5 Signs He’s Moved On (mentally)
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If a man can walk away from you in any type of way, shape or form, then let him walk. Period! He's not apart of your destiny.
Word!
JUSTDORIGHT I had to learn this a year ago. I’m glad I let him walk
Wheeeew👈👈🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️🙆♀️
Selah
So needed this vid...thanks a million Mr Gaskins,you are truly heaven send for our generation💟💯
Be blessed🙏🙌
I walked away from a 10 year relationship. It can be done and you will be okay ladies❤️
Melissa Murphy working on walking away from 15 years ..
Walked away from 5 years
Khalilah Butler Trust the process and know there are better days to come.
Yes it can honestly be done. I walked away from 15 years and all of a sudden he went to 2 therapist and a Pastor to straighten his ass out. Leson learned on his behalf. He thought I couldn't afford to live on my own. He learned i could. Got his act together and after 7 months and 1800 miles apart, i have moved back into my home with him. He does know if he starts the BS again, i will leave again and will never return
Melissa Murphy so proud of you love 💕 choose you
Starting to sound like being single is the better option.
it is
It really is sis...
For real.
For real
Pretty much
Be Blessed. Signs he has moved on mentally according to Tony Gaskins:
1. Stop investing time in you.
2. He argues a lot.
3. Not affectionate
4. Don't care about your feelings
5. Distant or gone a lot.
This is the best information because my last relationship had 3 out of 5 off this list. I really am having a hard time and sad. I left him but I feel like I wasted my time with a man who said he loved me one day and distant, ghosting and uncaring the next. I feel like he was a scammer of my heart and an imposter. I feel foolish that I actually believed he was the one for me. Thank goodness for Mr. Gaskins videos. I know now everything to look for and the mistakes I made.
I’m 5 out of 5
Going thru it now smh
Gaskins has taught me a lot about relationships.❤️
I don’t think anyone should ever feel foolish for loving someone or giving them time because we never know what will happen, but the foolish one is the one who did not know how to receive. Years down the road they will see it and say something along the lines of, I wish I had of...” or “I don’t know why..” or “ If I had it to do all over again...”. Learning from a mistake is time well spent because it only makes us wiser and stronger. Good for you.
same sis!!! narcissist do that!!! loveboming then devalue you after! ew
If you clicked on this video, 99% chance he's moved on!
Touche'
Ex’s
Exactly
Dam! Yup owell🙄
Lmaooo
For the last 3 weeks he has been treating me like I don’t exist, after pouring all my feelings to him , nothing happened. I broke it off with him, it hurts but will be fine
Don't worry it's going to be better next time .
Hugs 💞💞💞💞
Stop pouring your feelings to him and move on.
I’m sorry to hear that, how do you feel today? Did you guys get back together or did you try later to work it out? I’m asking because I’m conflicted and it’s like…he stopped investing time but he will hit me up randomly or try to hang out etc. it hurts because I know I need to walk away but it’s like I’m stuck in this soul tie.
Going through the same thing but I will be fine
Men feelings in relationships are fleeting. They want the “in love” feeling at all times, while you do all the work to keep the relationship together. Then, a man can drop you in a second of the day for a new woman and not care. I’ll never date just one man ever again.
Be blessed, I had to realize that he was mentally gone when he stopped trying to make me smile, the way we use to laugh together disappeared and the silent treatment was more than just talking. Please pray for me that I let go mentally of toxic relationship. Thank you
Keeping you in prayer sis. Went through this for 2 years. Just ended it. Now he wants us exclusive. What ! I thought we were. Smh. Moving on for me
You deserve to smile sis!
Going through the same thing...fasting and praying...for God to open doors so I can move on mentally, emotionally, and physically, and spiritually.
I appreciate u mentioning the smile because a grown boy will try to manipulate if the money is right even give you time but evil intend with jealousy will bring laughter. People will take up your time....The devil knows the Bible.
