Episode 10 With Umm Khalid
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- Questions:
1) What's feminism? Where does it originate from?
2) Is it compatible with our faith or are there any dangers to look out for?
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Umm Khalid is something else
His husband is also very different
How? can you xplain pkz
@@fatumaadam3067 she means it in a good way, like on another level
Who else is here after hearing Blogging Theology and Umm Khalid letters?
Here👋
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Great discussion! My country was invaded in the Name of women rights, but after 20 years of occupation, 500k women got killed, 80% women is raped who worked with them, Rape, Sex Slavery, Sex trafficking is now common.
Thank you for this great discussion.
How do you do in Afghanistan now? Is it better or worse? And why?
Is's extremly soothing to listen to Umme khalid
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Daughters you are the soldiers
Who neither carry knives or guns
You are the ones that must guard the fortress
You are the ones that must protect the men and the children Of the Ummah
You are the backbone of the future generations
For you posses the two most 'powerful weapons' on earth
Love and dua
Give love
Make dua
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Ma Sha Allah! Allahuma Barik some of us are victim of this feminist idea. Trying hard to follow Qur'an and Sunnah. May Allah guide this ummah
Umm Khalid spouse of br haqiqatjou
Really? that's so awesome. Br Haqiqatjou is such a smart man.
1 of the best lecture about feminism i saw in my life mashaAllah 😍 may Allah bless you all
Thank you
Umm Khalid MashaAlloh
Subhan Allah.. this perspective should be known by everyone out there.. there is so much of misinformation out there. Subhan Allah
Mashallah.. may Allah SWT bless you my muslim sisters.. paasing Information politely without arrogance.
It’s true that we have so many mens which don’t have taqwa when it’s comes to thier wives , but they will face Justice hereafter, but women rights is to secure the household , and the man must protect and provoid his wifes . May Allah protect and guide us to the straight path
Barak Allah feekom. May allah protect all the sisters. Ameen
Soldiers of Allah
Are Men of Takwa
Concerned for Humanity
Fearless, brave
Intelligent and strong
Lowered gaze
Truthful speech
Modest dress
Masculine beard
With hues of humility
And prostration
On the countenance
We the Ummah, salute you
And may Allah
Protect and elevate you
I really enjoyed this mashaAllah really informative keep up the beautiful work! 👍🏽❤️
Interesting. Umm Khalid is a smart woman.
Husband and Wife
Both work full time
Baby left in care
Of a non relative
To be able to afford
All the temporary joys
Of the many must haves
That society offers
But in the exchange
Of coming home tired
After a long day
To a place looking good
In the latest trend
Though sadly
No body home
To welcome them
He stares at the clean kitchen stove
And deeply sighs
She looks at the neat cot
And quietly sobs
He goes to get their child
As she orders the meal online
Beloved, Islam offers you
A beautiful and balanced life
Hold on to it firmly, till you meet Allah
Quran 2 : 11 - And when it is said to them: "Make not mischief on the earth," they say: "We are only peace-makers." (brothers & sisters are a team, not to be divided)
Qur'an 4 : 32 - And wish not for the things in which Allah has made some of you to excel others. For men there is reward for what they have earned, (and likewise) for women there is reward for what they have earned, and ask Allah of His Bounty. Surely, Allah is Ever All-Knower of everything.
great verses
Feminism is for race bigotry from the inside of the family, here are their quotes:
Anna Howard Shaw, 1847-1919 (Physician, Methodist minister, president of the National Woman Suffrage Association, inspiration for an episode of 30 Rock)
- “You have put the ballot in the hands of your black men, thus making them political superiors of white women. Never before in the history of the world have men made former slaves the political masters of their former mistresses!”
Suffragette: Belle Kearney, 1863-1939 (Orator, novelist, Mississippi state senator)
- “The enfranchisement of women would insure immediate and durable white supremacy, honestly attained, for upon unquestioned authority it is stated that in every southern State but one there are more educated women than all the illiterate voters, white and black, native and foreign, combined."
