This is for everyone. If the person youre on a date with is being a jerk, don't be afraid to stand up and walk away. They have to be let known that their behavior is unacceptable. Leave them where they sit, they can be a diq to the chair.
I had a neighbor (R.I.H.) he took this beautiful woman on a date. She was Miss Brazil or something like that. He took her to a very nice restaurant and came home VERY early. I just looked at him and cocked my head. I guess he could see I was thinking...why are you back so soon? He told me that this woman talked to the wait staff like shit, treated people as if they should kiss the ground she walked on. He didn't even let her get her appetizer before he told her that her behavior was ugly and took her home. He said she was shook. I was proud of him.
I am sooo glad you set old girl straight on race. It’s a preferences. Some people like chocolate, others like vanilla, even strawberry. Some will eat Neapolitan ice cream. It’s a preference. I’m black with light color eyes and 4c/ heck 4d hair. I guarantee master was in the slave corridors hunchin (as Big Mama use to say) on the female slaves. I love my black men. It is a preference. I guaranteee there are men who would not date me because I’m not black enough. IJS. Many blessings and Happy Mothers Day!!!
When I was young, I ended up in a relationship where I was constantly walking on eggshells. She became more and more aggressive. That relationship lasted maybe a month. I eventually told her we should no longer see each other, and she told me, because I didn’t tell her face to face, it wasn’t over and hung up. I just blocked her and kept it moving.
Great story man, I'm glad to see I'm not the only guy who has had these experiences. For a long time I thought maybe it's just me but to hear another guy had dealt with the same makes me feel better about myself. Keep the content coming man love it.
I really hope she went to the counseling. It will help her to sort out her thoughts and feelings. It really helped me to put my thoughts in order and more clearly so that when I had normal conversations with people, it made sense when I spoke.
I've worked with a Karen once... 1 week of heck, Black American woman. She had a lot of masculine energy, manipulative, and lazy! She worked for me, and agreed to my requirements. Job interview feminine and positive. After that, the bull was manifesting. So, I cut back her hours, and then I fired her, and it was the best decision ever. Then I hired an African woman, hard working, respectful, feminine. She understood the assignment!
Hil-ARIOUS! 🚩🚩🚩😀I was smiling the whole time. You’re a good story teller. I’m not so I appreciate people who are. This was classic. I’m glad you had the date or I wouldn’t have had the laughter I needed today. I also appreciate you being respectful and not using profanity. I also appreciate your style of talking on your videos like we’re just buddies hanging out chatting away:). It’s laid-back and fun. ☺️🙂🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩😑😯
The best part of this experience hopefully was coming to the conclusion that you have to stop dumbing down to the level of those around you. You're too smart for that! I always try to learn something positive from every experience I have. Even and especially the bad ones bc learning something positive can only make me a better person and less angry and/or upset by the bad experience. Not to mention staying in control of my reactions completely removes any control a negative person has or wants to get. Thank you for sharing this experience with us! I appreciate your willingness to be so open for the sake of helping your subscribers 🧡
I've been married 11 years now, and my wife tends to unintentionally exaggerates her stories. If the stories involve me, I often correct her (if it's just us). She doesn't like this. I'm a literal person. I believe: say what you mean and mean what you say.
My wife would do the same thing and if she didn't like someone's opinion or POV, she'd imitate them in a nasty, shrill voice. I pointed it out to her and asked if she imitates me that way to other people. She said she didn't, but...
"I hope she's watching this video so she can learn some things she needs to work on" As if. She's probably going to make a counter list and fire it off at you. Because obviously if there are things wrong with you, that totally excuses her own flaws and she doesn't need to take responsibility for her toxic behavior. (I have some unfortunate experience with Karens too, man.)
I love how Karen is asking why do black men date outside their race all the while she is proving her own question as to why black men are dating outside their race. Ironic isn't it?
That "in the next one" with your expression was great!! I'm sorry you had to go through that but you got to test your patience and remind yourself not to dumb yourself down. Thank you A Different Perspective that was a fun story.
The reason she doesn't know her price range and got upset is because someone hasnt bought it for her yet. Youre supposed to offer. They hate having the burden of their needs placed on them.
Those are people who you have to walk on eggshells around and it’s so unhealthy. I’ve cut off lifelong friendships over this because I can normally get along with everyone but these people are toxic.
Your change the subject question made me laugh hysterically. She probably thought you were trying to suggest that she should talk about what just occurred. It is difficult to deal with people that are confrontational without reason or purpose. Very interesting. She is probably calling you a narcissist, but that is what narcissists usually do. She definitely has some biases. The funny thing is, she is not responding to your calls is because you didn’t show up for your skit, it was so important to her. Funny story. Moral of the story…dating is scaring, especially for mindful, positive people who just want to add to others. Thanks for sharing. Keep doing you. 🙌🏽👏🏽
I dated a guy that was a male karen. it lasted 4 months. He was crazy would get angry for no reason. At first I was dismissing the bad behavior, the uncalled for snide and disrespectful comments. He was argumentative and combative for no reason. Along with the volatility of his personality from one moment to the next. finally I was done because life is hard enough as it is and I had to let him make it. I don't know what was wrong nor did I have the patience to fix it.
