What's Dating Like For Black People In Korea?

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  • @KExplorer
    @KExplorer  ปีที่แล้ว +127

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    • @KCMGT23
      @KCMGT23 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      What’s the first woman’s instagram

    • @pjosepha
      @pjosepha ปีที่แล้ว

      i wont be suprised in a few years time, a lot of single men will fly down there to date. The west is finished

    • @ana6077
      @ana6077 ปีที่แล้ว

      Não é verdade, eles fazem a diferença 1:21

  • @TheCasheba
    @TheCasheba ปีที่แล้ว +8786

    Black people, learn to love yourself and stop trying to please other groups of people. There is nothing wrong with you.

  • @sounzsspace7564
    @sounzsspace7564 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This is a very mature and rich street interview. Love it

  • @oumah_r6267
    @oumah_r6267 ปีที่แล้ว +796

    I am in Taiwan and one time a guy who was asking me out said to me he likes black girls as long as 'they are not sick or have infections'. I was very offended in that he is associating black people with disease.

    • @natori1649
      @natori1649 ปีที่แล้ว +250

      That is disturbing

    • @Spokentruths725
      @Spokentruths725 ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Yeah where tf would he even get that from. I dont even think the media is suggesting that part.

    • @Princetonx2
      @Princetonx2 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      @@Spokentruths725 a lot of the people over there watch movies about africa and with they closed minds they will just ASSUME that’s how we’re all living!! So I wouldn’t get to mad about it it’s really just them being selfish and not wanting to learn more about other cultures other then there own

    • @peteraudu4554
      @peteraudu4554 ปีที่แล้ว +109

      Ignorant comments like this used to annoy me. But at this point, I laugh at it and stay away from people like that. My first ignorant experience was with a kid in Thailand who asked me why I don't shower? Insinuating if I did shower I wouldn't be black. What's even funnier, is that I told a buddy of mine and he wasn't surprised at all. Because some girl told him he needs to stop showering with hot water. 😂 We can't fix stupid. But we can avoid it like the plague though.

    • @bennettaddo3792
      @bennettaddo3792 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi oumah

  • @thetipmillishow
    @thetipmillishow ปีที่แล้ว +1899

    Who in the hell is going to Korea to find a date? 😂

    • @johnroe4551
      @johnroe4551 ปีที่แล้ว +388

      😂 fan boys and girls 🤣

    • @dwaynemason9548
      @dwaynemason9548 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      Punks lol

    • @infinitelove9169
      @infinitelove9169 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Lmao😂😂

    • @jimmyweathersby327
      @jimmyweathersby327 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      It was highly unexpected for me tho but it happen ❤️😂

    • @MsSweets0211
      @MsSweets0211 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @MyUmer10
    @MyUmer10 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    I am brown girl. I have a friend who went korea for masters degree...she said she felt do ignored by the dudes there even when she is considered pretty here. Even the most average looking white girl had more boys's attention than her and her other brown/dark friends.

    • @Mr.Eminem
      @Mr.Eminem ปีที่แล้ว

      So??? Having preference is bad?? If they gave brown skin attention...noone would cared....if they bothering someone for skin... that's bad...not having preference on dating....its all preference...if korean are into white... what's wrong in that?? They not bothering you or killing you

    • @szasremmurd8002
      @szasremmurd8002 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      It’s so very different for black women than black men in Korea and I wish he would’ve spoke more on that.

    • @MyUmer10
      @MyUmer10 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@Mr.Eminem its not a preference. Nor its koreans only. In any part of the world people would choose white skin. Even in the west, dark skin is a trend. A trend by white people. Its not a preference if its highly influenced by colourist mindset.

    • @user-qg5jw1kb3r
      @user-qg5jw1kb3r ปีที่แล้ว +108

      I hope girls stop attaching their worth to men. You don't need male validation. You may fit into the beauty standards of one place, but may not fit in another place. It still doesn't change your beauty 🥀.

    • @UltraGalacticSuperFantastic
      @UltraGalacticSuperFantastic ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@MyUmer10 i'm brown and i never had problems with getting dates in america...and i don't think it's a trend. we have a lot more mixed people than most of the world, it's not as simple as blanketing white people. we have all been exposed to each other. we let our society be heterogenous. places like korea, and the rest of the world that is still homogenous, will not be ready to mingle with others until they start growing up around them.

  • @eswynplantagenet4483
    @eswynplantagenet4483 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love the “tall” girls advice at the end! (Sorry didn’t remember her name) she seems so genuinely sweet

  • @reexg98
    @reexg98 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    I’m glad that these people kept it real!!!! Very honest and real interviews!!

    • @cj4life390
      @cj4life390 ปีที่แล้ว

      All the interviews were fire. The short British girl with braids is crazy intelligent. 🤩 🌹👌🏿

  • @bellzseisa2935
    @bellzseisa2935 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Honestly speaking, I'm over every race that looks down on black people. They can continue hating from outside of the club. Being black is a blessing even though shxts kinda Dangerous sometimes , but I wouldn't have it any other way. It's LIT! 🔥
    A proud black South African woman. 🖤

    • @BUUOC
      @BUUOC ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Agreed. Very LIT ! 🔥 Signed, your sis, a proud Black American woman. 🖤

    • @sirbentley5526
      @sirbentley5526 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Say that again for the slow people in the back👏🏽🗣️🔊

    • @abstractgalaxy5067
      @abstractgalaxy5067 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Absolutely 🖤 it’s lit. I would not have it any other way 😊

  • @coreyburney2331
    @coreyburney2331 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The French girl is so amazing ❤ this was a great video with great questions! Keep up the content.

