Why Are Women Judged for Their Fashion Sense?
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ต.ค. 2020
- We trace the history of women's fashion, and the connections between a woman's clothes and her social status.
Edited by: Neha Shekhawat
Presented by: Anahita Sachdev
Research: Quoyina Ghosh
Produced by: Shrishti Malhotra
Creative Supervisor: Karla Bookman
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Women are judged for not having fashion sense, men on the other hand are judged for having any fashion sense at all, for experimenting with colours, patterns, accessories etc
So?
Thatss sooo true! One comment on the color or cut of a dress n they r labeled ‘gay’...
Its like come onn!! Neither being a gay is an insult nor having a taste for clothes.... grow the fuck up...!
Yeah man as a male myself I agree and women should be treated better
@vic vic men low-key look thicc with makeup lol
Wow I love your comment 😺
Literally the people who most of the time judge women on their fashion choices are women themselves
can't agree more .
100 percent
Yup. True
That is because, most of the time, women have internalized the idea that their worth is directly linked to their clothing or their outward appearance and they resort to shame or judge other women who may or may not have triggered this internalization. Also, some women can just be really mean by nature, like any other human. It is really really frustrating though.
Actually kind of not true. Men and women both judge.it's just women talk and men don't. When women talk about other women's clothes men stand there agreeing to them. That's what I feel
its so true that men are not criticized for their clothes especially during traditional family gatherings where I as girl is forced to wear a suit or lehnga whereas my brother is allowed to wear jeans and shirts just because a plain cotton kurta pajama is "too uncomfortable" for him to wear...
Men will face the criticism when they don't look attractive for women at all and will be told to dress like a "real man". Women face it cos they are looking too "provocative".
@lazy hill boy it's not about what is comfortable or what is stylish. We are discussing here the bias that women face about their clothes,men also get judged but it's nowhere near what women face.
@lazy hill boy I donno which fantasy world u live in but let me tell u dhoti and pyjama are uncomfortable to most of the boys I have met so far. They find themselves more comfortable in shirt or jeans. And yes, why did u drag in ur office when the discussion was about traditional gatherings?
Congratulations, Bhavya you're a snowflake.
Very true. My parents will insist me to wear these heavy clothes along with some jewellery. These clothes are very uncomfortable for the climate of Kerala. In addition to this, these so called fashionable clothes are highly expensive. Many times l have cursed those people who design them and we are pressured by the society to wear them
Seeing their videos led me to a conclusion that bollywood is very hypocritical and promotes alot of toxicity.
Oh yes, for sure
They are being sponsored from the big fashion companies. Its all business.
Even Indian tv serials
Without a shadow of doubt
@@sashm7370 Correct!
My parents force me to wear traditional clothes during any functions like weddings but I never saw any men wearing traditional clothes ( except for groom and priest).
So trueeeee
@@btsarmy1520 ARMYYYYYYY💜💜💜
The most true statement ever......
@@therealgrimreaper68 💜💜💜💜💜💜
This. ❤
The double pressure on the Modern Indian girl is so TRUE. it's aggravating.
Which pressure? Is it a race?
It's not pressure.... It's a pleasure....!
Absolutely! I'm so glad that they brought this topic up and "overthought" about it :)
@5 G I hope you realise girls earn their own money too.
@5 G stop wasting dad's/mom's money on petrol and weed.
I think it’s disappointing that men across whole of Asia dress in complete western styles, whereas the women still display their own cultural integrity especially in South Asia.
I wear kurta pajamas
I am a girl and always wear western clothes in function also .... my mom and dad never force me ..... and no one judges me ..... actually I look like a Korean and I have a bob cut so western clothes look great on me ...... MY mom hates long hair on me because I don't look good in them........ she always buy dresses of my choice ... I love her ......she knows I hate these lhanghs and shaare ..... i can't wear them so she always supports me .........
@@suga7680 Hey same I too have a bob cut and even I wear western clothes.
@Akshay Satish not talking about Muslims specifically. I do mean whole of Asia. Whether it is 🥻 saris or salvar kameez, traditional gowns, women wear traditional clothing more. Men (even though voice that tradition and culture should be maintained) are usually found wearing pant and shirt in western styles. I know gradually even women are transferring over to western styles (as you can see in the comments above). I just find it a little sad that slowly what makes us unique will slowly disappear.
What is wrong in being cultural ?
