It's Time To Quit Drinking Alcohol, My Friends. I'm Done.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ส.ค. 2024
- It's time to close down an enduring chapter in the book of my life that I've been writing since way back in the 80's. For many reasons, I've made the decision to quit drinking alcohol. I'm done. End of Mission. The End.
At 51, I'm now truly on the downhill slope of being among the living. Time is something that's becoming more and more critical at this stage of the ride. I need to maximize every hour of every day and remember as much of it as I can. Therefore, the booze has to go.
Join me for a long talk about how I came to this conclusion and where I plan to go from here.
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Last drink 12/12/1989
Life is good,
I've drunk alcohol 40 years now. What I know is, there are no answers in the bottle. But, It helps me to forget all the questions, for awhile. I just tune in for the award winning TH-cam videos, whether you drink or not. Just keep on keeping on brother.
I drink because I'm bored ~ I'm in IT PARK or near IT PARK ~ I got in a fight in a bar in the new mall at IT PARK ~ fight with a Canadian guy ~ He started but I have to come down the drinking ~ I will stop but I have to pull back on the beer!
@@KingNewJersey I hope you will find something interesting to occupy your free time. perhaps learn to play an instrument or speak a new language.
After 25 years of smoking cigarettes, I quit 4 years ago. The decision wasn't easy, but it was the right one
I am 68 years old I don't drink but I've watched your shows and enjoy them drinking or no so it's your life do as you please my friend
It's never the drinking problem, only the stopping problem...😊
One Day at a Time
January 17th, 1991...the booze was interferring in my life and damn near got me fired from work. Having a wife and two little ones, I couldn't afford to fuck up. Hangovers are merely the results of alcohol poisoning. Control??? Everytime I tried I failed. One week later. Two weeks. A month. But sooner or later I started drinking again. Admitting I was an alcolholic was a BIG first step. Good luck. I'm a friend of Bill W.
14 yrs end of may for me , no alcohol, not even a sip, cold turkey
7 years
Brother... there is alot of youtube vloggers. I choose yours over them all. I enjoy watching you and your family. Congratulations to you Marcos and hello to the family
Thanks Marcos
I Respect Your Decision! I'm an Adult-Child of An Alcoholic! Just Lost My 51-Yr Old Brother-In-Law😢 I'm Realizing I Don't Want to go that Route! You've Save Your Life and Gained the Respect of Your Wife and Family! Thank God We Met here on Your You-Tube! I'm "Coming up on Getting My Permanent-Residency Soon!" I'm Having Some Second-Thoughts about Maybe Returning to Either the US or Finishing My Immigration to Canada! At Age 73 What's Left for Me? Thank You "For Your Show and Your Encouragement to See The Light Before Last-Chapter of My Life is Over!" God Bless You and Your Family and Your Decision! Bro! I'm "Really-Struggling with What Should I Do About Leaving the Philippines!😢😢 John S."
Good for you Marcos, I am certainly supporting you.
I’m so happy to hear that you’re taking this courageous step towards a healthier life. We’re the same age and I relate to you in many ways. I understand the challenges you're facing as I too am on a similar journey, fighting right beside you and battling my own demons Each day is an opportunity to move closer to a brighter future but make no mistake about it you’re in for the fight of your life my friend. This is war. Time to dig in. Remember, you're not alone in this fight. Keep pushing forward, one day at a time. You've got this
I am very PROUD OF YOU for you for making this decision. I have said this to you many times as a friend. I stopped about 35 years ago and I have not missed anything, in fact I feel I have gained so much more. Honestly, your videos are better when you are not drinking. You will be around for your kids a lot longer by doing this. Great decision for the family too I hope it really lasts this time, I remember you tried before and didn't make it very long, so this time just pray for god's help and you can do it. I did the same with smoking many years ago too. I just quit one day. That was probably harder than stopping drinking but I didn't want the smoke around my family and the kids were very young at the time and always wanted to be around me so that was also a great decision. I didn't go out partying with my friends when I was young I went to the airport and spent the drinking money on flying lessons and got my pilot's license. I had real estate, finance, and software businesses. My friends all had hangovers and I had a license to show for those times. Later in my life, I retired at 36 years old, I went out drinking for a while with friends and hated the next morning having hangovers. After a while, I just said that's it, I had enough, I needed to have a clear mind every day and wake up happy rather than hungover. At that point, I started another business and built it into an international company without ever looking back at drinking ever again. You will have a lot more success when you stop drinking and you and your family will have a much happier life. This is the best decision in your lifetime to do this. Find more things to do to keep you busy instead of just sitting around drinking. You can become the Philippines DJT, if you put your clear mind to it, anything is possible. God bless you, my friend! I am here for you if you need someone to talk to in this great venture.
