I take your words as law. My last relationship was incredibly full of lies from her, her family, and her friends. But it was all on me, because on first date I told her flat out, "I dont think youre over your ex". And 15 months later, engaged, and feeling closer than ever, she cheated on me with him. I found out immediately from her shift in behavior, and I ended it. But like you say Christian, the red flags in the beginning is the reason it fails in the end.
Hello! I came from instagram and i have some questions not particularly related to the video that i'd like help with. I am a young african conservative recent catholic convert. I want to get married as soon as possible, but its difficult to find a good suitor that is in my group. I wanted to ask you about scriptural support against miscegenation. I am not afraid to question the status quo pertaining to it. There are a lot of prominent speakers I follow that have done so (i.e. candace owens farmer). I havent successfully found a mainstream source addressing this. This will greatly help my decision making process. I want to involve God in my martial life.
To my understanding this is the only scriptural support against miscegenation. Regardless, I personally do not recommend mixing. truthvids.net/what-is-fornication/
What should you do if you have a questionable body count, but want to be with someone who has a lower count. I became a christan which shifted my perspective, but I’m not trying to be with someone with a higher one just because mine is up there. (I’m a guy)
Find someone of a similar past (ideally) but if you want try your luck. Some women will be forgiving and accepting. You just need to be upfront & genuine from the get go.
She proudly tells u a low number If she says why. What for. What does that matter. Those are all bad signs someone isn’t willing to disclose information.. Think of it this way. If u babies and treated a car very well and went to sell to next owner. Shouldn’t you be ecstatic to tell them the maintenance history…. Now reverse that and think of a shady person who has a horrible track record of maintenance.. are they going to be happy if you ask them for the folder….. would they skirt around the info. Would they be outright telling you issues with car Anything in life is no different in any other area… A virgin woman would walk around with that knowing it could secure her nearly any man given if she has the right looks and character…. That’s more valuable than gold! She’s worth already about 3 million in todays marketplace worth just alone on purity!
@@RelearningRelationships Facts I am glad to hear it, recently I was in a christian group where they said they are trying to break gender roles so they do it 50/50
No you don’t, and most certainly you shouldn’t ask about it. Before you go all on defensive/offensive, hear me out. Guessing her rough body count is paramount, yes - but that’s not KNOWING it or even worse, asking for it. Reasons: a) it shows your weakness/vulnerability* (see: points c-f below) and despite the gaslighting of the modern society, that’s very bad for you - and very bad optics, too; b) it’s fairly easy to tell from multiple cues: stories, what is and - even more importantly - isn’t said, how she acts (especially in intimate situations) etc.; c) if you cannot infer it (point b above), it’s essentially a sign that you cannot read the temperature of the room. Social game os indirect and you must know it well. Let me explain: it’s the same mechanism, as that person to whom all jokes need to be explained - they will be considered “lame” or “thick” etc. - in reality, it’s a sign of neurodivergence and/or very poor social calibration, and it will be held and/or used against you (another similar example, but in the physical realm, is your skill with various sports, fighting and/or ability to dance - it is a living proof of your physical experience and command of physical interactions). She will either judge you completely inexperienced with women, with people and life in general and/or easy to manipulate/lie to - bad, bad position to be in; d) a woman with ample sexual past is unlikely to pair bond very well, unlikely to find you to be her best (simply due to likelihood based on sheer numbers alone) - and all these points do put you in a bad, vulnerable and weak position before the relationship even begins. It is incumbent on you to learn how to tell that, otherwise you’re not just showing your inability to deal with people, i.e. showing that you’re a weak sucker. Imagine asking people in day-to-day interactions on the most fundamental level if they’re lying to you about basic stuff, because you cannot figure it out even roughly from the information you can gather!; e) asking a woman about it is like asking if your p is big enough. News flash: no, it isn’t statistically speaking, and most certainly isn’t if you cannot tell/have to ask. And there are powerful, deeply ingrained biological mechanisms that make women lie about it as if their life depended on it (since for millions of years, and at least millennia in verbal form, it actually did) - you are NEVER really likely to hear the truth; f) your ideology/religion/beliefs may tell you, that a “high value woman” or “your soulmate” or your perfect unicorn or whatever else will be different, and you’re welcome to believe that if you do so wish - but at least consider my advice: a naïve man in this World is as doomed as a weak caveman who was also a bad hunter. You’re done for, and forever at the mercy of others;
I do like your channel but I havee noticed that you are very quick to dismiss anything that sounds remotely redpill. However the points you make tend to be redpill points eg body count video and other ones you have made regarding vetting women. A lot of your points would be considered very redpill. What do you say to that?