I have zero interest in fashion, clothing, style, etc. I cut my hair from a barber. I sometimes go bald. I don't like to wear earrings and necklaces. and I have least interest in make up and I know that this particular thing stems from my lack of confidence in my look and how I feel about myself. but I still don't want to change it. now imagine the endless nonsense in the name of judgements I have to hear from almost everyone including my mother throughout the whole year.
but I don't regret my choice even a bit. :)
Good👏 for 👏you👏
@@ujjawalgokhale4240 that's a win win for me 😊
@@DevyaniMulik thank you 😊
That's great!
@@ujjawalgokhale4240 what a thinking.. So, do boys only marry after seeing all these things, the makeup and all? I think these things have no value in front of knowledge and beauty of heart.
Dear society, choice is everything. Respect a person's choice. Stop judging people and mind your own business.
Judgement is also a choice.😂
@@foreverrocks7989 yes it is, and showing apathy towards that judgement is a choice as well. Judgements aren't going anywhere, might as well learn to live in spite of them.
@@BeingBhumika Completely agree with you 😀
Bakwass phir kal se bina kapdo k ghumo choice hee to😂😂
@@ujjawalgokhale4240 that too is a choice. Respect that. Someone chooses not to wear any dress. If u don't like that don't look at them. That's all. But it is wrong to shame them for that.
Judging anyone for their fashion sense is so out of fashion these days.
Bothering is also out of fashion . Learn not to bother rather than telling the society
Couldn't agree more! As for me, I was referred to as "behenji" or "aunty" back in school days by both boys and girls just cause I never wore makeup or anything other than jeans and t-shirt.
That doesn't even make sense?...
And they just call me a dude cos I just wear sportswear and nothing else
@@nithi9638 Ikr?
@5 G um.... Okay?
Same here 😭😭😭😭behen
Ha! Now I got why people tend not to like me. I dress more comfortably, or as people call it 'recklessly'. Or 'Jhalli'. If you dress comfortably, then you are probably perceived to be 'weird' or even at time 'lesbian'. I have started to doubt the IQ of such people
You can totally do better. I mean the comfort is more important rather than impressing others around and to grab attention. So Kudos. I wonder how genders got attires. People literally guess your gender based on what you wear! How silly!! But 👍
@@byethere Thanks mate! After all, it is your knowledge and attitude which takes you farther in life, not you dressing sense.
@@ishaniupadhyay2520 true!👍👍
Same experience....go girl! Good to know I m not alone. 😁
Absolutely right!!On the other hand when we do take efforts to look nice out of our own choice people say "we are drawing attention towards ourselves". Hypocrisy at its best
For everyone saying that fashion judgement is passed on both genders. They didn't deny the fact that men face it. They were trying to point out the fact that women face much more pressure and in a disproportionate manner. Women are expected to be fashionable, whether it be clothes, accessories or makeup. These things have been marked as stereotypically feminine and so men are actually expected not to use them. If they do, they're called "gay" or "queer" which are intended to be insulting in this context (that in itself is a very damaging notion). In India, these concerns are magnified and women are expected to be traditional and modern with the right balance of "dress modern but don't reveal more than what we want you to" which is actually very difficult for many women to follow who wish to express themselves differently. And since this is a feminist channel, they're displaying this struggle faced by women. They are not denying men's troubles.
Funny thing is I'm a 17 year old male and my family refuses to take me with them if they don't like whatever I decide to wear. I'm not trying to ridicule your statement or this video's message but just a harmless funny fact.
@dream31 yeah but what I think he meant is that he does agree but in his case his family demands for him to dress in a way they want as in they probably don't approve of his fashion sense if I'm not wrong @Hideous Martian cool username BTW
Well I don't think even men have a choice when it comes to "following fashion" .
I have seen men being critized for an old fashioned simple hairstyles or for not wearing skin tight pants ...
@@sumedhaforu that kinda proves that you didn't get what was there in the comment you're absolutely right and they acknowledge the fact that even men face criticism but women face it more.
@@ankitahosalli6545 Yeah that's what I'm trying to say , all of us face undeserved criticism and that is because we give in to our society's norms and try to fulfill their expectations all the time. But this must stop now ! We should all wear what we want to and it's okay to tell what you think about someone's clothing but only when they ask...
Life is short so better have fun while we can.