Will not to soothe the soul but pay bill ot two so he can be PRESENT and be on time for dinner. I want laugh because you are a job...laughing brings joy
Signs are red flags that the time is approaching to cut your losses. He's definitely not going to tell you.
Agree, he def won't tell you straight.
If someone tells you they love you but not in love with you anymore that means that their emotions for you are not there anymore. The chemicals are not as strong as it was before. So when you reach that place in the relationship what is going to sustain you. True Love is a decision not a Feeling.
Real love is unconditional not conditional.
A grown boy is led by his emotions but a grown man is lead by his logic.
Whenever you see a person going from relationship to relationship that's an indication that they are chasing that high when the high is gone they would cheat on you or Leave You.
Jesus Christ should be every person's Rock, strong hold and Foundation.
Awesome reply
DAVID ALICEA @ really really wonderful reply 🥰😇
very true!
Amen!!!..Say it louder for the people in the back😆😆😆
There's a big difference love and in love for sure!
I'm single cause I don't have time for heartbreak & inconsistency. I'm waiting on God.
Me too!
Me too.
Look up Pastor RCBlacks on TH-cam. Queenology! You'll know when you will come across THE ONE!
Me also sweetie I know God got us...!!!!
Same here!
He was distant with me.. stopped being close.. then started to argue.. so I ended it... and he didn’t argue he just left... I have been heartbroken over it, but spent time with family and friends. 3 months later he’s calling my phone asking how I am telling me about his new business etc and wishing me well. And then hangs up and sends me love songs explaining how I make him feel etc. So the love bombing came back for one day.. he follows all my social media and sends me pics of his food. I’m kind to him and treat him like a friend with no bad vibes or emotions. Past is past. So I believe he wants me back but do I want him hmmm.. there’s a reason why people break up.. if he can treat me bad and leave me bcoz he had money problems and some family issues, then he’s not worth going back to. I was his best friend and he still cut me off to suit him. Now he clicks his fingers and expects me to flock. I think I need to stop crying in my bed and move the fuck on..
5 signs he’s moved on MENTALLY:
(NOTE: if he has financial issues, these signs can be an indicator that he is financially stressed)
1. He stops investing time
2. He argues a lot
3. He starts to become less affectionate
4. He doesn’t care about your feelings
5. He is distant/gone a lot
Be blessed
If he’s moved on then he won’t argue at all with you! 😊
@@larkford4460 is it the same if he texts you out of nowhere?
Thank you for consolidating the list!
Yes mines is financially stress right now 😔
WOWzers! 1. He stops investing time 2. He argues frequently, regardless of length 3. He starts becoming less affectionate. The simple things will stop! 4. He does not care about your feelings and starts to say things that are hurtful 5. He's distant or gone often. You don't have his undivided attention nor focus any longer.
And about my feelings he tells me to stop feeling.. he definitely puts more tears on my face then a smile
I'm so sorry 😞....
This makes me applaud women who date more than one man. Investing months in one man, he turns cold or gives the immature silent treatment, then you're out starting all over again. Nope. Bobby tripping, not caring about my feelings, going two days without spending time or calling me, Shawn, Timothy, or Donte' will replace him. A man that wants you won't allow space for another man to slip in and take you. (If he can go hard for that chicken wing or that sports team, and be mediocre with you...CUT!) Be Blessed.
Jessie C Love I used to get criticized for saying “I don’t chase I replace.” Or “what one man won’t do another will.”
I quickly learned to talk to multiple people. Just no more than I can handle.
Jessie C Love how long will h have to “chase you “ how long will he be vulnerable to you and will you take him as he is ..don’t be bias be different tho ur self and you won’t have to have a rotation
sadly this is what Ill be doing in the future!!! My x wasted 3 years of my fertile life to leave like i never exsisted . I always was a good woman to him and loved him very much... i look back know and made at myself for being so stupid and making excuses for his coldness towards the end...
