3 signs you're in a toxic relationship
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Step 1: If you think you might be in a toxic relationship, you probably are
OMG !!
well damn, that's accurate.
POV me rn
Sure ... if you are in a relationship that makes you uncomfortable
It's a toxic one ....
Peace of mind matters
Truth
Also, when they trap you emotionally, mentally and sometimes physically because of their jealousy and paranoia.
If the person is loyal j can deal with paranoia better that then then being a flat out cheater and a lier
Cheating. .
Yep totally been there
Extreme highs and lows
Is a killer to our relationship
This happens on a weekly basis
me too
I'm worried abt this I think so too.... how are you now friend
@@aurora_boketto7746 still in it it’s a consistent pattern of good good good then the worst damage afterward
Wooh is this me? Often times I think if it's me the one imagining things. He kinda told me once it was just me because "I pay too much attention to little details", but when I pay too much attention to details to make him feel special it doesn't seem to bother him. Also the other time I played his own cards and he noticed and he was the one paying attention to "little details".
@@meistlazer7188 that's gaslighting dear. I've had the same done to me as well. Thankfully I ran away.
Gaslightling isnt denying your truth it is denying the truth.
It can hurt to leave, but life's short we gotta move on.
Ya ❤️
:) its okay we can do this
@@aurora_boketto7746 🎉🎉 I've been divorced for 13 months after 16 years of marriage. You can do it!! I have two kids and no job and I still did it
@@LeahBreHappy oh my gosh girl wow. It was so hard for me to leave after only abt 2 Im sooooo proud of u 💜 please tell me more ❤️ yes we can absoLUTELY do THIS 🥰☺️🤍🤍🤍🤍
@@aurora_boketto7746 I literally just sent prayers to the universe to get me out. Help came! I moved out and everything
the hot and cold thing is so true. so glad i’m not in that relationship anymore
#3 is a bitch, especially when you have anxiety.
OMG YES
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Yeah 😭😭😭
😮💨😮💨😮💨 yes yes so true
If inconsistent it aint true
Used to be in a toxic relationship it’s not worth it they will only cause pain
All of the above.
This is why I've been single since 2006.
I'm not going through this again for anyone
Same here
Amen
one minute she's telling me she never wants to speak to me again, then the next she wants to get married to me
Gaslighting
You didn't see what you saw
You didn't hear what you heard.
What woman? "You're crazy"
I was bot yelling, if I really yelled you’d be much more hurt.
Lol
Forgot the _"it's not what it looks like"_ 🙄 🤣🔥
@@daviedood2503 sure ...
3 is the worst shit when you think they are depressed and want to help.
I came here to see if I was and I came out feeling like I’m the one who’s toxic
not that being my whole relationship💀💀💀💀 and i broke up with that bish
🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣
😂
As you should 🤣
Maybe u can just talk about it. Remember it’s not just the other person’s fault. U can help the person become better first before breaking up but u do what’s best for your heart and mind
I have a toxic relationship with my boyfriend thank you for helping me I have been feeling like I have and now I'm going to go break up with him
How did it go?
@@meistlazer7188 I broke up with him and I'm with his best friend now who is certainly in prison
@Sierra Jensen after 4 years i just broke up with my ex who did all this to me and i hope you did not came back to him as well.
Thank you 😊! I just found out that I’m in a toxic relationship with a friend but I’m to scared to tell her that I don’t wanna be friends anymore, but thanks again!
the last one is sooooo true like i am just about to give up on boys for a while.....
When you doubt your intuition, what you see, and feel, and go against your better judgment just to be in this relationship even tho it hurts.
My gf always ignores me and my texts but when she doesn't ignore me she's all lovey dovey..
My ex boyfriend was doing all that from day 1 but as you said when he was not doing all this manipulation and gashlighting he was the best man in the world. After 4 years i was able to broke up with him to save myself.
After 4 years of living togheter i just found the courage to broke up with a guy who did all this to me without I realized. I have lost myself along the way until I spoke up with family and friends who brought me back to the reality. I am finally finding myself again.
Exactly the same for me. We have been together for 2 years and lived together for 1 year. I told my friends and family about the most recent blow up and they all tell me that it isn't okay. I have the feeling that I love him but it's just not healthy, I need to get out
my boyfriend has literally hurt me so many times but this time it was just too much so I told him abt breakup but bro he's like telling me that he can't live without me, i even warned him that I'll block him but he's like yaa do it I'm still gonna call you. I completely lost my feelings abt him now he is literally proving himself idk how can I get out of this pls help
Helped ALOT. ..SHES SO RIGHT....love bombed aftet not being TOUCHED for over a month at a time...
