What's So Great About "Being a Man"?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 23 ต.ค. 2020
- We explore how stereotypes of masculinity and the pressure to “be a mard” harms everyone, especially men.
Edited by: Neha Shekhawat
Presented by: Anahita Sachdev
Research: Anahita Sachdev, Quoyina Ghosh
Produced by: Shrishti Malhotra
Creative Supervisor: Karla Bookman
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Girls cry , boys cry , humans feel pain and cry sometimes, it's okay
Edit: Men cry too
But crying on every small thing makes u a weak person.
@@dranzergigs8333 no. It makes you emotionally healthy. And then one doesn't vents irrationally on others.
That’s right boys cry not men
@@ungradphysmath7438 so tomorrow if u didn't get a pay hike u will start crying? Tomorow someone punches u u will start crying or punch back?
@@brar5770 you do realise that your words don't make any sense
I actually feel bad for boys because crying is 'labelled' as a weak trait in men which is completely ridiculous. Even men feel hurt, betrayed etc. Then why the hell they are 'prohibited' from crying
@Krishnkant Singh koi na bhai chadar ke andar ro liyo
@@Techion ha iske jaise ladkiyo ko yahi karna chahiye. Chamia sala
@Krishnkant Singh abe ladka ban be. Apne pariwar ka naam kharab mat kar.
are admi ban strong. Rona ladkiyo ka kaam hai
@@jackdarby2168 Everyone has a human right to cry. It’s something we all do and we shouldn’t gatekeep it.
I want these videos to be played on big billboards in the streets of India
Wanna sign a petition for this
@@tulikahathi4746 I’m up👀
@@tulikahathi4746 me too!!
Hell yeah 👍
Somebody finance this
@@Sumit-zz8up lmfaooaoo what
Actually this concept of patriarchy has created problems for both the genders .
Exactly
The first thing to get rid of, the people in this channel are working for it of course
True. Let's smash patriarchy together ✊
Lol.
@Angelo Wilson yess let's bash and criticise feminists for demanding equal rights in all spheres of life !! no❤
Society wants people to be week.. That's the point here
*weak
@@redrosereindeer candy*
facts
you're seriously underrated!!!
Sss💯
True af💯💯💯
Ikr
Truth
Yeah sad... But one day or will be valued for what it is.
reject this woke shit and embrace masculinity
While everyone is praising The Swaddle for broaching the nuances of this subject(which it rightly deserves), I will slip in a small note of appreciation to the Editing team. I noticed how small details made this video more informative and wholesome. Mentioning titles of the films in the bottom right corner, various subtle sound effects, putting in sequences from underrated yet brilliant films that fit just right. Looks like a lot of diligent effort put in. Kudos!
@Nomad I'll attempt to break down what you've said and reason it out. First things first, you missed the whole point of this video. Try to re-watch it with an open mind. Now, that being said; things like false dowry allegations, frivolous molestation cases among others do exist and urgently need to be talked about. They require separate videos altogether, sensitively handling these issues. Secondly, ''fEmInIsTs HaTe mAsCuLiNiTy"- No, its 'toxic' masculinity which the world would do better without. Thirdly, vulnerability is a 'human' trait, not something that women or people associating with the gender of women alone exhibit; anyone can be vulnerable and its okay. Lastly, "aGeNda To CrEaTe GyNoCeNtRiC sOcIeTy?''- really, this is what your takeaway is from this video? I'm sad for you.
P.S- Wait, what's the harm in changing the narrative for a while? LOL even if it is their underlying motive, its only fair to atleast give a chance to gynocentricism after having lived in the shackles of patriarchy for centuries. Bit too much, eh?
