Ever found yourself wondering why some people achieve so much while others seem to barely make a dent? Maybe you've looked in the mirror and thought, "I really thought I'd be further ahead by now." I've been there, at 25, feeling like I was wasting my potential and my life. But then, I discovered something that changed my life. Today, sharing it with you. Careful though... this vid hits HARD! Dig these 4 questions? How about 7 MORE? Get the 11 questions to change your life now (free gift for yt subs): www.clarkkegley.com/free-questions
the key point that i got out of this video was that "preparing to do "the thing" is not doing "the thing" thinking about doing "the thing" is not doing the thing, only doing the thing is doing it, so just start doing and stop thinking, evaluating, doubting, fearing etc.
I am turning 18 this year. I always wanted someone to show me the “way” never wanted to find it myself I never wanted to make decisions which I might regret later .so I always asked others to take decisions for me, I took their advice as their orders and mentally blamed them if anything goes wrong the fear of being wrong or failure always stayed I still don't know what I want to do in life but one thing I would change from today is I will take my own decisions and responsibility which comes with it. Because nobody always make the right choice, I might end up becoming a failure in life, but one thing is for sure, I will not sleepwalk through life. I will need this video again, so please like to remind me
Your story really moved me . I guessed because it's very similar to my life too. I am 18 and I failed my Engineering entrance exam . Instead of taking the responsibility I coped by pushing the guilt away by blaming others and random things . To be honest I never was dedicated and determined to clear the exam by studying and putting in the actual hardwork ......but instead I used to search tricks and strategies , like relying on external factors to help me pass the exam Now I am preparing for the same exam again by taking a year out and attempt it next year ..... but this time I guess I understood what a failure is like by analysing my previous mistakes and try to stay true to my goal now . Thank you for sharing your story 😊 Good luck
More power to you. Best wishes ❤. I am also turning 18 this month so can relate alot to your thoughts and situation since I've veen through the similar. I have always wanted get that slightest excuse that i am still young and soneone else should help me and take decisions for me but i am stopping this now. Let's be in charge of our own selves.
@@ashishpatel9275 The one thing all fools have in common is that they are always getting ready to live, or delaying to live. Seneca believed that fools think they have forever and plenty of time, and that they can always get to things later. We have an undetermined amount of time. We have no clue if we will live to the average of 77 or die of an anurism before getting to the next video.
@@alexandrenedellec7116 I’m merely passing on a line from 2,000 years ago. Interpret it as you will. Remember, you don’t have to have an opinion about this.
@@MuscleMeetsMind qutoing something to link it to a video/content IS having an opinion about it....i just share what other quoted too and linked to what you said....as you did with the video ;)
I’m chronically ill and disabled. It is incurable, and life long. I have intense pain almost every waking moment, and I convinced myself for years that I was incapable of most of the things I ever wanted to do in life. I finally got sick of it, and with the possibility that tomorrow I may be “taken out” by anaphylaxis, an aneurysm or rupture, a spine injury resulting in paralysis… I have been proving myself wrong consistently. In just the past year I’ve done more than I thought I would be able to do for the rest of my life, and it was still in pain. I was still physically miserable for a good portion of it, but the more I decided I could control the things in my power, the better I felt and the better my health has gotten. I’ll be listening to this and trying to apply in this sense, because things are wildly different when we are differently abled. Especially in my case…
You are inspiring! Keep doing it. I feel like people who live to a ripe old age don’t give up and decide to find a purpose or way regardless of circumstances.
Good to hear you're achieving things despite your circumstances. Re the pain, have you looked at medicinal grade CBD oil? it has a small amount of THC but will not make you high. It's been a godsend for many people dealing with pain.
Make sure to put down 20% or more. Your mortgage payment cannot exceed 30% of your gross monthly income. If you can do this, you will be able to afford the house.
Today, I came to Coffee in order to reflect on my past and change what should be changed. Before turning off my laptop, this video appeared on my screen, so I clicked on it, and it definitely came at the exact moment. I extremely believe that I will not be the same in the next coming months. This video is a gift from the universe. Thank you
@@Mahdi0_0Mohammad I presume she’s referring her life has restarted because Clark’s video concludes these 4 important questions. When applied, helps her reinvent herself, having a new perspective in life thus becoming fulfilled in every moment. Clark’s all about the self-development space 👍🏽
Man this is such a good video. I’m that guy who tried around 8-9 different career/online businesses that I heard the gurus talk about… Sure there are people who make money Dropshipping, or doing high ticket sales, or copywriting, etc… But I genuinely believe that, for most, that’s not the way to go. Find something that interests you, that you have a knack for, ideally, and do that. If that does mean starting your own business, then go for it! But if that also looks like working your way through a degree, and working in a company, then don’t feel bad about that because we all have a different path to walk. Another thing to remember and tell yourself is: “I’m better than SOME people at SOME things, but I’m not better than ALL people at ALL things. At the same time, I AM better than anyone else at being me.” Find your thing.
I started watching you when I was 19 and now I’m 23 with a 6 figure income and my own lake view condo I was able to stay laser focused on my goal and achieve what I wanted to thanks Clark
Creating wealth entails establishing positive routines, I had only $12k to my name at 42 when I first woke up to this reality. I chose the stock market as a medium of growth, got an excellent financial advisor, Financial management is a vital subject that many avoid, often leading to future regrets
Indeed, currently I'm managing my finances wisely and being frugal. In the last 19 months, my investments grew by 43%, adding over $500K in profits. However, I've had losses in the past month, making me anxious. I'm unsure whether to sell everything or wait.
No doubt, having the right plan is invaluable, my portfolio is well-matched for every season of the market and recently hit 100% rise from early last year. I and my CFP are working on a 7 figure ballpark goal, tho this could take till end of 2024
This is definitely considerable! think you could suggest any professional/advisors i can get on the phone with? i'm in dire need of proper portfolio allocation
Great video! The tips are really eye-opening. I’ve found that the key to real progress is focusing on the right things every day. I remember coming across a powerful approach in the Nixorus secrets that changed how I manage my time and energy. Definitely inspired to take action now!
Sage advice from a young man. When I was 25, I was uncertain in life and working in construction, saving money paying off my student loans. But I grew restless. Finally, I went to the top of the mountain overlooking the valley, and I asked myself the question if you could do anything you wanted in life and you were guaranteed to succeed , then what would you do? It was hard to ask that question because my mind was full of doubts, and all the things that others told me that I should do, but I finally managed to push all that aside and see my future. I knew then that I wanted to go back to college and study computer science , it was a life changing decision Sometimes we have to set ourselves free from the shackles of fear and doubt, and even comfort can be a shackle,. But once free, you can see clearly.
I've already changed a lot these last two years, from a jobless piece of shit getting high all day, I've got in shape, started running and completed my first half marathon last week, found a job, got back to college. I feel very proud of myself and feel like I've accomplished so much from where I started. But this video is exactly what I needed to rethink everything and make sure my objectives are still aligned with the effort I've been putting everyday. Thank you for the work, it's quality content you've made here!!
