I know a guy who had to reread the 3 step instructions on how to prepare a powdered cup of soup 3 times out-loud after I'd already explained that "..You just add hot water." and also after reading it out to him already. He also takes things like hot chocolate far too seriously when the box says "Just add milk!" and he talks about it like you *have* to add milk or it basically becomes poison if you used anything else. He was amazed by when I once said I sometimes put a bit of hot chocolate in my coffees, like I'd invented the wheel or something. Yeah it's called a mocha, you've ordered one at a coffee shop before, it's the same thing and I was there... How do these people stay alive?
My mom passed away suddenly when I was 13. My dad decided to take care of us 4 kids 12,13,14 and 15. My dad became a Mr. Mom. He was on disability due to a job accident the year before. He was already a stay-at-home parent - so he learned how to cook at age 49. The 3 girls did the cleaning and my brother did the yard, translating and helped my dad with the groceries. It was not easy for him but he owned his new role as a single dad. He remarried when we moved out. I am eternally grateful for what he did for us. ❤ Thanks Dad! You are forever loved!
The fact you all stepped up instead of leaving him to flounder is also a great thing. I'm sorry for your loss at such a young age, but I'm glad that your family was able to stand together and make it work.
That's great. It's sad that you and your brother and sister lose your mother so young, but I think you made the best of the situation. When I don't have faith in people, I should remember that stories like this happen too.
@@Cherry_Zabix I never knew this either but god dam I remember my mom had old books about pregnancy and taking care of toddlers and these women got the internet but are doing terrible
My dad was a single parent. I was 10 when the divorce happened. I remember at first we only ate fast food because he didn't know how to cook. Years later he told me that he felt bad at the time that he couldn't do one of the core parents duties, cook for the family. So he started cooking. I remember it vividly. The burnt rice, overcooked mushy veggies that tasted like mud, dry meats and hard pastas🤣🤣 But over the years he gradually gotten better. I remember those nights in the summer of '13 when he tried to bake chicken in the oven with cast iron. Me and my sisters called it the "watery chicken special" I felt bad looking back when I said that to him. But he laughed and took it in stride and tried even harder. Now he is one of the best cooks I know and I aspire to be even half as good as him one day. Love you Dad!
My parents separated when I was 15, all we would eat was pasta and frozen pizza. I totally understand the struggle lol My dad did cook good breakfast lol
This is what I'm dealing with right now. Wifey hit me with the "I'm not happy", so now I have two toddlers I have to care for by myself. Trying to learn how to make things they'll actually eat.
I have to say that I was lucky. I had an incredible wife for 18 years. She was beautiful, kept the house, loving, supportive, and a great cook. I could go to the kitchen, look at everything, and think we needed to go to the store. She could walk in there right after me and 30 to 45 minutes later hand me a plate full of really good food. She died suddenly 3 1/2 years ago and I have been alone ever since. I really do miss her. I don't think I will ever be that lucky again.
It's the laziest crap one can cook. You can't even call it cooking. But to even fail on that is beyond pathetic. It's written on the damn box how long you have to boil the pasta! These people are insane.
I don’t understand why more mother’s dont want to cook for their kids. I feel like cooking nutritious meals for your family is such an expression of love.
I'm a guy and even I would love to cook for family, cause both my dad and mom enjoy cooking (though they do argue about how to cook so never have them cook together you're asking for a fight)
@@islami658 A Father trying to raise his child to be a success in life is defined as "toxic masculinity" by the American Psychological Association. Isaiah was right - Zion is gonna burn. 🔥 😥
That’s how I feel about it, and how my mother saw it too! I remember her making dinner just about every night and appreciated all of them, knowing that she loved us enough to create meals and keep us happy and fed. I also found out that she used to make our baby food from scratch by puréeing all of the vegetables and fruit and whatnot, that made me look at her like a superhero for a long time haha. I want to be that for my kids if I have any!
Both of my parents always stressed was how disgusting and unhealthy fast food is. It was genuinely one of the single greatest parenting decisions they did, I've met full grown adults who say things like "EW water? It doesn't even have flavor. I only drink juice and soda" or are grossed out by things like quinoa, rice or seeds like pumpkin, chia or sesame because they "lack flavor". A lot of people I've known treat weight gain like some sort of inevitability and not an outcome of poor diet, habits, and impulse control.
Absolutely. Fast food plagues society, and since eating with others is a way of socializing it sucked for me not to be able to eat fast food with other kids. I may have hated my parents for that when I was little, but I'm eternally grateful to them now.
@@varunsodhani6812I've heard tons of people say that they don't like to drink plain water. Makes no sense to me. Water is thirst quenching. It washes away other flavors. When you flavor it with stuff (like these people do who can't just drink plain water) you constantly have flavor in your mouth and it doesn't feel thirst-quenching. I don't understand it.
Me too, but lazy creative people search for the fastest and easiest way to do it for once: pour all your flavor ingredients with egg and milk, stir, non-stick pan shove and flip, then salad. End.
@@kaputasri of course is different when you are cooking for your adult family than children, you can cook easy, tasty and healthy without too much hassle. I prefer eating good even if the looks are bad, my dad cooks with a lot of ingredients and makes it look like Ramsey Gordon but don't taste so good most of the time
@@fatimazarza7365 you can feed kids healthy food without much hassle, buddy... My mom always made mac and cheese or Pan-cooked salmon with boiled potatoes or beans. She also made smoothies or lemonade or orange juice . We loved it and it is super healthy , it literally takes just 15 minutes to have it done . People have just become lazy af
They've seen far too many men succumb to this, after spending years or even decades being treated horribly, and no young man wants to follow this path. I don't even see a point in marriage anymore, it's not an unbreakable oath before God anymore, and you don't need a marriage to just be in a relationship with someone, a marriage is now nothing but a financial drain and a future Damocles sword over your head for the rest of your life.
@@dwight3555: I agree, however our society has certain legal benefits to marriage, such as home ownership, financial and having children. But the risk to men in a divorce is real and is a leading factor of family wealth distribution. Add to this the fact that family courts are biased toward women, any wonder that men have second thoughts. If you haven’t done so, take a few hours and watch some documentaries on the history of marriage, very eye opening.
@@budapestmole I haven't watched documentaries on the history of marriage, though I've seen a lot about current marriages. If you have any good links to share, do not hesitate
@@chrismoore1372 Vegan or vegetarian food can be very healthy and tasty if done properly. I was raised vegetarian and that aspect of diet was passed on culturally from my ancestors for millennia. Our cuisine is centred around it as well.
just think if the state/government would take all the kids that are at risk, most single mothers will go childless, there will be more kids in government facilities than dogs in rescue shelters!
The second I saw that soda in a sippie cup, my first thought was take their kids away. My neglectful mother did the same to me and I needed 7 root canals before I was 5. Most agonizing thing in my life. I have a lifelong phobia of dentists and really all medical professionals now because of it.
As a dentist I can clearly understand what you have been through. Whenever I have a child at my practice I hold their parents accountable with no filters even though I have no kids of my own. Some don't like it cause I openly call them bad parents but these so-called grown people should know it.
@@darshanashetty3467I've always taken good care of my teeth & I don't eat/drink much added sugar,I've only had 3 cavities so far & I'm in my early 30's...Lifestyle makes a big difference😁🪥.Also dentists are awesome,they help us when we need care & help us avoid serious problems too🌞👍👍.
@@darshanashetty3467 good for you. I only had one doctor in my life (now that I have had many) who used to tell the patients off. She was the only doctor worth the name imo.
@@darshanashetty3467 exactly! Having heard stories of my grandpa, growing up in rural Kazakhstan and getting a tooth pulled without painkillers, makes me be very grateful for modern medicine in general, and good dentists especially 👍
My mother raised 6 children and cooked in an exquisite way, making bread, soup, stews and in December towards the traditional Hallas, just making the stew takes one or two days and requires large amounts of meat, vegetables, eggs, potatoes, raisins, all cooked in a 4 or 5 gallon pot, on one occasion she made more than 180 Hallas with the help of the whole family, we ate them all the month of December, 3 years ago her health no longer allowed her to make the stew and sadly my sisters they did not inherit his talent.
My mom and dad work most of the time so it’s just me and my younger siblings and I’m the one usually cooking the meals except on the weekends since my parents don’t work on those days, but let me tell you, it’s the most rewarding feeling being able to cook a decent meal for your siblings.
2:38 I love this, and this is why I watch your videos. You don’t refrain from generalizations because “not all” or “harmful stereotypes.” You refrain from certain generalizations because they are “statistically unlikely.” Your videos are unburdened by anything but verifiable truth, as all analyses should be. It’s rare but awesome.
My dad raised 3 little girls and learned to cook real fast after my mom dipped out on us. He's a great cook and he almost always cooked a hot meal after working all day. I love and my respect my dad SO much for all he went through.
My dad raised me by himself too and still cleaned and cooked, he did both and I was able to learn some good meals and I've learned even more since he showed me good ingredients
That is one thing I never understood. Why is having the ability to feed yourself a feminine trait? Most short order cooks and chefs are men too. You can add cleaning to that too, just because I'm a man doesn't mean I don't like cleaning my place. I feel accomplished after it.
My pops is a single dad and a chef works 2 jobs to live where he's at and he's had 4 boys. I'll tell u what we can cook and I love my dad so much cus no matter how busy he was he would always have time to teach us his 2nd love...and that was cooking.
I like how the doctor has to explain to the mom that she’s essentially killing them with all the fast food. Was she... unaware that fast food was unhealthy..? That should be common sense like wtf am I watching
Blame for some woman don't want to learning basic of cooking they are whining because someone say woman belongs to kitchen its different perspective who belongs in the kitchen for me is man my mother told me to learn some basic cooking I interesting about problem in american society To much idealist people who don't think rationally Or this is fail concept about freedom or equality? Can you share your answer?
@@jrt2792 absolutely can I discuss maybe first world or second world country fast food is cheap compared to buy ingredients for cooking or to busy from their own bussines when third world country fast food or junk food is quite expensive for food while I live in third world country spend 1 dollar you can find a lot of food have good nutrients except for hygiene lol
This is why Asian parents exist... (I am South Asian myself and any lip would get ‘The Death Pinch’ or ‘The Sandal’) It’s only when you grow up, you realize they did it because they loved you
Actually as a 15 year old girl, I love the role of a housewife. In my view this role carries so much power. My mother, a housewife, is the most respectable person in my life. She taught me everything I need in life like cooking, housework, helped me with homework, formed my character and my interests. All these skills to make me independent. The one who is raising the kids has the power with no doubt, you teach them how to act and their values in life. They form the new generation, the most important and powerful role. Being a mother comes with great responsibility and respect. I truly believe that this role is the best you can have and I would never want to sacrifice this incredible power and status. Even in my friend group I am sort of their mother and I am the person who is most respected with no doubt. More than anyone even surprise surprise than men. I hate the things this feminist movement and the fat acceptance movement has done to our society. Of course, feminism isn't bad in itself, it's a great thing but in my oppinion it has turned way to extreme and just wrong. You can already see the damages it causes, especially with children.
Just because that’s what you want for your life doesn’t make feminism bad.. you’re very lost but hopefully you’ll grow up one day and see it’s ok for people not to want the same
@@Marz859I'm not really lost and if you could read that would make things much easier. Please don't just randomly interpret shit into my sentences. As I said "feminism isn't bad in itself, it's a great thing but in my opinion it has turned way to extreme", and that's literally quoted. In my comment I talked about how much I appreciate that role and how I can not understand why anybody (especially feminists) degrade that role into something for less capable and mabye even valuable people. I don't care if it's the man or the women that is taking care of the children but someone NEEDS to be there, please tell me where I said that this should be a women's job, I just said it needs to be done and in many cases it would be more logical to let the women do it. Sadly in today's society either both parents need to work or the women would want to choose to work even if it's a lower paying job and the partner is capable of working because of todays feminism, they would feel oppressed, which I don't f*ing understand. It's ok for people to not want the same, I truly understand, parenting is not for everyone and again tell me where I said something else but then don't get a child in the first place if you can't provide for it properly.
@@angi6363 Women nowadays have a lot placed on their shoulders and many of them simply don't know how to handle it or reason with it(to be fair I really do feel bad for Gen Z straight women), so many girls I've met are completely lost emotionally and spiritually as to what they want to do in life or what their place in the world is. Good to see someone my age can see the writing on the wall and is appearing to tackle it in a healthy way. God bless.
Good for you- you've managed to beat the overpowering weight of society and be yourself. I hate how activism has molded society into a limp spaghetti noodle that disrespects the traditional role some women choose to embrace. The fact that people can still recognize that gives me a lot of hope. The person I respect the most in the world is my own mother, who's a housewife herself. Respect, you're pulling W's
@@Walking-MY-Path Not sure if I made myself clear. What I ment is: Even through I like fast food, I would never eat it that often. I can enjoy it like 1-2 times a week.
