This is what living in a hypersexual Era does.... this is why Ive always distanced myself from most modern thinking. I've got my man who provides and I handle the home. I do his laundry, cook, clean, take care of our kiddo, pay the bills, run the errands, etc etc. My dude goes to work and financially provides. WE do the yard, WE fix things around the house, WE built a life together, and I'd have it no other way. I'm doing what God intended for me to do!
She has never spent more on a man than a man has spent on her. It's like the man who spends 300 for his girlfriends birthday and he gets a 10$ candle or some crap lol. Not all women but so many. I have experienced it first hand, however didn't bother spending more than 50 because I knew a lot less was coming back. Not going to waste my money.
yea because society doesn't teach women how to be submissive, cooperative, feminine etc, they teach women that they are intitled to anything they want because they have the v-box, but us men from the time we where little boys, we where taught how to be providers and protectors and how to treat women, but the women weren't taught how to treat a man, thats why we have these problems with women, especially when the movies throw men under the bus like the color purple with its over exaggerated notion that men are abusive and bullies towards women and its bad to be submissive like Celi or you will get treated like her.
This is why I'm single, these kind of bimbos are all over the place, not even trying to date anymore. Ever since I got divorced, I got my money straight, fixed up my condo, got a new truck, got a raise, and I must admit, I rather be single and live the way I want, than be with a woman that I can't trust and be miserable because I have no trust in them.
Dont lose hope. Not all women are like this. I want NO MAN's money, I've got my own. My own house, car, job, money. The only thing a lot of women want in a man, is to be on the same level. We want an equal partnership in life. To build together, grow together and enjoy everyday life together. Don't let these chicks' shitty perspective on men, make u cynical of all women. You'll find her 😁
Get your money up king, looks fade, pussy dry out, your time effort and resources are forever. Unless you find a real one to hold you down it ain’t even worth it.
Amen, Eve! That's what I'm saying! She has no real self honor, at all! If she did, she'd try to understand how hard a typical every day man has to work for their family and WOULD TRY TO HELP with that too!
@@honorafox4709 Amen Sister! Any self respecting individual would want to have their own money, if you don't you can find yourself stuck in bad relationships. (I've seen it happen with many woman I know). Any relationship I've been in I've always contributed, even when they've insisted on paying, I've also insisted on always keeping my own apartment just incase. You can't put your whole lifestyle in the hands of someone that can pull the plug on the payments whenever they feel like it and leave woman like this "girl" to go back home to her parents or another simp. It's just good morals and self respect. Blessings to you from Scotland. 🙏🏴🌹
@@EveHyland-in8jb9ti9y funny because that’s exactly what happens to men majority of the time after a divorce woman rarely leave a relationship without something financially.
This Blu Jasmine chick is really making us women look like straight up gold diggers when not all of us are. It was just cringing hearing her talk about having her ex pay for everything. Its disgusting! I'm pretty much a traditional type of woman. And I'm also a person that don't expect a guy to pay for everything. My man and I have been together going on 11 years and we always pay for things evenly. We split the rent down the middle. Granted he pays for the electric and cable but I pay for the car insurance and the food shopping. We try to keep things quite even. If we go out to eat, sometimes he will pay the bill and sometimes I'll pay. So far things have worked for us!!
@@bryanwatson9975 You won't. The best place would be an Amish community. But you'd have to convert to their way of life and live with them. If you take her with you, assuming the parents even let you, she WILL be corrupted by modern vvomen. And most vvomen are gold diggers. They just try to hid it behind a socially acceptable name like "he has to be ambitious", "driven", "motivated", "career oriented". All synonyms for "he has to make a lot of money". Also, vvomen are drawn to older men. Older men are generally further along in their careers, which means bigger paychecks. The problem is that most men don't look past the surface of those statements and take them at face value. They don't take the time to critically evaluate them and call vvomen out on their bs. Which is a mistake. Never listen to what vvomen say, watch what they do.
Same, I never want to have to rely on a man to support me, I want to make my own money so I never feel trapped. Different if you've been with your man for years and have a system like you're looking after your babies whilst your husband works or vice versa.
@@danielread8549 to talk in stereotypes men are raised to produce exportable income, it's expected of them to be an attractive partner, women learn how to "distribute" exposable income "fairly" Hence the strong shift towards socialist policy since women got the vote. The thing women tend to forget.. something that somewhat works on a small scale, like the nuclear family, doesn't for millions or hundreds of millions of people
Traditionally speaking , men were the provider and protector . Women were the homemaker....the helper to the husband . The man provided the house etc and the woman made it a home for both of them and their children . A real man will bring out the best in his wife and his children , a real woman will do the same for her husband and children . They are a partnership , working together , each bringing their own strengths for the common good of their relationship and family . Building a life together . The war between the sexes is pointless ...just robbing yourself of a potentially amazing future .....weakening both sexes and destroying the family unit in the process.....and as a consequence, society at large .
You are right, traditionally this was the norm. However it made sense for those times. Women were viewed as lesser than men in most aspects. Men didn’t think women were capable of performing the same task as men. Whether that’s physically or mentally. We know that’s not the case, even if physically we are superior for the most part. Now women have fought for equal rights. They earned their place in the work force. Which means now women are capable of fully providing for a family on their own. So now a man doesn’t have to be the bread winner. Women can do just as well. So this world view is outdated. Their should be an equal partnership in all things. Now if you and your spouse decide to live this way, fine. That works for y’all. But it shouldn’t be expected
@@yoboyrob201 that's all well and good but what you've said is exactly the thing that's destroying the family unit. No matter what she achieves and how capable she is a woman will never be able to perform the role a man does in the family unit. A woman will never be able to teach her son how to be a man as well as a man could, just like a man could never teach his daughter how to be a woman as well as her mother could. Just because a woman can be mum and dad doesn't make it the ideal situation. Seeing women as the lesser sex was never an integral part of the family unit and so us being in a new era does not outdate the ideal model of the men being the provider and protector and the women being the nurturer.
Women hold opinions like that until their looks go down then they are eternally single with cats while the men they looked down are happy and women she considered less than herself are able to get and maintain a good relationship.
