That dude's body language is so hard to look at. Even just his posture, it looks like he's trying to crawl out of his skin every time the situation is repeated out loud.
Beta bucks and alpha fucks. Women have built a dual mating strategy over millennium. So they get the baby from the chad big dude and a good father security from the beta guy because evolutionary finding a chad who was also caring, provisioning, & protecting their babies was rare. Learn from this guy, stay rising man 💪🏽💯 sorry just smoked and ranting haha
They both are declared positive for delusion, at best, and the wake up call will be harsh, especially for the dude who allowed this situation to happen SMH.
I saw a meme that said something like: whenever you see a polyamorous relationship you can tell who’s idea it was and who cries themselves to sleep every night.
@@janedoll3237 I don't. Guy did this to himself. He should get the fuck out. Stand up for himself, and not be trampled over by this bitch. If he does that then he might be able to earn himself some respect again.
they need the love... of truth... to make them suffer and then mature into adults who are not obsessed with (that capital sin in which people only want sex) even if she calls that polygamy but in reality it's nothing like a harem
My grandma cheated (uncle and dad walked in on her with a neighbor when they were kids) and my grandpa didn’t divorce her. He sunk deeper into alcoholism and depression until it killed him. My dad and my uncle wanted him to divorce her so bad bc she’s an awful person to this day. He stayed married bc he was raised with the belief that divorce was wrong. I miss him everyday and he didn’t deserve that misery. She isolated him from others and gaslit him constantly. She loves to manipulate and target the mentally ill. She provokes me the same way she provoked him and she bullies me (her own damn granddaughter) bc out of all the grandkids, I remind her of him the most. Grandpa never deserved it and neither do I. She was also a career-first feminist and neglected my dad and uncle as children.
Babe, F your grandma. But her being a career first feminist has nothing to do with her being a toxic B. Prioritizing career is a choice but being toxic and cheating? Nope. You seem to think men being workaholics is totally fine, but when women prioritize their career they are "woke" and thus prone to cheating. Honey, you are so wrong. Anyways take care, you don't deserve to stay around so much negativity, I really hope your doing well 🧡
From personal experience with my own mother, being a career-first woman is toxic. You don't even need to be a feminist. At least, not an open one. But the problem with career-first women who have children is that they can't do it all. They can't do well in their career unless they neglect their children to some degree. For my entire life, I was emotionally neglected by my mother who treated like an employee. I could never form a close relationship with her because she didn't leave her work attitude at work. To her, I was a fully-formed adult whose bad decisions were a result of malice, rather than a lack of life experience. I'm not saying that she didn't love me, even if it felt that way. But I am saying that because she is a career woman who can't separate work and home life, she effectively emotionally abandoned me for my whole life. The ability to truly balance career and children is something that very few, if any, women have, and pretending that it's something that all women can do is a great way to break children. Being a career woman is toxic to children and too few women are equipped to effectively balance both work and home life.
Her: _"We finish each other's sentences. Here watch. I want to be..."_ *said simultaneously* Him: _"...with you forever."_ Her: _"...with multiple men."_
Oddly enough, you might be surprised how common this may be. Maybe not, who knows. Not saying it's right, just pointing out how such a fucked up thing in so normalized. That said, something I used to do for a parlor game, is have two people in a "loving couple" go to opposite corners and write on a piece of paper, the one thing the other could do to prove their love for them. Sky's the limit, with no restrictions. Upon returning said papers, I wouldn't even need to know who wrote what, because it was always the same. The guy in said couple would always write something to the effect of "Stay with me through everything." Whereas almost every woman would have something akin to "Die for me." Think about that... How fucked up is it that a woman's ultimate romantic fantasy with the guy she's with, doesn't even involve being with him? Only for every one in the room to "Aww... That's so romantic." Point is, almost every woman puts that. The two or three who didn't, had something about "Being fine with me sleeping with someone else." I'm not even joking. Can you imagine how embarrassing that car ride home would be? Guy outs "Stick with me through everything" and HER response was wanting to bang other men. It'd be one thing if I'd done it a hundred times and two or three of those popped up, but it's not even close to that. I think the most I'd done it, was twenty. Then again, this was almost a decade ago, as well. Curious to see if it'd be like 10 out of 20 now, or something.
@@AnthonySforza sounds about right, but its odd that there were only 3 different answers (one for the men, two for the women) You'd think at least one dude would write something cheeky like a blow job or something at least once lol
I knew of an open relationship someone told me about over in Louisiana years ago. The couples first name was John and Tanya. They were both bodybuilders and she was okay with it until she started getting older and losing her ability to enjoy the lifestyle and the fact that her husband was securing 22-year-old college women. It's just funny how that works.
@@doubledoubleusmokymirror4d405 From 20-40 woman are usually the more attractive one. From 40-60 men are the winners. From 60+ you're little old people together. +/- 10 years to account for individual variability, but the logic is basically the same. Women win for a bit, men win for a bit, but then time equalizes it for everyone. Beauty is transient, enjoy it while you have it but don't be blinded into thinking the milk/wine thing. We both end up as vinegar decades before we die!
A woke person is simply a person who hasn't been metaphorically knocked the hell out by life. This comes from having an easy life. You never know what actually exists in life until shit gets real.
@@Willie_Wahzoo I was spoiled but as I got older,my mother got real. She told me to wise up and man up because if I can't handle the small things I go through as a child then I wouldn't be able to stand the pressure of being a man in the world I was going to be living in. Words stuck to me like glue. She whipped my ass and let me know that I should hold myself up and focus on myself and build my legacy and life. Her actual words were" don't trust those harlots" lol
In according with human science used to prove that type of behavior most of time came from broke families like also protitution, but entailed can also make harm too.
@@jubernardi23 actually you missed vital points. 1, not all of people from poor backgrounds end up criminals or sex workers. 2, a lot of those who are were either doing it out of desperation or it's was what they were around and exposed to at a young age which screwed them up mentally. 3, the ones who were cottled and told they are perfect and those told they were kings and queens without being told they had to earn it or how to earn it, end up with an ego at a young age with develops into pure arrogance in adulthood especially those from rich backgrounds. 4, it's the hard times that build character not the easy ones and this is a fact. And 5 ,those who came from poor or average backgrounds that either went through life without doing bullshit or did bullshit and changed for the better always end up appreciating and also enjoying the good because they know how the bad times were so it's very unlikely that they'll screw it up especially over another's opinion. It's blk and white, you just have to dig deeper than the easy or more simple solution.
I would too if I were him. This man spends every miserable day of his life trying to convince himself he's okay with all of this while she gets to do whatever she wants without any repercussions. I don't feel sorry for him, but I do feel sad for him that he thinks so little of himself as to allow this to go on.
@muzik dude you know what makes it 10x worse? She convinced him to do a documentary and put it all over the internet. Like she didn't just want to bang other dudes and make him accept it, she wanted to proclaim it on the internet and not just on like her personal Facebook or Twitter page, she had them do a full fledged documentary about it.
Imagine his face when he's at the swingers party when she's getting her guts rearranged by a couple of guys 😂. I would feel bad but he deserves everything he gets for having no self respect and allowing this.
That’s on him. He could have left. I don’t see that he has any kids with her. What’s keeping him there? He also probably knew she was like this before hand and was naive enough to expect change.
" I cheated on him, so... we decided to enter a poly relationship😃" "I was a murderer , so we decided to enter a life ending/ person who's life gets ended type relationship with those I deal with from now on"
She only wants him for the convenience of having him pay her bills while disrespecting his loyalty. AND she rejected him during her younger days says it all as well. He was the backup plan. There's nothing else for him to comprehend from her.
That’s what he needs to do is tell her hit the road and never come back. You can tell he has a need to love and be loved unfortunately he’s wasting it on this woman who cares only for herself.
Don't. Just don't. Spare yourself the headache. 'Happy wife, happy life' means if you get along with your spouse you will have a happier time in life, not that you should slavishly keep her happy. A woke woman is one of the WORST type of people to marry because she is programmed by an ideology that LOOKS for faults, and if it cannot find them it creates them. Such a person is a nightmare to tie yourself to.
"Everything is racist, everything is sexist, everything is homophobic, and you have to point it out!" We remember what Rand wrote about in The Fountainhead: Submission to the imposition of an impossible moral standard will lead to frequent failure, leading to feelings of shame and further submission. And then your soul is ruled by they that imposed the standard that was accepted uncritically.
I broke up with my babies mom because she wanted to switch to a swinging life style about 5 years into our relationship. This idea came after I caught her flirting sending nude pics to other guys online. She married a sucker some time ago and is now going through a divorce years later because she cheated. Glad I dodged that one.
@@da3musceteerswhy would you be embarassed to be female ? Would you be embarassed to be male because Hitler was a guy? ????? Idk people nowadays r so weird
Mark is what's called a "Housebroken Man." He was born a doormat, and he's the type of guy who uses his relationship to define his existence, not to compliment his existence. Never be a Mark, because Mark deserves all the suffering he allows himself to go through.
It's not! Only the radical left is okay with this type of behavior. (From women) As long as you date outside of the left, most folks agree on monogamy.
You hit the nail on the head when you said that she never wanted him in the first place. She didn't fall in love with him when they were adults, she just said "eh f@ck it"
It’s shocking to me that some folks truly believe that “exploring” and “polyamory” is totally normal and conducive to a healthy relationship. Better to be alone than deal with that migraine.
@@paulandrewgonzales1241 I couldn't even watch this. We've heard this story before. I like Think before you sleep but this topic just utterly disgusts me. I thought it'd be a video on a normal monogamous couple with a woman who just so happens to be woke in the feminist sense. But I can't even bear to listen to a story of a woman manipulating a pathetic man into becoming a cuck.
I honestly believe there are some people who are suited to doing porn. As there are some who benefit from "open relationships"(such a gaslighting term). But by some, I mean you are more likely to win at lottery than meet one of these people.