Actually i think you shouldnt say anything. You should see what her natural response is and then decide if you want to be with her. Let her do her thing and then decide
I don't think girlie was trying to see what she can and can't get away with ... she sounds like she wasn't raised right or her friends/family have allowed such atrocious, toddler behavior. She probably hasn't been checked before or flat-out doesn't know she's wrong.
Man Art, don't give up dude. It took me 32 years to find the one. The sad thing was it took many many wrong decisions and bad relationships to get to the one that I was meant to be with. You are such a great guy I know there is one out there for you. Too bad MOST of the women out there have bought into this modern-day narrative of what an actual woman should be. Also too bad that MOST of the women these days are bat crap crazy lol. Sorry if this offends some of your female viewers.
Dude she sounds nuts. I couldn't have gone more the first phone call with her but man when she snapped at you why arnt you in your car? For some reason that part rubs me the wrong way so much. Just found your channel btw, hope all is well keep up your work sir.
As a reminder, if you talk to some Africans, they feel disrespected by Americans calling themselves African American because we we were not born in Africa. So I would encourage all: have conversations to listen and understand (active listening) not to judge and waiting for them to stop talking so you can respond. IJS. Many blessings!
I've talked to several Africans and they all said the exact same thing about U.S. born Black's calling themselves African Americans. Some of them even went the extra mile and were straight up rude and obnoxious to Black people. 😅
Also anyone does that whole "get crazy because you didnt understand my moronic statement, and didnt explain well enough of my own shit" I walk straight the fuck away lol
As a white man dating a black woman and having a preference for non-white women it's definitely both ways. My girl doesn't have that preference, she's very attracted to black men but in her experience it's almost exclusively native African black men and she doesn't like that culture. On my actual point, we get a lot of weird looks and comments. It's more common to see a black man and a white woman, it's like nobody bats an eye at that. But the comments we get from older people are very polarized. Older white people of both genders almost exclusively give a disapproving look but rarely make a comment. Black men give the same look but will often make a comment about it not being right. Older black women though, other than her mom who doesn't like me on a personal level, nothing but praise. One time at an Applebee's I think it was our first date this elderly black woman was staring at us all night and saying how sweet we were and how cute we looked together. At the time I didn't know how to take that, but she came up and explained her story that she grew up in South Africa and was never able to be with her childhood crush and they left for America when they found out she was pregnant and wanted their baby to be somewhere they could be with anyone they wanted without judgment.
Hi new follower fan.. love your videos! I'm coming over from your other channel and had to check you out over here! And I'm loving it.. your honest and positive and I love the vibes you give!
A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE I guarantee when she was having this convo with you in the restaurant her voice was set at top volume 🤣😂😅 Anyway you bare the fruit of the spirit, long suffering… Shalom✌️and Agape 💕
When I was living in south central, I felt kind of like that Karen. I was complaining that all hair commercials were of white women and how it was brainwashing young black girls to get weaves and extensions. She does make a point about commercials never having black woman +white man. Same about Asian man and black girl. Case in point: Aaliyah had a movie with jet Li. There was no kissing no romance no sex. 90% of movies at that time depicted sex. Or hinted towards it. Especially hip hop films and films with rappers/R&B singers. There is no love for men that aren’t black in hollywood. We never get sex scenes with black women. No kissing. Nothing. Also Asian men never have sex in movies. It’s just martial arts
Romeo Must Die wasn't really about romance. It was an action movie. Aaliyah's role in the movie was to bring Black people to the theater because of name recognition. Bad example.
The point is YES these things are issues. But so what. If you’re spending your time bringing that stuff up on a date and just generally being insufferable because you’re a justice warrior then you’re failing YOURSELF. The best way you ,as an individual who wants to be with someon, can contribute to the fight is to raise a family with your values and morals. So they can continue it and grab more ppl. Yu can’t change the world alone. It doesn’t mean yu give up. It just means yu don’t argue with a dude who ur on a date with about it because you wanna argue.
🐦Um I've worked in hospitals for decades. Seen absolutely every body of every race. Point is that nobody wants to see a small Asian part. It's NOT sexy. I have never seen a well stacked Asian man.
My girl has spent the last 30 years having most of the conversation in her head before I am included. No anger though. LOL I just smile and she knows immediately I have no idea what she is talking about. Used to irritate me and now we find it entertaining.
This came on auto-play after a Taylor The Fiend video while I was rollin a blunt and this shit made me laugh so hard i ripped a wrap for the first time in 15 years😂
I thought the samething. I certainly would not be letting becky yell at me let alone shanisha. Either way they both would have been banished on the spot. I have a zero tolerance for such non sense.
@@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 same here as well. One thing about women, you let one thing ride, you can never correct it again. Once they on it, let them know what time it is.
SO 7 minutes in and I am now reevaluating my life fore I have come to the conclusion that my mom is a Karen! To be honest I've been known my mom was a Karen since she stole my scholarship money out of my account to pay back ppl she owed....She swears I said that She had this conversation with me but it never happened & sure asl wouldn't even consider giving to her if she asked me; So I know damn well this never happened and mom has all the 7 qualities you mentioned my gf on the other hand has 3........ anyways much love from D.C. your content has gotten me through all this!!!