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What's so great about being a man? Well we built the world which you women live in, we're the reason why the internet exists. The real question should be what's so great about being a woman? Because we don't brag about being independent or being empowered. The Ukrainian war starts and male macho toxicity bullshit takes a backseat conveniently
Everyone's praising the swaddle ? Just take the look at the newest comments of this video
The most misleading and nonsensical thing was "MarD kO DaRd NaHi HoTa HaI" 😒😒
yeah I agree. I really hate this phrase. there was a guy who used to act like this typical macho man, use this phrase very often, and whenever all of us friends would smoke together he used extend his palm saying that we can flick the ash on his palm because he doesn't feel pain. one day I flicked the cigarette so hard that a lump of burning tobacco fell on his palm and we could see that he was in pain but he was still trying to fake a smile and said that phrase. I was like FU, I'm done with this bullshit.
@@SleepIntoTheDiamondLife ouch
Mujhe 2 ghante ki neend na do, aisa dard hota hai na🙃
Ikr. Just because they happen to be a guy doesn't mean they are from krypton.
Ikr! That's utter BS tbh
There is nothing to be proud to be a man or any gender label . You should be proud of your humanity
Edit - man have emotions too .let them express society
Agree👍🏻
I'm proud to be a man.
@Krishnkant Singh Yeah, I understand you. Most of the critisism comes from women around you and I don't know why. These criticisers are not just housewives but some employed women too. I have very short hair (like boys generally have) and one of these aunties (who is a biology teacher BTW) asked me why do I want to be a man?
I don't know why people try to fix youngsters into their definition of masculine or feminine.
We are what we are don't fix us in a mould.
@Krishnkant Singh thank you so much for sharing your experience. Ya society should just abolish the gender norms 👏
@@riankashyap1996 that's so good !
So you will not be proud if you were a female ?
A caring and emotional man is better than a macho man....
Emotional men or people in general don’t get anywhere.
@BTSシャヒン be weak and vulnerable if you want. There’s no point in telling people that there’s virtue in it.
@BTSシャヒン nobody cares about you being a woman and your opinions, what makes your gender so special or your opinions , how do you know how successful I am ? We all are weak in different aspects of our life , and it’s human to be weak yes it’s not our choice, and we all can deal with our weakness and come out stronger. My point here is that being weak isn’t a virtue and doesn’t get anyone anywhere , it’s weird that this is even debatable.
@BTSシャヒン there’s nothing toxic or fragile about being strong and masculine , strong men may intimidate you but that’s no reason to criminalise strength.
For you, not for man himself
I made my mother all the items - lunch, dinner, breakfast on her bday
But I can't get why ppl said to my mom that she was lucky to get girls as boys don't do this cooking things..Why this seterotype??It doesn't means that boys don't do these they also feel emotions like love but it means that the way they r bought up is not right. This channel needs to get more popular to spread awareness!!!
Every one has different love languages. If you say boys and girls are same, then you are just fooling yourself for the sake of gaining attention in the society. But anyways....
@@koustavmajumdar1235 Im not saying boys and girls are exactly the same .What I'm saying is that boys and girls are equal despite our differences.And sure, everyone has different gestures that come straight from the heart but you can't sterotype cooking for your mother right?
@@anushaneogi3609 Oh okay.....yeah thats right, I can't stereotype cooking for my mother and NEITHER MY FATHER. Now....who will do the cooking? and tell me honestly, how many times have you cooked as a gesture coming from your heart?. and what does it mean? If your "gesture" DONT COME FROM YOUR HEART FOR 364 DAYS OUT OF 365....Does that mean you will not cook?
P.S-I myself know cooking...but what you said the heart stuff is a bit confusing.
@@koustavmajumdar1235 yup sure! You cant sterotype cooking for either of them.and regarding who should cook...it's different in every family......if both of your parents are working maybe they should share equally but if only one parent is working the other one might cook a little bit more...but many factors are there..like the timings,kids, how many people are living in ur home...so I just mean that boys can cook too whenever required.
@@anushaneogi3609 Thats good...Whenever required. I appreciate that. Same goes for the girls Anusha. ANyways, Have a good day. Its good to have a healthy discussion without toxicity between to opposing genders. Cheers.