  • @divadash
    @divadash ปีที่แล้ว +274

    Black people not “Blacks” we aren’t things.

    • @johnroe4551
      @johnroe4551 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They maybe acknowledging the different kind of "blacks". You know like the ones from England, Caribbean, American, Africa. Not everyone see you the way you see yourselves. Only "Black" Americans walk around calling anyone with hue Black 😂

    • @menewsome
      @menewsome ปีที่แล้ว +38

      @@johnroe4551 Then they should state where they're from! The whole world knows who Black Americans are. We have different cultures and we're built different from the others.

    • @JKAnu-yq1tr
      @JKAnu-yq1tr ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@menewsome absolutely. I'm far from being a black American, but I'm still black. Lol

    • @Princetonx2
      @Princetonx2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@JKAnu-yq1tr I like to be called African American more then black tbh . We should
      Make people call us by our ethnicity not a color

    • @FountainOfYoot
      @FountainOfYoot ปีที่แล้ว +31

      @@johnroe4551 doesn't matter mate. Black people. Its not that difficult. Nobody says whites or browns.

  • @shelbyscoggins2451
    @shelbyscoggins2451 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's such a wonderful feeling, not giving a DAMN what other people/ethnicities think of you! It's a very liberating thing! Wish our brothers and sisters would try it more! Black culture is world culture..black folk need to recognize they are the ish when so many different cultures all over the world emulate dang near everything black folk do! Even if they don't like the color of your skin, and love to assume you're every stereotype they've been spoonfed by their foreign preference, just love on yourself and try your best to lose the rest! I've been blessed to learn to love people through/in spite of their ignorance/lack of knowledge! As long as the Lord love me, I'm BEYOND good!😊❤

  • @Wildcats9375
    @Wildcats9375 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Watching all these videos show me that us blacks love to be loved/accepted by every race. But NONE of them care for us. I hope we get tired of being that foster kid nobody loves, and LOVE OURSELVES

  • @rickyrunks510
    @rickyrunks510 ปีที่แล้ว +485

    It's not far fetch for a person to want to date within their own culture & language. Us black people should prioritize dating other black people

    • @memrman8331
      @memrman8331 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      yes please do that instead of trying to go to korea to get girls

    • @DerickLucas-i6e
      @DerickLucas-i6e ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@memrman8331 tf

    • @arieeevans4026
      @arieeevans4026 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      You’re definitely right about wanting to date someone who’s in within your own culture but the thing that’s weird is having disgust or hatred towards other cultures. I just wish things were different ☹️

    • @Deemelanin7
      @Deemelanin7 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DerickLucas-i6e what is wrong with that

    • @ruffprophetproductions
      @ruffprophetproductions ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@memrman8331 i dont think they're going to Korea to date, or promoting that. they made this video to show people who potentially might wanna leave the US (which is valid asf) what life is like in other countries

  • @cjrichards4359
    @cjrichards4359 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I mean tbh if you really think about, fetishitization of other races happens in other places to, for example in the US Latinas are fetishized a lot. Many people would love to hook with them but wouldn't get into a ling term relationship w them. We must not be so critical of other cultures and think that our own is better, bc no culture is right or wrong or better than the other

    • @NellenelleForSure
      @NellenelleForSure ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤡🤡🤡🤡

    • @takirahbest7730
      @takirahbest7730 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I don’t this is about better… they asked them what is their experience…. And being fetishized is one of the actions occurring

  • @Pampy93
    @Pampy93 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    People in Korea (foreigners included) are so obsessed with dating. I cannot tell how many times people (boss, clients, friends parents, taxi drivers...) told me why don't you date a Korean man they are nice. It's giving "you should come up here and get one of these, it's a chicken salad" 🤣🤣🤣

    • @burbon6373
      @burbon6373 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It’s like that everywhere because ppl understand the importance of relationships & family unlike there in America

    • @daihughes7710
      @daihughes7710 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      😂😂😂😂😂 I’m dying from laughter. Ur comment has made my day seriously. If I ever go to Korea I’m just eat food and taking pics and getting wasted. I’m not wasting my vacation trying to find a Korean guy or girl to shack up with.

    • @Pampy93
      @Pampy93 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@daihughes7710 Honey you already know! So many things you can enjoy in that country. You may come back home broke and thicker but not heartbroken 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ajrt_2118
      @ajrt_2118 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      "you should come up here and get one of these, it's a chicken salad" 🤣🤣🤣

    • @Xgil2Play
      @Xgil2Play ปีที่แล้ว

      Interesting 👀

  • @qaya_truestepper
    @qaya_truestepper ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Firstly, respectfully, everybody is so beautiful, including the interviewer! I love this channel- very refreshing content.💗

  • @TiemposDePaz
    @TiemposDePaz ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I have dated a Korean guy here in the US once. It wasn't our culture that was the problem, he was just strange. I live in a highly Korean area in NJ and have a few Korean friends. Koreans are mostly dating each other. Its funny, this area is very diverse but we live in pockets. If Koreans live in a town with a lot of Koreans, its quite possible they do not interact with black people often. They are still hanging out with mostly other Asian people (All of Asia) and whites. They don't relate to black culture unless they have business that serve in Black areas (hair supply or nail salons come to mind). I would date Koreans again, but I just find the opportunity to meet one not so easy so it won't happen. For now I date a Ukrainian.