Lord have mercy, it was like I was reading my own story. I love my mom as my mom....but I realized that she was a Karen also. I moved to a new state for my masters....didn't know anyone, no car, had nothing. She insisted on my scholarship stipend going into a joint account that I had when I opened my first account as a child and was my primary account. The first time I realized that she had more issues than I realized was when I had taken the bus two hours to Walmart in over 90 degree weather to get groceries. I got in line, swiped my card- nothing was in there. NOTHING. She had taken the entire stipend out and insisted that I told her I would help her. I said mom I said I would HELP you but you left me with nothing, I have to live! And it happened more than once. She even forced me to take out more student loans to help her- I told her mom I just know I can't take out anymore loans, I have to pay this back and her words back to me, verbatim were- WELL FIGURE IT OUT, I NEED HELP! I ended up spending an extra year in school and extending my thesis research, and taking bullshit classes just to qualify for more f-cking loans to help her. I felt so used, and didnt enjoy my masters experience at all. It was a complete blur and to this day I will never know how i got through that program. I went to school OUT of state to get away from the nighmare that was in that house I grew up in (won't get into that), and even still a lot of it still wormed its way into the life I was trying so hard to create with peace and tranquility- something I was starved for, that I craved. It has taken me years to escape the financial aspect of being beholden to my mother, but I've finally did it. The other Karen qualities are still a work in progress- the guilt trips, hinting for favors and spending excessive amounts of time, alwaysssssssss talking about the past, me serving as her perpetual sounding board for her mistakes in life and basically wanting me to act as a pseudo-husband. For anyone reading this, listen- you can love your parent(s) and still set boundaries for them. Hell I'm still learning to this day. But the sooner you start, the sooner you will tale back ownership of your life. Parents don't get a free pass to rule your life just because they GAVE you life. And once they realize that as well, even if it is rocky or they show their ass, they WILL learn one way or another. You have the right to create the life you want for yourself- just like they did. If their life didn't turn out the way they thought it would, that's not your fault. Love them but prioritize your health and happiness. They can choose to be a part of that or not. Peace and love, yall.
Your mom is not a Karen. She's a criminal. You need to press charges and get away from her asap. I listen to a therapy podcast and a financial podcast, and when parents exhibit this type of behavior, it never stops! It only gets worse. One thing you could try to get your money back is to tell your mom to pay you back or you will press charges. But from the cases I've listened to with this same issue, it won't work. You'll have to press charges. If you don't want to, because you feel bad doing, fine. Just know that this is the behavior you'll put up with for the rest of your mom's life.
Right this some stuff I'm trying to also learn to stop doing you don't need multiple red flags. They only put one stop sign at the end of the street!!!!! My good men 🛑
As someone with bipolar I think she’s really going through something, she might not even understand the extent to her damage and thoughts. Mental illness ain’t no joke. I just hope this doesn’t effect your future if someone might have issues it all ranges and it seems she hasn’t gotten help yet I can tell you she could become a very different person after help which I hope for. You had a lot of patience and you seemed very mature about it and I appreciate that coming from someone who has issues. Wishing you luck in reading them red flags faster in the future lmao. !
Wow that's exactly what I said bi polar or personality disorder and it's not something to make fun of either its serious and needs constant work to live with. I wish you the very best on your journey to stay blessed stay strong
When we look up and see a rainbow in the sky, we think of all the beautiful colors in it. Why can't we look around at the World and see all the beautiful colors in it? Life would be so plain if all we ever saw was one color.
Why can’t we realize that God gave us the rainbow as a covenant to Noah that he will never again flood the earth. THAT is what the rainbow represents. What you are talking about is wrot from ungodly lifestyles and disrespect towards Him. So basically, you wish evil people to be good. I. Sorry what? Look at what is going around now, people are letting their true hatred on internet. People need to come back to God. Back to living right. Only then can they have peace and love you speak of. My old church was black and white and we loved each other with the Love of Jesus. There was no hate, nobody was asking racist questions or making people feel uncomfortable We were United. As children of God. THAT is how you achieve that of which you speak #FACTS
That Story on your date Karen, please stay far away from Narcissist and bi polar Karen who's quite confused about life from her past relationships. Maybe that's why she disclosed she'll be seeing Psychiatrist tomorrow. You had plenty of Red flags but you continued to see her.
Candace Owen beautiful black woman married to a white man. I don't know what it is about your statement today you made me cry I cannot stand the division or country is in I was a military brat we were all Creed race religion we're still friends today 25 years later live all across the country from each other do anything for each other but guess what a lot of people in this circle have friends outside of our group that are racist and say why do you stay in touch with that black or that white person I hate racism I'm a Christian woman God made us all
Karen’s don’t have a filter between their brain and mouth which causes their problems! I also feel if two people like each other and wish to date or marry it shouldn’t matter what their ethnicity is, happiness is all that matters!
I don't know if anyone is reading this or listening, but I'm giving up a street drug addiction (heroin) and these are my first moments/days of attempting to live life without it. The only reason I'm even posting this is because isolation fosters addiction and, obviously, the opposite of isolation does not. Thank you to anyone who gives a like or responds. This is my way of reaching out. Much love 💘 ❤
Unpopular opinion: ALL women have attitude in them. I hate the narrative of black women are this and that and latinas are “spicy” (tf is that?) Literally that’s a woman’s trait. We all have attitude. Interesting story though, I hope you find love in a black woman!
