What is a Woman? POWERFUL convo about femininity, narcissism and gender roles with Umm Khalid
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 22 ธ.ค. 2022
- Na'ima B. Robert and Umm Khalid have an honest conversation about Islamic feminism, gender roles, narcissism and marriage. A must watch!
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Without doubt, 2 of the realest sisters in this ummah. Yall are superb role models for our women and sisters. May Allah SWT bless you both and keep u strong. Keep bringing the real talk sisters!
Women have forgotten how to love. Men have forgotten how to lead. And collectively, we have forgotten that we need each other. Technology has utterly torn us apart from each other and technology has utterly torn us apart from our own selves. Marriage might die out altogether in just a couple of generations like this.
Get away from social media. Get away from video games. Go back into the real world.
This is why we have to as close to the sunna as possible
Umm Khalid and Daniel Haqiqatjou are truly "uncompromising". That just captures it all. Rare gems of knowledge from "themuslimskeptic" and "Alasna".
Listened to this with my teen daughter on our way to school such an important and helpful video. Loved when the sister mentioned that women are promised the same outcomes as men and biologically it's simply untrue. I see it all around me , so many women I know focused on their careers in their early 30s and without children. Pursuing masters and it makes me sad. Thank you for this video!
Thank god for these women for putting this out there for the public to see that not all hope is lost
may allah bless umm khalid with the best in dunya and akhira, her husband and she are lions who fight for islam and the institution of marriage and family!
With the type of job I do, I see alooooott of women act this type of way and always empathize with them because no matter what you do for them, they always want more “ENTITLEMENT”
Top Interview! much needed conversation!
MasyaAllah can't wait! Just currently looking at the poster (without a pic) and thinking "that would be nice if there is Umm Khalid".. and I search for her fb page just because it's been such a long time since the last time I read her insightful writing and see the announcement! Love her so much because of Allah.
Jazakullahu khairan for this. Very informative and positive
Wow what a meaningful conversation 👏👏.I am learning sooooo much thanks alot gems
jazakaAllahukhaira sisters,may Allah grant us understanding and protect our children
Ameem.
Very interesting conversation. eye opening.
Alhamdulilah for truth. Alhamdulilah for not hiding the truth even when it’s against yourself. This is Islam. We have become as a race way too covered and protected. The more self awareness and hardship the better chance to get to Jenna. No one should have our best interest, but us. This is super satisfying to watch and be apart of because the topic is difficult to find in day to day conversation without people getting extremely heated. Honestly encouraged me to be more brave when opportunity arises. JazackAllahKhair ♥️
as Salaam wa Alaykoum,
I’ve been following the work of sister Naïma B. Robert for quite some time and am truly an admirer; I recently watched her dialogue with Umm Khalid on TH-cam and though I do not have a significant platform I am very eager to share with her publically insight/perspective with supporting Islamic sources and add to this great topic (in a supportive way not to debate/argue) being that I am a woman who was BORN and diagnosed intersex and raised as a boy until puberty, having experience in the LGBTQ community and being very a practicing Muslim woman. I do have a organized ideas that’s I’d love share with being that she has shed so much needed light on these issues. I am eager and hopeful to receive a response, insha’Allah.
Would love to hear from you, sis. Please do email me on naimabrobert@gmail.com
Thanks ladies
Our pleasure!
Thnx
Someone told me, "Stop being a pick me. You are a married woman. Shame on you." 🤣😂🤣
SISTER NAIMA, THE PROBLEMS YOU GUYS DISCUSS ON YOUR SHOWS WE ARE FACING THEM HERE IN AFRICA.OUR SOCIETY HAS ADOPTED THE WESTERN LIBERALISM. May Allah help us. But having sisters like you gives us hope in the Muslim world
MashAllah sister may Allah bless you
Asalaamu alaikum,
Mashallah!! Thank you sisters for taking the time to discuss this important topic.
I was looking for the course that Umm Khalid is going to be teaching. I did not see the link can someone please post it? Jazakallahu khayran!
Where can I find a sister to wife up like these sisters?😭 these are a rare kind now a days.. 😢
BarackAllahu fik sis ,this was so wonderful may Allah bless you all.
may Allah bless you,
Hi Sister Na'ima I really admire you. I grew up in a mixed family from South Africa and Zim. I very much relate to you in several ways. This was an informative video thank you ladies. I would love to hear your solutions on how trans people or those considering it can actually heal from their mental health challenges instead of changing their bodies. I feel that you brought great concern and awareness to the problem, but solutions were minimal. As you spoke on this topic you used the word "freak factory" Sis let's not forget the humanness the ubuntu. I wonder if this term may hurt someone watching, and perhaps push them even further away from the straight path. Perhaps a different word choice could still get your caring message across. I know your heart has pure. Much love sister!
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Assalam alaikm. An enlighting discussion. Just wanted to hear from Sister Naima about her take on the book entitled Crowds of Madness by Douglas Murray
SubhaAllah just had a realisation that this feminist narcissistict behaviour attitudes is actually being taught to very young children through cartoons/shows/ characters etc I know children who talk like this and are sassy, have these views and imitating what they watch not realising what they are actually saying but believing it.
oh I MISSED IT
Interesting conversation ! There are a lot of gems to ponder on. However, there was not real arguments about womanhood nor femininity in Islam. It was more a conversation about "contre arguments" to was is NOT womanhood.
