right now is the best climate for changing the police...

    • @sherryel8615
      @sherryel8615 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      scenepunk09 I totally agree but who is higher then them? And things are going at the peek level right now where they use chemicals using helicopters and electricity on my car and many more

    • @scenepunk09
      @scenepunk09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sherryel8615 I dont know honestly. I figured it was 1 or 2 bothering u but that sounds like a lot. Maybe u should try to find a lawyer?

  • @NoemiRiBo
    @NoemiRiBo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    “Open journal, not chocolate!” I mean chips. 👀This was great. Gaaaahhhhh!!! I can change the middle to the “cue”. Feelings are just so Ugh but (NOTE TO SELF) I’m doing myself a disservice by just going-going-going to distract myself. I will open my journal at least 1x a week to start. Great stuff.

  • @DjR3aper
    @DjR3aper 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was hearing hearing it backwards "open the chips" until @10:33 and then I was like "ohhh" lol. He had to scream it for me to comprehend lol.

  • @victoriaherrera278
    @victoriaherrera278 ปีที่แล้ว

    this is amazing thank you to share in a simple way to understand

  • @deecord1147
    @deecord1147 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow! This was so powerful! Thank you!

  • @charmainestein4611
    @charmainestein4611 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mine is procrastination 😫. Taking forever to start and complete a task. Sometimes thinking I will be judged of how its done.

  • @dianatovar6677
    @dianatovar6677 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes 🙌 thank you so much

  • @pamiewatkins7354
    @pamiewatkins7354 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just beautiful, tha nks saving this for those bad habits!

  • @artwellmunashechimombe2069
    @artwellmunashechimombe2069 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you Brandon. Lots of love from Zimbabwe

  • @sagenosnibor9173
    @sagenosnibor9173 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Open the Journal, not the chips!
    That spoke to me...

  • @olia.alaska
    @olia.alaska 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is good! Mine are all #1 and #2.

  • @giovanycardenas8842
    @giovanycardenas8842 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Brendon

  • @cee6720
    @cee6720 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Liked and subscribed I felt you were speaking directly to me

  • @kirubelhailu8023
    @kirubelhailu8023 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very helpful ideas.Thank you Brendon. Pasifiy you said; that is me.

  • @toseetejaratanamis5887
    @toseetejaratanamis5887 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you . Great advice

  • @mufasa2079
    @mufasa2079 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I REALLY NEEDED THIS

  • @ratnanurlaila3454
    @ratnanurlaila3454 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    AMAZING and INSPIRING.. Thanks for your video, I'm watching from Indonesia😊

  • @girlsmriti6141
    @girlsmriti6141 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's an awesome podcast ..
    Thank you so much

  • @julia5542
    @julia5542 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Super helpful video, thank you!

  • @alisherhusaynov
    @alisherhusaynov 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love 7:28 moment of my coach. #Believe

  • @MrClickmaster1
    @MrClickmaster1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this! 💯

  • @jennifercruse1607
    @jennifercruse1607 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my, I said journal as you said "open your journal".😅 I have the answers inside I just need to reach out for them. Thank you

  • @oliverkhoo
    @oliverkhoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    The 4P
    Protect ourselves
    Pacifying our negative feelings
    Placating
    Proving ourselves

  • @whatithinksingh
    @whatithinksingh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    How to become more enthusiastic in life?

  • @ahidapilarski7496
    @ahidapilarski7496 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What is the best way to create the weekend’s schedule so that focusing on the professional goals still leads to some productivity?

  • @dr.smrutisudhapattnaikknow4363
    @dr.smrutisudhapattnaikknow4363 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Superb brendon

  • @vilmareyes6853
    @vilmareyes6853 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpfu! Thank you!!

  • @itsmylife8164
    @itsmylife8164 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Drama...that leads me to so much b.s. 😨.
    ...a family trade that ends with me
    We've got this💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥🆓❤⭐

  • @justinaez4029
    @justinaez4029 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cảm ơn cô Mây nhiều nhiều lắm ạ!

  • @Natasha36474
    @Natasha36474 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you tell me how to stick on a diet in order for me to lose 24kg??
    Thanks 🙏

  • @oliverkhoo
    @oliverkhoo 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    “ Open the journal ! “
    The person next to me thought I was mad

  • @milica7835
    @milica7835 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am a smoker and I don't have a cue for smoking, nor I fit into these categories unfortunately 😭

  • @100anti
    @100anti 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Weak payoff. I like that!

  • @Salman.XX2
    @Salman.XX2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Insightful 👍

  • @PennyPorta
    @PennyPorta 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    for me I go and get a muffin or a bag of chips or a chocolate bar when I go out and its so automatic and I have this goal of sculpting my body and i still do it. I 've given up a lot of junk food not even junk food, bread, crackers, apples because of the sugar, no juice. I eat mainly veg and lean protein, no beef or pork hardly. Sugar and carbs seem to be a hurdle. I love the crunch of chips or crunchy bread and excuse me carrots and celery don't do it. I do eat carrots raw but they don't cut it compared to crackers and chips and crunchy bread. I will try this, I need help with this bad habit.