The most significant thing is that swaddle always traces or relates the modern phenomenal aspects with that of the past....this is overwhelmingly good in comprehending and reflecting these small issues which have big impacts
My favorite channel. This is the best👍.
Worst channel i have ever seen. Inko har cheez mai problem hai. Mat karo fashion nahi karna toh. Hum nahi karte toh hune toh kis e kuch nshin kaha.
@@sunilbaluni5333 NO MY DEAR FRIEND , you need some THERAPY ...you are very offended by just a video and the opinions and viewpoints of a particular individual ...😑🤐
@@sunilbaluni5333 This may sound harsh but you are living in bubble were these things are irrelevant for you but for some of us these things are problematic and this channel present these problem. And maybe you don't know but multiple ig influencers especially men suffer backlash in online community for wearing makeup.
@@As-vz2pq yeah. I'm a girl but I still know how men treat other man those who aren't that 'manly' according to them. Same is with tomboys like me. Both men and women throw taunts like kya baat lambe Baal ache ni LG rhe the kya tereko, jue pd gyi thi, kapde to thik se daal lia kr occasion K hisaab se and I just sigh and let them say whatever they want.
@@leezaaneja1213 I totally understand you. I am a tomboy too and have short hairstyle. And people always made fun of it. But now I am proud of myself and my style. I feel like your way of dressing up is a part of your identify it's not for someone else. So no one is entitled to make comment on your style.
I can totally relate to it as whenever I choose clothing as per my comfort zone my friends n family start advising about fashion trends which I really do not care
Don't give a damn.. as far as it's covering your body and you are comfortable. It's ok 👍 Good 😁
U bring a light to concepts that people know but still are ignorant
People don't even know and they think that these things are pretty 'normal'.
@@umeshkumarsahu2878 true
Many women end up showing too much cleavage in the name of fashion .lol .fashion is good up till a limit
@@pumpkin2228 I am so sorry for ur thinking sir Its clearly a matter of choice showing cleavage or not that depends on them...
@@pumpkin2228 Uhm, you have the choice of not looking but of course, that's not the option because people like to look.
Women are judged on literally everything to be honest...like if you wear traditional you are called behenji and if you wear a bit of revealing clothes, you are called a slut(double standards of our society) !!!!
Even if a women dresses fashionably or a little boldly ,she is judged for that too(a lot infact). So I feel we should continue doing and wearing what we like and not conform to societal standards💁
Men mostly wear formal clothing in traditional gatherings, which they can wear repeatedly to various functions. But there is pressure on women not to repeat the clothes they wore in last function. And to top that these clothes cost a lot. It is too much to buy new clothes every time. I've decided to go against these traditions( my family is supportive). I'm going to wear sober Kurtis which I also wear to office and minimal jewelries. After marriage I'll wear sober sarees. I'm also going to rebel against buying tons of gold jewelries to show my status, my personality is enough to say who I am.
I normally never comment on youtube.. but your page is so damn amazing and perfectly informative.. so I just can't stop myself from appreciating such an amazing page .. Great job ^_^
OK boomer
From my experience, women themselves do not want to break stereotypes. For ex: waxing. Many women do it under pressure and it is often said that hairless body attracts men more. Why can't a woman feel good in her own body hair.
Next coming to fashion, it is again a choice. But women judge other women more than men judge women.
Stats?or is this statement a result of your personal experiences?
Oh my bad, you've already written it's based on your experiences.
Ohh.. Miss singh then stop doing that..... Why should be girls doing what men wants........ On the other hand... Truth is that, women wants men's focus.... As men wants also.. That's why.... Gym and abs has became important for men...
It's all about attraction....... Pls think of it
@@VishalKumar-fb7jg I don't think so? Not all men do it for girls it's for self confidence. Maybe its different for you but I've never once chosen to wear something only cux I thought men will like me in it. And it goes the other way too men don't it only for girls (in the case of a hetero)
Glad that my mom is strongly against me waxing my body.
Literally my bff tells me what type of "poor clothes" am I wearing, just because I don't like sparkly clothes and like to wear comfortable ones...
Same. Wear whatever you want.
Like if she is so bothered she should create comfortable and sparkly clothing smh
What kind of friend is that? That is not a friend my behen.
Fashion for me is a way to express myself. And I believe clothes have no gender!
Answer: Some people just have nothing better to do.
Me wearing a Bardot top, with straps and long sleeves.
