3 UPDATES: My Bully Parents & Golden Child Sister Canceled My 18th Bday Party Behind My Back & I...

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  • 3 UPDATES: My Bully Parents & Golden Child Sister Canceled My 18th Bday Party Behind My Back & I Ended Up Feeling Embarrassed & Alone At The Restaurant Waiting For People To Show Up...They Got A Taste Of Karma As They Forgot To Uninvite This "Special Guest", & Now They're In For A Rude Awakening…
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    Hi, people of Reddit! I am Whitney (18F) and my bully parents are finally getting justice for what they did and I am happy about it.
    To give you a little back story, let me tell you about my mom, Eleanor (48F), and dad, Max (51M). My parents are kind of bullies, and they have always favored my golden child sister, Elsa (21F). I’ve spent most of my life feeling like a second-class citizen in my own home. I’m not going to lie-it’s been really tough, and I’ve reached a point where I need to vent.

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  • @Zurround
    @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    The OP's mother sure recovered fast. Cancels one birthday party because she is "not feeling well" then immediately plans another.

  • @DeborahEvans-r2v
    @DeborahEvans-r2v หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Apparently, grandpa owned the house. I'd have sold it and then told everyone they have one week to move, or they and their belongings would be out on the street.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน

      Everyone EXCEPT for the OP? She and Grandpa seem like the only 2 non @$$H0L3$ in the family?

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My response was deleted by the censor for being "offensive". I was trying to say that an exception should be made for the OP.

    • @krazzygranny7032
      @krazzygranny7032 หลายเดือนก่อน

      not sure if the house was the house they lived in or the house the grandfather lived in

  • @sun_chariot6141
    @sun_chariot6141 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    To OP's family: karma is brutal and merciless. They laugh now, but in the end, THEY will be the ones crying when

  • @laquietagray9323
    @laquietagray9323 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    I would have called police and had them arrested and sued.

  • @annabellegarcia4240
    @annabellegarcia4240 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Rewritten from another story. Older sis had party canceled because her trip was canceled. Grandpa to the rescue, she moves in with him. He cuts parents off...

    • @calleighknight3789
      @calleighknight3789 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Love it.

    • @lonewolfgrey5781
      @lonewolfgrey5781 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      AI GENERATED

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@lonewolfgrey5781 If AI gets too good at creating stories will human authors be out of a job?

    • @m12281974
      @m12281974 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Why are all the stories lately half ended? I read the real stories on reddit but enjoy the redos here.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@m12281974 What "half" did we miss? It felt pretty concluded to me?

  • @mbyerly9680
    @mbyerly9680 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Two narcissists raising another narcissist. The same old story.

  • @FM-br2rm
    @FM-br2rm หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    My mother threw me out on my 18th. She chased me out of the house. I was barefoot tiny shirt n tiny shorts. A few months later I went back for my stuff she said u took everything with u. I worked n bought all my stuff. I had nothing. At that time I was so depressed. But I worked n bought new stuff. It got better from there.

    • @amberleeannalee1999
      @amberleeannalee1999 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Evil boomers. They don’t respect their kids. The boot strap mentality is what ruins American families IMO

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I hope you somehow make really good money. I want you to become a millionaire and then I want to see how you respond when she comes trying to bum some money off of you.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What she did might not have been legal. When the sheriff's department supervises an eviction they give the person being evicted about an hour to pack up everything they can that they own and figure out where to put it (storage unit maybe?) and they give them time to get dressed. I think the law requires that much. You could have sued or pressed charges I think.
      It is really telling that heavily armed police officers show more compassion for strangers they dont' even know who are getting evicted than your mother showed you on your milestone birthday.
      I am curious if you 2 had a fight or argument right before that happened or if she just did it because you were 18 now? Any chance she will want to "make amends" if you give her grand children?

  • @valplinski1728
    @valplinski1728 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Love listening to these, especially because your voice is so calming . Glad i found your channel.

  • @tailsofchaos
    @tailsofchaos หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Even after what they did to her stuff, they still lost more than they think. And their golden child, it don't always go well.

    • @missylundeby
      @missylundeby หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Golden children never go well from what I’ve seen in real life.

    • @tailsofchaos
      @tailsofchaos หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@missylundeby Indeed and never does like the donating the kidney Story. The golden child needed to donate a kidney and the brother refused after being treated horribly by him and the parents.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@missylundeby The parents did not love the "golden" child either. She was just an extension of their own narcissistic and self absorbed egos.

    • @missylundeby
      @missylundeby หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Zurround oh, 100%. Once she’s no longer living up to their standards she will be moved from golden child to scapegoat. The OP will have already gone no contact and should 1000% keep it that way.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@missylundeby I want a sequel where they try to get help from the OP. Maybe beg her for money or something.

