Dating Is Like Tennis

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  • Why dating and courtship is like the game of tennis and why you must wait for the object of your affection to return your call, text, email or message, instead of constantly bombarding them with continuous contact attempts in order to force a response. Why not waiting for someone to get back to you causes you to appear weak, desperate, creepy, stalkerish and needy, which will lead to permanent rejection.
    If you have not read my book, “How To Be A 3% Man” yet, that would be a good starting place for you. It is available in Kindle, iBook, Paperback, Hardcover or Audio Book format. If you don't have a Kindle device, you can download a free eReader app from Amazon so you can read my book on any laptop, desktop, smartphone or tablet device. Kindle $9.99, iBook $9.99, Paperback $29.99 or Hardcover 49.99. Audio Book is Free $0.00 with an Audible membership trial or buy it for $19.95. Here is the link to Audible to get the audiobook version:
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  • @TPJ300
    @TPJ300 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is one of your most important messages man. This video should have more views. Your work has changed my life.

  • @annepizzo9225
    @annepizzo9225 10 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I am a woman and finally understand why I constantly blow off guys. I thought it was me seeking perfection, but you are 100 percent correct.... Most every guy I started dating "talked me out of it." Some by their texting however, mostly by trying to sell themselves to me. I also dealt with guys that talked about their ex girlfriends and I found myself being a therapist to them. I really thought I was the one putting out masculine energy attracting weak desperate needy men. I completely see now it's the 97th percent.
    Where do I find the 3 percent? I'm in South Florida and well, you know what I mean...

    • @MrElp2fo
      @MrElp2fo 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      What do you mean by your reply? Letting me down easy?

    • @jbaguam80
      @jbaguam80 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi Anne, great to get your perspective. I understand what you are saying. Men have to be in their Masculine: when a man talks about his ex's he displays a weak core and conveys himself as a weak man overall, in the back of your mind you tell yourself that's not the kind of man you want. Take you, as a woman. Your natural state is to have a Strong Feminine Core and hopefully you will attract a "Centered" Masculine Man. Only you would know if a Man has a strong Masculine Core (ie: A 3% Man). Good luck. I have read Coachs book twice and on my 3rd go round.

    • @zacharywallace2243
      @zacharywallace2243 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You look Alpha!🤣

  • @00-CD
    @00-CD 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    52k Views, 52 comments😆 But I can't believe this video ONLY has 52k views. THIS VIDEO HAS SO MUCH GOLD IN IT!⭐💯

  • @rockn1677
    @rockn1677 10 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow, listen to what this guy tells Corey at 3:48. "Since I've been following your material for over 2 years now" So he actually has taken the time to read the book, watch videos and apply what Corey teaches. Too many guys happen upon Corey's video's, may or may not read the book and think they've got it down, wrong, it takes a lot of repetitions to get good at this. Even if they never hook up again, I bet this girl will never forget this guy. thanks to Corey's material, that was the difference in his being successful and setting himself apart, great job.

    • @postrockforthemind128
      @postrockforthemind128 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Repetition is the mother of skill.

    • @rockn1677
      @rockn1677 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      PostRock ForTheMind Yep, that is so right, gotta do things over and over to get good at it.

    • @rockn1677
      @rockn1677 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      runhorun Well, I wish you much success in life in all area's, not just with women and dating but in improving every single part of your life, financially and also health wise. Get fit, take care of yourself and be the absolute best version of yourself and yes, it may take a few years, but there's many victories to enjoy along the way, good luck to you.

  • @jvinson
    @jvinson 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great topic. BTW - Every time I see that commercial where the tennis ball machine goes haywire I think of you.

  • @jbaguam80
    @jbaguam80 10 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hey Coach, thanks for posting this video. It really shows that when you read the book and learn it, and then rinse, recycle, repeat that 10 times. You can handle most situations with any woman. I'm on my 3rd reading and applying the principles to being a "Centered Man" . Thanks Coach. I also donated to your website, its not much but I know its going to a great cause to help those seeking help and for you to continue helping us guys.

    • @jbaguam80
      @jbaguam80 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Update: completed my 10th reading, great positive changes in lifestyle, health, mind, and dating. Thanks Coach.

  • @rachelsalazar905
    @rachelsalazar905 10 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Right on for this dude! Your the man coach

  • @gizeright
    @gizeright 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    That's why I Love The Haters..Leaves more for the 3%!!!

  • @racerxion88
    @racerxion88 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome video like always! Btw, EDC is Electronic Daisy Carnival festival in Las Vegas, think a gigantic electronic dance music festival with tons of DJs performing all over the city. The guy that talked to the DJ actually gets it, you gotta read the book 14-15 times to pick up what he did right cuz he did everything to the textbook standard ( How to be a 3% man standard) Perfect!

  • @jdellozio
    @jdellozio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Like Luke was one with the force , this guy was one with the Wayne!

  • @mylesbrooks5392
    @mylesbrooks5392 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love it. You go dude!

  • @Getwisdomapplicationknowledge
    @Getwisdomapplicationknowledge 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think this video is the best so far however it’s make sense only if you have seen other previous videos
    Thanks Corey

  • @immanuelkh
    @immanuelkh 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Electric Daisy Carnival... great fucking time

  • @TennisConditioningTV
    @TennisConditioningTV 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is great!

