The in-law’s behavior was never about money, image, or even the son-in-law’s so-called “lack of respect.” This was about the parents staying in control of their daughter. They would have been this way regardless of who the daughter was with. It was about the daughter no longer being under their thumb.
It’s so nice to hear you and your wife are so clear and certain 😊 I generally encourage prenups as divorces can be quite emotional and bad. Having a plan for it is actually a good thing. It can save you money, time, court dates.
I glad this didn't turn into a story where the prenup ended up as backfire revenge story because the partner ended up cheating or turned toxic, and it's obvious the parents still expect this relationship to fail eventually.
Which is why they want to end the prenuptial, because they believe that after a divorce, they would be entitled to whatever money their daughter got out of OP. Her parents accused him of being a gold digger, but the reality all along has been the gold diggers were her parents. If some 60 year old really wealthy man came along and offered them money to marry their daughter, they would have "sold" her to marry the sixty year old man.
I would not dissolve the prenup. They only want to dissolve it because they know that OP is doing very well, and with the prenup in place, their daughter wouldn't be able to get her hands on OP's money!
And by extension they couldn't get a cut of her money. OP should have accused them of being the gold diggers here. OP should tell them that they want first want to get rid of the pre-nup, then make wife get divorced so they can get some money. Throw that crap back in their faces. Also remember you own no respect towards people who have never respected and have always been toxic towards you. Let them take OP to court so they can get laughed at.
Makes me wonder if the parents wanted to dissolve the prenup so that they could get a bigger piece of the pie of OP's business. Once the prenup was gone, then they could encourage the daughter to divorce OP and get half of his assets. On the flip side, since the parents were thrown out, OP should look into investing into his in-Laws businesses through a LLC. The more he buys and controls his in-Laws businesses, the more they will eventually have to kowtow to him and his wife.
I think this is all about control and imagined status. Some people will never accept that the world does not revolve around them and I'm not sure these grandparents really care about anyone other than themselves and their misguided opinions. Sad that they've now alienated their own daughter and, by default, their own grandson and will never understand that it was their own fault.
So your in-laws gave $ directly to your wife when she would ask for $, not to you specifically for your business?? A lawyer would argue that you owe nothing to your in-laws
I could be wrong, but my understanding is that the in laws were giving money to their daughter before they actually got married. He started his business before the wedding and prenup. If so, then they can only claim the money given, to their daughter after the wedding, as "support". But even that is questionable because it falls under their daughter's personal assets due to the prenup. He legit owes them nothing due to the prenup they forced him into. The fact that they want the prenup dissolved now that he is loaded is a bunch of BS. The in laws were up to something. Good on OP and his wife for cutting them off.
I dated a wealthy girl one time. I was a football jock at school and was raised to be respectful to a point. But secretly I was a pot smoking drinking hooligan lol. She loved that. Her dad loved that I was a football player dressed well had a buzz cut hairdo and showed respect. Plus my dad was a hard working man for his family and I referred him to my dad's auto shop. He once said my dad made his car run the best it's ever ran even when new. The mother loved that I knew recipes my family had taught me so I made a bunch of recipes in a paper binder and took to her. They were wealthy and had maids and cooks but the mom liked to cook too plus the mom was drop dead gorgeous and always wore expensive perfumes that drove my sixteen year old brain crazy. I liked being around her and the daughter I was dating. If only they knew what me and their daughter got up to they'd have had me arrested lol
LOL my daughter's BFF's parents were literally the cheerleader and the biker. Still happily married, and think their 40th anniversary is coming up soon.
OP, First things first, your inlaws are toxic as hell and you and your wife should go No Contact with them. If you two are doing well why not sit down and try to figure out just how much actual support they offered to your family, and write them a check for it, and you can add an extra 2 cents since that is actually about all the help you personally ever got from them. I'm I petty, you better believe it. I would say that as long as your wife is truly supportive of you and will agree to never let her parents know if you and her decide to terminate the pre-nup you might consider that, since it sounds like your wife gave you solid support since the marriage. In the end I do not consider pre-nups as a bad thing at all, especially at the beginning of a marriage, but it sounds to me like your in-laws insistence that you couldn't marry your wife without one pissed your wife off as much as it did you, but you both loved each other enough to do it so you could marry. Good luck OP, I hope you and your wife continue on and have a very happy marriage without interference from your in-laws. OP, you and your wife are rockstars. Yes, you two seem to have realized who and what family really is and it is a couple who love each other and the child they are raising. Once you are a committed couple than you can still love your parents, siblings, and other relatives, but they all become extended family. Your family are the people you have committed your life and love to and they always come first. I am so glad that you and your wife decided to kick these people out of your life because her parents were never going to treat you right, and their decision after years of you being married and successfully supporting your wife was for them to try and make you kiss ass or get your wife to divorce you. And they sort of let your wife know where she stood with them because they wanted her to start kissing ass too. Love those shiny spines of yours.
