Why you have 0 friends and can't fit in
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I sincerely hope that this video guys gives you some light and hope that you're on to an amazing path in life. It should serve as a wake up call for you that you're about to do great things in life. Remember, you're not alone.
It has been many years and I have almost no friends. This has bothered me a lot and I sometimes thought that the problem lies in my personality and it was difficult to adapt to this matter, but with the passage of time I began to gradually realize that solitude, (if you exploit it well), makes you more mature, rational and deeper in life and gives you tremendous energy through which you can achieve great goals.
Thank you, my brother, for this excellent video. I learned and enjoyed it at the same time👍
Yes and at the same time, it can be your own biggest superpower. Many people wanna avoid being alone because that's one of the hardest things in the world because it makes you THINK, and people don't like thinking. They would much rather be distracted with all this fluff and bs that's going on with the world without ever taking a hard look in the mirror and doing an honest self evaluation of their own life. Most people are terrified of that so they'd much rather prefer to be distracted like little sheep. Thanks for watching!
You sound like a chill dude, brother I'd buy you a non alcoholic beer from time to time, I quit drinking a few months ago and the journey is incredible, big respects all the way from the UK
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Hey Patrick, congratulations. It's great to see people who are making massive changes in their lives. Shout out to the UK man, we're all in this together. Alcohol and drinking is one of the biggest obstacles for most people, and I'm sure your life will never look the same in 5-10 years later.
Plenty of valid points and words of wisdom. All my friends disappeared over the years.. Ironically, my best friend now is my son; I never foresaw it happening. Both him and the loss of friends put "friendship" into a unique perspective for me.
Great points on the nonsense of social media as well. I tell my students that there is no greater waste of time that social media and the smartphone.
Getting to the point of "loving yourself," it is not easy, especially if you have a negative environment around you. It is something that I am still learning and trying maintain in my mid 40s.
Yes, that's great to hear man. I think this is what's lacking in society today - the strong bond between the father and the son. For instance, I just met up with my dad last week because we haven't seen each other in a couple of months. I think this is a big issue nowadays, women are influencing the kids way too much and then they grow up soft and entitled and don't wanna work anymore. Fathers teach different lessons. Thanks for watching.
Absolutely true I am so much happy being single and so much enjoying my time for me and my vision and mission! I love my meditation,yoga,gym, dancing and solo trips !
You should love yourself, you are the only person who's always gonna be there for you.
I prefer to be with myself
If you can master yourself, you can master anything on this planet. Become a stoic of life! Thanks.
@@rippedkodiak How do we actually become a stoic of life? What can we do to master anything? I'm about to turn 24 this December and start over in life, and want to be a greater person as well during my progress.
I don't think this is something you can just "learn" through reading books. IMO the best way to become a stoic is to learn mental toughness, do things when you don't wanna do them. That means working out in the rain, talking to girls on the street or publicly, posting yourself on social media, long distance running, being consistent, having discipline, controlling your emotions, being self motivated etc. These are all things that stoicism encompasses, so the best way you can learn this is to go out and execute. No amount of books, reading, seminars, watching YT videos is gonna do that for you. It is perishable and it can be learned with enough practice. And also, study stoicism, read about it online and become wiser.
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What a great message at a great time... Thank you, Brother. This felt like a talk with my higher self
Hey man, hope you enjoyed this little video. I tried my best to get the message across. Yes, sometimes you need to listen to your higher spirit to get to the next level in life.
By the way, isolation is very beautiful when you get used to being friends with yourself, but sometimes we do not seek the friend itself, but rather the feeling that comes from friendship. We practically like to be seen from time to time.
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As for myself, my isolation fills me with all positive meanings. My meeting with people who are not similar to me intellectually makes me feel lonely.
Yes, it is a struggle. Being alone for too long is dangerous too. I once heard this saying that the most dangerous men on the planet are the lonely and misunderstood by the world. I'm not sure if it's true or not, but there is probably some truth to it. Thanks.
Turning 19 this month , cut of all the idiots from life and investing time on self-development . Gets lonely sometimes but I often ask myself " Would I be able to work on myself so selfishly if I had to invest time on their social obligations?" .
Good message , I'd follow this channel from now onwards .
I’m in my room on a Saturday night feeling shit about how I could be out parting. This vid really showed how important moments like these are. thanks man.
Hey man, if you're watching this on a Saturday night I might guess you're based somewhere in California / west coast? Thanks for the comment man. You're not wasting your time by not going to the parties. They'll always be there, stay away from the bs.
Feels like this guy is my family. Appreciate you, brother.