@@TheHighborn And unlike that white privilege I have but can't tell what it does, I'm making sure to raise my children with non-dumbfuck parent privilege.
@@stevenharris2230 I've seen kids with crap parents grow up and make something of themselves. It's hard on them though, they're constantly one bad month away from becoming like their parents.
I’m astounded by the fact that her making box pasta and jarred sauce is hard, that’s her putting in a lot of effort. Times like these, and I’m glad that I was raised by my grandmother who was raised by her mother as a proper housewife even though I do work, I still know how to take care of a home.
She can't even use a tin of chopped tomatoes and some mixed herbs ??? Jar pasta sauce is peak laziness - my 2 ingredient tinned tomatoes and herbs is far cheaper and healthier.
@@jellybean4046It might just be where I live. But our canned pasta Is acctualy reasonable ( well It Is not canned but comes pre-made ) like, you still need to temper It but I grew up with bolonhesa sauce made with pre-made pasta and It didnt taste bad.
Also: if you, as a woman, want to be be "independent", WHY would you not know how to cook? Who tf is gonna feed you again?? Both women AND men should know how to cook to feed themselves when single, if nothing else.
Also she is basically paying extra money to damage her children. She would be cheaper off cooking the cheapest rice, potatos or beans and still have a lot of time for her social media addiction. I am a lazy mofo myself, but I cook ym own stuff, man. I love it. Wtf is she doing all the time? Holy mother Mchree....
I've also noticed this, when I was young, most of the time me and my sister didn't like my mom's cooking, but when we went to my grandmother's, we were enjoying the meals even if there was vegatables which we didn't like. As we grew up my mom understood this and started putting alot more work into becoming a great cook and since then she had no problem.
I’m a chef and I grew up with an Italian immigrant father who is an excellent cook and made food 6 nights a week for us. This is such a stark contrast to what I’ve known
My dad is an Argentinian immigrant with a lot of Italian heritage and my mom is Italian American, both great cooks, so I grew up eating good Italian food, but my parents shared the cooking somewhat equally and both had very flexible jobs, so I don’t think it always needs to follow the structure of one provider and one homemaker. However, I do think situations where both parents work 9-5s aren’t a result of empowerment but of a bad economic situation and a culture that values career over family.
@@reidbishop7965 yeah when its really just once person caring for a house of 2 or 3 coming home at 8pm fast food is really all you can do most of the time especially in you include all the tasks and responsibilitys outside of work
All those traditional woman skills you talked about (sewing, cooking, cleaning, etc) are skills I learned as a child because they are useful skills to have. I have met ONE woman who also has all those skills that wasn't a grandmother.
Because they were raised to worship money (thanks to boomer Mcmansion lifestyle). Why learn to fix anything when you can just order a new one online and toss out the previous one? Why learn to cook if you demand your man make enough to eat out every day and order in when feeling lazy? The modern woman values Looks, Money, Status in that order and thats it. If you're not aces in all three she will do whatever she can to extract the one that you have before "leveling up". Marriage rates are at an all time low in history because men have seen their fathers, friends, and peers get absolutely eviscerated in family court. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
I'm a 33 woman and I can cook, sew, and even do car maintenance myself, I only met a few other women who can sew, I can take my sewing machine apart to clean it out and assemble it again and it works still lol If I was a man I would be so put off from dating any single mothers as they are looking for a replacement dad
@@Lulu-ut9pv yes if I was a guy and single I don't want a single mom especially who doesn't know how to cook. Im 37 and can do all that shit and my husband thanks me for keeping up traditional values. I enjoy doing them besides my art career.
If my kids don't finish their meal because "they're full", I don't tell them to throw it out. I'll leave it on the kitchen counter. Without fail, in 15 minutes they are asking for something to eat. I'll point to their dinner and let them know they can still finish it.
The reason's simple - The juice ain't worth the squeeze. And to be honest, the older I get and the worse the culture gets as far as churning out marriageable women, even if the laws weren't crap, by the time I'm financially ready to be married, I'll be left with less than no good options...
I cooked my boyfriend a pot roast for dinner last night and it blew his mind. He told me that no woman had ever cooked like that for him before. It’s so pathetic and I’m embarrassed for other women.
@No No There are women out there that are traditional, you just have to find them in the right places (not in nightclubs). I'm thankful that i was raised by my grandmother who had traditional beliefs and taught me all of her skills growing up. I'm now 28 years old, i cook every meal homemade, i raise my own chickens and grow my own vegetables. I'm so proud that i built a homestead for our family and my husband is so grateful, as i am of him.
I'm a single dad of 2 kids. I work 8 hours a day as an engineer and I raise my 2 kids by myself. My kids don't even get cold breakfast once a week. I cook for them every morning and almost every night. We may eat leftovers, I might order pizza once in a while, but I can't even remember the last time we had fast food. It really isn't hard.
You’re doing a great job at that! I always appreciate when my mom just makes me breakfast or dinner because it does show that i matter to her a lot and i bet your kids are happy to have a father like you
@@Bonesawisready926 wydm by that? I know that i did not mention a lot but my mom is my only parent, she does so much for me than any other step-father had ever done. Maybe don’t judge someone you don’t know when you don’t know the full story?
well done, if u were a women, u would bitch endlessly how it's the patriarchy's fault and those are unreal expectations :D tbh, women have it 2 ez these days. imagine being a stay home wife, but without a washing machine and running water, raising not 3 but 6-9 kids. this was the normal for most f human history and no one complained.
Wtf is so difficult to cook pasta? 1)Boil water 2)Add salt 3)throw pasta 4)Wait the time indicated in the packet of pasta 5)Drain water 6)Buon appetito!
Easier to order takeaway, spend your time doing fucking whatever and destroy your children's health apparently 🤷♂️ fucking despicable "you are what you east" just how hard is it to follow such an easy, yet true saying
6:15,the other lady telling her that the current food habit will probably lead to diseases in the future our lady be like:don't worry, i left the current problems to my future self edit : forgot to add "while laughing"
When I was a teenage boy I cooked dinner for my family every week night. Both my parents worked so my mom would leave out the ingredients and the recipe and I would come home from school, watch Gillians island and then cook dinner. I loved doing it and now as an adult I know how to cook delicious food for myself and save tons of money. Thanks Mom!
I was raised by a super feminist single mom who used to tell me, “your first marriage should be for money, your second marriage can be for love.” That’s very damaging to a young girl. I totally bought into the “I don’t need no man” mindframe. Somehow, and I feel SO lucky, but I’m now married and a stay at home mother to 3 kids. But in the beginning of the marriage, I struggled with all the home maker things because I was NEVER taught how to take care of a family. I was taught that woman shouldn’t have to take care of their families any more. I struggled to learn to cook. I had a terrible time keeping the house really clean/tidy, especially with young kids around. But after some work and research and practice (and a lot of cooking TH-cam videos 😂) I’m much much better. But I WISH i has learned these things when I was younger. I feel cheated. Getting to stay home and raise kids is literally the best thing that could have and has happened to me (and I didn’t even want kids back then) But I feel so privileged to have that life now. My husband takes care of us financially and the only chore I ask him to do is take out the garbage on his way out the door. My youngest is a very picky eater but I’ve noticed that he really likes it when I let him help me cook. So I let him help when he wants eggs, or when he wants pizza, we make it homemade and he gets to help. He likes it more if he has a hand in cooking it.
Damn, the "your first marriage should be for money" advice is so immoral because it implies that you should start a marriage already with the intent of divorce. Good on you for realizing how destructive the feminist mindset is. Feminists will end up miserable and alone, pity them and keep honoring the great family life you've helped build. Cheers.
We need more ladies like you. Respectful and grateful. I want to be a father and I hope if I ever meet someone they are like you. Your kids will be grateful for a great mother they had.
@@AHess007 awww that’s so sweet. Thank you. If you do meet someone nice, remember they won’t be perfect right away. But if she’s willing to learn and grow with you, that’s the best companion.
my mother used to work as a kindergarten teacher. There were girls in her groups that were literally just three or four years old and already growing breasts because of all the hormones their parents fed them via the processed meat. They were basically going through puberty 10 years too early, I don´t even want to imagine what effect that must have on the body.
My dad experienced poverty and scarcity in his youth. When as a kid I complained that I was hungry, he would jokingly say "It's okay, you can go a day without eating and be fine".
I taught myself to cook... If I can do it, so can women. They're just being lazy. I even raised my son, as a single parent, to cook and clean for himself. His mother couldn't and never tried to learn.
I'm a female in my 20's. I cook, clean, and sew while also holding a full time job as a mechanic. I also take on vehicle maintenance at home. It was a little comical for my neighbor when she came out one night and my husband was holding up a light for me to see while I replaced his alternator in the driveway. Husband works too and keeps up the lawn, I hate doing lawn work.
Theory: she's purposely cooking badly so when nobody likes it, she can justify not cooking next time. Bit like doing a bad job of cleaning so nobody asks you to do it again.
My sister does that alot , at least sometimes i Think that. Other times i remember how she asked about how to get icecubes out of the tray and i told her to run hot water other it. After one Minute she came and said it didnt work. Of course she was running the hot water from above like you would do when are filling the tray and didnt turn it over .
That's actually very good. Not only is rice very healthy, the *rice water* as well ! Chinese people use the water for skin and hair, as an example Yao women have the longest hair in the world because of rice water and their hair is grey-less till they are 70-80 years old.
I always thought marriage was a partnership, not a competition. When I left home I was faced with two choices; learn to cook, or starve. Learning to cook seemed the better option.
The harsh reality is marriage is about duty and responsibility, not love. Sadly many women today aren't agrreeable and cooperative, they have the strong and independant menatality. Stong and independant from what? Men?
when in court it becomes exactly it a competition of who gets to have the most of everyone's stuff and it is usually the woman who gets the biggest piece.
@@Internetguy_L337_90D Yes the justice system is one sided there is no doubt about that. In addition to the welfare system. My hope is that people begin to understand that the direction we are headed is already proving to have dire implications.
Cooking is a skill that everyone must know when they reach adulthood, regardless if you're a woman or a man. If you don't know how to cook or despise cooking, then you probably shouldn't be married and have kids?
@@michawkwalter4205 even still just because you can afford now doesn't mean always since shit happens. So it would still be good to cook once a week or so to keep the skill just incase shit goes south...
8:16: Ohhhh, that was a Hashtag-Nice-Guy-Moment! Anyone else spotted that? That Statement there, i know it well: I know it from Nice-Guy-Videos and Neckbeard-Videos.
We had Home Ec and Shop classes in junior high. For one quarter, girls had to attend shop class (mandatory) to learn some basic repair techniques and boys had to attend Home Ec (mandatory) to learn basic cooking. It was a good system. The final Home Ec test was groups splitting off and each cooking a part of the meal from appetizer to dessert. The local precinct cops came in and ate the meal we cooked and graded us. It was a good class.
My dad teaches me to work. My mom teaches me how to clean and cook. They want me to find a great wife someday and be just a good around the house as my spouse.
@Nico Brown dude she is saying that when she gets married and if she does not work she will at least help i think she wants to work i don't really know but it is her choice man also her parents most probaly let her study as that is a human right also i think she is in high shcool based on the profile pic but the point is she will not be a burden if she dosent work if she does she can still helf and keep the family healty with her husband if he also knows how to cook
My mom taught me how to cook since the age of 12 lol, most likely because of our culture since I’m Mexican. I feel like it’s extremely important that a teenager my age starts learning basic skills such as: cleaning, cooking, etc. because they’ll be set up for failure in the long run, unless, of course, you have someone else to do it for you.
There are diesel sedans like VW Passat, but I get the point. Food is health and processed food is death. Good healthy food has to be fresh from scratch.
I’m a father myself, I realized long ago that EVERYTHING is ultimately up to me. What the kids eat if we cook or eat out when bedtime and wake up time is is directly tied to my actions. The father states with absolute authority if the kids don’t want to eat what me or mama cooks then they don’t eat, they will get hungry eventually and eat what we made, going to bed hungry isn’t going to destroy their lives.
True, good parenting. Sadly my younger sis has down syndrome but gets so spoiled rotten she's very overweight and it drives me nuts. She chooses the meals and my parents flip flop on everything, especially my Dad. Her disability basically dictates what's going on now and my Dad obviously can't say no to puppy dog eyes but I can see it damaging her. She doesn't do much but sit around and watch TV, parents aren't in the best state physically so they don't take her out much but still give her too much energy compared to what she's doing. They want to keep her happy as top priority and acting more as friends with kindness than parents with love.