@@ebonieshenece great strategy! I'm working on that I hear dating up to 3 people is manageable😉
Yeah it's easier to deal with rejection when you have options however that aswell can cause emotional issues for yourself and the men that come across you as I find u become more emotionally cold because you want someone else but using someone else u don't really care for. It's just best to ignore the person u care for and invest in yourself, career, hobbies and goals if they ever cared or really want u in their life they should come back if not oh well another one bites the dust. Lol
1_ He Stop investing time on u
2_He argue a lot
3_He's less intimacy
4_ He doesn't care about your feelings
5_He's distance alot ( busing all the time with his friends or phone) silent treatment
Thank Tony,u totally describe my Ex behaviour wen he cheating,he argue alot for no reasons at all.
lole stecy he had a reason - earning “cool off” time away from you. That’s what they do to create a reason to get out unlimited.
My ex did the SAME EXACT THING ...wish I had this information sooner
@Eternity With Christ yes you're right about questioning whether or not I'm being loved, then I'm not 😕
lole stecy @ this is exactly 💯right
@@mariac5294 thanks been there
I watched this five times because this really resonated with me. Especially the ending. It's confirmation for me that I made the right decision leaving a relationship 7 months ago. I am so grateful that I did the work in me to recognize that I wasn't being treated correctly. Self love and having self worth is so important. Dating with a healthy self esteem will not allow you to.waste your time with anyone who sees you as an option. Be blessed!
Amen! Good things are coming your way!
Erica Pettway I receive that! Amen!
@Ebony Flowers, WELL SAID 👍❗️GOOD FOR YOU THAT IT WAS ONLY 7 MONTHS IN & YOU WERE ABLE TO PUT THE BREAKS ON THE MADNESS INSTANTLY🤗‼️
I felt like I was reading something I would have wrote except for the part you left. I'm still working on that.
The fact that you are listening to this shows you are well on your way! You are the prize! There is someone else out there that will treat you far better!
My ex got laid off was angry and mad. We would fight and argue about finances and it got real cold and he stopped caring. He left and im not chasing him. He had an opportunity to stay. He didn't. Im not forcing it. Been crying a month. I know its over so now its just acceptance.
Hope you’re feeling better 💕
Spot on. This is exactly what's happening to me at the moment. I know I deserve better and I'm ending it sooner than later.
Ive kwown this for a long time now and it hurts so bad especially when you love that person so much
My husband does this all the time
Did you leave
😂😂😂 like he said in his previous video “get the hate out your heart & subscribe”. You heard the man‼️
If they think he really thinks its hating, they sure won't subscribe.😁 They'll be too angry with his choice of words. Psychology is powerful. Come on guys, he's just joking, cant you see?Subscribe, very informative and beneficial. Remember subscribe.
Tu Bella 😂😂😂
True!
I want 2 thank that charity case 4 taking him off my hands ..this lady bug flyn on 2 higher altitude
Tony is confirming what I already knew. I bring it to my hubby but he continues to deny it...
Be Blessed!!!
See, I can't talk about this to my husband, he says I'm complaining and just be happy he's paying the bills... :(
authentic4Life I dare not mention what “another man” said. I call out what I see, all the red flags but somehow I’m the one being negative and I’m making up stuff, and I just don’t “understand his feelings”... I’m getting new knowledge and I’m working on a plan!
I don't have time for games. I have to take care of my heart
Be blessed and thank you
@@shaunabee I feel for you. Honestly. He sounds like a verbally abusive man..which I personally think number 4 can tie into. Educate yourself as much as possible and do your self esteem work. Support groups really help so much in getting up the will to leave. You deserve far better than that.
