Zach will forever be my fav interviewer he is Soo respectful towards all the artists on the show. I'm so beyond proud of nessa, she is sooo strong , she's gone through so much especially with cooper passing 🕊️. Coop is looking down at her so proud of her. Nessa never holds back when it comes to her mental health and such a major advocate 🤍. I love her so much
I am so happy that he handled the interview the way he did. Our Nessa, oh I love her. She's a sensitive soul and has been through a lot. We all can relate to her, maybe not on every aspect, but certainly in *some* way. I have mad respect for her. I truly love Nessas work. Its absolutely beautiful. Its raw. She doesn't hide a thing! I love it.
something i've noticed about nessa, is that she always blames herself for feeling a certain way. whether it's literally mourning over the death of her closest friend, or attempting to end her life - she always points the finger back to her, and either gets embarrassed or angry at herself for reacting to her situations. It's clear that the years of cruel and unimaginable things said to her by the internet, has taken its toll on her. and I genuinely hope that she's found a sense of peace and love for herself within this superb album. She deserves nothing but love and healing, and i have endless amounts of respect for her 🤍
Because everybody gets mad at her for being open about her emotions. She just wants to make other people feel understood and feel like it’s ok to be emotional or struggle with mental health but she always gets shut down.
this !!! she seems so stressed here tho & u def can tell how much she hates exposin herself, cus imo she became famous way too quickly so shes not used to all the hate comments that ppl say abt her 24/7
@@narsaku1408 how is this relevant to the comment you're replying to... smh religious people don't understand time and place. always want to shove their religion everywhere
I literally cried my eyes out when she started crying over accepting god just after cooper passing.She’s so pure and i can’t wish her but to be this strong forever.
I honestly cried during this podcast. Zach is so caring, Nessa is so pure and strong, i've honestly been feeling so low lately so hearing them talk about is comforting
Its absolutely beautiful and I'm so glad she found God. 🙏🖤✌ I'm glad she is in a space that she feels like she *can* put her raw emotion on paper, then out to us. We *can* relate. A lot of us can. All art is open to interpretation. But Nessa really, truly shows what she wants you to see. She's so honest without trying to hide it with off lyrics. It's pure honesty. I love it.
Not me crying with y’all when Nessa said she found God. I’ve found myself seeing her cries for help on social media and praying for her, I’m so proud of you Nessa ❤ God loves you, he is with you 🙏🏽
I’ve never listened to this show before but through watching this, I’ve gained so much respect for Zach. His questions are insightful, respectful and lead to such interesting discussions and I really admire how you can tell he made Nessa feel accepted and able to speak her truth in a comfortable environment, that takes a real skill
This is beautiful. Seeing the bond that Nessa and Cooper had… he brought her closer to God but also, it’s almost like he gave his life so that she can live hers to the fullest with both of their strengths combined.
as someone who has bipolar w symptoms of bpd i have never felt more seen and understood by anyone until nessa. i have no words to explain how much she and her art mean to me. i love this interview and the album so much!!!
baby girl, you are going to look back in 5 years and be so in awe with yourself. you are ahead of your time at such a young age, you got this. life sucks now but it’ll get better, i was there too. in a mental hospital, back to back boyfriends, not being able to express myself to the reality around me. but now i am 28, single for 6 years (hopefully not too long for u) independent, happy and free. sending you love and light nessa. also so much respect for zach. 🖤
This interview was so hard yet easy to watch. Nessa opening up and showing her vulnerability got me crying… i love her soso much. Zach was so mature and respectful. Thank you for this 💗
My best friend had borderline personality disorder like nessa , they are very similar. Last year she committed suicide. I miss her so much and I hope nessa gets all the love and help she needs to stay here. ❤❤❤
Wow. I’m experiencing some pretty severe depression atm and this was insanely therapeutic to listen to. Nessa is so raw and open which is so rare in a world where the illusion of perfection has never been thrown in our faces more, and Zach is also such a rare beautiful soul. I can’t explain it but he’s just so comforting to listen to and you feel like a massive weight has been lifted just listening to both of them speak. Very powerful stuff!🙏🏻❤️
I’m wishing you so much love and light, please be as kind and patient with yourself as you can and know that you can and will pull yourself out of this dark time. You deserve to be happy and happiness will find you in due time ❤
I just wanted to say the way you treat and talk to your guests is extremely respected. A lot of podcasters main focus is drama and stirring the pot, all for clout. You are so gentle and know that these people are HUMAN with FEELINGS. I am so sure that you’ve helped your guests more than you think. Mad respect to you Zach.
if there’s another young person listening to this who is experiencing grief, please hear me out- Yes, parts of you can die with that person.. but why do those parts have to die with them at all? “Energy can neither be created nor destroyed”. I lost my sister & grandma suddenly/violently when I was 17, then as time’s gone on I’ve lost friends to od’s and family to illness- and in that moment between death and healing, there’s a constant reminder/realization that death and tragedy have the ability to take absolutely everything away from your spirit, you can freeze in time there or you can make the decision that even if it hurts and you don’t feel like it- you WILL move forward and you will learn and be better because of it. It’s not fair- but you can. I don’t know much about Nessa and came here because I enjoy Zach’s interviews, but wow my heart hurts for this sweet girl, but I so deeply hope she also overtime and healing can find the perspective that we allll have pain, and society has always been tough- but we didn’t progress with negativity and pessimism- we need to keep fighting the good fight, and we need to believe it can change- even if we have no reason to believe that.