Sorry OP but when you opened the door for the in-laws and they just barged in without being invited, that was trespassing and you should have called the cops. They just disrespected you and your home.
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The in-law’s behavior was never about money, image, or even the son-in-law’s so-called “lack of respect.” This was about the parents staying in control of their daughter. They would have been this way regardless of who the daughter was with. It was about the daughter no longer being under their thumb.
There are prenups that "end" after 10 - 15 years if not reiterated, the in-laws could have gone with one of those - they diged their own grave......
You and your wife are so clear headed. Your a great team, and they’re not😢
You can't reason with narcissists. It plays no part in their universe.
Q: How does a narcissist change a light bulb?
A: They just hold the bulb, and the world revolves around them.
Get a restraining order against her parents. They have crossed the line.
Excruciatingly painful to listen to the entirety of this story.
It’s so nice to hear you and your wife are so clear and certain 😊 I generally encourage prenups as divorces can be quite emotional and bad. Having a plan for it is actually a good thing. It can save you money, time, court dates.
I glad this didn't turn into a story where the prenup ended up as backfire revenge story because the partner ended up cheating or turned toxic, and it's obvious the parents still expect this relationship to fail eventually.
Which is why they want to end the prenuptial, because they believe that after a divorce, they would be entitled to whatever money their daughter got out of OP.
Her parents accused him of being a gold digger, but the reality all along has been the gold diggers were her parents. If some 60 year old really wealthy man came along and offered them money to marry their daughter, they would have "sold" her to marry the sixty year old man.
and you think writing a check is gonna end it? waste of money. and they are too obtuse to realize all it is , is about control
I can't help but hear "mah wife" like Borat everytime she says it😂😂
Don't do it op. Keep the prenup. Ur inlaws are up to something.
And it is not good. They have never had good intentions. Be very wary of this pair of gold diggers!
They want to control this couple....that's all
I would not dissolve the prenup. They only want to dissolve it because they know that OP is doing very well, and with the prenup in place, their daughter wouldn't be able to get her hands on OP's money!
And by extension they couldn't get a cut of her money. OP should have accused them of being the gold diggers here. OP should tell them that they want first want to get rid of the pre-nup, then make wife get divorced so they can get some money. Throw that crap back in their faces. Also remember you own no respect towards people who have never respected and have always been toxic towards you. Let them take OP to court so they can get laughed at.
Makes me wonder if the parents wanted to dissolve the prenup so that they could get a bigger piece of the pie of OP's business. Once the prenup was gone, then they could encourage the daughter to divorce OP and get half of his assets. On the flip side, since the parents were thrown out, OP should look into investing into his in-Laws businesses through a LLC. The more he buys and controls his in-Laws businesses, the more they will eventually have to kowtow to him and his wife.
This is perfect; invest enough to gain the majority share, then sell the entire company to the competitor for a steal.
I think that only works with publicly traded companies. Right?
and why o why do people keep opening doors for evil monsters. call the police and have them take out the trash
no contract of any type.not even a verbal one
Move houses but use their biggest competitor.
Buy lots of houses through their biggest competitor, and rent them cheap
In OP's shoes, I would have told the in-laws "Gee, I bet you wish you'd invested in my business and gotten in on the ground floor."
In the middle, not suspicious of the wife... The parents, nah they have ulterior motives.
Just give them back the money that they contributed or have your wife give them back the money and be done with them do not change the prenup
Why are they trying to get her to divorce you when they haven't gotten the prenup cancelled?
Blatant irrationality.