What you have described in this video, I have experienced it first-hand and know it well. You have dodged a cruise missile, brother. Men and women like this are unable to perceive reality as it is. They hear things that were never spoken, remember things that never happened, and are compulsive liars to themselves and others. Even if she has all the (other) qualities you desire in a woman, you will never be able to communicate with her unless and until she is "fixed," and that may never happen. Because communication is so essential, that means any relationship you attempt with this woman is doomed to fail.
Man I've dealt with way too many females like this in the past. This whole story was a goldmine. Sorry you had to deal with that foolery but god it was hilarious getting to laugh and remember the absolute mental purgatory I used to be in just associating with these types of people. Makes my victory of freedom so much sweeter.
AOK bro sorry you had to go through all that mess 😂 I don't wanna be a Karen, but I gotta say one thing. "Solicitated" is not a word, the proper word is "solicited". Hope that helps brother, just wanna help you sound better! Keep up the great content and hopefully the next date goes better 😜
I have two white male coworkers that are married to black women. My daughters are biracial. Their biological father is black. They both dated black men and white men, but both are now married to white men. People are going to be attracted to who they are attracted to. The only reason there isn't more biracial dating is racist peer pressure from friends, family and society.
She sounds like she been to college. I know i heard similar things in my experience. Its a place of likeminded people patting each other on the back. Its sad
As a white male, I myself don’t like white women. I’ve had so many negative experiences while dating white women, it’s left me with no desire to date a white women. However, the Latinas are some spicy women. I ve dated quite a few Latinas and I feel like they are more committed to the relationship. Plus the food is a huuuge bonus.😂😂😂 I will say this though, the Latinas I’ve been with so far, are the extremely motivated, hard working, and intellectually mature.
I just started the video but I see your date is the sole karen that didn't like your video. lol. Dope video and this makes me glad I stopped dating haha
This is for everyone. If the person youre on a date with is being a jerk, don't be afraid to stand up and walk away. They have to be let known that their behavior is unacceptable. Leave them where they sit, they can be a diq to the chair.
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I wasn't afraid to walk away!!
I had a neighbor (R.I.H.) he took this beautiful woman on a date. She was Miss Brazil or something like that. He took her to a very nice restaurant and came home VERY early. I just looked at him and cocked my head. I guess he could see I was thinking...why are you back so soon? He told me that this woman talked to the wait staff like shit, treated people as if they should kiss the ground she walked on. He didn't even let her get her appetizer before he told her that her behavior was ugly and took her home. He said she was shook. I was proud of him.
@@Morgan24_7 Nice!
You are right! Modern women are so angry and are always ready to argue.
You did not miss a bullet, you missed a whole ass intercontinental ballistic missle.
Rofl
Boy, she must've been good looking for you to let so many things slide. You're patient as F🤭
I think he just went with it as a experiment.
As a joke, I wanna say "he did it for content"
😂😂😂
Been there done that 🤣🤣
I know that feeling, I'm proud that he didn't take her serious and cut her off
I don't know how you sat through that because just hearing it is exhausting. Bless your heart and patience.
I am sooo glad you set old girl straight on race. It’s a preferences. Some people like chocolate, others like vanilla, even strawberry. Some will eat Neapolitan ice cream. It’s a preference. I’m black with light color eyes and 4c/ heck 4d hair. I guarantee master was in the slave corridors hunchin (as Big Mama use to say) on the female slaves. I love my black men. It is a preference. I guaranteee there are men who would not date me because I’m not black enough. IJS. Many blessings and Happy Mothers Day!!!
Honestly, if I was guy and a woman spoke to me like that, Id go home, grab my wallet and go by myself to a bar and never bother to call her again.
Yes ma'am cause that's really what we do lol! Like ummmmm idt so
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I'm impressed how you keep a positive attitude about the experience
You went on this date knowing full well she was mental, as a sacrifice for your audience. Dedication 👏
When I was young, I ended up in a relationship where I was constantly walking on eggshells. She became more and more aggressive. That relationship lasted maybe a month. I eventually told her we should no longer see each other, and she told me, because I didn’t tell her face to face, it wasn’t over and hung up. I just blocked her and kept it moving.
If you are the smartest person in the room, then you aren't learning.
You just escaped a life of keyed cars and boiled bunnies, my friend.
There are women that will boil water with sugar in it and then toss it on you. I can’t imagine how bad those burns are, esp mixed with sugar
Its all fun until one of them get jail time. That's very serious and evil
Boiled bunnies?
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Reference to the movie "Fatal Attraction".
@@BlackieNuff Oh... yikes. Thanks for clearing that up lol
I bet the two people who disliked this video were Karens lmao.
Now you cant see the dislikes anymore. Thanks youtube nobody asked for that
@@keithroberts175 38 dislikes at the moment..... 38 Karen's lmao
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@@bigredfella13 what about now?
Great story man, I'm glad to see I'm not the only guy who has had these experiences. For a long time I thought maybe it's just me but to hear another guy had dealt with the same makes me feel better about myself. Keep the content coming man love it.