  • @leonardoyepiz2163
    @leonardoyepiz2163 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It was really interesting to watch all the different opinions and perspectives. Keep making these type of videos K explorer.

  • @szasremmurd8002
    @szasremmurd8002 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Moon is very pretty but I hate how so many comments are about her beauty. It’s like dark brown girls have to look/be mixed or exotic looking to be praised for their looks and I’m sick of it. The other women were beautiful also but I haven’t seen one comment about it. African features are demonized even by African people.

    • @user-qg5jw1kb3r
      @user-qg5jw1kb3r ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Moon is half black & half vietnamese apparently.

  • @jayone8710
    @jayone8710 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I think that a lot of them would sleep with black people but not a relationship. A lot of this is down to the culture and a lot of parents from that generation would look down on it.
    It's a shame.
    Slow steps though. Things are changing gradually.
    *Edit - I live in the UK and the Asian girls do not rock with me at all except the ones born here. I feel like they are scared of me 😂😂 they LOVE the white guys though. A lot of this is to do with TV/films showing the heartthrob is a white guy.

    • @serenaserenity4895
      @serenaserenity4895 ปีที่แล้ว

      No! actually it might be culture and belief maybe even religion and racism, indians in my country believe Blk ppl to be cursed race because of their holy books, stating one of their God's burnt our skin, even think we are sub humans lol, but many are now marrying Blk but still has stigma in relationships because of relatives and other folks as themselves, i love my own ppl first no one is superior or better because of hair or skin color

    • @aks1993kumar
      @aks1993kumar ปีที่แล้ว

      A lot of it has to do you how you act on the streets

  • @monstafloppa871
    @monstafloppa871 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The French girl is gorgeous and has a wonderful personality. I doubt she has any problems meeting people just based off of that fact.

  • @bridgetamato6182
    @bridgetamato6182 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Fact of life. Always live in integrity. Never take anyone for granted. Have a mission. When you have a clear goal to be the best at a Trade or Career that is sexy. When you take care of yourself through exercise, good food, drink lots of water and hot tea that is sexy. When you are generous,set healthy boundaries, and have a good sense of humor that is sexy. When you know God without dogma you are unstoppable. You can have a big heart and don’t take crap from anyone being diplomatic always using your words that is power. The world is you’re oyster 🦪 when you stand in you’re power and have a clear goal what you would like to do with you’re life.

  • @kekeboo2
    @kekeboo2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Moon is GORGEOUS!

  • @kimberlyvinson9047
    @kimberlyvinson9047 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Back in the day people went over there telling Koreans all sorts of falsehoods about Black people and Koreans not knowing any better, believe what they were being told.
    I remember when I was stationed there back in 1980 and some Koreans wanted to see if we had a tail like a monkey, seriously.
    I can't make this up. They have been told so many crazy things that I guess it has been difficult for them to separate truth from fiction. Don't go looking for relationships, enjoy your time there and come on back home.

    • @kornwhiskey95
      @kornwhiskey95 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I know you’re not lying because my dad was stationed in Korea a long time ago, and that same story is what he told me when he was there. It’s a shame what they thought of Black people. He also told me that you literally have to pry those women off of you because they believe in having sex with their men all the time they believe “happy man makes happy work” that’s what my dad told me.

    • @bennettaddo3792
      @bennettaddo3792 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@kornwhiskey95 👍🏼👍🏼

    • @nycg801
      @nycg801 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Wow when they’re actually the ones that used to have tails.

    • @poopbutt6241
      @poopbutt6241 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@kornwhiskey95last part sounds nice lol

    • @johncena-hq1ti
      @johncena-hq1ti ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Nah it’s the 21st century now, that isn’t a valid excuse

  • @Mariamomo_
    @Mariamomo_ ปีที่แล้ว +11

    1:24 I have also experienced this multiple times in Korea, and they think it's a compliment when you say you're black. It's just awkward

  • @vickomal4040
    @vickomal4040 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The first girl nailed everything 😊

  • @official_blackbeauty5874
    @official_blackbeauty5874 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So from what I’m hearing, is the black men don’t think it’s hard for them to date. Not knowing they are being more fetishised. They don’t take black people seriously. The black women seem to have a harder time getting men, while the black man’s are fetishised because of what they believe every black man has below the belt, but still will not be taken seriously. That’s what I’ve taken…

    • @advanced8998
      @advanced8998 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Black men are lost

    • @official_blackbeauty5874
      @official_blackbeauty5874 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@advanced8998 I think most of them in this video think it’s easy for them to date because the girls want to sleep with them. Now knowing that they are not taken seriously and are being used for what the world believe they endow compared to their own Asian man. While the Asian men just think black women are easy but don’t want them either. It’s sad the black men don’t see it.

    • @smoothmentalitysmooth9226
      @smoothmentalitysmooth9226 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@advanced8998 some not all . Black women too.
      I agree I married an Argentinian woman.
      It was cool but it was always missing something

  • @NicoSavage
    @NicoSavage ปีที่แล้ว +52

    PLEASE KEEP MAKING MORE PARTS OF THIS. WE HAVE SO MANY BLACK PEOPLE WHO GLORIFY ASIANS, FOR SPECIFICS OF THIS VIDEO... KOREANS.. NOT EVEN UNDERSTANDING THEY DON'T LIKE YOU AND ARE OFTEN CONFUSED WHY YOU WOULD THINK THEY WOULD WANT YOU

    • @NaalamileyTV
      @NaalamileyTV ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am a fan of Korean dramas and will like to meet one, but watching this video 😄

    • @NicoSavage
      @NicoSavage ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@NaalamileyTV my family loves kpop and korean everything. They don't FWU

  • @px9ik
    @px9ik ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The comment on Korean dating being so commercialized is so on point. -Coming from a Korean.