I'll bet their original plan was to cancel the prenup THEN convince her to divorce
To punish OP for not getting rid of the prenup agreement. But I do think they always intended to force her to divorce OP.
Kudos to the wife! Women almost always crumble under peer\family pressure. She stood her ground. Hat's off!❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Men too, not just women!!!!
@@PurpleSunset82 mostly women.
@@SwapnilBBaguldefinitely mostly men. Especially the ones who can’t detach from the family they came from.
@@SwapnilBBagul What about those "mamas boys" everyone is about...
I think this is all about control and imagined status. Some people will never accept that the world does not revolve around them and I'm not sure these grandparents really care about anyone other than themselves and their misguided opinions. Sad that they've now alienated their own daughter and, by default, their own grandson and will never understand that it was their own fault.
So your in-laws gave $ directly to your wife when she would ask for $, not to you specifically for your business?? A lawyer would argue that you owe nothing to your in-laws
I could be wrong, but my understanding is that the in laws were giving money to their daughter before they actually got married. He started his business before the wedding and prenup. If so, then they can only claim the money given, to their daughter after the wedding, as "support". But even that is questionable because it falls under their daughter's personal assets due to the prenup. He legit owes them nothing due to the prenup they forced him into. The fact that they want the prenup dissolved now that he is loaded is a bunch of BS. The in laws were up to something. Good on OP and his wife for cutting them off.
I dated a wealthy girl one time. I was a football jock at school and was raised to be respectful to a point. But secretly I was a pot smoking drinking hooligan lol. She loved that. Her dad loved that I was a football player dressed well had a buzz cut hairdo and showed respect. Plus my dad was a hard working man for his family and I referred him to my dad's auto shop. He once said my dad made his car run the best it's ever ran even when new. The mother loved that I knew recipes my family had taught me so I made a bunch of recipes in a paper binder and took to her. They were wealthy and had maids and cooks but the mom liked to cook too plus the mom was drop dead gorgeous and always wore expensive perfumes that drove my sixteen year old brain crazy. I liked being around her and the daughter I was dating. If only they knew what me and their daughter got up to they'd have had me arrested lol
LOL my daughter's BFF's parents were literally the cheerleader and the biker. Still happily married, and think their 40th anniversary is coming up soon.
Let her divorce you move on threatening and blackmailing always bites people in the butt
I was thinking that OP and his wife should divorce, then remarry the next day just as a giant middle finger to the in-laws.
A pre nup is about nothing but money.
If I were op. I would write a check for the money they gave your wife. And be done with your in-laws. You and your wife is all that matters.
Op tried that in the updates mate, they said no.
OP, First things first, your inlaws are toxic as hell and you and your wife should go No Contact with them. If you two are doing well why not sit down and try to figure out just how much actual support they offered to your family, and write them a check for it, and you can add an extra 2 cents since that is actually about all the help you personally ever got from them. I'm I petty, you better believe it. I would say that as long as your wife is truly supportive of you and will agree to never let her parents know if you and her decide to terminate the pre-nup you might consider that, since it sounds like your wife gave you solid support since the marriage. In the end I do not consider pre-nups as a bad thing at all, especially at the beginning of a marriage, but it sounds to me like your in-laws insistence that you couldn't marry your wife without one pissed your wife off as much as it did you, but you both loved each other enough to do it so you could marry. Good luck OP, I hope you and your wife continue on and have a very happy marriage without interference from your in-laws.
OP, you and your wife are rockstars. Yes, you two seem to have realized who and what family really is and it is a couple who love each other and the child they are raising. Once you are a committed couple than you can still love your parents, siblings, and other relatives, but they all become extended family. Your family are the people you have committed your life and love to and they always come first. I am so glad that you and your wife decided to kick these people out of your life because her parents were never going to treat you right, and their decision after years of you being married and successfully supporting your wife was for them to try and make you kiss ass or get your wife to divorce you. And they sort of let your wife know where she stood with them because they wanted her to start kissing ass too. Love those shiny spines of yours.
Sorry OP but when you opened the door for the in-laws and they just barged in without being invited, that was trespassing and you should have called the cops. They just disrespected you and your home.
The story just drags on and on repeating the same stuff over and over
Arbitrary was pronounced incorrectly, but that's okay. You do a fine job otherwise.
This lady's stories always give unnecessary details.