This why I hardly get mad at these women!! For every entitled woman there’s always a man who helped her get that way. It could be her dad or some other dude!!
I honestly believe her when she says she represents the bad bitches, the pretty girls, the party girls, the instagram hoes, the egirls, and everyone that participates in thot culture. And this woman is a genius for taking advantage of this. If simps would put their money away and spend it on themselves instead of these women they would go away overnight.
@@FatalCharade Facts. It starts with men putting their foot down and thinking with their heads up top and not their heads down below. Although, it might take years for that to happen.
@@thezigster31 dude it's so bad. Tell me why I once saw a video here where this e-girl took this dude straight to the ATM machine just so he can empty out his bank account and give her the money. I've seen videos where dudes would sign legally binding contracts just so they can hand these bitches money and get nothing back in return.
Her: It's always been the man to go out and get the money while the women took care of the household Me and other's with Common Sense: 1) Your not his woman anymore, 2) Your not even living with him anymore, and 3) The very household you said women are supposed to take care of you threatened to destroy if he kicked you out Survey says your not a real women. Proverbs 14:1 The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands.
@@isaacelijahalford2578 fuck that book. Kai comment was dope. The it read and the verse at the end!!! That shit smack if you about that Bible life. Or it should cause it smack for me
My Mom always taught me to work for what I want and never depend on anyone else. I couldn’t even imagine depending on someone so much. It baffles me how females can still have this mentality. My hubby said that he knew I was wife material on our very first date when I went to grab the check. I never wanted anyone to pay my way, I just wanted someone to love and respect me as much as I love & respect them. Plain & simple.
I'm not materialistic, only the plastic ones are like this. If a guy is dumb enough to tolerate this then he is never going to be happy. We and I speak for real woman can make you happy and you don't have to be rich 😉
@@TinaP.2269 Sorry but I'd have to disagree you look for attention and when we give it and expect some in return and get shut down... Then on the other hand then if we neglect you we are the bad guy so what is it.
Ya know, I used to be attractive but due to circumstances beyond my control, IE facial surgery for cancer, open brain surgery, I am no longer considered attractive. Honestly it shouldn't matter what my face looks like if I'm a good person. But in today's world it seems like it matters more than it ever has before and it saddens me! My worth is more than my body!
See it like this, it matters simply because attraction is important and sexual attraction etc. best you can do is eat as good as you can and get a good as body as you can
@Lynn Durbin I agree with you 100% that's all that seems to matter now a days and it's sad. Because if you don't value yourself or view yourself as beautiful ect then no one will. Even though you had traumatic things happen to you your still beautiful no matter what.
It's sad how much intimacy has faded away in today's age, I've got no interest in short-term flings though this has seemingly become the majority of dating. Not saying intimacy is dead, I'm saying it's not as common as I think it should be.
@Benjamin Muller exactly everything you said was on point and definitely that intimacy stuff don't even exist and it makes me laugh at people like her who would claim they want that real love but once that dude comes around with the urge the confidence and the courage to give her the real love oh look she doesn't want that from the "good guy" she rather want it from the guy she likes but once the guy she likes Does her wrong she'll go on a raging rant about how she hates men but won't admit that she was pathetic for rejecting the dudes that liked her
The way she was responding to everything he said made it seem like she agreed, but just didn't realize that almost everything he was saying was a negative thing
Men. You are the leaders. He is right. Been with my husband for 20 years. I sum up our family dynamic he is the Manager of our family and I'm his Team Lead. I didnt always feel this way. When we got into this set up....omg things changed for the best. Our married was never bad but now its amazing. Im a happier person. He is happier.
Women calling attention to certain parts of their bodies to get attention, and then getting mad when they get that attention. Thank you so much for calling this out.
You got that right bro. To many men are suckered into treating women like queens. I told my now wife of 10 years I’ve not a lot of money you take me as I am.
My motto since high school: "Girls are a distraction." I intended to graduate and that wouldn't have happened if I was involved with a chick who baby-trapped me. To this day, no wife, no kids.
Keep your content going my man! You are a teacher. Teach these men how to lead women. You’re so right about giving too much to a woman without anything in return. I’ve had to learn that myself. Noticed women would stay distant when I gave or even offered them the world, but try hard to stay close when I wouldn’t budge.
Its a cycle my man, men raised by single mothers or no true masculine guidance tend to be the ones who support and condone the women who act like this. Its the result of the war on masculinity. That’s why I love seeing content creators like yourself, Kevin Samuels, and more starting to bring the conversation to light. Salute
Last time I heard of a woman expecting some kind of a monetary/material reciporcation in exchange for of a physical romp was a hoe, a hooker, a night walker, a prostitute. Now don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with prostitution, it's the longest standing profession, should be legal and taxed honestly (which would probably kill all this ish right here). Houses, cars, and the like never leave my name. If we done, you're gone. Period. Men, protect yourself, cause nobody else will.
This is one of the reasons boys need to have a good father or good father figure. These kids with just a mom and no male role models are being raised to think this is how you treat women. Put them on the pedestal and simp for them.
The only thing I can add to this is just one thing. These girls like her and the ones she claims to speak for are NOT the women that men want to take home to meet their family.
You do realize that the majority of men aren't simping like how they show it in social media. This like most of social media are spreading a bunch of false narratives and people are falling for it hook, line and sinker. Oh yeah I want to add that her story that her ex is still paying for her stuff is all cap. Show me the receipts of this still happening.
😂 Amen!!!! William J. Dove We've been schooling our Son's for Years they are 11 and 12yrs old now and we still having these in depth conversations with them 👁️. Please don't bring one of these type of women home to us(.)
This is crazy! The things coming from her mouth are so wrong and disgusting! I’m sure y’all fellas have to deal with this type and attitude a lot (I have 3 sons who are young men now) but that is not a real down to earth woman. Thankfully I have been married for 25 years so I don’t have to deal with all this bs but it should be a partnership, everyone pitching in and not materialistic! As a woman I have and do take care of the house, cook , clean, run errands, keep everyone on track and before a car accident made it to where I couldn’t work: I did ALL of that WHILE having a career and making the bigger paycheck! This is so unacceptable, all I can say if look for the real chicks and stay far away from the “pretty 10’s” fake asses.
