HOW to make a woman obsessed with YOU using STOIC Seduction to wildly attract her (Female Nature)
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Casey are you sure about this one because look at the example of will smith and Jada she cheated on will because she wanted to fix something on a Lil boy I have a better example do you know Californication where the main actor is Hank moody that guy ain’t stoic nor complete can you please explain why he gets laid most of the time Mr Casey Zander
@CaseyZander been following your content for a while, I'm stuck girl I've seen a handful.of times on dates, vibe is there we had sex the other night... she messaged a meme a day later saying she was thinking about me, I made her laugh. I Wasnt clingy etc then topic switched to work and how I'm "always working" I hinted that I actually had a few free days this week...i already know thats where i messed up.(as in I was around but just saw her so dont want to seem awkward) And her reply was "now you have some free time😊" ...lol wth do I say to that?
@@corycohen5789 It's easier when we keep in mind what is best for us and not them. Meaning be outcome independent/detached from whatever happens. We interact more authentically this way. If you're free then you're free, if you're not then you're not.
You Da Man Casey!
Yo Casey I need help wit re-attracting a girl
I never thought one day I would be coached about women like if I was in a football practice
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same here but fuck it
Doing my taxes seems easier.
Legalize prostitution in America today and screw all these hoops to jump through
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And brings more money
Agreed
You're a maverick
Solid discussion. This concept of Stoicism to a lighter extent can apply to Business Relationships & Friendships. The person that displays higher emotional attachment or reaction tends to get manipulated.
He's is right! I have a lot of charisma, always have had, and when I was younger it suited me well, and got plenty of opportunity, sex, fun ect. As I got older things changed and had to learn this stoic thought process because I could get the girl, but couldn't keep her! Very informed video. So young men that this video and learn it for a chance at success✌️
what did you change bro because i been going through this
Most men fuck up
By being blinded by the beauty. I see myself almost being tricked by it. The girl that’s a side chick and is a 6, I do all of this automatically because I never want a relationship with her. The key is we have to treat that 8-9 like the 5-6. It’s really that simple and hard at the same time.
And why you don't, you loose your logic mind because of beauty?
Happens to every man who doesn't have several chicks on rotation and different types. She becomes the one and only.
It’s not ‘fucking up’ men we are brainwashed to think that we can be loved unconditionally, once you remove that fake need you become a man . Before that you are just a boy needing moms unconditional love
@@Katarzyna-h2z because i want the 8-9 as a wifey. I DO want a relationship with her so I treat her good? Which in turn is a turn off at times. Always answering texts. Always down to chill. Doing cheesy shit
@@halukkilic3171 facts! I agree. I definitely started hitting up my side pieces again just to keep myself balanced
Masculine tonality: Yum, my tummy is so full!
i treat her like shit and she cant get enough of me, thanks for the advice
😂😂😂😂
Is she depressed?
Great - she has accepted your saliva. This ain't complicated.
Only if she wants you first
@@Principalcharminghe means that. It's just man are too nice. So, that called shit.
What's cool is we women are also learning the game. Both can play on an equal playing field now. We will go our separate ways as men and women, and only connect with authentic and emotionally healed people from here on out.
7:55 you know that charisma is just being cool, calm and collected. When you TRY to have "charisma" by trying to say and/or do whatever, you lose.
Yes. The trying is allways to needy. It is you off center. It signals that you have no options.
Always good bits of advice and to know what Stoicism is and when and where to apply is a key in life.
“Oh my tummy is so full….” That’s that genuine masculine tone lol
You are a master. Didn’t know this.i was dumb. I lost all.my house my job.all.i wish i knew that.but i am alive.i will start again.
There's a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
Shut the fck up..just put a free version of it if u really want to be helpful instead of selling things !
The unbothered energy is key.
Works for us too.