What exactly or where exactly are any of my points red pill. I literally have a 40+ minute video debunking video entirely. What does asking someone’s body count have to do with red pill?
@@RelearningRelationships Your 40 minute video didnt debunk ALL of red pill. There is way more to redpill than what your 40 minute video speaks out. Redpill mentions things like body count, the red flags you mention in women, anti feminism etc. I am not disagreeing with any of your points but all I am saying is its stupid to just completely disregard redpill because when you do, you are only focusing on a certain aspect of redpill. A lot of the points you make would still be considered redpill without you realising it.
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I take your words as law. My last relationship was incredibly full of lies from her, her family, and her friends. But it was all on me, because on first date I told her flat out, "I dont think youre over your ex". And 15 months later, engaged, and feeling closer than ever, she cheated on me with him. I found out immediately from her shift in behavior, and I ended it. But like you say Christian, the red flags in the beginning is the reason it fails in the end.
We must never ignore the signs god gave us. When you do that you give in to the devil.
In America and the West in general, YES.
Always. And it goes for men & women alike!
Hello! I came from instagram and i have some questions not particularly related to the video that i'd like help with.
I am a young african conservative recent catholic convert. I want to get married as soon as possible, but its difficult to find a good suitor that is in my group.
I wanted to ask you about scriptural support against miscegenation. I am not afraid to question the status quo pertaining to it. There are a lot of prominent speakers I follow that have done so (i.e. candace owens farmer). I havent successfully found a mainstream source addressing this.
This will greatly help my decision making process. I want to involve God in my martial life.
Sorry for wasting your time.
To my understanding this is the only scriptural support against miscegenation. Regardless, I personally do not recommend mixing.
truthvids.net/what-is-fornication/
Bro you are goated. Someone with balls to say the truth
What should you do if you have a questionable body count, but want to be with someone who has a lower count. I became a christan which shifted my perspective, but I’m not trying to be with someone with a higher one just because mine is up there. (I’m a guy)
Find someone of a similar past (ideally) but if you want try your luck. Some women will be forgiving and accepting. You just need to be upfront & genuine from the get go.
How to tell if a girl is telling the truth about her body count?
She proudly tells u a low number
If she says why. What for. What does that matter. Those are all bad signs someone isn’t willing to disclose information..
Think of it this way. If u babies and treated a car very well and went to sell to next owner. Shouldn’t you be ecstatic to tell them the maintenance history….
Now reverse that and think of a shady person who has a horrible track record of maintenance.. are they going to be happy if you ask them for the folder….. would they skirt around the info. Would they be outright telling you issues with car
Anything in life is no different in any other area…
A virgin woman would walk around with that knowing it could secure her nearly any man given if she has the right looks and character…. That’s more valuable than gold! She’s worth already about 3 million in todays marketplace worth just alone on purity!
Very well said! There is no need for me to leave an answer because you gave a perfect one! Amen!
Just a correction: As far as I know, there is only one known Michael Knowles, and he works for the Daily Wire.
The tweet of the man in question does not work for the daily wire. Must be a similar name.
In a household do you beoieve the man and woman should do 50/50 cooking or one more than the other?
Taking care of the home is the woman’s role.
@@RelearningRelationships Facts I am glad to hear it, recently I was in a christian group where they said they are trying to break gender roles so they do it 50/50
No you don’t, and most certainly you shouldn’t ask about it.
Before you go all on defensive/offensive, hear me out.