Once the relationship ends the money ends, kick her ass out and take back the car. Those are perks of being in a relationship, once it ends the perks end. Leases can be terminated, cheaper to terminate the lease than to keep paying unless it's just 2 or 3 months.
Looks dont get you everywhere honey, I work with my man , my man runs this house , I take care of the kids cook clean there's gotta be respect for eachother love and understanding of eachother
Thank you for saying it's men's fault. We have nurtured this attitude. First one of these type of channels to acknowledge that fact and not just insulting and belittling those women. 10:09 I mean she is not wrong though. He wouldn't be nearly as "successful" as he claims to be without spending much if he was just an average looking dude
When adam said, “to exert some pressure to get something materialistic” The female said , “so we are not being used” (if i quoted it wrong ill fix it) At the end of the day she and other women are still being “used” whether you get something out of it or not. You are getting something materialistic that will hold no value so therefore the person who possesses the most materialistic things, at the end of the day are not valuable themselves. So we are back to square one. You giving your “beauty” to a man for materialistic things when those things hold no value. Its amazing that she she doesn’t think she is being used still😂
To put it out there, IF I was in a relationship like this and she wanted to keep the car, apartment/ home there is no way in hell they would be there or keep them. I would never pay after we are broken up. I'm 43 and single again after my ex left me for some younger dude. Do I pay or give her any kind of attention? Hell no. The same goes with this woman. I am not a bank or going to pay for someone else to enjoy the things I was/am paying for.
This woman is emotionally damaged by her past and by men who have only wanted her for her body so now she has given up all her morals and decided to use men the way they’ve used her. It’s not the correct way to go about it at all. She needs to fix the hurt inside herself and find a man that values her heart and sole not what’s in between her legs. The wrong way men are treating woman is building these type of wrong woman. This is also the outcome of our social media. Take a good look at the future.
@@Scaley_Reptile "Wrong place"? Did you listen to AOK? She literally reinforced for he said. This woman learnt that she could get things this way because of men. Men groomed her, at one point she mentions about being 13. 13. That's a little girl. A child. From that age, she's learnt from the people around her that her body is her value. She got a fancy car because of her body. How do you even change that mindset if that's all you've ever known? I get it, it fucking sucks, it's disgusting, it's disrespectful to men and women who want something real, someone real. A partner in life not a bank account and a leech. This woman started as a victim of her environment but now she is reveling in her situation and privilege.
I got my gf of 5 years a laptop and 7 months later we broke up and I STILL feel like a simp. And her ex is paying her shit for two years after they broke up? I feel SO much better now. Also he's the king of simps
Cause these 304s know that there are enough simps in the world to help her out, but that gap is closing in on these 304s today ...there time is running out,because more men are wising up.guess TH-cam was actually good for something 🤣
I feel we all keep trying to tell each other what our “roles” are. But that’s the Beauty of being human we have no roles. We’re intelligent enough to realize we can choose our own path. It doesn’t matter who’s providing or paying bills all that should matter is y’all care for each other and respect eachtother. Money shouldn’t be important, roles shouldn’t be important. If both partners are thinking of the other person everyone is happy. Just cause a human is not able to provide financially doesn’t mean they have no value. Remember at one point money didn’t exist, it could all be gone one day and then what will determine a persons value??
Saying there's no romance, of course there's no romance. The type of situation/relationship she described I've only seen in history books/documentaries when the king, emperor, or whatever noble happened to be in charge, would have a peasant sent to their bed and in return the girl's family got to be in charge of a village or something, and that's only if both the family didn't resist AND the girl was good in bed (and even then maybe). I bet she ain't trying to follow the rules that would go along with the relationship she's describing
Pretty privilege, such a joke. My first car was a 20 years old Mustang, I loved that car, it ran like a beast. I took care of it though, and in return it took care of me. Now that paint job on the outside…..bruh…it aged out. And the interior as beyond used and jacked up. I enjoyed being inside, but it had mileage for sure. Ladies, take that analogy and change your strategy. Winter is coming.
Blu Jasmine has been a lost cause in my eyes since she went viral saying she prefers a toxic relationship. YES, she is the chick who said that and now this
At this point, I don't even know whether she Being real or just trolling all of these TH-camrs for clout cause I can tell you there are still simps that will slide in her dm's even after hearing this and she must be reaping the benefits.
In response to standards she response by saying men have always been the ones to get the money and bring it back home....... what's your point? Men put in the effort to get the money. That doesn't have anything to do with what he just said. In fact she contradicts herself. She disagrees that womens standards have dropped, then she says women used to take care of the house and children, then she says women today provide attractiveness (what you are born with, takes no effort and doesn't help anyone else) and have no other values. I know we all expect this delusion but it still confuses me every time that anyone can be that oblivious to what their own mouthes are saying.
For me I ain’t even mad at her, it’s her ex that’s to blame on this one. He enabled her to do everything she’s doing and saying by still providing even when broken up.
Let’s keep it real this video is wrong in so many ways because of what Men and Women tolerate and identify as things of value of a person. She said it and You said it Her: pretty, privileged You: attractive women When people can get away from looks and what a person can do for them instead focusing on connection, spirituality, and energy of a person relationships would be solid and last long term. Additionally it would change the foundation of the relationship whereas looks would be the least priority. Not all attractive women think this way. Nor are women who are “less attractive” not worthy of true love. Everything is about ego which does nothing good for anyone.
1) gay women 2) stop using social media entirely 3) at 12:45 that is an inherently contradictory statement 4) rap, enough said 5) ex that pays all the bills... 6) self mental conditioning is VERY powerful
I also stop again at 4:54 to make this comment. I would like to point out that no when she or people like her want to say that one of the qualities they have to deserve what they get from someone else is that they are intelligent, I really would like that they don't show any such qualities. People who are intelligent show it by putting in something to help themselves and the people around them not leech off them without doing anything. If they were try to say that they are intelligent manipulators, than that too would be incorrect because they wouldn't be publicly announcing your wrong doing because that stupid.