Suffragette: Elizabeth Cady Stanton, 1815-1902 (Social activist, abolitionist, author)
- “What will we and our daughters suffer if these degraded bl*ck men are allowed to have the rights that would make them even worse than our Saxon fathers?”
Suffragette: Laura Clay, 1849-1940 (Founder of Kentucky’s first suffrage group)
- “The white men, reinforced by the educated white women, could ‘snow under’ the Negro vote in every State"
Suffragette: Frances Willard, 1839-1898 (Feminist lecturer, founder of the National Council of Women, anti-child abuse activist)
- “Alien illiterates rule our cities today; the saloon is their palace, and the toddy stick their scepter. The colored race multiplies like the locusts of Egypt.”
Suffragette: Carrie Chapman Catt, 1859-1947 (Founder of the League of Women Voters)
- “White supremacy will be strengthened, not weakened, by women’s suffrage.”
Suffragette: Rebecca Ann Latimer Felton, 1835-1930 (First woman to serve in the Senate)
- “I do not want to see a negro man walk to the polls and vote on who should handle my tax money, while I myself cannot vote at all…When there is not enough religion in the pulpit to organize a cruxade against sin; nor justice in the court house to promptly punish crime; nor manhood enough in the nation to put a sheltering arm about innocence and virtue--if it needs lynching to protect woman’s dearest possession from the ravening human beasts--then I say lynch, a thousand times a week if necessary.”
feminists are neo patriarchy communists, they came after central banks to switch farm to debt slavery & to break family a colonial tactic to keep minorities down, left & right are same side, left to de-form & right to form tyranny paid by same lobbies, & support zio colonialism. this shows why secularism fails to materialism and why Islam is a complete way of life - Islam is the balanced middle path - guiding individuals with 6 pillars of Iman, families with the 5 pillars of Islam and greater communities with the 5 protected pillars in shariah!!!
But you have to learn Correct Aqida Manhaj first!
May Allah guide us!
@@911mossadvanbombersclassif4 what happens with the wrong aqeedah bro
@@flashg3292 if wrong Aqidah, it depends but its the basis of the din, then your deeds can stop counting as in some hadith or it can lead to not uniting on Quran.
Beloved
Your Lord did not create amongst you
Male and female
Beautifully different
Physically and mentally
To rage war amongst yourselves
Or to vie with each other
He created you such
That you may live in harmony
Supporting each other
Through balanced roles
Prescribed by Allah
So do not be confused
By the turmoil around you
All over the World
It is not backwards or suppressive
To respect and serve each other
Learn about the values
That Islam has already presented you
And stick to them
❤
God bless you
MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU ALL
I looked at the people
With a critical eye
And found fault in everyone
I looked at myself
With a critical eye
And found goodness in everyone
I gazed longingly
At blessings the people possessed
And became unhappy
I began to gaze at the blessings I possessed
And became forever grateful
I waited for people to greet me
And became haughty
I greeted the people first
And became humble
I expected people to forgive me
And became arrogant
I began to forgive people
And became compassionate
I thought others blameworthy
And my ego inflated
I believed myself blameworthy
And my conscious responded
I watched those who strived for the world
And became complacent
I watched those who sacrificed for deen
And became productive
I looked towards the worldly folk to emulate
And lost myself
I looked towards the Godfearing people
And found myself
I looked for a middle road in life
And found it in Islam
I searched for the ideal Human being
And found my beloved Rasoollullah ﷺ
I searched everywhere for Peace
And found it
In the Remembrance of Allah
Ирода ишларизга омад тилайман сиг булинг ишиоллох
ameen. Raxmat
الحمد لله حاضر وجزاكم الله خيرا
The hour seemed too near for her
As she panicked and prayed
And the skies shattered above her
As the earth trembled below her
And her memories had clouded
As the eruption of unimaginable pain
Seemed never ending
Till she believed she was surely to die
Then the mercy of Allah descended
Exactly as the pen had written
At the precise time of decree
And the miracle was born
Helpless and weak
To the joyful relief of the father
As she kindly held the newborn
Close to her heart
With the purest of love
Overlooking the suffering and pain
As though she had never experienced
Then do you still wonder
That Paradise doth lie
Under the feet of your mother?