It is definitely important to set a good example for the children.
Quitting is a very challenging journey. I totally support your decision for whatever value that has. And got your six as a listener from afar as best I can. My dad was an alcoholic. He died way too early. Not from a bad liver or organ failure. He fell and hit his head twice in a year. The last one killed him. So, quitting is in your best interest. Too many things can go wrong. Shoot me an email if you ever need someone to bounce thought off of. I've used a couple emails to sign up on your mailing list. God speed, brother.
My wife and I've been watching you guys for many of years. But over the years we've started to see a change in you like your attitude and the way you carry yourself. It shifted from a not so caring person to a very caring family oriented loving his kids and wife person.. We are not down you by any way We actually love your child videos MORE now than before. You guys take care of yourself and enjoy life because Philippinesis trulya specialplace.. P.S. Your alcohol story inspired me to do a video about my alcohol journey and I will post it soon on our ch..
When I was convinced the value of life was guaranteed to get better without alcohol, that was the beginning of my new life. April 13th, 2010. Everything from waking up, going to sleep, and everything in between is so much more enjoyable. Today I always try to set up my future self for success, because I wasn't like that before.
Good luck.
I’ve been a reckless drinker at times. Now a very occasional drinker and never been happier. Best thing is to get busy doing something like business or fitness. At some stage you’ve just gotta grow up 👍
Man! An absolute Champion. Pouring out life. The good. The bad, and the ugly. I wish you nothing but peace and joy my brother.
The contacts I made in bar rooms here in the states have made me a lot of money. That said my personal life has suffered due to a dui and just the general malaise that the after affects of a night out has caused. Now I only drink in the house but that is still adversely affecting me mentally. Thanks for this show. Maybe it will help me that you are saying out loud what I already know.
Captain of our own destiny is so true!
BUT, FATE CAN KICK ANY MAN;S ASS. YOUR DRIVING TO CHURCH, AND A DRUNK OR STONED DRIVER SMASHES INTO YOU. THE DRUNK SEEMS TO NEVER IT HURT, BUT YOU MAY END UP IN A WHEEL CHAIR? CAPTAIN OF YOUR OWN DESTINY? / CAPTAIN OF YOUR OWN SHIP? BUT FATE? TIME AND CHANCE CAN CALL FOR ANY MAN.
That's your road my friend.. do what you have to do,get it done. Dig,dig,dig!!!!
Hallelujah brother! I quit drinking several months ago myself! Agreed! Cold turkey! Good luck! I’m praying for you!
Hi to all in the Kingdom of Paradise. Non drinker here for over 20 yrs. One day at a time ... . We all stand by you on your decision to quit ,but when it's all said and done it's all You .But I support your decision. And many blessings Brother . Another great video from the King of Paradise. ❤
Really respect your choice man, it's not easy to admit a problem like this when you've made it a part of your identity. I made the same decision years ago and never looked back. Life's rewarded me with stability, focus, energy, and so much more in return.
Look forward to following along on some wholesome family adventures with your newfound energy. You got this brother 💪
That’s a decision YOU have to make. No one can make you do it. It’s YOU and only you.
Nothin but love and support for you!
You do you and your friends, followers and supporters will stand with you!
Well as long as you keep being a good father to the wonderful kids!
Great content!
Your drunk stuff was funny, but it was always the sober King that brought me back for the last 4-5 years...
Day 84 for me tomorrow after drinking constantly for 24 years, didn't have an off button, drank at least 15 different kinds of drink at least 3 nights a week then go to a pub , wasn't good , you definitely lose everything. Good on you Marcus and good luck, you'll need it.