The thing is, she's not at fault here. It's these dudes who validate them that are the problem. How you gonna blame this chick, who has a kid, YET, has a dude paying all her bills WHILE she dates another guy? I say she's winning if you ask me
AOK: “Women wear tights in the gym for the sole reason of wanting to impress guys.” Have you tried working out with baggy pants, dude? Not everything revolves around what looks good to men and as a woman I find it repulsive that you would parrot that to your fans, because that creates the perception that we’re all just sluts aching for action. Get over yourselves.
I can’t speak for every guy, but I and most others that I’ve seen work out in short, relatively thin and baggy sweats. They’re called that for us to literally sweat in. I don’t know if there’s a part of the “girl experience” that makes it uncomfortable, but most guys do just fine in them.
Actually I ALWAYS work out with baggy clothes lmao. And I was lifting alot more than anyone else and tried to in during the slow times.. I DIDNT WANT anyone looking at me... Skimpy is for POSERS male or female
@@ancientoflore6537 he does have a point tho. Some NOT ALL, do wear tight stuff to attract men. I've seen some women actually go to the gym in very tight clothes to attract attention.
i'm just gonna say it : SOME women NEED TO LEARN THEIR PLACE in a relationship !!! ... SOME women who don't know how to cook, don't know how to clean, BUT, don't want to learn how to do those things ? ... Then, woman, YOU NEED TO KNOW YOUR PLACE !!! ... She is a REAL HUSTLER !!! She KNOWS is wrong what she does, BUT, is not her fault that her ex keeps paying her bills, even after they broke up a long time ! ...
Sir, I commend you for your statement, and I agree. Men are leaders and they are apart of why woman are the way they are! Although women are responsible for their actions men are accountable for their leadership! Your the only man I have ever heard say this! That's the problem! Stop chasing after these women, and start treating them how you want to be treated.
I love everything you create and your point of view brother. If you're ever in North Carolina drinks are on me. Would love a long conversation with a like-minded man.
This is what living in a hypersexual Era does.... this is why Ive always distanced myself from most modern thinking. I've got my man who provides and I handle the home. I do his laundry, cook, clean, take care of our kiddo, pay the bills, run the errands, etc etc. My dude goes to work and financially provides. WE do the yard, WE fix things around the house, WE built a life together, and I'd have it no other way. I'm doing what God intended for me to do!
PREACH 💟 🙏🦋🙏
I’m glad you found your happily ever after.
And you'll always be WAY happier than these empty lay-backs will ever be.
God bless you both.
I know that's right.
Him: I’ve never spent more than $100 bucks on a girl
Her: That’s wild!
Me; No, honey, that’s normal life for regular, good people
You win 🎀
Why pay for something thats being givin away for free?
She has never spent more on a man than a man has spent on her. It's like the man who spends 300 for his girlfriends birthday and he gets a 10$ candle or some crap lol. Not all women but so many. I have experienced it first hand, however didn't bother spending more than 50 because I knew a lot less was coming back. Not going to waste my money.
@Kevin M ''deserving'' got ya '👍
yea because society doesn't teach women how to be submissive, cooperative, feminine etc, they teach women that they are intitled to anything they want because they have the v-box, but us men from the time we where little boys, we where taught how to be providers and protectors and how to treat women, but the women weren't taught how to treat a man, thats why we have these problems with women, especially when the movies throw men under the bus like the color purple with its over exaggerated notion that men are abusive and bullies towards women and its bad to be submissive like Celi or you will get treated like her.
This is why I'm single, these kind of bimbos are all over the place, not even trying to date anymore. Ever since I got divorced, I got my money straight, fixed up my condo, got a new truck, got a raise, and I must admit, I rather be single and live the way I want, than be with a woman that I can't trust and be miserable because I have no trust in them.
I totally agree with you my guy✊✊. And congrats on the raise.
Dont lose hope. Not all women are like this. I want NO MAN's money, I've got my own. My own house, car, job, money. The only thing a lot of women want in a man, is to be on the same level. We want an equal partnership in life. To build together, grow together and enjoy everyday life together. Don't let these chicks' shitty perspective on men, make u cynical of all women. You'll find her 😁
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@@theresak3795 You have your own house. What building together is left? lmao
Get your money up king, looks fade, pussy dry out, your time effort and resources are forever. Unless you find a real one to hold you down it ain’t even worth it.
This "girl" doesn't talk for all woman. Blessings. 🙏🏴🌹
Amen, Eve! That's what I'm saying! She has no real self honor, at all! If she did, she'd try to understand how hard a typical every day man has to work for their family and WOULD TRY TO HELP with that too!
@@honorafox4709 Amen Sister! Any self respecting individual would want to have their own money, if you don't you can find yourself stuck in bad relationships. (I've seen it happen with many woman I know). Any relationship I've been in I've always contributed, even when they've insisted on paying, I've also insisted on always keeping my own apartment just incase. You can't put your whole lifestyle in the hands of someone that can pull the plug on the payments whenever they feel like it and leave woman like this "girl" to go back home to her parents or another simp. It's just good morals and self respect. Blessings to you from Scotland. 🙏🏴🌹
She speeds for idiots not woman not real ones at that
@@EveHyland-in8jb9ti9y funny because that’s exactly what happens to men majority of the time after a divorce woman rarely leave a relationship without something financially.
Stay blessed
This Blu Jasmine chick is really making us women look like straight up gold diggers when not all of us are. It was just cringing hearing her talk about having her ex pay for everything. Its disgusting! I'm pretty much a traditional type of woman. And I'm also a person that don't expect a guy to pay for everything. My man and I have been together going on 11 years and we always pay for things evenly. We split the rent down the middle. Granted he pays for the electric and cable but I pay for the car insurance and the food shopping. We try to keep things quite even. If we go out to eat, sometimes he will pay the bill and sometimes I'll pay. So far things have worked for us!!
Were do I find a woman like that here in the U.S
@@bryanwatson9975 I'm sure they're out there!