  • @groceryoutletofnorthstockt6596
    @groceryoutletofnorthstockt6596 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Could this apply to excessive alcohol consumption?

  • @cinderella9997
    @cinderella9997 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’ve got so many I don’t know 🤷‍♀️ where to start 🤷‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️🤔

    • @brandonmccall7359
      @brandonmccall7359 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I completely understand that. I was there once. Just start with the one that comes to mind first or the one that’s the easiest. The biggest thing is to start. First become aware, then start. Good luck to you. You got this.

    • @cinderella9997
      @cinderella9997 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@brandonmccall7359 thanku so much I appreciate it you look 👀 like this man in one of Adele’s videos 😊

  • @larasmith3076
    @larasmith3076 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🦋I never speak up goodness

  • @larasmith3076
    @larasmith3076 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🦋my bad habit is sleep and being a cramer

  • @mdrayhan-hb6wq
    @mdrayhan-hb6wq ปีที่แล้ว

    it is magnificient

  • @samaalobidi1070
    @samaalobidi1070 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waw
    Thnx

  • @larasmith3076
    @larasmith3076 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    🦋um you've hit all my bad habits

  • @deecord1147
    @deecord1147 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who is our highest self?

  • @Dr.Gojithecollector
    @Dr.Gojithecollector 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    What do you do if you have all 4?...

  • @carlas5413
    @carlas5413 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I never knew placating was a bad habit

  • @567ohyeah
    @567ohyeah 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My bad habit is I’m addicted to you

    • @guitarsz
      @guitarsz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      lol

  • @irisgonzalez-caulder9352
    @irisgonzalez-caulder9352 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Philippians 4:8-9
    MotivationHub
    purple haze jimmy hendrix
    FROdo and SAM endRING
    💡WHAT ever
    SAMS CLUB
    they all fall in these
    FOR CATegories
    00:01 - 1:18

  • @mitgiannis
    @mitgiannis 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video but it would be more great if you had added auto translate,because english in not native for the most people of the world.. so i can SEE and hear english it's way better.
    But thank you!

  • @heidileggett1894
    @heidileggett1894 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel like I just heard the word "bad habit" 100 times 😫 😳

  • @Airly-yy7mp
    @Airly-yy7mp 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @tumpadas2303
    @tumpadas2303 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video

  • @raqueltorres2516
    @raqueltorres2516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That voice whining is your ego trying to stay alive. Smash your limiting beliefs by taking action one step at a time. You will realize that you CAN

  • @brandonmccall7359
    @brandonmccall7359 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love 9:33 and how he talks about dealing with the emotions that set up the bad habits. Re-habit the good habits lol. Brendon is awesome 👏🏽. Videos like this has helped me overcome tons of bad habits. 2020 has been the year of overcome bad habits in my life.
    -Bmccall.com

  • @mahalo7489
    @mahalo7489 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Honest question, are you female to male? You look so feminine. You go girl!

  • @ammarsalmi
    @ammarsalmi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bad habits oversimplified would have been a good title for this video.
    First, how is the first half of the video is connected in anyway to the second half? First, categorize your habit. Second, rehears a different response to the que. How the two are connected?
    A more accurate title would have been: " tips that could help break bad habits." Break bad habits is just not what this video about. Because the subject is way more complicated.

    • @scenepunk09
      @scenepunk09 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      He was probably just trying to come up with a good title to get some clicks. I think the video does help identify them and a little about their cause. But not alot for breaking them aside from journaling. There is a video that comes to mind that might be helpful. Its a coping skills video by kati Morton. Like 25 or 50 I forget. It's from a therapist but really I think bad habits are also bad coping skills.

    • @ammarsalmi
      @ammarsalmi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@scenepunk09 Thank you for the reference. I had to struggle against bad habits for so many years. Breaking them then relapsing. I think I can write my own book about it. 😂

    • @scenepunk09
      @scenepunk09 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ammarsalmi ur welcome. I know how u feel. Good luck to you.

  • @RichflixInc
    @RichflixInc 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is it just me or is Brendon sounding more and more like Joel Osteen lol

  • @marlonmitchell355
    @marlonmitchell355 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ✌🏾👍🏾

  • @maratbakhtygerey8969
    @maratbakhtygerey8969 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    не айтып жатсын

  • @riflegold9252
    @riflegold9252 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Myn drugs

  • @mkhontononsikelelo8416
    @mkhontononsikelelo8416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i needed to hear this, thanks Brendon

  • @riflegold9252
    @riflegold9252 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Myn drugs