@@kaitlynmarie2640 yeah I lost my grandpa when and it was around like when I was in like 3rd grade and I lost my dog close to that and I lost my dog today and she was only 9 years old
i’ve met a couple of people with bpd. one person was someone who was very close to me and they were also an alcoholic. they would go through psychosis when they drank. and after they would “love bomb”. i always saw it as manipulation but this really showed me that they genuinely were probably sorry and cared about what they did. so thank you nessa💗!
it’s so refreshing to hear someone open up so publicly about their mental health issues and make raw, beautiful music expressing those struggles. nessa is amazing I hope she is kinder to herself and fully heals 💗
I understand why people may not like Nessa, she’s young she’s made mistakes. I genuinely feel like she’s learned and has tremendously grown over these years. And for that I applaud her❤ be nice you don’t know what people are going through.
I don’t like her bc she cries about her life as a young successful millionaire. She says I’ve had a traumatic childhood when there are kids eating mud pies and drinking dirty water or there’s children with parents that die young or abandon them or physically beat them. Nessa is priviliged and she doesnt even know it. She hasn’t actually struggled but she feels like she has bc she has been so priviliged that any obstacles she comes across she struggled to get around them.
@@_saucyam_ just because she doesn’t have the same childhood as those people doesn’t mean u can invalidate her trauma, she has tried to commit for a reason. Everyone struggles and obviously some have it worse than others but that doesn’t make her trauma any less important. so kindly shut up
I have been following nessa since New Jersey, she is my all time favorite artist and women ever. She had grown so much and her speaking on mental health is so real. No one ever shows the real truth and she has let her fans in. She is going to be huge and it’s coming quick
THIS OMG !! same tbh. I def think she’s growing & becomin so huge lately bc of how much she has dealt w icl. many ppl can relate to it so it acc makes em feel they arent alone.
Absolutely. Zach treats the guests like people with lives, not some bags of drama to get gossip or views out of. He's compassionate and it shows in the conversations he has with them.
I absolutely love Nessa, I am so proud of her but also have to give props to the interviewer. You don’t cross boundaries, make the artist uncomfortable, or disrespect them. I love it, thank you for a great ass podcast!
As someone who struggles with bpd and depression / anxiety , it’s so comforting when people you look up to talk about the same struggles as you and not only bring awareness but bring light to a very dark situation and give hope you those around you.
“i just never thought that there’d be a moment where i didn’t have him” 😢 i lost my best friend too and i never thought i would live to see the day where i couldn’t facetime, text, or even see him again. and it fucking sucks. i love you Nessa! keep your head up and you will get through this. R.I.P Coop🕊️
I’m 29 and I genuinely relate to her mental health struggles myself. Listen youngins!! Get help early if you need it, it can change your life. If I would have got the help I needed at the time I needed it life would probably be very different today.
omg m crying it makes me so happy to see nessa go this far into actually talking about her feelings openly I’m literally so proud of her she doesn’t only help herself with her music it’s literally a therapy for us as well. A bunch of feelings and emotions turned into actual musical masterpieces. ur purity nessa literally!!
I think Nessa is such a pure soul in this world thats so harsh. She deserves all the love including self love. Also zach is so eloquent its crazy. I could listen to him talking for hours.
20:50 zach is so right with this. i did hate nessa in the beginning bc of the tiktok she had done where it offended many muslims, but as i watched her more i could see what type of person she was and i fell in love with her and i could see she was one of the only people who genuinely was apologetic and she wasn’t forced into the apology just bc of haters. i love this girl with my whole heart and i feel such a connection to her. i think i’ve had a very similar life to hers and i know exactly what she thinks and feels. idk how to explain it but zach was very correct when he said hate can turn into love and admiration💗
100%. and i think ppl are too harsh on her when they r fans of celebrities who can’t even apologize and own up to the disrespectful things they have done but will hate on someone who’s made like 10 different apologies over the years.
When Nessa started talking about her mental hospital experiences, I related so much. I went in for a suicide attempt as well and they did not care about me at all. There was no therapy like she said. They basically just watched me. As someone who attempted suicide, we shouldn’t be placed in the same place as people that have homicidal tendencies. Speaking from my experience, I was threatened in the hospital by two people to be killed. The whole point of me being admitted was to keep me safe and ALIVE and meanwhile I’m getting threatened to be stabbed and choked. Rehabilitation centers and hospitals need to actually care about their patients. I had to learn how to take care of myself because no one else would.
i think ness is the ONLY one who really shows to all of us how is life out of social media. she isn't scary of showing how social media is fake. she's the only one who is real w us. the strongest woman i've ever met. not kidding. love u ness 🫶🏼 stay strong :)
Zach,I Stan how respectful and understanding you are to all of your guests.You don’t ask questions in a overwhelming way and just make conversation.I love how understanding and supportive you were to ness💙
My mom has a lot of mental health issues. Including BPD and a bipolar disorder. My childhood was quite difficult and traumatising. Unconsciously with the years, I’ve surrounded by far myself with people with those mental illnesses. It healed me and gave me that opportunity to see her as her own person and not only the mother she couldn’t be.
I loved her album, just wishing her the best 'cause I founded myself a lot in her songs and loved them like I didn't knew how much I needed that in life, I hope she finds peace through religion 🖤✨
as someone with bpd - lovebomb has meant so much to me. I have waited for it to come out since I heard the snippets. I have even sent it to loved ones to help them understand how I feel. Its so beautifully raw and touching and means so much to me. Ill never be able to fully express how much this album has touched me. thank you nessa
I’ve never related more to someone that’s my age, hearing her speak abt spirituality & mental health kinda opened me up as well. Nothing but positive vibes towards her.