Polyamory is toxic as hell. I would know, I was in a polyamorous "community" for like 12 years. I was young, didn't fit in, from an abusive background, I didn't care about anything least of all myself and I was told this is your family, we accept you and love you for who you are, but the whole thing was a front for abusive older people to take advantage of young impressionable and vulnerable people. I wasted my 20s in a downward spiral of degeneracy I've only recently been able to disentangle myself from, and to this day I struggle with pathological "old tapes", inappropriate behaviors and responses because that's what I got used to doing for so long. If you're considering polyamory-don't do it. You won't be more free or enlightened or evolved, you'll just be miserable
It's also not natural at all. Studies and biology show and prove that human beings are meant to be monogumas. But people have lost God in their life and just do whatever their emotions tell them to do. I'm staying far away from those people Far away.
Believe in Jesus Christ he died for ur sins and ull be forgivenn and the burdennand shame will go and most importantly ull gain eternal life God bless u😊✝️
If you could talk about this and your experience everyday so that people could understand. Now, it's on tv shows, and they show it like it's normal. One of the reasons why I stopped watching those shows
This comment could LITERALLY have been written by my wife. No joke, very similar past before she met me. Good for you getting out, after almost 6 years together, she's finally coming out of the fog. It's taken a ton of talking and work, but she's an amazing person. Keep your head up 💚❤️💙💖💜🧡💗
@@KingArthur13th considering the overarching theme of this channel is “ultimately you are the one who is responsible for yourself”, that’s not an incorrect assessment… or bad advice either
It’s hard to feel sorry for the guy when he doesn’t respect himself enough to stand up for how he feels. There are other women out there, Mark, who won’t do this.
@Michael Y Kwon get off the Internet. I 'm a women and most women I know and I know plenty are normal people in good healthy relationships. They are diffently not unicorns
@@sunnyday4055 lmao how old are they? And I'm saying unicorn as it's very rare and u know that's true with statistics and experience. Don't tell me what to do lol that's what guys dont like 🙃
So let's get the timeline - kind of chubby, probably shy and awkward Mark tries to ask out Krystina in high school. She rejects him. - she chases the good looking guys - she cheats on these higher value guys - word gets out that she's the town bicycle, high value men want nothing to do with her - Recently ejected from the CC Krystina runs into Mark at the bar, gets into a relationship with him knowing that she has the control of the relationship - Proceeds to cheat on Mark - Mark, due to lower self confidence, just takes this until wifey comes by and suggests that they become swingers. Mark accepts, likely because the fear of being alone trumped his conscience. - Krystina creates a TikTok revolved around swinging, monetizing their lifestyle and simultaneously ensuring that Mark's name and likeness will always be attached to swinging. Even most women would likely agree that this one is for the streets. She bases her happiness off of how much different D she gets anyway, might as well let her get it all. Until she's old and surrounded by cats, of course.
Yep, she got wind he had money and she is into being the dominant one and knew despite rejecting him he would simp for her. . Most men hate that so she found the perfect guy whom she can boss around and put up with her and she can do anything she wants. That is the ONLY reason they are still together.
@@timreeves7963 yeah I feel horrible for Mark. Just another dude who wanted a simple, monogamous life and got sucked into a trap by a physically attractive modern woman.
Because women use all the feminist clap trap and platitudes to justify their shitty behaviours. The feminist movement have a plethora of excuses for any situation.
Nah, that's not having "daddy issues". That's something else. I had "daddy issues" because of an emotional and physical abusive father. I had trust issues and several difficulties. Never cheated.
i agreed with you until you said "girl with daddy issues' first of all don't blame her shittiness on her trauma lots of people can have poor relationships with their fathers and still be loyal in relationships, second of all (not excusing the fact that she is a bitch) how is it her fault that she has a bad father?
'Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms-to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances, to choose one's own way.” - Victor Frankl My uncle (Mad Jack) used to say ''Imagine that 80% of your beauty can be wiped away with a wet-wipe tissue...'' LoL
"Took you long to comprehend that!" She's such a narcissist, she's annoyed with him, and blames him for not being immediately accepting about her gross insanity. Her gall is enough to make your skin crawl.
It's hard to garner sympathy for the guy though. The relationship started with him continuing to pursue somebody he knew wasn't interested in him and didn't respect him. She's only there because she knows he's weak and will provide for her while she's out getting railed by the dudes she's actually into. He actively pursued that, and she's not even attractive.
100% my wife is a high school teacher and whenever there’s a serial case of students continuing to act out, every single time it’s from a kid with a broken home. Then that kid is messed up beyond repair and reproduces and creates other broken families. What we are witnessing is a pandemic of bad parenting
The blackpilled part of me thinks this guy won’t ever achieve that. He isn’t good looking enough or in good enough shape to pull that; plus, I think he has self esteem issues because he didn’t leave this woman when she first cheated. *he has no options* basically A true Chad wouldn’t be in this scenario because his girlfriend wouldn’t cheated, and if she did he’d leave because he has self respect and other options
@@SamuelHallEngland exactly hes just putting up with her because she is more attractive than he is and doesnt think he can find better. Id much rather just lower my visual standards a bit and get a girl that actually is loyal + great character
I'm always surprised with the message that comes out at the end. The video starts off with criticizing something, and then the lesson he gives us at the end is something completely different. You really never know what it will be.
You got my sub today! I tell people all the time that negativity is just as much a part of life as positivity so you can't just cut it out and/or ignore it
True...it's hard because I feel sorry for him, but it's also his fault for it getting to this point. Vampires are blood sucking creatures, but they can only come inside if you invite them. It is ultimately his decision to let her do this to him for 17 years.
Have y'all realized they said optimistically, "This is Cristina, she fell in love with..." Then they say blandfully, "Mark." Right after. I don't think that was on purpose but I have been taught by my grandfather no less that most people in casual conversation will have a tone of voice when speaking, if they have life in their voice while talking and their tone sounds excited you know they want to talk to you and get to know you and all that fun jazz. If their tone is monotone, they either don't care or they are not really interested in the subject at hand 👌. This was my TED Talk, thanks for reading.
@@scrbroadcast I will be open by (edit:stating) I am autistic, not in the generalized sense. I just have a hard time reading people sometimes. So when I say I have to read body movement and listen to someone's tone of voice, I mean I have to otherwise I might be completely clueless
@@scrbroadcast my recent ex was just a sociopath. She eventually and abruptly just decided not to be with me because she wouldn't move in. Here's the deal. She has been acting more distant and I know for a fact it was because she doesn't want to be with me. She also for the last few times I called her she was telling at me and calling me names over the phone while I asked her when I could see her again. She would say stuff like, "That's childish that you want me that bad!" Keep in mind I don't even see her in person anymore so yeah. Totally understandable as to why you would cuss me out and call me a child. Fuck her. She deserves to rot in hell for treating me like that. Anyways I'm off topic. I don't have trouble talking to others tbh. In fact I am pretty good at it so really it's just viewing people's intentions. It took me a WHILE to figure out my ex was abusing my mental health. Granted my great grandfather died on Valentine's day. So she decided to still do the shit that she was doing after the fact. She is just heartless and tries to lol you into a sense of securement by telling you, "It will be alright, everything will get better." You know just to comfort. But if she ment everything she said, she wouldn't have to leave me and would try to get her ass off her bed and get a damn job then move in. She didn't want a long term relationship. She wanted a fling without telling me so and it hurt when she was telling me all these horrible things over the phone. In a nutshell when I watched this video and saw that bad couple dynamic it reminded me of my recent relationship. So I can relate to Mark's struggles a little.
Wokeness is an indicator of so many other problems ranging from irresponsibility, and childishness to toxicity and bad health choices (on top of the smugness). It is the biggest red flag 🚩
It really is. And after seeing these kinds of behaviors more and more, I've noticed that my ex had a very similar mindset. It's sad, but I'm glad I know for future encounters with these women.
They’re either crazy, or disingenuous. If they actually believe that woke nonsense, crazy. If they use wokeness to excuse their abuse of others, that’s especially evil.
Nah I hope he self deletes from the abuse. Men that weak and lazy are what enable more woman to try this to men, so I also don't have pity for him. A waste of male byproduct and a female creep who prays on him.
@@unyieldingmonotony4453 Not all weak men don't get denied the chances of having kids, they just get taken advantage of in court after she locks in that easy money. Then the kids grow up fucked up. Then you get the reality we're living in.
Yes he probably has severe attachment issues as well. Know of a couple like this. But the woman was actually passed around by a group of pedophiles as a child. She got help and is going better. But the guy is single now and still crazy.
It's a fair point and accurate enough, but these things can be manipulated. Listen to it again. It sounds like his voice has a slight echo while hers doesn't. It means the microphone is closer to her, so he'll be quieter no matter what. So now he has to deal with both not projecting and an essentially rigged interview.
@@dycedargselderbrother5353 I actually picked that scene for a reason; even though there were many other examples of him speaking with a super quite voice. At the end of it she smacks him on the chest and it pops his mic proving that he has a microphone on and they aren't using a boom mic. When she slaps him, you can kind of see a bulge near the I and the V of Individuality so that is likely where his mic is. Also, his shirt wrinkles there versus when he is doing his glamour shot, at the beginning of the video, that area is perfectly smooth. Krystina's mic is on the left side of her button up. It looks like it's actually lower on her body and further away than Mark's microphone.
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT I am your fan from Serbia, and I dont know why is that important for me, but I would like for u to know and educate yourself about NATO aggression on Serbia in 1999, but idc, when I look about that theme on english, on western media the whole thing is masked and there is a lot of things that is lied about. Why is that important for me, I want to share the clear picture what are west and eu trying to do in ukraine, and I am on Russias side, when America commited aggression against countries that posed no threat for her(and also completely disregarding the international human rights law), like Serbia(did I mention, the fact that they droped 21 ton of uranium on our soil, my grandmother died from cancer, my ucle got it too, and bombarded schools and non millitary buildings, same as like Biden is pointing finger at Russia for it and, u can find it on yt, Bidens speech about how they should keep bombing Serbia, cus "that is the right thing to do"), Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria and so on, ...