@@bryanwatson9975 You won't. The best place would be an Amish community. But you'd have to convert to their way of life and live with them. If you take her with you, assuming the parents even let you, she WILL be corrupted by modern vvomen. And most vvomen are gold diggers. They just try to hid it behind a socially acceptable name like "he has to be ambitious", "driven", "motivated", "career oriented". All synonyms for "he has to make a lot of money". Also, vvomen are drawn to older men. Older men are generally further along in their careers, which means bigger paychecks. The problem is that most men don't look past the surface of those statements and take them at face value. They don't take the time to critically evaluate them and call vvomen out on their bs. Which is a mistake. Never listen to what vvomen say, watch what they do.
Same, I never want to have to rely on a man to support me, I want to make my own money so I never feel trapped. Different if you've been with your man for years and have a system like you're looking after your babies whilst your husband works or vice versa.
Absolutely Sis! I'm just like 🤔.....🤯😳😳😡🤬Sorry, tryin to behave...... Oh Lord....
Majority of men are broke yet a "man" is paying her bills. Alright.
Bully Maguire also must pay his rent.
@@dheerajmusic After he gets his door fixed
Well .. what do you think why men are broke?
Its funny though, more women are broke than men as far as I know.
@@danielread8549 to talk in stereotypes men are raised to produce exportable income, it's expected of them to be an attractive partner, women learn how to "distribute" exposable income "fairly"
Hence the strong shift towards socialist policy since women got the vote. The thing women tend to forget.. something that somewhat works on a small scale, like the nuclear family, doesn't for millions or hundreds of millions of people
Traditionally speaking , men were the provider and protector .
Women were the homemaker....the helper to the husband . The man provided the house etc and the woman made it a home for both of them and their children .
A real man will bring out the best in his wife and his children , a real woman will do the same for her husband and children . They are a partnership , working together , each bringing their own strengths for the common good of their relationship and family . Building a life together .
The war between the sexes is pointless ...just robbing yourself of a potentially amazing future .....weakening both sexes and destroying the family unit in the process.....and as a consequence, society at large .
Beautifully said
100%
I prefer we do it all together as 1💯
You are right, traditionally this was the norm. However it made sense for those times. Women were viewed as lesser than men in most aspects. Men didn’t think women were capable of performing the same task as men. Whether that’s physically or mentally. We know that’s not the case, even if physically we are superior for the most part. Now women have fought for equal rights. They earned their place in the work force. Which means now women are capable of fully providing for a family on their own. So now a man doesn’t have to be the bread winner. Women can do just as well. So this world view is outdated. Their should be an equal partnership in all things. Now if you and your spouse decide to live this way, fine. That works for y’all. But it shouldn’t be expected
@@yoboyrob201 that's all well and good but what you've said is exactly the thing that's destroying the family unit. No matter what she achieves and how capable she is a woman will never be able to perform the role a man does in the family unit. A woman will never be able to teach her son how to be a man as well as a man could, just like a man could never teach his daughter how to be a woman as well as her mother could. Just because a woman can be mum and dad doesn't make it the ideal situation. Seeing women as the lesser sex was never an integral part of the family unit and so us being in a new era does not outdate the ideal model of the men being the provider and protector and the women being the nurturer.
Women hold opinions like that until their looks go down then they are eternally single with cats while the men they looked down are happy and women she considered less than herself are able to get and maintain a good relationship.
Let life takes it's course for her. She'll find out much sooner than later.
Men need to stay on code and let her be alone but they wont
Nah she’s a lost cause 🤣🤣
I hope not. I hope she learns later and the GUYS learn sooner!
She may be a B now, but when she smacks that wall, she gonna be struggling.
This why I hardly get mad at these women!! For every entitled woman there’s always a man who helped her get that way. It could be her dad or some other dude!!
facts. you can either love a woman or understand her you cant do both
@@willsutton2235 Thats straight up horseshit
it could be their mother too
@@willsutton2235 thats cap
uhhhh the mom?
The amount of entitlement this girl has is INSANE
What is crazier is she isn't only women that thinks like this.
I honestly believe her when she says she represents the bad bitches, the pretty girls, the party girls, the instagram hoes, the egirls, and everyone that participates in thot culture. And this woman is a genius for taking advantage of this. If simps would put their money away and spend it on themselves instead of these women they would go away overnight.
@@FatalCharade Facts. It starts with men putting their foot down and thinking with their heads up top and not their heads down below. Although, it might take years for that to happen.
@@thezigster31 dude it's so bad. Tell me why I once saw a video here where this e-girl took this dude straight to the ATM machine just so he can empty out his bank account and give her the money. I've seen videos where dudes would sign legally binding contracts just so they can hand these bitches money and get nothing back in return.
Her: It's always been the man to go out and get the money while the women took care of the household
Me and other's with Common Sense: 1) Your not his woman anymore, 2) Your not even living with him anymore, and 3) The very household you said women are supposed to take care of you threatened to destroy if he kicked you out
Survey says your not a real women. Proverbs 14:1 The wise woman builds her house, But the foolish pulls it down with her hands.
Fuck the Bible but the way you structure this comment!!! God out here!!! The Bible verse at the end tho, killed it
I like how you dropped scripture
@@elCONQUEROR81 if that's how you feel then so be it
@@elCONQUEROR81 you aint had to violate the bible its right next to me it saw your comment and its offended
@@isaacelijahalford2578 fuck that book. Kai comment was dope. The it read and the verse at the end!!! That shit smack if you about that Bible life. Or it should cause it smack for me
This woman is living life on easy mode, just wait until those looks dry up and the wall comes for its due
Id say its already started the downward spiral.
What looks?
What rich man would ever want this as his prize?
A lot rich people spend money on dumb things. She one of them lol and other women like her actually get by in life cause of these rich people.
Prize? No.. she won't find a good man. But rich people will fuck and leave her
She in 10 yrs will be just another women wondering where the good dudes at.