This was so comforting to watch. I’m glad she’s healing and have the right people beside her. I’ve worried about her for so long after what happened but now I’m certain she’s getting up stronger than ever.
i love how they were so respectful with the questions and how they were towards her, this interview and like how open she is with the things shes been through has actually made me realise maybe i should start opening up about myself and maybe get some help and same with nessa’s music especially love bomb and talk to myself i honestly relate to her music so much. really hope she starts feeling better about everything she seems so sweet🫶
I love that this interview is really getting deep into the important aspects of her life. Not just the happy parts or the drama, but he’s really asking the hard questions. Nessa has a lot to say & is so pure.
I’m so glad that the generation now has a atmosphere that they can talk about their emotions and mental health struggles openly and find the support they need. When I was 20, I was still under the umbrella where mental health wasn’t easily talked about and people looked at us sideways. I’m 41, and have a appreciation for artist like her that can do this through music. I’m so proud of her journey! ❤
Zach is absolutely the best interviewer - most empathetic and genuine guy.. love him..❤️. And Nessa is also so honest with her feelings.. I'm glad she's got a good therapist... ❤️.
Rest In Peace coopii. This girl is so brave for going through what she had going on. ever since the album came out its literally on repeat its amazing idk
Spotify suggested Nessa to me yesterday, and I listened to all her available music, and I genuinely felt like I got to know her through that. She is exactly the person in interviews I imagined based on her lyrics. I could really tell that she wrote her own lyrics and songs, they all felt so personal. Melody vise La Da Die is my favorite so far, but I love the story of Plane to Paris is such a familiar feeling. She is so genuine.
she’s so inspiring. hope she knows how much she’s helping young adults. like everything i think she puts it in a such a amazing beautiful piece of art.
I get how she feels crazy with how hard it is to control your thoughts. I’m taking therapy, medication, am a psych major (which should help me understand myself) and still sometimes it feels pointless and hopeless to try. It feels like no matter what I do my brain wants to rot my body and life. She’s so amazing she’s really admirable, I know she’s made stupid mistakes but I’m proud of her for learning and growing even with how hard it is with mental illness. I thank everyone in her life for sticking with her too because I get how it can get difficult and tiring to deal with people like us who have bipolar or bpd.
i lost someone close to me 2 months ago to suicide and all these thoughts have crossed my mind. we needed this interview more than Nessa will know and she needed this talk for herself more than she’ll realize.. 💗
wow, i am speechless. nessa has such a genuine soul. i never realized how much we have in common until now. i understand her so much and it really helps to know that we’re not alone. i love when people tell their story, especially social media influencers because i’m always thinking that they have the perfect life because they never have to worry about money or other things but listening to her open up about mental health has really helped me so much. it makes me realize that everyone goes through something and materialistic things do not make you happy. i love nessa. she has inspired me in so many different ways. she has made such a positive impact in this world and i love how much she’s grown over the past few years. i suffer from depression and anxiety and i have been in the mental hospital. it honestly sucked because they think it helps but it actually just makes things so much worse. you’re basically thrown into an empty room and away from the outside world so it makes it easier to think about all of your problems. it doesn’t help at all. i never wanna go back but i love this interview of her. she’s so open about everything and she’s definitely helped a lot of people. i hope she finds healing and learns to love herself because i definitely know how it is to be your biggest hater and i still struggle with it but it definitely takes time to better yourself. she’s definitely come a long way. i’m so proud to see her growth. she’s doing a great job. she is very beautiful inside and out. i love her so much. i would love to meet her in person. she seems like the nicest person and she’s so misunderstood. i wish people would actually listen to her and realize that she means no harm despite the mistakes she’s made. she’s learned a lot from them and everybody makes mistakes but society sucks. everyone judges everybody when they don’t even know them personally and it’s so sad. she has made a huge impact on my life and i’m beyond happy that she’s still here. she is such a blessing, truly. i pray that she continues to be strong and keeps doing what she’s doing. i pray that she finds healing within herself because she has such a beautiful soul and i know one day she will notice that.
zach you’re literally the best interviewer i’ve ever come across! so genuine and not asking the typical questions every other interviewer asks love you guys !
How respectful Zach is to Nessa Barrett I'm so proud hear her whole situation about what's going on in her life. I'm so happy she is okay and doing well she deserves everything and it makes me cry to think that there is still hope for eveything after everything I have experienced but I just wanted to say thank you so much Zach and Nessa for giving me hope in my life. Thank you ❤
This inverview is amazing and dave and the bffs where wondering why he gets all the ppl he does this is why. He actually cares about the guest and does his research and does not bring up drama and if he does lets them saay want they want and moves on
I hate the bffs podcast, everything they present is just so fake. I love watching zach’s interviews and it’s so beautiful to see nessa talking here and everything is so genuine and raw I love it, there’s no drama, just real feelings and I think that’s really important and something the media needs more of. I’m so over the drama and romanticized part of things and I think this interview is so touching and a real conversation that is so meaningful
I can’t even explain how much I love and appreciate her. She doesn’t even know it, but she’s honestly changed my life for the better. She’s gone through so much, but is still here going on in life. I love that about her. I can’t even imagine what she has gone through. When she mentioned Coop I honestly started tearing up. I miss him so much. Nessa, just know he’s looking down at you right now, smiling, and still your biggest supporter. Also Zach, thank you for being such an incredible interviewer. You’re so genuine and kind. Loved this video so much. Go stream young forever by Nessa!!