Being a grown woman who cant cook is embarrassing. Im a dude and i started to learn how to cook when i was 12 by watching my mom and being obsessed with food related tv
Being a grown person who cannot cook is embarrassing honestly, and it's not limited to only female. Because everyone has mouth, so better learn how to cook or have money to hire maid for it/buying foods.
I learnt to how to cook from 11 by just watching my parents and we had a rotation of house chores every year we change so in a few years you can do everything in the house. It's not hard
8:16: Ohhhh, that was a Hashtag-Nice-Guy-Moment! Anyone else spotted that? That Statement there, i know it well: I know it from Nice-Guy-Videos and Neckbeard-Videos.
@@anonymous-qb8nd no, i dont care about the hashtag nice guy movement, i care about telling him that noone cares. Big difference, my condescending friend 😉
One of my favorite things about people who support traditionalist values is how we actually give credit to the positive points of the opposing arguments rather than kicking and screaming about the "Patriarchy".
I grew up on a cattle ranch, everyone worked and helped. My mom was a teacher in a country school, also worked the cows + horses, and raised us kids all while preparing meals for hired hands and the family. I'll admit, she was a superwoman when I was young. All the women in the family (her, my three aunt's, and my grandmother) all pooled together to raise us kids, keep us fed and educated, and kept the ranch moving. It was an amazing day to grow up. What I mean to say is, it's all possible.
Exactly the same for me. I was raised in the same environment and will be raising my own children this way too. Women like us do exist, just that men seem to be looking in the wrong places. You would never catch me in a nightclub or on instagram, as i don't use it.
Yep. There is ZERO monetary incentive for a man to get married. Unless you really want a life partner and kids, it’s a bad idea. If you have a good partner, you don’t need to be married legally, just be “roommates” and have a clandestine ceremony to show affection and relationship without signing any papers.
@@samuelmontypython8381 lmfaoaoaoa good luck being on child support. And I’m a woman. This doesn’t even make any sense. Why build with someone you don’t have a commitment to? And not all men lose their money
@@heheh6727 I didn’t say anything about not committing. You don’t need a marriage certificate to have a commitment. Even if you bought a car that you absolutely loved and were 99% sure it would never break down, you’d still buy an insurance policy. In the case of marriage, marriage is an insurance policy for the financially weaker of two parties and most often (though this ratio is changing with each passing year), the man is the breadwinner. In the case of divorce, either party stands to lose accumulated wealth since time of marriage (prenuptial agreements only protect accumulated wealth prior to marriage unless explicitly spelled out in a modified contract). Provide for children? No shit, that’s a given and no real man needs a contract that obliges him to do so, he should just do it. Child support is only a thing in cases where the father leaves or still lives at home but refuses to provide support, thus a court order for child support. Bottom line, Marriage is a social and religious construct and comes with so much fine print. The only time the court system should be involved is when fathers (or mothers in some cases), are being irresponsible and not properly supporting children. Child support for biological or co-adopted children I 100% agree should be a mandate. Everything else to include marriage is irrelevant.
@TBYS You do a good job of explaining the interpersonal psychological reasoning of a lot of issues. I appreciate that and look forward to watching more of your content.
When you call these types of people out as bad parents, they and so many people get upset for some reason. Feeding your kids shite? You're a bad parent. Refusing to teach your kids good behavior? Bad parent. It's not some difficult equation. TBYS hit the nail on the head again when it comes to putting in the work to improve yourself as a parent/person. No one starts off great at something. It's about getting good enough before you screw up a child's life.
And God forbid you ever suggest that children would be better off with a father in the home, helping to raise his children. That statement alone is looked at as a personal attack on single mothers. If you dare even hint at it, using facts and statistics to back up your point, you will be labeled an angry, misogynistic, incel. It's a joke, and it's exactly why we have prisons full of men, who were all raised by single mothers in the US. But connecting the dots is sexist...
@@TurtleChad1 No... it holds people to account for their behaviour and actions... something that appears not to have happened in your life. This whaman chose to be a wife and stay at home to look after the kids. She should pull her weight in looking after the family, including preparing food, whilst her husband works full-time and does other chores around the house. She only works two days a week. How lazy can she be? The husband is a dead weight as well.
This isn't just down to the parent, their parents, and their parents before them are also to blame. Standards are passed down by parents, and ultimately have a greater effect on a child's upbringing than the schools or media can achieve. When you start breaking down the family (as feminism was intended to do back in the 60s), each generation gets weaker, and you get to the stage where children are being taught nothing by their parents (and this is even worse for children raised by single mothers, who are delusional about how good they are as parents). That kid at the start, eating all that junk food by his disgusting mother, is going to be obese and diabetic by the time he reaches adulthood, and his mother is to blame. But her lack of standards was probably passed onto her from her own parents. She may be a disgusting mother, but she is a victim of her own upbringing by her parents, who are likely to be just as lazy and useless as she is. Kids born these days are being born with insulin resistance and addictions, passed on from their weak mothers while they were in the womb.
You are only the second person I’ve heard point out the serious insult and upside down thinking of feminism declaring the feminine role useless and bullying women into acting like men because acting like a woman is inferior. It’s so paradoxical and hurtful to women trying to be mothers and housewives and finding out how difficult and demanding it truly is.
Come on lady grow up you don't understand a thing except how to be a victim you can't do some things men can do and we can't do some things you can do join the family team you must do this to be a good caretaker you are the very reason this man made this video it's just the truth and if it hurts your feelings good maybe one day you will grow up
Yes, it is paradoxical and hurtful. But that's because you believed feminism was the answer to modern women & it would somehow provide solutions in life! Alas, it did not! Also, you rejected the traditional roles of women, viewing them with derision and contempt. You feel it's inferior for women to be housewives and mothers who cook and clean and are effective and great housewives! THIS STATE OF MIND IS A RECIPE FOR MISERY!!
meanwhile, as a fulltime working mom, my kids would demand home cooked meals everyday and won't eat fast food nor premade, and consider the meal incomplete if it doesn't have a salad and a soup. sometimes i wish they would eat fast food at least twice a month so i could take a break from cooking, but thinking i only have to cook for them while they're young and i'll miss this exhausting days someday, it gives me motivation. i also require participation from my kids while cooking, like washing and cutting the vegetables, and they enjoy it a lot.
She made pasta for heavens sake, that’s one of the easer meals to make, only thing easer is grilled cheese. It’s not like it’s even that hard to learn to cook, look it up on TH-cam. Jeez these people I swear
Back in the early 2000's, at university, I met someone who had no idea how to use cutlery. His family only ate fast or convenience foods (like microwavable meals). His family had NEVER had a sit down dinner and only ate takeaway (takeout). I actually taught him how to use cutlery, not just a fork or spoon to shovel the food in and how to cook simple meals (like an Omelette or just to put packaged foods in the oven to cook) it was extremely sad that a 19/20 year old had never eaten a properly cooked meal before.
I'm a stay-at-home wife I cook, clean, do the chores, go to the gym and I still have time to do a small part-time job. I cook every day for my husband and pack him lunch/snacks for work. I look at this where a woman who only works 2 days a week and doesn't want to cook for her family let alone her husband. I had a co-worker tell me that I shouldn't do all the housework and work. I should do only half the housework and let my husband do the rest. I got very upset and told her my husband works 8-10 hour shifts a day and the very least I can do is clean and cook for him so he can come home and just rest. She insulted me saying I give women a bad name by being a housewife. I look and these women who can't even cook pasta and think they give women a bad name. I'm proud to be a housewife and try to maintain how I look for my husband.
don´t be ashamed of yourself, you are nurturing your feminine virtues. I also got comments like that because I like taking care of the house when my bf is at work and I cook meals whenever he gets home. One woman said to me "no wonder we are still fighting for equality if people like you are refusing to accept it." but I would say there is nothing more equal than me working on the home while the man is working on his Job.
Thank god , I was raised by a single father , he used to cook foods even at his busy times ! He used to scold me for eating fast foods often ! Thank god again for giving such a care taking and loving dad ❤️
I just don’t understand why people can’t take the time out their days to cook a healthy and delicious meal, it’s honestly just pure laziness. I have two working parents that work from 5:30am to 5:30pm or from 5:30pm to 5:30am their work schedule changes from time to time. So it’s just me and my sister that are home alone for most of time, we distribute the house work evenly for the two of us. Whenever my parents get home around dinner time I prep and cook dinner, because I want to relieve the hassle from them because they’re already tired and overworked. I do the same thing for lunch because my parents sleep in until 1:00pm. Whenever my parents aren’t at work both of them cook it’s not just one that’s in charge of all the meals.
Agreed. I try to cook for me and my boyfriend, but sometimes we get fast food more often then I would like, but other times for days i dont feel like cooking and dont crave some fast food fries i usually go for the nutrisystem microwave meals (i dont believe they're healthy, they just have a nice balance for a quick lazy meal) When I do cook though I always use Fresh vegetables and such. You really feel better about yourself when you get a nice balance in your meals. Fast food is more of a craving thing and too much always makes you feel iffy
I like the term 'homemaker" rather than housewife. Making a home requires not only skills, but a lack of resentment toward using those skills. My husband hasn't cooked a meal or ironed a shirt in years. I stay home and do that, he goes to work and does his job. We're both happy with that arrangement.
I envy you. I would love to be able to focus my time and attention to caring for my husband and children, unfortunately cost of living where we are prevents me from doing so. Instead I work full time outside of the house and do my best to be the best homemaker I can be with the time I have left.
Honestly one of the best TH-camrs on these types of topics ur not biased u give credit when it's due and u actually want them to be better instead of seeing them as a enemy. You want people to improve and be better and I respect that
They'd rather earn the big bucks and then exploit the immigrant labor or allow machines to raise their children. They don't really love their kids, because they assume someone else will just love them. The Left is all over the fucking place.
Maybe people should start talking about the top chefs are mostly male and they'll change. Actively insult that, saying men can do better when they do it haha!
Don't be disappointed in humanity, be disappointed in the person who makes the wrong choices. Also, I loved how you compared it to an Onion article, it's definitely what they'll make.
I work in a coal mine pining top, you can do what my wife does, she says "You will eat what I cook when I cook it or you can starve. It is healthy nutritional and tastes delicious. Period." My wife is an excellent house wife who controls her house with an iron fist of fury.
Proverbs 31 King James Version 31 The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him. 2 What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son of my vows? 3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings. 4 It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine; nor for princes strong drink: 5 Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted. 6 Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts. 7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more. 8 Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction. 9 Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy. 10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies. 11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil. 12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life. 13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands. 14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar. 15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens. 16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard. 17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms. 18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night. 19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff. 20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. 21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet. 22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple. 23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land. 24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant. 25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come. 26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness. 27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness. 28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her. 29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all. 30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised. 31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
That is so true, I became a stay at home dad when my son was born and let me tell you if my mother hadn't been teaching me how to cook since I was 8 years old it would have been an utter disaster. Cooking well is a very specialized skill, it can be extremely complicated and time sensitive. Thank you mom, for insisting I came in and helped with dinner.
This makes me feel even more thankful for my mom than I already am. She always cooks very healthy home-cooked meals for the family, and of course, I grew a natural interest in what my mom was doing in the kitchen at a young age. By age 12 or so, I was cooking dinner on my own to give my mom a nice break here and there. Sometimes I think the importance of knowing how to make healthy meals is overlooked.
Yeah: higher education is great (well, it should be), but so many forget the basics: cooking, personal hygiene, being active... We are animals before anything else, highly sensitive to what we eat and how we live, how much sunlight we get, how many walks in the park: what's the point of having three degrees and a great job if you can't take care of yourself, you feed yourself junk and feel terrible all the time?!
@Vick Murray The issue is that this structure is normal but its not healthy for relationship . All the hardships of money fall into men and all hardship of raising a child and keeping the house intact falls into women . The goal should be that both should know how to cook , raise a child and work . What the traditional way of living suggest is that both should be perfect at what they do but if they are not there is immediately a problem .
@Vick Murray Yes, but not everyone fits that model. Why are you so obsessed with every single man and woman being a carbon copy of each other? Why do you want everyone to be the same? Why do you want the world to have no soul or life, just people with no emotion just outputting the commands they were given, like robots?
@Matze96DAK is this a joke??? Lol… if not, then my answer is no, I mean just AMEN. As in “so be it” or “I concur”. Nothing suppressing about a word that has that definition. 🙂
I know a woman who's been married for ten years can't cook and feeds her family fast food almost everyday, she use to be a good looking woman at one time.
@@masonblobfish1724 when a woman is young with no kids her metabolism is hi so she can eat any food she wants but after hitting a certain age and having 2 or three kids plus eating fast food 50% to 60% of the time it's grimus time.