  • @ronmorris956
    @ronmorris956 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So basically they see black people as an experience more than a serious relationship partner lmao 🤣 that's wild

  • @corneliaekaeba2554
    @corneliaekaeba2554 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Well, I love South Koreans but I also value myself, if I visit south Korea someday, I won't push anyone to a relationship.. that's not just me.

  • @simplastic
    @simplastic ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I lived for 3 years in Korea and I dated a lot. Long story short... I married a Chinese girl I met in Seoul.
    Korean beauty/looks/money/standards are just impossible. There's nothing like drama/kpop guys or girls there. Yeah, they are good looking specially women but that's all. Is a hard society to live in.

    • @dominicjohnson310
      @dominicjohnson310 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you still living in South Korea?

    • @simplastic
      @simplastic ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dominicjohnson310 no

    • @Tafa168
      @Tafa168 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Want to hear the long story

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      It's hard for outsiders, it's like introducing vegetables when you've eaten meat all your life. I love it there, felt right at home. I live in the USA and life is really hard here for me, I'm not used to being around white people who are also very uncultured

    • @unicornsrice1667
      @unicornsrice1667 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sew_gal7340 Same. Even with tje difficulties I liked Korea more.

  • @angolaferida
    @angolaferida ปีที่แล้ว +5

    we need to educate our people to be cordial and respectful towards other peoples, without being subservient. It's not because we are welcome in a place that we have to want to make babies with the people of that place. We are a beautiful people with a rich culture. Let's love each other and create our thing.

  • @neomobango3357
    @neomobango3357 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Being Black is an extreme sport..
    Being Black and African too is an extreme extreme sport.
    Come to Africa guys. it's really not that bad .

  • @monsieurcandy2373
    @monsieurcandy2373 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The interviewer has a good sense of fashion👏🏽 great content too, they really said a lot

  • @70shahin
    @70shahin ปีที่แล้ว +1

    BTW I really like how gentle man the Interviewer is. I just watch the video to see his mimics and gestures!

  • @mrED123
    @mrED123 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    His interviews are very classy.

  • @E.Lifestylecurator
    @E.Lifestylecurator ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The interviewer is handsome 🥰🥰🥰💞💞💞

  • @horimiya84
    @horimiya84 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LOVE THIS INTERVIEWER!!!! ONE OF FEW I SEE THAT DONT TRY TO INTERRUPT WHAT PPL IS SAYING FOR THE LOVE OF GOOODD

  • @AlThurayya7
    @AlThurayya7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That last message was spot on 👌🏾🖤🫰🏾

  • @humanconnectionflores
    @humanconnectionflores ปีที่แล้ว +39

    What ever country your in ,there always be people to date. There's individuals That does not go by What the media portrays or society. But they go by who they connect with and have similar interest.

    • @kenia3645
      @kenia3645 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      And it's funny how we never talk about racist blacks,like that's just the unpopular opinion we never talk about...as a Kpop stan,I realised just how some black people hate Asians and don't view them as people.
      We all should just love each other as a human race.

    • @hez859
      @hez859 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@kenia3645 black people probably talk sh*t about Asians because in many experiences they love our music (k pop being an example) our style, artistry.. yet treat us like actual sub humans. It's an impossible stat to figure out but im pretty sure the racism is more extreme on the Asian end, fr. Media is a big part to blame but 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @kenia3645
      @kenia3645 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@hez859 and that's something we'll never voice out...God made us different so that we can enjoy life even more not the hatred that we have against each other and it's so annoying..And I'll stand here and loudly say that I'm black and I love Asians,Asian culture Kpop, everything Asian I love it💜 Let's love each other.

    • @shim2955
      @shim2955 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@kenia3645 As the other user said, you would be considered as a subhuman if you lived in Korea. Most black people aren't racist towards Asians at all.

    • @kenia3645
      @kenia3645 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shim2955 That depends on where the person had been raised thou because I had to go a long way to finally be able to listen to Kpop without being questioned...And they think all Asians are Chinese so they be like "why do you listen to these ching-chong songs?" That's disgusting.🤮

  • @jonroman9572
    @jonroman9572 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I disowned a friend of mine in Korea who was of African background, after she yelled "why are white people so pretty" and then threw items at random white females and even a white male that she walked by. I told her she was losing it and to love herself for who she is, and her African people, as Koreans and whites both think they are the best when both ARE NOT. The best is the African Princes and Princesses who built the Pyramids and are the real Hebrew people, the real Chosen People.

  • @kimleemoon
    @kimleemoon ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Now you know it has to be pretty bad if black men are complaining about Korean women having sex with them & dipping! 😂 I can only imagine how bad it is for the black women in SK. I have seen some of the ladies in these types of videos as well & it’s the same story & worse.