People: shoulders! Scandalous!
Another girl wearing a blouse with low back and a shoulder cut out (with a sari)
Everyone: wow so modern and nice!
Edit: I should probably mention that I was also wearing a sari. I didn’t want to waste money on a blouse I’d never wear again, so I wore a top that matched the sari (it also had the added benefit of covering my waist) so basically I was more covered up than anyone there except for my shoulders
Am the only one who dress as per comfort even on functions like marriage and don't care about other's opinions!
PJs for the win, weddings or lazing at home.
@@carmarniah9360 ??
Same lol
@@apekshadargude7228 I guess the OP meant Pajamas lol
no, you are not the only one ....... in the weddings mostly I wear western clothes like jeans, top or shirt ..... my family has no objection ...... and I don't care ....... whether someone judges me or not☺☺☺☺☺🤣😆😆
Please do not turn off captions , your generated captions look so tiny that takes 360p quality . Which I don't want to use .🙏🏻
Yeah, they should have added captions separately. Blind people have devices that can read the separately added captions, but not the ones in the video. It's inconvenient for them :/
@@maithiligawade7245 but I guess they can hear the video's audio then?
@@BeingBhumika Maybe they are in a busy place, there's a lot of background noise so they can't hear anything. Or maybe they don't understand the language.
What's more sad in this case is that almost many of the times, womens are the ones judging other womens. For instance, I'm more of a laid back girl & likes to wear something comfy & simple but my friends have always bitched about my fashion sense. I'm just more focused on the classics, the "undying" & "evergreen" clothes but mostly, casual. Some say I'm a like a tomboy since I like hoodies & mostly prefer colours like black, blue & red but honestly it's just me being myself. Yeah I have poor fashion sense since for me, my comfort is 1st then the fashion but one of my friends Ik was so into changing me that I couldn't bare it. I'm glad we're into separate colleges now
Albert Einstein wore the same clothes everyday in order to save brain power.
@@kbshrivastav8539 that doesn't mean we can't do the same, right?
@@kbshrivastav8539 stop saying all indians just bcs ur dad works in tcs
There are no brain cells in clothes. I think he didn't change because he was really focused on his work and passion for science, to such an extent that he forgot to change. He also doesn't do any job that deals with going outside. So. Yeah! It was my part of argument.
Steve Jobs and Mark Zuckerberg do the same
Just saying
😂😂😂😂😂 ikrr
Fashion judgement has been there for both men and women
Ikr
But indeed it is more to women...
When Indian men were scrutinized for switching from Salwar ( or whatever is it ) , dhoti to jeans...
Atleast not on a social level...
But women r still getting threats for this...
So what do u think about the case
It's this globalized time when men r scrutinized too but u can't see this in history
@lazy hill boy ohh..
Really!!! So sad na!! ...
Feeling bad for u!!..Aww!!.
@Sayanka Biswas that's another example of misogyny dear....see the depth
@lazy hill boy and if u r talking about misandry...then Definitely we should talk about...
Even I'm a guy and I advocate for men's rights but that will not make me biased or prejudiced towards the other gender...
Even I have been victim of misandry...
But my experience , ur experience is just a part ...of the infinite experiences...
We should look on the bigger picture...
Thing is who is more suppressed... if we look on social level
I'm not a man hater... don't label me like that...
But thing is...
We aren't addressing either issue...we r just Making noise like anything...with no direction...
And putting out petty arguments to defend our group...this look very immature...
Both men and women r important... it's not a fucking war happening b/w them...both r inseparable ...
Thing is when see u major problems don't bring out ur own personal issues which has no relevance with the issue at the social level...
U need to keep it aside for the sake most oppressed...
Misandry is a growing issue and it's important to address but this way we can't...
U know ! Hope u understand...
Okay soo I cut my hair short after watchin the hair video from swaddle n I feel soo good, THANKS SWADDLE 🥰💖
I am a girl and always wear western clothes in function also .... my mom and dad never force me ..... and no judges me ..... actually, I look like a Korean and I have a bob cut I look much younger because of my cut so western clothes look great on me ...... MY mom hates long hair on me because I don't look good in them........ she always buy dresses of my choice ... I love her ......she knows I hate these lhanghs and shaare ..... I can't wear them so she always supports me ......... but she only wants me to wear those clothes in which I don't look vulgar ....... she doesn't care whether I wear tradition clothes or not.