Indeed
Allah has promised her
And kept secret
Such bounties of joy
That no eye have ever seen
No ears have ever heard
And no eye could ever imagine
For the pain that a mother endures at childbirth
Take good care of your mother
And guard your entry into Heaven
By looking after your father
Who is indeed
Your door to Paradise
And without him
You would not exist
❤
Desire has been defined by many as love
And everything today is focused on caprice
Physical attractions and carnal desires
Love is pure
Though it is necessary to express love verbally
And by physical gesture and actions
It is rooted in the hearts reaching the soul
Sowed by the natural attraction
To the blessed traits of the human character
Humbleness
Kindness
Gentleness
Truthfulness
Generosity
Bravery
Moral Justice
And compassion
Physical beauty and a sweet voice is an extra bonus
And indeed even in marriage
The physical intimacy is just a part
Of the most wonderful mutual relationship on Earth
Hazrat Abu Huraira R.A. reported
The Messenger of Allah
Peace and blessings be upon him, said
“You will not enter Paradise until you have faith
And you will not have faith until you love each other.
Shall I show you something that, if you did
You would love each other?
Spread Salaam between yourselves.”
❤
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Beloved
Your life is precious
A gift from your Lord
Enjoy it and do not waste it
Beloved
Don't let the pain
And the mistakes of the past
Or the anxiety of the future
Distract you
From appreciating
The blessings of the moment
Or hinder you
From caring for your loved ones
And doing good deeds
Serving Humanity
Beloved
Try your very best
To please Allah
Adapting the Sunnah
Of Rasoollullah ﷺ
Beloved
Be like those who would gladly
Arrange weeds, beautifully in a vase
And not like those who relentlessly
Throw fresh Roses away
For the colour or scent is not to taste
Beloved
Whatever the circumstances
Make the best of it
Be patient
Be grateful
Smile brilliant, and contagiously
Making everyone around you
And those far and near
Unknown to you
Smile
Beloved
Surely beauty and esteem
Lie in the eyes of the beholder
So strive
To become a beautiful, humble Soul
For when your Lord beholds you
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Most movement including feminism use these term, Empowerment, justices, liberation, peace, health and etc, which sound nice therefore get support from unsuspecting people who generally become biggest victims of these movements.
Who gets hurt by those movements if I may ask
@@Bibbedibob
IE: women will be victims of feminism.
@@irfanfarid how do women get hurt by feminism?
@@Bibbedibob
Before I answer your question if I may ask how you think feminism is a benefit for women. Do you think everything if feminism is Ok and if not who draws the line on whats OK and not in feminist movement?
@@irfanfaridfor example, feminism gave women the right to vote in most countries where they previously couldn't. Furthermore, feminism points out problems women face and pushes politics and soviety to change. For example sexual harassment in the workplace. Equal treatment when applying for jobs etc.
Basically, feminism benefits women by giving them the same opportunities and freedoms that men always had.
Beloved daughters of the Ummah
You have 'Allah given' rights
That the menfolk must provide the basics for you
So please
Apart from dire necessity
Where you 'should' choose to earn from home
We stress from our hearts, with great pain and grief
Prioritise guarding the fortress of the home
Through your total presence
Your Wisdom
Your care
And your supplication
Or very soon
Due to the absence of the nurturers
The family structure
will crumble
Within your sight
Then shedding of tears of blood
Will be of no avail
Beloved sons of the Ummah
Deem you that you may marry someone's daughter
Without life long commitment?
