yo can I give a tip? us guys are OBLIVIOUS to flirty behavior. if you want a guy's attention, just say you like him. I shit you not, 95% of guys with like you back
Hi Matthew! Great ones but there are two I don't quite agree on: the "calming presence" one and the "voice" one. Both could backfire , for whatever reason ,... and badly.
1. Show you think he's attractive "You looked really handsome yesterday... What are you doing" 2. let him him know you're thinking about him. "I've been thinking about the conversation we had all day". 3. Reassure him of how his presence impacts you. "I wish you were around right now" 4. Let him know you enjoy doing things with him and events with him. "Ooo I can't wait to go to this place with you again" 5. Give him an exotic visual in his mind. "I'm just chilling in my night gown" 6. Peak his curiosity about what you think about him. "I dreamed about you last night." 7. Tell him to dream of you, make him know You want him to want you. "I hope I'm in your dreams tonight" 8. Drive up the anticipation. "Save some of your energy for tonight" 9. Make him feel like you feel comfortable about him "I'd love to hear your voice" 10. Ask his opinion - about outfit. "I'm trying out this new outfit, I wanted to get your opinion on it, can you help?"
Hi girl 💮if you are not feeling it then it means whatever they are doing ( or not doing ) isn't working. Because ,let's face it if someone wants you to feel special, - and this someone can be a man, woman or child - you will feel special- and guys aren't particularly gifted in making you feel special.And don't get me wrong .I 'm not a "guy - hater. ".🌸 💖 🌸
Amanda Trott girl I’m going through the same thing the problem is the guy is my ex and I’ve been trying to get back with him for months because we were fwbs but I guess he wanted the relationship experience with someone else and not me again . But yeah it is what it is
Hi Matt, I just love listening to you. I've been in a 7 month long distance relationship with a guy from England. He is the most romantic guy I ever talked to..He writes the most beautiful posts I've ever heard. Maybe because he writes songs. See we did last more than 5 months. He asked me to marry him on February 2. Ringless of course. We're supposed to get married in December.
First of all I am not taking suggestions on sending sexy texts. Just crazy. If you do not how I feel about then I have nothing to say. I am not that type of person. I can show you I feel in person. My flirty message is that you are handsome and sexy hot but do not show it I was at the courthouse today and had to file a motion with the judge. My neighbor was with me and asked me if I was going to check out the other construction workers. I did not. No need to. I already know who and I want . Just waiting on him to call me or whatever. Never would I look for something else even though you are not here. What a waste of my time. I already know what I need. You soldier. Love you.
This guy is way too young to talk about relationships. He does not understand what happens when a woman gets to thirty. Then the problem is, where is a man, ANY man? Signed 54 year old single white female
What about the men doing these things 4women. Even WHN women do all these things well it back fires. And they even get colder..i tell my guy these all the time. Then theres no sex no intaminte touching etc..so wht else are ur suggestions..
My only problem is that my boyfriend seems like he's losing interest in me but we REALLLY love each other but he won't let me say it until he gets back from Nebraska in 2 months. I'm crying, he can't even text me till he gets back
If he can’t stand up to his parents you will never be fully accepted by them. I’ve told my boyfriend he has 6 months to tell his family about me, put a ring on my finger, and set a date, no more stringing me along.
Why are allll these videos about what woman should do???? What about what men need to do? Is this put men on a pedestal channel? Make some videos about what men need to do. Like really. Its men who are clueless not woman. Its men who run and hide and ignore not woman
Because this is a women's dating channel. It's for women only. And it's not just men who are clueless, it's everyone. As much as you think men are clueless, that's how much men think you're clueless, trust me on this one. I've coached on both the men and women's side and they're just as bad as each other, just in different ways. Men always think women need to get it together and women think that men need to get it together. The truth is that we all need to get it together and the more you blame and shame the opposite sex, the more likely it's YOU who needs to get it together.
I am glad that there are videos focusing on men for change. Everything is always about the women these days as if men have no feelings. I will stand with men any day over bitchy, feminist women who have ruined it for decent women who stand with men and look up to them.