What man, rich or poor, would want this as his prize?
a prize no, a napkin yes
My Mom always taught me to work for what I want and never depend on anyone else. I couldn’t even imagine depending on someone so much. It baffles me how females can still have this mentality. My hubby said that he knew I was wife material on our very first date when I went to grab the check. I never wanted anyone to pay my way, I just wanted someone to love and respect me as much as I love & respect them. Plain & simple.
Simply put, I’m staying single forever. I don’t need a relationship if this is the type of women in the world🤣
There are better woman in the world
@@sidire6892 far in between but no need to STAY single just have fun when it is your turn cuz it could be long or short 💯
I'm not materialistic, only the plastic ones are like this. If a guy is dumb enough to tolerate this then he is never going to be happy. We and I speak for real woman can make you happy and you don't have to be rich 😉
@@TinaP.2269 Sorry but I'd have to disagree you look for attention and when we give it and expect some in return and get shut down... Then on the other hand then if we neglect you we are the bad guy so what is it.
Why does her existing matters. Rapists murderers bad people , good people exist bro
Ya know, I used to be attractive but due to circumstances beyond my control, IE facial surgery for cancer, open brain surgery, I am no longer considered attractive. Honestly it shouldn't matter what my face looks like if I'm a good person. But in today's world it seems like it matters more than it ever has before and it saddens me! My worth is more than my body!
See it like this, it matters simply because attraction is important and sexual attraction etc. best you can do is eat as good as you can and get a good as body as you can
@Lynn Durbin I agree with you 100% that's all that seems to matter now a days and it's sad. Because if you don't value yourself or view yourself as beautiful ect then no one will. Even though you had traumatic things happen to you your still beautiful no matter what.
beauty is on the inside beauty is matter of the heart not the face
That's what you took away from this video?
@@ShaunHensley kinda exemplifies that
If her ex is still paying her bills, sorry bro put he’s a mug.
@@easter_sunday. Nah, it didn’t sound like it. The geezer is just a all round mug, and a thick one to boot.
he has to still be getting the cheeks
@@willsutton2235 he ain’t
this woman is a harpy, she even has the talons
It's sad how much intimacy has faded away in today's age, I've got no interest in short-term flings though this has seemingly become the majority of dating. Not saying intimacy is dead, I'm saying it's not as common as I think it should be.
That's the problem love turned into lust society got people thinking being a cuddy buddy giving up the d**k and p**Sy to everyone is normal
@Benjamin Muller exactly everything you said was on point and definitely that intimacy stuff don't even exist and it makes me laugh at people like her who would claim they want that real love but once that dude comes around with the urge the confidence and the courage to give her the real love oh look she doesn't want that from the "good guy" she rather want it from the guy she likes but once the guy she likes Does her wrong she'll go on a raging rant about how she hates men but won't admit that she was pathetic for rejecting the dudes that liked her
Not too many people out there worth being intimate with.
I think too many people think intimacy is just sex, and that's a terrible oversimplification.
What is dating?
The way she was responding to everything he said made it seem like she agreed, but just didn't realize that almost everything he was saying was a negative thing
Men. You are the leaders. He is right. Been with my husband for 20 years. I sum up our family dynamic he is the Manager of our family and I'm his Team Lead. I didnt always feel this way. When we got into this set up....omg things changed for the best. Our married was never bad but now its amazing. Im a happier person. He is happier.
Women can't consider men broke when women choose to not pay for themselves
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Women calling attention to certain parts of their bodies to get attention, and then getting mad when they get that attention.
Thank you so much for calling this out.
You got that right bro.
To many men are suckered into treating women like queens.
I told my now wife of 10 years I’ve not a lot of money you take me as I am.
Any fool that has dated her or will date her gets everything they deserve.
My motto since high school: "Girls are a distraction." I intended to graduate and that wouldn't have happened if I was involved with a chick who baby-trapped me. To this day, no wife, no kids.
Keep your content going my man! You are a teacher. Teach these men how to lead women. You’re so right about giving too much to a woman without anything in return. I’ve had to learn that myself. Noticed women would stay distant when I gave or even offered them the world, but try hard to stay close when I wouldn’t budge.
i am totally fine with using my hand rather than dealing with toxic bullshit.
Its a cycle my man, men raised by single mothers or no true masculine guidance tend to be the ones who support and condone the women who act like this. Its the result of the war on masculinity. That’s why I love seeing content creators like yourself, Kevin Samuels, and more starting to bring the conversation to light. Salute
They will learn that fast money comes with slow consequences.
Last time I heard of a woman expecting some kind of a monetary/material reciporcation in exchange for of a physical romp was a hoe, a hooker, a night walker, a prostitute. Now don't get me wrong, there is nothing wrong with prostitution, it's the longest standing profession, should be legal and taxed honestly (which would probably kill all this ish right here). Houses, cars, and the like never leave my name. If we done, you're gone. Period. Men, protect yourself, cause nobody else will.
This is one of the reasons boys need to have a good father or good father figure. These kids with just a mom and no male role models are being raised to think this is how you treat women. Put them on the pedestal and simp for them.
Everything you say is so true. That's y I like listening to you.
The only thing I can add to this is just one thing. These girls like her and the ones she claims to speak for are NOT the women that men want to take home to meet their family.
I'm glad your talking about this
You do realize that the majority of men aren't simping like how they show it in social media. This like most of social media are spreading a bunch of false narratives and people are falling for it hook, line and sinker. Oh yeah I want to add that her story that her ex is still paying for her stuff is all cap. Show me the receipts of this still happening.
You hit it on the head. If we stopped simpin we'd end up with more high quality women
Her relationships have nothing about love ect she's only out for things
Clearly never earned anything for herself.
Can't stand woman like this.
Hello Mr Perspective!.
I 💕 your Commentary!.
Dear God, Please keep women like Blu Jasmine away from my sons. In Jesus' name..amen!
😂 Amen!!!! William J. Dove We've been schooling our Son's for Years they are 11 and 12yrs old now and we still having these in depth conversations with them 👁️. Please don't bring one of these type of women home to us(.)
The face you made in the thumbnail is pure gold 😂😂😂😂
This woman is putting herself in danger. There are many men out there that will put hands on these woman.