To cherish her
To Protect her
And to maintain her
No matter how much she may possess in wealth
We stress with deep concern and care
That you learn about the responsibilities
The rights that a wife has over you
And the rights you have over her
And you read the seerah of the Prophet ﷺ
And you learn about what matrimony is really all about
And afterwards you embark Insha-Allah
Upon the beautiful Sunnah of Nikah
Indeed, there is no relationship on Earth
As strange, deep and wonderful
Than that of husband and wife
Oh selfless Breadwinner
You know not how vastly Allah will reward you
And how much he appreciates your toil and stress
In responsibly trying your best
In making the ends meet
Whilst putting your trust, solely in Allah
Indeed
So long as you fulfil the obligations to Allah
And abstain from unlawful means
And from greed, avarice and miserliness
And that you oppress not, those whom you provide
Then you are treading upon the path
To the proximity of your Lord
Until you surely become his beloved.
Insha-Allah
They were both strangers to each other
Their parents prayer was answered
And now they unite in nikah
Through the celestial bond
Forever
بارك الله لهما و بارك عليهما و جمع بينهما في خير آمين
(May Allah bless this marriage for them
May He shower his blessings upon them
And may He unite them both in goodness!)
And there is no relationship on Earth
More strange and more beautiful
Than that of Man and Wife
May Allah shower his special grace
Upon all the married couples
So they grow, blossom and bloom
In love and harmony
Pleasing Allah
Till only death separates them
To unite again in Jannah forever
Beloved
Do not be afraid to be the one
Who loves the most
The one on the top left. - let her talk more please
Jazaa killahu khairah
Assalamualikum everyone. Masha Allah
Make clear distinction between equality and equal value! You can't give a major or sergeant the same tasks. They have different tasks responsibilities and duties. A philosophy must not be based on ego but on rationality and clear understanding.
Be humble
Humility attracts divine attention
And however the appearance
A humble person
Is indeed
A beautiful shining Soul
Take heed
For you came with nothing
And will leave with nothing
Apart from your good
And bad deeds
Do yourself Justice
By focusing on doing good actions
Then constantly repenting
For none will enter Paradise
Through appearance, wealth
Status
Or even good deeds
But only
By the Mercy of our Lord
For every blessing of Allah
That man enjoyed in this world
If compared
Will outweigh all good actions
And indeed
Astagfaar, repentance
Also attracts Divine attention
Beloved be humble
Beloved Muslim
Make dua for your Children
Spend time with them
Tell them about the mercy and love of Allah
The great qualities of the Prophets of Allah
The love and concern of Rasoollullah ﷺ for the Ummah
And About Paradise
And Hellfire
Beloved Muslim
Your Children are very precious
The World desparately needs them
Feed them of halal
Keep them in good company
Make them brave and strong
Let them be Allah conscious
Make them kind and compassionate
By setting an example in yourselves
Prepare them for the liberation of Humanity
From the servitude of the creation
To the servitude of Allah
Mashallah
✌😇🧘♂️
Beloved
Tis time to return to the attire of the sunnah
To protect the morality and purity of our society
And learn to lower our gaze
And be mindful of what we watch and listen
And garb the attire of modesty and piety
To cover the parts of attraction
And not to highlight or to flaunt
Lest we lose the dignity of Islam
And the spiritual and celestial beauty
Of divinely ordained marriage
Between man and woman
And become prone and attracted
To unnatural, unhealthy desires
Like those amongst mankind
Who have done injustice to their souls
And transgressed beyond the Boundaries
Drawn by the Lord
Oh wonderful young Muslim
Hold firmly to your family circle
And keep in touch with the Ulamah
For they are there to help you
Busy yourself in learning skills
Helping people
And creating a bond with Allah
For the idle mind
Soon becomes the devil's workshop
Protect your personality, your mindset
Your Soul and especially, the gift of Imaan
Avoid everything and everyone confusing you
And distancing you, from your Lord
Or your family
Remember...