People who are saying about gender equality.... If you notice the small things in ur house if you observe
For eg-- u have sister and brother of all almost same age she knows how to cook but his brother doesn't know... Why!!? Cz he is a boy 😶
People have to change their mindest by observing little things.
This need to be edited - - - m not talking about everyone but in many houses u can see this!
Agreee!
Agree , but I changed my family being the lazy a** 😂😂😂
I argued all the time to them..even if they don't know how to cook they should learn they aren't that small and now they know somewhat to cook 😂😂
My sister doesn't know how to cook but I know . She is 6 years older than me.
@Diya Kadam yess m not talking about all the people out there but when u visit the rural area then u came to know about this!!!
Even my brother help my mom 😊everytime
@@swanandiapar6040 😂😂😂😂yes u ryt how u came to know about this cz of my comment #strange
Ps--m not living at one place cz my father is in army so we have to move after every 3 years
And this is what I meant by 2 sides of a story. I always had a feeling that women are not the only ones that suffer.
Obviously patriarchy never left anyone both men and women are the victims of patriarchy but many are still encouraging it for their own benefits 🤷🏻♀️
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 you're absolutely right
@@thatsamonsterofcapitalism7260 yes☺️☺️
@@bhavyjyotisharma3642 also LGBTQA+ community
@@mimis.5139 I agree. They suffer even more than other genders cause their own family doesn't accept them. It's really hard for them to be a part of this toxic society
Repeat after me:
"IT'S OK TO BE MASCULINE "
Yes
yeah
Yes
Yes
Fuck yeah
During my childhood I've seen teachers and elders around me tell boys to not cry because " BoYs Don'T cRY" but console girls when they cry
People who are lonely and unhappy wants happyness by mistreating others. Cheer up buddy. You are doing good 👍😊😊
@Nomad feminism doesn't mean that women are better than men and that is not the aim of feminism. And cases like these are not so common and in most cases it is the woman being exploited.
@Nomad I am very sorry to hear this and I do agree that men can be victims as well and injustices can happen, I'm not saying it's okay for men to be victims
Hypocrites
Because " men's are brave "
But what is wrong with being tough and strong
You need to be a strong man period. Nothing wrong with being masculine.
Expressing emotions should be considered normal and healthy regardless of gender . I hate it when media portraits girls as overemotional and boys as cold and strong. Break this stereotypes.
Emotions are still bad though. Being too much emotional is always a weak point.
@@Ms.-Lily I don't see why it's a weak point though .
@@salmarahman7689 you get exploited for showing emotions, people think you are weak, they treat you worse. People who don't show emotions are built like wall. Everyone fears them. Plus, mind is the master of the body. People who can suppress their emotions have a strong mentality. No one messes with them. Emotions are always a signature of weak behavior.
@@Ms.-Lily let them think. Why should we care?
2:40 "Dhishoom dhishoom action flicks". 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
"Dhishoom dhishoom action flix with typical macho heroes"
Loved the line😅
flicks, not flix.
There is nothing wrong in being a "Man" like the world wants to paint it as, I don't wear in on my sleeve, but I am proud of being one!!! Long live Manhood! Embrace it cherish it!!
@sayara sami turning a deaf ear to the current circumstances doesn't help in proving your point, This is 2020 and nobody is debating that Men are more crucial than women, I agree both Men and Women are equally important and no gender is more significant than the other! Our state doesn't differentiate between a boy child or a girl child, But promoting hatred towards men has been a trend lately! If you haven't noticed swaddle's videos are mostly about subtle man hatred and this needs to stop and proper measures should be implemented to ensure fairness to all!
@@BooO0oOoOoOooOoOoyah they wanna show man as wimp and feeble minded guys who can just cry and not fight the problems
"What's the great thing about being a man?"
Everything ☝🗿
Embrace masculinity my dear brothers 🥛🗿
Thank god I'm a non binary person.