0:00 you're a weak man if you want to do something or even want a woman obsessed with you. that is narcissism and feminine. if she becomes obsessed with you because you are just being the masculine that she desires, then so it is, that happened naturally. a man is to focus on himself, his purpose, NOT FOCUS ON WOMEN AT ALL but leave the door open to whichever woman wants to be part of what he is building and YOU DECIDE IF SHE IS WORTH IT BY WHAT SHE PRESENTS TO YOU.
so learning how to properly keep a relationship = weak? were you as adamant about your purpose when you were 15 as you are now? or did you learn that?
@@cadedruryyou both have a point but yeah he’s right you should focus on your purpose but your right for wanting to learn how to keep a relationship but mostly it comes with communication, commitment, loyalty etc. and if competition is required it’s not worth it
Yea really it is that's a women's Job we need to be conquering something like our ancestors did
In that conquering however you treat her you will be a king @@cadedrury
It’s a war out here
Good for you?
I don't know what seminar you took but damm I'm glad you are spreading some good knowledge
Truth is...... Hypergamy and narcissism have a lot in common.
True
"Are you always this serious?' is exactly what I'm aiming for. Wisdom is memory without the emotional charge is a quote from Joe Dispenxa and seems to tie into this.
Masculine verses feminine energy. It's about the polarity
you are the best out there ... i have read many .. you are way good and real Casey ..
Somewhat bro science, somewhat poetic, somewhat makes sense. Overall? I like this guy right here.
I am surprised how your videos are not blowing up. But I seriously don't want everyone playing the same game :P
I honestly believe you only get the girl if she literally likes you for you, even girls that fall for losers or like any guy it just depends on the girl and guy if they connect or genuine like each other.
Why on earth would I want a crazy, delusional, over-entitled, hypergamous, future cat lady obsessed with me??
Stoic and snappy works better then charming. I was testing this last weekend you get a totally different outcome
you mean what makes you feel better
@@Principalcharming i don't know charming also works. But with indifference and well timed action the reactions are just different.
Give an example please
I like to use a combination of both the way a baseball pitcher mixes up his pitches to keep the batter off guard but detached, indifferent stoic is my bread and butter pitch.
@@craig8304yeah what’s stoic and snappy?
01:46- "You have been conditioned your whole life...to care about bullshit that you do not need to" - Casey Zander
Couldn't have heard it better my man🔥
Good
I would love to hear advice for guys in long term relationships, because a lot of what you have said in the past can be applied to both single or taken i.e embracing your frame.
One of your best tbh
6:09 this why constant texting is not good because you leave interpretation of your words and more so tone to her and you do not want that! this why you eventually dont get a response etc, because of how she interpreted what you typed.
I would love to get your thoughts on the "being emotionally unavailable" part. What happens when a woman really knows her worth, and once she understands that the man is not emotionally available, she walks away? As a woman, I have done this a couple of times. Once I realise this from a man, I stop having interest because my body understands that I will not receive what I deserve. I would love your thoughts Casey!
You said in one video that when women realize you like them they lose attraction can you make a video of pursuing setting up a date/hangout and escalating with a woman woman who already likes you
On point bro
Interest varies among women it depends if you’re looking for a girlfriend or a wife. Most women want married. I say just be brutal with them and tell them what you think and that you’re looking for a wife. They all will ask what you’re looking for just tell them your quality them for a wife, they will go wet… It’s an Art , Just be rude as F in the beginning you want to make them feel something, if they feel something they will remember and like a hungry cat they will come back and if they don’t the next one will. if you’re using dating apps, just check out the chicks profile let her come back and like you then go from there, but don’t go out like in women just because.. you only wanna go after the ones that have interest in you super simple
You make sense bro
Thank you Casey🎉
These type of women are not worth keeping. I would rather remain single my whole life and enjoy my freedom and well being. A man is born to conquer his desires and dreams not to please and entertainment women.
i’m a man that uses charm and charisma and literally went through what you talked about in the video she seemed completely in love and one month later completely switched up where did i go wrong
You're fake. Not authentic. We can see that. Learn to love yourself and be real.
I gotta save this.
Stoicism doesn't keep women respectful and loyal.
The Stoics lived in societies with actual laws that prohibited pointless divorce and punished female infidelity.
Those laws are what keep women respectful and loyal.
@muhammaddawood8364 No. Torah is the only answer.