@@suga7680 good for you gurl ✌🏼💞
it's always about girls.........have you ever seen a guy with long hair .................tab bhi to log bolte hai na ...................kYA ladki jaisa lag rha hai ..........................this happens with everyone ...............but kya kare ...................hum to ladke hai na ..............hamare liye chalta hai itna ................
@@brightthings6 kisi ke liye bhi chalna nhi chahiye, everyone should live on their own terms and no one's got the right to judge other people like that, anyone who judges like that should fuck off
This is one real life incident that happened. I went to a wedding straight after my office, and was told why I didn’t carry some jewellery in my handbag
Girls suit wear Kare toh bahan g agar girls shorts wear Kare toh .koi lihaaj nahi koi sharm nahi.
I mean girls or women are always soft target. This is the worst thing ever .
Let's decide not to judge others.
That's how together we can change the evil mentality. 👍
@@anjaligupta1766 true
@@anjaligupta1766 it is impossible, judging is a part of human nature. Best option is judge people, be emphatic but don't speak out unless necessary.
@@CasperFiles1969 try not to poke your nose everywhere .. I meant this.
I think everyone is judged on their fashion irrespective of gender.
Eh
So true
Yes it's true but it's different when it comes to woman because of the history n stereotypical norm that only focuses on women. For example men r specifically judged for their financial status but woman r judged on how well they fit on norm society has fixed for them. They r not judged for financial status because women working out of her home is still not normalised as it is for men.
@@shivanisamyal3143 yeah! Well put!
Infact if a man is not in fashion n trends then people will see it as a positive thing like he wants to spend his money on his family,he is selfless, hark working n simple.
It seems to me that fashion affects both men and women
Hey there, fashion is nothing except a mere trend.
Slim girls were considered beauty a while ago but now girls with big asses are trending (kim, nickiminaj etc.)
That doesnt mean Alia Bhat who doesnt have big ass, isnt beautiful. Its just that she is not the trending beauty.
BTW
social media is ruining our generation, people are being so much insecure about themselves.....watch the social dilemma.
Our male cousins can show up in a tee and jeans during family gatherings and when I do the same, people take it their duty to remind that "you're not a child anymore"
Best thing about this channel is that they always try to connect present scenario with the past/history , and of course this makes their content more interesting!. 👍
Can you guys do a video on make-up. Like how women get judged both wearing makeup and not wearing them and how make-up industries are using "insecurities" as a tool for selling their product
I'm a singer- and for performances I'm expected to be fashionable and wear makeup or else I'll be considered unprofessional whereas Male vocalists/musicians just get to turn up with a shirt pant, style their hair a bit and they're professional enough!
So nobody has pointed it out yet. THIS VIDEO IS AMAZING AS FAR AS PRODUCTION IS CONCERNED, from narration to editing, everything is perfect. Cheers guys.
When I was not interested in fashion my mom thought I am trying to act "boyish".
Judging goes both ways. The most common one being: Women judged for not indulging in fashion trends and men judged for over-indulging in fashion trends.
Umm... Men are judged too on basis of their fashion/clothing choices
Also women judge other women on basis of clothes and make-up far more often than men
agreeee🙌
even guys get judged..its not only women
@Halo yes, i guess standards for "proper" dressing are harsher for women rather than on men, but i feel when us women would stop being judgmental about other women, it would be an extreme positive change and would diminish the taboos. ( Not saying only women are at completel fault tho)
@Halo exactly! at first we women have to support each other instead bashing each other.
yes but there will be lot more force on women
I can't even imagine how much research would have gone into this! Thanks for the work that you do!
This is so great! In every video you bring to light things that are seem inconspicuous but are actually things of great importance. I had phases of this "fashion sense" in my life. At first i thought not wanting to wear "girlish" clothes and be interested in fashion was cool because that makes me not like other girls( facepalm). Then came the "i will think too much about the clothes i wear and focus on the fashion industry" because that would make me look "stylish" and not dumb cause everyone in my family knew so much about the latest trends. Now i am at this phase where i am like "dress like what you feel" . If i feel like a couch potato , then i am going to dress like one. If i feel like i run this fuckin world, i am going to dress like the queen I am . But after seeing this video, i have new ideas. It is true that we put a lot of effort in deciding what we wear, when we can channel that time into something more productive! But then i am afraid it will that be "not being like other girls" again and will make me not a true feminist.