I really hope she went to the counseling. It will help her to sort out her thoughts and feelings. It really helped me to put my thoughts in order and more clearly so that when I had normal conversations with people, it made sense when I spoke.
I've worked with a Karen once... 1 week of heck, Black American woman. She had a lot of masculine energy, manipulative, and lazy! She worked for me, and agreed to my requirements. Job interview feminine and positive. After that, the bull was manifesting. So, I cut back her hours, and then I fired her, and it was the best decision ever. Then I hired an African woman, hard working, respectful, feminine. She understood the assignment!
Hil-ARIOUS! 🚩🚩🚩😀I was smiling the whole time. You’re a good story teller. I’m not so I appreciate people who are. This was classic. I’m glad you had the date or I wouldn’t have had the laughter I needed today. I also appreciate you being respectful and not using profanity. I also appreciate your style of talking on your videos like we’re just buddies hanging out chatting away:). It’s laid-back and fun.
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The best part of this experience hopefully was coming to the conclusion that you have to stop dumbing down to the level of those around you. You're too smart for that! I always try to learn something positive from every experience I have. Even and especially the bad ones bc learning something positive can only make me a better person and less angry and/or upset by the bad experience. Not to mention staying in control of my reactions completely removes any control a negative person has or wants to get. Thank you for sharing this experience with us! I appreciate your willingness to be so open for the sake of helping your subscribers 🧡
Facts I'm learning this as well
Agreed. You don't have to dumb yourself down to communicate clearly with people less intelligent than yourself. Being authentic is best.
Amen
OMG I'm exhausted just listening to this. How in the world did you deal with this crap!
I've been married 11 years now, and my wife tends to unintentionally exaggerates her stories. If the stories involve me, I often correct her (if it's just us). She doesn't like this. I'm a literal person. I believe: say what you mean and mean what you say.
My wife would do the same thing and if she didn't like someone's opinion or POV, she'd imitate them in a nasty, shrill voice. I pointed it out to her and asked if she imitates me that way to other people. She said she didn't, but...
Great to see your perspective on karen's but with smile on your face
True
"I hope she's watching this video so she can learn some things she needs to work on"
As if. She's probably going to make a counter list and fire it off at you. Because obviously if there are things wrong with you, that totally excuses her own flaws and she doesn't need to take responsibility for her toxic behavior.
(I have some unfortunate experience with Karens too, man.)
I love how Karen is asking why do black men date outside their race all the while she is proving her own question as to why black men are dating outside their race. Ironic isn't it?
You are a good one!! Because it would have been over the first time I talked to her over the phone. I do not have time for narcissist.
That "in the next one" with your expression was great!! I'm sorry you had to go through that but you got to test your patience and remind yourself not to dumb yourself down.
Thank you A Different Perspective that was a fun story.
This story is still Crazy hearing it the second time bro you dodge a bullet
It sounds like he dodged an atomic bomb 😬
The reason she doesn't know her price range and got upset is because someone hasnt bought it for her yet. Youre supposed to offer. They hate having the burden of their needs placed on them.
She was just saying without saying that you should buy her a camera. You know same way you ask us to buy you a chair with out asking 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You dodged a bullet bro, in fact you dodged a whole firing squad by the sound of it 😂
Those are people who you have to walk on eggshells around and it’s so unhealthy. I’ve cut off lifelong friendships over this because I can normally get along with everyone but these people are toxic.
Your change the subject question made me laugh hysterically. She probably thought you were trying to suggest that she should talk about what just occurred. It is difficult to deal with people that are confrontational without reason or purpose. Very interesting. She is probably calling you a narcissist, but that is what narcissists usually do. She definitely has some biases. The funny thing is, she is not responding to your calls is because you didn’t show up for your skit, it was so important to her. Funny story. Moral of the story…dating is scaring, especially for mindful, positive people who just want to add to others. Thanks for sharing. Keep doing you. 🙌🏽👏🏽
She has to go see a psyciatrist after she dates you? 28:50 I almost choked on my food when you said that.
I dated a guy that was a male karen. it lasted 4 months. He was crazy would get angry for no reason. At first I was dismissing the bad behavior, the uncalled for snide and disrespectful comments. He was argumentative and combative for no reason. Along with the volatility of his personality from one moment to the next. finally I was done because life is hard enough as it is and I had to let him make it.
I don't know what was wrong nor did I have the patience to fix it.
You got to say something the first time she snaps at you like that. She’s seeing what she can and can’t get away with
Totally correct and been there done that.
Exactly what I said. In fact, first time it happened, I would have been out.
Actually i think you shouldnt say anything. You should see what her natural response is and then decide if you want to be with her. Let her do her thing and then decide
I like this dude but...he's too much of a "good guy ". Women can sense it from a city block away...Romantic men get trashed by these modern women
I don't think girlie was trying to see what she can and can't get away with ... she sounds like she wasn't raised right or her friends/family have allowed such atrocious, toddler behavior.
She probably hasn't been checked before or flat-out doesn't know she's wrong.
That “Karen” sounds like she’s boardering on a Narcissistic behavior and she’s trying to gaslight you.