@@twojastara2552 sorry mate just saw your reply. I'm 27, If you want to know anything about my journey feel free to ask, I'd be glad if I can help someone
Yeah life puts us down and will wait for you to act and do something to rise... I didn't and stayed at the bottom for years being unhappy, lonely and depressed. I've thought every single night about all the things I should start doing to improve my life, can't even think about the hundreds of times I've said tomorrow I'm going to change things and never done anything. Pls if you're reading this, act now!! Don't wait for life to come at you
I'm 28. I have watched quite a number of self-improvement videos, but this one actually strikes a chord. I have always felt this deep drive in me, that I could do something great in the world, but my fears and anxieties always beat me down and those dreams truly felt just like dreams of a fool. But now I see that the problem was in that I never had any plan whatsoever, it was just a deep longing feeling and in a day it faded away, without me ever having anything particular to grasp onto. This video though gives concrete 4 questions, by answering which, I really feel I'll get some kind of path to follow and a goal to achieve. My big dream was always to sing in front of the crowd, to make their day better. Sing with emotion and happiness (I love singing alone at my house, music is magic), so that hopefully the people will feel it too. I know that without any fear I would enjoy it immensely. But at the same time I am an introvert with social anxiety and singing in front of the people is terrifying :D With writing this comment I promise myself that in a years time I will go on the street and sing. No matter how good or bad it will go, still I will be unbelievably proud of myself for just even going to the street and opening my mouth. Because then it means that I can do it again. And again. Every time getting a bit better. And one day, hopefully, fear will understand that it cant stop me and will let me go. See you in a year, you beautiful people! 😇
@@Drod11z as a 23 year old, this is STILL the time to learn anything and everything. Watch a video on basket weaving, attend a book club, go help a family member re-tile their bathroom, idk. You've gotten some "normal" education under your belt, now it's time to pick up and use every tool in the toolbox to figure out which one is the one you wanna do as a career. Maybe you find a seminar on finance captivating, or you help your uncle install a light fixture and suddenly electrician sounds like a great career, or maybe you make a plushy for your friends birthday and now etsy is your passion. Pick the interesting choices in life friend, and no matter where you end up in life, you will have truly lived every second. Failure is fake and judgement is a lie, as long as you don't get arrested you're fine.
It took me all of 37 years of my life and more than half of those years being a mom of eventual 6 kids, to get that “ah-ha!” moment of realization that there is a HUGE difference between just being busy and actually being productive! After that, it was a huge shift for me. But you’re never ‘there’ especially when you’re only always ever chasing ‘getting there’ as a means of always trying to get ‘there’ where ever ‘there’ actually is.
@@davidkovacic3422I think there may be a little more to her comment than what I'm about to say. But I can elaborate on the first half. Many people make the mistake of busy work and it gets them nowhere. For example- Two people have an office for their business. One stays in the office everyday and says "I need to clean my desk. If any clients come in I also need to vacuum. I don't want them to see an non vacuumed floor. I also need to repaint my office" and he spends all his days like that. The other says "I need clients. I'm going to advertise, call, and go out and offer my services. I'll spend 95% of my time getting clients until I have enough work and only 5% cleaning the office." The second one was actually doing activities that would get him where he wants to be. The first one is doing things that are essentially doing nothing for him. He's putting icing on a cake that isn't ready. The first will always wonder why the second is doing so much better because they both work the same amount. But one is busy and the other is productive!
What sort of things were you able to drop for more important, actually productive tasks? I'm struggling to identify which tasks aren't truly worth my time, and would appreciate suggestions!
It is extremely refreshing to hear someone speaking reason, without being arrogant about their way of viewing life. Today youtube is full of people yelling at you how to life your life, like yelling makes their opinion stronger or something...
"Sleepwalking through life." Damn, I was never able to figure out how to word it. I always used "Complacent in life"... This video reminded me it is actually OK to choose my own direction in life. I've always yielded to the belittling and degrading of others around me, living a life in their shadows and failures. I have been living this way for 15 years. Not playing the victim but actually living life as if their opinions and demands - their perceptions are boundaries I can not live outside of bc nothing exists or is allowed to exist outside of their spoken / unspoken boundries.
Wow, that description hits…. Time to break down those old useless walls! Be warned, they won’t like it. The more pushback you encounter, the more you know you’re fighting for yourself in the right direction. I know you’ll find peace on your journey outside of it all. Know that there are others, like myself, who have to do the same. Good luck and stay strong💪
@@middleofnowhere1313 yeah, same boat here. Stepmom just hates not working. She’s a therapist. I had an endocrinologist once who looked to be in her early 70s. I looked up her bio online; she was 92!!
@@GingerPeacenik For me when it's a choice, it's an AMAZING thing not to retire, maybe she's soooo passionate she does'nt wanna quit her job, maybe it's keeping her alife, maybe it's her true calling and mission, bonus, she even looks younger ! I truelly wanna meet her :D !
Today is May 31, 2024, Friday. What perfect timing to come across your video. I am looking forward to "waking up" and stop "sleepwalking" through life.
Clark, may I kindly suggest you extend that bar. I feel for all the people in their 60's, 70's and 80's & later, who are watching and are 'younger' than ever! They have so much to live & do and may even outlive us! 😊
If you are still on this Earth, you are not only winning, but nothing is over either. Clark's advice is great, but do not for one second think you're not deserving of it because of age. I used to have so much feeling of regret for not doing better in high school. I always felt that it pointed the trajectory of my life. It wasn't until I was about 40 years old where I said that I'm going to mentally think that I graduated high school today. What would I have done different? So, I started aggressively learning about investing and investing my money in. So, I don't become a millionaire at 30 but become one at 50 or 55...or even 75. What am I going to say..."no thanks, I'm too old. Take it back!"? Of course I'm going to enjoy it and take wonderful enjoyment that I at least did it once in my life. Age is just a number. Don't underestimate your ability to ignore that number!
Scarily and amazingly today I made that exact decision to put it all into practice. Losing that fear and keeping focused. Awesome thank you for coming along just today!
This was probably the best self development video I’ve ever seen. Focusing on all of the other stuff truly is ‘straightening deck chairs on the titanic’ until you’ve got the foundation there to guide you. Thanks for the wake up call!
I can't thank you enough for being straight to the point and clear with your message. The visuals helped give perspective. As many others mentioned, I've seen alot of self help videos and they're bloated or simply lack an appeal and tangible message that makes sense to me. Thank you so much for being selfless in your message and creating this useful content.
There’s a lot of productivity/ changing your life videos but this one hits a little differently. I can tell you really care about your viewers. Even all the side tangents are so interesting because you’re not pushing the usual what society tells us to dream of, but are pushing us to find our unique purpose without the external/ superficial pressure. Thanks very much :)
I am not one to comment on posts or subscribe to channels, but this stuff that speaks to me. It grounded, smart, and sincere. Great work and I appreciate ya.