I love this interview so much, they respected everything about her and made her feel as it was safe to talk about deep things that not a lot of people are comfortable with, Nessa truly is my comfort and I’m beyond proud of her ! Slay ness slay🤍🤍🥺
What’s insane is that when she’s talking about mental health I feel the same exact way. It’s crazy how much I can relate to ness and how we all feel the Same way
the amount of times i cried throughout this is crazy :( i love you nessa more than you could ever know, and zach i love how you are so sweet and respectful towards her. this is my new favourite podcast because it really helped me and it also helped me understand nessa more. nobody is even reading this but thank you for making this podcast and stay strong nessa i love u so much
she makes me feel normal inside my own head, god bless her strength for being able to accept and confront her problems when you just have never wanted help less. i love u so much nessa, such a beautiful soul ❤️
wow, this is my first time seeing this guy interview someone and he is incredibly good at it. He is so into his guest and the way he reacts, the questions he asks, the immediate responses that are so genuine and thoughtful and just *good*
Nessa, you come off as a person that is extremely easy to love. I understand the self-hatred - because I can relate to it. I will be listening to the new album! Always love watching these interviews, and really enjoyed listening to Nessa & her own thoughts about several topics.
I am not a fan of anyone but xxxtentacion and now of nessa. I don't easily feel connected or obsessed-ish with stars, vips and so on.. But she is so captivating, authentic and inspiring. How can someone be so incredible? I like her music but don't really listen to it but damn her personality or the glimpse we get to see from it!! I think I am more a fan of her personality and mindset; her music and talent is just a big plus. Nessa if you are reading this you are such a likable person, it seems. I wish you all the best, keep continuing your dreams, because you are soo inspiring and healing others 🌠🤍
I wish this beautiful soul could see herself through her fans eyes. She is absolutely breathtakingly beautiful, talented, and sooo chill. She handles all this so well. I have borderline personality disorder too and it’s pretty cool someone with the platform she has is so open about her disorder. It’s so hard to talk about having borderline personality disorder in public or in general. We don’t expect anybody to understand it because we can’t even understand ourselves. 😂❤
I adore her with all my heart, I literally sat here for these 52 minutes and was constantly smiling because she really just gives me so much comfort it’s insane
wow.. listening to this really made me self-reflect on my life, listening to her speak about her struggles really hit close to me. I am so happy that Nessa is working on herself and I'm glad she was able to find a therapist that she connects with. I really do feel for her and I hope that one day she is able to find self-love. the world can be a cruel place but having a strong support system will help so much. Zach is so sweet and I could tell that he is an amazing friend.
Nessa deserves every bit of love she gets. I hope she learns to love and accept herself. She’s such a genuine person and I just wish she could see herself the way so many of us do. She is so admirable and her music is amazing. I relate to her so much and I’m glad she has a platform. She has no idea how good her music is. It’s so powerful and extremely well produced. This interview was so raw and amazing. ❤
I can’t wait to see her in a few years down the road. I am wishing her happiness and continued healing because she really is a sweet and talented person ❤ love the album as well
one of the best interviews hands down. she’s so well spoken and strong. beautiful souls go through the worst pain so they shine the brightest in the end🙏🏽
Zach will forever be my fav interviewer he is Soo respectful towards all the artists on the show. I'm so beyond proud of nessa, she is sooo strong , she's gone through so much especially with cooper passing 🕊️. Coop is looking down at her so proud of her. Nessa never holds back when it comes to her mental health and such a major advocate 🤍. I love her so much
Exactly... I'm so proud of her
I agree with u, Zach is so friendly and always asks good questions. And Nessa is so respectful with him and about Coop too
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I am so happy that he handled the interview the way he did. Our Nessa, oh I love her. She's a sensitive soul and has been through a lot. We all can relate to her, maybe not on every aspect, but certainly in *some* way. I have mad respect for her. I truly love Nessas work. Its absolutely beautiful. Its raw. She doesn't hide a thing! I love it.
something i've noticed about nessa, is that she always blames herself for feeling a certain way. whether it's literally mourning over the death of her closest friend, or attempting to end her life - she always points the finger back to her, and either gets embarrassed or angry at herself for reacting to her situations.
It's clear that the years of cruel and unimaginable things said to her by the internet, has taken its toll on her. and I genuinely hope that she's found a sense of peace and love for herself within this superb album. She deserves nothing but love and healing, and i have endless amounts of respect for her 🤍
This. Exactly this. I totally agree & she's just the best.
Because everybody gets mad at her for being open about her emotions. She just wants to make other people feel understood and feel like it’s ok to be emotional or struggle with mental health but she always gets shut down.
this !!! she seems so stressed here tho & u def can tell how much she hates exposin herself, cus imo she became famous way too quickly so shes not used to all the hate comments that ppl say abt her 24/7
I want to share a few experiences I've had this year, I hope it helps someone in need.
@@narsaku1408 how is this relevant to the comment you're replying to... smh religious people don't understand time and place. always want to shove their religion everywhere
I literally cried my eyes out when she started crying over accepting god just after cooper passing.She’s so pure and i can’t wish her but to be this strong forever.
Nessa is such a talented and strong person. I love her so much
I honestly cried during this podcast. Zach is so caring, Nessa is so pure and strong, i've honestly been feeling so low lately so hearing them talk about is comforting
I hope you'll get better soon ❤
sending love
Sending you love. I hope you start to feel better soon. try and remember that every cloud has a silver lining and things improve.
Nessa is continuing coopers legacy of destigmatizing mental health issues. She’s so brave, strong, and an amazing artist. So happy she’s around ❤
How do you call someone who struggles brave and strong ? You’re compliments seem fake and ridiculous
The fact that she found God is the biggest blessing. God Bless you Nessa. The album is incredible.