When I was in high school many people tried using the "I'm poly" excuse to cheat. It's pretty disgusting, I've had to protect my friends from getting into that kind of stuff.
I tried to protect my friends and he ended up blocking me. Very sad, he cut off his old friends and family for his gf. But he says he’s happy so *shrug*
Enabling bad behavior is what destroyed some of my cousin's lives. My grandma let one of her daughters drop 1 kid off at her place to stay around 20 years ago (the kid was biologically hers, but she didn't know the father). The number increased to 6. My grandma is over 60. Guess what happened to those kids? Half are in & out of jail. 2 have high body counts & have more babies in broken fatherless families. Don't be an enabler.
"You can't..." Fixed it for you, Bro. It is a fact of life. If you stand up for what is good, you are going to be persecuted for it. Evil does not like to be "called out."
Maybe, but this is also the greatest justification for evil. One must be very careful when standing up to "bad" people that they are not actually the bad person.
The problem with open relationships, is that they are not relationships. If you have to compete, then you shouldn’t need to pay. This lady: “I am okay with this dude paying for everything as long as I get to sleep with everything”
Women that are married realise getting laid has never been easier with the amount of simps so they want to open relationships to have their cake and eat it too
He would rather get cyucked than be alone. Simps and cyucks are the lowest form of life, they deserve ire and ridicule. Its the only way it will ever stop. Shame only works on men.
No one should tolerate this behavior. When I was a teenager my girlfriend cheated on me and I thought I was doing the right thing to forgive her. A year or so later I found out that she cheated a whole lot more. Just break it off immediately. Don't get mad or fight with them. That's the healthiest response.
The right thing is to forgive her for your on mental health. But that doesn’t me the healthy thing to do is to stay with a cheater. You were right to break up AND forgive.
Maybe I'm just hoping this is the case, but Mark seems like a cognitively impaired man who has been manipulated into servitude. If he was twice his age I'd describe their interactions as elder abuse. For him to not have the strength and self respect to break things off initially is kinda heartbreaking.
She broke him down until he gave in. He told her he wasn't happy with her sleeping with others and she didnt care. Just kept pushing it onto him until he couldn't fight anymore
He doesn't seem cognitively impaired to me. Just conflicted. He seems like he's TRYING to believe what he's saying. Like listen to the way he talks. It's now dumb, it's depressed. The dude clearly doesn't ACTUALLY enjoy it.
Don’t feel bad for a career simp like him. I’m sure his boys, family, maybe even strangers have been telling him from the start she was bad news and he just wrote them off as “jealous” or “hating”…..I’ve heard this story too many times. Now look at him
Mark was raised by a single mom. This epidemic is out of control. Single mothers raise men like this or an inmate(80% of US inmates are from single mother households). Feminism is working so well.
At this point I say let them have their way and watch the crash and burn. Perhaps then they'd learn from their mistakes but they'd probably just blame anyone who's not then
You can still be a “ feminist” and have a normal life.. I don’t like single mother’s being grouped in with feminism. If you’re a single mother, then you’re just showing how you don’t care about your child having a healthy environment. You can still fight for not having men in women’s sports, men in women’s bathrooms, men claiming they can become pregnant, men taking away Mother’s Day, etc.. If men would just let women have their own identities, we wouldn’t need feminism. Women get paid just as much as men, women can vote, women are not discriminated against anymore unless it’s a man trying to take a woman’s identity. So men, stop thinking it’s possible to be a woman and we won’t have this issue.
@@Ninnjette- alot of women had sex and got pregnant from an undersirable man, like thugs and drug dealers. they went single mother to avoid their husbands or boyfriends influencing their children and turning them into hard criminals as well. statistically sure it fails but...
@@genericscout5408 Yeah, Absolutely that happens. I also know a few single mother’s that just wanted to cheat. They were with a good man in a good relationship, they cheated they messed it up. I don’t know everybody has their own reasons. I’ve been married for 11 years we have an eight-year-old son together, has it been perfect? F**k No lol but we always work out our differences, because we want to stay married and because a two parent household is the best for our son. Now if our disagreements were done in front of him, I would think my son would be better off in a single parent household. But if the married couple can keep their shit together, it’s best for the child. I just think women and I am a woman, should choose better partners before they have kids with them.
Remember lads: A lot of today's modern lasses have stated that you are trash. They have also stated that you are oppressive, and you hold them down. Lads, show your respect for today's modern lasses by NOT approaching them. Give them the space and freedom to be the best that they can be. And for you, today's modern lass: Don't ever regret telling lads that they are trash and that they are all bad. Prove to the world that you can stand on your own, without needing any help from them.
That will never happen, they outlive men so they have the majority of the vote and they vote for tax dollars to be spent on them which men contribute the lions share of.
@@ian9toes the only way to offset having to pay taxes for food stamps to feed Tyrone's and Chad's bastards is to invest in catfood, box wine, and sex toy stocks.
@@Jojo_D_Northstar Its a real shame that even that is normalized that women get what they want and all they have to do is complain. And that sounds as though I'm making it a general statement, but its only directed towards those who fit the bill. Because I know some women who stand up for themselves and make a change in themselves when necessary. Its just sad that the louder you are the more attention you get. Its too noisy these days...
@@Jedimack7 yep, it’s a horrible arrangement, they’re not a good match at all. They want totally different things. But at least he’s banging away and making her upset. Toxic I know. But small victories.
Honesly ? If she was like that but didn't fucking trick this dude it would be perfectly fine, like if he knew this when they started dating and was ok with it. But the trickery she goes trough is disgusting.
I know 3 dudes who were swingers and married. All 3 are divorced. 1 of each couple wanted to stop and be faithful. The other person couldn't stop and chose divorce. All 3 of the couples say, they wish they never were swingers, it ruined the family. They all have kids too.
Same. I was in the Navy, it's not uncommon. You're away so much I understand why a couple might do it but it ends bad every time, just extends the problem. Reasons I stopped trying to date while going to sea 10 months a year lol
I can 100% confirm the things that you have said. I'm a childhood trauma survivor. I was held at gunpoint, held at knifepoint, escaped an attempted kidnapping, and sexually assaulted and harassed. This was all during primary school. All through middle school and most of high school, I was in toxic relationships. In middle school, my "BFF" sent me a several-page long letter. It was all the extremely graphic details of how she was going to self-delete. In the letter, she told me it was my fault for not letting her come over on Thanksgiving because I told her it was family time. I had a total of 4 "close" friends do this to me. I was in a 2 year-long abusive relationship with a narcissist. I was a people pleaser. Suicidal thoughts, eating disorders, sexual behavior, and chronic illnesses. I had them all. Since then I've been in therapy for almost 5 years. I still go to 3 different therapists so we can work on specific things. Also so I can work through these issues quicker. I was able to start college before I graduated from high school. I was able to make a life plan with my therapist. Instead of spending a bunch of money on a degree, I got my graphic design certificate. It still gives me almost the same qualifications since the field is more opinion-driven. I wanted a way I could passively make money. This will let me have income and contribute to my future marriage while still allowing me to be more focused on kids and making a house a home. I have ADHD so I'm extremely bad at organizing. So I'm going to executive function therapy. Through this, I decided to start my own business. I use art as therapy and can draw almost photo-realistic. So now, I design stickers for organizing, planners, notebooks, and much more. I know what homeschool moms look for so I started designing educational stuff as well. I want to get married young and have kids. I want to homeschool them. The only problem is I have learning disabilities. So I have worked on overcoming them. I have had to take English 111 three times but I wanted to overcome my dyslexia. I know that my brain is permanently going to struggle but I can learn to minimize it. I started learning how to cook, meal prep, etc. I struggle with binge ED so I wanted to overcome this. This is very important to me since I want my future kids to see me as a healthy example. I love listening to videos about health and personal training. I enjoy working out but I struggle with motivation. So I decided to try to get a job teaching Barre classes since I used to be a dancer. I just found this channel and you are right.
As another woman who went through childhood sexual and emotional trauma, I feel you love ❤️ I’m now married to my highschool sweetheart, we’ve been married almost 6 years, and we have two sons and a daughter on the way, 3 kiddos in 5 years, such a blessing. We are financially independent and happy, and are both turning 24 this year. It’s taken years of therapy for me, almost a decade now, to overcome all the dysfunctional ripple effects of what happened in my early life. My husband had some serious childhood trauma as well and has also gone to therapy the past 2-3 years. Overcoming these horrific past abuses IS POSSIBLE, and I’m so proud of you for not succumbing to vice and accepting mediocrity from yourself. You’ve got this!!! Praying so much for you.
As you probably already know, the scars never go away, but it is possible to live despite them. The difficulty is in letting go of the past to live in the present, rejecting delusion to live in reality. It sounds like you are making great progress, and the more effort you put into it, the closer you will get to your goal(s). Focus on being the best person you can be, and learn to recognize other good people when you meet them. A person's behavior is shaped by his or her companions, so take care whom you choose to be your companions. You do not have to be perfect, you simply have to refuse to stop improving. You go, girl!
It's so good to hear you're working on being a better version of yourself! I also struggle with motivation from time to time but this quote really stuck with me: "Action comes first, motivation comes after." It's also important not to be too hard on yourself. When I first decided I want to get better I put too many tasks on myself. Too many things I wanted to learn, too many exercises, too many goals I wanted to achieve.. I felt like I needed to do it all more in order to keep up with all the years I haven't been doing it.. this is difficult to keep up with and likely will lead to burn outs. I'd be super productive for a few months and then the complete opposite for just as long. This may not be something you might struggle with but if you do, try to keep things balanced. Don't overwork yourself, you're doing good. I wish you all the best!