Women, young and old, Listen to this young man, he has Words Of Wisdom Straight From the Heart of God to his, to speak To and Through your Soul, Pay Close Attention, He Has and Will Help Many, he has been Gifted & Chosen By The Almighty God to Do so, To God Be The Glory, Well Done!!! Keep Being About Your Heavenly Fathers Business Minister Tony Gaskins, Many Blessings To You, Your Wife & Family!!!💛
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When u said men don’t know what they want I truly felt that... I believe that this what I’m going through in my relationship Ive been praying for clarity and I came across ur videos ... thank u and continue to Be blessed
Be blessed, I had all 5 signs . He finally left me alone and I am not looking back . I love these viedo your doing now , it bring so much clarity to unanswered questions . Keep up the good work.
1 John 3:18 KJV
[18] My little children, let us not love in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth.
Amen and Amen
Amen!
Who care, just take care ur self first ladies or put ur self in first place. Men come and go, no one is perfect.
Married but living SINGLE
Move on
Be blessed, my husband that I just left showed all of these signs and I wasn't having it. It happened in the first 3 months of us living together as a married couple. Nope not what I signed up for.
@@bamarealist exactly, it was so baffling!
My husband started showing these signs about a year and half after marriage..at first it was like, maybe he's getting use to it, but no, he's been married before..!!
Then I got pregnant and became a stay at home mom.. And oh man.. He really became non affectionate and I became so lonely.. You think, gurl! Hang out w/ ur gf's..no, I wanted my husband!!
If I didn't make "date night" he didn't care.. Homebody, nonchalant.. work and sleep is all his life ..
Didn't care about my feelings, and intimacy was boring..
What to do?!?!
This is NOT what's I said I DO TOO !! 😥😣😥😒
How long had you been together before getting married? He never showed any if this during the courtship?
@@CoachLove we dated and was engaged about a year and 1/2 total ... maybe that wasn't long enough, but I truly thought he was the one..
2 years and no. After the fact I realized that I was an addiction, like a new toy, and when he got a new toy, i.e. his motorcycle, I became worthless to him and the bike became all that mattered. That is when the Ill treatment started.
Tony, aka, I call you "Big Brother", Be blessed!!!!! I took your advice from one of your videos one morning and I spoke to the gentleman I was seeing at the time very calmly and directly in his eyes once the conversation was over he didn't say anything and we are no longer seeing each other because I let him know I was not going to put up with the being in my presence yet not present. Thank you sooooooooooo very MUCH!😊
Hi Zena, I had the same situation with my fiancé. They are mute when you confront them. Their narcissists, watch all you can on utube about this subject, it’s frightening.
I was dumped after 3 months. He was emotionally closed towards the end. Throughout our relationship, he said he was traumatized from a past relationship and that he moved on quickly into dating me....but sadly we both agreed to still try. He would be affectionate in the beginning...then dwindled slowly til the end. I told him that he seems unaffectionate in his texts (we were long distance). He said he cannot open up since his last breakup. He said if we keep the relationship going and he still cannot meet my affection standards, he would be stringing me along and hurting me more and doesn't want to continue hurting me. He decided that he should leave and work on himself before he hurts me even more. He said maybe later on down the road, if we are still interested and single...we may get back together. It's been a week of no contact and it's been so difficult. When a man is on a different emotional pace than you are, it really hurts deep.
@ Deb V. Although it is a painful process now, I hope you find some solace that he was actually honest and choose to end the relationship instead of giving you false hope. It's not everyday men actually admit to being traumatized by relationships, moving on to quickly and needing to work on themselves.
At least you got an explanation! I was dumped after 3 months and he didn’t really say why but still wanted to be a friend and said he still cared deeply for me. I try not to stay hurt and know God has a bigger plan for the both of us, I have accepted my part in the breakdown of what we were and have faith he will come back around when he is ready to talk. But I moved on mentally from him and started focusing on Christ and me and I feel better every day. It’s been 17 days since he broke up and I’m doing just fine! ( We started dating and he knew from day 1 I was moving for a job, maybe he couldn’t handle long distance and strung me along for the time being...I dunno. He just dumped me and that was that...)
At least he didn’t leave you hanging giving you silent treatment...and he was transparent and honest with you
He has someone else.
