Give Her The Freedom To Follow Through or Flake Out & Disappear Forever
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 8 ก.พ. 2025
- Why you should give women the freedom to follow through on your plans or to flake out and disappear forever.
In this video coaching newsletter I discuss an email from a viewer who went out on a date with a girl he really liked that he met online. The date seemed to go well, but she pulled out her phone during the date, possibly because she was bored or not that interested. He asked her to put it away and she smiled at him and did so. She sometimes was touching him during the date, but when he went for the kiss at the end of the night, she gave him the cheek. However, she texted him the next day and he tried setting up a 2nd date. She is supposed to get back to him. He asks my opinion if she’s really interested or not.
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Yep, I always did this.. when all else fails, throw the ball in their court, and their interest level will be the outcome. What ever happens, GOOD 👍
Online dating is a crap shoot. Most women are on there plotting their next branch swing, trying to get their confidence back through attention after a breakup; selling OF and generally doing everything but dating for real. And the ones that are looking to meet in person typically have the illusion of so many options that you simply get lost in the fray.
For these reasons, it feels like a genuine miracle for most guys when they even get her to agree. Let alone actually show up. Then you still have to pass her tests on the date. And even if the date goes well, you're still contending with a potential ex, the guy she's thinking about leaving, and other suitors that she's seeing that week (or even the same day).
So it takes extreme patience and an unattached attitude to really make it through the highs and lows of dating online. But rest assured if you get her on a date, it's usually not your looks at that point. Keep your game and looks tight, and adopt the aforementioned attitude because online dating is a bumpy ride, and not for the feint of patience.
@@GodIsMyEverythingNow AMEN. As a fellow man of faith, I appreciate the spiritual encouragement. And I hope other men will also see this as such. Dating becomes much more layered when God is involved. And our decisions become more difficult as we try to do God's will; because it will often conflict with our fleshly desires.
If you find that your current relationship isn't it for you but you have a hard time leaving; ask God to make a way out and to give you the strength to do so. God bless.
True, been using dating apps for two years, met different girls from there but the neurons in my brain that are responsible for patience have been completely demolished.
You're absolutely right gentlemen, with the help of corey and guidance in the comment section, the picture is getting clear, trying to understand women's behavior
Some women will not kiss on first date (somewhat structured). However, they are quite normal after that so it's not necessarily a bad thing if they reach out to you later from my experience.
I'd even say it's not a bad thing at all if they don't. If it's that easy to kiss a woman or sleep with her very early on, she's probably easily assessible. I'd think twice about getting serious with a woman who gives herself to me after just 1-2 dates.
It’s a new bus 🚎 every 15 mins. If it’s not her idea to get together and you’ve asked more then twice…….
It’s time to go chill at the bus stop and never reach out again.
In the event she does; make a date and get off the phone. ☎️
I've seen this problem too with Hinge and other dating apps. These girls just want to text and really don't have the desire to actually go out. They have all these guys texting them and I've had a few actually tell me they just like the attention.
That’s why I always save time and bring up the date ASAP. There’s no need to talk for hours or days. She can decide for herself within a short period of time whether you’re the kind of guy she’d want to meet out in person or not
Agreed, just ask for the date, saves so much time… Corey’s “id love to see you, when are you free to get together” is the golden line
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If people are never called out for flaking / sticking to their word then there is no reason for them to change and not calling them out sends the signal that you tolerate that.
Doesn’t matter calling them out… women don’t care
People like that don’t care
That's true@zz__
@@cryptopharmacist7983 exactly, they usually gaslight if u call them out for saying something and not doing it
The moment he mentioned actress. I knew it was game over for him. LOL
@blair5475 because Actresses are the most narcissistic women I've ever met and dated in my life. I've learned my lesson.
HI I'M COACH COREY WAYYYYYYNE 😂😂😂❤
Women like this i put in the game player category, every experience ive had they act intrested back off then come back and play the game again harder cause they see i walked away and when i decide to shoot my shot a second time they dissappear and act shocked i was intrested
Honestly, if a girl is on her phone during our date, I wouldn't even bother calling her out on it. Because why would I? What is that gonna accomplish? If she's on her phone, that means she's bored and she's already not very attracted to me, so telling her to put her phone away is not magically gonna make her attracted to me. Calling her out on it achieves nothing. If she was attracted to me and eager and excited to spend time with me, she wouldn't be on her phone in the first place.
While your points make sense, it's a weak position to take, for your own sake. I would call her on it for the sake of having a spine and some self-respect. No attachment to the outcome. Chances are she may well suddenly grow some attraction for you seeing that you are willing to set a standard and not give a fuck about risking upsetting her by doing so. And if she don't like it, who cares, then it proves even more so that she ain't interested
Call her out by walking away. Actions speak louder than words.
Both! Call her out then walk away. That is some time wasting bull shit..
most couples are on their phones while on dates.
You don't understand strength testing and a woman's need for dominance. how often do you hear women say they need a man to put them in their place and this is your response to that.
Coach, you a Godfather to our 3% man community.
Coach Corey almost at 500k subs!! Congrats!
Thanks for the Video Corey, i‘m in the exact same situation right now. Your timing is perfect!
Guys what i wanted to add is, i have been in this situation a few times this year and what Corey does not mention, or doesnt speak enough about, is numbers.
And mostly, 8 times out of 10 you wont be able to get her on a second date in the described or similar situations. Its unlikely. Corey is spot on in his Video, as always! But if the second date doesnt come effortlessly, its not good. So adjust your hopes and thoughts. Keep your cool, dont get butthurt and move on.
Corey you are the master!