  • @Techier868
    @Techier868 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    And why didn't the best friend come to the restaurant? The whole story doesn't make any sense

  • @ljh5141
    @ljh5141 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Wow! Those parents get the gold medal for being the biggest AHs! They just piled on the nasty. OP deserves better and I hope that she goes on to do great and lives her best life with Grandpa and her best friend as her best buds. The one's that will live in regret will be the parents and big sis when they try to pull OP back in because they need her, and she is going to be too busy living well, with people who truly love her by her side. Yay Grandpa and BFF. Be good to yourself OP and know that you have a gazillion internet readers here, who are rooting for you, Grandpa and BFF.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The sister is also kind of a victim. They groomed her to be the horrible person she became. They never loved her either. At some point she will get older and wiser and figure that out.

    • @krazzygranny7032
      @krazzygranny7032 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      not much talk about OP's father, so I assume the mother wears the pants in the family

  • @timefoolery
    @timefoolery หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Thank God for Grandpa. 😢 I feel so sorry for her. Glad she comes out on top.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes but I really wanted to see her family suffer more. I cannot even figure out why the family planned the party with her then stood her up? Why not just say to her "We know it is your birthday but we do not love you and only want to celebrate your sister's birthday. Just enjoy the party we will plan for her". Is that really so difficult?

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I would have posted on social media and family group chat to let them know what her parents and sis did to her

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน

      And risk them suing her for slander or defamation? Just something to think about....

    • @tanithschneider3051
      @tanithschneider3051 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too. And it isn’t slander if it’s true.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@tanithschneider3051 I know but even if you WIN the lawsuit they might try to sue anyway and its a huge hassle getting sued even if you win. Especially when you are trying to get adult life started. Might not be worth the stress.

  • @mimiwhite1963
    @mimiwhite1963 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    That family is unreal and so emotionally abusive. Hope she never talks to any of them again.

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I posted above that they did not love the "favored" sister either and at some point she will realize that. They also do not love each other. An ENTIRE FAMILY is broken if even one person in the family is abused. It is like the metaphor of a chain being as strong as its weakest link.

  • @michaelmaffei3988
    @michaelmaffei3988 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Darn i was hoping paw paw wud evict them from house and his will

  • @Letha-AnnCooper
    @Letha-AnnCooper หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Elsa is going to have to be the one your parents will have to depend on in their dotage! Move in with grandpa! Let them go! They don’t have a care for you. They kicked you out OP They were looking for an excuse to get rid of you.

  • @frustrateduser9933
    @frustrateduser9933 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Extra points for making it grandpa not grandma. 👍Nice job. This is the YA version of the typical stories.

  • @millicentspears
    @millicentspears หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Grandpa MVP

  • @Matt-Rat
    @Matt-Rat หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Like my GodSpider says, "If you don't treat your kids equally, you are not a real parent."

    • @dlc563
      @dlc563 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We tried our best to treat our kids equally. Spend close to the same amount on all the kids and spouses, a little less on grandchildren because we buy for them all year long. It really isn’t that hard. I just don’t get parents who treat one child so well and the other so badly.

  • @heatheraucoin5832
    @heatheraucoin5832 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Who else was thinking of SATC Carrie’s 35th birthday and no one showed up? At least Carrie’s friends were onto their way, 0ps family sucked

  • @jameswong7561
    @jameswong7561 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Another nonsensical story. The first sentence promised karmic justice on the parents. WHERE WAS THE JUSTICE?

    • @youarehere594
      @youarehere594 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The will was re-written and they lost out.

  • @suzygarcia4300
    @suzygarcia4300 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I would have stayed at sisters party and thrown birthday cake on floor. 😂😂😂

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Or better yet say that you have an "announcement" to make and when everyone is listening you tell them all what happened and then they will be disgusted by the family.

    • @MetalSStar196
      @MetalSStar196 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Zurround Even better than the cake-drop!

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@MetalSStar196 I am so aware of the harm of favoritism and these TH-cam stories have reminded me of that even more that I go out of my way to AVOID IT. If I like one child a little more than the other I will, if I realize I am favoring the child I like better I will make sure to balance things out by doing something special for the other child. I make a conscious effort to avoid it.
      And as I keep saying, when favoritism gets this extreme the favored child is not loved either.

  • @DigitalCowboy000
    @DigitalCowboy000 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I'll lay even odds that the OP's mother *WASN'T* sick.
    Also I can't help but wonder if the OP was an affair baby.
    Bravo on grandpa for changing his will. Hopefully he left the house to the OP.
    OP should have called the police on her "loving family."

    • @ifynwamma
      @ifynwamma หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Of course she wasn't.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      No. She was just a 'whoops' baby that they did not want. The USA is so anti-abortion that the sensible solution was not even considered. Instead they tormented the unwanted child who will need a lot of therapy and ongoing help to get through life. I hope she thrives!