Man Art, don't give up dude. It took me 32 years to find the one. The sad thing was it took many many wrong decisions and bad relationships to get to the one that I was meant to be with. You are such a great guy I know there is one out there for you. Too bad MOST of the women out there have bought into this modern-day narrative of what an actual woman should be. Also too bad that MOST of the women these days are bat crap crazy lol. Sorry if this offends some of your female viewers.
Dude she sounds nuts. I couldn't have gone more the first phone call with her but man when she snapped at you why arnt you in your car? For some reason that part rubs me the wrong way so much. Just found your channel btw, hope all is well keep up your work sir.
As a reminder, if you talk to some Africans, they feel disrespected by Americans calling themselves African American because we
we were not born in Africa. So I would encourage all: have conversations to listen and understand (active listening) not to judge and waiting for them to stop talking so you can respond. IJS. Many blessings!
I've talked to several Africans and they all said the exact same thing about U.S. born Black's calling themselves African Americans.
Some of them even went the extra mile and were straight up rude and obnoxious to Black people. 😅
People date who they want to date. People love who they love. In the end who ever you have chemistry with is what honestly matters.
Also anyone does that whole "get crazy because you didnt understand my moronic statement, and didnt explain well enough of my own shit" I walk straight the fuck away lol
Good show, good explanation of the argument, well done, thanks
You put a lot more time on her than she deserved, walk away from the madness
I'm 11 minutes into this story, and I'm thinking you should have gotten up and walked out.
I used to give people the benefit of the doubt, now when people show me who they are, I BELIEVE them and exit immediately
This was a good storytime. Dodging the crazy like neyo dodges bullets.
Watching this video while your wearing the hat "noooope, not me" 😂😂😂
As a white man dating a black woman and having a preference for non-white women it's definitely both ways. My girl doesn't have that preference, she's very attracted to black men but in her experience it's almost exclusively native African black men and she doesn't like that culture. On my actual point, we get a lot of weird looks and comments. It's more common to see a black man and a white woman, it's like nobody bats an eye at that. But the comments we get from older people are very polarized. Older white people of both genders almost exclusively give a disapproving look but rarely make a comment. Black men give the same look but will often make a comment about it not being right. Older black women though, other than her mom who doesn't like me on a personal level, nothing but praise. One time at an Applebee's I think it was our first date this elderly black woman was staring at us all night and saying how sweet we were and how cute we looked together. At the time I didn't know how to take that, but she came up and explained her story that she grew up in South Africa and was never able to be with her childhood crush and they left for America when they found out she was pregnant and wanted their baby to be somewhere they could be with anyone they wanted without judgment.
Most Karens are narcissists...but not all narcissists are Karens,
they're also Kevins and, Kerstins or Kanyes and Kardashians.
Lmaoo the whole k
If he went through all this, she must’ve been fine. He fell for the booty
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A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE
I guarantee when she was having
this convo with you in the
restaurant her voice
was set at top volume 🤣😂😅
Anyway you bare the fruit of
the spirit, long suffering…
Shalom✌️and Agape 💕
This sounds almost identical to the last woman I dated. She hid it for a couple weeks but all the same exact behaviors finally came out.
When I was living in south central, I felt kind of like that Karen. I was complaining that all hair commercials were of white women and how it was brainwashing young black girls to get weaves and extensions.
She does make a point about commercials never having black woman +white man. Same about Asian man and black girl.
Case in point: Aaliyah had a movie with jet Li. There was no kissing no romance no sex.
90% of movies at that time depicted sex. Or hinted towards it. Especially hip hop films and films with rappers/R&B singers.
There is no love for men that aren’t black in hollywood. We never get sex scenes with black women. No kissing. Nothing. Also Asian men never have sex in movies. It’s just martial arts
Romeo Must Die wasn't really about romance. It was an action movie. Aaliyah's role in the movie was to bring Black people to the theater because of name recognition. Bad example.
The point is YES these things are issues. But so what. If you’re spending your time bringing that stuff up on a date and just generally being insufferable because you’re a justice warrior then you’re failing YOURSELF. The best way you ,as an individual who wants to be with someon, can contribute to the fight is to raise a family with your values and morals. So they can continue it and grab more ppl. Yu can’t change the world alone. It doesn’t mean yu give up. It just means yu don’t argue with a dude who ur on a date with about it because you wanna argue.
🐦Um I've worked in hospitals for decades. Seen absolutely every body of every race. Point is that nobody wants to see a small Asian part. It's NOT sexy. I have never seen a well stacked Asian man.
My girl has spent the last 30 years having most of the conversation in her head before I am included. No anger though. LOL I just smile and she knows immediately I have no idea what she is talking about. Used to irritate me and now we find it entertaining.
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I think everybody should date whoever they’re attracted to. She sounds insane
This came on auto-play after a Taylor The Fiend video while I was rollin a blunt and this shit made me laugh so hard i ripped a wrap for the first time in 15 years😂
AOK @ 16:39 ... "Now, let's get to the actual date." Me: THERE WAS STILL A DATE?!?!?!?!
The point is that she's making a big deal out of nothing. That's a hallmark of a horrible relationship.
Bro you have a lot of patience lol I would’ve been out after the first incident
When he said Karen, I really thought a Becky type Karen not a Shanisha type Karen.