Wish I knew these years ago!! Wasted so much time with my ex and he had moved on years ago.
When a man is gone, a woman feel like he is in another country even when he is next to you in bed..... no matter if they were married10, 20, 50 years
When you watching this but you single AF😂😂😂😂😂😂anywho, let's gather knowledge
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You better so you know what's up!
Same 😂 Prepare for war in times of peace lol
I literally said "oh he talking to people with a man, not me" then I saw your comment 😂😂😂😂
Me 😩
These sound like signs you’re in a relationship with a narcissist. IJS
Tren Meadows YESSSSSSS & those be the worst ones !!
Audrey Powell You are absolutely correct!
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Yes! Especially number 4.
I was married to one for 3 looong years. Prayed for his removal. This was the most destructive, disturbing man. GOD heard my cry. Thank you LORD!!!!
Absolutely
I think sometimes we must let go to start a new chapter.
This was a really good lesson I just wish that these videos was out back in 2009 when I was getting a divorce to help me cope thank you so much Tony
THE. GRASS. IS. NEVER. GREENER. It's fake!
Anointed Stilettos not if you actually water it😊
@@larkford4460 The grass is not greener on the other side when you have your own partner and looking at someone else's.
or it’s greener because they are watering, fertilizing and giving it a LOT of attention 🌳
Water your own grass, then it will be just as green& beautiful as the one your looking at....give all the attention to your own grass
Speak!!!!!!!!👏👏👏👏 NEVER!!!!!!
Man...where were you 20 yrs ago. Everything you're saying in this clip is exactly what I experienced with my ex-husband. Sad to say that I never felt love from him. Thank God I had a dose of healthy esteem....
Oh yeah! The phone for sure! That was my first sign ( turning screen away so I couldn't see it , hiding out in bathroom with phone for an hour or more with no water running , toilet flushing , or any sign of actually " using " the bathroom , shoving phone in pocket when I walked in , etc )
Some men will leave 80% for 20%.....
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Then wanna come back. BOY BYE!
80 20 is bs thats what yall not understanding
That's what they say
Thanks again Tony, this one was a real eye opener. I am free already, my intuition is a force, I try not to think about him but it’s hard sometimes. It has been 6 months free, no other, celibate, a little lonely, a really LOT of self love. I had forgotten who I was 😟🥰🔥
I am going on my 5th month and it seems like this month has been the hardest, but thank God I'm free.
Saame, girl! Hang in there 💕
Don't know when guys will learn
Same here ... 5 months here though.
Watching your videos gives me inner peace and confirmation that I did the right thing.
Thanks for this video. I had all 5 signs with my husband! Over 20yrs ago. I got tired of being mistreated so I demanded he tell me whats going on with him. He hesitated for a long while but I let him know I meant business! All of a sudden, he started to look very sad. So I said, did you lose your job? Is it your family? Whats wrong? Next, I said, are you involved with another woman? He said, I have a friend!!! My mind went crazy!!! But I thought of my children and decided not to hurt him. I moved on with my life. God gave me a beautiful relationship after that so I'm ok. Single but life is good. Why men can't just be honest and say goodbye before it gets bad? Thanks again.
This has become my lunch time routine. Thanks for the daily upload of videos!!
Mine too! Lol
@@bre_s9164 Lol everyone at work knows lunch time is Tony time!
Just before my bedtime lol, I work overnight
@@msstewart-washington3792 Lol yes Sis getting in that new knowledge 😁
@@Ericadoeslife yasss! 🙌🏽🙌🏽
Well, I came back to a relationship that I was in 15 years. I left to take care of my mother and used that as the excuse to get away. I was gone for a whole year got into another relationship with the person I fell in love with. A man that treats me like a queen. I came back out of guilt because he showed me he wanted to be a father and he became a better man and showed me better. Someone I never expected him to be. That only lasted long enough to get my feelings caught up again. I actually loved him more than I did in the 15 years....for what? After 4 months he became the same distant asshole that he was in the 15 years together. Never take them back. I'm preparing to leave soon, but my daughter is the reason I came back and find it hard to leave. Emotionally I'm DONE! I realized it was the idea of having my daughter with her father and mother that I fell in love with. Not him.