But why didn't you let her come? "Family time" some people don't have stable and healthy families, so they rely on their friends and see them as family. It was a little selfish of you to not invite her. I come from a broken home too and whenever I had the chance to be with friends I'd take it.
“The devil makes work for idle hands” I loved to learn the english version of this saying.. the brazilian version goes like “an empty head is the devil’s workshop”
"The devil will find work for idle hands to do, I stole and then I lied and why, because you asked me to. And now you make me feel so ashamed because I've only got two hands, but I'm still fond of you...oh ho ho" ~The Smiths
“Hard for him to accept that I only wanted him and to be with him and other men”- with her massive use of oxymoron and irony she should become a writer!
Oh man... think of the STDs.
Yuck , used vagaga
Guys, never be a simp like Mark. Throw these damaged women to the side for good and let them seal their own fate, have some respect for yourselves.
they do be running a STD laboratory. Don't worry, I know they will create 5 more HIV variants.
Your channel is a big black pill proving women never lose.
That dude's body language is so hard to look at. Even just his posture, it looks like he's trying to crawl out of his skin every time the situation is repeated out loud.
Psychologist: so Mark do you feel Kristina emasculates you?
Kristina: No he doesn’t.
Ayoo
Psychologist: did I ask, bitch?
Lmao. Yeah pretty much how I see that going too.
You pretty much summarized the whole video 😂
That pretty much sums it up 😂
So basically the wife wants to do chads but wants someone to pay for the bills and the mistakes.
Beta bucks and alpha fucks. Women have built a dual mating strategy over millennium. So they get the baby from the chad big dude and a good father security from the beta guy because evolutionary finding a chad who was also caring, provisioning, & protecting their babies was rare. Learn from this guy, stay rising man 💪🏽💯 sorry just smoked and ranting haha
He is just a safety line if something bad happens... Wth is wrong with that man
@@LprogressivesANDliberals lol, I’m not sure if I will ever get married, but I do know I will not sellout my beliefs for a woman.
Don't be the beta bucks. If she cheats or brings up wanting something similar to polyamory, *dump them.*
Their relationship is legit distressing to watch 😫
Ahhh yes. Cheating is “exploring” not committing adultery
He just uploaded the video 5 minutes ago lol thirsty for likes
@@luchalerae7687 I think you're calling it out for likes. Then someone is going to call me out for calling you out.
@@luchalerae7687 Really? That's all you could think of to say?
lmao “Polyamory” at its finest.
But only when women do it. It's still bad when the man does it.
"I've struggled with monogamy my whole life" How brave and inspirational...
That's a fancy way of saying " I'm a whore"
"I've struggled with it since I was a child, so it's fair that I shouldn't have to do it as an adult", impeccable logic there.
lol!
😂😂😂
Yeah why didn't she marry with some dude who also liked that , instead she married a regular joe who wanted monogomy
"We only allow positivity in our lives."
Like right now she's positive for gonorrhea.
I was thinking the same thing. Sooner or later that petri dish will catch the gift that keeps giving.
Don't mind the telegony. 😄
😅😅😅😅
Someone fetch the spreadsheet. We are going to need a call center to give out this volume of might want to get tested calls
They both are declared positive for delusion, at best, and the wake up call will be harsh, especially for the dude who allowed this situation to happen SMH.
I saw a meme that said something like: whenever you see a polyamorous relationship you can tell who’s idea it was and who cries themselves to sleep every night.
I feel so bad for him 😔
Will cries. Jada wanted it lol
Honestly, the more of these I see, the more obvious it is that 99% of the time it's the woman.
@@janedoll3237 I don't. Guy did this to himself. He should get the fuck out. Stand up for himself, and not be trampled over by this bitch. If he does that then he might be able to earn himself some respect again.
FACTS.
Social media has turned ALL criticism into just "haters".
Yup. Even speaking facts is called hating
It's also turned people's mental issues and weird fetishes into easy clicks
Y'all just hating. Trashy and unethical degenerates need love too.
😎
they need the love... of truth... to make them suffer and then mature into adults who are not obsessed with (that capital sin in which people only want sex) even if she calls that polygamy but in reality it's nothing like a harem
criticism + anything about race = racist. what a beautiful time we live in!!
She groomed him into accepting something beyond his boundaries.
More like she exploded those boundaries with dynamite and now he has none.
He is too weak…
Crisis acting.
No she didn't, that man is a loser.
My grandma cheated (uncle and dad walked in on her with a neighbor when they were kids) and my grandpa didn’t divorce her. He sunk deeper into alcoholism and depression until it killed him. My dad and my uncle wanted him to divorce her so bad bc she’s an awful person to this day. He stayed married bc he was raised with the belief that divorce was wrong. I miss him everyday and he didn’t deserve that misery. She isolated him from others and gaslit him constantly. She loves to manipulate and target the mentally ill. She provokes me the same way she provoked him and she bullies me (her own damn granddaughter) bc out of all the grandkids, I remind her of him the most. Grandpa never deserved it and neither do I. She was also a career-first feminist and neglected my dad and uncle as children.
Your greatest revenge would be to NOT be like her.
@@khalaq2 unlikely
@@madsantos no need to be incel
Babe, F your grandma. But her being a career first feminist has nothing to do with her being a toxic B. Prioritizing career is a choice but being toxic and cheating? Nope. You seem to think men being workaholics is totally fine, but when women prioritize their career they are "woke" and thus prone to cheating. Honey, you are so wrong. Anyways take care, you don't deserve to stay around so much negativity, I really hope your doing well 🧡
From personal experience with my own mother, being a career-first woman is toxic. You don't even need to be a feminist. At least, not an open one. But the problem with career-first women who have children is that they can't do it all. They can't do well in their career unless they neglect their children to some degree. For my entire life, I was emotionally neglected by my mother who treated like an employee. I could never form a close relationship with her because she didn't leave her work attitude at work. To her, I was a fully-formed adult whose bad decisions were a result of malice, rather than a lack of life experience.
I'm not saying that she didn't love me, even if it felt that way. But I am saying that because she is a career woman who can't separate work and home life, she effectively emotionally abandoned me for my whole life. The ability to truly balance career and children is something that very few, if any, women have, and pretending that it's something that all women can do is a great way to break children. Being a career woman is toxic to children and too few women are equipped to effectively balance both work and home life.
Her: _"We finish each other's sentences. Here watch. I want to be..."_
*said simultaneously*
Him: _"...with you forever."_
Her: _"...with multiple men."_
😂😂😂😂😂
implying she expected him to say he wanted to be with multiple men
Oddly enough, you might be surprised how common this may be. Maybe not, who knows. Not saying it's right, just pointing out how such a fucked up thing in so normalized. That said, something I used to do for a parlor game, is have two people in a "loving couple" go to opposite corners and write on a piece of paper, the one thing the other could do to prove their love for them. Sky's the limit, with no restrictions.
Upon returning said papers, I wouldn't even need to know who wrote what, because it was always the same. The guy in said couple would always write something to the effect of "Stay with me through everything." Whereas almost every woman would have something akin to "Die for me." Think about that... How fucked up is it that a woman's ultimate romantic fantasy with the guy she's with, doesn't even involve being with him? Only for every one in the room to "Aww... That's so romantic."
Point is, almost every woman puts that. The two or three who didn't, had something about "Being fine with me sleeping with someone else." I'm not even joking. Can you imagine how embarrassing that car ride home would be? Guy outs "Stick with me through everything" and HER response was wanting to bang other men. It'd be one thing if I'd done it a hundred times and two or three of those popped up, but it's not even close to that. I think the most I'd done it, was twenty. Then again, this was almost a decade ago, as well. Curious to see if it'd be like 10 out of 20 now, or something.
🤣
@@AnthonySforza sounds about right, but its odd that there were only 3 different answers (one for the men, two for the women)
You'd think at least one dude would write something cheeky like a blow job or something at least once lol
The positivity she is bringing to the relationship is a test for syphilis.
And HIV.
That made me snort my beer lol
Hahhahajahaha
😂 aw man, underrated comment 🏆
😂😂
I knew of an open relationship someone told me about over in Louisiana years ago. The couples first name was John and Tanya. They were both bodybuilders and she was okay with it until she started getting older and losing her ability to enjoy the lifestyle and the fact that her husband was securing 22-year-old college women. It's just funny how that works.
That’s not a dig on open relationships, that’s a dog on the wife’s insecurity
^long term things pan out for men better than women.
@@ChaadFairservice20022 someone just gotta wait it out
@@ChaadFairservice20022they age like milk and we age like wine. Even with the body builder thing looks fade
@@doubledoubleusmokymirror4d405
From 20-40 woman are usually the more attractive one.
From 40-60 men are the winners.
From 60+ you're little old people together.
+/- 10 years to account for individual variability, but the logic is basically the same. Women win for a bit, men win for a bit, but then time equalizes it for everyone. Beauty is transient, enjoy it while you have it but don't be blinded into thinking the milk/wine thing. We both end up as vinegar decades before we die!
A woke person is simply a person who hasn't been metaphorically knocked the hell out by life. This comes from having an easy life. You never know what actually exists in life until shit gets real.
@@Willie_Wahzoo I was spoiled but as I got older,my mother got real. She told me to wise up and man up because if I can't handle the small things I go through as a child then I wouldn't be able to stand the pressure of being a man in the world I was going to be living in. Words stuck to me like glue. She whipped my ass and let me know that I should hold myself up and focus on myself and build my legacy and life. Her actual words were" don't trust those harlots" lol
@@J.P_INC. Damn LOL.
@@jeremysears4263 moma kept it real and I'm glad she was a real one may she rest in peace
In according with human science used to prove that type of behavior most of time came from broke families like also protitution, but entailed can also make harm too.