I don't know.. it's just that I love him too much.. I wish it was easy to move on even from a toxic relation
Girl, I feel ya. The hold they have is so strong.
I feel in you. It took me 4 years to leave him after we have been living together as well. But is the best choice for ourselves
Yes its not easy to move on when u r so invested in relationship 😢😢
Your wellbeing and happiness is way more important. You're worth a partner that really cherishes you, not a toxic person.
Same girl 😔
Thanks for explaining the gaslighting.
You're very welcome, thanks for watching!
My partner forced me into a relationship last year even though they know I was with somebody already by crying and saying “am I not good enough?” And they knew I’m a person who can’t help it but help when people cry because it makes me sad and I’m scared that they’re going to do that again if I try to break up with them
Break up with them it's best thing to do
@@junior5100 We’ve been broken up for a while, thank you for the advice though ☺️
@@IloveDrPepper445 he is such a , BASTARD
Ye for some reason I'm always in one of those
tysm im getting out of a toxic relationship after 6 months i finally decided to end it today and i have no regrets
I’m done single it is!! Better than dealing with that mess
IF YOUR FREEDOM HAS BEEN TAKEN AWAY, IT'S TIME TO BOUNCE.
Thank you very much Angel!! Bless you 🥰🫂🍀💝
Yes thank u it has helped I've been married 10 years and he has done that since day 1 even didn't go into restaurant,he claimed they were full ,I knew what it was. Years later he finally told me. But gaslighting is horrible, Definitely need to pray about it.
I can see all these 3 signs in my marriage ohh my God.
The point gaslighting happens all the time.
Please don't break up o....just try work on it.....seek counseling from a professional or older couple
Same here
Move on
This shorts described my recently ended relationship.
I got out of a relationship where I learned what gaslighting is… I’m so hurt that I went though that mental strain …
In year 5 of this. Don’t even know how I got here and don’t know how to get out. I have 2 young kids and was made to be a stay at home mother so I can’t just leave.
You are made to do whatever you want dear! It might sound hard, but you can do it!
Are you still in that situation?
I was the victim of the 3rd
She likes to spend time with other boys and avoids me every time. So i think your words are helpful for me 😄😔
My ex had all of these and still posts stuff saying things that hasn’t happened.
BOG TAIM TOXIC RELATIONSHIP. How do we fix this tho… we would talk about it on Saturday but I have no idea what to say or how to fix it. He always gaslights me and I’m always the one that ends up apologising for the way I feel ( because he makes me think that I guilt Tripp him when I feel bad about whatever he is doing)
I was gaslit and only realised now. My ex pretended to have bad memory. But I now realise he gaslit me. We weren't having proper sex and I said I wanted babies and he said something along the line of "well it can't be me" (implying I was infertile at 30?? Even though he was the one who never wanted intimacy. When I told him about this later and how much this had hurt me, he said he couldn't remember saying that, but I think he apoligised, because he knew that was a horrible thing to say. The lack of progress in that toxic relationship neckex us and I am glad he apoligised because his remarck had drove me insane from hurt, frustration and loneliness and now he gave me recognition. I am dating a much better man now.
Very helpful... Gaslighting was well explained...
I’ve always been confused about what “gaslighting” was. This was a good explanation.
I realized I’m toxic 😮
That’s my whole relationship but I don’t wanna hurt their feelings and break up with them
Ask yourself why you rather hurt your own feelings by staying with someone who is emotionally abusive? You cannot hurt feelings of abusive people because they simply move on to the next target. This behaviour has nothing to do with love therefore no feelings are hurt. I hope you get the strength to do what lifts you up rather than keeps you small. - Stef
Talk to them about it. If nothing works out then do what you have to do. But you probably do some things that are toxic that you don’t realise anyways good luck
Wow I'm toxic 😒
Thats me and my girl but we still always get back together
Thats also toxic btw
Sometimes true love is found in toxic relationship
That sound like My Sister 💀
I’m not even with my baby mom anymore and she still tries to do all 3 of these things to me on a regular basis
It is important to remember that there is nothing wrong with leaving a harmful relationship. Don't let yourself get caught up just for fear of yourself or feeling bound.