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Amen! That’s amazing
Its absolutely beautiful and I'm so glad she found God. 🙏🖤✌
I'm glad she is in a space that she feels like she *can* put her raw emotion on paper, then out to us. We *can* relate. A lot of us can. All art is open to interpretation. But Nessa really, truly shows what she wants you to see. She's so honest without trying to hide it with off lyrics. It's pure honesty. I love it.
Also God can’t die God isn’t like us weak humans
Not me crying with y’all when Nessa said she found God. I’ve found myself seeing her cries for help on social media and praying for her, I’m so proud of you Nessa ❤ God loves you, he is with you 🙏🏽
I’ve never listened to this show before but through watching this, I’ve gained so much respect for Zach. His questions are insightful, respectful and lead to such interesting discussions and I really admire how you can tell he made Nessa feel accepted and able to speak her truth in a comfortable environment, that takes a real skill
This is beautiful. Seeing the bond that Nessa and Cooper had… he brought her closer to God but also, it’s almost like he gave his life so that she can live hers to the fullest with both of their strengths combined.
Zach is really understanding and so comforting. This was really tough to even watch, i hope Nessa finds peace
as someone who has bipolar w symptoms of bpd i have never felt more seen and understood by anyone until nessa. i have no words to explain how much she and her art mean to me. i love this interview and the album so much!!!
baby girl, you are going to look back in 5 years and be so in awe with yourself. you are ahead of your time at such a young age, you got this. life sucks now but it’ll get better, i was there too. in a mental hospital, back to back boyfriends, not being able to express myself to the reality around me. but now i am 28, single for 6 years (hopefully not too long for u) independent, happy and free. sending you love and light nessa. also so much respect for zach. 🖤
This interview was so hard yet easy to watch. Nessa opening up and showing her vulnerability got me crying… i love her soso much. Zach was so mature and respectful. Thank you for this 💗
the way you comforted her was so beautiful to watch it’s a breath of fresh air to see her to openly talking about her feelings 🤍
My best friend had borderline personality disorder like nessa , they are very similar. Last year she committed suicide. I miss her so much and I hope nessa gets all the love and help she needs to stay here. ❤❤❤
I am so sorry for your loss
I’m so sorry for your loss. Hope you are doing well❤
i’m so sorry for your loss. incredibly hard illness💔🤍
i also lost my best friend a couple years ago. sending you so much love. 🤍🤍🤍
Wow. I’m experiencing some pretty severe depression atm and this was insanely therapeutic to listen to. Nessa is so raw and open which is so rare in a world where the illusion of perfection has never been thrown in our faces more, and Zach is also such a rare beautiful soul. I can’t explain it but he’s just so comforting to listen to and you feel like a massive weight has been lifted just listening to both of them speak. Very powerful stuff!🙏🏻❤️
I’m wishing you so much love and light, please be as kind and patient with yourself as you can and know that you can and will pull yourself out of this dark time. You deserve to be happy and happiness will find you in due time ❤
im going through the same. i wish you nothing but healing and happiness
i wish u nothin but the best & a lot of healin
Your not alone love, I’m right there with ya. It sucks, wake up and already want the day over…. Hate it, but just know your not alone❤️❤️
sending love beautiful
nessa is the only person I've ever seen speaking out about bpd. I'm so grateful to have representation and to be understood
pete davinsion also has it and talks about it all the time
Madison Beer has talked about it too!! :)
I just wanted to say the way you treat and talk to your guests is extremely respected. A lot of podcasters main focus is drama and stirring the pot, all for clout. You are so gentle and know that these people are HUMAN with FEELINGS. I am so sure that you’ve helped your guests more than you think. Mad respect to you Zach.
if there’s another young person listening to this who is experiencing grief, please hear me out-
Yes, parts of you can die with that person.. but why do those parts have to die with them at all? “Energy can neither be created nor destroyed”.
I lost my sister & grandma suddenly/violently when I was 17, then as time’s gone on I’ve lost friends to od’s and family to illness- and in that moment between death and healing, there’s a constant reminder/realization that death and tragedy have the ability to take absolutely everything away from your spirit, you can freeze in time there or you can make the decision that even if it hurts and you don’t feel like it- you WILL move forward and you will learn and be better because of it.
It’s not fair- but you can.
I don’t know much about Nessa and came here because I enjoy Zach’s interviews, but wow my heart hurts for this sweet girl, but I so deeply hope she also overtime and healing can find the perspective that we allll have pain, and society has always been tough- but we didn’t progress with negativity and pessimism- we need to keep fighting the good fight, and we need to believe it can change- even if we have no reason to believe that.
Thank you really
I lost my Grandpa when I was 15 so I don’t understand how she feels but I do get it. Losing someone that close to you sucks
@@kaitlynmarie2640 yeah I lost my grandpa when and it was around like when I was in like 3rd grade and I lost my dog close to that and I lost my dog today and she was only 9 years old
i’ve met a couple of people with bpd. one person was someone who was very close to me and they were also an alcoholic. they would go through psychosis when they drank. and after they would “love bomb”. i always saw it as manipulation but this really showed me that they genuinely were probably sorry and cared about what they did. so thank you nessa💗!
It’s crazy how it works, but I’m so glad you realized. Stay safe
it’s so refreshing to hear someone open up so publicly about their mental health issues and make raw, beautiful music expressing those struggles. nessa is amazing I hope she is kinder to herself and fully heals 💗
I understand why people may not like Nessa, she’s young she’s made mistakes. I genuinely feel like she’s learned and has tremendously grown over these years. And for that I applaud her❤ be nice you don’t know what people are going through.