@@jubernardi23 actually you missed vital points. 1, not all of people from poor backgrounds end up criminals or sex workers. 2, a lot of those who are were either doing it out of desperation or it's was what they were around and exposed to at a young age which screwed them up mentally. 3, the ones who were cottled and told they are perfect and those told they were kings and queens without being told they had to earn it or how to earn it, end up with an ego at a young age with develops into pure arrogance in adulthood especially those from rich backgrounds. 4, it's the hard times that build character not the easy ones and this is a fact. And 5 ,those who came from poor or average backgrounds that either went through life without doing bullshit or did bullshit and changed for the better always end up appreciating and also enjoying the good because they know how the bad times were so it's very unlikely that they'll screw it up especially over another's opinion. It's blk and white, you just have to dig deeper than the easy or more simple solution.
Marks expression the whole episode looks like he’s about to burst into tears any second
I would too if I were him. This man spends every miserable day of his life trying to convince himself he's okay with all of this while she gets to do whatever she wants without any repercussions. I don't feel sorry for him, but I do feel sad for him that he thinks so little of himself as to allow this to go on.
He's completely destroyed mentally and emotionally
@muzik dude you know what makes it 10x worse? She convinced him to do a documentary and put it all over the internet. Like she didn't just want to bang other dudes and make him accept it, she wanted to proclaim it on the internet and not just on like her personal Facebook or Twitter page, she had them do a full fledged documentary about it.
Imagine his face when he's at the swingers party when she's getting her guts rearranged by a couple of guys 😂. I would feel bad but he deserves everything he gets for having no self respect and allowing this.
That’s on him. He could have left. I don’t see that he has any kids with her. What’s keeping him there? He also probably knew she was like this before hand and was naive enough to expect change.
"I've always been a murderer, I'm honest about it. Killing people is just what I do, not killing isn't natural for me"
That's tough.
" I cheated on him, so... we decided to enter a poly relationship😃"
"I was a murderer , so we decided to enter a life ending/ person who's life gets ended type relationship with those I deal with from now on"
Lol best argument example 🤣 👏
Okay Dexter.
No officer I didn’t kill him, I just tactically adjusted his life span to my advantage
Mark's shirt having "Individuality" on the front is God-level irony.
She only wants him for the convenience of having him pay her bills while disrespecting his loyalty.
AND she rejected him during her younger days says it all as well. He was the backup plan.
There's nothing else for him to comprehend from her.
she quite literally "settled" down for him
hypergamy is dualistic
A lot of women do this but are not blatantly doing the second part openly.
Couldn't of said it any better.
My goodness, what a simp he is...
I hope he finds somone else to fuck around too, that's gonna screw with her head if she comes home and he's somewhere else. Lmaoo
If my wife told me "we're swingers now" I would say, "We are divorced now".
💯💯
The only thing swinging is the door
That’s what he needs to do is tell her hit the road and never come back. You can tell he has a need to love and be loved unfortunately he’s wasting it on this woman who cares only for herself.
Healthy sex is better than being a social media zombie
Fax
Don't. Just don't. Spare yourself the headache. 'Happy wife, happy life' means if you get along with your spouse you will have a happier time in life, not that you should slavishly keep her happy. A woke woman is one of the WORST type of people to marry because she is programmed by an ideology that LOOKS for faults, and if it cannot find them it creates them. Such a person is a nightmare to tie yourself to.
"Everything is racist, everything is sexist, everything is homophobic, and you have to point it out!"
We remember what Rand wrote about in The Fountainhead: Submission to the imposition of an impossible moral standard will lead to frequent failure, leading to feelings of shame and further submission. And then your soul is ruled by they that imposed the standard that was accepted uncritically.
"Happy wife, happy life." Makes me puke. She can be happy on her own. Without you.
@@Torgo1969 shee only needs your money
"happy wife happy life"
is basically a threat: keep me happy or i'll "kill you" etc
it's like someone saying "Happy Putin, Happy Ukraine" ...
That was my first ever girlfriend!
We didn't last half a year. 😑
I broke up with my babies mom because she wanted to switch to a swinging life style about 5 years into our relationship. This idea came after I caught her flirting sending nude pics to other guys online. She married a sucker some time ago and is now going through a divorce years later because she cheated. Glad I dodged that one.
Makes me embarassed to be female
@@da3musceteerswhy would you be embarassed to be female ? Would you be embarassed to be male because Hitler was a guy? ????? Idk people nowadays r so weird
I hope kids are ok
@@Brother-v6qprolly not my place to talk ab a reply that’s 2 months old but, dude calm down 💀
@@Brother-v6q because they make me look bad by association
Mark is what's called a "Housebroken Man." He was born a doormat, and he's the type of guy who uses his relationship to define his existence, not to compliment his existence. Never be a Mark, because Mark deserves all the suffering he allows himself to go through.
Well said
Nailed it.
Matt is his middle name 🚪
she blatantly checks her watch when he's pumping away.
@@cerberusloyalist5038 That, plus she sends him out to buy the condoms she takes with her when she's going to see her boyfriends.
The fact that cheating is the new norm is really disgusting…
Only when men cheat, its bad.
& women do the most cheating.
It's not! Only the radical left is okay with this type of behavior. (From women) As long as you date outside of the left, most folks agree on monogamy.
When a woman cheats: fine
When a man cheats: F#CK YOU SON OF A B#TCH
@@Zathren all women
"We finish each other's sentences"
As she interrupts and talks over this poor simp at every opportunity
Well that's what she means by "finish each other's sentences"!
he goes "i really feel like...." she goes and finishes it for him
I noticed that too.
You hit the nail on the head when you said that she never wanted him in the first place. She didn't fall in love with him when they were adults, she just said "eh f@ck it"
It’s shocking to me that some folks truly believe that “exploring” and “polyamory” is totally normal and conducive to a healthy relationship. Better to be alone than deal with that migraine.
Yeah, watching this gave me a headache and now I wanna get some sleep.
@@paulandrewgonzales1241 I couldn't even watch this. We've heard this story before. I like Think before you sleep but this topic just utterly disgusts me. I thought it'd be a video on a normal monogamous couple with a woman who just so happens to be woke in the feminist sense. But I can't even bear to listen to a story of a woman manipulating a pathetic man into becoming a cuck.
I honestly believe there are some people who are suited to doing porn. As there are some who benefit from "open relationships"(such a gaslighting term).
But by some, I mean you are more likely to win at lottery than meet one of these people.
Exactly. It's just the typical cc but with someone covering all the bills. Like, why. Stop letting yourself be abused.
If men knew how to be alone we wouldn’t be here
Wow! I love the lifeless way Mark is staring into the void! I can definitely see how happy he is!
My goodness, i thought i was the only one! There is absolutely zero reg(erts) on his part.
Haha true that
Wasn't sure how to describe that look but you summed it up perfectly 👏
Yeah the eyes don’t lie
Definitely. He looks like he cried all night before this interview. He doesn't look happy. 😢
Polyamory is toxic as hell. I would know, I was in a polyamorous "community" for like 12 years. I was young, didn't fit in, from an abusive background, I didn't care about anything least of all myself and I was told this is your family, we accept you and love you for who you are, but the whole thing was a front for abusive older people to take advantage of young impressionable and vulnerable people. I wasted my 20s in a downward spiral of degeneracy I've only recently been able to disentangle myself from, and to this day I struggle with pathological "old tapes", inappropriate behaviors and responses because that's what I got used to doing for so long. If you're considering polyamory-don't do it. You won't be more free or enlightened or evolved, you'll just be miserable
It's also not natural at all.
Studies and biology show and prove that human beings are meant to be monogumas.
But people have lost God in their life and just do whatever their emotions tell them to do.
I'm staying far away from those people
Far away.
Believe in Jesus Christ he died for ur sins and ull be forgivenn and the burdennand shame will go and most importantly ull gain eternal life God bless u😊✝️
If you could talk about this and your experience everyday so that people could understand. Now, it's on tv shows, and they show it like it's normal. One of the reasons why I stopped watching those shows
Thanks for sharing 🙏🏾… we need more people to speak out against it and tell their stories.
This comment could LITERALLY have been written by my wife. No joke, very similar past before she met me. Good for you getting out, after almost 6 years together, she's finally coming out of the fog. It's taken a ton of talking and work, but she's an amazing person. Keep your head up 💚❤️💙💖💜🧡💗
Dude looks like he's about to burst into tears at any moment
"If I just redefine reality, everyone will approve of my degenerate behavior!"
-LITERALLY all of them
"If you dont like whats being said, change the conversation"
That's basically the summary of Truly's entire TH-cam channel.
@@KingArthur13th considering the overarching theme of this channel is “ultimately you are the one who is responsible for yourself”, that’s not an incorrect assessment… or bad advice either
I like women who root around makes you real horny.
It’s hard to feel sorry for the guy when he doesn’t respect himself enough to stand up for how he feels.
There are other women out there, Mark, who won’t do this.
I hope so Melissa. I really do....
those are like unicorns.
@Michael Y Kwon
get off the Internet. I 'm a women and most women I know and I know plenty are normal people in good healthy relationships. They are diffently not unicorns
@@sunnyday4055 lmao how old are they? And I'm saying unicorn as it's very rare and u know that's true with statistics and experience. Don't tell me what to do lol that's what guys dont like 🙃
Imagine telling this to a woman thats being abused by a man... wow women have literally no empathy and the proof is literally the entire world
So let's get the timeline
- kind of chubby, probably shy and awkward Mark tries to ask out Krystina in high school. She rejects him.
- she chases the good looking guys
- she cheats on these higher value guys
- word gets out that she's the town bicycle, high value men want nothing to do with her
- Recently ejected from the CC Krystina runs into Mark at the bar, gets into a relationship with him knowing that she has the control of the relationship
- Proceeds to cheat on Mark
- Mark, due to lower self confidence, just takes this until wifey comes by and suggests that they become swingers. Mark accepts, likely because the fear of being alone trumped his conscience.
- Krystina creates a TikTok revolved around swinging, monetizing their lifestyle and simultaneously ensuring that Mark's name and likeness will always be attached to swinging.