Ive cooked pasta enough I can just look at it and say yes it's done, or do a one noodle taste and be like hmm under cooked, Al dente, perfect, or over cooked. The canned sauce being poured directly before even trying to the noodles was also a food sin. She could've improved the canned sauce firstly by making it in a seperate pot, then by adding a little bit of some of these ingredients in minor amounts: cheese, milk, heavy cream, sour cream, basil, salt, pepper, lemon juice. So many things, and cook in a seperate dish a bit of either ground beef, pork, turkey, whatever meat they prefer that can be added to the mix too.
Right, did she not fucking taste it if it's cooked or not? Even if it's undercooked, then cook it in the pan with the sauce while adding some water. It's not that hard. Sure you can add more things to make it more special, but throwing it away cause you "failed" is dumb.
I have a Polish family, everyone and i mean EVERYONE here can cook, clean, care for children and elderly, and we all work. It's stuff passed down by earlier generations
my parents are from Latin America and i was born here. Most latinos are the same , it’s just the way it is. When they lived in a third world country , they had to do all the work around the house. These idiotic parents that were born with a silver spoon in their mouths are so spoiled and lazy.
as a kid i was upset that i never got fast food like my friends did, now that im older i realize how smart my parents were for limiting that. to this day ive only eaten mcdonalds once and havent even been to most fast food restauraunts.
Dad: used to be abusive and ruined part of my childhood. Then switched and turned into a good person. Mum: Fucked up my childhood is a caren and complains about everything that I do wrong and accuses me of everything even if it isn't my fault. Everything is disrespectful to her and me complaining about being offended would get me phisically hit. I swear she will not meet my children. Still fucking up my life.
This is heartbreaking and disturbing. The child has no choice over what they eat at that age. People who feed their children like this are slowly killing their children with all that fat, grease, sodium and calories.
Animal products and artificial gmo candy bullsht is whats "killing these kids". This about Halloween. Not only is it a satanic ritual . But it's a night to poison them with gmo animal products chemical bullsht. No seems to notice. No 1 seems to care. 8/
she boiled some pasta and dumped a jar of sauce over it. "Incredible amount of work" LOL What a great joke. It's like a girlfriend telling you she made a bowl of cornflakes. She didn't make it. She assembled it.
@@Andre-id9dl there are people who put pasta into cold water and than they start boiling. Or put a frozen pizza in an oven that is not pre-heated. -why is the pasta undercooked? -why is the pasta overcooked? -why is the pizza still not done? -why is the pizza burnt?
I know this might offend some people, but improperly feeding a child to this level is child abuse.
Agreed. But unfortunately there's not enough room in prisons for all of these neglectful parents
@@TurtleChad1 the fuck this has to do with socialism lmao
Absolutely correct
@@TurtleChad1 what in the actual fuck?
@@KiraDidNothingWrong Because no one gets to eat under socialism XD
Women like these need to hear - "Just because you can have a kid doesn't mean you should".
They were so preoccupied with wether they could or not that they didn't stop to think if they should
@@pandaman1331 "Now that's,..thaats chaos."
you ever seen the 2006 movie 'Idiocracy'? I think that movie showed us the future heaven help us :(
Would you tell a house plant not to grow?
Besides. No responsible adult is stupid enough to feed their own babies fast food
1950: "Adding water to instant cake make me look lazy."
2221: "Adding water to instant cake is too much hassle."
Sadly yes
2221?
I know a guy who had to reread the 3 step instructions on how to prepare a powdered cup of soup 3 times out-loud after I'd already explained that "..You just add hot water." and also after reading it out to him already.
He also takes things like hot chocolate far too seriously when the box says "Just add milk!" and he talks about it like you *have* to add milk or it basically becomes poison if you used anything else. He was amazed by when I once said I sometimes put a bit of hot chocolate in my coffees, like I'd invented the wheel or something. Yeah it's called a mocha, you've ordered one at a coffee shop before, it's the same thing and I was there... How do these people stay alive?
@@Vaguer_Weevil Are these the same kind of people who seem to think that meat in the deli just grow out of the cool box?
@@jamesanderson6373 Water is too much of a hazzle
My mom passed away suddenly when I was 13. My dad decided to take care of us 4 kids 12,13,14 and 15. My dad became a Mr. Mom. He was on disability due to a job accident the year before. He was already a stay-at-home parent - so he learned how to cook at age 49. The 3 girls did the cleaning and my brother did the yard, translating and helped my dad with the groceries. It was not easy for him but he owned his new role as a single dad. He remarried when we moved out. I am eternally grateful for what he did for us. ❤ Thanks Dad! You are forever loved!
Sweet ❤
He could have let the grief crush him, but he put his children first. ❤
@@tell-me-a-story-Indeed, W dad.
Thats how parents SHOULD be, the human beings that YOU MADE are your RESPONSIBILITY. Take care of them...
W dad
The fact you all stepped up instead of leaving him to flounder is also a great thing. I'm sorry for your loss at such a young age, but I'm glad that your family was able to stand together and make it work.
That's great. It's sad that you and your brother and sister lose your mother so young, but I think you made the best of the situation. When I don't have faith in people, I should remember that stories like this happen too.
Honestly, soda in a sippy-cup is probably one of the most disgusting images that isn't flat out nsfw.
Honestly, we should spare children this suffering by not having children at all with these modern women.
My sister in law did this but instead of soda it was juice. My nieces teeth were rotting by the time they were 3.
@@garbonratslayer1387 just looked into this. Never knew children that young couldn't have juice. It makes sense though.
@@Cherry_Zabix I gave my son limited, diluted amounts of juice. But he drank mostly milk or water at that stage.
@@Cherry_Zabix I never knew this either but god dam I remember my mom had old books about pregnancy and taking care of toddlers and these women got the internet but are doing terrible
My dad was a single parent. I was 10 when the divorce happened.
I remember at first we only ate fast food because he didn't know how to cook. Years later he told me that he felt bad at the time that he couldn't do one of the core parents duties, cook for the family.
So he started cooking. I remember it vividly. The burnt rice, overcooked mushy veggies that tasted like mud, dry meats and hard pastas🤣🤣
But over the years he gradually gotten better.
I remember those nights in the summer of '13 when he tried to bake chicken in the oven with cast iron. Me and my sisters called it the "watery chicken special" I felt bad looking back when I said that to him. But he laughed and took it in stride and tried even harder.
Now he is one of the best cooks I know and I aspire to be even half as good as him one day.
Love you Dad!
My parents separated when I was 15, all we would eat was pasta and frozen pizza. I totally understand the struggle lol My dad did cook good breakfast lol
This is what I'm dealing with right now. Wifey hit me with the "I'm not happy", so now I have two toddlers I have to care for by myself. Trying to learn how to make things they'll actually eat.
@@WillThat you can do this ! Dads are awesome
@@sophiagil6009 lol not the frozen pizza 😂😂😂
Love….. I want to cook something for you! I’m in Little Rock lol 😂 man , heartfelt statement. Love…..
I have to say that I was lucky. I had an incredible wife for 18 years. She was beautiful, kept the house, loving, supportive, and a great cook. I could go to the kitchen, look at everything, and think we needed to go to the store. She could walk in there right after me and 30 to 45 minutes later hand me a plate full of really good food. She died suddenly 3 1/2 years ago and I have been alone ever since. I really do miss her. I don't think I will ever be that lucky again.
Sorry for you're lost.
One in a million, stay strong man.
Women like you're wife are hard to find needle in haystack. God speed
Sorry to hear that David, my heart goes out to you x
Sorry for your loss
💔
So so sad 😔😔😔😔
Love how she takes some soggy pasta, dumps a jar of premade sauce, then is flabbergasted that everyone hates it.
Lol
@Victor Ngo I thought I was the only one that could smell it based on how many people around me are ok with it. It’s bloody rank 🤢
It's the laziest crap one can cook. You can't even call it cooking. But to even fail on that is beyond pathetic. It's written on the damn box how long you have to boil the pasta! These people are insane.
Even most premade sauces are tolerable if you don't fuck up the pasta.
Uk women
To be completely honest, cooking isn't that hard.
Especially with services nowadays like Hello Fresh and Blue Apron. Cooking is actually becoming more convenient.
Also pets are better company
I made Mac and cheese on Wednesday I made them to go with Porkchops
Facts.
@@anamericanwhosblack3797 it was pretty good actually
When pets tend to get a more balanced diet than human children.
When pets get better parenting than human children.
When pets get more protection from the state than boys and men.
They don’t
Ever heard of chonker memes
75% of pet food isn’t really healthy and can cause pets to get fat.
@@BuetifullPersun do you mean pet fastfood? For my dog I am cooking.
I don’t understand why more mother’s dont want to cook for their kids. I feel like cooking nutritious meals for your family is such an expression of love.
I'm a guy and even I would love to cook for family, cause both my dad and mom enjoy cooking (though they do argue about how to cook so never have them cook together you're asking for a fight)
God bless you
They think it’s oppression
@@islami658 A Father trying to raise his child to be a success in life is defined as "toxic masculinity" by the American Psychological Association.
Isaiah was right - Zion is gonna burn. 🔥 😥
That’s how I feel about it, and how my mother saw it too! I remember her making dinner just about every night and appreciated all of them, knowing that she loved us enough to create meals and keep us happy and fed. I also found out that she used to make our baby food from scratch by puréeing all of the vegetables and fruit and whatnot, that made me look at her like a superhero for a long time haha. I want to be that for my kids if I have any!
Both of my parents always stressed was how disgusting and unhealthy fast food is. It was genuinely one of the single greatest parenting decisions they did, I've met full grown adults who say things like "EW water? It doesn't even have flavor. I only drink juice and soda" or are grossed out by things like quinoa, rice or seeds like pumpkin, chia or sesame because they "lack flavor". A lot of people I've known treat weight gain like some sort of inevitability and not an outcome of poor diet, habits, and impulse control.
Absolutely. Fast food plagues society, and since eating with others is a way of socializing it sucked for me not to be able to eat fast food with other kids. I may have hated my parents for that when I was little, but I'm eternally grateful to them now.
Is that statement about water uttered by an actual person that you know? It sounds so unbelievably stupid and wrong
@@varunsodhani6812 You would be surprised
If someone thinks water is gross, one of two things is happening. One, the water is dirty, or two, something is wrong with them.
@@varunsodhani6812I've heard tons of people say that they don't like to drink plain water. Makes no sense to me. Water is thirst quenching. It washes away other flavors. When you flavor it with stuff (like these people do who can't just drink plain water) you constantly have flavor in your mouth and it doesn't feel thirst-quenching. I don't understand it.
This woman is disgusted with the idea of cooking 3 meals a day for her children.
Me too, but lazy creative people search for the fastest and easiest way to do it for once: pour all your flavor ingredients with egg and milk, stir, non-stick pan shove and flip, then salad. End.
No no no now way I would ever marry that lady
shows the state of modern fe-fails its all about making their lives easier even at the sacrifice of their own children
@@kaputasri of course is different when you are cooking for your adult family than children, you can cook easy, tasty and healthy without too much hassle. I prefer eating good even if the looks are bad, my dad cooks with a lot of ingredients and makes it look like Ramsey Gordon but don't taste so good most of the time
@@fatimazarza7365 you can feed kids healthy food without much hassle, buddy...
My mom always made mac and cheese or Pan-cooked salmon with boiled potatoes or beans. She also made smoothies or lemonade or orange juice . We loved it and it is super healthy , it literally takes just 15 minutes to have it done . People have just become lazy af
One big reason in talking with young men, is Divorce. They are scared of losing their home, investments, garnished wages and loss of kids.
They've seen far too many men succumb to this, after spending years or even decades being treated horribly, and no young man wants to follow this path.
I don't even see a point in marriage anymore, it's not an unbreakable oath before God anymore, and you don't need a marriage to just be in a relationship with someone, a marriage is now nothing but a financial drain and a future Damocles sword over your head for the rest of your life.
@@dwight3555: I agree, however our society has certain legal benefits to marriage, such as home ownership, financial and having children. But the risk to men in a divorce is real and is a leading factor of family wealth distribution. Add to this the fact that family courts are biased toward women, any wonder that men have second thoughts. If you haven’t done so, take a few hours and watch some documentaries on the history of marriage, very eye opening.
@@budapestmole I haven't watched documentaries on the history of marriage, though I've seen a lot about current marriages.
If you have any good links to share, do not hesitate
@@budapestmole all that goes to women. Half of the man's hard work and the child goes to the woman
@@saileshnaidu8102: Yes it does and with the power and authority of the government behind it.
If giving your child heroin is child abuse, feeding your child this poison should also be considered child abuse
yeah lump it up there with vegan parents
This food is not even remotely as addictive as heroin. What a bunch of poppycock.
@@chrismoore1372 Vegan or vegetarian food can be very healthy and tasty if done properly. I was raised vegetarian and that aspect of diet was passed on culturally from my ancestors for millennia. Our cuisine is centred around it as well.