I throw around emotions like confetti..😂😂😂😂
#bequeerbepowerful
Lol
Lmfao 🤣🤣😂 confetti I can't-
@@aoisora8561 😂😂😂
@Arushi Brahma so are you...so is everyone..🤗🤗☺
@Nomad the term maybe but people like that existed far before everywhere 😊
That is why I love "Tamasha". The movie may have it's flaws but the protagonist breaks so many stereotypes about masculinity and being a "real" man. The female character is also not the typical "supporting the hero to find himself" trope, she challenges him, yin to yang ;)
@A story of incomplete sentences
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The link of nationalism and manliness is SOMETHING! I've never thought of that.
Me too
#me too
Both are toxic if you have over pride about your country and manliness! Just saying!
@@soullessbody7924 if being proud of our country and gender are wrong then hell ya, i am toxic
@@nknkannadiga9742 it's not proud! It's over proud! Nationalism and patriotism has a difference I hope you search that!
Men are brave -batman
It sucks when they say don't cry. The anger remains inside and gradually turns into heat for others. Sometimes on society, sometimes on the person who brings us to the point where a woman usually cries, but most of the time on the person who told us not to cry.
Yes I totally agree with you guys.
I am a boy so since the start I was told not to cry like a 'girl', but that had some severe impact on my mental health. I started to hate myself because I was only 4feet 10inches high and I had no facial hair and a very high pitched voice so my male classmates started ridiculing me but one day I realized something that to hell with their mindset and to hell with how they define masculinity I started embracing what I had and became more confident than ever and anyone who would mock me would never leave without a perfect reply from me sure everyone(except my friends) started to hate me but I started loving me now I am 5'5" and with a deep pitched voice but I am still as confident as I was earlier. So embrace what you have whether it's tears or physical strength.
The root cause of all this problem is the way we are brought up
I'm glad you were able to got through this. Stay strong ahead too!
@Angelo Wilson Good for him but my body is a bit weak due to my genes and also because of the instantaneous growth so I would get picked on more often
@Angelo Wilson I'm working on it in the last month I have gained around 5-6 kgs and when this covid situation is over I will go to the gym but it's not about just me it's about the mentality of the people
@@shivansh5637 damn genes right? I can't get mass even if I eat a lot(and healthy)
Nothing is great about being a man unless you're a man and respect people and are kind towards everyone! That's it 🙏🙌
@@BabaThanos men don't make videos on genders "what they should do"
The great thing about being a man is we don't complain and we know what accountability is
Yes we men were strong,are strong and we will stronger
Thank you , i stumbled upon your channel yesterday , now I can't stop myself from blinging .
Same!!
Suna..... Ye bhi humari galti hai😂
Mard bano wont sound toxic when enemy knoks at the door....
This kind of content should go viral. Your channel really stand out when it comes to content
Men and women both can cry, but as an ADULT, one would expect you not to cry. Being an adult means you are grown up now. Crying over everything is immature. Crying in general isn't, though.
Be proud of your character not your gender!!!
And it applies for both the genders
Exactly!! We should count strength according to the situation not according to gender like going through childbirth is strong, being a good father and husband is strong, accepting yourself as who you are is strong and many more
I see many people in the comment section saying that crying leads to emotional weakness. What you need to understand is that bottling up tension, sadness and other negative emotions for a long time can really take a toll on your mental health. They will manifest in many forms, from depression, anxiety, to anger. So it is much better to let those out and get professional help if required that live with the " I will be the tough guy" motto. That's precisely the importance of this video. By saying the same to your children, you are ruining their mental health too.
You guys are not getting it third wave feminism is a global conspiracy by elites to get rid of masculinity and family because if strong masculinity remains they will fight against New world Order which the global elites are trying to impose.notice rather than talking about individualism they talking in a broad spectrum to criminalize masculinity.Third wave feminism has collapsed family structure in west and now children are suffering there
@@anonkasper7937 i hope ur being sarcastic 🙃
@@anonkasper7937 well nobody is criminalising masculinity. People are just asking emotions of a person to be validated without being gendered. If you really want to flaunt your masculinity and show that you're some kind of messiah by gatekeeping your emotions, lol go for it, but no one really gives a flying f about it, anyway. Don't gatekeep those people who are being true to their emotions. Follow whatever effed up definition of masculinity you want to, but don't enforce it down other people throats. Let people breathe and live without being so nosy and breath at the nape of their neck. It's annoying, get a life.