I don’t like her bc she cries about her life as a young successful millionaire. She says I’ve had a traumatic childhood when there are kids eating mud pies and drinking dirty water or there’s children with parents that die young or abandon them or physically beat them. Nessa is priviliged and she doesnt even know it. She hasn’t actually struggled but she feels like she has bc she has been so priviliged that any obstacles she comes across she struggled to get around them.
@@_saucyam_ just because she doesn’t have the same childhood as those people doesn’t mean u can invalidate her trauma, she has tried to commit for a reason. Everyone struggles and obviously some have it worse than others but that doesn’t make her trauma any less important. so kindly shut up
@@_saucyam_ famous people have it hard behind the scene especially in the music industry
@@_saucyam_ are u serious rn
@@_saucyam_ bffr
I have been following nessa since New Jersey, she is my all time favorite artist and women ever. She had grown so much and her speaking on mental health is so real. No one ever shows the real truth and she has let her fans in. She is going to be huge and it’s coming quick
THIS OMG !! same tbh. I def think she’s growing & becomin so huge lately bc of how much she has dealt w icl. many ppl can relate to it so it acc makes em feel they arent alone.
@@moripiepenbrink4502 yeah I think in the next year she will become one of the most biggest people out there
Zach always has the best interviews every person on he’s so respectful and asks the best questions
Absolutely. Zach treats the guests like people with lives, not some bags of drama to get gossip or views out of. He's compassionate and it shows in the conversations he has with them.
The way her voice starts breaking when she talks about cooper breaks my heart
I love how the interviewer is so understanding and making her feel so comfortable, this interview was just like therapy
Our sweet girl has come a long way and I love her forever.
I absolutely love Nessa, I am so proud of her but also have to give props to the interviewer. You don’t cross boundaries, make the artist uncomfortable, or disrespect them. I love it, thank you for a great ass podcast!
As someone who struggles with bpd and depression / anxiety , it’s so comforting when people you look up to talk about the same struggles as you and not only bring awareness but bring light to a very dark situation and give hope you those around you.
“i just never thought that there’d be a moment where i didn’t have him” 😢 i lost my best friend too and i never thought i would live to see the day where i couldn’t facetime, text, or even see him again. and it fucking sucks.
i love you Nessa! keep your head up and you will get through this. R.I.P Coop🕊️
Nessa is so pure
I’m 29 and I genuinely relate to her mental health struggles myself. Listen youngins!! Get help early if you need it, it can change your life. If I would have got the help I needed at the time I needed it life would probably be very different today.
omg m crying it makes me so happy to see nessa go this far into actually talking about her feelings openly I’m literally so proud of her she doesn’t only help herself with her music it’s literally a therapy for us as well. A bunch of feelings and emotions turned into actual musical masterpieces. ur purity nessa literally!!
I think Nessa is such a pure soul in this world thats so harsh. She deserves all the love including self love.
Also zach is so eloquent its crazy. I could listen to him talking for hours.
20:50 zach is so right with this. i did hate nessa in the beginning bc of the tiktok she had done where it offended many muslims, but as i watched her more i could see what type of person she was and i fell in love with her and i could see she was one of the only people who genuinely was apologetic and she wasn’t forced into the apology just bc of haters. i love this girl with my whole heart and i feel such a connection to her. i think i’ve had a very similar life to hers and i know exactly what she thinks and feels. idk how to explain it but zach was very correct when he said hate can turn into love and admiration💗
100%. and i think ppl are too harsh on her when they r fans of celebrities who can’t even apologize and own up to the disrespectful things they have done but will hate on someone who’s made like 10 different apologies over the years.
When Nessa started talking about her mental hospital experiences, I related so much. I went in for a suicide attempt as well and they did not care about me at all. There was no therapy like she said. They basically just watched me. As someone who attempted suicide, we shouldn’t be placed in the same place as people that have homicidal tendencies. Speaking from my experience, I was threatened in the hospital by two people to be killed. The whole point of me being admitted was to keep me safe and ALIVE and meanwhile I’m getting threatened to be stabbed and choked. Rehabilitation centers and hospitals need to actually care about their patients. I had to learn how to take care of myself because no one else would.
i think ness is the ONLY one who really shows to all of us how is life out of social media. she isn't scary of showing how social media is fake. she's the only one who is real w us. the strongest woman i've ever met. not kidding. love u ness 🫶🏼 stay strong :)
i wholeheartedly believe 100% after watching this interview that cooper was an angel sent down from heaven to help nessa get through her life
Zach,I Stan how respectful and understanding you are to all of your guests.You don’t ask questions in a overwhelming way and just make conversation.I love how understanding and supportive you were to ness💙
My mom has a lot of mental health issues. Including BPD and a bipolar disorder. My childhood was quite difficult and traumatising. Unconsciously with the years, I’ve surrounded by far myself with people with those mental illnesses. It healed me and gave me that opportunity to see her as her own person and not only the mother she couldn’t be.
I loved her album, just wishing her the best 'cause I founded myself a lot in her songs and loved them like I didn't knew how much I needed that in life, I hope she finds peace through religion 🖤✨
as someone with bpd - lovebomb has meant so much to me. I have waited for it to come out since I heard the snippets. I have even sent it to loved ones to help them understand how I feel. Its so beautifully raw and touching and means so much to me. Ill never be able to fully express how much this album has touched me. thank you nessa
I’ve never related more to someone that’s my age, hearing her speak abt spirituality & mental health kinda opened me up as well. Nothing but positive vibes towards her.