Hmmmm
just think if the state/government would take all the kids that are at risk, most single mothers will go childless, there will be more kids in government facilities than dogs in rescue shelters!
The second I saw that soda in a sippie cup, my first thought was take their kids away. My neglectful mother did the same to me and I needed 7 root canals before I was 5. Most agonizing thing in my life. I have a lifelong phobia of dentists and really all medical professionals now because of it.
As a dentist I can clearly understand what you have been through. Whenever I have a child at my practice I hold their parents accountable with no filters even though I have no kids of my own. Some don't like it cause I openly call them bad parents but these so-called grown people should know it.
Also please do not fear us. But do everything you can so that you can avoid us in the future. We are there to help.
@@darshanashetty3467I've always taken good care of my teeth & I don't eat/drink much added sugar,I've only had 3 cavities so far & I'm in my early 30's...Lifestyle makes a big difference😁🪥.Also dentists are awesome,they help us when we need care & help us avoid serious problems too🌞👍👍.
@@darshanashetty3467 good for you. I only had one doctor in my life (now that I have had many) who used to tell the patients off. She was the only doctor worth the name imo.
@@darshanashetty3467 exactly! Having heard stories of my grandpa, growing up in rural Kazakhstan and getting a tooth pulled without painkillers, makes me be very grateful for modern medicine in general, and good dentists especially 👍
By the time that kid is 20 he won’t have a bloodstream anymore, it’ll be a cokestream.
A fucking greasestrem
In another universe the kid will be pepsiman when he grows up
Lmao
He's gonna turn into a Big Mac
Kid is lucky if he makes it to twenty. He's gonna have a coronary at 16 . 😀
My mom works 6 days a week and still
tries her best to cook the healthiest food possible for us
I just feel proud
My mother raised 6 children and cooked in an exquisite way, making bread, soup, stews and in December towards the traditional Hallas, just making the stew takes one or two days and requires large amounts of meat, vegetables, eggs, potatoes, raisins, all cooked in a 4 or 5 gallon pot, on one occasion she made more than 180 Hallas with the help of the whole family, we ate them all the month of December, 3 years ago her health no longer allowed her to make the stew and sadly my sisters they did not inherit his talent.
Sounds like you have a mom that loves you alot. Good for both of you
Do you help her at all?
@@psychopompous3207 Yea in cleaning and other things like that
My mom and dad work most of the time so it’s just me and my younger siblings and I’m the one usually cooking the meals except on the weekends since my parents don’t work on those days, but let me tell you, it’s the most rewarding feeling being able to cook a decent meal for your siblings.
Not everyone is meant to be a parent. Lord help those kids
Some people can’t accept that fact. I am a teacher and I see it all the time, unfortunately.
I don't think the lord cares, he got better things to do than rescuing losers from their own stupidity.
@@roserevancroix2308 oh, yeah, except they are winners of our society. Our future, basically.
Either the will grow up fat which causes social and health issue or maybe not cause heart disease are deadly.
By god they’re gonna die at least 20 years young
2:38 I love this, and this is why I watch your videos. You don’t refrain from generalizations because “not all” or “harmful stereotypes.” You refrain from certain generalizations because they are “statistically unlikely.” Your videos are unburdened by anything but verifiable truth, as all analyses should be. It’s rare but awesome.
My dad raised 3 little girls and learned to cook real fast after my mom dipped out on us. He's a great cook and he almost always cooked a hot meal after working all day. I love and my respect my dad SO much for all he went through.
My dad raised me by himself too and still cleaned and cooked, he did both and I was able to learn some good meals and I've learned even more since he showed me good ingredients
He's Earned that "World's #1 Dad" Mug
That is one thing I never understood. Why is having the ability to feed yourself a feminine trait? Most short order cooks and chefs are men too. You can add cleaning to that too, just because I'm a man doesn't mean I don't like cleaning my place. I feel accomplished after it.
My pops is a single dad and a chef works 2 jobs to live where he's at and he's had 4 boys. I'll tell u what we can cook and I love my dad so much cus no matter how busy he was he would always have time to teach us his 2nd love...and that was cooking.
W father
I like how the doctor has to explain to the mom that she’s essentially killing them with all the fast food. Was she... unaware that fast food was unhealthy..? That should be common sense like wtf am I watching
Blame for some woman don't want to learning basic of cooking they are whining because someone say woman belongs to kitchen its different perspective who belongs in the kitchen for me is man my mother told me to learn some basic cooking
I interesting about problem in american society
To much idealist people who don't think rationally
Or this is fail concept about freedom or equality?
Can you share your answer?
@@ridwan3533 Cooking is a completely necessary skill, if not required for survival.
@@jrt2792 absolutely can I discuss maybe first world or second world country fast food is cheap compared to buy ingredients for cooking or to busy from their own bussines when third world country fast food or junk food is quite expensive for food while I live in third world country spend 1 dollar you can find a lot of food have good nutrients except for hygiene lol
Especially when the kid is growing.
@@jrt2792 In WoW you don't need it to reach endgame content, so I don't need it IRL! checkmate, woman-hat0R!!!1111
This is why Asian parents exist...
(I am South Asian myself and any lip would get ‘The Death Pinch’ or ‘The Sandal’)
It’s only when you grow up, you realize they did it because they loved you
why I'm grateful for my parents
It’s true,my parents were trained in the arts of failure teaching.Your people are the best
0:01 Grandparent cry
genetic lineage ended.
@Hyun Kim damn man
@Hyun Kim *Parenting* at its extreme’s,either way I hope you’re doing well after through that
Actually as a 15 year old girl, I love the role of a housewife. In my view this role carries so much power. My mother, a housewife, is the most respectable person in my life. She taught me everything I need in life like cooking, housework, helped me with homework, formed my character and my interests. All these skills to make me independent. The one who is raising the kids has the power with no doubt, you teach them how to act and their values in life. They form the new generation, the most important and powerful role. Being a mother comes with great responsibility and respect. I truly believe that this role is the best you can have and I would never want to sacrifice this incredible power and status. Even in my friend group I am sort of their mother and I am the person who is most respected with no doubt. More than anyone even surprise surprise than men. I hate the things this feminist movement and the fat acceptance movement has done to our society. Of course, feminism isn't bad in itself, it's a great thing but in my oppinion it has turned way to extreme and just wrong. You can already see the damages it causes, especially with children.
Great head on ur shoulders girl, you’re gonna be a great wife/mother one day!!
Just because that’s what you want for your life doesn’t make feminism bad.. you’re very lost but hopefully you’ll grow up one day and see it’s ok for people not to want the same
@@Marz859I'm not really lost and if you could read that would make things much easier. Please don't just randomly interpret shit into my sentences. As I said "feminism isn't bad in itself, it's a great thing but in my opinion it has turned way to extreme", and that's literally quoted. In my comment I talked about how much I appreciate that role and how I can not understand why anybody (especially feminists) degrade that role into something for less capable and mabye even valuable people. I don't care if it's the man or the women that is taking care of the children but someone NEEDS to be there, please tell me where I said that this should be a women's job, I just said it needs to be done and in many cases it would be more logical to let the women do it. Sadly in today's society either both parents need to work or the women would want to choose to work even if it's a lower paying job and the partner is capable of working because of todays feminism, they would feel oppressed, which I don't f*ing understand. It's ok for people to not want the same, I truly understand, parenting is not for everyone and again tell me where I said something else but then don't get a child in the first place if you can't provide for it properly.
@@angi6363 Women nowadays have a lot placed on their shoulders and many of them simply don't know how to handle it or reason with it(to be fair I really do feel bad for Gen Z straight women), so many girls I've met are completely lost emotionally and spiritually as to what they want to do in life or what their place in the world is.
Good to see someone my age can see the writing on the wall and is appearing to tackle it in a healthy way.
God bless.
Good for you- you've managed to beat the overpowering weight of society and be yourself. I hate how activism has molded society into a limp spaghetti noodle that disrespects the traditional role some women choose to embrace. The fact that people can still recognize that gives me a lot of hope. The person I respect the most in the world is my own mother, who's a housewife herself. Respect, you're pulling W's
As a father myself this boils my blood when people who shouldn't be allowed to have children do shit like this..
6 cans of coca cola cant imagine 😲😲😲😲😲😲😲
@@eliseenvisionz7588 Fastfood 5 days a week is brutal.
@@Walking-MY-Path I love ff and I could not do this. Ff is something special for me. *Brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrutal*
@@nocturnaljoe9543 Okay
@@Walking-MY-Path Not sure if I made myself clear. What I ment is: Even through I like fast food, I would never eat it that often. I can enjoy it like 1-2 times a week.
Poor kid. Barely started out in life and he is already losing.
When they grow up, their generating will call it, non-dumbfuck parent privilege
The worst part is, it ain't his fault.
@@TheHighborn And unlike that white privilege I have but can't tell what it does, I'm making sure to raise my children with non-dumbfuck parent privilege.
Losers raise losers.
@@stevenharris2230 I've seen kids with crap parents grow up and make something of themselves. It's hard on them though, they're constantly one bad month away from becoming like their parents.
Some people get their kids a tablet, she's giving her kids obesity and diabetes.
What they are giving them is bad genes, bad habits, a bad future and their loser mentality.
My mom gave me anxiety and depression
@@SKn6426 Man
@@SKn6426 Sorry man that's rough 😞😞😞
Tablet of what? Vitamin tablets are best for health
I’m astounded by the fact that her making box pasta and jarred sauce is hard, that’s her putting in a lot of effort. Times like these, and I’m glad that I was raised by my grandmother who was raised by her mother as a proper housewife even though I do work, I still know how to take care of a home.
She can't even use a tin of chopped tomatoes and some mixed herbs ??? Jar pasta sauce is peak laziness - my 2 ingredient tinned tomatoes and herbs is far cheaper and healthier.
@@jellybean4046 tinned tomatoes and herbs sounds better than jarred pasta sauce.
@@jellybean4046It might just be where I live. But our canned pasta Is acctualy reasonable ( well It Is not canned but comes pre-made ) like, you still need to temper It but I grew up with bolonhesa sauce made with pre-made pasta and It didnt taste bad.
Two uploads in one week? I tip my hat to you my good sir.
Yo! Your last vid on Sam was EPIC!
Why aren’t you verified yet?
That's actually rare
Tip tipping tippiti tip
Love home improvement
Also: if you, as a woman, want to be be "independent", WHY would you not know how to cook? Who tf is gonna feed you again?? Both women AND men should know how to cook to feed themselves when single, if nothing else.
I completely agree
College/university 101 basic survival!!!
Being independent means spending -your- someone's money to solve your problems.
💯
Doctor : " Your basically killing your children "
Mom: " Okay"
Also she is basically paying extra money to damage her children. She would be cheaper off cooking the cheapest rice, potatos or beans and still have a lot of time for her social media addiction. I am a lazy mofo myself, but I cook ym own stuff, man. I love it. Wtf is she doing all the time? Holy mother Mchree....
“ they came outta my body , so I can do whatever I want “
Mom: that was my plan.
Sums up the attitude of modern women huh
She doesn't look like she wants her kids to live to 18 does she?
I've also noticed this, when I was young, most of the time me and my sister didn't like my mom's cooking, but when we went to my grandmother's, we were enjoying the meals even if there was vegatables which we didn't like. As we grew up my mom understood this and started putting alot more work into becoming a great cook and since then she had no problem.
I’m a chef and I grew up with an Italian immigrant father who is an excellent cook and made food 6 nights a week for us. This is such a stark contrast to what I’ve known
Sounds good, I'm always up for some Italian food
My dad is an Argentinian immigrant with a lot of Italian heritage and my mom is Italian American, both great cooks, so I grew up eating good Italian food, but my parents shared the cooking somewhat equally and both had very flexible jobs, so I don’t think it always needs to follow the structure of one provider and one homemaker. However, I do think situations where both parents work 9-5s aren’t a result of empowerment but of a bad economic situation and a culture that values career over family.
Same man. I was a latchkey kid who lived with my mother and MY FATHER taught me how to cook. I guess my mother just expected me to know.
Username checks out
you are very lucky. its a rarity these days.
I honestly couldn't imagine eating fast food everyday. It made me physically ill watching the first part of this video.
@@reidbishop7965 hows your diet affecting you physically, so far?
@@reidbishop7965 That's more understandable than this video though
@@reidbishop7965 yeah when its really just once person caring for a house of 2 or 3 coming home at 8pm fast food is really all you can do most of the time especially in you include all the tasks and responsibilitys outside of work
@Kommissar I like salads.
Cucumber, tomatoes, rice.
You sleep like a bay afterwards.
@@reidbishop7965 you would need to eat more healthy food or you are fucked but I can not blame you
All those traditional woman skills you talked about (sewing, cooking, cleaning, etc) are skills I learned as a child because they are useful skills to have. I have met ONE woman who also has all those skills that wasn't a grandmother.