Islam let's you take divorced wives back after they've been defiled with another man.
And they let women in the job market, and let them keep 100% of their earnings without contributing.
Amoung several other flaws.
Islam is a flawed system that was given to the gentiles because of a blessing to Ishmael in Torah.... it's a temporary Gentile system to bring them closer to converting and accepting Torah.
@@anthonym4706 your own daughter can be defiled tomorrow, also you people let you daughters and sisters get wrecked without even a marriage. For free. So no Torah is outdated. Changed. Fabricated. Only Quran is for the modern world.
@@anthonym4706 torah is fabricated. Outdated. Not for the modern world
@@anthonym4706 you know the Truth, but are lying to yourself. You want to be pleased and enjoy some beautiful which is only yours and will complete you emotionally, but at the same time you want to sin. Like instead of God who created for you these desires. You have turned back on HIM. You can never be free from what you want, you will never be completely satisfied with everything. It will just not be enough. Like the pinnacle of Pleasure and Enjoyment without any worries in the world. Like playing as a sinless innocent child. You will never have them. Perfection lies with ALLAH. Faith Lies in Heart. Greatest Pleasure is what Paradise is. The Blessings of God will only complete upon Muslims, who Acknowledge that ALLAH is their God. There’s no God except HIM. And the perfection of everything is Perfected in HIM.
@muhammaddawood8364 Yeah nice try but, your entire speech is a concept completely rooted in Torah. Arab pagans got it from the Torah, and made their own flavor.
You changed my life, thank you.
It is not about sleeping with the girl it means nothing
What you actually want is her to respect you
if she doesn’t respect you the whole relationships will fail
if she doesn’t respect you what will happen is shes going to shit test you and create drama then try to find a different man she can respect
This is going to be the only way that a woman will want to be with you
By you withholding emotional availability she opens up and increases her emotional availability toward you
By withholding you will get left.
Great video but the only part I don’t quite get is how by being less emotionally available you invite her to be more emotionally invested/available… seems counter intuitive. Any light on this welcomed.
exactly, as a woman, any man who does not show interest or be consistent, i will mirror his energy. I will not chase. That goes for most women except the desperate women or girls who have issues that stem from
their past experience. The good intelligent, wise women are 10 steps ahead of this youtubers game.
Avoidants are getting abandoned. Play at your own risk.
Uncanny.... I recon you got zapped by lightning and can hear womens voices in your head! It is spooky! If I were a bloke I would study this 'Zanderology' for a couple years to get a firm grip on this material to last a lifetime!
So now it’s all stoic? Then why Casey said on a podcast with Austin Dunham that his approach was challenging girls to thumb wars? 😂
Bro’s flip flopping apparently
If she brings it once, and you're together. Let her bring it every time. Once it clicks it's easy. Finding the right woman isn't thay difficult she will make herself known, but you have to be better than the average guy
@@aodh5966 there is no such thing as ‘ right woman’ , it’s all a reflection of how you handle things in life , that’s why when guys mature more they have better relationships
@@jeansollot6419 this is the beginning of man’s fall, the obsession that there is a ‘right woman’ independent of how you carry yourself
Couldn’t be more true
Hi Casey, can you please tell me the brand name of polo t-shirt you are wearing
Basically be dead 😂 to your emotions yup I’m staying single and celebate
*What’s the biggest challenge you faced when trying to apply stoic principles in your dating life?*
Thank you 🙏🙂
In one video u have said I noted this down: "Don't be too stoic it's unnatural, give off that fun excitement vibe" And now u say to be stoic. So what is it
Is there someone like him for women??
The gazelle doesn't know the lion - or even care to know the lion.
How can one remember so many things.
Carry the white board in back pocket 😅
First!
Truth
If u show interest, then she's not interested. Women want to feel that they're getting someone better than them.
That's because they are severely psychologically damaged
It's ok to show interest. The key is to not SAY you like her or how you feel about her. You show it by taking her out, making a move, and having sex with her. That's it. Women already know that you are interested in them. That doesn't make them lose interest. In fact, women love it when a man she likes desires her body. What turns them off is when a man verbally expresses how her feels about her on an emotional level.