Owning land and having a nice community, sustaining ourselves through farming seems more fulfilling than wanting all this materialism before being able to have a good life.
I agree! I worked in the medical field all my life. I started a garden (I grew up on a fruit farm) and found peace and beauty. My husband and I are saving to buy a farm! We truly enjoy the maintenance and beauty of farm life.
I'm so thankful to have seen your vid in my recommended, I've watched and wasted so much time on self-improvement vids and remember not a single thing one of them but this my friend will stick with me until I die, thank you so much. May god bless your soul. Amen
Why can't I find a man with your kind of energy and vibe. I've been single and looking for 8 years and guys my age act like they've already died . I'm 54 and still have a lot of Life to live! I love your videos, clark! Thank you for sharing your genius with the world!
@@BrochieCohen-q3x I think she's just admiring the his energy and would ideally like to be with someone who has it... Doesn't mean she can't have it too. Their energies would match! Maybe the more she puts out that energy, the more likely she'll be to attract a partner who also has it. We should all act as the partner we would want to have
My guy found me when I wasn't looking. I think that's the secret. Invest in yourself and pursue interests and hobbies. I hung out with lots of ladies and had fun, but also serious soul searching. Out of the blue, an acquaintance I had known a few years became romantically interested. We've been together 6 years now. I'm 54 too. I learned how to be happy without a partner first, then he showed up in my life.
When I finally realized I can have contentment and see beauty in an ordinary life, I felt free. I always felt I needed to be “a somebody” or do something profound or big or to have had a great life. I was always chasing the next thing I “needed” to be doing. But when I realized the act of living and the ordinary things of the day to day are what it’s all about and we never pay attention to the, you find beauty and contentment in living slower and more simply. And not striving to do something huge all the time.
I REALLY appreciate your lack of extremes 😌 it's refreshing for a recovering perfectionist. You made me feel calm like I have all the time in the world. A lot of this type of content makes me feel like I need to get up right now and go beast mode on life which is unrealistic and unsustainable so THANK YOU 🥰
I am in the third part of my life. Big changes have occurred. I am going to use this as a springboard for my next steps. Thank you. I’m looking forward to all the good coming my way.
53. Reinventing myself. It’s been a total wipe out. As you say breakdown/breakthrough. I read something stating ‘ we are water, water flows, it doesn’t make a mistake’. The oath of least resistance, rowing a boat against a tsunami. Coffee shop tomorrow. Thank you.
Amazing video. Thank you for not making it unnecessarily fast pace and hyped and dramatic and stupid. Hey other TH-cam creators, I just liked and subscribed and commented on his video, but he didn't even stop and make a big deal actually didn't even ask me to like and subscribe at all! Wow! Crazy concept.
Thank goodness you brought this up! Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 10 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life. Great piece!
she's a known advisor. I actually did look her up curiously and went through her credentials on her webbsite... Top-notch! I wrote her an email, hopefully she's accepting new intakes.
This video was something I forgot about, and was on my watch later playlist until it popped up on my recommended. I kinda wish I watched before, but better late than never. I now have the questions written down and I’m starting to feel better about myself just by writing these down and reflecting on recent changes I’ve made. Thanks for the content
26 and feeling hurt ngl. I'm no longer young ? AAAnd I'm struggling with college ? Bro. I'm here rotting on TH-cam and decided to click on this to reframe my mind and it makes me somehow feel worse and enlightened. Thank you ❤.
@@sst201210 thanks. This baby adult has got to let go of being an old child. Hopefully the pressure I'm building gets released at 30 (odd feeling that's similar to when I turned 20. Difference is that 20 couldn't come soon enough and 30 is waaay to soon)
"we always know every single detail (of our situation/problem) and the same thinking that caused the problem we´re trying to use to get out of the problem". Pure gold here !! Thank you SO MUCH !!
Clark you're right. Now i truly realize that i didn't live my life as i wanted to. For this time i was watching all these gurus vdeos on "you need to that, avoid this bla bla bla" and I was still waiting for that magic moment to start living. Now all i need to do is to build a strategy using each of these 4 questions. Thank you and I'm greatful for hard work
@@RayColon-s6y Now I have a clear routine that I follow every single day - 75 Hard. I'm also trying to train my mind - embrace pain to achieve much more than I expected I can do. I'm good actually. How about you brother?
Thanks Clark! Waking up at any age is the key. The awareness is a gift of being clear we can choose our life instead of being controlled by others in it. Loved the video, first time on your channel! 🥳
Everything was just perfect man. I am going through a pretty rough phase of my life ..l have been following your videos for over a year now and trust me it helps like a lot. Thank you clark I really appreciate the effort that you put into these videos. Peace from Bangladesh❤
15 years old here, and I'm haunted by the thoughts that I'm not doing enough either. Especially worse since I'm an artist, and the fact that my goal in life is to also be a famous creative. I'm trying to do whatever I can to escape this. I don't wanna lose time to reach my dreams. So far, I've finally pushed myself to start animation and besides that, have been improving on my social life ig. This video is another push for me to just get out there and do. Thanks man!!
This video insightfully highlights the difference between being busy and truly productive, reminding us that life's quality isn't dictated by hours spent but by the meaning of those hours. 🌟 It's crucial to focus not just on ticking boxes but on fulfilling the tasks that align with your passions and long-term goals.
Very eye opening video. Have a lot of thoughts but like you suggested i will write them down tomorrow morning. Loved the format, the visual definitely helped. I want to wake up. Thank you
Love the video! Really helps me because I figured out question one but wasn't exactly sure what to do now. Society has us so programmed by school and work. I felt like I was struggling to figure out what I wanted to do and realized I'm in my own way causing the struggle.
This is the best video I’ve seen on this subject matter. I’ve seen many. By point of contrast, it makes some of the other videos on this topic I’ve watched seem really weird by comparison. Well done.
25 unemployed (developer) mainly because I don't like being employee. Finally life hit hard on me cuz of my decisions I made after I graduated years ago. So here I am tonight (at least for me this exact moment as am writing this down). Already wrote down those 4 things, and hoping to get to that coffee shop tomorrow morning by doing what you suggested to me/us, btw thanks wholeheartedly and am gonna try to update this every now and then.
Thank you for this awesome video. It's really different from the typical "productivity" videos, and I actually took away a lesson and an action plan to answer these 4 questions. Keep up the great content!
I do not think 'old age' is a specific number. Just meet a lot of people, say from the age of 50 to 100, and you'll see what I mean. Availability of health services and nutrition, genetics, whether you had exposure to toxic things, if you had to live with toxic/abusive people, etc. We all become old at different ages. But, regardless, you can still try to have healthy behaviors whether you are young or old.