Even most women would likely agree that this one is for the streets. She bases her happiness off of how much different D she gets anyway, might as well let her get it all. Until she's old and surrounded by cats, of course.
' YES' YOUR ABSOLUTEY RIGHT.
Yep, she got wind he had money and she is into being the dominant one and knew despite rejecting him he would simp for her. . Most men hate that so she found the perfect guy whom she can boss around and put up with her and she can do anything she wants. That is the ONLY reason they are still together.
Spot on.
@@timreeves7963 yeah I feel horrible for Mark. Just another dude who wanted a simple, monogamous life and got sucked into a trap by a physically attractive modern woman.
I still don't understand why cats are always mentioned for this.
Every time he tries to say anything while she's on with him she literally shuts him down and doesn't let him finish a single sentence.
Everytime Mark is on screen you can just see the soul has already left his body from his eyes.
Hes a beta
One of Buzzfeeds 'try guys' for sure
I bet she doesn't even let him watch - LOL
Beta!
Cheating is so common in marriages nowadays because people are encouraged to do whatever they want and think they’re never at fault for it.
That's why divorce rate is so high.
Because women use all the feminist clap trap and platitudes to justify their shitty behaviours. The feminist movement have a plethora of excuses for any situation.
I have 0 sympathy for men in west getting married
People😂, just say VV@m3n men, they are, BY FAR, the biggest cheaters.
@@Jojo_D_Northstar amen
She couldn't stop cheating so she convinced him to have an "open-relationship"? THIS is what you get when you have a girl with daddy issues.
She's a hypersexual malignant narcissists. The worst kind of POS you can find . She destroyed that man's soul and self steem. Itz fucking disgusting
Also when the guy has mommy issues
@Grand Inquisitor you only see this type of behavior from men raised by single women
Nah, that's not having "daddy issues". That's something else.
I had "daddy issues" because of an emotional and physical abusive father. I had trust issues and several difficulties. Never cheated.
i agreed with you until you said "girl with daddy issues' first of all don't blame her shittiness on her trauma lots of people can have poor relationships with their fathers and still be loyal in relationships, second of all (not excusing the fact that she is a bitch) how is it her fault that she has a bad father?
"He's my soul mate"
*proceeds to cheat on him 4 times and make him the bad guy for not acknowledging her hidden intentions*
'Everything can be taken from a man but one thing: the last of the human freedoms-to choose one's attitude in any given set of circumstances,
to choose one's own way.”
- Victor Frankl
My uncle (Mad Jack) used to say
''Imagine that 80% of your beauty can be wiped away with a wet-wipe tissue...''
LoL
She didn’t say sole mate…
@@JM-vp8zc Yes she does. It’s at 4 minutes and 23 seconds into the video.
@@c.nelson3148 I was punning. Sole as in only. We know she didn’t mean that. 😂
She said that while looking in the pan
"Took you long to comprehend that!" She's such a narcissist, she's annoyed with him, and blames him for not being immediately accepting about her gross insanity. Her gall is enough to make your skin crawl.
Yup
Nice rhyme
"toxic"
It's hard to garner sympathy for the guy though. The relationship started with him continuing to pursue somebody he knew wasn't interested in him and didn't respect him. She's only there because she knows he's weak and will provide for her while she's out getting railed by the dudes she's actually into. He actively pursued that, and she's not even attractive.
ONE DAY HE MAY SNAPPED.
My sister and her now ex husband were swingers. She still has no idea why her kids are so messed up. It boggles my mind.
100% my wife is a high school teacher and whenever there’s a serial case of students continuing to act out, every single time it’s from a kid with a broken home. Then that kid is messed up beyond repair and reproduces and creates other broken families. What we are witnessing is a pandemic of bad parenting
When she gets fatter than she is and he gets a prettier chick, you KNOW she is going to have serious issues with it.
The blackpilled part of me thinks this guy won’t ever achieve that. He isn’t good looking enough or in good enough shape to pull that; plus, I think he has self esteem issues because he didn’t leave this woman when she first cheated. *he has no options* basically
A true Chad wouldn’t be in this scenario because his girlfriend wouldn’t cheated, and if she did he’d leave because he has self respect and other options
@Blaster Yeah she's way better looking than him, and he is overweight!
@@SamuelHallEngland exactly hes just putting up with her because she is more attractive than he is and doesnt think he can find better. Id much rather just lower my visual standards a bit and get a girl that actually is loyal + great character
@@jackmemphis777 Yeah he seems really desperate to be with her at any cost, including making himself miserable!
@Blaster facts
I remember when adultery was a criminal offense… We’ve certainly “progressed”.
it sucks to progress backwards
Yeah, I also remember (If you're Christian) when Adultery was a sin.
@@paulandrewgonzales1241 It still is. Hopefully people like that get what they deserve in the afterlife.
Thank God in my country, if you got caught in the act, they'll bring you to the police station, i think, i could be wrong tho.
@@Jordan-he4pt based if true.
Small correction: shes not justifying her behavior
Shes legitimizing it
Too true
Poor guy, I hope he gets the strength to realize how toxic this relationship is 😔
i always appreciate the cool little lessons you give at the end of the video. I feel like i can always leave with a positive msg rather than negative
And in the middle too!
I'm always surprised with the message that comes out at the end. The video starts off with criticizing something, and then the lesson he gives us at the end is something completely different. You really never know what it will be.
@digifalc0087 what have you learned from this video as a man ?
Mark was quiet the whole time. Every time he spoke he sounded like they were in a domestic abuse relationship.
She probably beats him with a double-ended purple 0ildo like CJ did in GTA SA... 🤔😄😁
They are.
It's an emotional abuse relationship.
He's being cucked. I assume that's how people being cucked act.
Is he allowed to date other women?
Couple: *has a toxic and broken relationship that will crash and burn*
Friends and family: I disapprove.
Couple: *surprised Pikachu face*
cringe
@@streylix2389 What i wanna know is how many fans of this channel are hashtag nice-guyz.
2 months later it crashes and burns;
*super suprise pikachu*
@Mark Johansen cringe
Intruder
“She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.”
To summarize: Without self-respect and self-awareness, broken people attract broken people and stay in broken relationships.
Ain’t that the truth.
“Evil people think you’re evil” is so encouraging
This isn’t fictional. There’s no black and white
If you don't agree with them and enable their bad behavior - YOU are evil.
That is why women like her get with males like him.
Welcome to 2022 it will get worse but there time is limited
Actually, this sentiment breeds animosity and separation.
@@Jojo_D_Northstar the american left vs the american right. Somethings are indeed black and wight, but most aren't
You got my sub today! I tell people all the time that negativity is just as much a part of life as positivity so you can't just cut it out and/or ignore it
Codependency is hell of a drug, the dude doesn’t look happy his body language says it’s all
Nope but he also knows that this as best as it's ever gonna get to him. And crippling loneliness is much worse in comparison to him
@@guilhermehank4938 this is worse because he's even more alone
he looks completely broken down, like a puppy who is afraid of everything.
True...it's hard because I feel sorry for him, but it's also his fault for it getting to this point. Vampires are blood sucking creatures, but they can only come inside if you invite them. It is ultimately his decision to let her do this to him for 17 years.
he has agency and free will, yet he chooses to remain in a relationshit
Her: "We finish each other's sentences."
Him: "When you act like the village bicycle, I feel...."
Her: "So happy for you!"
😆😆
Hahahaha 😂😂😂
Bruh this women is nothing but trouble 😂😂😂
she's the only finishing all the sentences in that relationship
Absolute gold
"It was tough at first, but now I get it and I'm totally on board and I love it now." The cope from this dude is through the damn roof.
3:27 it is very nice you choose picture of a bridge from my eastern european city Bratislava.
Very beautiful
Have y'all realized they said optimistically, "This is Cristina, she fell in love with..." Then they say blandfully, "Mark." Right after. I don't think that was on purpose but I have been taught by my grandfather no less that most people in casual conversation will have a tone of voice when speaking, if they have life in their voice while talking and their tone sounds excited you know they want to talk to you and get to know you and all that fun jazz. If their tone is monotone, they either don't care or they are not really interested in the subject at hand 👌.
This was my TED Talk, thanks for reading.
Because Mark is the butt of the joke for this entire documentary This was her literally digging her heels into his neck just so she can appear taller
@@scrbroadcast I agree
@@scrbroadcast I will be open by (edit:stating) I am autistic, not in the generalized sense. I just have a hard time reading people sometimes. So when I say I have to read body movement and listen to someone's tone of voice, I mean I have to otherwise I might be completely clueless
@@AndyLeeVlogs same here, not to the same degree, but people baffle me with their bad behavior
@@scrbroadcast my recent ex was just a sociopath. She eventually and abruptly just decided not to be with me because she wouldn't move in. Here's the deal.
She has been acting more distant and I know for a fact it was because she doesn't want to be with me. She also for the last few times I called her she was telling at me and calling me names over the phone while I asked her when I could see her again. She would say stuff like, "That's childish that you want me that bad!" Keep in mind I don't even see her in person anymore so yeah. Totally understandable as to why you would cuss me out and call me a child. Fuck her. She deserves to rot in hell for treating me like that.
Anyways I'm off topic. I don't have trouble talking to others tbh. In fact I am pretty good at it so really it's just viewing people's intentions. It took me a WHILE to figure out my ex was abusing my mental health. Granted my great grandfather died on Valentine's day. So she decided to still do the shit that she was doing after the fact. She is just heartless and tries to lol you into a sense of securement by telling you, "It will be alright, everything will get better." You know just to comfort. But if she ment everything she said, she wouldn't have to leave me and would try to get her ass off her bed and get a damn job then move in. She didn't want a long term relationship. She wanted a fling without telling me so and it hurt when she was telling me all these horrible things over the phone.
In a nutshell when I watched this video and saw that bad couple dynamic it reminded me of my recent relationship. So I can relate to Mark's struggles a little.
Wokeness is an indicator of so many other problems ranging from irresponsibility, and childishness to toxicity and bad health choices (on top of the smugness).