    • @sew_gal7340
      @sew_gal7340 ปีที่แล้ว

      Asians are curious about"the rumor" and it is once in a lifetime experience. I honestly never seen one and kinda curious too... But they scare me so I don't talk to them... But I wanna see it too... So unfair

  • @jadam8844
    @jadam8844 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love our black selves first, because there is way too much hatred for us in the world to navigate. We need to stop people pleasing to be accepted into spaces with non black people. We are indigenous to this planet, we don't need acceptance anywhere because we are everywhere. Love self and accept nothing less than others loving us individually and collectively.

  • @introvertdude99
    @introvertdude99 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The black French girl that’s tall is cute though.

  • @SandeepMeena79
    @SandeepMeena79 ปีที่แล้ว

    People attract in their own community mostly because that's how phycologically they evolve. Culture and appearance effect so much in this.

  • @ajrt_2118
    @ajrt_2118 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm moving to Korea next year to teach. My boyfriend just broke up with me. So, I'll be single while I'm there. I'm from the US, but honestly, I had a terrible experiencing dating in the Philadelphia area. Even in America men of all races still feel it's ok to say they don't want to seriously date a black woman and especially a dark-skinned woman. I used to work on cruise ships and it was the same thing there with men from all different countries. It's just the sad truth that folks aren't checking for dark-skinned black woman. I don't expect anything less from Korea, sadly.

    • @jm-je4tl
      @jm-je4tl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What job will you do in South Korea?

    • @ajrt_2118
      @ajrt_2118 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jm-je4tl I'll be an English teacher in the public school system.

    • @jm-je4tl
      @jm-je4tl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ajrt_2118 oh cool. If you don't mind my asking, how good is your Korean?

  • @bridgetamato6182
    @bridgetamato6182 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Work for yourself. Invent something, set up manufacturing and take care of People financially. Surround yourself with good people. ❤Get out there and live!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @konnziatv7111
    @konnziatv7111 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    your making me laugh, the way you was trying to keep your composure lool

  • @giofromjamaica
    @giofromjamaica ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We black ppl best stick with ourselves..because out there is not for us unless we really find that outsider that’s willing to work with love and nothing but love

  • @somethingaboutnay6019
    @somethingaboutnay6019 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It’s easy to get lost in where you are but know that the world is bigger than Korea and Asia in general

  • @korallrev3497
    @korallrev3497 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    why is it all over youtube about dating and race? its stupid the less we talk about race the less ''important'' it will be if you know what i mean?

  • @Taylorxsoxbomb
    @Taylorxsoxbomb ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It was interesting hearing a lot of the guys say “it isn’t that hard dating you just have to be outside” vs. all the girls saying “mhm it’s pretty difficult”

    • @ehis147
      @ehis147 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      The experiences are different for both sexes. Truly though, when it comes to dating and search for love, black women have it harder there (other parts of the world, too) than black men.

    • @skagraw2
      @skagraw2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maybe black girls are playing hard to get game or unfriendly or too afraid of rejection whereas boys are always there and trying without fear of rejection.

    • @Taylorxsoxbomb
      @Taylorxsoxbomb ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@skagraw2 mhm I don’t think that’s necessarily true, as a black woman. Playing hard to get or being “unfriendly” being the reason black woman have it “more difficult” is a wild assumption to make. I think black men are more desired based on fetishization whereas black woman are not, so we naturally get the more racist encounters.

    • @skagraw2
      @skagraw2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Taylorxsoxbomb disagree fetish logic. Men are also told to be drug peddlers, low life, less educated, criminals, promiscuous, sex addicts... despite all that stigma black guys hussle n get in.

    • @Taylorxsoxbomb
      @Taylorxsoxbomb ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@skagraw2 there’s also a huge fetishized desire for black men based on sexual desires. Are you a black man? Or are you just here for a discussion because I’m not having this discussion with someone who has never experienced this personally as a black person.

  • @AuntieAriiii
    @AuntieAriiii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Black people we are everywhere… we are the beginning and the end… remember.

  • @thankesusbeats3522
    @thankesusbeats3522 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Excellent video, i appreciate the interviewing technique and the honesty of the responses. It ishelpful to have this knowledge, even if you never plan to travel to Korea.

  • @MiaCarter7
    @MiaCarter7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I think it’s crazy how rumors have traveled the world to countries where Black people are not. What else would they have to go on to justify stereotyping Black people when there aren’t many Black people there to get to know in the first place?..

  • @Blackish1ntentx
    @Blackish1ntentx ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That girl that said White is the standard there is incorrect. Korean is the standard there. From what I understand, Koreans aren't jumping over themselves to date foreigners. They stick mostly to their own. You'd have better luck in the Philippines.

  • @MORE-THAN-CONQUEROR
    @MORE-THAN-CONQUEROR ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why are black always looking for other race approval???? I don’t get it. Learn to love yourself and stop asking for others approval😊

  • @hein6870
    @hein6870 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wanted to leave a comment for us black people but Moon resumed it for me so thank you for your beautiful message 🖤🖤✨

  • @Journeyjunckies
    @Journeyjunckies ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I believe that no one should rush or intrude others and their space.
    Just take it step by step especially when your in a foreign country.
    Understanding people first and their traits before you make a move is really the way to go.
    I also believe in racial inclusion/togetherness am happy that the people of South Korea are very welcoming and loving people.
    One love world 🗺 🥰

  • @dee3489
    @dee3489 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love living in Africa in Kenya moved from USA and people love me. Living in a country where you are normal and learning your own people's culture is the best. I link every black should try a African country they love thirt own people. I love being human first and black never in Kenya. Everyone is just like me.