@@disgruntled.pelican5324 Are you that foolish?
@@anonkasper7937 Its 4th wave actually....But if you read the origins of feminism...It has direct links with communism which infact tells to BREAK DOWN THE FAMILY.(At least read the communist manifesto by marks...it IS THERE WRITTEN)
Reject woke shit, embrace masculinity💪💪
Stay strong kings😎🔥
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Masculinity is so culture saturated that no one knows what man actually is. Pain!
I think having biological features of a male is enough to be man baaki drama ki zarrurat nhi ki violent ho ya caring ho sab bullshit hai
@@sonekapanchi6457 I have d*ck , I am stronger than women, I am connected to my feminine side more than manly so when I get angry I beat someone . Just like letting emotions out
Just yesterday I was searching for such content for a assignment on Patriarcy...Thank you Swaddle :)
I readed this somewhere :
People say womens are weak . But excuse me , can you bleed for 1 week straight accompanied by cramps, backache , mood swings , headache without dying 😶
Whaaaat???
She was talking about physical strength, you are talking about pain tolerance.
@@chapri_from_chapra5443 it's a physical strength of women to tolerate these things.....
actually......men have been through worse, wars!!!! so please shut up. women can do it because it is their natural biology. if a man or woman gets cut in their hand or leg and bleeds, they only have an equal chance of survival
@@blackiecrafts9556 no it's not!
The FIRST SWADDLE video for Men. Men u were asking for it Right? They are here for u. They will speak for u too. I feel so happy seeing this channel grow with all the sensitive topics which everyone knows is Wrong but still Compromise with it. #SupportTheSwaddle ♡
No ! If you look at my comments of their earlier posts. I predicted they won't make for men , if they do they'll only talk about "show your emotions", "it's okay to cry" type of videos. Men have other issues too . Every 9 min a guy commits suicide under the misuse of 498a law(dowry harassment law) , legal structure doesn't favours men , the men in metoo who suffered , the burden of being the primary provider of the house , the social hierarchy of men and all those things . And they said men choose engineering because of "society" which might be correct in india but wrong if you look at the world. There are personality differences in men and women , so men choose STEM fields and women choose creative/caring fields and there are studies to back it up . "Be a man " doesn't always mean to be manly , it often means to be more responsible.
@@biswarupray9671 a fellow jordan peterson viewer?
@@pratikt5702 yes mate . And he is back. The west needs him now more than ever .
@@biswarupray9671 I hope they should cover these topics
@@kdjoshi726 they won't
I think it works both ways - like there is tremendous pressure on women to be' homely ' or look after the house, there is tremendous pressure on men too to be' manly', macho or be the bread earners of the family. I think we women do it too, we only go after men who are financially more stable, I have hardly seen successful women going after less successful men.
I m a man and I cried in front of peoples many time...
I m not weak ...only it gives me relief from that pain
What have you achieved will be the question?
More power to you brother ❤️
@@anengineer152 Says the man who simps for putin 🙄. who even asked you?
@@anengineer152 what a loser 😂
@@anengineer152 all hail our new clown
A calm ,understanding & intelligent (who handle things in a calm manner) spouse is better than a toxic ,angry & possessive spouse .I've seen girls thirsting over such traits & I think anger issues should be treated psychologically .That's why I really liked the character of Jai in movie "Jane tu ya Jane na " but I don't think I will ever get a man like that character😑
Oh yeahh that was one fun movie
Yup true. In fact there is a cult doing rounds in Malayalam social media called " Kalippante kanthari". Which is basically a man who is angry, verbally and emotionally abusive, using profanity, highly impatient, suspicious and possessive of his girlfriend and thinks of her as an outlet for his anger. The girl is docile, stupid and constantly seeking attention from him. This has been criticized by a lot of social media users but some girls find this attractive and thin that guys like that are true lovers who won't cheat on you. I think they need psychotherapy.
