Men Who Are Impatient

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  • Why being impatient with women when you want sex & intimacy, will always cause them to reject you. How and why women respond with similar answers when they reject a guy who is impatient. What their responses really mean and why women can seem so vague and confusing when they explain their reasons for turning you down.
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  • @javierperalta7648
    @javierperalta7648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    You are the only relationship advisor who actually is worth listening to

    • @DeaFBRED
      @DeaFBRED 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Pretty much

  • @dblackviper2k3
    @dblackviper2k3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I can't imagine constantly contacting a woman just to not get a response.

    • @Thebigblackwasp
      @Thebigblackwasp 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Need to know your worth and have self respect. Can't play tennis if the ball ain't coming back.

    • @phatmanlovescake
      @phatmanlovescake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I use to be like this and ... its pretty much self torture

    • @lolzeez4186
      @lolzeez4186 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@phatmanlovescake Amen. Glad I found The Coach

  • @joekrakoski561
    @joekrakoski561 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Practicing Yoga gives you that same feeling, grounded in the present!

  • @xmangel6052
    @xmangel6052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    What I've realized is that: Beautiful women are Spoiled. 10s, 9s, even 8s, and 7s.... They get approached and hit on by so many men... that they just lose interest quickly, just Ghost alot... You have to stand out. Dating is competitive. Be successful, work out... be in Shape, work on yourself (mentally & emotionally)... AND you have to play "Hard to Get" as a man. Not like them so much... The Less attached you are to women (getting a Girl)... the more they come to You... It sucks that its like that... but its the Reality. For me, its been difficult because I Like women Too Much... I've always liked women too much. Wanting them. I meet a girl... and get really anxious to go on a Date... then 2nd Date, etc... Really Wanting to see them... Its not until Now, that I've really realized: I need to Tone down that behavior... that "Desire"... that slight Desperation/Anxiousness that comes from Attachment (Attached to getting a Result)...

    • @lynnlakotich6331
      @lynnlakotich6331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Perfectly said!!!

    • @lynnlakotich6331
      @lynnlakotich6331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I don't date by "choice" these men are too pushy, or as they say by today's term: (thirsty). It feels like way too much work and it's exhausting to me!

  • @leonak7654
    @leonak7654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have learned in the Hard way !

  • @noelherns6002
    @noelherns6002 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    We accept u in black community as a proud spoke men u are invited two all cook outs 😎

  • @mrsoandso958
    @mrsoandso958 9 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Corey, one question... why the hell are you coaching from bed? C'mon man lol

    • @AlexAcE1
      @AlexAcE1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      he is renovating

    • @charlesolson5101
      @charlesolson5101 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Nah, it's actually a huuge seat with a big wide back, like a throne...

    • @rustymertz
      @rustymertz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      He had to crop the bottom of the video because some chicks head kept moving in and out of the picture.

    • @austinroberts6229
      @austinroberts6229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Didn't you know that when you sit on your bed like that women go crazy for you!

  • @xmangel6052
    @xmangel6052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    "I Discard men pretty quickly" she said... wow. Its true. Hot or Beautiful women just discard men like yesterday's newspaper... That's why we have to have "good Game" (Coach Corey can teach us good Game)... we have to stand out to get the 9's and 10's (shoot even the 8's)...

    • @VoiceOfThe
      @VoiceOfThe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      All this 8, 9, 10 business. I don’t buy it all. It’s all subjective who you find attractive. What might be a 8, 9, or 10 for one person, might be below a 5 for someone else!

    • @phatmanlovescake
      @phatmanlovescake 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@VoiceOfThe agreed

  • @ajikanfan2
    @ajikanfan2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Amazing video coach Corey, I learnt a lot. Thanks!

  • @CarlosHernandez-lx9kz
    @CarlosHernandez-lx9kz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Learned so much from you coach. Thank you.

  • @titosalazar4805
    @titosalazar4805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    i love how you compare a girl as a cat they come around whenever they want and thats okay

  • @ernieferguson6346
    @ernieferguson6346 8 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Hey Corey Wayne, as a 15 year audio engineer & videographer, If I were you I would use a lapel mic in your videos. Having a microphone(unidirectional best) clipped on your shirt(upper middle chest) will reduce all the background noise, which I hear on a lot of on your videos. Would be willing to fix the Audio in your past videos for trade with coaching sessions. I could really use some advice.. I'm reading book for 2nd time & watch all your videos..

    • @whatsupdog2727
      @whatsupdog2727 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it worth going to school for audio engineering or should I learn on my own? Was recently looking into this

    • @ernieferguson6346
      @ernieferguson6346 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I worked under an experienced engineer for years at a church got the best training that way

    • @whatsupdog2727
      @whatsupdog2727 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ernie Ferguson cool, I have a similar opportunity at the moment, you got any simple tips for me ?