Hey man, my brother from another mother. Thanks for watching, hope you enjoyed the video so far. All the best.
@@rippedkodiak Keep up the good work man. You're on a great path.
Thanks brother, respect is mutual here. You stay on the right path as well!
I was in my teens in the 1970s. I liked punk rock then. Most people i went to high school with hated this new music. I felt like an outcast . And i felt threatened because i had an interest in it. I was called a weirdo. I felt threatened to change , and follow others , and not be myself. Now im in my sixties i look back to those days and wish i had been me. Most people follow a system , thats entrenched. People are like sheep. Its all fear based. I felt fear for liking punk rock . I was different.
Yes you're right, it is all fear based - the fear to be judged and left out by the crowd. However, you'll notice that the best moments of life and times of true, unique creation come from enjoying your time alone and that's when your personal genius can unleash onto the world because you're not distracted and you're not operating from fear (which is what happens to most people unfortunately). That's when you can build some amazing things.
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This video took the right turn
To me, it feels like a cruel fate to never fit in, it feels like a punishment. I hope there is a great reward waiting for me once I truly start fulfilling my purpose. People don't like me but can never tell me why, they themselves don't even know why they don't like me. I walk into a room and even if I make myself small, I still turn heads, yet very few actually approach me. The behaviours of other people, are baffling.
It IS a cruel fate to be alone/to not fit in. That's the beautiful aspect of it; it allows you space to develop the greatest superpower of all: self-awareness. Without knowing ourselves and allowing time to come to terms with who we are, we wouldn't have time to be different or develop our personal lives and level up in life. The superpower IS the loneliness, believe it or not Jazzy ))
Yes it can be a cruel fate to never be able to fit in, it's almost like God sent you down with this beautiful body that is so unique, yet at the same time it is not able to fit in on this planet. It looks he misjudged on what planet you belonged to in the first place... You just have to accept it for what it is, that's the easiest way you can start to enjoy those moments.
Oh hell yes, self awareness is indeed a super power. Most people are so outside of reality it is ludicrous. They lack the perspective and the tuned radar of where they're actually at in life, but once you develop this invisible radar you'll progress like crazy. Seneca said it before - the hardest thing to master on this planet is to master one's self. It can be a blessing in disguise if you decide to look at it that way.
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thank you man needed this
You're welcome man, hope you enjoyed it.
Regardless of who herd species we humans are, we all only by ourself 24/7 all the time.
The ability to Love you're own solitude is powerfull and is the real MENTAL Straight.
From life experiences this is peoples I can't stand '
-Deny they are wrong even when fact and evidence prove they are wrong.
-Deny their weaknesses in word but prove them in their action's
- Lies about skills and accomplicment no selfawerness, like I would If I claim I'm was good in Football - reality is impossible to beat me in being completaly useless in Football!
-Never glad on others behav
-Speak about topics without first hand experiences, I add my own selfawerness into this, I have never drived a motorcycel No first hand experiences no knowledges compared to all who have been drived an Motorcycel '
-Lacking ability's to be objektive, rational and logic.
Awesome video ❤
Yes, thanks for watching. The lack of self awareness in people today is insane. So many people are hypocrites and lack experiences in life yet they want to push on their idealistic ways of living onto you, ain't that interesting? You need to know that you're weak in an area before you can ever improve. Hope you enjoyed the video.
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man thank you for your videos they are like actually informative straight to the point with no unnecessary effects. I also like that your channel is growing, W
Thanks for watching, hope you enjoy the content so far.
I started to try to be friend with a girl at work, I talk to her about things and what I wanted to do at work, one day she decided to copy everything, to make everything that I told her I wanted to do. People is crazy and fake.
Yes, there's this one famous saying that went something like this: "Never tell people these 3 things: Your goals, your money and your personal life, keep these things for yourself".
Thanks g needed this gave me a whole different view ❤
Awesome to hear that g, keep working on yourself.
Adult life is lonely in general ...
Yes, it's that sudden realization after you hit 18 that you're all on your own now. I highly recommend to anyone to move out of your parents house asap because that's how you can really grow up as a man or woman and learn how life really works. Only then can you embrace the times in solitude.
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Excellent advise! Wise advise. The Outsider is an Insider in a different paradigm.
Yes, he lives in a different world but only inside a separate paradigm of life. It's like taking the red pill in the matrix movie.
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I'm 46. Since my childhood I went alone because of early betrayal in my life. At 18 I found bad friends who took me to alcohol and drugs. I left them at 25. Since that age I was on my own until a couple of years ago. I learned many lessons about life all this time in solitude. Afterwards I was able to start cherrypicking friends from my past and present. Now I can say that the few friend I have now are really trustworthy.