Going through it right now... married 10 years 5 kids all very young and he shows me ALL of these signs. Just had our 5th child.... Calls me all kinds of names, caught him cheating, on social media publicly embarrassing me etc... tells me it’s all my fault. I get it bad... I’m sad but I’m leaving and he may have a clue but maternity leave is up and I’m getting it together and dipping. He’s looking for my replacement and hasn’t found it yet is what I believe. He thinks I’m a fool but I’m planning my exit.
My man does all this... I’m wasting my time at this point
Sis u not alone..it stops now level up on overload..fuck him excuse my braces
Same smh
Kelly Brightness period !
🤦🏽♀️ wow 😳 this resignates
I'm sorry you are going through this.
I agree..same as some woman... if we are stressed in other areas men tend to think we are cheating because sex is the LAST thing on our mind. Life stressors can def take a toll. Lol @squeeze ya booty😂
I appreciate your communication skills most men dont have that much respect for humanity. My baby dad is always playing games.
zaya Alive “yea” most that you’ve never met or don’t even know right lol
Watching your videos makes me realize how much bs I put up with that I did not need to deal with. Thank you Tony! God bless 🥰
Confirmation that I read the situation correctly and absolutely made the right choice to leave him.
Good riddens!! Chile Bye!! Ain't nobody got time for that!! 20/20 is knocking at the door. Just saying....Keep it moving!
Facts!
*riddance Amen.
@@nikkyshamz2696 HA! good grammar.....
Bye philicia...his lost and im smelling good feeling good..god said this blessing is just 4 me glad he gone new home on the hill all new everything..he can shew that&swallo it
All of these 5 points are so true thats why i broke up my ex 6 years ago and my last my ex 12 months ago im not wasting no more of my time they didn't care so i didn't care and i moved on and im happy and im blessed. Great advice tony be blessed everyone we have to pay attention to all the red flags if your man doing this then you move on ladies don't settle for less. The grass isn't greener on the other side. If he want the other side of the grass let him go over there to the other grass he will see it wasn't so greener oh well good bye.👏👍☺
Learned all 5 steps the hard way. When you know better you make better choices. #FACTS
Yes, it does feel cold . When I’m away from him he’s in a happier mood in his texts . Yes , he doesn’t really care about my feelings & angry if I cry . He’s distant we live 25 mins apart . He’s distant however texts everyday . Be blessed.
Went thru it yes I saw all of those signs that's why I had to end the relationship afterwards I started to feel much better I thought I would feel a lot of hurt but I didn't I was fine n now I'm even more better than ever.....Be Blessed My Brotha
Tony, this sounds like a grown boy
I always thought when you enter a relationship you are supposed too help uplift and help one another grow
“Be blessed”. Time for me to 🏃♀️ roll❤️
MsFree2u me too
We are married, this is so on point. Thank you! Be Blessed 😊
I'm grateful that my husband and I have been married for 23 years now. We have been through so much and have overcome the things that has tired to keep us apart from each other. I'm 41 years old and we are on our way to writing a book now. Many things that you say sir I agree and disagree with standing on the other side and being obedient to what God has said is more then what one is going through. The key is hold on to what God has said to you. Obedient is better then any specific.... Love you my sister and brother stay faithful and trust God in what has spoken to you in your marriage it's not easy but when we obey God its going to be worth it in the end. Keep the Faith.
You sound so positive and hopeful! I appreciate the encouragement, and wish I knew what to do..
What to do is stay faithful in what God has promised you seek God and the most in important thing is Faith.... We have to time point in our life where we just No at the point we have gone beyond Faith. Are you married
I am currently separate and I don't know what to do. My husband has asked for a divorce but I don't want one. And advice?