That you are very special
For you are the flag bearers of Islam
The brave sailors of tomorrow
And the Hope for the Ummah
You cannot simply go with the flow, beloved
Your ship must be strong
For the winds are cruel
And the waters are rough
Your sails must be set, to the right direction
So you reach the destination safely
And take everyone Home
Be mindful of Allah
Who is closer to you, than your jugular vein
And loves you seventy times more
Than your mother
May Allah bless you with knowledge and wisdom
The Ilm and the Hilm from his divine treasures
And protect you always
Wonderful young Muslim
Aameen
Beloved
Your life
Is Your sacred journey
To Allah
Everyone else
And everything else
Is a Trust from Allah
And the means for You
To reach Allah
Either you uphold the Trust
Through the guidance
Of Qur'an and Sunnah
And walk the straight path
Safely to Allah
Or You ignore the guidance
And You neglect or abuse the Trust
And You lose your way
From the path to Allah
Beloved
Your life
Is Your sacred journey
To Allah
It is about what You engage in
And how You behave with people
And how You react to others
And Not about what people do
And how they engage with You
Nor how they react to You
So keep one eye sternly
On Your own character and behaviour
Whilst continuously excusing others
Until the other eye, eventualy finds
The goodness in people
Beloved
Your life
Is Your sacred journey
To Allah
Do not waste it
Dear dedicated fathers of Humanity
Allah has been watching over you
With love and admiration
And when he had granted
Your silent prayer
Allah saw the joyful hope
On the birth of your Son
And the protective caress
When you held your little Daughter
Gently in your arms
Allah appreciated your every toil and effort
In fulfilling their many needs
And Allah understood
Your hope, anxiety and fear
As the children grew
Allah saw your restless nights
And caring servitude
Allah agreed to your reprimanding
And smiled at your play
Allah saw you liberally spend
In educating them
And how you never cared
For your empty pockets
Allah saw your difficulties
In teaching them right from wrong
And Allah heard your heartfelt prayer
To protect and guide them
Allah knew how frightened you were
When you found your child a spouse
He saw your tearful joy, and pain
In so abruptly, having to let go
Indeed
Allah does not take the good deeds
Of his abiding servant, for granted
And Verily Allah has said
To the children of Man
That his pleasure lies
In pleasing the Father
And the Father indeed
Is the door to their Paradise
Either the children, protect it
By pleasing their father
Or destroy it
In disobedience to him
In the breaking of dawn
The passing of the night
The rising of the Sun
And the hymming of sparrows
I saw you Allah
In the drops of rain
The sprouting of seeds
The blooming of the rose
And the scents of Spring
I saw you Allah
In the union of marriage
The signs of conception
The endurance of a mother
And the birth of a child
I saw you Allah
In the play of the toddler
The passions of youth
The dedication of a father
And the shield of morality
I saw you Allah
In the trials of life
The soreness of the heart
The weakness of limbs
And the consolement from prayer
I saw you Allah
In the leaving of the day
The glory of the moon
In the final breath
And the tears of the family
I saw you Allah
In the calling of the cockeral
The lamenting of the dogs
The harkening of the blackbird
And the silence of the wind
I saw you Allah
As I overheard the compelling warning
"O mankind hasten towards good
Lest death soon overtakes you"
Beloved Muslimah..
Allah did not ordain for you to cover
To hide you
But to protect you
So that you may not be toyed
Nor your heart be broken
Beloved Muslimah
Allah did not tell you to travel with chaperone
To restrict you
But to keep you safe from harm
Beloved Muslimah
Allah did not ordain the Men, to earn and provide
To deprive you
But to free you from that burden for a greater cause
Beloved Muslimah
Allah has prefered for you, the domestic duties
As you hold such special qualities
That make a house into a Home
Sweet and secure, with love and joy
Beloved Muslimah
Allah has not allowed polygamy to favour the Men
But so that none amongst you
Should be forced to sin
Out of loneliness or frustration
Beloved Muslimah
Allah has prescribed for you, to learn the Deen
So that you may nurture Humanity, within his guidance
Beloved Muslimah
Allah has not made the Male, guardian over you
So that you should be subservient to them
But to create a balance and harmony in the world
For two competing rulers
Break and divide the Nation
Beloved Muslimah
Indeed someone once had truly said
"The One who rocks the cradle, is the One who rules the world"
And Rasoollullah ﷺ had said, that Paradise lies under the feet of the mother
Beloved Muslimah
Surely Allah and the Prophetﷺ loves you
The lowering of the gaze
The veil on her face
The non alluring speech
In obedience to Allah
Acts as a Powerful Shield
Against the seductive
Arrows of the devil
Guards the Chastity
Sweetens the Faith
Protects the Family
And Preserves the Progeny
And Verily
Allah has prepared
For His abiding servants
Male and Female
That which no eye has ever seen
No ears has ever heard
And no Soul has ever imagined
Allah tied Tawhid to safety in Quran 24 :55, & Sunni knowledge is tied to Tawhid in Qur'an 12 : 108 while excess taqlid like in Qur'an 9 :31 is tied to shirk. So the bida groups teaching shirk and taqlid and lying and dividing the ummah makes ppl turn away from the din. Notice salafis lower graves & safe, May Allah guide us to the Salafi Sunni dawa!