    • @whatsupdog2727
      @whatsupdog2727 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ernie Ferguson I didn’t realize you comment was from 4 years ago, that’s crazy , how’s it going so far

    • @fleadoggreen9062
      @fleadoggreen9062 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good tips, I listen to a lot of college professors on hear that have the worst sound and worst lectures ,it’s annoying,

  • @TheGoodTheBadTheTarot
    @TheGoodTheBadTheTarot 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    LOL, a gentlemen would like to see a lady again...I'm cracking up rn

    • @xmangel6052
      @xmangel6052 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yeah, I thought that was funny too... I'm sure you as a woman have heard something like that before... ;)

    • @cindiheaton1048
      @cindiheaton1048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought that was funny 😁 and sweet 💟 and I think it might have been some inside joke between them.

    • @phatmanlovescake
      @phatmanlovescake 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmao

  • @christopherbates5787
    @christopherbates5787 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    excellent wisdom I learned to be patient I went for a kiss one time and she didn't kiss back so I kissed her on the forehead instead... Had I forced her to kiss me she would probably tell me to back away... Prior to this she had went for the kiss... Seduction is always about reading the signals... Feeling the vibes...
    U noe corey I was gonna buy ur book last night via for iPod touch! But the iBooks is not compatible with my device!
    :/
    Shit! Oh well I guess I will have to order paper back! I can't wait to read ur book!

  • @aboveaveragejoe6795
    @aboveaveragejoe6795 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are the god of relationships!

  • @silvermine2033
    @silvermine2033 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent information!

  • @drstephenwoods
    @drstephenwoods 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Corey
    Because of you I partly I get extremely hot women inboxing me on Facebook. Extremely hot! Why? Because I am not impatient, not thirsty lol and I don’t ask them out. Again I do not ask them out! I am a chiropractor but many don’t know that and I live a fun life going to hear music, I play drums and sing out, I go partying occasionally and put all my stuff on Facebook Live so people at home can have fun too and I keep everything on my Facebook feed happy and light just like I am. I address women friendly without a bit of pursuit but use words to tell them how great they look in a non thirsty way ( I love that word as most dudes are so no competition lol) . It is amazing how well it goes. Listening to your book on audible frequently but not up to 15! times yet. Listen to your TH-cam videos frequently as well. I tell my friends about you and at Mardi Gras in St Louis Saturday gave your information ton3 young dudes who have no real game. Anyway love you for all you do! Steve

  • @christopher-yi3rm
    @christopher-yi3rm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sometimes the women you reject refuse to accept rejection so you need to do things so they finally leave you.as turning them down or rejecting them in a nice way .they refuse to accept.

  • @christopher-yi3rm
    @christopher-yi3rm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    some times they keep coming back and turning them down in a subtle way does not work and they refuse to accept no in a subtle way .they see a a subtle rejection as playing hard to get and will not let go off you.

  • @r8m8s8
    @r8m8s8 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Who did the “creator” hang out, have fun and hook up with?

    • @khgriffi
      @khgriffi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      r8m8s8 😂

    • @jondough3339
      @jondough3339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Consciousness

  • @DaygoG
    @DaygoG 9 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Ok so what the hell, there is a contradiction here. So 1st were told be alpha, women like a man who knows what he wants and pursues it. We're told men are supposed to be assertive, make plans, make it known that he wants her time. But then oh wait no don't be too pushy, sit there and wait for cues from her. That to me sounds a lot like letting her lead and us just reacting to HER lead and hence being too available and all that other stuff. I really hate that we have to play all these games and know all these little secrets. Has it always been this complicated and annoying? I really wish I lived in the days where cavemen decided how and when shit was gonna go down.

    • @xmangel6052
      @xmangel6052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's called "Caveman Mentality"... many men wish they could go back to the Caveman days, where you could just hit a woman over the head with a club & drag her to your cave... Those days are Long Gone... ;) . its taking me Long Time to get this stuff... Years of Suffering & Frustration with women... Now at the age of 37... I'm finally Really getting it... but only after Years of suffering and now... Reading books & watching videos on the topic...

    • @briansnc2008
      @briansnc2008 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      It’s a shame that modern dating makes you use your brain to attract a woman. You don’t deserve a woman if you don’t want to put in the time and the mental capacity

    • @maq3009
      @maq3009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      This is honestly wayyyy too much work for me. Be an Alpha, but be a Beta at the same time, be tall, but not too tall, text her, but then no contact, contact, but no text, be strong, but not, pursue, but don’t pursue at the same time. Jesus Christmas!!! I’m done with dating, honestly. It’s absolutely insane. You gotta be a borderline Sociopath to keep up with all the hot/cold signals and games women dish out at you. It’s like a freaking Indiana Jones obstacle course just trying to date nowadays. I’m seriously done. I’m going Monk!