Good video bro I agreed with you 100%
This is crazy! The things coming from her mouth are so wrong and disgusting! I’m sure y’all fellas have to deal with this type and attitude a lot (I have 3 sons who are young men now) but that is not a real down to earth woman. Thankfully I have been married for 25 years so I don’t have to deal with all this bs but it should be a partnership, everyone pitching in and not materialistic! As a woman I have and do take care of the house, cook , clean, run errands, keep everyone on track and before a car accident made it to where I couldn’t work: I did ALL of that WHILE having a career and making the bigger paycheck! This is so unacceptable, all I can say if look for the real chicks and stay far away from the “pretty 10’s” fake asses.
"The real chicks" are way too rare so the majority of men will never find one.
No real women anymore
Once the relationship ends the money ends, kick her ass out and take back the car. Those are perks of being in a relationship, once it ends the perks end. Leases can be terminated, cheaper to terminate the lease than to keep paying unless it's just 2 or 3 months.
This feels like a feminist who became what she swore to destroy/s
It is! This is exactly what “feminism” is nowadays. It’s the exact opposite of what they claim to be😂
Looks dont get you everywhere honey, I work with my man , my man runs this house , I take care of the kids cook clean there's gotta be respect for eachother love and understanding of eachother
Thank you for saying it's men's fault. We have nurtured this attitude. First one of these type of channels to acknowledge that fact and not just insulting and belittling those women. 10:09 I mean she is not wrong though. He wouldn't be nearly as "successful" as he claims to be without spending much if he was just an average looking dude
Pretty privilege is like a game cheat code, good until it expires.
When adam said, “to exert some pressure to get something materialistic”
The female said , “so we are not being used” (if i quoted it wrong ill fix it)
At the end of the day she and other women are still being “used” whether you get something out of it or not. You are getting something materialistic that will hold no value so therefore the person who possesses the most materialistic things, at the end of the day are not valuable themselves.
So we are back to square one. You giving your “beauty” to a man for materialistic things when those things hold no value.
Its amazing that she she doesn’t think she is being used still😂
To put it out there, IF I was in a relationship like this and she wanted to keep the car, apartment/ home there is no way in hell they would be there or keep them. I would never pay after we are broken up. I'm 43 and single again after my ex left me for some younger dude. Do I pay or give her any kind of attention? Hell no. The same goes with this woman. I am not a bank or going to pay for someone else to enjoy the things I was/am paying for.
Her: I don't think it's sunk low...
Also her: i exist so gimme
Worst part is she's a mom, I'll bet she props the kid up to get more stuff but gives the kid hardly anything.
She argues for sport even if she ends up arguing against herself in the end
Wow this is interesting. I didn’t know women have this type of mindset. I just discovered this channel, very informative.
I'm gonna laugh when he stops paying for the apartment and car..
Dude should stop paying for it all but not say shit. Just wait till she wakes up and her ride is gone and she got a letter of eviction on her door
Hope he stopped after hearing this interview lol
She is saying the truth about all women. Some cant admir
This woman is emotionally damaged by her past and by men who have only wanted her for her body so now she has given up all her morals and decided to use men the way they’ve used her. It’s not the correct way to go about it at all. She needs to fix the hurt inside herself and find a man that values her heart and sole not what’s in between her legs. The wrong way men are treating woman is building these type of wrong woman. This is also the outcome of our social media. Take a good look at the future.
Get out
Uhuh, the "she's a victim here" routine...
Wrong place girl
@@Scaley_Reptile I know right it's crazy people think she's a victim. 😂😂
why are you blaming men for how she turned out?
You should be blaming her and her parents.
@@Scaley_Reptile "Wrong place"? Did you listen to AOK? She literally reinforced for he said. This woman learnt that she could get things this way because of men. Men groomed her, at one point she mentions about being 13. 13. That's a little girl. A child. From that age, she's learnt from the people around her that her body is her value. She got a fancy car because of her body. How do you even change that mindset if that's all you've ever known? I get it, it fucking sucks, it's disgusting, it's disrespectful to men and women who want something real, someone real. A partner in life not a bank account and a leech. This woman started as a victim of her environment but now she is reveling in her situation and privilege.
Yo I'm not going to lie you speaking some big facts 💯
Oh how the word "simp" has evolved so much 😂
I got my gf of 5 years a laptop and 7 months later we broke up and I STILL feel like a simp. And her ex is paying her shit for two years after they broke up? I feel SO much better now. Also he's the king of simps
Lucifer was the best looking angel in heaven before his fall.
Young lady hit the nail on the head it's exactly what she said that's what guys want don't get mad cuz she's letting you know that's what it is
Funny how these women say "can they get their bills paid" but isn't willing to work for it like an actual adult
Cause these 304s know that there are enough simps in the world to help her out, but that gap is closing in on these 304s today ...there time is running out,because more men are wising up.guess TH-cam was actually good for something 🤣
I feel we all keep trying to tell each other what our “roles” are. But that’s the Beauty of being human we have no roles. We’re intelligent enough to realize we can choose our own path. It doesn’t matter who’s providing or paying bills all that should matter is y’all care for each other and respect eachtother. Money shouldn’t be important, roles shouldn’t be important. If both partners are thinking of the other person everyone is happy. Just cause a human is not able to provide financially doesn’t mean they have no value. Remember at one point money didn’t exist, it could all be gone one day and then what will determine a persons value??
Saying there's no romance, of course there's no romance. The type of situation/relationship she described I've only seen in history books/documentaries when the king, emperor, or whatever noble happened to be in charge, would have a peasant sent to their bed and in return the girl's family got to be in charge of a village or something, and that's only if both the family didn't resist AND the girl was good in bed (and even then maybe). I bet she ain't trying to follow the rules that would go along with the relationship she's describing
Pretty privilege, such a joke.
My first car was a 20 years old Mustang, I loved that car, it ran like a beast. I took care of it though, and in return it took care of me. Now that paint job on the outside…..bruh…it aged out. And the interior as beyond used and jacked up. I enjoyed being inside, but it had mileage for sure.
Ladies, take that analogy and change your strategy. Winter is coming.