I’ve asked myself variations of these questions over the years. No:2 opened up a different perspective to how I’ve answered similar questions in the past. Thanks for the video, it made an impact.
This was really moving Clark and something I really needed to hear. I also appreciate you calling out the opposite extremes of your industry, and I feel like you're currently treading applicable and considerate ground. Like a good book, this is a video I'll likely keep coming back to you. Thank you for making these mate
Thanks, Clark. I’ve done so much to improve the way I think, my discipline, and my habits, but this video helped me understerstand something very important. Having to think about something I would stop doing this year to make my life better has helped me realize that I’m very dishonest still about the way I feel. It took me forever to start getting up earlier because I always stayed up watching whatever on the discord share, and I grew tired of the mindless entertainment. I worked up the courage one day to just switch my bedtime, but I never really truly explained why. I also say I handle fun at hang outs even if I didn’t. I also give a half truth when I explain why I don’t want to do something. I can’t blame people for seeing me a certain way and expecting me to be certain ways when I am never honest with them. I’m not living the life I want to because I lie and say that I’m ok with the life that I’m not ok with.
With all due respect are you yourself really being fearless and going for it as if you could not fail. By doing the same thing "creating videos for the last 12 years on TH-cam" . But absolutly great questions you gave.
thank you for this wake up, i feel like i just broke free from the endless cycle of self improvement videos and saying I'll start tomorrow, money can be amazing just don't loose site of what's also important, we can all live our own fulfilling life's, no one on this planet has a handbook step by step for life, make your own guide book
well i'll be! this is definitely the best take i've seen on the subject of self-improvement; i can't even really elaborate because you already said all there is to say. i'll definitely answer the questions, even if it takes me the whole day tomorrow.
Excellent. Thanks for the wake-up call. I was building a business in the UK following these principles back in the late 90's. I got a job in Detroit, and I thought I'd made it. Slowly, I reverted to the person who was grinding and dead already. Definitely hitting the coffee shop early tomorrow.
These questions are ones i kind of ask myself every now and then....BUT i never get answers. Maybe this time will be different. I feel this leads one into a flow state, not sleepwalking but actually working towards something without being forced. Earned a sub man.
As a 38 year old who feels the same, you aren’t in the youth. I will tell you what I say to myself on a daily basis: you just need to get your shit together and be an adult. Let go of the childish bullshit, grow up, and once again: get your shit together.
I admire how this man differentiates between 'preparing to live' and 'living'. This reminds me of the quote 'many people die at 25 years of age, but we only bury them at 75,' which emphasizes the significance of truly living life rather than just existing.
Ever found yourself wondering why some people achieve so much while others seem to barely make a dent? Maybe you've looked in the mirror and thought, "I really thought I'd be further ahead by now." I've been there, at 25, feeling like I was wasting my potential and my life. But then, I discovered something that changed my life. Today, sharing it with you. Careful though... this vid hits HARD! Dig these 4 questions? How about 7 MORE? Get the 11 questions to change your life now (free gift for yt subs): www.clarkkegley.com/free-questions
Your awesome! 😊
This one is actually life changing. I’d be a fool not to answer these questions for myself
Good luck ❤👏
Is there the link that you mention in the video? 🙏
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the key point that i got out of this video was that "preparing to do "the thing" is not doing "the thing" thinking about doing "the thing" is not doing the thing, only doing the thing is doing it, so just start doing and stop thinking, evaluating, doubting, fearing etc.
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thanks, now i dont have to watch the whole video
Now I don’t need to watch the video haha
Thank you
You got this from Chris Williamson.
I am turning 18 this year. I always wanted someone to show me the “way” never wanted to find it myself I never wanted to make decisions which I might regret later .so I always asked others to take decisions for me, I took their advice as their orders and mentally blamed them if anything goes wrong the fear of being wrong or failure always stayed I still don't know what I want to do in life but one thing I would change from today is I will take my own decisions and responsibility which comes with it. Because nobody always make the right choice, I might end up becoming a failure in life, but one thing is for sure, I will not sleepwalk through life.
I will need this video again, so please like to remind me
Your story really moved me . I guessed because it's very similar to my life too. I am 18 and I failed my Engineering entrance exam . Instead of taking the responsibility I coped by pushing the guilt away by blaming others and random things . To be honest I never was dedicated and determined to clear the exam by studying and putting in the actual hardwork ......but instead I used to search tricks and strategies , like relying on external factors to help me pass the exam
Now I am preparing for the same exam again by taking a year out and attempt it next year ..... but this time I guess I understood what a failure is like by analysing my previous mistakes and try to stay true to my goal now . Thank you for sharing your story 😊
Good luck
I hope you reach your goal
@@vishwatejamalkar3776you’re gonna pass
More power to you. Best wishes ❤. I am also turning 18 this month so can relate alot to your thoughts and situation since I've veen through the similar. I have always wanted get that slightest excuse that i am still young and soneone else should help me and take decisions for me but i am stopping this now. Let's be in charge of our own selves.
Exactly what I've been thinking, this video really opens my mind and helped me to take responsibility of my choices 😊
“The one thing all fools have in common is that they’re always putting off living“ - Seneca
And my fool as$ here didn't understand what just I read
@@ashishpatel9275 The one thing all fools have in common is that they are always getting ready to live, or delaying to live. Seneca believed that fools think they have forever and plenty of time, and that they can always get to things later. We have an undetermined amount of time. We have no clue if we will live to the average of 77 or die of an anurism before getting to the next video.
Really puting overthinker and anxious ppl as fools? Many ppl have half your skills and intelligence but are more successful...
@@alexandrenedellec7116 I’m merely passing on a line from 2,000 years ago. Interpret it as you will. Remember, you don’t have to have an opinion about this.
@@MuscleMeetsMind qutoing something to link it to a video/content IS having an opinion about it....i just share what other quoted too and linked to what you said....as you did with the video ;)
I’m chronically ill and disabled. It is incurable, and life long. I have intense pain almost every waking moment, and I convinced myself for years that I was incapable of most of the things I ever wanted to do in life.
I finally got sick of it, and with the possibility that tomorrow I may be “taken out” by anaphylaxis, an aneurysm or rupture, a spine injury resulting in paralysis… I have been proving myself wrong consistently. In just the past year I’ve done more than I thought I would be able to do for the rest of my life, and it was still in pain. I was still physically miserable for a good portion of it, but the more I decided I could control the things in my power, the better I felt and the better my health has gotten.
I’ll be listening to this and trying to apply in this sense, because things are wildly different when we are differently abled. Especially in my case…
keep pushing you can do it!
I believe in you
You are inspiring! Keep doing it. I feel like people who live to a ripe old age don’t give up and decide to find a purpose or way regardless of circumstances.
Good to hear you're achieving things despite your circumstances. Re the pain, have you looked at medicinal grade CBD oil? it has a small amount of THC but will not make you high. It's been a godsend for many people dealing with pain.