@@prateekyadav9811 To this day its still my favorite❤
And shahrukh Khan from Rab be bana di Jodi too...
@@R_t-99 but you must say the character of Anushka was dumb 😑 sirf ek monch k remove honay sa she can't recognize her own husband but story was good😂😂
So true ♥ ... Suicides rate of men is higher than ever 😢
Because of fake feminism also
@@anengineer152 fake masculinity also....
@@pragyaraj3925 masculanity is never fake😎
@Dhirendra singh tomar mujhe samaj nahi atta ki aap insaan ko insaan kuy nahi dekh sakte?!!!
Aren't men humans? Don't they have emotions?!!! Don't they feel hurt?!!! What's ladka ladki? We're all humans simple as that
@@anengineer152 It is fake
Reject modernity embrace masculinity 🙌🏻
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It's good that your topics are not always enlighten woman problems IRL men are also ones who suffers in silence
8 views and 8 likes in 20 seconds
Power of this channel's which raises it's voice for everything...🙏🙏
I discovered your channel via a yt ad
And now I am just loving it ❤️❤️
So did I!
That was the first add that I didn't skip
So did I, and am thankful i didnt skip it ...
@@srijatapramanik2305 even I too
Me too
Reject Modernity, Embrace Masculanity
Don't cry, Be a MAN
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facts
I was literally searching for that
Ok boomer😊
@@piyalibhowmik1480women ☕😂
~I like to cry while watching movies~
So this happened last year - I went to watch 'Avengers:Endgame' in the theatres with my younger cousin brother. In the final scenes of the movie, I was feeling really weird because I wanted to cry so badly (Huge MCU fan). But I couldn't because my younger brother was there sitting beside me. After the movie ended I felt very uncomfortable the whole day, cause all the emotions were bottled up inside me.
After 2 months, one night I downloaded the movie on my laptop and sat to watch it, with my doors closed. During the last ending scenes I must've cried for like half an hour. It felt so good to cry. It felt so incredible to get those emotions out of my system.
Moral (for the 'mard' out there): Sometimes It is good to get those emotions out. It's not gonna emasculate you in any way.
Thanks for reading this. :)
You need to see a psychologist if you want to cry for no reason
@@sonatestd2085 If movies can do it for free, why spend on psychologist? ;)
@@shreyankpatel2591 you don’t go to psychologists for crying , you go there to sort out the issues that you are having.
@@sonatestd2085 I don't have things to sort out currently. But thanks for the advice.
@@shreyankpatel2591 whatever
Men are more physically stronger, but physical strength doesn't/shouldn't mean superiority. As simple as that 🙂
Many times men get break from inside but the thing is that there is no one whom he can talk with.
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 lmao get a life you don't need to hate on every person in the comment section
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 ok jobless troll
@@BigBrotherTheWatcher1984 very funny didn't laugh
Exactly! Similarly the modern day feminist hypocrites are nothing but man haters. That should also stop
Don't jealous about tough man.
This probably why I liked gajni as a child, cause Aamir khan's character grows to express his emotions and quirks by the confidence of his love
Reject modernity. Embrace masculinity.
@@slulzspot7583 there is nothing wrong with being emotional, but at the same time, one must know how to be emotionally intelligent. And yeah, definitely don't show emotions in front if others.
@@slulzspot7583 be a man💪 not to be a gay or jark
@@skullcollector5375 Emotionally intelligence is myth.