Nessa is the closest human that makes me feel safe . It’s like seeing myself and putting the words together in a way I’m not able to express them
she helped me so so much when i was at my lowest she has no idea how much she helped me with my mental health i am so thankful
This was so comforting to watch. I’m glad she’s healing and have the right people beside her. I’ve worried about her for so long after what happened but now I’m certain she’s getting up stronger than ever.
i love how they were so respectful with the questions and how they were towards her, this interview and like how open she is with the things shes been through has actually made me realise maybe i should start opening up about myself and maybe get some help and same with nessa’s music especially love bomb and talk to myself i honestly relate to her music so much. really hope she starts feeling better about everything she seems so sweet🫶
she seems so confident and comfortable in this interview i love it 💖
i love her. she’s so real and honest and so many of us relate. i’m so happy she can heal with music and heal others aswell
he is such a sweet soul, he’s being so gentle and aware around her. 10/10 interviewer
I respect nessa so much for being open and honest with her experience
this girl is such a beautiful soul. Honestly, I would hug her and tell her that everything its gonna be okay
I love that this interview is really getting deep into the important aspects of her life. Not just the happy parts or the drama, but he’s really asking the hard questions. Nessa has a lot to say & is so pure.
I’m so glad that the generation now has a atmosphere that they can talk about their emotions and mental health struggles openly and find the support they need. When I was 20, I was still under the umbrella where mental health wasn’t easily talked about and people looked at us sideways. I’m 41, and have a appreciation for artist like her that can do this through music. I’m so proud of her journey! ❤
i saw her at catalina island and she has the cutest aura
Zach is absolutely the best interviewer - most empathetic and genuine guy.. love him..❤️. And Nessa is also so honest with her feelings.. I'm glad she's got a good therapist... ❤️.
she can’t imagine how healing is her music for me, i’m gonna be grateful forever with this angel, ily ness 🤍🦋🔆
Rest In Peace coopii. This girl is so brave for going through what she had going on. ever since the album came out its literally on repeat its amazing idk
Spotify suggested Nessa to me yesterday, and I listened to all her available music, and I genuinely felt like I got to know her through that. She is exactly the person in interviews I imagined based on her lyrics. I could really tell that she wrote her own lyrics and songs, they all felt so personal. Melody vise La Da Die is my favorite so far, but I love the story of Plane to Paris is such a familiar feeling. She is so genuine.
she’s so inspiring. hope she knows how much she’s helping young adults. like everything i think she puts it in a such a amazing beautiful piece of art.
I want to personally tell Nessa how amazing and brave she is, everything good that is coming her way she 100000% deserves.
I get how she feels crazy with how hard it is to control your thoughts. I’m taking therapy, medication, am a psych major (which should help me understand myself) and still sometimes it feels pointless and hopeless to try. It feels like no matter what I do my brain wants to rot my body and life. She’s so amazing she’s really admirable, I know she’s made stupid mistakes but I’m proud of her for learning and growing even with how hard it is with mental illness. I thank everyone in her life for sticking with her too because I get how it can get difficult and tiring to deal with people like us who have bipolar or bpd.
i lost someone close to me 2 months ago to suicide and all these thoughts have crossed my mind. we needed this interview more than Nessa will know and she needed this talk for herself more than she’ll realize.. 💗
Sending love ❤
im so sorry🫶🫶🫶
Nessa has been through so much, her story shows how actually hard it is to fight with ones own thoughts❤️ We love you Ness❤️🫂
wow, i am speechless. nessa has such a genuine soul. i never realized how much we have in common until now. i understand her so much and it really helps to know that we’re not alone. i love when people tell their story, especially social media influencers because i’m always thinking that they have the perfect life because they never have to worry about money or other things but listening to her open up about mental health has really helped me so much. it makes me realize that everyone goes through something and materialistic things do not make you happy. i love nessa. she has inspired me in so many different ways. she has made such a positive impact in this world and i love how much she’s grown over the past few years. i suffer from depression and anxiety and i have been in the mental hospital. it honestly sucked because they think it helps but it actually just makes things so much worse. you’re basically thrown into an empty room and away from the outside world so it makes it easier to think about all of your problems. it doesn’t help at all. i never wanna go back but i love this interview of her. she’s so open about everything and she’s definitely helped a lot of people. i hope she finds healing and learns to love herself because i definitely know how it is to be your biggest hater and i still struggle with it but it definitely takes time to better yourself. she’s definitely come a long way. i’m so proud to see her growth. she’s doing a great job. she is very beautiful inside and out. i love her so much. i would love to meet her in person. she seems like the nicest person and she’s so misunderstood. i wish people would actually listen to her and realize that she means no harm despite the mistakes she’s made. she’s learned a lot from them and everybody makes mistakes but society sucks. everyone judges everybody when they don’t even know them personally and it’s so sad. she has made a huge impact on my life and i’m beyond happy that she’s still here. she is such a blessing, truly. i pray that she continues to be strong and keeps doing what she’s doing. i pray that she finds healing within herself because she has such a beautiful soul and i know one day she will notice that.
Nessa is so strong. I love her
zach you’re literally the best interviewer i’ve ever come across!
so genuine and not asking the typical questions every other interviewer asks
love you guys !
How respectful Zach is to Nessa Barrett I'm so proud hear her whole situation about what's going on in her life. I'm so happy she is okay and doing well she deserves everything and it makes me cry to think that there is still hope for eveything after everything I have experienced but I just wanted to say thank you so much Zach and Nessa for giving me hope in my life. Thank you ❤
This inverview is amazing and dave and the bffs where wondering why he gets all the ppl he does this is why. He actually cares about the guest and does his research and does not bring up drama and if he does lets them saay want they want and moves on
This!!! He’s actually respectful and knowledgeable which can’t be said for the other pod
their not even comparable lol its crazy
He actually focuses on their talent and them as a person and less on the drama and negativity
Yes! He’s so sympathetic towards them and Dave is just an asshole and only cares about the views he going to get.