I am so, so glad that there are videos focusing on the men for a change. As a women, I automatically say these things to men that the narrator is talking about. And when I tell my man these things, it comes naturally because I am being honest. Women need to start standing by men again and looking up to them and let them be men. Feminists have ruined it for decent women. And the women commenting here that men are clueless, well, you are wrong. Dead wrong! These feminists are clueless bitches, screwed up and confused. And they wonder why men avoid them.
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I have done all of these without even knowing that guys like it hahahah
Great tips from a Physchology graduate in Niagara Ontario Canada 🇨🇦
how do I use these without complimenting him or boosting his ego AT ALL
Right, in my experience the minute I compliment, validate, or boost his ego…he vanishes.
yo can I give a tip? us guys are OBLIVIOUS to flirty behavior. if you want a guy's attention, just say you like him. I shit you not, 95% of guys with like you back
He didn't respond
He was at hockey.
Aww thats sad 😔
Same
You are absolutely correct. I've done all and more on my husband. We live in different states now and it drives him crazy. Fail proof.
All these sound great as long as you know for certain that he's actually into you. If he's not, all of these could be really humiliating.
Great video!Much love from Sacramento California.😊💕
Thanks!
thanks for this. its great to get a males point of view
You're welcome!
Would be helpful to have a print of those flirty texts!
Hi Matthew! Great ones but there are two I don't quite agree on: the "calming presence" one and the "voice" one. Both could backfire , for whatever reason ,... and badly.
Those advice are gold
Thanks a lot.
"That sexual attraction" lol
Lol i have done most of these txt messages that hes talking about!!! Im already one step ahead of u Lol...
1. Show you think he's attractive
"You looked really handsome yesterday... What are you doing"
2. let him him know you're thinking about him.
"I've been thinking about the conversation we had all day".
3. Reassure him of how his presence impacts you.
"I wish you were around right now"
4. Let him know you enjoy doing things with him and events with him.
"Ooo I can't wait to go to this place with you again"
5. Give him an exotic visual in his mind.
"I'm just chilling in my night gown"
6. Peak his curiosity about what you think about him.
"I dreamed about you last night."
7. Tell him to dream of you, make him know You want him to want you.
"I hope I'm in your dreams tonight"
8. Drive up the anticipation.
"Save some of your energy for tonight"
9. Make him feel like you feel comfortable about him
"I'd love to hear your voice"
10. Ask his opinion - about outfit.
"I'm trying out this new outfit, I wanted to get your opinion on it, can you help?"
Thank you.
Thanks
Thank you so much 🎉
ThankYou!!
What about what men need to do to make a woman feel special?
What about it? Go to a men's dating channel, they have plenty of that there.
If men want to know that they will probably look at female dating coach websites.
Exactly.!!
Hi girl 💮if you are not feeling it then it means whatever they are doing ( or not doing ) isn't working. Because ,let's face it if someone wants you to feel special, - and this someone can be a man, woman or child - you will feel special- and guys aren't particularly gifted in making you feel special.And don't get me wrong .I 'm not a "guy - hater. ".🌸 💖 🌸
Really good tips!
I've tried a lot of these and he now has a girlfriend lol
Sorry to hear that.
Jasmine John it is what it is
Amanda Trott girl I’m going through the same thing the problem is the guy is my ex and I’ve been trying to get back with him for months because we were fwbs but I guess he wanted the relationship experience with someone else and not me again . But yeah it is what it is
Bless you Amanda.lol!
Hi Matt, I just love listening to you.
I've been in a 7 month long distance relationship with a guy from England.
He is the most romantic guy I ever talked to..He writes the most beautiful posts I've ever heard.
Maybe because he writes songs.
See we did last more than 5 months.
He asked me to marry him on February 2. Ringless of course.
We're supposed to get married in December.
Wonderful! Thanks for sharing!
you married?
I tell him all the time that he should dream about us.
I also tell him I wish you were here with me.
First of all I am not taking suggestions on sending sexy texts. Just crazy. If you do not how I feel about then I have nothing to say. I am not that type of person. I can show you I feel in person. My flirty message is that you are handsome and sexy hot but do not show it
I was at the courthouse today and had to file a motion with the judge. My neighbor was with me and asked me if I was going to check out the other construction workers. I did not. No need to. I already know who and I want . Just waiting on him to call me or whatever. Never would I look for something else even though you are not here. What a waste of my time. I already know what I need. You soldier. Love you.