🔮oh I see it,I see it clearly,in this womans future,I see a refrigerator, yes yes,this woman will be built like a refrigerator in 6 years🔮
🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣😂
@@andrelee9744 🙃
6 years? Lol. Look at how that dress is straining to keep that fluff from spilling over
@@willyjimmy8881 😌🙏
Blu Jasmine has been a lost cause in my eyes since she went viral saying she prefers a toxic relationship. YES, she is the chick who said that and now this
If I had 1 wish, it would be to see karma catch up with these women who have this toxic mentality. We live in a sad generation today.
YOOOOUUU! Got what I neeeeeeeed! You say he’s just a friend
At this point, I don't even know whether she Being real or just trolling all of these TH-camrs for clout cause I can tell you there are still simps that will slide in her dm's even after hearing this and she must be reaping the benefits.
She young pretty believe me old rich guy fin to invest in that. I bet you her only fans account growing all these sugar daddies 🤣😂
The real question is what will become of these women 20 years from now?
In response to standards she response by saying men have always been the ones to get the money and bring it back home....... what's your point? Men put in the effort to get the money. That doesn't have anything to do with what he just said. In fact she contradicts herself.
She disagrees that womens standards have dropped, then she says women used to take care of the house and children, then she says women today provide attractiveness (what you are born with, takes no effort and doesn't help anyone else) and have no other values. I know we all expect this delusion but it still confuses me every time that anyone can be that oblivious to what their own mouthes are saying.
U know what ur talking about thats why i Watch ur vids keep doing what ur doing ✌🏼
For me I ain’t even mad at her, it’s her ex that’s to blame on this one. He enabled her to do everything she’s doing and saying by still providing even when broken up.
I totally agree with you AOK.
Bro be on time I was first an left waiting an extra 30 minutes, now I’m watching last an late. Still cool bro .🍺
This Girl(not a Woman) is a lost cause.
She is beyond 🆘 help.
You can't fix something or someone that's FUCKEDUP😢😔
Let’s keep it real this video is wrong in so many ways because of what Men and Women tolerate and identify as things of value of a person. She said it and You said it
Her: pretty, privileged
You: attractive women
When people can get away from looks and what a person can do for them instead focusing on connection, spirituality, and energy of a person relationships would be solid and last long term. Additionally it would change the foundation of the relationship whereas looks would be the least priority. Not all attractive women think this way. Nor are women who are “less attractive” not worthy of true love. Everything is about ego which does nothing good for anyone.
1) gay women
2) stop using social media entirely
3) at 12:45 that is an inherently contradictory statement
4) rap, enough said
5) ex that pays all the bills...
6) self mental conditioning is VERY powerful
I would of sold that house the moment she acted like she was gonna get to get living there.
Yep, Sticky Note on the Door, her stuff in boxes
I also stop again at 4:54 to make this comment. I would like to point out that no when she or people like her want to say that one of the qualities they have to deserve what they get from someone else is that they are intelligent, I really would like that they don't show any such qualities. People who are intelligent show it by putting in something to help themselves and the people around them not leech off them without doing anything. If they were try to say that they are intelligent manipulators, than that too would be incorrect because they wouldn't be publicly announcing your wrong doing because that stupid.
It's amazing the way women don't think, AT ALL, before they speak. They just say whatever, without any adult editing skills.
He speaks the truth of gym wild life
The thing is, she's not at fault here. It's these dudes who validate them that are the problem. How you gonna blame this chick, who has a kid, YET, has a dude paying all her bills WHILE she dates another guy? I say she's winning if you ask me
I love that you blame men. I agree 1000%. We have pandered to them and have given them everything for so long, they deserve it now. Spot on.
Blu: *There’s a standard of man that I do want: over 6 foot and over 8 inches.*
Oh yes and 7 figures
I change my perspective, thank you bro
AOK: “Women wear tights in the gym for the sole reason of wanting to impress guys.”
Have you tried working out with baggy pants, dude? Not everything revolves around what looks good to men and as a woman I find it repulsive that you would parrot that to your fans, because that creates the perception that we’re all just sluts aching for action. Get over yourselves.
I can’t speak for every guy, but I and most others that I’ve seen work out in short, relatively thin and baggy sweats. They’re called that for us to literally sweat in. I don’t know if there’s a part of the “girl experience” that makes it uncomfortable, but most guys do just fine in them.
Actually I ALWAYS work out with baggy clothes lmao.
And I was lifting alot more than anyone else and tried to in during the slow times..
I DIDNT WANT anyone looking at me...
Skimpy is for POSERS male or female
@@Scaley_Reptile Tight doesn’t equal skimpy.
@@ancientoflore6537 he does have a point tho. Some NOT ALL, do wear tight stuff to attract men. I've seen some women actually go to the gym in very tight clothes to attract attention.
You women are. All of you. Including you. And yes you can workout with baggy clothing. My mate does it all the time.
Ohh preach!! And theres the trifling ones that break up relationships because they enjoy it, its sickening.
Second
You hit the nail right on the head. She not keepin it a buck
That's why I say that social media has done more harm than good!!
i'm just gonna say it : SOME women NEED TO LEARN THEIR PLACE in a relationship !!! ... SOME women who don't know how to cook, don't know how to clean, BUT, don't want to learn how to do those things ? ... Then, woman, YOU NEED TO KNOW YOUR PLACE !!! ... She is a REAL HUSTLER !!! She KNOWS is wrong what she does, BUT, is not her fault that her ex keeps paying her bills, even after they broke up a long time ! ...
Sir, I commend you for your statement, and I agree. Men are leaders and they are apart of why woman are the way they are!
Although women are responsible for their actions men are accountable for their leadership!
Your the only man I have ever heard say this!
That's the problem! Stop chasing after these women, and start treating them how you want to be treated.
If a man says this he’s a misogynist but if a woman says it, “u go girl”. Like why were so many people hyping her up.
It's like toxic femininity.
I love everything you create and your point of view brother. If you're ever in North Carolina drinks are on me. Would love a long conversation with a like-minded man.
I look forward to your "simp series" bro. 🤣🤣