  • @urass
    @urass ปีที่แล้ว +6

    wsh moon??

  • @trainerrosa695
    @trainerrosa695 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    most girls don't even wanna date short guys
    But you don't hear them complaining as much as women do
    Foreign women Don't need validation from Korean men to feel "special" And there's nothing wrong with Korean men having a preference it doesn't mean they are racist

  • @mayseventy4466
    @mayseventy4466 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was nice interviews. The last advice was on point❤😊🇹🇹

  • @oglancollection7666
    @oglancollection7666 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Most of my friends in school want to go and have a Dat from Korea bcus of their movie. Chai this is heartbreaking

  • @47Ronin15
    @47Ronin15 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ill stick to my K Dramas and visit Korea for the food

  • @iamhim5389
    @iamhim5389 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i just came from korea 4 months ago and as a black person, it is harder to date comparing to latina or white fr..

  • @LovingLife342
    @LovingLife342 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I never ever see South East Asians dating South Asians and they come from the same continent, so why would I care about them not being interested in me as a black person. That in itself tells me that they are more racially closed than anything else.
    I have very high racial self-esteem and I wouldn’t base my dating options on what other races thought of me. I always wait for a man to ask me out so those who don’t like me are easily filtered out. I ain’t chasing no man 😂

  • @snmoses08
    @snmoses08 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yes girl!! Go and enjoy the country.

  • @2clapsandarickflair804
    @2clapsandarickflair804 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    All the guys were lying their ass off

  • @ChemicalXII
    @ChemicalXII ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:10 , "Scared to 'face' rejection on the app 😐 . Living life on easy mode problems.".

  • @SumayaUthman-fd6gu
    @SumayaUthman-fd6gu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me too I feel the same here, "last option" here in Thailand!! Not easy at all when you kinder black.

  • @chanfitts5151
    @chanfitts5151 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hell it's hard dating in our own country so I would imagine it being very difficult there ..GOODluck my black queens and kings

  • @gorgioarmanioso151
    @gorgioarmanioso151 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To the girl saying she is not Latina, Latino is not a race bro check my home country Colombia or Brasil or Dominican republic we have millions of afro people... Latino is just term for classifying us that speak a latin language or that have heritage in old spanish, portuguese and even french colonies such as Haiti .

    • @chafiqbantla1816
      @chafiqbantla1816 ปีที่แล้ว

      Than the korean guy is even more wrong

    • @taehyunsgf
      @taehyunsgf ปีที่แล้ว

      at the end of the day she still isn't latina

    • @gorgioarmanioso151
      @gorgioarmanioso151 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@taehyunsgf so ? that is not the point me wanting her to be Latina lol is just pointing out, that we are not a race.... perhaps a culture, an aglomaration of different cultures.. but not a race.

    • @taehyunsgf
      @taehyunsgf ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gorgioarmanioso151 so... she isn't latina

  • @TheMakendi
    @TheMakendi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    As a black person, what are you doing living in South Korea ?

  • @understandingg
    @understandingg ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We as black people why can't we continue loving ourselves, date within ourselves, and also you black Americans or african Americans,,,,,we welcome you here in Africa, there is a lot of opportunities that will come from Africa come to Africa and invest in Africa, people in Africa here believes that Black Americans are part of us they love you very much here in Africa,

  • @diffe7819
    @diffe7819 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    But wait , the guys are really handsome, really good looking 🤩🤩.. The girls are also very beautiful 🥰

    • @ktv9247
      @ktv9247 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To us not them

  • @NcheayiEniEle
    @NcheayiEniEle ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was in Thailand for 10yrs and I never dated a Thai guy, they are not interested in black women but their women love black men.

  • @themightyhebrew777
    @themightyhebrew777 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    DEAL WITH YOUR OWN PEOPLE,
    PERIOD!!!

  • @Natural_Lii
    @Natural_Lii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yooo but how is Jerry so attractive? like wheeh chilee i wouldn't even know what to say standing right next to him sheesh 🤎🤎🤎i might just hug him or something LOL. God bless this fine handsome black man

  • @tommylee5879
    @tommylee5879 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Honestly I never been to Korea but I been to Korea and let me tell you I miss her 😅 for real and I’m for the Bay Area and the swagger out there make any girl fine but this woman was stunning this was like 15 years ago I had some wild times with her

  • @4488656
    @4488656 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It’s funny that the tall French girl wants a man her height or taller. You’re in KOREA the average height of men there is like 5’4

    • @Futuregohan14
      @Futuregohan14 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Average South Korean guy is 5'8"

    • @MannyLoxx2010
      @MannyLoxx2010 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol!! Facts!! She's 1.82 meters, which is 6 feet, 2 inches, more or less! She needs to date a tall brotha or a basketball player!! She looks Black and Asian herself!! I live in a Korean area in LA.

  • @jamesguiateu9313
    @jamesguiateu9313 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do we always have to make noise on this tho the others are doing their things privately ? The best way to live is to live quietly

  • @JoshNtheedrifter
    @JoshNtheedrifter ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I mean let's be serious.. who actually woke up this morning said, "oh gosh I can't wait to date a Korean"! I could care less either way cuz either people will like me or they won't.

    • @laqueenawilliams4762
      @laqueenawilliams4762 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Keeping it 100. We also return the favor to them in the states. My uncle used to rob them said it’s easy money.