Because they were raised to worship money (thanks to boomer Mcmansion lifestyle). Why learn to fix anything when you can just order a new one online and toss out the previous one? Why learn to cook if you demand your man make enough to eat out every day and order in when feeling lazy? The modern woman values Looks, Money, Status in that order and thats it. If you're not aces in all three she will do whatever she can to extract the one that you have before "leveling up".
Marriage rates are at an all time low in history because men have seen their fathers, friends, and peers get absolutely eviscerated in family court. The juice isn't worth the squeeze.
truer words have not been spoken also the only places u can find women who know these skills now days are thrid and scond world countries
I've only met one too... and I'm dating her! :D
I'm a 33 woman and I can cook, sew, and even do car maintenance myself, I only met a few other women who can sew, I can take my sewing machine apart to clean it out and assemble it again and it works still lol
If I was a man I would be so put off from dating any single mothers as they are looking for a replacement dad
@@Lulu-ut9pv yes if I was a guy and single I don't want a single mom especially who doesn't know how to cook.
Im 37 and can do all that shit and my husband thanks me for keeping up traditional values. I enjoy doing them besides my art career.
After watching 2-3 videos, I recognize you have great insight and real wisdom on lots of topics I fucks with. That's dope. Subscribed.
They are kids.
"Don't want to eat this healthy food? Ok, stay hungry until you do."
I always think this when people complain about a meal. "You're clearly not hungry enough."
If my kids don't finish their meal because "they're full", I don't tell them to throw it out. I'll leave it on the kitchen counter. Without fail, in 15 minutes they are asking for something to eat. I'll point to their dinner and let them know they can still finish it.
100 % true a kid Will eat when its hungry and Will lern to like whatever you feed it.
@@robertluna5737 yup trust me i have been hungry for real no food for a week many times and everything you eat after that tastes like haven
This 💯 Everything tastes good when you are starving
The reason's simple - The juice ain't worth the squeeze.
And to be honest, the older I get and the worse the culture gets as far as churning out marriageable women, even if the laws weren't crap, by the time I'm financially ready to be married, I'll be left with less than no good options...
There are no marriageable women left.
Just turned 21 and I'm glad I found content like this
A sad state of affairs
The words marriageable and women don't even belong in the same sentence anymore.
Aaron Clarey talks about this in great detail in his latest book "The Book of Numbers"
I cooked my boyfriend a pot roast for dinner last night and it blew his mind. He told me that no woman had ever cooked like that for him before. It’s so pathetic and I’m embarrassed for other women.
@No No There are women out there that are traditional, you just have to find them in the right places (not in nightclubs). I'm thankful that i was raised by my grandmother who had traditional beliefs and taught me all of her skills growing up. I'm now 28 years old, i cook every meal homemade, i raise my own chickens and grow my own vegetables. I'm so proud that i built a homestead for our family and my husband is so grateful, as i am of him.
Where did you learn how to cook it from ? Or did you experiment
It’s pathetic you think your better than other woman cuz you cooked for a man who is only your bf 😂
It’s pathetic you think your better than other woman cuz you cooked for a man who is only your bf 😂
THIS is what men want!!
I'm a single dad of 2 kids. I work 8 hours a day as an engineer and I raise my 2 kids by myself. My kids don't even get cold breakfast once a week. I cook for them every morning and almost every night. We may eat leftovers, I might order pizza once in a while, but I can't even remember the last time we had fast food. It really isn't hard.
You’re doing a great job at that! I always appreciate when my mom just makes me breakfast or dinner because it does show that i matter to her a lot and i bet your kids are happy to have a father like you
Women apparently just have no sense of responsibility or impulse control I guess.
@@Bonesawisready926 wydm by that? I know that i did not mention a lot but my mom is my only parent, she does so much for me than any other step-father had ever done. Maybe don’t judge someone you don’t know when you don’t know the full story?
@@alimp4767 I wasn't responding to you.
well done, if u were a women, u would bitch endlessly how it's the patriarchy's fault and those are unreal expectations :D
tbh, women have it 2 ez these days. imagine being a stay home wife, but without a washing machine and running water, raising not 3 but 6-9 kids. this was the normal for most f human history and no one complained.
Wtf is so difficult to cook pasta?
1)Boil water
2)Add salt
3)throw pasta
4)Wait the time indicated in the packet of pasta
5)Drain water
6)Buon appetito!
Women
Easier to order takeaway, spend your time doing fucking whatever and destroy your children's health apparently 🤷♂️ fucking despicable
"you are what you east" just how hard is it to follow such an easy, yet true saying
Humans are too stupid to read, follow directions, or think.
@@CasualSpec 90% is, yes.
If you can, garlic salt in it while cooking makes the pasta extra delicious
This lady is cutting this child’s life in half only feeding him this shit.
Vader wearing sunglasses looks radiant 🙃👌
@@jgillan92 so he's technically wearing 2 types of sunglasses?
@@manuelavila5433 6 eyes
@@godlikemachine645 hes
almost a spider
6:15,the other lady telling her that the current food habit will probably lead to diseases in the future
our lady be like:don't worry, i left the current problems to my future self
edit : forgot to add "while laughing"
When I was a teenage boy I cooked dinner for my family every week night. Both my parents worked so my mom would leave out the ingredients and the recipe and I would come home from school, watch Gillians island and then cook dinner. I loved doing it and now as an adult I know how to cook delicious food for myself and save tons of money. Thanks Mom!
I was raised by a super feminist single mom who used to tell me, “your first marriage should be for money, your second marriage can be for love.” That’s very damaging to a young girl. I totally bought into the “I don’t need no man” mindframe. Somehow, and I feel SO lucky, but I’m now married and a stay at home mother to 3 kids. But in the beginning of the marriage, I struggled with all the home maker things because I was NEVER taught how to take care of a family. I was taught that woman shouldn’t have to take care of their families any more. I struggled to learn to cook. I had a terrible time keeping the house really clean/tidy, especially with young kids around. But after some work and research and practice (and a lot of cooking TH-cam videos 😂) I’m much much better. But I WISH i has learned these things when I was younger. I feel cheated. Getting to stay home and raise kids is literally the best thing that could have and has happened to me (and I didn’t even want kids back then) But I feel so privileged to have that life now. My husband takes care of us financially and the only chore I ask him to do is take out the garbage on his way out the door. My youngest is a very picky eater but I’ve noticed that he really likes it when I let him help me cook. So I let him help when he wants eggs, or when he wants pizza, we make it homemade and he gets to help. He likes it more if he has a hand in cooking it.
Damn, the "your first marriage should be for money" advice is so immoral because it implies that you should start a marriage already with the intent of divorce. Good on you for realizing how destructive the feminist mindset is. Feminists will end up miserable and alone, pity them and keep honoring the great family life you've helped build. Cheers.
We need more ladies like you. Respectful and grateful. I want to be a father and I hope if I ever meet someone they are like you. Your kids will be grateful for a great mother they had.
@@AHess007 awww that’s so sweet. Thank you. If you do meet someone nice, remember they won’t be perfect right away. But if she’s willing to learn and grow with you, that’s the best companion.
@@StayAtHomeMeme Thanks for the advice and have a good day!
Thanks for breaking that ideology of being a feminist! 👏
I'm not even three minutes into the video and I'm already mad at them. Who feeds their baby KFC?
BILLY agrees
Lizzo's mom
Single mother’s
People that don't know anything about nutrition and don't learn
my mother used to work as a kindergarten teacher. There were girls in her groups that were literally just three or four years old and already growing breasts because of all the hormones their parents fed them via the processed meat. They were basically going through puberty 10 years too early, I don´t even want to imagine what effect that must have on the body.
"Most new ideas suck and it takes years to vet the ones that don't" spot on 100%
8:16: Oh, that was a Hashtag-Nice-Guy-Moment!
My dad experienced poverty and scarcity in his youth. When as a kid I complained that I was hungry, he would jokingly say "It's okay, you can go a day without eating and be fine".
I taught myself to cook...
If I can do it, so can women.
They're just being lazy.
I even raised my son, as a single parent, to cook and clean for himself. His mother couldn't and never tried to learn.
go dude go
I'm a female in my 20's. I cook, clean, and sew while also holding a full time job as a mechanic. I also take on vehicle maintenance at home. It was a little comical for my neighbor when she came out one night and my husband was holding up a light for me to see while I replaced his alternator in the driveway. Husband works too and keeps up the lawn, I hate doing lawn work.
@@labratrocky You want a cookie?
@@torachan23 I doubt it, but she is a good example of a competent adult, so no need to harp on her.
The best chefs in the world all happen to be men too.
Imagine actually giving your toddler child soda pops, let alone doing it regularly.
The child will be on life support at 4yrs old
Ya, when I go to Sam's Club & see parents with 3 children 5 to 8+ range with 5 32oz sodas on the table from the cafe. 😬
Soda is such a waste of sugar and calories. If I'm going to consume 200 empty calories, I'd much rather enjoy a candy bar than a damb coke.
Hello fellow person who says soda pop instead of one of the two
It's bad for his teeth and his entire health in general
Her kids should get taken away cause she's unfit to be a parent
Theory: she's purposely cooking badly so when nobody likes it, she can justify not cooking next time.
Bit like doing a bad job of cleaning so nobody asks you to do it again.
Sounds like my mom to the T.
Rip mom
yep spot on mate.
My sister does that alot , at least sometimes i Think that. Other times i remember how she asked about how to get icecubes out of the tray and i told her to run hot water other it. After one Minute she came and said it didnt work. Of course she was running the hot water from above like you would do when are filling the tray and didnt turn it over .
She was 28 btw and has Abitur and a Bachelors degree and also worked in Restaurant/Hotel Service for 3+ years
It's not very difficult to cook a tasty meal. This is possible
This channel NEEDS to blow up
"There's rice at the house" every time we asked for Mcdonalds growing up
What wonderful parents you have.
Asian parent moment
That's actually very good.
Not only is rice very healthy, the *rice water* as well !
Chinese people use the water for skin and hair, as an example Yao women have the longest hair in the world because of rice water and their hair is grey-less till they are 70-80 years old.
African parents be like 😭i didn't eat fast food till like 10
Yep rice, potatoes and beans my Mother kept around
I always thought marriage was a partnership, not a competition.
When I left home I was faced with two choices; learn to cook, or starve. Learning to cook seemed the better option.
The harsh reality is marriage is about duty and responsibility, not love. Sadly many women today aren't agrreeable and cooperative, they have the strong and independant menatality. Stong and independant from what? Men?
when in court it becomes exactly it a competition of who gets to have the most of everyone's stuff and it is usually the woman who gets the biggest piece.
@@Internetguy_L337_90D Yes the justice system is one sided there is no doubt about that. In addition to the welfare system. My hope is that people begin to understand that the direction we are headed is already proving to have dire implications.
Cooking is a skill that everyone must know when they reach adulthood, regardless if you're a woman or a man. If you don't know how to cook or despise cooking, then you probably shouldn't be married and have kids?
I agree
It would Be accecptable if you are wealthy enough to afford a Professional Chef Bit otherwise yes pretty irresponsible.
@@michawkwalter4205 even still just because you can afford now doesn't mean always since shit happens. So it would still be good to cook once a week or so to keep the skill just incase shit goes south...
Nah my girlfriends are fabulous cooks
8:16: Ohhhh,
that was a Hashtag-Nice-Guy-Moment!
Anyone else spotted that?
That Statement there, i know it well: I know it from
Nice-Guy-Videos and Neckbeard-Videos.
We had Home Ec and Shop classes in junior high. For one quarter, girls had to attend shop class (mandatory) to learn some basic repair techniques and boys had to attend Home Ec (mandatory) to learn basic cooking. It was a good system. The final Home Ec test was groups splitting off and each cooking a part of the meal from appetizer to dessert. The local precinct cops came in and ate the meal we cooked and graded us. It was a good class.
My dad teaches me to work. My mom teaches me how to clean and cook. They want me to find a great wife someday and be just a good around the house as my spouse.
@Nico Brown dude she is saying that when she gets married and if she does not work she will at least help i think she wants to work i don't really know but it is her choice man also her parents most probaly let her study as that is a human right also i think she is in high shcool based on the profile pic but the point is she will not be a burden if she dosent work if she does she can still helf and keep the family healty with her husband if he also knows how to cook
I hope you have a passport.
@Premium fuel only Why?? Did u mean to comment on this comment??
@@lexerwilliams8880 Because you wont find a great wife in a first world country.
My mom taught me how to cook since the age of 12 lol, most likely because of our culture since I’m Mexican. I feel like it’s extremely important that a teenager my age starts learning basic skills such as: cleaning, cooking, etc. because they’ll be set up for failure in the long run, unless, of course, you have someone else to do it for you.