Shame you really confused!
Slightly off topic, but I'm curious as to whether Khadijah ra had any children prior to her marriage to Prophet saws?
Nay my child
You are not independent
For dependency is not just material
Tis alright to depend upon each other
It is only beautifully Human
To need and care for one another
And commendable to give guidance and support
No one on earth is truly independent
And you should not aspire to be
Every creation of the Lord
Depend in someway
On someone, or something
And indeed the cycle of nature
And surely
The Entire Universe
Is completely dependent upon the Will of Allah
The Creator of the Heavens and the Earth
Who alone is Independent
The Great,The Wise,The Benevolent, and Merciful
Allah
The Lord of the Worlds
Beloved, remain Humble
Remain Humane
I got a problem with the sentence women obeying or submitting or being submissive to a husband. Can someone clarify?
Isn’t it from feminism that you 3 women are doing this podcast?
Depends how you define feminism
So women couldn't speak before feminism?
please who can help me for finding a spouse, me student of business informatics
Umm Khaalid mentioned how opportunists use Aisha as an example of a scholar to get out their to teach/study when infact Aisha didn’t go out to teach, infact she was within her home teaching Hadith from behind the veil. Ironically why has Iram sat there trying to teach us but not behind a veil! Why wasn’t she in a niqab at least? I mean she is an attractive women. Does she think the Prophet would be happy to see any of you women on TH-cam today? I doubt it very much.
They are so illogical..it's not about being opportunities..some of us don't have male figers like them..we have to support ourselves..we have to go out to fullfill our family stomach and us .we would come on roads if we keep listening to this..umm Khalid also lie alot ..I m still a student and I don't have acces of the resources where they get these kind of knowledge..but once I will start earning I would research myself ..but I m sure umm Khalid and these women have no clue how are muslim ummah is suffering..we all should study hard became something and try helping other muslim brothers and sisters from oppress nations
I’d like to ask for help! I’m still a young girl and i really don’t have a lot of role models of women around me, i don’t have an idea what should a woman act like? How she should act with her husband? Is really debating and making decisions and suggestions is not in women nature because they should be obedient? I’m so confused and my head hurts from thinking i have so many questions so please help me. Also are we really not allowed to say no to our husbands?😅 and of course i’m not talking about when they tell us to do haram things i mean if they asked for a favor that is completely halal are we not allowed to say no?
And another question that is floating on my mind that people surly have different personalities, and maybe some women that have been tested in this dunyah with a way of thinking similar to men like they not really good to open up and they have tendencies with being aggressive or not shy,and love debate, solving problems, a little competitive, and prefers to think more with logic, what should these women do to obtain their womanhood and fulfill their roles as daughter wife and a mother?
What if a women worked from home as we know now working from home is becoming more approachable and easier, so she can still work with some fields that interest her?
@potatoes hey, i really appreciate that someone reminded me that i have once struggled with these thoughts. I now no longer have them and if you need some answers I’m willing to help and if you want to copy what i wrote to um khalid please feel free.
I hope you find your answers to ask for Allah s guidance.
@potatoes unfortunately i don’t, i apologize.
Stop moving your hands when you speak Mrs.Haqiqatjou