@@Egg-wt1pk it really isn't, just takes some time and introspection
@@skullcollector5375 Bro there is only one intelligence which is fluid ie- IQ. If you are talking about EQ test then it's a myth
I am a boy who cries cuz of that I am labeled as a weakling or feminine. Swaddle always show real content which needs to be talked thnks swaddle
Fatherless child behaviour
them : men don't feel pain...
me : kyu be mardo ke paas pain receptors nhi hota h kya?😂😂😂
The two topics around which swaddle revolves
1. Patriarchy ( Men harming themselves here)
2. Good/bad marketing
I just hope in future men become more open about their feelings. It's hard to imagine how bad the situation is for men.
I think people have misunderstood
Crying with whining.
It should have been, men don't whine.
Bcz who doesn't cry?
A man should always be the breadwinner of his family. Period
Whyyyyyyyy? When women are more than ready for that?
@Satya Sanatan 2 Well that's the easy way out. Women can "want" many things. Yes, who wouldn't want money without hardwork. But rather than sit and be dependent on their husbands, many women would like to have a job.
@Satya Sanatan 2 Dude. If it was socially acceptable for men to marry rich women without doing work, do you somehow think they wouldn't? Even when it isn't, many many men marry rich women and don't work. Your argument is dumb. Anyone would like free money.
@Satya Sanatan 2 literally no one's whining about men who don't work?
Let's not ask personal questions about who we'll marry. The truth is quite a lot of women in the world have married men who earns lesser than them. Don't give dumb generalisations as compensation for not having the capacity for intellectual discussion.
PROUD TO BE A MASCULINE MAN 💪💪😎
Is there any men out there in comment section who forgot what's crying is?? ??? I hadn't cried from past 6 to 7 years and it's not because of society , it's the way my body is made up and I'm very less emotional person..
Men have always been supposed to be tough. Men went to war, men work in more difficult conditions and more difficult jobs. It was never just about emotions or feelings, it's more about needs and responsibilities.
@Chase exactly
girls who kept crying from decades are now teaching men who were never mean the way women were😂
Men are the one who decides they want a war... Men are fighting among themselves.... Men are the one who are making rules... It's the men who have created these needs for war or battle
@@himanimaurya5597 Then why do you want to be in these positions of power now when everything is easy? Why do you want yo stand on the blood of men and pretend like you're better than men?
@@himanimaurya5597 well it men who made industry
Medicine
Law
Science
I can’t simply thank you guys enough for the existence of this channel
Finally a women found what men really go through 🥳😳👏👏
I experienced both the sides so I can speak truly here. i was allowed to be comfortable , while people say that you can be weak, they dont want weak men. I saw the double standard on how when i was weak people would speak nicely but they speak ill behind my back(my friend who was brutally honest told me about these and how i chose to be comfortable and he know that even if i chose it i was fulfilled). i changed. lifted weight, ate healthy spoke my honest opinion and something that made me more masculine is take action and take responsibilites for my actions. I dont have a hundred friends on social gatherings, i barely have ten but the connection i have with them just cant be compared. Generally speaking, you chose what you want, but once you chose to be soft, dont whine on how people dont treat you like they treat other strong men. and if you want a girlfriend, be a man, she doesnt need another girl as her partner.
It's so sad even today men like to be called daddy....and we still say
Khub ladi MARDANI thi
Wo jhansi wali Rani thi
HOW CRUEL OUR SOCIETY IS TO FEMALES
@Jay Yadav 😂😂😂
Most of the laws are biased against men
Daddy🤣
That link you showed between nationalism & manliness! Dammn I never thought of that🤯 swaddle you content is💯💯💜
Macho men in the comment section fighting over not being emotional to be actually successful. It's not like people just start crying anytime or anywhere. They feel bad and then they show their feelings to people that are close to them. That's definitely not a vulnerability . This not only helps them be stronger but work better(as they can vent out their frustration and not have to deal with it internally because of people thinking 'oh how weak') . It's not like they start crying in the middle of a meeting no one does that not even women. It's all about equality again both men and women are entitled to their emotions and shouldn't be judged about it.
@Jay Yadav delete this BS🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's not ok to masculine
It's necessary to be masculine
Necessary
That's why I like Korean idol, cause they shows their emotions whether its crying or exhausted 🙂
Yeah that's the reason I like them too.