He's got all 5 signs !! BE BLESSED 👏👏
Omg that last part! He said it all😭😭 it all makes sense now. That’s exactly what he did and tried to get me to be in a polygamous relationship and everything. Omg I don’t think I’m dating anymore. This is too much
Hi Tony
I love you and your wife. She is SOOO sweet and I thank you very much for your helpful and insightful messages.👍👋👋👋👌😀
I promise i just got out of a relationship exactly just like this anf he was abusive mental and physically no romanace at alll i'd rather be along
I’m so glad you had the strength to leave !
This video is so on point!.. I’ve been through everything mentioned in this video. Dealing with a man who moved on mentally is horrible!. You need to move on as well cuz no women deserves to be treated horribly from their madness. Go rebuild yourself cuz your are not nobody puppet!. Yup!!!. The grass is never greener on the other side
He hugged me in his sleep the night before, told me he loved me, that I was his "life" .. and the next day, he left for 5h and after that he came and said we need to break up... he said we could be friends, but secretly didn't even hope for me to contact him anymore.. he deleted 2 pics of me 2 days ago.. we broke up a week ago.. =(
It’s sad that some woman are quicker to label a man as a “narcissist” instead of recognizing and excepting the fact that he’s checked out of the relationship mentally and emotionally. Not that it is ok for a man to treat you any kind of way but take note as to why he’s doing what he’s doing or not doing.
Eternity With Christ I agree with you. But at some point we as woman have to take responsibility for remaining in dead end relationships. As much as I agree that a man acting this way should not be in a relationship but the point I was getting at is we the women should also not be entertaining these men. They will only get away with what we allow them too. Also on the flip side if a man is feeling some king of way and for whatever reason he doesn’t say anything to you, if you love this man and you recognize him moving different, as his woman you should also feel comfortable to approach him and get to the bottom of what he’s feeling. Maybe something in the relationship needs to change or maybe the relationship needs to end. Either way, I feel tony is telling us the signs that we as woman sometimes ignore or look past. Not saying you individually but in general.
Anytime a dude with me says, have you seen what you looked like, he'll know the gloves come off....
That's exactly what he's been doing playing on my love for him. Financially I'm not able to move out right now but I'm preparing myself to live separate in my own space
Thank you. I needed this. Been in a sexless marriage for almost 7 years. ItS OVER NOW. IM DONE
Tony, He doesn’t look me in the eyes anymore?? This hurt so much.
The mirror is ther use it..2 look back
Guilt
I see the back or top of my husband’s head because he won’t look me in my face either...Especially during conversation
Be blessed,yup time for him to kick rocks .
God bless you too Mr. Gaskins... you’re videos sure help me! I left my narcissistic husband in May due to 6 years of abuse and he’s already with another woman and after he said I left him for another man... I’ve never cheated on him or even thought about it but I wasn’t going to do another year with him and all of his abuse, mentally, physically, emotionally, verbally, financially, spiritually, and sexually in many aspects! It’s been tough on me after giving all of me to him... the hurt is great but the divorce will be final soon... I just couldn’t take it anymore! Thanks for your videos they truly help me in healing and moving on.. Blessings! ~Evangelist Vivian Morrell~ Romans 8:28🙏🏾♥️💯
Love it when they leave you , then the girl who they left you for dumps him, he comes back , you tell him no. Lol Every guy did that except 2.
Im the one more checked out. He has always made me feel like i could never measure up to his previous relationships.
I know i am better than that and God reminds me multiple times a day that i am worth far more. Better off single! 👍💯💖💖💖
Yessss Preach !!!!!!! He nearly killed me today He Exchanged his number in front of me with another girl today and I was just diagnosed with A Heart problem so I left him right there and came home and balled my eyes out
Hope you stayed gone!!