That's good to hear man. Yes, that circle you were in were dragging you down into bullsh*t and it caused pain and turmoil in your life. I'm glad you were able to get out of it, most people can't. They get sucked into that environment like a little fish in a whirlpool but you managed to get out. Good to see that you learned your lessons from then on. Thanks for watching.
Awesome video bro, lot of things was relatable and I was going through an existential crisis, but this video really gave me a reality check and I am more mindful about the things I have been spending time on.
Thanks for watching bro, glad you liked the video. Yes, that's what we're trying to do here at the end of the day, we wanna give people hope that there's always light at the end of the tunnel, no matter how dark or lonely your life is. As cliche it's going to sound, it is all about how you perceive things because that ultimately forges your reality.
I'll be your friend
Thanks for watching bro, glad you like the content. We're all in this together.
Greetengs,friend.I like your spirit cause you remind me of myself.Unnatural things like career cannot make you happy.Listen to nature only and follow your instinct.Create a large family as soon as you can.They will be your only friends forever and you will never be bored.
Yes, it sounds to me based on your name that you're a woman, I think this is a pitfall that a lot of women fall into - work a career, never think about men and "things" will figure itself out. Then they're 40 years old with a high paying job and with 3 cats and miserable. This existential crisis happens to a lot of women. I mean, yes your family is the only thing that really matters at the end of the day. Nature will guide you in the right direction if you're willing to listen. Thanks for watching.
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In Jungian terms: The Path of Individuation.
That's a good one, the path of individuation. Never heard of that one before!
The message is real your mind is clear keep pushing man 💪
Hey Robby, thanks for watching. Hope you found value in this video.
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In my case, I'm ugly. Like, _ugly_ ugly.
Bro don't give up, there's always room for improvement. There's no such thing as an ugly man, only a man that is underdeveloped and doesn't take care of himself. Thanks.
Worst part is that we can't even find one simple partner on this selfish planet
It is not easy man, it was never supposed to be easy. I strongly believe that if you try for long enough you will find the right person. Thanks for watching.
Exactly agree with u , we deserve someone better who just gets us , we were never meant to be alone
God meant us to be with someone never alone , if not why are we here
another real mf banger i feel you
Thanks for watching man, hope you found some value in this video!
Not even a single cents or single credits this world can give u
Here we go again with this mfing chosen one bull
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So original
Even if there are friends, they must be driven by their goals and have passion, but today the majority meet for foolishness and worthless pursuits.
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We must strive to enhance a hobby or talent, and through it see new people interested in the same interest, because relationships are conversations and shared interests.
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I don't hate anyone, but I also feel that my daily tasks take up most of my day, and when I'm free I draw a picture. But as for video games, there are a lot of people I meet with, but also when I have free time.
Yes, agree with you 100%. We must find people who we can vibe with, and people who are operating on the same frequency and vibration as us, otherwise we fall for the risk of being ridiculed and shamed by these humans. Thanks for watching.
Worst planet ever , first world
I never understood people that lived for the weekends to watch the "big game". Nor guys that wore a jersey with another man's name on it. Sad!
Yes man, I'm the exact same way. I never understood how other grown ass men can chant and wear another man's name on their backs and treat them like some anomalies. Matrix man. Thanks for watching.
I'm alone for 18 years now and I'm not ugly. If we are the chosen ones of God, then we should do NOFAP.
Hey man, if nofap helps you with your goals then use it to your advantage. You need to figure out what works the best for you. Thanks for watching.
You are loved❤️🩵💝😊😊😊😊
Thanks for watching, hope you found value in this video. Btw where are you watching from?
Nah! Be a Sigma forever If you have to but before you naturally become an alpha with a bunch of friends just be a lone wolf. Otherwise needing validation is just beta.
I knew I sensed a Norwegian accent
Haha thanks for watching, people usually mistake me for being American on my vids 😂, hope you found some value in this message.
I hope there is a angel waiting for you
Thanks for watching, hope you enjoyed the video!
Life of the planet man is too small , reality is zero quality
What happened to you man?
Nothing man , take care
I just don't deserve to fit in this Fake Reality we living
So Unreal n lonely planet
Is just that it feels very unfair to keep living this way man
Dude,
Yes, you already explained to me your preference for being outside.
But you're in an obscure location, a field.
it's as if you're showing us where the bodies are buried.
I enjoy the woods so far 😂
Zero friends until you uplevel and women smell money on you. Then you've got some friends.
Haha Brian 😂, they'll be there at the finish line. That was hilarious 😂