  • @mascode1
    @mascode1 ปีที่แล้ว

    Got the best advice of the day from the last girl. So sweet

  • @RussNJ_
    @RussNJ_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Saw a short and definitely enjoyed watching the whole video. Good stuff!

  • @4488656
    @4488656 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It’s racism right here in America why go all the way to Korea to experience it?

  • @lestatvega
    @lestatvega ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She’s 5’11 and a half she’s taller than 90% of the men and she’s wondering why baby you’re beautiful you’re just in the wrong place

  • @lwkee7143
    @lwkee7143 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sadly , Everyone feels this way & way too often, we all have that self doubt let's not listen to our minds telling us this stuff , love ourselves first 🤍

  • @evilearthego5256
    @evilearthego5256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    1:14 Women need to get out of this mentality of "what if I face rejection?" Men don't get that luxury. Y'all need to grow up.

  • @vaccinatedanti-vaxxer
    @vaccinatedanti-vaxxer ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m Korean American that used to live in Korea, now Germany. I think it’s easier for black men to date in Korea than black women. Just my observation black American men are very popular with German women. I think for men, race is not as important as height and status. Korean women that are into black men, are hyper open to dating black men.
    I am personally attracted to some black women, but I know plenty of Korean men that have zero attraction to black women. So they claim they never found any black women attractive. Literally the baddest black woman I had ever seen was in a French black woman I met in Korea. It’s not as simple as concluding they are racist or believe stereotypes. I know plenty of white or black women even Asian women in US that say they will never date Asians, I don’t think it’s racist or blame them. It’s just a preference like height.
    Is everyone interviewed deep in the hook up culture? It seems all of them (who are black) are or want to date around. None of them said anything about waiting for marriage. I personally knew many Koreans either falsely claim or actually do not participate in casual sex. I know it’s 2023, but yes some Koreans still are old fashioned. Seems less in the black community are. Perhaps why Korean celebrate couples because it’s not expected for people to rapidly keep dating new people temporarily over and over. Even America generations ago, it was not normalized to sleep around.

    • @t301CAN
      @t301CAN ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Preferences come from somewhere. What you described about Americans refusing to date Asian men comes from racial stereotypes that date back decades. If preferences were truly that, White people wouldn't be universally favored. Not to say, White people are preferred over people's own races, but that they are usually the best treated. It's a social construct.

  • @cutepiggy8890
    @cutepiggy8890 ปีที่แล้ว +4261

    “It’s 50/50 they’re disgusted with me or love me.” Wow that hit me fr

    • @adia990
      @adia990 ปีที่แล้ว +425

      It’s so true😭 one guy was all over me and one dude looked at me an ran away there is no in between i swear

    • @user-gp1bt4vm3r
      @user-gp1bt4vm3r ปีที่แล้ว +304

      That's literally how it is anywhere in the world.

    • @peekatooo
      @peekatooo ปีที่แล้ว +37

      @@user-gp1bt4vm3r exactly

    • @johnroe4551
      @johnroe4551 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Something tells me you can't prove that lmao

    • @user-gp1bt4vm3r
      @user-gp1bt4vm3r ปีที่แล้ว +74

      @@johnroe4551 Unless, you're getting 100% success rate with every single girl you flirt with in every single country you've been in -- the ones who rejects you, probably see you as undesirable.

  • @manny8816
    @manny8816 ปีที่แล้ว +2742

    The interviewer is a sorcerer! No words said, yet the people he's interviewing are pouring their hearts out. For real tho, this was actually quite refreshing to have a discussion where the host is purely listening and we just get to hear, uninterrupted, the guest's thought process. Love it.

    • @felixmboya1586
      @felixmboya1586 ปีที่แล้ว +119

      Power of being a good listener

    • @tosinyusuff9483
      @tosinyusuff9483 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      Or could it be that they rarely have people walk up to them for interviews since they are people of color so having someone of color walk up to them to talk to them and talk about real issues affecting them in Korea kinda made them more comfortable?

    • @manny8816
      @manny8816 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@tosinyusuff9483 Ay good point.

    • @alaosodiq4626
      @alaosodiq4626 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Lol there cuts between the videos

    • @manny8816
      @manny8816 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@alaosodiq4626 Read everything I said. The host just listens without interrupting and jumping in.

  • @amina-ed1nt
    @amina-ed1nt ปีที่แล้ว +537

    As a brown person, I'm quite heartbroken over how a lot of people treat black people just because of their race. They could have so much to give and people don't find it good enough because of their skin colour? Man if black people set out to get revenge they would have enough heartbreak inside them to set the world on fire.

    • @skagraw2
      @skagraw2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This happens within same race and similar skin color too. So nothing to fuss about it.

    • @lovyd
      @lovyd ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@skagraw2yes it is we deal with pure hell and it sucks

    • @Vieen1810
      @Vieen1810 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@skagraw2 You are full of sand.

    • @christopherstein2024
      @christopherstein2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What if they set out to get revenge?? The black dude straight up said he doesn't date anyone but black, no what if needed. Everybody knows about black people doing it too. It's the same thing and who really cares? Let people fucking date who they want. And when you are going to a different country maybe don't have the expectation that people there just have been waiting for foreigners with a different culture to come around so that they can date them. You are never going to be happy if you think you are entitled to being loved by strangers.
      The tall girl prefers tall people, maybe korean guys prefer korean people too..?
      Like she said you need to keep your self respect and not define yourself by what others think. And you should also not define who you date by what others think. Look for someone that wants you. If they don't want you, you are not going to negotiate a relationship.