Stay strong. Sub a hobby for drink time. Be careful when things good! We got brain washed , that when things go well, "It's Miller time!" Reward yourself with something healthy. Best wishes ❤!
@vinnie1711 thanks heaps mate
Go to the gym four times a week will definitely help mentally and physically.
@davec2727 watching overstay road takes up most of my time hahaha 😆
Today is day 299 for me my friend. I still miss it and that's just me being honest. I hope some day that will go away.
Happy 300!🎊 🎉
One day at a time ! 😊
Thanks for your testimony. I'm trying to make changes myself.
I wish you well in your journey, no matter what. Making me think how I need to find my new chapter.
Thanks from talking from your heart and ROLL TIDE!
ROLL TIDE😃
I’m an alcoholic and got help 12 years ago and have been sober ever since. First, you must admit you are powerless over alcohol (meaning can’t stop after the first drink). Next ask God for help. You will be on your way.
The inaginary bearded mass murderer in the sky won't help you. And why the hell would anyone stop after just q drink?????😂
Thank you for youre words, Alex
Good for you... I enjoy you much better when sober 😊
I am a recovered, alcoholic 16 years and proud of it. You’re headed in the right direction. Get rid of resentments and continue to look at yourself honestly
typical recovery talk..blah blah blah
Back to the family content. Good for you
best video my brotha, been wathin from the start great info for the people who wanna change... thanks marcos bro......
Health is wealth! No safe amount of alcohol is healthy.
Salute to you and taking a step in the right direction OG..
Thank you Sir. I heed all your words.
When you were in Thailand, you seemed different. You didn't seem happy, I hope all is well with you. The first step is to identify what causes you to drink? Thank you for sharing, and I am a big fan of Overstay Road!
I watched your video again, and I see and hear "mid-life" crisis. Please don't be that old guy in the club trying to pick up on young girls. I remembered being grossed out when old men approached me. MARCOS you are a Blessed man, having Fatima and your Beautiful children. Please provide more videos of Philippines, family, village, and your views on life. My husband and I love your videos! Take care!
Don't listen to her
😊 I wish you the best mark. You do u
I stopped my heavy drinking and the clubbing days. But i still find myself with a light drink and into a good chess game!
Be careful, you may be playing checkers while the dark side is playing chess with your addiction. That was my experience. But if you can truly practice moderation, nothing but well wishes. ❤
hey i aint a doctor but ive been a addict for many years and alcohol withdrawls can really hurt you sir
Good on you! Your books were excellent!
A dawg will do what a dawgs gotta do. Congratulations on the new chapter!
I've watched many of your videos and enjoyed them, but my hat's off to you brother. I'm happy for you, happy for Fatima, happy for the kids, happy for the entire family. Keep doing what you're doing now, I definitely foresee your numbers increasing in the future. Content is on-par and generates smiles from me constantly. Look forward to your vlog every day now. Blessings to you all.
So happy for you … you got this no doubt about it … 🎉😊❤
God bless you buddy, in a year I’m retiring at 62, I’ve been following you for years , always love your videos, because if you , I would love to visit the phillipins some day.
Keep writing your story Mark
My sister drink way to much I'm worried about her it takes guts and I'm proud your trying
Appreciate the video 🤙🏾
Hola Hola, a mate had lotsa stress for a long time , wasn't sleeping well, he is 60 yrz , he looked 80yrz....a year ago he started drinking 100 mls only of whisky b4 bed at night....he looks like a new man now, 50 yr old... He gets his 7 to 8 hours sleep which is a biggie.. his LDL cholesterol is good now , his stress levels are now low...small amount. Can have health benefits, toooo much can wreck relationships , and wreck the liver......cassidy
Wow, you're actually a good writer with talent. I think I'll check out one of your books. Reading a real book other than reading articles on the internet or work would bring me back to my old days when we didn't have the internet. Just be happy Mark and keep growing. Change never stops, we just catch up to it.
hell no sir your a realist and one of the best utuber it is what it is sir
Congratulations!! The phils has to be the hardest place to stop drinking. Lots of party's there. Filipino love to party!!