@@craig8304 Showing interest first = I like her. Obviously, if they initiate, we can reciprocate. If u initiate, she interprets that as you're an easy catch, therefore you're less value than her.
@larryjackson6075 - That's not true at all. Showing interest by asking for her number, inviting her for a date, or going for a kiss = LEADING. It's confidence. Beautiful women already know you are interested in them. When you don't make a move, it communicates a lack of confidence.
It's ok to initiate. It's masculine and is attractive. Women only lose interest when you communicate that you like them more than they like you, by over pursuing them and telling them how you feel, etc.
Women either like you or not, that's what I have seen. Have seen them smiling widely and greeting other guys first, but won't greet me. I told myself I won't be greeting first. Time and energy saved. If you pursue her, she will use you. If she is always making the first move and showing interest, maybe that's when you should take advantage
A man should never say "my tummy" period.
Rhymes with "Mummy" ! :))
Dude I have a question you said the women want to invest and broke guys but at the same time the change you for a full guy because the hypergamy so tell me about it
When is a good time to ask a woman her body count, is there ever a good time to ask that direct question? Some girls are sneaky, and know that men watch for signs of permiscuity.
What for do you really need this. Man's ego is to weak to handle that it is not the first. Every number above 5-7 means low value for both sexes.
You will never get her body count number... she's either a virgin or she's not... the most you can do is estimate how many exclusive relationships she's been in and how loyal she's been within those relationships.... it's an estimated number.
Her behaviour can usually tell it's higher than what you think. Just assume it's higher than what you think it is. If she's freaky in bed, she probably has higher than what u think. It's always higher than what you think - because you're wired to think it's low. Assume and act on it - never ask - especially if you're good in bed and have good game - it will ruin it for you.
@@anthonym4706 Agreed. I've always thought to throw out an extreme number like 30 and watch if she flinches, or gives other body cues, or even the "it really doesn't matter... " but when should that question be presented pre or present relationship?
@platinumcontent9 It's perfectly acceptable to judge. But keep the judgment to yourself.
Be nonchalant. Don't speak endlessly. Let her talk about herself.
A woman opens up to a Man about herself the most after you give her good sex and she's laying there talking to you... your best strategy is to listen without showing your judgment.... even play into it as if her experiences are"Hot"... turn it into something you seduce her with... ask her how her "kitty" felt in those moments. How much she came.
Overall, act if is sex is no big deal... the more you act like that, the more sex you get. And the more information you'll get from her also.
Never let her see how judgmental you really are.
The Video is so counterintuitive man but is exactly true
I want a serious relationship this video is not going to work for me
Want a secret? This works even better on men
I saw a whole board and cracked
We used to talk playful things all the time, now she's pushing to serious talk frequently. What's the move for me?
Sounds like she is howling for marriage!
Keep frame. Dont budge. Me an immoveable object
Keep frame - f her frequently - she will eventually see what u r and dump u - at least u had your fun.
@@wvmhx interrupt her and ask if she would like to have threesome
Depends.
1. How long have you been dating?
2. What serious things is she saying or pushing on you?
This will only work if you (your family) have more money than her (her family).
I'm attached to a very broke man. He's the most interesting and unique man I know. He will survive any situation. With me, he can thrive.
I came readjng the thumbnail i thought it was joke
Great if I get a text like that I’ll respond the same way LOL
Some of the stuff Casey talks about might be true, but after a while you have to ask yourself why you would still be interested in playing this game. Explain to me how a real girl is better and cheaper than a skilled escort, these days.
I am wondering the exact same thing to be honest, I'm 33 maybe this is not for me anymore 😅
@@neolithic1990 Is the juice worth the squeeze..
Bruh can we ever get married? Why do I have to play games to get a girl…😢
For real! 100%
Years ago you didn’t need to, most of people did act normal, thinks just happend, average people got average resoults and people with game got better resoults. Right now since women get unlimited attention and they believe they can get almost any man(or they deserve that top 10%) you need to put some game and understand women to counter that.