    • @devinmosley6060
      @devinmosley6060 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Your right and that's actually what about to happen within the next 10 years

  • @alfonsowillock5801
    @alfonsowillock5801 ปีที่แล้ว +4214

    It is really sad to see how people discriminate against black people and use it as excuse by saying it is what they see on tv or social media. But when they see the same thing about white people it doesn’t change they view of them.

    • @akdns
      @akdns ปีที่แล้ว +67

      내가 tv에서 본 흑인들의 모습은 항상 동양인을 때리거나 죽임 난 흑인들 무서움

    • @2mac_mini952
      @2mac_mini952 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      does’t change their view of them* Maybe they have stereotypes because yall cant even use proper grammar

    • @alexandriadean7100
      @alexandriadean7100 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@2mac_mini952 who is this "y'all' that you're referring to? proper grammar or not having a stereotype about a race isn't ok and cannot be justified whatsoever. you're obviously a weirdo.

    • @michelleforte8669
      @michelleforte8669 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯

    • @joseph3036
      @joseph3036 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because white people are known to be coming from wealthy developed nations. Asians respect wealth and prestige more than anything.

  • @thaUnWavering
    @thaUnWavering ปีที่แล้ว +670

    As a black man, I honestly grew up believing we were the most beautiful humans on Earth. I think this is why I've never been disappointed or upset that another race/culture is not interested in me/us. I just see it as me becoming more aware of the world but never been disheartened. And it never caused me to enjoy a place any less. As long of the food is good and people offer me respect (which I return).

    • @houstonsportsfan242
      @houstonsportsfan242 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I used to think that my culture's people is the most beautiful too, then i realized that God doesnt want us to think that. #respect

    • @rogar0x785
      @rogar0x785 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      "most beautiful human on Earth'' for real? That point of view is bad don't neglect other race beauty

    • @thaUnWavering
      @thaUnWavering ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@houstonsportsfan242 I guess its only okay if we are talking about Angels. cause the bible identifies a most beautiful angel

    • @thaUnWavering
      @thaUnWavering ปีที่แล้ว +25

      @@rogar0x785 So not neglecting would be saying "everyone is the most beautiful"? my words did not put anyone down, I did not say I am more human, a better human, more capable, less capable, or entitled to anything. No one is neglected by my words. Maybe you are simply more comfortable with the idea of blacks and/or other groups fawning over european features or something

    • @rogar0x785
      @rogar0x785 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@thaUnWavering " I honestly believe that my race is the most beautiful in the world" what the you call that?

  • @QueenDavidCreative
    @QueenDavidCreative ปีที่แล้ว +477

    Just go to Korea and enjoy the food lol

    • @KelahCash
      @KelahCash ปีที่แล้ว +38

      😩😂🤣 period.

    • @justinabenson7229
      @justinabenson7229 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Period lol

    • @almamater9346
      @almamater9346 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Exactly 🙄😂

    • @injeolmi2675
      @injeolmi2675 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      I go there quietly buy my skincare and nct albums comes back to my hotel or chill at the cafe alone but for first timers korean subway is going to be difficult

    • @jimmyweathersby327
      @jimmyweathersby327 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Facts💯

  • @priscilla8068
    @priscilla8068 ปีที่แล้ว +305

    I want to visit South Korea one day because it's such a beautiful place, this dating stuff doesn't bother me at all because I prefer being single and I live in a country where I get judged for choosing to be single so SK doesn't sound too bad lol. I do feel bad for people who are interested in having relationships with Koreans but I think its a bit weird to go to a country for the sole purpose of being in a relationship with the people from that country. Things like that have to happen naturally otherwise you'll be heartbroken or end up being partnered up with the wrong person for the wrong reasons.

    • @Ryanhaugland
      @Ryanhaugland ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Preach. !

    • @WealthnWonders
      @WealthnWonders ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Can we date beautiful ❤️💖❤️. U being single is a choice and I respect that. After hearing many stories negative stories of people who are in a relationship will make u wanna stay single... But there's another side of it. That comes when you meet the right person. From your comment I see that u are a nice person. Can we be friends.

    • @selinakorkorlartey5950
      @selinakorkorlartey5950 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes sister single ladies club all the way

    • @Jenny-lt1rv
      @Jenny-lt1rv ปีที่แล้ว

      👍👍

    • @lwkee7143
      @lwkee7143 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truth 🤍

  • @Rebel_Soul
    @Rebel_Soul ปีที่แล้ว +2152

    We as Blk ppl are discriminated against everywhere by everyone,wether it’s in the open or quietly. Remember that bros & sistas

    • @Boomy2nicce
      @Boomy2nicce ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol who tf cares get over it and enjoy life

    • @Rebel_Soul
      @Rebel_Soul ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@Boomy2nicce obviously you do. Thanks for commenting….😏 works every time

    • @MiyokoNijiMatsuhana
      @MiyokoNijiMatsuhana ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @BadBlood_TheCommonGround ma'am

    • @adekunlevictor3432
      @adekunlevictor3432 ปีที่แล้ว +107

      @BadBlood&TheCommonGround heard of freedom of movement

    • @Spokentruths725
      @Spokentruths725 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      @BadBlood&TheCommonGround he said everywhere so where do you suggest he go then?