I thought the samething. I certainly would not be letting becky yell at me let alone shanisha. Either way they both would have been banished on the spot. I have a zero tolerance for such non sense.
@@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 same here as well. One thing about women, you let one thing ride, you can never correct it again. Once they on it, let them know what time it is.
😂 Homie has me dying!! Said girl if im responding like this! You make no sense! Derp!
I’m so surprised you lasted that long talking to her that long.
SO 7 minutes in and I am now reevaluating my life fore I have come to the conclusion that my mom is a Karen! To be honest I've been known my mom was a Karen since she stole my scholarship money out of my account to pay back ppl she owed....She swears I said that She had this conversation with me but it never happened & sure asl wouldn't even consider giving to her if she asked me; So I know damn well this never happened and mom has all the 7 qualities you mentioned my gf on the other hand has 3........ anyways much love from D.C. your content has gotten me through all this!!!
damn sorry to hear bro
TAKE YO MOMMA TO COURT
Damn
Lord have mercy, it was like I was reading my own story. I love my mom as my mom....but I realized that she was a Karen also. I moved to a new state for my masters....didn't know anyone, no car, had nothing. She insisted on my scholarship stipend going into a joint account that I had when I opened my first account as a child and was my primary account. The first time I realized that she had more issues than I realized was when I had taken the bus two hours to Walmart in over 90 degree weather to get groceries. I got in line, swiped my card- nothing was in there. NOTHING. She had taken the entire stipend out and insisted that I told her I would help her. I said mom I said I would HELP you but you left me with nothing, I have to live! And it happened more than once. She even forced me to take out more student loans to help her- I told her mom I just know I can't take out anymore loans, I have to pay this back and her words back to me, verbatim were- WELL FIGURE IT OUT, I NEED HELP! I ended up spending an extra year in school and extending my thesis research, and taking bullshit classes just to qualify for more f-cking loans to help her. I felt so used, and didnt enjoy my masters experience at all. It was a complete blur and to this day I will never know how i got through that program. I went to school OUT of state to get away from the nighmare that was in that house I grew up in (won't get into that), and even still a lot of it still wormed its way into the life I was trying so hard to create with peace and tranquility- something I was starved for, that I craved.
It has taken me years to escape the financial aspect of being beholden to my mother, but I've finally did it. The other Karen qualities are still a work in progress- the guilt trips, hinting for favors and spending excessive amounts of time, alwaysssssssss talking about the past, me serving as her perpetual sounding board for her mistakes in life and basically wanting me to act as a pseudo-husband.
For anyone reading this, listen- you can love your parent(s) and still set boundaries for them. Hell I'm still learning to this day. But the sooner you start, the sooner you will tale back ownership of your life. Parents don't get a free pass to rule your life just because they GAVE you life. And once they realize that as well, even if it is rocky or they show their ass, they WILL learn one way or another. You have the right to create the life you want for yourself- just like they did. If their life didn't turn out the way they thought it would, that's not your fault. Love them but prioritize your health and happiness. They can choose to be a part of that or not. Peace and love, yall.
Your mom is not a Karen. She's a criminal. You need to press charges and get away from her asap. I listen to a therapy podcast and a financial podcast, and when parents exhibit this type of behavior, it never stops! It only gets worse. One thing you could try to get your money back is to tell your mom to pay you back or you will press charges. But from the cases I've listened to with this same issue, it won't work. You'll have to press charges. If you don't want to, because you feel bad doing, fine. Just know that this is the behavior you'll put up with for the rest of your mom's life.
She’s making my head hurt and you’re just telling us the story! Whew!
15:16 "a guy in is right mind, an alpha male like myself would not put up with this"
And yet, you did
No he gave her a chance to see if maybe in person she was normal
@@dawnbreak3299 it’s all we can do. Ask questions listen and move on if it doesn’t seem right.
She was probably really pretty. Guys will put up with a LOT of crazy, because of how she looks. Which is the downfall of most 'alpha' males.
@@dawnbreak3299 Like she would magicly become another person! c'mon!
I came across this comment right when he was saying it lol
damn art don’t keep going after the first couple red flags 🚩
Right this some stuff I'm trying to also learn to stop doing you don't need multiple red flags. They only put one stop sign at the end of the street!!!!! My good men 🛑
As someone with bipolar I think she’s really going through something, she might not even understand the extent to her damage and thoughts. Mental illness ain’t no joke. I just hope this doesn’t effect your future if someone might have issues it all ranges and it seems she hasn’t gotten help yet I can tell you she could become a very different person after help which I hope for. You had a lot of patience and you seemed very mature about it and I appreciate that coming from someone who has issues. Wishing you luck in reading them red flags faster in the future lmao. !
Wow that's exactly what I said bi polar or personality disorder and it's not something to make fun of either its serious and needs constant work to live with. I wish you the very best on your journey to stay blessed stay strong
It’s also not an excuse to be a dick to people. Keep yourself shit in check.
I'm so glad I stumbled across your channel, I love listening to you, so informative and engaging, for a young men like me and I knew you through Roma
When we look up and see a rainbow in the sky, we think of all the beautiful colors in it. Why can't we look around at the World and see all the beautiful colors in it? Life would be so plain if all we ever saw was one color.