  • @katebrady2002
    @katebrady2002 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    lol "orbit around us like creepers"

  • @donwun4960
    @donwun4960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    EDC is huge in Orlando. CW u gotta check it out

  • @lionelt7882
    @lionelt7882 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I need a follow up to this. Knowing what she does, I doubt this one lasted

  • @watashiwaleo9987
    @watashiwaleo9987 10 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Coach, when you talk about getting an ex back, from what i've learned you propose 2 different approaches:
    1- Say to your ex that you're not interested unless she doesn't want to work things out
    2- Play cool and act like she can still date whoever she wants while you do the same.
    But a person who wants to work things out usually does not want to date other people, so it's a contraddiction! These 2 approaches can't fit together. Either you use option 1 or 2.
    Am I misunderstanding? I'm confused.

    • @babouthiam
      @babouthiam 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      what he mean is just give her space act like u always busy with other woman then if she still has some attraction level she gonna check you out

    • @jbaguam80
      @jbaguam80 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi WatashiWaLeo:
      Have you read the Coach's book? Your questions would be answered better if you read the book. Get the e-book and read it multiple times. You will get your answer. Typically if your ex contacts you play cool and be a "Centered Man" during the whole process.

  • @sumpade
    @sumpade 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is so motivating! FLEXXXXX

  • @annepizzo9225
    @annepizzo9225 10 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That she is letting you think there is a chance in the future so your not as hurt.

    • @centuian
      @centuian 10 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      you have really gorgeous eyes ! when are you free to get together for some drinks ? id like to take you out :)

    • @zacharywallace2243
      @zacharywallace2243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@centuian 🤣

  • @Ironman-zm4qb
    @Ironman-zm4qb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just because he sent one text?come on coach.although i get it that patience and timing are keys

  • @davidmckesey7119
    @davidmckesey7119 ปีที่แล้ว

    this guy did amazing job

  • @katebrady2002
    @katebrady2002 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    is this the same for girls? i find it hard to know whether i need to encourage a shy guy or not by making it really clear i fancy him.

  • @asurxh
    @asurxh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tbh if you bottom line what he got out of the situation vs the time and effort he put in..he didn't get much...so while this was a testimonial to Corey's teachings he really wasted his time..
    he didn't get laid and on top of that he didn't get any alone time with her...I'd almost akin it to being the gay Male bestfriend..even though she seemed highly interested, if she was truly interested she would have found a way for them to have alone time...
    women will walk barefoot through broken glass for men they really want so the fact that she didn't find anyway for them to have any intimacy shows that she just liked attention from him but didn't want to go further.

  • @HenryProductionz
    @HenryProductionz 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    great email

  • @whw5
    @whw5 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    EDC IS THE SHIT!!!!!!

  • @Thagy1973
    @Thagy1973 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well that's odd. I don't remember wearing any short white shorts and holding a tennis racket on any of my dates. Maybe that's just me tho. lol

  • @danisirooszadeh7305
    @danisirooszadeh7305 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This email is so cool

  • @ileryon4019
    @ileryon4019 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    the thing about , being a 3% man and "getting it" is that its not that its difficult.. just that it takes some effort etc.
    Then you realize 990% of the population are literally NPC's lmfao.. im still on my self-improvement journey specially making my very own music business :) And I still have to focus on my physique ;/ so a few more months....

  • @cbdremedy7416
    @cbdremedy7416 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    But how do we know that the DJ chick wasn't a cheater? Just saying. Sometimes chicks will tell you fucked up shit about themselves in the frame of the ex being paranoid about them doing something they actually did! Either way the guy still handled what she said the right way, but I get a little suspicious sometimes of a girl telling me stuff like that wondering if she's trying to indirectly tell me something about herself without taking the blame via plausible deniability.

  • @MrElp2fo
    @MrElp2fo 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey coach, just got dumped. I have a question. when a woman says "I'd like to still talk to you in the future "what does that mean? She also said that I didn't do anything wrong in the relationship. And that she doesn't want me to change. Is She just trying to be nice?

    • @PedroDVC
      @PedroDVC 10 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes!

    • @annepizzo9225
      @annepizzo9225 10 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It means she's letting you down easy:(

  • @TVinmyEye
    @TVinmyEye 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yass

  • @whw5
    @whw5 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    fucking nailed it!!!!

  • @AF_1892
    @AF_1892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Amen Corey. So few guys get it. Spending a Sat night in. 3 guys message me something boring. I respond out of guilt to not be rude. But c'mon guys! I'm lonely! Carry an interesting conversation! I want to like them, but my heart says nope bored next.
    Coach you lost cool points by not knowing what EDC is. (hint: its like Ultra Miami but not as cool). Sry not sry. Wannabe female DJ here. C'mon man!

    • @DaveG-kb2sr
      @DaveG-kb2sr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Just curious, why is it that the responsibility is on the guys to carry the conversation for you? Are you not capable of doing so? Have you talked to them about what your interests are? As a guy, if I send a "How's it going ?" and a woman doesn't answer because it's not interesting enough or to boring, I move on. I don't have time or energy to guess what conversational hoops I'm supposed to jump through in order for a woman to bless me with her presence or texts. A lot of women want to be "stimulated", yet lack the desire to put the effort in themselves. Hold yourself to the same standards you expect out of others.

    • @zacharywallace2243
      @zacharywallace2243 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@DaveG-kb2sr she needs help.

    • @asurxh
      @asurxh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @DaveG-kb2sr well she's not attractive anyway so no man is losing out with her...

  • @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG
    @THEBIGGESTSCUMBAG 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    COREY IS GOD