Also, i think this whole "fashion trends and dress like you feel" stuff is also just a ploy to further aggregate capitalism. We need to really think on it.
I'm in the academics for long and thankfully I'm not judged at my workplace and among the academic community for refusing to keep up with "trend" or look "stylish". My wardrobe doesn't have any bling or glitters. But whenever I'm at social gatherings, I feel weird at not having flashy "appropriate" dresses for those occasions. Not that anybody makes any derogatory remarks but they express their wish to see me in a saree. 🥴🙄
2:22 ....." Keep her where she belongs"??????????!🤯
Loved this. So clear and concise
why cant the world be like this woman!!.you are so intelligent nd open minded...keep on imparting erudition in us❤
U missed the painful part stilettos.
*Kuch kuch hota hai*
*Friend : Best memories of Childhood*
*Rahul rejected Anjali cause she was tomboy but 8 years later she becomes the"Jisko maa ke paas leke jate hai" kinda girl cause she is wearing Saree*
*Me : what kinda chuitiyappa is this*
Right apu di
As usual!! An awesome concept!!❤❤
I absolutely love how they give movie references related to the topic. It's so weird that still women are judged on the basis of their clothing.
Love your work team Swaddle! 💥
Love this channel and the topics you pick.. more power to you girl!
I think it applies on both,since women care and make more effort in those,so it's just u get more praise and more criticism vice versa
For me, fashion means comfotableness in whichever dress I feel myself comfortable it becomes my style..
Appreciable for the girl explaining and kept the look simple.
Well done
This the best channel 😍
More like why are we judged for ✨existing✨ 😩
The presenter is doing a great job.... Very very beautifully told🌟
I agree completely! Fashion should be completely based on personal preferences rather about societal pressures. No woman should be judged with the clothes they choose to wear, be it a skirt or salwar suit.👍👍
Dude even men r getting judged for the clothes they wear...when ever I wear something like shirt when I go out side I feel like what if they think that he wear shorts and comes out...believe me people judge u for the clothes u wear even if u r man or a women...its your style wear what ever u want...just be a little considerate like 10 to 20 percent towards the society of what we wear because we need to wear something that us appropriate to that situation...
Shorts* is*
Why cant we wear t shirt and shorts to weddings
"Bas khaana hi to khaana he"
Credits..:)
Agree with you
Main pehankar jati hu kuch nahi hota hai
Depends, I like getting ready for parties.
But if you don't, don't do it.
Break the stereotypes.
Kya karege yahi to bolege .. haw hawww unki beti shorts pehn Kar AAI thi. 😂😂😂
I know right, going to a wedding getting all dressed up is just too much, and I feel really uncomfortable too. In my opinion I would wear a hoodie and jeans any day. Just that I should be comfortable enough to have some free food 😁😁
@secret planet222 if you wear Indian dress then they will judge
All of your videos need to be viral and reach to audience on a large scale. We all think wat does one person’s opinion do.. but you r one of those who r putting their time n effort in this n getting their hands dirty.
Cheers to you.. showering loadzz of support!!! Keep doing it.. thank u for being our voice. 🤩💕
Again, brilliant content. Thank you ❤️
I don't know about fashion.. but I definitely feel one should dress according it's personality.. I don't follow trends I dress in a certain way which goes with my personality and I like men who puts thoughts into his attire at least it should reflect his personality, instead of throwing on whatever clothes are Infront of him😐
Clothes don't reflect anybody 's personality actually,I mean if someone's personality trait is being 'funny',how exactly would you dress in a funny way,y or statement is illogical and gives way to society being even more judgmental about people and their clothes .
Not only women ,In real men are also being judged for what they wear..
True
And almost many of the times by women... *sign*
@@kdjoshi726 Yeah
@@kdjoshi726 women judge and men also but the worst thing is that men directly put restrictions on their woman.
You guys are AWESOME!!!!
Can this be more perfect ❤️...
Well articulated 👍👍👍
Men after this
Can i also wear skirts without being judged and laughed off.
😂😂
Lol what's the problem in that?
They can. No one stops them.
They can
Appreciate all your videos. But in this one, "Why?" question seems unanswered. Or rather not detailed, with most part of the content focussed on showing the 'as is'.