Very good. I wish you the best.👍👍🇺🇲
Thank you for this video.
The chapter entitled "Doctors Opinion" in the front of the AA Book saved me because it explained what it is in a way that I could understand.
I cured my drinking. I only drink when Iam by myself or with other people. 😂❤
“I don’t have a drinking problem. I drink, I get drunk, I fall down. No problem.” 😝
You’re a very smart man I can learn from this my problems with alcohol and partying. I’m 49 and such . I find alcohol to chill relax . Not depressed but push my self . For my health. I’m same way I’m not dependent on alcohol I find it way to cope with working and depressed. Maybe life . I recognize the problem I just use it excuse to drink . Or
Work . And I struggle with out alcohol to work for my self .
Thanks!
Thank you very much, my friend!
If you want to see your kids grow up, give up the bottle.
I have been a drinker who has stopped many times sometimes for years, but get back too. Now I drink at the same time and I'm thinking of stopping for a moment. My grandmother was a heavy drinker and tew on tobacco she lives for 99 years and 11 months.
I would have a hard time without a cold beer and a cigar
Been waiting for this video. Congratulations.
I love this message !
I drink moderately so I don't never have to quit. Just don't live a fast life.
Good for you
Your kids are so precious
I woke up this morning and felt compelled to rewatch this video and read the comments. It struck me that most of us have the same experiences. We are all just at different stages in the same journey. I always thought I was the only one thinking these thoughts.
Hearing you take an honest look at your relationship with booze, and articulating the pros and cons inspires me to make some changes in my life. I’ll watch this video again when I need a reminder to stay on track.
Don’t worry about TH-cam content or viewership numbers. You are good at articulating your thoughts. Since you are honest, the messages resonate with the current and former pirates out there. Keep making good videos and the audience will find you. I look forward to hearing more musings from your sober mind.
That's good my friend for the sake of your family your wife most specially to your two kids. Who will help you and your family if something happened to you I hope not. God almighty and lord Jesus Christ bless you and your family circle. I want to see you have a long life for your family , you are not alone now you have your own family to support and make a strong and healthy life for you
The reason restaurants ask you what you want to drink first is because it goes directly to your brain's frontal lobe and makes you more inclined to drink more and buy more. Your normal inhibitions melt away.
Wuahaha, these dancing hijackers! This is so funny!
Do what makes you happy
Mark go for a run and get your body back in shape.
What's the over/under on when he starts drinking again? I'm guessing 3 months.
King Markus, you are a very intelligent guy, i never give advice, especially on alcohol. My Dad died from cirrhosis of the liver at 49. I didn't know him. I had my last drink at 43, im now 62, i did smoke some pot the last couple years, Legal in my delusional state. Covid ran me out of AA. To many complete idiots. When im here in the Philippines of course no pot. I don't really like it anyway. My kids are 25 and 22 they were 3 and 5 when i stopped drinking, best thing i could have ever done for them, both very successful adults (half Filipino) my marriage ended at 8 years sober ,i take 1/2 responsibility for that. I quit drinking many times. Stopping drinking is the easy part. Staying stopped is the hard part. Much success to you and your family.
I can tell you I can tell the difference between your sober videos and drunk. You are incredibly intelligent, with a heck of a lot of knowledge. Share that with the world, your kids need it. We as viewers opinions don't matter, maybe our support and telling you this is for the best will.
35 yrs sober, to stay sober I equate alcohol with poison. 20 yrs of drinking in excess was enough for a lifetime. Good luck on a fresh start.
Im almost a year with no alcohol 2 crazy gout episodes my feet felt like they were actually broke. I stopped smoking along with it. I've been jogging 4 miles a day for the last month. 49 years olds in 2 weeks and I'm feeling really good.
Hi from Alaska. ❤
Marco I’ve been watching you from the $20 condo to the penthouse to every shenanigan in between. I just put myself out in Thailand. I had to get myself out of there before it ate me alive. Cambodia is much better for me. Go give Forest G a high five for me. Have a good morning man
God, Country and Family. Live Free an Healthy
Prairieville Louisiana
You can do it Mark😊…. Come on brother….