Hello, My brother is struggling with something similar to this, and I'd love it! if I could ask you some tips and tricks/ help regarding this.
Tomorrow is my bday 39 and I’m trying to buy my dream home before my 40s…. Wish me luck!!! I’m going to work for it!!!! 😊
Need an accountability partner?
Best wishes, Eduardo
any update bro?
Make sure to put down 20% or more. Your mortgage payment cannot exceed 30% of your gross monthly income. If you can do this, you will be able to afford the house.
You've got this buddy enjoy the ride!
Today, I came to Coffee in order to reflect on my past and change what should be changed. Before turning off my laptop, this video appeared on my screen, so I clicked on it, and it definitely came at the exact moment. I extremely believe that I will not be the same in the next coming months. This video is a gift from the universe. Thank you
Hope you find the answers you've been looking for in today's reflection session! ✨
you got this !!!
@hanan.ammari Definitely yes 👊🔥
God Bless 🙌
From God
"The best coaches don't have the answers, they have the questions" Brilliant quote!
My life started again at 34 😊 now I enjoy and feel grateful for every moment
What do you mean by "started again". I'm genuinely curious about what you mean by that as a 19 y/o.
I’m 34 too and I just stumbled upon this 🙏🏽
@@Mahdi0_0Mohammad I presume she’s referring her life has restarted because Clark’s video concludes these 4 important questions. When applied, helps her reinvent herself, having a new perspective in life thus becoming fulfilled in every moment. Clark’s all about the self-development space 👍🏽
@@hongtrinh5569 reinvent yourself as in how you see and approach life?
♥
Man this is such a good video.
I’m that guy who tried around 8-9 different career/online businesses that I heard the gurus talk about…
Sure there are people who make money Dropshipping, or doing high ticket sales, or copywriting, etc…
But I genuinely believe that, for most, that’s not the way to go.
Find something that interests you, that you have a knack for, ideally, and do that.
If that does mean starting your own business, then go for it!
But if that also looks like working your way through a degree, and working in a company, then don’t feel bad about that because we all have a different path to walk.
Another thing to remember and tell yourself is:
“I’m better than SOME people at SOME things, but I’m not better than ALL people at ALL things.
At the same time, I AM better than anyone else at being me.”
Find your thing.
I like what you are saying here. Will copy and reread your comment. Thanks!
Love this! Very smart! 😊
Totally agree.
I started watching you when I was 19 and now I’m 23 with a 6 figure income and my own lake view condo I was able to stay laser focused on my goal and achieve what I wanted to thanks Clark
Good for you ! Doesn’t get any better than that! ❤️
How exactly?
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Awesome
Bot😂
No I don't know, but anyone could write that.
But If it's true congrats. I hope U are happy❤😊
Creating wealth entails establishing positive routines, I had only $12k to my name at 42 when I first woke up to this reality. I chose the stock market as a medium of growth, got an excellent financial advisor, Financial management is a vital subject that many avoid, often leading to future regrets
Indeed, currently I'm managing my finances wisely and being frugal. In the last 19 months, my investments grew by 43%, adding over $500K in profits. However, I've had losses in the past month, making me anxious. I'm unsure whether to sell everything or wait.
No doubt, having the right plan is invaluable, my portfolio is well-matched for every season of the market and recently hit 100% rise from early last year. I and my CFP are working on a 7 figure ballpark goal, tho this could take till end of 2024
This is definitely considerable! think you could suggest any professional/advisors i can get on the phone with? i'm in dire need of proper portfolio allocation
Her name is. ‘Judith Lynn Saufer’. Just research the name. You’d find necessary details to work with a correspondence to set up an appointment.
'Only $12k' ???
Great video! The tips are really eye-opening. I’ve found that the key to real progress is focusing on the right things every day. I remember coming across a powerful approach in the Nixorus secrets that changed how I manage my time and energy. Definitely inspired to take action now!
I never comment on a TH-cam video , but this video has a different energy.
Magnum energy, I'd say 😂
😂
Agreed.
Yes absolutely
absolutely feel the same
Sage advice from a young man.
When I was 25, I was uncertain in life and working in construction, saving money paying off my student loans. But I grew restless. Finally, I went to the top of the mountain overlooking the valley, and I asked myself the question if you could do anything you wanted in life and you were guaranteed to succeed , then what would you do?
It was hard to ask that question because my mind was full of doubts, and all the things that others told me that I should do, but I finally managed to push all that aside and see my future. I knew then that I wanted to go back to college and study computer science , it was a life changing decision
Sometimes we have to set ourselves free from the shackles of fear and doubt, and even comfort can be a shackle,. But once free, you can see clearly.
I regret how hard I worked in my 20s, for not very much. Now, I prefer to enjoy everyday and live life as fully as I can - whether it’s work or play.
Between Clark and Dan Koe, you may not even need to spend your precious time on any other self improvement youtube videos. This is so next level!
Whose Clark ?
@@footylibraryClark is what this channel called
Wisdom Warriors too
I concur 😊
Indeed
I've already changed a lot these last two years, from a jobless piece of shit getting high all day, I've got in shape, started running and completed my first half marathon last week, found a job, got back to college. I feel very proud of myself and feel like I've accomplished so much from where I started. But this video is exactly what I needed to rethink everything and make sure my objectives are still aligned with the effort I've been putting everyday. Thank you for the work, it's quality content you've made here!!
That’s so good :) can i ask you how old are you? I’m dealing with the same things
@@twojastara2552 sorry mate just saw your reply. I'm 27, If you want to know anything about my journey feel free to ask, I'd be glad if I can help someone
Great job sir! Sometimes life sits us down so that we can think clearly about what we should be doing with our lives.
Yeah life puts us down and will wait for you to act and do something to rise... I didn't and stayed at the bottom for years being unhappy, lonely and depressed. I've thought every single night about all the things I should start doing to improve my life, can't even think about the hundreds of times I've said tomorrow I'm going to change things and never done anything. Pls if you're reading this, act now!! Don't wait for life to come at you
@@twojastara2552 I'm 27 feel free to ask anything bro
I'm 28. I have watched quite a number of self-improvement videos, but this one actually strikes a chord. I have always felt this deep drive in me, that I could do something great in the world, but my fears and anxieties always beat me down and those dreams truly felt just like dreams of a fool.
But now I see that the problem was in that I never had any plan whatsoever, it was just a deep longing feeling and in a day it faded away, without me ever having anything particular to grasp onto. This video though gives concrete 4 questions, by answering which, I really feel I'll get some kind of path to follow and a goal to achieve.
My big dream was always to sing in front of the crowd, to make their day better. Sing with emotion and happiness (I love singing alone at my house, music is magic), so that hopefully the people will feel it too. I know that without any fear I would enjoy it immensely. But at the same time I am an introvert with social anxiety and singing in front of the people is terrifying :D
With writing this comment I promise myself that in a years time I will go on the street and sing. No matter how good or bad it will go, still I will be unbelievably proud of myself for just even going to the street and opening my mouth. Because then it means that I can do it again. And again. Every time getting a bit better. And one day, hopefully, fear will understand that it cant stop me and will let me go.