Right now there is an evil societal crisis of feminism and men MUST NOT agree to what is currently falsely labeled ""marriage "".
Your problem is "get" - the only sure thing you're going to get is what you pay for. You need game to get the other thing or you'll die average and alone.
@@Gomcio too much work, rather be single and make bread…but I do want wife and kids eventually so idk haha
5:10 and no emoji in your messaging, cool. not that they cant be used but careful what and how u use them and when. if u want to communicate stoic, masculine frame, it's best to not use them. in this situation, perfect way to NOT use them.
This mf don't miss.
Where’s your proof?
This needs to be practiced and tested over many years in order to master it.
Yesirrrr
Woman got this dude looking like Charlie Day lol
He's teaching you game but game isn't very effective, especially long term, unless you have the right foundations, which isn't really to do with being stoic. Doubt he knows anything about the ancient world, or the philosophy of that period actually. The right foundations is your attitude and how you truly feel about yourself, being secure, true confidence because you've done something with your life, he's not teaching you that because he doesn't really have it himself.
He has dedicated his whole adult life to bedding w omen - I doubt there's been much time over for philosophy and trips to holy places around the globe lol
@@halukkilic3171 So he says anyway. Many of these guys put the effort into their channel more than anything else, that's why he churns out so many videos so often, they're all like that. The channel is their business, they're not really successful elsewhere, they wouldn't be able to make so many videos so often if that was so.
@@dcikaruga there’s is no ‘game’ in reality , it’s just self respect if you think about it
@@Principalcharming I find that a strange one. Boys and girls always play games when you look at it, just some are better at it than others, ultimately, a good relationship doesn't need game, but sadly, most relationships don't work out that way.
@@dcikaruga what we call game that women play it’s actually universal and weak men do it also , it’s weakness , insecurity , need for validation and so forth .
My Tummy😂
I gotta go poopy
Or just marry someone in a different country and don’t need to do all that
Female nature is the same regardless of the corner of the planet.
@@edheldude then why do average men get with women without a problem?
I want to break up with her but she loves me I get it now
🤣Be super nice and tell her she is beautiful every minute. Buy her flowers, send her Shakespearean poems and text every minute. Her ego will be inflated and she will start ignoring you. Easy breakup
@@Accuface2000😂👏
Be an emotionless automaton that's dead inside, okay, check. I have a theory that since most of the people you interact with are on an SSRI this is why people are on this level now.
Is this going to be on the mid-term?
“Yum” and “tummy” aren’t masculine…..just sayin’
Please begin to follow Jesus Christ, he is our Lord and Savior 🙏🙏🙏.
Jesus Christ loves you.
Hypergamy is romanticised narcissism.
King shit!
second!
You are full of Swit , u know some stuff but emotions no u know 0 mate
How can i speak to you privatly
More confusing with each video !
I have question Casey,
Why i do All this things to get Women?, because subconsiensly i am attach
I am the Men, women go and Comme back
I don't give damm with really relax and happy.
This one is easier: Be social and have fun. women come women go sometimes they stay.
You resemble hurry cane
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Ah yes the classic chad telling us normies how to act
Guys should I try asking out a girl who s in a long distance relationship with a foreigner?
We are cool with each other, yet I don’t wanna appear needy and push too early.
Maybe I could write smth nonchalant like “ just checking up on an old friend” and invite her somewhere?
We also follow each others Instagram, so I can convey a cool lifestyle there
Try to imagine you're the long distance foreigner?
There's more fish in the sea bro. Don't ruin their relationship
Just be cool around her and let her come to you. Don't pursue.
@@montecristo8835ye, but girl is a keeper yet have a history of her heart broken so she tries stuff like long distance now
@@PumaFist yeah, seems logical. Yet we don’t see each other anymore cuz we’ve graduated this spring.
So now I can’t casually invite her to a cafe after studying.
A concrete invitation would be inquired from my or her side to meet up. I’m thinking of doing it a bit later, so her “honeymoon stage” passes
no dont , look for a girlfriend who is single.