@Halo Yup, agree. Was expecting something in the lines of - how men structured women to believe they are the bearers of culture/honour, how women's World was structured to be small, how men were behind structuring women's fashion even. All these are implied; just that I wanted a stronger content. This seems a soft take...
@Halo don't blame only on men for forming these social stereotype.Earlier women were out of economic sphere it just because they choosed too.Nobody could be supressed for such a long time.In earlier time in india farming was major economic activity and it demand lot of physical strength and womens body are not designed by nature to do such harsh physical activity.So they to choosed to do household work.But as our country progress there were different economic activity which require less physical labour more of mental labour.So nowadays women want too come in economic sphere and thats normal .But in these period of time it became social taboo for women going out of house.But these these norms are breaking slowly and we will get rid out of it.But what i found as per my observation is old men are more open to these change than old women.And offcourse new genration has high percentage of who didn't care about these social stereotypes.By blaming only on men you are considering your gender too weak who can't take stand for themselves.
Thanks for such great content. 💕
I am so happy to find this channel... which talks so much sense and so much new and educational...which is just mind blowing. Thank you for doing this...❤️
Now make a video on "Why men are judged by their bank balance/body weight? "
I feel that men are more criticized on the basis of clothes... they cant wear bright clothes, dresses, skirts, flowery and "feminine " cloths
harry styles keeps getting trolled abt his clothing choices ... If they do, they're called "gay" or "queer" which are intended to be insulting in this context (that in itself is a very damaging notion) for not being insecure abt their sexuality...
harry styles is the biggest fashion icon and that's on period...
Women are judged for not having fashion sense, men on the other hand are judged for having any fashion sense at all, for experimenting with colours, patterns, accessories etc...
but men are not criticized for their clothes especially during traditional family gatherings where I as girl is forced to wear a suit or lehnga whereas my brother is allowed to wear jeans and shirts just because a plain cotton kurta pajama is "too uncomfortable" for him to wear...
fashion judgment is passed on to both genders. Iwas trying to point out the fact that women face much more pressure and in a disproportionate manner. Women are expected to be fashionable, whether it be clothes, accessories or makeup. These things have been marked as stereotypically feminine and so men are actually expected not to use them. In India, these concerns are magnified and women are expected to be traditional and modern with the right balance of "dress modern but don't reveal more than what we want you to" which is actually very difficult for many women to follow who wish to express themselves differently.
Harry is a fashion icon though. No one can deny it.
@@pancakesxoxo1064 periodt
Oh my god, the topics which have been covered in your videos, since the past few months!!! These all are the topics which I wanted someone to talk on and Swaddle did talk on all of them!!!! I thought, why is no one talking about them, for a while I thought are these topics not really concerning issues or are these only my thoughts, but finally my wish was fulfilled 😌 Thank you so much Swaddle for letting me know that these are all actual burning issues and not just my thoughts.
I love your content guys... This is something which needs to be shown... You guys are doing absolutely great work😊😊❤️
Men had it hard too but women have it harder I totally am on ur side with all these videos but a little request plz plz plz can u make a video on how schools police men's fashion choices (I know we are having it worse but I've seen so many boys close to me who are judged on the basis of every single strand length in their head , please it's just a request) btw great content 💙💙💙👏❤️💞💞💞❤️👏💙💕💕✨✨✨✨😍😍💓💓
I agree, they are a feminist based channel but I don't know why they only or mostly talk about female issues and not about issues faced by males when feminism means equality for both/all the genders. Makes the channel look selective. I wish they focused on both the aspects.
Just be confident enough and you can wear whatever the fuck you like to !!!
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Aur gandi nazar valo ki baat hai to vo kutte bacho ko bhi nai chhod rahe hai 😠😠🤬😢
fashion for me is, my life, freedom, creativity, a way for me to speak up and its an amazing way to show how you feel. I want to be a fashion designer in the future.
This channel explores to our historical depth, that noone could offend with their deeds and conveys answers with such exploration and dimension that everyone realizes.
I feel myself very proud to find this channel.
the actual problem lies in women also because if women understand another women in any form either daughter daughter in law sister in law there will be less problem first the problem and objective statements come from home rather than society if a woman is allowing a man to wear whatever they want in family functions then y not for women does traditional dressing only applies women
Trust me, men are also judged! 🙈
Moreover, women judge other women and men when it comes to fashion. Fashion can be empowering for some and restrictive for others. It’s for the individuals to decide how they want to look and what they want to wear.