See you in a year, you beautiful people! 😇
Man i wish i could restart my teens with the wisdom I have now, I would be unstoppable
As the saying goes, the best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago, the 2nd best time to plant a tree is now.
What advice do you have for a 20 year old
@@Drod11z create your habits and chase your dreams
@@Drod11z as a 23 year old, this is STILL the time to learn anything and everything. Watch a video on basket weaving, attend a book club, go help a family member re-tile their bathroom, idk. You've gotten some "normal" education under your belt, now it's time to pick up and use every tool in the toolbox to figure out which one is the one you wanna do as a career. Maybe you find a seminar on finance captivating, or you help your uncle install a light fixture and suddenly electrician sounds like a great career, or maybe you make a plushy for your friends birthday and now etsy is your passion.
Pick the interesting choices in life friend, and no matter where you end up in life, you will have truly lived every second. Failure is fake and judgement is a lie, as long as you don't get arrested you're fine.
@@bobthegamingtaco6073 thank you bro, I needed to hear the last part
It took me all of 37 years of my life and more than half of those years being a mom of eventual 6 kids, to get that “ah-ha!” moment of realization that there is a HUGE difference between just being busy and actually being productive! After that, it was a huge shift for me.
But you’re never ‘there’ especially when you’re only always ever chasing ‘getting there’ as a means of always trying to get ‘there’ where ever ‘there’ actually is.
what do you mean exactly? im young and trying to not waste my time. any advice?
@@davidkovacic3422I think there may be a little more to her comment than what I'm about to say. But I can elaborate on the first half. Many people make the mistake of busy work and it gets them nowhere. For example- Two people have an office for their business. One stays in the office everyday and says "I need to clean my desk. If any clients come in I also need to vacuum. I don't want them to see an non vacuumed floor. I also need to repaint my office" and he spends all his days like that. The other says "I need clients. I'm going to advertise, call, and go out and offer my services. I'll spend 95% of my time getting clients until I have enough work and only 5% cleaning the office." The second one was actually doing activities that would get him where he wants to be. The first one is doing things that are essentially doing nothing for him. He's putting icing on a cake that isn't ready. The first will always wonder why the second is doing so much better because they both work the same amount. But one is busy and the other is productive!
What sort of things were you able to drop for more important, actually productive tasks? I'm struggling to identify which tasks aren't truly worth my time, and would appreciate suggestions!
Action cures fear.
It is extremely refreshing to hear someone speaking reason, without being arrogant about their way of viewing life. Today youtube is full of people yelling at you how to life your life, like yelling makes their opinion stronger or something...
"Sleepwalking through life."
Damn, I was never able to figure out how to word it. I always used "Complacent in life"...
This video reminded me it is actually OK to choose my own direction in life. I've always yielded to the belittling and degrading of others around me, living a life in their shadows and failures.
I have been living this way for 15 years. Not playing the victim but actually living life as if their opinions and demands - their perceptions are boundaries I can not live outside of bc nothing exists or is allowed to exist outside of their spoken / unspoken boundries.
Wow, that description hits…. Time to break down those old useless walls! Be warned, they won’t like it. The more pushback you encounter, the more you know you’re fighting for yourself in the right direction. I know you’ll find peace on your journey outside of it all. Know that there are others, like myself, who have to do the same. Good luck and stay strong💪
My stepmom is 84 and still works full time. A lot of people never retire.
That'll be me. Was never paid enough to save enough.
@@middleofnowhere1313 yeah, same boat here. Stepmom just hates not working. She’s a therapist.
I had an endocrinologist once who looked to be in her early 70s. I looked up her bio online; she was 92!!
@@GingerPeacenik For me when it's a choice, it's an AMAZING thing not to retire, maybe she's soooo passionate she does'nt wanna quit her job, maybe it's keeping her alife, maybe it's her true calling and mission, bonus, she even looks younger ! I truelly wanna meet her :D !
Retirement means death for most. They lose the one thing that gets them out of bed and gets them going.
@@hibaimene9684 she's really not that passionate about her work. Her social conditioning makes her anxious about not perpetually earning a salary.
55 and this is hitting the target
MegaDave rules (referring to your avatar)
So glad to see a comment from a person in my age group!!! Cheers to you!!!
Today is May 31, 2024, Friday. What perfect timing to come across your video. I am looking forward to "waking up" and stop "sleepwalking" through life.
Just commenting to make sure you remember this video! You got this homie, we all do
That was my birthday 😁😁
Clark, may I kindly suggest you extend that bar. I feel for all the people in their 60's, 70's and 80's & later, who are watching and are 'younger' than ever! They have so much to live & do and may even outlive us! 😊
If you are still on this Earth, you are not only winning, but nothing is over either. Clark's advice is great, but do not for one second think you're not deserving of it because of age.
I used to have so much feeling of regret for not doing better in high school. I always felt that it pointed the trajectory of my life. It wasn't until I was about 40 years old where I said that I'm going to mentally think that I graduated high school today. What would I have done different?
So, I started aggressively learning about investing and investing my money in.
So, I don't become a millionaire at 30 but become one at 50 or 55...or even 75. What am I going to say..."no thanks, I'm too old. Take it back!"?
Of course I'm going to enjoy it and take wonderful enjoyment that I at least did it once in my life.
Age is just a number. Don't underestimate your ability to ignore that number!
The message will be still the same so think yourself some zeros at the end and don’t worry 😂
Word! I am 59 and living the BEST years of my life. Physically, mentally and financially.
@@AngelaKaySamsagree at 60
@@AngelaKaySamsyes, me too. I woke up in my mid-50’s and took control.
Scarily and amazingly today I made that exact decision to put it all into practice. Losing that fear and keeping focused. Awesome thank you for coming along just today!
This was probably the best self development video I’ve ever seen. Focusing on all of the other stuff truly is ‘straightening deck chairs on the titanic’ until you’ve got the foundation there to guide you. Thanks for the wake up call!
needed this dude. i’m watching this during lunch and i do feel like i’ve just been coasting since the pandemic
I can't thank you enough for being straight to the point and clear with your message. The visuals helped give perspective. As many others mentioned, I've seen alot of self help videos and they're bloated or simply lack an appeal and tangible message that makes sense to me. Thank you so much for being selfless in your message and creating this useful content.
My 1st date is with Me tomorrow at the coffee shop.I knew i bought new paper for a reason..There are No Accidents. Ty:):)
How did it go? ❤
Why am I so invested in a strangers first date?! How did it go?
@@melissanichole8184 super!
Come on stranger.
Spill the beans now!