Why would you feed a baby flipping KFC? that's like pouring a gallon of water into a huge pot of scorching hot boiling grease
There are diesel sedans like VW Passat, but I get the point. Food is health and processed food is death. Good healthy food has to be fresh from scratch.
It's call lazy parenting
Better analogy, but common: it's like dumping oil in water, expecting it not to float.
bruh did you see 14:05 you could see the color drain out of the girls face
Eat it myself
I’m a father myself, I realized long ago that EVERYTHING is ultimately up to me. What the kids eat if we cook or eat out when bedtime and wake up time is is directly tied to my actions. The father states with absolute authority if the kids don’t want to eat what me or mama cooks then they don’t eat, they will get hungry eventually and eat what we made, going to bed hungry isn’t going to destroy their lives.
Sure won’t hurt them. In fact, it could actually serve as a good introduction to “being mindful of the consequences of your own actions”.
True, good parenting. Sadly my younger sis has down syndrome but gets so spoiled rotten she's very overweight and it drives me nuts. She chooses the meals and my parents flip flop on everything, especially my Dad. Her disability basically dictates what's going on now and my Dad obviously can't say no to puppy dog eyes but I can see it damaging her. She doesn't do much but sit around and watch TV, parents aren't in the best state physically so they don't take her out much but still give her too much energy compared to what she's doing. They want to keep her happy as top priority and acting more as friends with kindness than parents with love.
Exactly...
Way to recognize that it is authority and that you as a parent have it. It's good to exercise it, helps keep everyone in shape
Spitting facts
Love your channel, every single time you show a segment then immediately take the words out of my mouth. Keep it up friend!
Being a grown woman who cant cook is embarrassing. Im a dude and i started to learn how to cook when i was 12 by watching my mom and being obsessed with food related tv
Thats true and if you have internet theres no excuse if you can't even search up a damn recipe. God help us all
Being a grown person who cannot cook is embarrassing honestly, and it's not limited to only female. Because everyone has mouth, so better learn how to cook or have money to hire maid for it/buying foods.
So relatable such a damn shame 😂😂😂
I learnt to how to cook from 11 by just watching my parents and we had a rotation of house chores every year we change so in a few years you can do everything in the house. It's not hard
Have you found the lamb sauce?
Cooking is LITERALLY one of my best pleasures on earth, like the possibilities are unlimited if you just have the ingredients .And the Praise!!
8:16: Ohhhh,
that was a Hashtag-Nice-Guy-Moment!
Anyone else spotted that?
That Statement there, i know it well: I know it from
Nice-Guy-Videos and Neckbeard-Videos.
@@slevinchannel7589 who cares dude
@@jangolub8240 obviously you do otherwise u wouldn't of replied to the comment SMH LOL
@@anonymous-qb8nd no, i dont care about the hashtag nice guy movement, i care about telling him that noone cares. Big difference, my condescending friend 😉
Spend hours of prep for a meal u consume in less than 30 min. Best pleasure my ass
One of my favorite things about people who support traditionalist values is how we actually give credit to the positive points of the opposing arguments rather than kicking and screaming about the "Patriarchy".
I grew up on a cattle ranch, everyone worked and helped. My mom was a teacher in a country school, also worked the cows + horses, and raised us kids all while preparing meals for hired hands and the family. I'll admit, she was a superwoman when I was young. All the women in the family (her, my three aunt's, and my grandmother) all pooled together to raise us kids, keep us fed and educated, and kept the ranch moving. It was an amazing day to grow up.
What I mean to say is, it's all possible.
Exactly the same for me. I was raised in the same environment and will be raising my own children this way too. Women like us do exist, just that men seem to be looking in the wrong places. You would never catch me in a nightclub or on instagram, as i don't use it.
The reason why men aren't getting married: Too expensive
Alright have a good day
Yep. There is ZERO monetary incentive for a man to get married. Unless you really want a life partner and kids, it’s a bad idea. If you have a good partner, you don’t need to be married legally, just be “roommates” and have a clandestine ceremony to show affection and relationship without signing any papers.
Good thing you didnt say this on twitter.
@@samuelmontypython8381 Not monetary - ZERO ANY INCENTIVE.
@@samuelmontypython8381 lmfaoaoaoa good luck being on child support. And I’m a woman. This doesn’t even make any sense. Why build with someone you don’t have a commitment to? And not all men lose their money
@@heheh6727 I didn’t say anything about not committing. You don’t need a marriage certificate to have a commitment. Even if you bought a car that you absolutely loved and were 99% sure it would never break down, you’d still buy an insurance policy. In the case of marriage, marriage is an insurance policy for the financially weaker of two parties and most often (though this ratio is changing with each passing year), the man is the breadwinner. In the case of divorce, either party stands to lose accumulated wealth since time of marriage (prenuptial agreements only protect accumulated wealth prior to marriage unless explicitly spelled out in a modified contract). Provide for children? No shit, that’s a given and no real man needs a contract that obliges him to do so, he should just do it. Child support is only a thing in cases where the father leaves or still lives at home but refuses to provide support, thus a court order for child support. Bottom line, Marriage is a social and religious construct and comes with so much fine print. The only time the court system should be involved is when fathers (or mothers in some cases), are being irresponsible and not properly supporting children. Child support for biological or co-adopted children I 100% agree should be a mandate. Everything else to include marriage is irrelevant.
This is child abuse. She's killing that kid, and the rest as well.
Like "my body my choice". The difference is she kills her baby after birth.
“My ex wife still misses me. But her aim is getting better! But her aim is getting better!”
I love that Gravity Falls reference
Lmao
"i--it's funny, because marriage is dumb..!"
@@devonrichardson44 I was thinking Oversimplified but ok
@@nighthawk1999 thnx for fixing it for me, but he does hesitate a little, hence forth: the dash.
@TBYS You do a good job of explaining the interpersonal psychological reasoning of a lot of issues. I appreciate that and look forward to watching more of your content.
"accountability is kryptonite to a modern woman" - Kevin Samuels
Legend
marry used women - jevin samuels
Women have never been accountable, it was merely less obvious when they were content to sit in the passenger seat.
good quote but that guy is a fuckin corn ball
The fact you quoted Kevin samuels 😂
When you call these types of people out as bad parents, they and so many people get upset for some reason. Feeding your kids shite? You're a bad parent. Refusing to teach your kids good behavior? Bad parent. It's not some difficult equation. TBYS hit the nail on the head again when it comes to putting in the work to improve yourself as a parent/person. No one starts off great at something. It's about getting good enough before you screw up a child's life.
And God forbid you ever suggest that children would be better off with a father in the home, helping to raise his children.
That statement alone is looked at as a personal attack on single mothers. If you dare even hint at it, using facts and statistics to back up your point, you will be labeled an angry, misogynistic, incel. It's a joke, and it's exactly why we have prisons full of men, who were all raised by single mothers in the US. But connecting the dots is sexist...
@@TurtleChad1 Cope.
@@TurtleChad1 No... it holds people to account for their behaviour and actions... something that appears not to have happened in your life. This whaman chose to be a wife and stay at home to look after the kids. She should pull her weight in looking after the family, including preparing food, whilst her husband works full-time and does other chores around the house. She only works two days a week. How lazy can she be? The husband is a dead weight as well.
This isn't just down to the parent, their parents, and their parents before them are also to blame. Standards are passed down by parents, and ultimately have a greater effect on a child's upbringing than the schools or media can achieve. When you start breaking down the family (as feminism was intended to do back in the 60s), each generation gets weaker, and you get to the stage where children are being taught nothing by their parents (and this is even worse for children raised by single mothers, who are delusional about how good they are as parents). That kid at the start, eating all that junk food by his disgusting mother, is going to be obese and diabetic by the time he reaches adulthood, and his mother is to blame. But her lack of standards was probably passed onto her from her own parents. She may be a disgusting mother, but she is a victim of her own upbringing by her parents, who are likely to be just as lazy and useless as she is. Kids born these days are being born with insulin resistance and addictions, passed on from their weak mothers while they were in the womb.
Just like trauma heritage
You are only the second person I’ve heard point out the serious insult and upside down thinking of feminism declaring the feminine role useless and bullying women into acting like men because acting like a woman is inferior. It’s so paradoxical and hurtful to women trying to be mothers and housewives and finding out how difficult and demanding it truly is.
That's an amazing perspective, I never thought of it like that
TH-cam deleted my comment. Sigh. Short version is, great analysis. Long version is silenced, again
Because TH-cam hates freedom of speech I guess
Come on lady grow up you don't understand a thing except how to be a victim you can't do some things men can do and we can't do some things you can do join the family team you must do this to be a good caretaker you are the very reason this man made this video it's just the truth and if it hurts your feelings good maybe one day you will grow up
@@louiswilson9433 pretty sure she’s agreeing with what the video said though
Yes, it is paradoxical and hurtful. But that's because you believed feminism was the answer to modern women & it would somehow provide solutions in life! Alas, it did not! Also, you rejected the traditional roles of women, viewing them with derision and contempt. You feel it's inferior for women to be housewives and mothers who cook and clean and are effective and great housewives!
THIS STATE OF MIND IS A RECIPE FOR MISERY!!
meanwhile, as a fulltime working mom, my kids would demand home cooked meals everyday and won't eat fast food nor premade, and consider the meal incomplete if it doesn't have a salad and a soup. sometimes i wish they would eat fast food at least twice a month so i could take a break from cooking, but thinking i only have to cook for them while they're young and i'll miss this exhausting days someday, it gives me motivation. i also require participation from my kids while cooking, like washing and cutting the vegetables, and they enjoy it a lot.
She made pasta for heavens sake, that’s one of the easer meals to make, only thing easer is grilled cheese. It’s not like it’s even that hard to learn to cook, look it up on TH-cam. Jeez these people I swear
For real. It's such a necessary life skill to have.
Only boiling water is easier !
Lol even if this was in 2011, TH-cam was already a treasure trove of life hacks and Gordon Ramsay existed.
Probably spending all her time cheating
Anybody who says they can't cook in this day and age is lazy, plain and simple. If you can follow a tutorial or guide, you can cook.
Back in the early 2000's, at university, I met someone who had no idea how to use cutlery. His family only ate fast or convenience foods (like microwavable meals). His family had NEVER had a sit down dinner and only ate takeaway (takeout). I actually taught him how to use cutlery, not just a fork or spoon to shovel the food in and how to cook simple meals (like an Omelette or just to put packaged foods in the oven to cook) it was extremely sad that a 19/20 year old had never eaten a properly cooked meal before.
I'm a stay-at-home wife I cook, clean, do the chores, go to the gym and I still have time to do a small part-time job. I cook every day for my husband and pack him lunch/snacks for work. I look at this where a woman who only works 2 days a week and doesn't want to cook for her family let alone her husband. I had a co-worker tell me that I shouldn't do all the housework and work. I should do only half the housework and let my husband do the rest. I got very upset and told her my husband works 8-10 hour shifts a day and the very least I can do is clean and cook for him so he can come home and just rest. She insulted me saying I give women a bad name by being a housewife. I look and these women who can't even cook pasta and think they give women a bad name. I'm proud to be a housewife and try to maintain how I look for my husband.
don´t be ashamed of yourself, you are nurturing your feminine virtues. I also got comments like that because I like taking care of the house when my bf is at work and I cook meals whenever he gets home. One woman said to me "no wonder we are still fighting for equality if people like you are refusing to accept it." but I would say there is nothing more equal than me working on the home while the man is working on his Job.
Thank you for being a good woman.
@@jimcole6423 Meanwhile they get banged by Chad when their boyfriends are at work lmfao
That woman is subconsciously trying to destroy your household simply because she does not have what you have, A LOVING FAMILY.
She admitted to you that she wants your life to be worse so she won't be negatively compared to you.
keep working hard because you have a great channel and i really thank you
Thank god , I was raised by a single father , he used to cook foods even at his busy times ! He used to scold me for eating fast foods often !
Thank god again for giving such a care taking and loving dad ❤️
Oh bless him. I’m so happy to hear that!
Bless his soul
Nice to hear that...
Yea situations like this make me glad to have the parents i have.
I just don’t understand why people can’t take the time out their days to cook a healthy and delicious meal, it’s honestly just pure laziness. I have two working parents that work from 5:30am to 5:30pm or from 5:30pm to 5:30am their work schedule changes from time to time. So it’s just me and my sister that are home alone for most of time, we distribute the house work evenly for the two of us. Whenever my parents get home around dinner time I prep and cook dinner, because I want to relieve the hassle from them because they’re already tired and overworked. I do the same thing for lunch because my parents sleep in until 1:00pm. Whenever my parents aren’t at work both of them cook it’s not just one that’s in charge of all the meals.