I truly benefit from you sister Naima, may Allah reward you for your efforts. However, out of all people you brought on Umm Khalid who along with her husband don't believe in something as basic as women's education. I am not a feminist nor am I trying to start anything. But why should we listen to people like Umm Khalid and her husband who make islam suffocating for others? and I don't think it's a responsible thing for you to give plaform to such people. I am sorry if that was reach, but we have to be careful the messages we are putting out there. it would stray people away from the deen.
I agree and if I I had a few doubts about them before, there is none now after I saw the husband mocking school age afghani girls who were crying on a video when speaking about them being prohibited from going to school. He was mocking them imitating their voices and crying making his voice feminine, absolutely disgusting.
Where can we join umm khalid?
Assalaam alaikum
Thank you for the conversation! Listening you and basicly agreeing in some points of view what you brought on, still remains a question: why nowday religions and conservatives connect women's narcissistim with feminism? Not every woman who talks for women or brag about feminine power is a feminist. Actually it seems more, that few are. It would be the same if I connect narcissism with all moslem men, which is far from true. And, anybody who has studied narcissism or had experienced narcissistic relationships probably have corelated that narcissism in woman is often suited with the relationship with men. Not with feminism itself.
What is it in Muslim men that correlates with narcissism? Please do elaborate
@@junayedmustofaghalib4683 Like in any other man, not so much or too much. Its not suited with religion, I guess (even in some areas it can be called religion, at least it seems so from distance). Seems just that in religious debats people often have confroted feminism to "female well behavior". That everything what is negative, or narcissistic is coming from feminism... Not true. As it is not true that all muslim men are narcissistic, even in some area they clearly are...
@@junayedmustofaghalib4683 and, very simplified said (narcissistic abuse is too complicated subject), narcissistic men in religion demand woman to follow holy text (often translating it how they personally want) at the same time not following themself even basic rules (treating others well). You can say, if moslem man is a narcissistic, there is no possibility for woman to fear God, because all her time is dedicated to fear a Man. So basicly he thinks he is a God. But again, it similar with christians, pagans, whoever ...
@@christinleetmaa8259 Do you think it is a healthy and balanced way of looking at life? And have you ever considered yourself to question the belief that you currently hold? And how sure are you that your belief resonates with reality?
@@junayedmustofaghalib4683 Hello, thank you for feeling interest. Im not sure what has ment by you "do I think it is a healthy and balanced way looking for life", as we were talking about narcissism in moslem men, which is not healthy, is harmful. Im interested in religions indeed. Christianity and Islam mainly. Not practising at the moment neither of them. But I should choose one. In some moment in my pass Islam helped me to deal with a bit difficult situation, so i have felt the particular connection with it. But probably in my area its more reasonable dedicate to christianity
I know the ideology but yes there are always 2 sides to story
Allah guide us
Yes women feel trapped n taken advantaged n frustrated
Yes we can nt deny the ladies act was nt correct but this is reality the frustrations women feel n most times people don’t listen feel n help us far n between
Absolutely agree with this egotistical ideology
I think this can stamp from home environment where the father did nt respect or value the mother of the home n this we lashing out n inspiration is to override the hurt n repression our mums experienced n we nt going to have that in our live
So I feel men need to be taught how to communicate n respect there wives n be patient to help her to come to level
N in most relationships both spouses continue growing or nt n this results in differences arising because they on different levels of how they deal n approach n just to add men feel they complete n perfect and there’s no need to change ,accept correction
Assalamualaikum warahmatullah sister, I want to join your annual marriage conference conversation. What should I do for that? Will it conduct on TH-cam?
Yes it will. Register here: bit.ly/successfulwives
@@NaimaBRobertTV thank you so much sister. May Allah bless you Aameen
We speak of these behaviors today with terms like narcissist, yet Allah addresses this in Quran-nothing new. It's called Hypocrisy/Hypocrites. Read the Quran and the description Allah makes of munafiqs and it is exactly what is being described here.
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Aap powerful mere bahanon aap yah soch Lo philistin ke balon ka kya dhokhe pyar se mar rahe hain chhote bacche vahan Shahid ho rahe hain Kajal ke bahar Khushi chal rahi hai Vinay Ko Pani nahin hai Mau ke pass dudh nahin hai bacchon Ko laane ke liye aap bhi hamare bahane Hain abhi hamare Santosh jala Ankush gali mein tola hamari kaise madad ham Insaniyat ko chahane wale ban jaaye hamare hawale Salam sallallahu alaihi vasllam Insaniyat ke Alam bajar ham unki ummat Hain ham duniya Ko sochenge love story School lene ka Vada Kiya hai aur de ham kha rahe hain aap kaise bar Allah per nahin hai Imaan per nahin hai Allah film Facebook ko kholunga usmein aapka Jo last hua hai Allah se madad mangunga chahunga tumhara ahsaan padhne ka badla pata Karta hai to main aapko ahsaan kar dunga assalam walekum rahmtullah barkathhu mere pyare Alam ke liye socho kulam kya Kah Raha hai hamare Nabi ke Haji Sahab kya kah rahe hain tumhare Naseeb mein hai to Allah duniya ke Samsung S7 ko hata kar dega mango Allah se Vellore Allah Hu Akbar sallallahu alaihi vasllam
Umm Khalid's hand-speaking is annoying as hell. Stay still woman!
Look away. Stop leaving silly comments.
@@AReflectiveSoul It's a reasonable comment. You're not supposed to move your hands when talking, but that's the Masri-American baggage that she brings
@@EV-EV-EV i guess you talk like a bot then
Moving your hands is a normal thing to do in different cultures. This is a somewhat informal conversation, not a lecture. Na'ima also moved her hands quite a bit. Can't please everyone.