You are awesome!
Question Matt: what are Boy shorts? Men’s Boxer shorts??
This guy is way too young to talk about relationships. He does not understand what happens when a woman gets to thirty. Then the problem is, where is a man, ANY man? Signed 54 year old single white female
"Dream of gold" an Italian saying.😁😀😘
It's "golden dreams" in English, approximating our expression, "sweet dreams".
Thank you Matthew!
You're welcome!
You naughty!!!
Instinct is d best
Hi Matt, would saying to a guy that he scrubs up well, be the same as telling him he looks great.
You're so handsome... Thanks for the video ;)
Thanks! And you're welcome!
How do u make a guy feel needed without actually needing him?
OMG! I really did have weird dream about a guy - but it wasn't sexual at all. It was just really very weird. Lol😅😅
I love your smile
Talk about bf texts in a different country long distance romance
i love number 10 lol
What about the men doing these things 4women. Even WHN women do all these things well it back fires. And they even get colder..i tell my guy these all the time. Then theres no sex no intaminte touching etc..so wht else are ur suggestions..
You have been top of my TH-cam sugesstions for the past four weeks. Who are you being paid by?
My only problem is that my boyfriend seems like he's losing interest in me but we REALLLY love each other but he won't let me say it until he gets back from Nebraska in 2 months. I'm crying, he can't even text me till he gets back
Why not ? He can get a temporary cell phone or something.
Jasmine John he's still under his parents control
DO NOT TELL HIM YOU LOVE HIM, EVER. JUST TELL HIM YOU HAVEN'T DELETED HIS PHONE NUMBER.
If he can’t stand up to his parents you will never be fully accepted by them. I’ve told my boyfriend he has 6 months to tell his family about me, put a ring on my finger, and set a date, no more stringing me along.
Why are allll these videos about what woman should do???? What about what men need to do? Is this put men on a pedestal channel? Make some videos about what men need to do. Like really. Its men who are clueless not woman. Its men who run and hide and ignore not woman
Because this is a women's dating channel. It's for women only. And it's not just men who are clueless, it's everyone. As much as you think men are clueless, that's how much men think you're clueless, trust me on this one. I've coached on both the men and women's side and they're just as bad as each other, just in different ways.
Men always think women need to get it together and women think that men need to get it together. The truth is that we all need to get it together and the more you blame and shame the opposite sex, the more likely it's YOU who needs to get it together.
Lady UnPlugged he coaches women. If your looking for what I guy should do, look for someone who coaches men. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Lady UnPlugged come to think of it.....so true!
I am glad that there are videos focusing on men for change. Everything is always about the women these days as if men have no feelings. I will stand with men any day over bitchy, feminist women who have ruined it for decent women who stand with men and look up to them.
Go to a video about what men should do then.
Dude, you go on and on and on and on......with NO recap at the end...cause I forgot everything you said. TOO LONG
On...and on...and on...OMG...on the other hand...I dozed off...so you're good for a nap 😴😴😴😴😴😴😴😴
Ice breaker ✌ yeah
Hi Matt I'm watching from Queensland
Hi
Too much work. I got no time for that!
No time for that
Matt from Vampire diaries? ???
What if you haven't gone out yet?!
Ask in our community... facebook.com/groups/goddesscommunity/
Text. For what
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Oh la la la 🤭🤭
Thank you)
You're welcome!
I am so, so glad that there are videos focusing on the men for a change. As a women, I automatically say these things to men that the narrator is talking about. And when I tell my man these things, it comes naturally because I am being honest. Women need to start standing by men again and looking up to them and let them be men. Feminists have ruined it for decent women. And the women commenting here that men are clueless, well, you are wrong. Dead wrong! These feminists are clueless bitches, screwed up and confused. And they wonder why men avoid them.
#2 - sounds kinda desperate or obsessive to me.
well i signed up to your email. blah blah. it would not download.
Did you try to download it on a phone or a computer?
Qq
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Um um um um um .......
Your videos are cool but I think not putting your fingers in our face will make them cooler.
huh 😴😴😴😴😴😴
me: I had this really weird dream ab you last night
him: oh yeah? what happened?
well that’s ruined the point of it being MyStErIoUs hasn’t it?
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