Yea my liver is hurting too. My Filipina wife is constantly nagging in me too slow down or quit, but when I hang with the in-laws and bbq goat I. The garage I tend to fall into temptation, smoking, redhorse, shots, etc.
shots? Are you a teenager? Alcoholic here haha. I don't know how you do it.
Im pretty sure its about Angeles City and the ladyboy back rub with Philly in the Philippines.. but I could be wrong.
King... she did look like a woman.. drinking 100% would miss it too.. thats a funny story. Roll with it
Good for you I have 465 days!!
Remember God, Country & Family
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Prairieville, Louisiana
Congratulations on your decision, it's difficult. But if your determine God Bless.
Doctor warned me of alcoholic fatty liver Jan 2023. Stoped drinking and went on diet consist of whole foods and meat. Within 6 month my doctor was surprised that I reserved my fatty liver. These days I just have a glass of red wine on special occasions. 😊
Appreciate your honesty, and your articulate delivery. I've been there before. Now let's see if you can do it.
Agreed, one must stay in control of alcohol consumption, To note, Cannonau wine is called the artery scrubbing vino ie people are living to 115 years old in blue zone regions of the world.
You got my respect brother! As a fellow subscriber you have my support and this may be the best decision of your life. Sobriety gives you more time with your beautiful family! I'll keep watching !
Love your videos - even commented on your recent box wine video - but I haven’t drank in many years. Never had a problem with the stuff - really enjoyed IPA’s, box wine or Crown - just depended on my taste at the time - but never had trouble turning it off for weeks or months at a time. It all changed for me though when I realized that I had a child who had a drinking problem… he totaled 2 cars and came close to dying in each accident due to intoxication. Obviously - it was his choice (as an adult) to drive while intoxicated - and to be intoxicated in the first place - but, I truly began to resent the fact that I had allowed my kids to ever see me represent that drinking alcohol was a good thing in any way. A person never knows that they will become addicted - until they are…
I gave away all remaining alcohol in my home years ago and haven’t looked back - I don’t yearn for it (thankfully) - and I sure don’t miss paying for it. I now completely represent to my kids that it is ONLY a negative thing (for my life). Just my personal choice…
Good luck - I hope you achieve the balance you seek. You and your family will benefit from it.
By the way…I have a friend who has drank for decades…he was totally fine - until he wasn’t - starting having health issues - went to doc - Stage 3 Cirrhosis of the liver. He quit cold turkey…but he now wishes he had quit a long time ago.
She appreciates your wit and sense of humor.
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Thank you for this video my friend. I have been a subscriber before, then quitted. But for some reason, enjoy watching your videos every now and then. Why, because you are funny and honest. This is your most meaningful one ever. I have been living in Taiwan for 20 years, have been to the Philippines 4 times and said to myself never again. Who knows, maybe I will. Nevertheless, hope to meet you one day. You have put a smile on my face many times. Good luck with your endeavours. Johan
I like the way you did that back screen. Super awesome!
I have been engaged to a filipina since 2018 and have a four year old son together. I'm hoping that you will share how you dealt with in-laws and the language barrier. She wants to live in her family's village and I want to live close to the beach (a good 5 hour drive between there place and where we're staying). Whenever we visit her family, the language barrier is miserable. The younger family members know English but are afraid to speak it and most of the older ones might be able to read it but can't speak it (my southern accent doesn't help) lol. She likes to visit for 7 to 10 days when we go but I've reached the point that I stay one day and head back to the beach house by myself. I just can't stand sitting at her house with all of her family and relatives chatting and I can't understand a word. I've been trying to learn Tagalog but it's very slow going. I definitely have no desire to live there in her village and deal with that on a daily basis. This is majorly affecting our relationship and just wanted your 2 cents on how you dealt with it. Thanks and I really enjoy watching. On a side note, I was unable to be in the Philippines for my son's first 2 years because of Covid which really sucked and now it feels like they think I stole their grandson.
Thank's for sharing. Wish You all the best. And by the way... happy children and girls are never disturbing. It's the best music of life. Enjoy.❤
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