It's the beauty standards in Korea
Masculinity also harm men , Men are judged by their performance on sex , and Size of their tool , this is the thing which of their Self- esteem and manliness associated. If he fails to perform good in bed , then he considered as Naa- mard, their partners also humilate them or left them.
@Satya Sanatan 2 yes
More people need to find this channel❤️
Stereotypes for both genders are opposites of each other and both are extreme so there is no balance. If you had a drought then a flood then it would be all chaos, but if you had a hot day then some rain, it would be balanced. We can all be equal if we try hard enough. And just because a woman has short hair doesn’t mean she’s a lesbian the same way if a man shows emotions he’s not gay.
You people are doing next level job. Something, which is actually needed in our society. PLEASE, keep it up.
I really want everyone to see this video! This needs to be acknowledged! India needs to grow up and develop!
Wow the level of research you guys do is amazing ❤️
Breaking stereotypes isn't a easy task( I'm not complaining) People who want to change suffer the most.
Again on this topic , if a male wants to be so called Manish type then he is mocked saying that you have that gender bias perception.
Thankyou so so SO VERY much for this!!!!😭
The best thing of our generation, we want to shatter these narrow minded, illogical things, that is itself a big change. Now let us look into our homes... if there is unequal household chores distribution among all adults, let us gently change it.. i can feel how burdened men feel with these masculine standards set by society .. can be so frustrating damaging the mental health... to all the men out there! Loosen up, show your tears!! ❤
Showing tears never helped anyone , weak people are trampled everywhere. I’m all for mental health and dealing with emotions. But let’s be logical , no one needs to be a pussy. Masculinity and strength is always awesome.
Another well researched video. Kudos.
And the irony is when a man supports feminism or dresses the way he wants he's termed as a 'simp' or 'gay' as if being cancelled gay is an insult.
It's tougher to be vulnerable than to actually be tough
WITH THE RISE OF MEN,DHARMA WILL RISE.
Okay but it's high time now TH-cam should add a super like button for videos like these
It feels great to be a man! this means no chain reaction made up theories explained in this video. Not that it is a competition with women. It feels great to be a man because of the dependence of society on us. Society is equally dependent on women, so you should be proud to be a woman too and be proud of your masculine man if you have one. Boys listen, don't show emotions and build your endurance power of pain, give it direction, mould it and make something truly great. Look after people around you, take care of them. BE A MAN!!!! The world is a cycle. Many different human species lived longer than us but went extinct. Be a warrior in a garden rather than being a gardener in a War. BE MASCULINE. And do not take bollywood people as our hero, look for our ancestors
This video should be on trending.
Period.
What's so proud about being a man :- Well from cave men period to formations of kingdoms, from Manual Labour to Technological Revolution every single thing you see today is made,built and still today maintained by men. Guys, hit the gym, Learn mma, work hard. practice Bhramacharaya ( Indian Celibacy ) Embrace your Masculinity,be a Sankat Mochan. ( like Lord Hanuman ) Prove the world that masculinity and manhood have the ability to convert the impossible into possible. Grind Young men Grind.
We Are Men We are supposed to be the strong stoic leaders 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻.
Remember for being kind to others first we have to be kind to ourselves. ... and in reality kindness is considered as a weakeness and its mainly for boys. This is the main reason anyone will ever see a boys nature very kind towards themselves and also others, even sometimes they forget humanity itself.
How much ever I praise your content, the praises don't seem to catch up with your content. it's marvelous! 😍
Feeling so happy after watching these kind of videos....we are breaking stereotype thinking day by day ....future is so bright.
I loved it seriously u speak facts 💜
Everything is great being as a men (as you can see we have no grievances to our society 😎)
Content is out of box everytime..This channel deserve more recognition 👍
True
People need to know when masculinity stops and toxic masculinity begins.
Bro stop using this bulshit word there is no toxic masculinity.