Guessing her rough body count is paramount, yes - but that’s not KNOWING it or even worse, asking for it. Reasons:
a) it shows your weakness/vulnerability* (see: points c-f below) and despite the gaslighting of the modern society, that’s very bad for you - and very bad optics, too;
b) it’s fairly easy to tell from multiple cues: stories, what is and - even more importantly - isn’t said, how she acts (especially in intimate situations) etc.;
c) if you cannot infer it (point b above), it’s essentially a sign that you cannot read the temperature of the room. Social game os indirect and you must know it well. Let me explain: it’s the same mechanism, as that person to whom all jokes need to be explained - they will be considered “lame” or “thick” etc. - in reality, it’s a sign of neurodivergence and/or very poor social calibration, and it will be held and/or used against you (another similar example, but in the physical realm, is your skill with various sports, fighting and/or ability to dance - it is a living proof of your physical experience and command of physical interactions). She will either judge you completely inexperienced with women, with people and life in general and/or easy to manipulate/lie to - bad, bad position to be in;
d) a woman with ample sexual past is unlikely to pair bond very well, unlikely to find you to be her best (simply due to likelihood based on sheer numbers alone) - and all these points do put you in a bad, vulnerable and weak position before the relationship even begins. It is incumbent on you to learn how to tell that, otherwise you’re not just showing your inability to deal with people, i.e. showing that you’re a weak sucker. Imagine asking people in day-to-day interactions on the most fundamental level if they’re lying to you about basic stuff, because you cannot figure it out even roughly from the information you can gather!;
e) asking a woman about it is like asking if your p is big enough. News flash: no, it isn’t statistically speaking, and most certainly isn’t if you cannot tell/have to ask. And there are powerful, deeply ingrained biological mechanisms that make women lie about it as if their life depended on it (since for millions of years, and at least millennia in verbal form, it actually did) - you are NEVER really likely to hear the truth;
f) your ideology/religion/beliefs may tell you, that a “high value woman” or “your soulmate” or your perfect unicorn or whatever else will be different, and you’re welcome to believe that if you do so wish - but at least consider my advice: a naïve man in this World is as doomed as a weak caveman who was also a bad hunter. You’re done for, and forever at the mercy of others;
Are you in a relationships/ married to a woman that desires you and whom has good values?
Relationships - yes, a fair amount I suppose. Mariage - absolutely not.
@@wolnylach7194 L advice 👎🏾
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@marcgotcalledout4058
Very intelligent, in-depth and valid retort.
Bro is true love real ?pls reply
Yes! If you find a woman where there is genuine desire & shared values. Then 100% possible.
@@RelearningRelationships have u seen couples like that?
Yes. My own relationship and the clients I have help find the right woman for.
@@RelearningRelationships thanks for replying bro
always at your service man!
I do like your channel but I havee noticed that you are very quick to dismiss anything that sounds remotely redpill. However the points you make tend to be redpill points eg body count video and other ones you have made regarding vetting women. A lot of your points would be considered very redpill. What do you say to that?
What exactly or where exactly are any of my points red pill. I literally have a 40+ minute video debunking video entirely.
What does asking someone’s body count have to do with red pill?
@@RelearningRelationships Your 40 minute video didnt debunk ALL of red pill. There is way more to redpill than what your 40 minute video speaks out. Redpill mentions things like body count, the red flags you mention in women, anti feminism etc. I am not disagreeing with any of your points but all I am saying is its stupid to just completely disregard redpill because when you do, you are only focusing on a certain aspect of redpill. A lot of the points you make would still be considered redpill without you realising it.
@SolutionOrientedMan red pill is feminism. It’s literally feminism for men.
@@RelearningRelationships You have just ignored what I said
Red pill does mention bodocount only being bad for women. Not men. That is just one of the many reasons why Red pill is degenerate.
Do you do video request?
Yes I do!
No hymen no diamond.
What if she was raped
Just FYI , the hymen can be pierced by accidents, falling, exercise, etc.
Yeah, if she’s raped it’s not her fault, some of those women turn out to be very sweet and lovely once they have healed