It is the biggest red flag 🚩
It really is. And after seeing these kinds of behaviors more and more, I've noticed that my ex had a very similar mindset. It's sad, but I'm glad I know for future encounters with these women.
Of course, it's the only way for them to convince others that they're good people. AKA "Virtue Signalling"
They’re either crazy, or disingenuous.
If they actually believe that woke nonsense, crazy.
If they use wokeness to excuse their abuse of others, that’s especially evil.
That’s more like a red planet than red flag. 🤣
Since wokeness = no slut shaming, that should be very obvious as to why marrying one of these woke broads is a really bad idea
Moment of silence of another fallen comrade. I can actually feel the pain in this guy voice as he speaks
He should've left at the first red flag.
Nah I hope he self deletes from the abuse. Men that weak and lazy are what enable more woman to try this to men, so I also don't have pity for him.
A waste of male byproduct and a female creep who prays on him.
@@keonkla This. I've considered that maybe it's a good thing women are so vile these days. It will deny the weak men chances to have kids.
I can't. He's too much of a soft-spoken coward.
@@unyieldingmonotony4453 Not all weak men don't get denied the chances of having kids, they just get taken advantage of in court after she locks in that easy money. Then the kids grow up fucked up. Then you get the reality we're living in.
0:11 thousand yard stare.
The fact his eyes are always wondering or looking down he is actually really sad and only stays with her cause he doesnt know how to be alone.
That hurts
You hit the nail on the head
Yes he probably has severe attachment issues as well. Know of a couple like this. But the woman was actually passed around by a group of pedophiles as a child. She got help and is going better. But the guy is single now and still crazy.
It's probably also due to the fact that he would lose half of his income and assets if he divorced her.
He had a crush on her since they were kids. They both are damaged goods.
The audio wave comparison, pure content. Low key think Think Before You Sleep is an actual genius
It's a fair point and accurate enough, but these things can be manipulated. Listen to it again. It sounds like his voice has a slight echo while hers doesn't. It means the microphone is closer to her, so he'll be quieter no matter what. So now he has to deal with both not projecting and an essentially rigged interview.
@@dycedargselderbrother5353 I actually picked that scene for a reason; even though there were many other examples of him speaking with a super quite voice. At the end of it she smacks him on the chest and it pops his mic proving that he has a microphone on and they aren't using a boom mic. When she slaps him, you can kind of see a bulge near the I and the V of Individuality so that is likely where his mic is. Also, his shirt wrinkles there versus when he is doing his glamour shot, at the beginning of the video, that area is perfectly smooth. Krystina's mic is on the left side of her button up. It looks like it's actually lower on her body and further away than Mark's microphone.
@Watch Video she will eventually, how dare he cash in on the deal.
He is a very smart feller
@@ThinkBeforeYouSleepYT I am your fan from Serbia, and I dont know why is that important for me, but I would like for u to know and educate yourself about NATO aggression on Serbia in 1999, but idc, when I look about that theme on english, on western media the whole thing is masked and there is a lot of things that is lied about. Why is that important for me, I want to share the clear picture what are west and eu trying to do in ukraine, and I am on Russias side, when America commited aggression against countries that posed no threat for her(and also completely disregarding the international human rights law), like Serbia(did I mention, the fact that they droped 21 ton of uranium on our soil, my grandmother died from cancer, my ucle got it too, and bombarded schools and non millitary buildings, same as like Biden is pointing finger at Russia for it and, u can find it on yt, Bidens speech about how they should keep bombing Serbia, cus "that is the right thing to do"), Vietnam, Iraq, Afghanistan, Syria and so on, ...
She's the very definition of someone that......"belongs to the streets"!
she does it for free, and that is unfair competition towards prostitutes
And exactly how many women get what they deserve? Women don’t lose
Even the streets have standards.
She belongs in the damn sewer.
If your girl cheats, she belong to the skreets.
This is not love. This is selfishness and madness.
“Love don’t judge” is a content gold mine for this channel.
When I was in high school many people tried using the "I'm poly" excuse to cheat. It's pretty disgusting, I've had to protect my friends from getting into that kind of stuff.
I tried to protect my friends and he ended up blocking me. Very sad, he cut off his old friends and family for his gf. But he says he’s happy so *shrug*
Enabling bad behavior is what destroyed some of my cousin's lives. My grandma let one of her daughters drop 1 kid off at her place to stay around 20 years ago (the kid was biologically hers, but she didn't know the father). The number increased to 6. My grandma is over 60. Guess what happened to those kids? Half are in & out of jail. 2 have high body counts & have more babies in broken fatherless families.
Don't be an enabler.
The fact she said "I just couldn't stop cheating" he heard that and didn't leave her says something about the both of them
“We are soul mates; we finish each others sentences”.. from what I can see, she finishes his sentences to assure he agrees.
Ikr of course she says that when shes the only one who speaks xD
“ I started cheating so much I couldn’t stop” what the hell💀
*My strange addiction*
@@SHINR__ lol
“ mandates will end mandates”
I'm glad my country has a law against cheating. Also yeah, those 2 really need help.
bonding ability burned down to the ground
"It took so long for him to comprehend" is what she says.
"It took so long to manipulate and brainwash him" is what she thinks
Exactly and Mark is a b.e.ta
34 years ago I married a 27 year old virgin.
I treat this woman with the love and respect she deserves.
You can’t call yourself good unless you stand up to bad people. That was deep!!(had edit thanks 👮🏾♂️)
Yeah that’s not how life works. Women are never on the receiving end of karma
@@Jojo_D_Northstar don’t worry it’s starting to happen now…..takes time
"You can't..."
Fixed it for you, Bro.
It is a fact of life. If you stand up for what is good, you are going to be persecuted for it. Evil does not like to be "called out."
Maybe, but this is also the greatest justification for evil. One must be very careful when standing up to "bad" people that they are not actually the bad person.
* can't
The problem with open relationships, is that they are not relationships.
If you have to compete, then you shouldn’t need to pay.
This lady: “I am okay with this dude paying for everything as long as I get to sleep with everything”
Loyalty just isn't a thing anymore. I don't even think I can watch this, reading this makes my blood boil.
@@tarektechmarine8209 yeah I'm out too. I made it 15 mins in - you're not missing anything you didn't get in the first few mins.
Women that are married realise getting laid has never been easier with the amount of simps so they want to open relationships to have their cake and eat it too
@@Jojo_D_Northstar cuz men allow it and women at large starve men out
@@Jojo_D_Northstar booyah. Nailed it
"I want an open relationship' ... "I have already cheated or want to cheat but don't want to deal with the ramifications'.
I don’t even feel bad for him. It’s his fault for being so spineless
He was conditioned from young.
@@reality-always-wins.9014 she too. Nice nobody is at fault now
@@Campocosas She not conditioned she just exposing the female nature.
He would rather get cyucked than be alone. Simps and cyucks are the lowest form of life, they deserve ire and ridicule. Its the only way it will ever stop. Shame only works on men.
@@pokeman5000 you are Just increasing male sui /redacted / cide. Most
Woman Will still only date top 20% of males.
She has the grammar and tone of almost every narcissistic woman on TH-cam and TikTok, it’s like nails to a chalkboard
Cringe!!
Masculine energy and pron looks.
The dude also looks genuinely depressed.
@@jimdavis8391*Loose puccy energy
@jimdavis8391 masculine?
Since when being a beach became masculine?
No one should tolerate this behavior. When I was a teenager my girlfriend cheated on me and I thought I was doing the right thing to forgive her. A year or so later I found out that she cheated a whole lot more. Just break it off immediately. Don't get mad or fight with them. That's the healthiest response.
The right thing is to forgive her for your on mental health. But that doesn’t me the healthy thing to do is to stay with a cheater.
You were right to break up AND forgive.
@@sarahblack4864lmao woman moment, there's no excuse for cheating, Karen
@@sarahblack4864@ "Sarah" explains y0ur comment
Correct
“Monogamy’s not natural to me”
That’s because she belongs to the streets
Maybe I'm just hoping this is the case, but Mark seems like a cognitively impaired man who has been manipulated into servitude.
If he was twice his age I'd describe their interactions as elder abuse.
For him to not have the strength and self respect to break things off initially is kinda heartbreaking.
I can see that.
She broke him down until he gave in. He told her he wasn't happy with her sleeping with others and she didnt care. Just kept pushing it onto him until he couldn't fight anymore
Yeah he looks a little like Sloth from The Goonies, I think he's a mental
He doesn't seem cognitively impaired to me. Just conflicted.
He seems like he's TRYING to believe what he's saying. Like listen to the way he talks. It's now dumb, it's depressed. The dude clearly doesn't ACTUALLY enjoy it.
Don’t feel bad for a career simp like him. I’m sure his boys, family, maybe even strangers have been telling him from the start she was bad news and he just wrote them off as “jealous” or “hating”…..I’ve heard this story too many times. Now look at him
Mark was raised by a single mom. This epidemic is out of control. Single mothers raise men like this or an inmate(80% of US inmates are from single mother households). Feminism is working so well.
At this point I say let them have their way and watch the crash and burn. Perhaps then they'd learn from their mistakes but they'd probably just blame anyone who's not then
@@TheScarletSlayer Just avoid them and live life.
You can still be a “ feminist” and have a normal life.. I don’t like single mother’s being grouped in with feminism. If you’re a single mother, then you’re just showing how you don’t care about your child having a healthy environment. You can still fight for not having men in women’s sports, men in women’s bathrooms, men claiming they can become pregnant, men taking away Mother’s Day, etc.. If men would just let women have their own identities, we wouldn’t need feminism. Women get paid just as much as men, women can vote, women are not discriminated against anymore unless it’s a man trying to take a woman’s identity. So men, stop thinking it’s possible to be a woman and we won’t have this issue.