Why can’t we realize that God gave us the rainbow as a covenant to Noah that he will never again flood the earth.
THAT is what the rainbow represents.
What you are talking about is wrot from ungodly lifestyles and disrespect towards Him.
So basically, you wish evil people to be good. I. Sorry what? Look at what is going around now, people are letting their true hatred on internet.
People need to come back to God. Back to living right. Only then can they have peace and love you speak of. My old church was black and white and we loved each other with the Love of Jesus. There was no hate, nobody was asking racist questions or making people feel uncomfortable
We were United. As children of God.
THAT is how you achieve that of which you speak
#FACTS
Sounds like BPD. Very difficult disorder to deal with.
That sounds like the beginning of a "Gass-Lighting" experience
I need to get my Karen qualities in check. My poor fiancé 😳
You are a good one. You not having your wallet was a sign lol
Loved this story. Can you do it again, just for the entertainment? 😂
That Story on your date Karen, please stay far away from Narcissist and bi polar Karen who's quite confused about life from her past relationships. Maybe that's why she disclosed she'll be seeing Psychiatrist tomorrow. You had plenty of Red flags but you continued to see her.
Candace Owen beautiful black woman married to a white man. I don't know what it is about your statement today you made me cry I cannot stand the division or country is in I was a military brat we were all Creed race religion we're still friends today 25 years later live all across the country from each other do anything for each other but guess what a lot of people in this circle have friends outside of our group that are racist and say why do you stay in touch with that black or that white person I hate racism I'm a Christian woman God made us all
If I find a content creator who's making a skit reenacting this story. I'll know it's her🤣
I saw this on your other channel, I agree with u 💯% but I still have to laugh 🤣🤣
Karen’s don’t have a filter between their brain and mouth which causes their problems!
I also feel if two people like each other and wish to date or marry it shouldn’t matter what their ethnicity is, happiness is all that matters!
😆😅🤣😂 I bet you turned your head so fast you almost got whiplash!
Love your content and it help me get thorough some hard time emotionally thank you
Psychiatrist's prescribe pills, therapists are the ones whom you talk to. Sounds like you dodged a bullet. Lol
Man.. that's a whole headache! She sounds a little bi polar. Hopefully she becomes a better version of herself. In the meantime... 🏃🏾💨
I don't know if anyone is reading this or listening, but I'm giving up a street drug addiction (heroin) and these are my first moments/days of attempting to live life without it. The only reason I'm even posting this is because isolation fosters addiction and, obviously, the opposite of isolation does not. Thank you to anyone who gives a like or responds. This is my way of reaching out. Much love 💘 ❤
Unpopular opinion: ALL women have attitude in them. I hate the narrative of black women are this and that and latinas are “spicy” (tf is that?) Literally that’s a woman’s trait. We all have attitude. Interesting story though, I hope you find love in a black woman!
What you have described in this video, I have experienced it first-hand and know it well. You have dodged a cruise missile, brother. Men and women like this are unable to perceive reality as it is. They hear things that were never spoken, remember things that never happened, and are compulsive liars to themselves and others. Even if she has all the (other) qualities you desire in a woman, you will never be able to communicate with her unless and until she is "fixed," and that may never happen. Because communication is so essential, that means any relationship you attempt with this woman is doomed to fail.
Man I've dealt with way too many females like this in the past. This whole story was a goldmine. Sorry you had to deal with that foolery but god it was hilarious getting to laugh and remember the absolute mental purgatory I used to be in just associating with these types of people. Makes my victory of freedom so much sweeter.
🐈Mental purgatory. That's a good one.
AOK bro sorry you had to go through all that mess 😂 I don't wanna be a Karen, but I gotta say one thing. "Solicitated" is not a word, the proper word is "solicited". Hope that helps brother, just wanna help you sound better! Keep up the great content and hopefully the next date goes better 😜
Karen Fisher...
We are all one race. The Human Race!
Did you wear that shirt on the date lol jk love your vids bro
Damn bro u were down bad in that moment🤣
Plot Twist: She was method acting and got really into character.
Don't worry about it man, just keep going and keep your head up
I have two white male coworkers that are married to black women. My daughters are biracial. Their biological father is black. They both dated black men and white men, but both are now married to white men. People are going to be attracted to who they are attracted to. The only reason there isn't more biracial dating is racist peer pressure from friends, family and society.
She sounds like she been to college. I know i heard similar things in my experience. Its a place of likeminded people patting each other on the back. Its sad
As a white male, I myself don’t like white women. I’ve had so many negative experiences while dating white women, it’s left me with no desire to date a white women. However, the Latinas are some spicy women. I ve dated quite a few Latinas and I feel like they are more committed to the relationship. Plus the food is a huuuge bonus.😂😂😂 I will say this though, the Latinas I’ve been with so far, are the extremely motivated, hard working, and intellectually mature.
I dated a girl like this. She was bipolar and it sounds like she maybe the same.
I just started the video but I see your date is the sole karen that didn't like your video. lol. Dope video and this makes me glad I stopped dating haha
Finally I get to see this video 🤣
Eagerly anticipated lol
if she went out more often she would see a black woman and white man dating as much as the other way around