There’s a lot of productivity/ changing your life videos but this one hits a little differently. I can tell you really care about your viewers. Even all the side tangents are so interesting because you’re not pushing the usual what society tells us to dream of, but are pushing us to find our unique purpose without the external/ superficial pressure. Thanks very much :)
Thank you my man, no more youtube for today. Nothing else is needed to realize where I am I stuck and how I should get past that difficulty
I am not one to comment on posts or subscribe to channels, but this stuff that speaks to me. It grounded, smart, and sincere. Great work and I appreciate ya.
I just want to say thank you Clark! You have literally changed my life when I found you two years ago. ❤
Owning land and having a nice community, sustaining ourselves through farming seems more fulfilling than wanting all this materialism before being able to have a good life.
I’m with you on that. That is truly living.
I agree! I worked in the medical field all my life. I started a garden (I grew up on a fruit farm) and found peace and beauty. My husband and I are saving to buy a farm! We truly enjoy the maintenance and beauty of farm life.
I'm so thankful to have seen your vid in my recommended, I've watched and wasted so much time on self-improvement vids and remember not a single thing one of them but this my friend will stick with me until I die, thank you so much. May god bless your soul. Amen
Why can't I find a man with your kind of energy and vibe. I've been single and looking for 8 years and guys my age act like they've already died . I'm 54 and still have a lot of Life to live! I love your videos, clark! Thank you for sharing your genius with the world!
Why look for a guy like that. Why you yourself not emulate that energy.
@@BrochieCohen-q3x I think she's just admiring the his energy and would ideally like to be with someone who has it... Doesn't mean she can't have it too. Their energies would match! Maybe the more she puts out that energy, the more likely she'll be to attract a partner who also has it. We should all act as the partner we would want to have
My guy found me when I wasn't looking. I think that's the secret. Invest in yourself and pursue interests and hobbies. I hung out with lots of ladies and had fun, but also serious soul searching. Out of the blue, an acquaintance I had known a few years became romantically interested. We've been together 6 years now. I'm 54 too. I learned how to be happy without a partner first, then he showed up in my life.
When I finally realized I can have contentment and see beauty in an ordinary life, I felt free. I always felt I needed to be “a somebody” or do something profound or big or to have had a great life. I was always chasing the next thing I “needed” to be doing. But when I realized the act of living and the ordinary things of the day to day are what it’s all about and we never pay attention to the, you find beauty and contentment in living slower and more simply. And not striving to do something huge all the time.
I REALLY appreciate your lack of extremes 😌 it's refreshing for a recovering perfectionist. You made me feel calm like I have all the time in the world. A lot of this type of content makes me feel like I need to get up right now and go beast mode on life which is unrealistic and unsustainable so THANK YOU 🥰
"recovering perfectionist"
Lol, I believe I know exactly what are you talking about 😁😂👍
I am in the third part of my life. Big changes have occurred. I am going to use this as a springboard for my next steps. Thank you. I’m looking forward to all the good coming my way.
Love it all, very human, very direct but entretaining, chill but to the point. Idk how to describe you just hit the spot
18 years old (19 in 1.5 months) and already ahead of most people thanks to this video. Instant new subscriber - thanks dude 👏
happy birthday !
Embarrassingly, I was taught the first two questions over 20 years ago. Thanks for the reminder!
53. Reinventing myself. It’s been a total wipe out. As you say breakdown/breakthrough. I read something stating ‘ we are water, water flows, it doesn’t make a mistake’. The oath of least resistance, rowing a boat against a tsunami.
Coffee shop tomorrow. Thank you.
LOVE this format! So relatable and real and doable. More please!
I LOVE every word in this video! Pure genius. No-nonsense, funny, inspiring, cool, informative, everything. Magnum entertainment.
Amazing video. Thank you for not making it unnecessarily fast pace and hyped and dramatic and stupid.
Hey other TH-cam creators, I just liked and subscribed and commented on his video, but he didn't even stop and make a big deal actually didn't even ask me to like and subscribe at all! Wow! Crazy concept.
Thank goodness you brought this up! Truly, investing has changed my perspective on how one can succeed in life; working multiple jobs isn't the optimal way to attain financial freedom and unfortunately, we discover this later in life. Currently earn as much as 10 grand weekly and this has improved my financial life. Great piece!
Do you mind sharing info on the adviser who
assisted you? I'm 39 now and would love to
grow my portfolio and plan my retirement
She's OLIVIA SULLIVAN FINANCIALS
she's a known advisor. I actually did look her up curiously and went through her credentials on her webbsite... Top-notch! I wrote her an email, hopefully she's accepting new intakes.
I'm definitely gonna check her out. Do yo have any idea if she manages family fund?
She's definitely going to help you. All you have to do is look up her full name and reach out to her on her webbsite...
This video was something I forgot about, and was on my watch later playlist until it popped up on my recommended. I kinda wish I watched before, but better late than never. I now have the questions written down and I’m starting to feel better about myself just by writing these down and reflecting on recent changes I’ve made. Thanks for the content
26 and feeling hurt ngl.
I'm no longer young ? AAAnd I'm struggling with college ? Bro.
I'm here rotting on TH-cam and decided to click on this to reframe my mind and it makes me somehow feel worse and enlightened.
Thank you ❤.
Ah my new youth is till 35
Just think about yourself as a baby adult 😂 youth is also really different from start to finish
@@sst201210 thanks. This baby adult has got to let go of being an old child.
Hopefully the pressure I'm building gets released at 30 (odd feeling that's similar to when I turned 20. Difference is that 20 couldn't come soon enough and 30 is waaay to soon)
hey the fact you clicked on this video you got your heart set on the right stuff man your tryin ur best thats what matters, believe in yourself :)
26 isnt old!!
"we always know every single detail (of our situation/problem) and the same thinking that caused the problem we´re trying to use to get out of the problem". Pure gold here !! Thank you SO MUCH !!
Clark you're right. Now i truly realize that i didn't live my life as i wanted to. For this time i was watching all these gurus vdeos on "you need to that, avoid this bla bla bla" and I was still waiting for that magic moment to start living. Now all i need to do is to build a strategy using each of these 4 questions. Thank you and I'm greatful for hard work
How are u now
@@RayColon-s6y Now I have a clear routine that I follow every single day - 75 Hard. I'm also trying to train my mind - embrace pain to achieve much more than I expected I can do. I'm good actually. How about you brother?
Thanks Clark! Waking up at any age is the key. The awareness is a gift of being clear we can choose our life instead of being controlled by others in it. Loved the video, first time on your channel! 🥳
Everything was just perfect man. I am going through a pretty rough phase of my life ..l have been following your videos for over a year now and trust me it helps like a lot. Thank you clark I really appreciate the effort that you put into these videos. Peace from Bangladesh❤
15 years old here, and I'm haunted by the thoughts that I'm not doing enough either.