Was in one, just kicked him off giving him a thought that he left. I planned this and now the blames not on me.
"your truth" if you want to have your own version of the truth, you should only be in a relationship with YOUR self.
It’s the third for me now I see. It took me long to realize.
This hasn’t actually helped me, but it defines the confusing factors in a relationship I’m ending. From here, I have to help myself.
This is never as simple as it seems. My partner and I (or whatever the f we are) have held love for one another for over 6 years without contact. Having other partners, we never stopped loving each other. Now being back together, the love is very intense, however we have become very different over time. I am very jealous and do not feel my needs are being met and therefore instead of running away, I hold on that much tighter so as to not lose the love of my life. This idea of toxicity is clear to me, but how do you sever the heart to break away from someone who means the world to you but also crushes your whole world by just being themselves 🤦🏽♂️😢 rip mental health 😂
Wauw it really helped thank you so much
This is so true💯💯💯
Thank you, girl ❤ It did help!
”You’re too sensitive”
My God help me the woman I love does exactly this to me I would have walked away but I truly love her.
Thank you. I recently met someone exactly like that. Glad I made the right choice.
glad to say, i am not toxic, (little controling and over protective)
and my gf isnt toxic either
Third one always happens to me
Why are people like this in relationships....what's the point? I've been with this women for 1.5 years.....hate that I can't break it
That’s not gaslighting!!
Hot and cold is really hurtful
me and my partner both do this subconsciously it’s ducking sickening and i’m tired of ti
A true cluster B personality disorder description here! Great video
Bro I can’t leave tho, like Idfk, I feel as if I’m breaking a promise to myself if I stay, but I just keep hoping things will get better.
Thank you for your words they help to understand Mark Camero in SA.
They’re not denying YOUR truth. They are denying THE actual truth.
How to leave, he's literally done all 3 of this things consistently
How you see others is a reflection of yourself.
Yes exactly!!
My ex gave me silence treatment for days which caused me sleepless and then almost had a car accident,so I asked him to talk and have a healthy way to communicate.
He said it was me that put myself in a mess which I was staring my phone for whole night which caused the car accident,it was not his responsibility.
What if I'm the toxic one? I dont wanna be the toxic one,but am I toxic for getting upset at my wife for calling someone else darling?
You just described my relationships I have with all my family members.
I know every inch of you. If you think I’m gaslighting you, you’re not trusting the bond we created. The bond you wanted!!! Ur addicted to me. And that’s okay
Dude my gf is constantly hot & cold. One minute she’s essentially telling me I’m stupid and she’s giving me snarky comments and then when I get in bed she’s all over me and wants to kiss and cuddle. It makes me not even want to touch her.
If you feel that you deserve better, you do and you are in a Toxic Relationship.
im the toxic one and i cant help it..
Spot on girl !
Helped alot.. thank you so much
Yep those are all my friends 😢 especially my “bestie” she has manipulation over me and the hot and cold one is fr fr 😭😭😭
I've been in this relationship for 5 years
Great one!
I see all 3 signs. That means it's not toxic 😊
Thank you so much
Damn I love her so much but she has fucking destroyed me. She was the only person I truly loved and the only person that have left scars on my body. And my heart is sad.
Damn I am currently under going this but I can’t believe how upright this girl changed on me, you know I believed that she cared about my feelings but to her I gotta say I’m ok and can’t let myself cry or be upset. It’s so much gaslighting I can’t believe how much of a terrible person she has become. I only plan on staying because deep down I want to see her be my one and only and hope that she turns into a wonderful human being and recovers. I am currently recovering, going viral and catching a break and I wish she was more involved with my life, it can be easily be as warm thoughtful moments and positive talks.
Sounds Like A Narcissist!🤔
suddenly i remember that i was never been in relationship and still single :)
Toxic relationship I never ever have a relationship rejected 14 times
True!!!
my girl checked out for all 3 smh
Thank you
Wow is this accurate thanks!
A toxic relationship might also include where they are super controlling and want to know where you are at all times who you are with suspecting you of cheating. At times going as far as forcing you to stay at home and having you cut off friendships
If you’re in a toxic relationship, start seeing someone else immediately.
This is exactly what 10/10 (hot) girls like
I’ve been going through these videos and my “best friend” is acting like this