There has been a constant buzz to wear what one is comfortable in. There is enough scientific evidence that fashion can instil self-confidence in people that is rewarding in many ways!
Thank you so much!😊✌💖💓
I really like the color black and wear hoodies & jeans cause they are comfortable. People always have a look of disgust on their faces when they meet me. I can probably guess they don't agree with my fashion sense.But why the heck do I have to listen to other people about what "I" should wear when it's my CHOICE and my body???
Why does this channel relates everything with Western history only. Why don't they provide a glimpse of Indian history . The audience must know that our Indian culture and history has never been this prejudiced.
Our women have always dressed comfortably and their clothes have always been friendly. It is this western culture that has enforced their predefined and self-suiting ideas of beauty and dressing on women.
Due to work, males stuck to western. I agree with your point
U are absolutely right . But women think they are being judged while their parents are just teaching them about indian culture
@@pumpkin2228 parents should not force them always though. Showing some skin is ok but I have never seen any male with chest open like some girls who are running fashion show on the streets in public.
@liza Kaur exactly.. We Indians started to wear full covered clothes after got inspired from western culture.. But now everyone is blaming western and praising Indian dressing culture 😂
@liza Kaur I'm a 22 year old woman and I have not seen half shirted men showing "cleavage" or ¼ pants. I don't know where you found such men.
Girl crush.... definitely...😍😍😍
Anyone....know her name???
Anahita Sachdev
Lesbian love jihaad
Loving this channel more and more with every new video. Thank you, fellow overthinkers! 💜
Yeas! True women magazine's only focus lia either on fashion or cooking skills
No man cares. Only other women judge other women on their fashion sense
For everyone bringing men here this Channel is dedicated to Women coz u can see no Men here sharing povs. This Channel is For the Female Gender and it By the Female Gender too. They opened it with a clear Goal to bring Female Related Issues. For that they might compare the situations to men or different periods of time. So please dnt ask and expect that they will cover Men Problems in the Channel. They may consider it later bt for now they are female centric not because they dnt like men or wants to ignore men but coz their channel is dedicated to women.
Such a beautifully crafted and unique content. ♥️♥️
This channel is very underrated. PERIODT.
Be like Mark Zuckerberg....... Grey t-shirt, jeans and sneakers. No overthinking, only comfort.
Lol
Some one show this Video to Sonam Kapoor 😂
Thank you!😭❤️
I just lv ur thoughts...I wish all indian society can understand it.
Same thing is applied to boys too, be it fashion sense, policing of boys appearence in school or weight gain or weight loss
I just found this channel few day ago and watched few vids
What you are doing is just taking one gender and then just victimising them on these topics and then forgetting that men/boys also suffer from these things which is wrong
I mean people (mostly women ) who watch these vids may also have brothers, husbands or fathers. They should realize that happen offen with guys to
@@deekshasingh1883 your analogy 😂😂
@@deekshasingh1883 lol
Argh the replies are so annoying. I like this channel as a perspective and it's no doubt patriarchy affects men negatively too. I don't feel like there's victimizing involved though. I only feel the other side of the story is missing.
@@deekshasingh1883 i know but when video title states that "why do women have to suffer from.........." Or "why do girls have to go through..........." It makes you think that its only and only women who suffer from this not both MEN and WOMEN
@@deekshasingh1883 u r right title didn't use the word only but then again when u use gender specific title it makes you "think" that way. After watching the video when you conclude that - this is an issue for women which needes to be cleared. Ok but then what about men? Some women become ignorant who would like to say " mEN aRe nOT jUDjeD bY thEIr fAShioN SeNSe its women who suffers" i showed this to my mom to see her reaction (had to translate it) she was like -yes it is so true i sufered a lot in my childhood sad but Ok what about other gender
She was like "men what...?" I mean she regularly compares us two brother with other boys in neighbourhood. I dont have any interest in fashion so i have to just listen and then tell her afterwards but no one cares😲😲😲
Don't u know? Women need to wear stylish clothes so they can attract a good handsome groom for themselves 😒
And rich
This is a very relevant video. Thank you so much for verbalizing this
Just wear what you like and are comfortable in...who cares what the world has to say...once you've decided how you wanna look then don't sit and cry about what others said or did...also remember to wear your confidence, it goes great with any outfit!!!
No one can make you feel low!!