Agreed. I try to cook for me and my boyfriend, but sometimes we get fast food more often then I would like, but other times for days i dont feel like cooking and dont crave some fast food fries i usually go for the nutrisystem microwave meals (i dont believe they're healthy, they just have a nice balance for a quick lazy meal)
When I do cook though I always use Fresh vegetables and such. You really feel better about yourself when you get a nice balance in your meals. Fast food is more of a craving thing and too much always makes you feel iffy
@Mickey Strathclyde a little bit of snow could fix your problem
@@indistinguishable7259 you're joking right?
@@eliasrivera5644 no
@@indistinguishable7259 "oh you have a fast food addiction? Ohh that's no problem just do hard drugs instead morning will go wrong there" lmao
I like the term 'homemaker" rather than housewife. Making a home requires not only skills, but a lack of resentment toward using those skills. My husband hasn't cooked a meal or ironed a shirt in years. I stay home and do that, he goes to work and does his job. We're both happy with that arrangement.
Amazing story and a very wise , both of you must be very wise !
IMO it really only breeds resentment if the woman is also working full time AND doing all the house chores.
@MOBsta Imaging That shit's been done in every generation, it's nothing new and by this day and age, should be expected.
I envy you. I would love to be able to focus my time and attention to caring for my husband and children, unfortunately cost of living where we are prevents me from doing so. Instead I work full time outside of the house and do my best to be the best homemaker I can be with the time I have left.
My husband and I are the same way. The only times he cooks is if I'm sick or if he wants to smoke or grill.
Honestly one of the best TH-camrs on these types of topics ur not biased u give credit when it's due and u actually want them to be better instead of seeing them as a enemy. You want people to improve and be better and I respect that
"I shouldn't learn to cook, I'm strong and independent!" Modern women's logic.
They'd rather earn the big bucks and then exploit the immigrant labor or allow machines to raise their children. They don't really love their kids, because they assume someone else will just love them.
The Left is all over the fucking place.
Maybe people should start talking about the top chefs are mostly male and they'll change. Actively insult that, saying men can do better when they do it haha!
Thats not what modern women want i think they just want for men to be able to cook too lol everyone should know how to tend for themselves
Yeah,independently going to the store because you can’t cook basic food
@@cupcakecake7606 dude we don't live in the 90s anymore
I thought this was an “Onion” article for a minute, now that I know it’s real, I’m disappointed in humanity
Don't be disappointed in humanity, be disappointed in the person who makes the wrong choices.
Also, I loved how you compared it to an Onion article, it's definitely what they'll make.
You have a point there, and thanks
@@thatobscuregamer2199 no problem dude.
I work in a coal mine pining top, you can do what my wife does, she says "You will eat what I cook when I cook it or you can starve. It is healthy nutritional and tastes delicious. Period." My wife is an excellent house wife who controls her house with an iron fist of fury.
u have a good wife
ok big chungus
8:16: Ohhhh,
that was a Hashtag-Nice-Guy-Moment!
Anyone else spotted that?
Proverbs 31
King James Version
31 The words of king Lemuel, the prophecy that his mother taught him.
2 What, my son? and what, the son of my womb? and what, the son of my vows?
3 Give not thy strength unto women, nor thy ways to that which destroyeth kings.
4 It is not for kings, O Lemuel, it is not for kings to drink wine; nor for princes strong drink:
5 Lest they drink, and forget the law, and pervert the judgment of any of the afflicted.
6 Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts.
7 Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more.
8 Open thy mouth for the dumb in the cause of all such as are appointed to destruction.
9 Open thy mouth, judge righteously, and plead the cause of the poor and needy.
10 Who can find a virtuous woman? for her price is far above rubies.
11 The heart of her husband doth safely trust in her, so that he shall have no need of spoil.
12 She will do him good and not evil all the days of her life.
13 She seeketh wool, and flax, and worketh willingly with her hands.
14 She is like the merchants' ships; she bringeth her food from afar.
15 She riseth also while it is yet night, and giveth meat to her household, and a portion to her maidens.
16 She considereth a field, and buyeth it: with the fruit of her hands she planteth a vineyard.
17 She girdeth her loins with strength, and strengtheneth her arms.
18 She perceiveth that her merchandise is good: her candle goeth not out by night.
19 She layeth her hands to the spindle, and her hands hold the distaff.
20 She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy.
21 She is not afraid of the snow for her household: for all her household are clothed with scarlet.
22 She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.
23 Her husband is known in the gates, when he sitteth among the elders of the land.
24 She maketh fine linen, and selleth it; and delivereth girdles unto the merchant.
25 Strength and honour are her clothing; and she shall rejoice in time to come.
26 She openeth her mouth with wisdom; and in her tongue is the law of kindness.
27 She looketh well to the ways of her household, and eateth not the bread of idleness.
28 Her children arise up, and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praiseth her.
29 Many daughters have done virtuously, but thou excellest them all.
30 Favour is deceitful, and beauty is vain: but a woman that feareth the Lord, she shall be praised.
31 Give her of the fruit of her hands; and let her own works praise her in the gates.
Thank you Dick Hungus
That is so true, I became a stay at home dad when my son was born and let me tell you if my mother hadn't been teaching me how to cook since I was 8 years old it would have been an utter disaster. Cooking well is a very specialized skill, it can be extremely complicated and time sensitive. Thank you mom, for insisting I came in and helped with dinner.
both my parents have PHDs and work full time, but my mom still cooks great food almost everyday. just gained a new level of respect for my parents
Full time as in less than 40 hours "full time" or full time as in 50-70 hours?
@@crwilliams4597 37 hours is full time. go cry about it
@@awpfade no general federal law that defines full- or part-time work. however, i did not get full time benefits working 37 hours
So your mom works harder than dad?
@@homevideosfromnini3975 does that bother you kid??
This makes me feel even more thankful for my mom than I already am. She always cooks very healthy home-cooked meals for the family, and of course, I grew a natural interest in what my mom was doing in the kitchen at a young age. By age 12 or so, I was cooking dinner on my own to give my mom a nice break here and there. Sometimes I think the importance of knowing how to make healthy meals is overlooked.
That’s wonderful
Yeah: higher education is great (well, it should be), but so many forget the basics: cooking, personal hygiene, being active...
We are animals before anything else, highly sensitive to what we eat and how we live, how much sunlight we get, how many walks in the park: what's the point of having three degrees and a great job if you can't take care of yourself, you feed yourself junk and feel terrible all the time?!
“Women don’t want men who act like women, and men don’t want women who act like men”. PREACH! Amen to that. Great video
There are exceptions to that rule.
@Vick Murray The issue is that this structure is normal but its not healthy for relationship . All the hardships of money fall into men and all hardship of raising a child and keeping the house intact falls into women . The goal should be that both should know how to cook , raise a child and work . What the traditional way of living suggest is that both should be perfect at what they do but if they are not there is immediately a problem .
@Miguelle Landry is a perfect 10 They still hate traditional gender roles? Because not everyone has the same desires. Quit being shallow.
@Vick Murray Yes, but not everyone fits that model. Why are you so obsessed with every single man and woman being a carbon copy of each other? Why do you want everyone to be the same? Why do you want the world to have no soul or life, just people with no emotion just outputting the commands they were given, like robots?
@Matze96DAK is this a joke??? Lol… if not, then my answer is no, I mean just AMEN. As in “so be it” or “I concur”. Nothing suppressing about a word that has that definition. 🙂
Bro these images of food you have on the portions where you speak are making me hungry 😭
Fr tho your content is amazing
I find it hilarious I got a “Beef: it’s what’s for dinner” ad before this
lol
So did I!
I got Dr. Squatch.
Yea weird
I got the stupid “this is how I afforded an expensive car!” by...saving $80/month on car insurance?
I know a woman who's been married for ten years can't cook and feeds her family fast food almost everyday, she use to be a good looking woman at one time.
@wakenbaker-uk "now I can get fat" meme
she is just LAZY
Why does how she look matter in this scenario?
@@masonblobfish1724 when a woman is young with no kids her metabolism is hi so she can eat any food she wants but after hitting a certain age and having 2 or three kids plus eating fast food 50% to 60% of the time it's grimus time.
@@masonblobfish1724 the suggestion is that the husband made the choice to marry solely on looks and not anything else important.
I honestly don’t know how she messed up that pasta… it’s literally a boxed pasta and she poured in a canned sauce…
Ive cooked pasta enough I can just look at it and say yes it's done, or do a one noodle taste and be like hmm under cooked, Al dente, perfect, or over cooked. The canned sauce being poured directly before even trying to the noodles was also a food sin.
She could've improved the canned sauce firstly by making it in a seperate pot, then by adding a little bit of some of these ingredients in minor amounts: cheese, milk, heavy cream, sour cream, basil, salt, pepper, lemon juice. So many things, and cook in a seperate dish a bit of either ground beef, pork, turkey, whatever meat they prefer that can be added to the mix too.
Frankly I really like undercooked pasta for some reason, so o guess I wouldn’t mind it being undercooked.
Right, did she not fucking taste it if it's cooked or not? Even if it's undercooked, then cook it in the pan with the sauce while adding some water. It's not that hard. Sure you can add more things to make it more special, but throwing it away cause you "failed" is dumb.
@@christianedwards9025 stop making excuses
@@deg6788 ??? he not making excuses, he making good food lol
Brilliantly put together message. This covers just about everything and makes a lot of sense.
the lost art of bringing the family together around the table over a home cooked meal
"A POT ON THE STOVE, BRINGS THE MAN HOME!" - Chris Rock
I have a Polish family, everyone and i mean EVERYONE here can cook, clean, care for children and elderly, and we all work. It's stuff passed down by earlier generations
Right? I feel so weird watching these types of videos sometimes. Sadly this is the direction in which we're heading
I need a Slavic wife
my parents are from Latin America and i was born here. Most latinos are the same , it’s just the way it is. When they lived in a third world country , they had to do all the work around the house. These idiotic parents that were born with a silver spoon in their mouths are so spoiled and lazy.
@@Hypno_BPM same here, both my parents know how to cook and clean the house, and both me and my sister were taught how to do it since we were kids
@@Hypno_BPM exactly. Don't let these people infect you with their ideias
"see that is why a boy needs his father" Homelander
🤣🤣🤣🤣😮
Yeah "you guys are the real heroes"
"now he's just another useless fucking blind guy"
Homelander is a great dad. 👍
Tough love, right? lol
@@Justsomelycan "what's 17 more years? I can always start again , make another kid"
as a kid i was upset that i never got fast food like my friends did, now that im older i realize how smart my parents were for limiting that. to this day ive only eaten mcdonalds once and havent even been to most fast food restauraunts.
Dad: used to be abusive and ruined part of my childhood. Then switched and turned into a good person.
Mum: Fucked up my childhood is a caren and complains about everything that I do wrong and accuses me of everything even if it isn't my fault. Everything is disrespectful to her and me complaining about being offended would get me phisically hit. I swear she will not meet my children. Still fucking up my life.
oh dear... im very sorry that happended to you
@@liinliin7128 I don't have it as bad as him but I can relate to him on the manipulative and emotional abusive parent level.
@@bradlol6637 I am so sorry, I hope you doing okay.
@@dodo-uz4ct don't be it isn't your fault. And thank you
@Vuk Stojanovic nah I am fine thank you.
''Most new ideas suck.''
Thomas Sowell would be proud. The constrained vision is strong in this one.
This is heartbreaking and disturbing. The child has no choice over what they eat at that age. People who feed their children like this are slowly killing their children with all that fat, grease, sodium and calories.
when you killing someone slowly and you don't understand it ,whether it can be counted as unintentional murder?
@@Thrill98 maybe not murder but it is very much abuse or neglect in my opinion
Animal products and artificial gmo candy bullsht is whats "killing these kids".
This about Halloween. Not only is it a satanic ritual .
But it's a night to poison them with gmo animal products chemical bullsht.
No seems to notice.
No 1 seems to care.
8/
Negligent manslaughter, I think is the term
@@mgtowanonymous3120 Vegan nutcase. The majority of fast food is plant-based kibble cooked in rancid seed oils.
I disagree with your implication that men who "cry and share their feelings" is a bad thing. Keeping them to yourself is what's bad
she boiled some pasta and dumped a jar of sauce over it. "Incredible amount of work" LOL What a great joke. It's like a girlfriend telling you she made a bowl of cornflakes. She didn't make it. She assembled it.
i literally have made that same type of pasta, but i MADE it so it tasted good
@@Rileyjack1318 I've seen my mom make food like that. But she half cooked it. HOW DO YOU FAIL BOILING FOOD.
@@Andre-id9dl there are people who put pasta into cold water and than they start boiling. Or put a frozen pizza in an oven that is not pre-heated.
-why is the pasta undercooked?
-why is the pasta overcooked?
-why is the pizza still not done?
-why is the pizza burnt?