Especially worse since I'm an artist, and the fact that my goal in life is to also be a famous creative. I'm trying to do whatever I can to escape this. I don't wanna lose time to reach my dreams. So far, I've finally pushed myself to start animation and besides that, have been improving on my social life ig. This video is another push for me to just get out there and do. Thanks man!!
I am 34 years old and I would kill to go back in time and be 15 again ..Please dont waste time or you regret like me at 34
This video insightfully highlights the difference between being busy and truly productive, reminding us that life's quality isn't dictated by hours spent but by the meaning of those hours. 🌟 It's crucial to focus not just on ticking boxes but on fulfilling the tasks that align with your passions and long-term goals.
I feel like I’m watching myself talking out my life .. but with answers !!! Love your video !
Very eye opening video. Have a lot of thoughts but like you suggested i will write them down tomorrow morning. Loved the format, the visual definitely helped.
I want to wake up. Thank you
Love the video! Really helps me because I figured out question one but wasn't exactly sure what to do now. Society has us so programmed by school and work. I felt like I was struggling to figure out what I wanted to do and realized I'm in my own way causing the struggle.
Your speech is easy to follow and not so basic to fall asleep. keep up the work :)
Great advice. Maybe I want to be satisfied with my life the way it is and stop chasing someone else’s dream.
Hey, this helped more than you know. I loved your vibe, you're so authentic.
I really enjoyed yr delivery , it was casual, sincere, informative & straight to the point good job!
I’m impressed that you don’t ask for comments or feed back to boost your channel or ask me to subscribe. Very refreshing.💜🐞
This is the best video I’ve seen on this subject matter. I’ve seen many. By point of contrast, it makes some of the other videos on this topic I’ve watched seem really weird by comparison. Well done.
25 unemployed (developer) mainly because I don't like being employee. Finally life hit hard on me cuz of my decisions I made after I graduated years ago. So here I am tonight (at least for me this exact moment as am writing this down). Already wrote down those 4 things, and hoping to get to that coffee shop tomorrow morning by doing what you suggested to me/us, btw thanks wholeheartedly and am gonna try to update this every now and then.
The best video ive watched on self improvement so far and believe me, ive watched a lot. Appreciate your work man
The 4th question made the whole video the best video I have ever watched till date in TH-cam 😬
Thank you for this awesome video. It's really different from the typical "productivity" videos, and I actually took away a lesson and an action plan to answer these 4 questions. Keep up the great content!
You're not old until you reach 90 yrs. Until then think young, eat healthy, exercise, think positive, destress by laughing every day !!
I do not think 'old age' is a specific number. Just meet a lot of people, say from the age of 50 to 100, and you'll see what I mean. Availability of health services and nutrition, genetics, whether you had exposure to toxic things, if you had to live with toxic/abusive people, etc. We all become old at different ages. But, regardless, you can still try to have healthy behaviors whether you are young or old.
How am I just discovering this channel. The first question gave me everything I needed.
Lordddd you spit bars in this one 🗣️ 5:20 and on just hits different
I haven’t watched a video from you in while and I’m glad I found you because this is the second time you “woke me up”
Love the vibe and information. Super educational while entertaining!
This is one of the few self improvement videos that I felt was truly “productive” and every minute I spent listening was well worth it. Thank you!
This is what i needed to hear. Thank you for helping me wake up.
I’ve asked myself variations of these questions over the years. No:2 opened up a different perspective to how I’ve answered similar questions in the past. Thanks for the video, it made an impact.
TH-cam was made for this. Not all the fairy tales and unicorns.
This was really moving Clark and something I really needed to hear.
I also appreciate you calling out the opposite extremes of your industry, and I feel like you're currently treading applicable and considerate ground.
Like a good book, this is a video I'll likely keep coming back to you.
Thank you for making these mate
One of your best, Clark. Love the format
Thanks, Clark. I’ve done so much to improve the way I think, my discipline, and my habits, but this video helped me understerstand something very important.
Having to think about something I would stop doing this year to make my life better has helped me realize that I’m very dishonest still about the way I feel.
It took me forever to start getting up earlier because I always stayed up watching whatever on the discord share, and I grew tired of the mindless entertainment. I worked up the courage one day to just switch my bedtime, but I never really truly explained why. I also say I handle fun at hang outs even if I didn’t. I also give a half truth when I explain why I don’t want to do something.
I can’t blame people for seeing me a certain way and expecting me to be certain ways when I am never honest with them. I’m not living the life I want to because I lie and say that I’m ok with the life that I’m not ok with.
With all due respect are you yourself really being fearless and going for it as if you could not fail. By doing the same thing "creating videos for the last 12 years on TH-cam" .
But absolutly great questions you gave.
Love this heart to heart vibe, this video really spoke to me dude. I send love and gratitude in you and your team’s way, stay blessed.
Love this format... Feels more real like you are talking to me personally ❤
thank you for this wake up, i feel like i just broke free from the endless cycle of self improvement videos and saying I'll start tomorrow, money can be amazing just don't loose site of what's also important, we can all live our own fulfilling life's, no one on this planet has a handbook step by step for life, make your own guide book
you are the only 'get more done in one week than one-year' style TH-camr I watch, normally its never useful but you are a shining exception.
well i'll be! this is definitely the best take i've seen on the subject of self-improvement; i can't even really elaborate because you already said all there is to say. i'll definitely answer the questions, even if it takes me the whole day tomorrow.
for everyone scrolling and listening to the video, go read Hidden Laws Of The Game by Eric Cook. then come back and thank me.
absolutely LOVED that video. Fullpacked with usefull information, a good amount of humour, supported by crazy graphics and quotes. Huge video!!
I loved the message and the vibe of the video.
Excellent. Thanks for the wake-up call. I was building a business in the UK following these principles back in the late 90's. I got a job in Detroit, and I thought I'd made it. Slowly, I reverted to the person who was grinding and dead already. Definitely hitting the coffee shop early tomorrow.
Bro this was dope! Super helpful. Thank you 🙏🏻
These questions are ones i kind of ask myself every now and then....BUT i never get answers. Maybe this time will be different. I feel this leads one into a flow state, not sleepwalking but actually working towards something without being forced. Earned a sub man.
7:30 ''Promise me that tomorrow morning...'', look at him, knowing TH-cam loves pushing these videos in the ungodly hours of the night
When we are most open to change and introspection
"The best coaches don't have the answers, they have the questions..."
Best advice for any age.
31 and still feel like I am in the youth 😂😂😂
30's is the new 20's brother
27 and I feel like I'm 30 lol
@@danielarvicaviado456but you still 30
As a 38 year old who feels the same, you aren’t in the youth. I will tell you what I say to myself on a daily basis: you just need to get your shit together and be an adult. Let go of the childish bullshit, grow up, and once again: get your shit together.
I'm 23 and feel the opposite 😂
I admire how this man differentiates between 'preparing to live' and 'living'. This reminds me of the quote 'many people die at 25 years of age, but we only bury them at 75,' which emphasizes the significance of truly living life rather than just existing.