I hate the bffs podcast, everything they present is just so fake. I love watching zach’s interviews and it’s so beautiful to see nessa talking here and everything is so genuine and raw I love it, there’s no drama, just real feelings and I think that’s really important and something the media needs more of. I’m so over the drama and romanticized part of things and I think this interview is so touching and a real conversation that is so meaningful
I can’t even explain how much I love and appreciate her. She doesn’t even know it, but she’s honestly changed my life for the better. She’s gone through so much, but is still here going on in life. I love that about her. I can’t even imagine what she has gone through. When she mentioned Coop I honestly started tearing up. I miss him so much. Nessa, just know he’s looking down at you right now, smiling, and still your biggest supporter. Also Zach, thank you for being such an incredible interviewer. You’re so genuine and kind. Loved this video so much. Go stream young forever by Nessa!!
I love this interview so much, they respected everything about her and made her feel as it was safe to talk about deep things that not a lot of people are comfortable with, Nessa truly is my comfort and I’m beyond proud of her ! Slay ness slay🤍🤍🥺
What’s insane is that when she’s talking about mental health I feel the same exact way. It’s crazy how much I can relate to ness and how we all feel the Same way
"ITS WHY I DO WHAT I DO." 23:59 - Thank you, Nessa. Truly. 🖤✌💋
the amount of times i cried throughout this is crazy :( i love you nessa more than you could ever know, and zach i love how you are so sweet and respectful towards her. this is my new favourite podcast because it really helped me and it also helped me understand nessa more. nobody is even reading this but thank you for making this podcast and stay strong nessa i love u so much
she makes me feel normal inside my own head, god bless her strength for being able to accept and confront her problems when you just have never wanted help less. i love u so much nessa, such a beautiful soul ❤️
wow, this is my first time seeing this guy interview someone and he is incredibly good at it. He is so into his guest and the way he reacts, the questions he asks, the immediate responses that are so genuine and thoughtful and just *good*
Nessa, you come off as a person that is extremely easy to love. I understand the self-hatred - because I can relate to it. I will be listening to the new album! Always love watching these interviews, and really enjoyed listening to Nessa & her own thoughts about several topics.
Love how they tell her not being so hard on herself❤️
I am not a fan of anyone but xxxtentacion and now of nessa. I don't easily feel connected or obsessed-ish with stars, vips and so on.. But she is so captivating, authentic and inspiring. How can someone be so incredible? I like her music but don't really listen to it but damn her personality or the glimpse we get to see from it!! I think I am more a fan of her personality and mindset; her music and talent is just a big plus. Nessa if you are reading this you are such a likable person, it seems. I wish you all the best, keep continuing your dreams, because you are soo inspiring and healing others 🌠🤍
The way Zach interchanged alone with independence was beautiful ❤
I wish this beautiful soul could see herself through her fans eyes. She is absolutely breathtakingly beautiful, talented, and sooo chill. She handles all this so well. I have borderline personality disorder too and it’s pretty cool someone with the platform she has is so open about her disorder. It’s so hard to talk about having borderline personality disorder in public or in general. We don’t expect anybody to understand it because we can’t even understand ourselves. 😂❤
She's so strong cause I would be bawling after 10 words
I adore her with all my heart, I literally sat here for these 52 minutes and was constantly smiling because she really just gives me so much comfort it’s insane
this was therapy. zach is a great person to talk to
wow.. listening to this really made me self-reflect on my life, listening to her speak about her struggles really hit close to me. I am so happy that Nessa is working on herself and I'm glad she was able to find a therapist that she connects with. I really do feel for her and I hope that one day she is able to find self-love. the world can be a cruel place but having a strong support system will help so much. Zach is so sweet and I could tell that he is an amazing friend.
I have been praying for Nessa so much. I’m so emotional and happy she has found God.
nessa is so special i have listened to this album on repeat allll day today & it’s so incredible i’m soooooooo proud of you nessa 🤍🤍🤍🤍
Nessas realness is admirable 💗 I love her with my whole heart
Nessa deserves every bit of love she gets. I hope she learns to love and accept herself. She’s such a genuine person and I just wish she could see herself the way so many of us do. She is so admirable and her music is amazing. I relate to her so much and I’m glad she has a platform. She has no idea how good her music is. It’s so powerful and extremely well produced. This interview was so raw and amazing. ❤
love her. this interview was so sad. i hope she recovers well. ❤
If someone had a friend like Zach they would never feel misunderstood or alone. He has such a gift for people.
I'm so glad she talked a lot about God and heaven and Cooper bc I felt the exact same way and I still do. I love you nessa❤
i love how zach let's everyone talk here, he's not interrupting them, gives them time etc..
i love how honest she is it’s just nice to see someone be real about mental health struggles and how much it can effect you also love the album!!
I can’t wait to see her in a few years down the road. I am wishing her happiness and continued healing because she really is a sweet and talented person ❤ love the album as well
one of the best interviews hands down. she’s so well spoken and strong. beautiful souls go through the worst pain so they shine the brightest in the end🙏🏽
Zach and Nessa are such amazing souls.
so freaking proud of her!!! young forever is everything and more
nessa is the sweetest soul, she’s literally my favorite person, I love her so so much💘