I’m sorry you had to experience that hun! I hope all is well now
As soon as I saw some of these signs I completely took off asap lol. My intuition was telling me something was off and I listened to it QUICKLY. Now he hates my guts lol
He hates you because you didn’t allow him to play you lol his poor little ego was bruised
Denise Lol exactly! Like how am I the victim in the situation but now you hate me? That little ego lol
same 😂😂 but he came back!!!! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️he said he didn’t do anything bad yikes you blind?
Great info. Someone once told me, “The grass may look greener on the other side, but there’s a whole lot of s&@% over there.”
My ex-husband didn't do any of those affectionate things anytime during our marriage 🤣🤣🤣.
@Eternity With Christ Thank you love💛. I'm praying for one in the future.
Thank you Tony for keeping it real and educating us; since, we didn’t have men in our life to teach us the male psychology or they didn’t want to teach us cause they were quilty of same behavior. This info would have saved me a lifetime of grieve but it’s never too late to learn. Hugz
Even though the grass is greener on the other side; You still gotta mow it..That's what my grandma Mattie told me in the 80's..You can use that one Mr. & Mrs. Tony G..One Love. Peace
I refuse to argue or be apart of arguments with my spouse or anyone figuratively speaking
Life is too short ,I'll mentally checkout if that occurs . One cannot argue by themselves.
Be blessed! Thank you Tony for all that you do to teach, minister and encourage us all!
Some of these women will see all kind of red flags all through out their relationship and still will not leave the relationship. Also when a man become negative he’s already gone. A lot of times a man has check out before he’s officially gone. And a man will establish a relationship with someone else while being in a relationship.
Be blessed!
Watching all of your videos is part of my healing!! I won’t be his puppet anymore. Thank you. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
I really appreciate these videos because it is helping me understand how men are. My husband left me this past winter and then left me this summer. He has a drug and alcohol problem. He was physically, verbally, mentally and emotionally abusive. He was going after women in the winter time and he just recently did it again last month. In the winter time I prayed to God for restoration and prayed extremely hard for three months straight but this time around I am praying to God for me instead to have strength to completely never take him back and I filed my divorce papers today. He must think the grass is greener on the other side. I say in order for your grass to stay green where are you standing you have to water it and give it sunshine. Wherever he is going to stand his grass will turn brown. I know he already regrets what he has done and I know he has cheated on me. He won’t find a better woman than me because I kept him healthy, clean and did a lot for him. I’ve been traumatized by his abuse so these videos are helping me cope. Thank you
Sound more like A narcissist to me...
"Hit the subscribe button. What is you hating for?"
Love your energy Tony, great message. I now realize that my ex had not been truly in the relationship for quite some time. I was essentially dating myself. Thank you very much for sharing this information with us. I wish I had received this knowledge much earlier in life.
Well thank you Tony, this video is helping me to realize this man has moved on emotionally away from me.
God has given you a special anointing and I'm so happy He directed me to your videos last Sunday after online service. The timing and accuracy are almost overwhelming. Be blessed 🙏🏽
You just named all the reason why I left my husband 🤦🏻♀️
Same here
The same things can be said about a woman. My ex told me she left me emotionally. Then she started going out with her friends so I kicked her out my house but now I'm the bad guy cuz I put her out. I look at it as if you want to leave emotionally you might as well leave physically cuz I be damn if you living in my house on some co-habitat bull@#$ that the dumbest thing ever
O my lawd. . . .I am CURRENTLY goin' through the EXACT thing right nah. . . I am open to ANY advice. . . .
Be blessed! @14:56 "What is you hating for?" Hit the subscribe button". Tony is being polite.. lol
He’s never done the scheduling, making reservations etc...he’s always paid tho
Be Blessed, Still Here!
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Tony, I just experienced every single one of these!
PREACH IT 🤗 AMEN HALLELUJAH 🤗 PRAISE HIM 🤗 THUMB UP
Speak on it brother! Just found your videos tonight and you are a man of God who speaks the truth! Blessings to you and your family. Looking forward to learning more from you. Smiles, love, and prayers!