    • @DigitalCowboy000
      @DigitalCowboy000 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stephaniewilson3955 agreed, und the really sad und tragic thing is that these "loving parents" don't seem to grasp that by doing just the bare, legally required minimum for the unwanted child. Is *NOT* doing "everything" for them.
      Und I have to laugh at those parents when they are shocked und outraged that the child that they ignored und treated as a second thought are unwilling to help them. Und invariably they trot out the "but family helps family" card. Clearly missing the fact that they never treated the other child like family.
      I just listened to another Reddit post. In which the OP was sadly orphaned at a very young age.
      His only living relative an aunt refused to adopt him. Years later when he "found" her as teenager. She told him that he wasn't family und to never contact her again.
      Then years later when she learned that he was successful enough to have bought himself a house. The same aunt reached out to him demanding that he give his house to his worthless, dropout of a cousin, because "family" helps family.
      When he refused, she threatened to forge a deed und steal it from him.

  • @sarahclapp505
    @sarahclapp505 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why was the friends not at the party.

  • @carme1976
    @carme1976 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So her family didn't come then where were her friends that she claimed she invited in one of her friends call her to ask if the party was really canceled

  • @ravenfox926
    @ravenfox926 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd never ever talk to them or acknowledge sisters birthday from that day forward.

  • @JandJthecandycab
    @JandJthecandycab หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My question is why they didn't leave mother and sister live with Opie for the restaurant together...

  • @lynsthoughts3576
    @lynsthoughts3576 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why didn't she call Grandfather when she saw the party prep?
    These stories go WAY TOO LONG....
    WHAT DO I DO?
    She had an advocate.
    Wush

  • @Kinsfire
    @Kinsfire หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm hoping that there's an update in the future where we find out that OP is doing extremely well, and the parents who threw her away "suddenly realize the error of their ways", also known as "We need money". If I'd had family do that to me, I would get rid of them permanently. Even if they were truly contrite, I'd have to point out that there was absolutely no way that I could trust that, and that given the past, they were playing the long game hoping to eventually convince me to fund whatever they wanted money for.

  • @SimplyKeshia
    @SimplyKeshia หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    i didn't like how that ended. it was as if no endings.

    • @tailsofchaos
      @tailsofchaos หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@SimplyKeshia Honestly I don't think we should expect some type of grant ending by something happened to the parents. Besides it is like something similar in real life anyway.

    • @grobanite4ever85
      @grobanite4ever85 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Maybe there would be more updates

  • @Andrew-ju4be
    @Andrew-ju4be หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I hope op reads this. You'll be better off cutting off your family. Someone has experienced much more than this. You'll never get acknowledgment for any achievement you ever do you will never be able to compare it to your siblings. You set yourself on fire to keep them warm. This is a life lesson I had to learn that's why I no longer in contact with my family. An I'll give you a perfect example of golden child so I had three sisters golden children. My mother bought all three my sister's a home. I asked for some help with mine she told me no and month later I found out she bought her sister a house. An this is one prime example of things they've done. I was seen nothing more than a work mule for there use. An not once I was told I was loved by my parents. I literally was forced to live in the living room on the couch I was too small for me.

  • @onepieceisking5493
    @onepieceisking5493 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Update 1, the dishes were only tip of the iceberg. Egg donor couldn't stand that op was airing out how she truly felt and was being called out on how she's treated op. And given how furious she was at for telling grandpa the truth about they cancelled op's birthday behind op's back, I'm not surprised that she kicked op out after getting called out. Nor that she blew up on op because of her frustration that she's no longer getting everything from her dad after what she did and it's typical that she blames op. She just also met a boiling point of her own, when she kicked op out.
    Update 2, it's also op's family and especially egg donor's, fault to not think that op wouldn't tell Grandpa about them kicking her out over something so stupid and the argument. Their just going to paying the consequences of their actions when they see grandpa helping op.
    Update 3, I'm actually not surprised that they tried to be so petty in getting rid of most of op's stuff. To them it's also revenge for calling them out, telling grandpa the truth and the fact their not inheriting everything. But they don't realize that they just made everything so much worse on themselves by doing that. People like them just like to dig their hole deeper. Definitely not surprised that they laughed at op when she confronted them like what they did was justified and somehow hilarious.
    Sue their butts. They won't be laughing then. Then grandpa NEEDS to cut them off entirely and they really wouldn't be laughing. In other words this is far from over.

  • @amberleeannalee1999
    @amberleeannalee1999 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This title alone set me TF off. I’d like to meet up with these narc parents.

  • @elsaflood6393
    @elsaflood6393 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl you are now 18 years old. MOVE OUT!

  • @soteed
    @soteed หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This story wasn't worth listening to. What a let-down.