@@Ninnjette- alot of women had sex and got pregnant from an undersirable man, like thugs and drug dealers. they went single mother to avoid their husbands or boyfriends influencing their children and turning them into hard criminals as well. statistically sure it fails but...
@@genericscout5408 Yeah, Absolutely that happens. I also know a few single mother’s that just wanted to cheat. They were with a good man in a good relationship, they cheated they messed it up. I don’t know everybody has their own reasons. I’ve been married for 11 years we have an eight-year-old son together, has it been perfect? F**k No lol but we always work out our differences, because we want to stay married and because a two parent household is the best for our son. Now if our disagreements were done in front of him, I would think my son would be better off in a single parent household. But if the married couple can keep their shit together, it’s best for the child. I just think women and I am a woman, should choose better partners before they have kids with them.
Remember lads:
A lot of today's modern lasses have stated that you are trash. They have also stated that you are oppressive, and you hold them down.
Lads, show your respect for today's modern lasses by NOT approaching them. Give them the space and freedom to be the best that they can be.
And for you, today's modern lass: Don't ever regret telling lads that they are trash and that they are all bad. Prove to the world that you can stand on your own, without needing any help from them.
Some wise words sir, I shall keep them in mind.
That will never happen, they outlive men so they have the majority of the vote and they vote for tax dollars to be spent on them which men contribute the lions share of.
@@ian9toes the only way to offset having to pay taxes for food stamps to feed Tyrone's and Chad's bastards is to invest in catfood, box wine, and sex toy stocks.
@@dubbcee1000 food, pharma, and funeral service stocks. 😊
In the Heat of Hypergamy yes but when all options have been "Drain" Dried, the Help Needed sign will be posted.
Can you imagine working your ass off 9-5, paying bills, possibly raising children and then having to live with something like this?
"You cannot call yourself good unless you stand up to bad people."
Maybe so, but be careful. Evil typically believes itself to be good and tells itself this exact same thing.
I found this channel 4 days ago, and I feel I'm listening to a wise big brother especially at the end of each video.
Thanks for this bro!
He’s got some great stuff! welcome.
Do yourself a favor and watch every single video of his.
I can't even begin to comprehend how you can think cheating and secure can be a part of the same relationship...
Women don’t need to think twice, whatever they want gets normalised and offered on a platter
@@Jojo_D_Northstar Its a real shame that even that is normalized that women get what they want and all they have to do is complain. And that sounds as though I'm making it a general statement, but its only directed towards those who fit the bill. Because I know some women who stand up for themselves and make a change in themselves when necessary. Its just sad that the louder you are the more attention you get. Its too noisy these days...
Swinging has always been a thing. He gets to bang other chicks too
"Secure" has just become another generic buzzword to insult anyone who disagrees with you to try guilt them into agreeing
@@Jedimack7 yep, it’s a horrible arrangement, they’re not a good match at all. They want totally different things.
But at least he’s banging away and making her upset.
Toxic I know. But small victories.
"Thank you, I appreciate your service." 😂😂😂😂 I love your commentary. And seriously the whole time I was thinking, thank the Lord they don't have kids!
"Struggled with monogamy my whole life..."
Translation: I'm a tramp and I've always enjoyed it.
Honesly ? If she was like that but didn't fucking trick this dude it would be perfectly fine, like if he knew this when they started dating and was ok with it. But the trickery she goes trough is disgusting.
I like how she says that "they" were swingers; she's doing all the ufcking and he's sitting at hone lying to himself...
I like how you deliver a joke in the same way you deliver every other sentence you say
Yes. My acting ability is unmatched.
Sandman all over.
He kinda has the same voice as CZsworld.
Maybe it's him,who knows?That would be cool actually
She definitely is a strong contender for a cluster B personality disorder. He is her supply source and is completely broken by her abuse.
Great observations
Perfect timing, literally just before I went to sleep. Thanks for the great content TBYS!
Same
I know 3 dudes who were swingers and married. All 3 are divorced. 1 of each couple wanted to stop and be faithful. The other person couldn't stop and chose divorce.
All 3 of the couples say, they wish they never were swingers, it ruined the family. They all have kids too.
Same. I was in the Navy, it's not uncommon. You're away so much I understand why a couple might do it but it ends bad every time, just extends the problem. Reasons I stopped trying to date while going to sea 10 months a year lol
@@canadianeh4792That's no excuse. I'm married and I haven't had sex for more than 3 years now.
Destroying the family unit is the main way to destroy a nation
Damn
It's just nasty. Full stop. It makes a mockery of marriage.
Gotta love the 12:30am upload. Right on time for me and my crap sleep schedule.
She doesn't want monogamy, but wants a committed relationship. The disconnect is absurd. The big problem is the simp enabler.
I love how she cuts him off and talks over him every time he tries to say anything
Even the body language shows that she’s wearing the pants
It's called "finishing each other's sentences." XD
""""WE""""" 🤦♂decided to explore outside relationships
I can 100% confirm the things that you have said. I'm a childhood trauma survivor. I was held at gunpoint, held at knifepoint, escaped an attempted kidnapping, and sexually assaulted and harassed. This was all during primary school.
All through middle school and most of high school, I was in toxic relationships. In middle school, my "BFF" sent me a several-page long letter. It was all the extremely graphic details of how she was going to self-delete. In the letter, she told me it was my fault for not letting her come over on Thanksgiving because I told her it was family time. I had a total of 4 "close" friends do this to me. I was in a 2 year-long abusive relationship with a narcissist. I was a people pleaser.
Suicidal thoughts, eating disorders, sexual behavior, and chronic illnesses. I had them all.
Since then I've been in therapy for almost 5 years. I still go to 3 different therapists so we can work on specific things. Also so I can work through these issues quicker.
I was able to start college before I graduated from high school. I was able to make a life plan with my therapist. Instead of spending a bunch of money on a degree, I got my graphic design certificate. It still gives me almost the same qualifications since the field is more opinion-driven. I wanted a way I could passively make money. This will let me have income and contribute to my future marriage while still allowing me to be more focused on kids and making a house a home.
I have ADHD so I'm extremely bad at organizing. So I'm going to executive function therapy. Through this, I decided to start my own business. I use art as therapy and can draw almost photo-realistic. So now, I design stickers for organizing, planners, notebooks, and much more. I know what homeschool moms look for so I started designing educational stuff as well.
I want to get married young and have kids. I want to homeschool them. The only problem is I have learning disabilities. So I have worked on overcoming them. I have had to take English 111 three times but I wanted to overcome my dyslexia. I know that my brain is permanently going to struggle but I can learn to minimize it.
I started learning how to cook, meal prep, etc. I struggle with binge ED so I wanted to overcome this. This is very important to me since I want my future kids to see me as a healthy example.
I love listening to videos about health and personal training. I enjoy working out but I struggle with motivation. So I decided to try to get a job teaching Barre classes since I used to be a dancer.
I just found this channel and you are right.
As another woman who went through childhood sexual and emotional trauma, I feel you love ❤️ I’m now married to my highschool sweetheart, we’ve been married almost 6 years, and we have two sons and a daughter on the way, 3 kiddos in 5 years, such a blessing. We are financially independent and happy, and are both turning 24 this year. It’s taken years of therapy for me, almost a decade now, to overcome all the dysfunctional ripple effects of what happened in my early life. My husband had some serious childhood trauma as well and has also gone to therapy the past 2-3 years. Overcoming these horrific past abuses IS POSSIBLE, and I’m so proud of you for not succumbing to vice and accepting mediocrity from yourself. You’ve got this!!! Praying so much for you.
As you probably already know, the scars never go away, but it is possible to live despite them. The difficulty is in letting go of the past to live in the present, rejecting delusion to live in reality. It sounds like you are making great progress, and the more effort you put into it, the closer you will get to your goal(s). Focus on being the best person you can be, and learn to recognize other good people when you meet them. A person's behavior is shaped by his or her companions, so take care whom you choose to be your companions. You do not have to be perfect, you simply have to refuse to stop improving. You go, girl!
It's so good to hear you're working on being a better version of yourself! I also struggle with motivation from time to time but this quote really stuck with me:
"Action comes first, motivation comes after."
It's also important not to be too hard on yourself. When I first decided I want to get better I put too many tasks on myself. Too many things I wanted to learn, too many exercises, too many goals I wanted to achieve.. I felt like I needed to do it all more in order to keep up with all the years I haven't been doing it.. this is difficult to keep up with and likely will lead to burn outs. I'd be super productive for a few months and then the complete opposite for just as long. This may not be something you might struggle with but if you do, try to keep things balanced. Don't overwork yourself, you're doing good.
I wish you all the best!
But why didn't you let her come? "Family time" some people don't have stable and healthy families, so they rely on their friends and see them as family. It was a little selfish of you to not invite her. I come from a broken home too and whenever I had the chance to be with friends I'd take it.
I admire your determination ❤ I'm so sorry to hear about your abuse as a child and I'm glad that you were dedicated to seek help, all the best
Your a very crictical analyst with this information, ive been compelled to dive deeper into things thanks to you
"We don't allow toxicity in our life"
I guess not, she's toxic enough for all of our relationships
“The devil makes work for idle hands” I loved to learn the english version of this saying.. the brazilian version goes like “an empty head is the devil’s workshop”
"Idle hands are the devil's workshop" is a much more common phrasing of this idiom.
"Idle hands are the devils playthings" is the version ive always heard
"The devil will find work for idle hands to do, I stole and then I lied and why, because you asked me to. And now you make me feel so ashamed because I've only got two hands, but I'm still fond of you...oh ho ho" ~The Smiths
An empty head is the devils workshop. I will remember that quote.
“Idle hands do the devil’s work” that’s the saying I always heard growing up. I always wondered where this saying came from.
“Hard for him to accept that I only wanted him and to be with him and other men”- with her massive use of oxymoron and irony she should become a writer!
And she made sure to pronounce men instead of man
😂😂😂 word salad
Imagine being a woman so unwanted and irrational that you have to force your husband to feel less than nothing.