I gave another girl the no-contact treatment, with the full intention of not talking again (before I heard about Corey). Two months later she’s gotten in contact with me and let me know that she was sorry and that she broke up with her boyfriend in hopes to make amends… not even the girl that I was wanting to pursue (which of course I am also practicing No-Contact with) 🧘♂️
Great video! The coach always has advice topics that are relevant to female inconsistent behavior
The writer is right that some women only want to text, but if her level of attraction is at least a 5, she'll try to make an effort.
I went out with a girl last week. I wasn’t sure but she turned out to be pretty great. She said “Next time, we’ll have more to talk about.”
When I suggested a few days, she gave me a soft commitment. I gave her options for a next date and she said “I’ll let you know early next week.”
She never did and I don’t feel bad about it. Someone genuinely interested wouldn’t do it
Dude.. Read the book 5 more times. If your high value, you don't chase YOU ATTRACT. Corey puts this on page 198 dude "“It is power. It is confidence. It is danger. It is leadership. It is mystery. It is the feeling: I don’t think I could ever get my way with that guy"
I give a grace period for the phone, second time thou, I'm paying the bill and I'm out, if you have your s**t together, you are coming from abundance. You always have something better to do with your time.. make her regret her mistake. You're a 3% man. You think you can pull that s**t with James Bond? A Tom Cruise?
Corey thank you for the newsletter. Do you still have interest in running for president someday?
You can pay YOUR bill and dip out. She can pay her own.
READ THE BOOK, nuff said.
I have the same experience , we had a really good time , I went for the kiss and I got the cheek , 30 minutes later I got a text , telling me thanks for a lovely date , food was delicious but company was better , I let it go and didn't reply , that was a week ago , we will see what's next
did you get a 2nd date?
Coach says to reach out at least once a week in the beginning of dating
Long time viewer and avid reader coach, what's your plan for 500k sub special?
I took her phone out of her hand on one date she got upset and I called her a phone addict! Another day we were in a bad storm and she was on her phone while driving she lost control of the car because she wanted to share something with me. She got the message that day!
Thats the in and out gameplay going on.
Thank you
This is the way…
you want someone to flow through life.
Yo Coach!
I love the Corey woman voice I am sure that is how exactly how this chick sounds. 😄
What the email submitter said it's true, girls these days text too much and I do think the book and some of your advices are a little bit outdated in that area.
Excuses. Don't give those types of women the time of day, then.
@@mister-zen8491 bro, have you ever dated a 19 year old? Im dating one (i am 30), and they use their phone for everything, like, its part of their nature, you would be naive or way too outdated to think they shouldnt text you or that you shouldnt text them, they even get mad and take it personal if you dont reply back, its a generational thing.
If you follow everything to a T you will come off as robotic. Ideally you want to have the overarching ideas and then be able to implement them dynamically based on the scenario. That way you can be more playful while still funneling things your direction.
I've found you to be correct, but later I realized the detail in the comment above mine allows for this.
Yes and peanut butter cookie
The guy in the mail didn’t say the girl was disrespectful through out the date while being on her phone. She only opened it once and he flipped out on her. When she later that day was thinking about the date, that one moment stood out to her and not in a good way! She probably put him in the “wanna be alpha male douche” category. Plus it doesn’t seem like she had high interest to begin, maybe in the 5-6 category, after his reaction it went to 3-4 hence the cheek he got at the end. Remember women look for the slightest things to reject a guy even Corey himself says that.
She shouldn't be on her phone unless it's an emergency. It's okay to set boundaries
I have a really hard time right now, my girlfriend broke up one week ago. We were drinking wine and she was just sitting with her phone so i told her. She got really angry. Last wednesday she met a guy in the apartment where we lived 2 hours alone (red flag). She said there were «just friends»… After i spoke to her about the phone the doorbell rang. Of course she didn’t know who was on the outside. 10min later she left and was out 3 hours. After she came home we fell asleep, and the day after she picked a fight about nothing and then she broke up with me. That night she had sex with her «friend». Still i am really struggling with this. I really love her, but i will never take her back.
It's normal to feel pain and struggle after this, but with time, you will see that she really did you a favor and that it's good she revealed herself to be a terrible person earlier instead of years further down the road.
She eliminated herself. Check please!
@tomahawk8890 yup! What he should of done the moment she broke up with him, is walk away and delete all contact with her, number social media anything involving her, pictures everything gift you have of her get thrown out. She is pretty much dead to you, and move on.
@@tomahawk8890I’m going out on some new dates really soon. I think that it’s good for me «My ex belongs to the streets»😂😂
She sounds like a very high quality woman that holds amazing values from her family. She did you a favor. Time to find someone far far better.
She's toxic. She knew what she was doing and picked a fight hoping you would react so she could claim you were an ass. When women go off the rails like that. Don't react and remove yourself. She doesn't value you or care about you and is trying to get rid of you for the other guy.
I watched by accident my ex stories on Instagram, after almost 1 year of no contact.
I was watching the stories like a zombie, and boom.
That means that i broke no contact in her vision?
Why do you even have an ex of a year on your instagram? 1 year of no contact means your relationship is super duper over, she probably dated 10 guys in that spare time anyways. If she was interested she’s contact you in the future, but by that time you should already be dating other women and not care about her reaching out or not.
I had a woman on a dating app, who I had not seen before give me her cell and said she was free this week and I could come round to hers, So I said: "Sounds good Wed, at 6 works for me". Then she texted "or maybe coffee, up to you." Then I thought she might be having doubts about having someone she had not met before know where she lives, so I said. " Let's do coffee near you" and I suggested a place. That was 4 days ago and no reply. Was there a better way to handle this?
@@blair5475 If that was the intent then she would have got back to me to meet up.
"Vomit inducing" is my go-to strategy :D
LMAO 8:05
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