  • @nadinerome2154
    @nadinerome2154 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m always like sounds awful. How was OP affording college? Stories never ring true.

    • @stephaniewilson3955
      @stephaniewilson3955 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Ever heard of scholarships? And Grandpa promised to cover everything.

    • @nadinerome2154
      @nadinerome2154 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stephaniewilson3955 I’m sure that’s it. Wealthy grandpa.

  • @charilleneblackman5660
    @charilleneblackman5660 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I would never speak to none of them again never

  • @Nikkimommyof4
    @Nikkimommyof4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    When you’re caught with your proverbial pants down there’s not much you can say to defend yourself. The evidence won’t lie. There’s nothing you do but own up to your mistakes and try to do better. At least that’s what a mature adult should do anyway.

  • @charlottehenthorn
    @charlottehenthorn หลายเดือนก่อน

    The reason I listen to your stories is they always have good carmic endings. This one I will have nightmares about for the rest of my entire effing life.!!!!! Oh my god don't ever do this again.

  • @faizansyed9111
    @faizansyed9111 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    where was the rude awakening??

    • @Fiero425
      @Fiero425 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Strange to not speak to anyone on the BD waiting at the restaurant! That would be it! "BYE!" ;-)

    • @ljh5141
      @ljh5141 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The rude awakening will come to those parents and Elsa, when they only have each other to crap on. Crap rolls dowhillband OP isn't at the bottom to catch the crap, she has taken all that crap and will hopefully build a beautiful garden of success and love with people that actually love and support her.

    • @faizansyed9111
      @faizansyed9111 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ljh5141 absolutely

    • @Zurround
      @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ljh5141 I explained why above the parents did not love each other or the "favored" child and they can ACT like it when things are going well but as soon as life becomes stressful for them they will turn on each other.

  • @johannymilord3371
    @johannymilord3371 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This story looks a bit similar, yet it I couldn’t find the person who posted it on Reddit,

  • @debbieeutsler5654
    @debbieeutsler5654 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Talk to your grandpa

  • @ebifuon6776
    @ebifuon6776 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Open are you me from an alternate universe cause this sounds a lot like my childhood

  • @keturahmagee6413
    @keturahmagee6413 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ok so if the family has to cancel why did they have to tell her friends not to come? Why not send a text hey we can't make it very sorry hopes your bday goes well. Aka enjoy it without us.

  • @kol636
    @kol636 หลายเดือนก่อน

    noooo wish there was another update

  • @robertx8020
    @robertx8020 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I mighjt have ended Elsa in a fit of rage ..sure I would be in prison..but I would feel better

  • @joemedic710
    @joemedic710 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Another story that just ends! I had to unsub!

    • @Danarchy3
      @Danarchy3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Would you prefer they didn’t end

    • @darcmoon9096
      @darcmoon9096 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@Danarchy3 it's rage bait of another reddit story but butchered and turned into this. The other one was a guy and his grandpa pretty much financially hobbled his parents and he left to college with them begging to help them get back in grandpa's good graces

  • @Chiefchamp19xx
    @Chiefchamp19xx หลายเดือนก่อน

    SOMEONE FIND NAMES!!!!

  • @Zurround
    @Zurround หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    For the ten thousandth time I will say it. They did NOT love the OP's sister. Their actions have fragmented the family, caused toxicity that has harmed the ENTIRE FAMILY, and has fomented resentment and jealousy that has prevented the OP from having a loving and healthy relationship with her sister. Ultimately this will harm the OP's sister THE MOST.
    If the parents in this story had truly loved the OP's sister they would have been fair and kind to the OP. What is more, the marriage is a sham and the 2 parents do not even love EACH OTHER. They do not love their children and having children together is the most sacred bond possible between 2 people, even more so than marriage. If they do not love their children then they do not truly love each other and I expect either a divorce or both of them to be stuck in a miserable loveless marriage.

  • @Lily_of_the_Forest
    @Lily_of_the_Forest 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please write real stories only

  • @rooshaars1400
    @rooshaars1400 หลายเดือนก่อน

    U read ridiculously slow. Can u please read a bit faster. I can speed up the video with 1.5x and its a normal speed....

  • @Geallach83
    @Geallach83 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Okay, we all know this is fictional, but precisely because it's fictional, the fact that this has no satisfactory ending makes it garbage. Get a better writer, or use better AI.

  • @taylorhoge4378
    @taylorhoge4378 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1 Corinthians 15:1-4
    Authorized (King James) Version
    15 Moreover, brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2 by which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3 For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4 and that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures:

  • @usrob1
    @usrob1 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its a shit story with them getting away with everything! CRAPPY STOP NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @heatheraucoin5832
    @heatheraucoin5832 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who else was thinking of SATC Carrie’s 35th birthday and no one showed up? At least Carrie’s friends were onto their way, 0ps family sucked