    • @Orgizo08
      @Orgizo08 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Read the book 10-15 times. It’s a science and an art. When you know the book we’ll enough, you’ll know what to do in these situations.

    • @ClumpypooCP
      @ClumpypooCP 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its honestly pretty much just mirror her behaviour and never escalate the connection faster than the "natural flow" of it@@Orgizo08

  • @nongpaul3795
    @nongpaul3795 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ur videos are always great

  • @hyongy9959
    @hyongy9959 9 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    His head shadow looks like his long hair.... :)

    • @khgriffi
      @khgriffi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hyong Y I did a slight head turn and saw exactly what you were talking about lol

    • @phatmanlovescake
      @phatmanlovescake 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks now I cant stop looking at it when I watch this video

  • @Brancovtn65
    @Brancovtn65 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn it, I could’ve used this video yesterday. I fucked up bad.

  • @Rkelly131313
    @Rkelly131313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    13:45 lmaoooo

  • @biggusdickus7089
    @biggusdickus7089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It sucks that a guy who is impatient is thought of as a potential date rapist. I have been impatient most of my life with women but that was because of my own internal insecurities from childhood. I personally would never force a woman or rape a woman

  • @davidulloamtz
    @davidulloamtz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Corey one question, how to react when she hasnt call in a long time lets say 3 weeks and suddenly justs calls as if nothing happends , should i REACT as if nothing happens? or should that behavior shoud be pubished with a certain hostility form me that my big deal dilema.

    • @robertromero8094
      @robertromero8094 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      David ulloa martinez she messaged you to possibly get together if u play ur cards right. its up to you if u wanna see her again if not fuck her no need 2 b mad tho. my opinion

    • @davidulloamtz
      @davidulloamtz 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thanks brother yes i have come to realize I have learned so much in this past 6 months that i surprise myself having this type of questions 6 JUST MONTHS AGO that for now its very common sense. I should act as nothing happened , she doesnt move me of my center and from an abundance stand point is like i don't care that much she hasn't called me in all those months beacuse shes not near to be my only option and i been having a very good time wtih other girls. Best regards.

    • @cindiheaton1048
      @cindiheaton1048 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@davidulloamtz I just saw a man grow into becoming a 3% man.Thank you. You. rocked 🎸 it. Update!

    • @PaulTC777
      @PaulTC777 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@davidulloamtz yes don't react just plan a date, if she wants to go on the date good and kf she doesnt at least you won't be seen as a needy creepy stalker

  • @michaelmota4602
    @michaelmota4602 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sometimes I wish I could just turn off my sex drive at specific moments and just focus on the present moment and having fun. It's fucking annoying how sometimes I can't have a fucking genuine conversation with an attractive women because all I could think about is sex. It's like I'm battling with another personality inside myself. And I don't want to have to jack off before a date just so I could be present with someone. What do I do with all that sexual energy? Sometimes it just seems uncontrollable and trying to suppress it or push it down doesn't seem to work. I get shoved into my head because I'm trying to battle with my desires and thoughts, and women could tell I'm in a different world, like I'm lost or in a daze.

    • @jhamilton1007
      @jhamilton1007 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The flesh is a powerful thing if you feed it. You should draw closer to the Lord and those desires won't be as strong.

    • @vrilginitymaxxer
      @vrilginitymaxxer 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey any luck with this?

  • @taje017
    @taje017 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m laughing at the joke not him but it was funny , “a gentleman would like to see a lady again”

  • @SteveWKk
    @SteveWKk หลายเดือนก่อน

    Imagine texting a chick saying A gentleman would like to see a lady” 😵🤮

  • @pablogiorgio7479
    @pablogiorgio7479 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Corey predicting how politicians would behave in 2020 rsrsrsrsrs

  • @jessezoso618
    @jessezoso618 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    why is it ok for women to text or e-mail whenever they want to? I would be fucking Mad at snub behavior. it's total shit. no debating....

    • @robertromero8094
      @robertromero8094 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jesse Zoso cuz she has a vagina duh

  • @fark6061
    @fark6061 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    so this girl is not a cat ;) beside that I love you dude. even though I have lost my girl coz of me being a bitch , then again all women are different. not all of of them are cat.

  • @NotBen101
    @NotBen101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Too impatient to get through a 25 min video