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There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
In my 53 years of being alive, now married for 20 years with kids. This is my take: make yourself a priority, advance yourself in your career or business, be healthy, stay in shape, have hobbies & friends, love, provide & protect your family. Have plans for the future that includes your family, treat your wife extremely well, naturally she will reciprocate, if she doesn’t, don’t stress yourself, life is too short. Whatever you do: don’t put your hope on any human being including your wife. If you do, you might be disappointed.
Jessica I told you a year ago that the star isn't the limit... I knew you hard proper content so space is you limit Keep it up... You're mentoring millions I love you
Guys, please take care of your future. Be the leader, take care of your role, involve her in decision but don't make her a priority. A woman is not a special being as Jessy just laid out. All these suggestion will make you a simp and the lady will end up leaving you because you are too nice. A good woman will be in place for you when your life is in order and successful. You need little effort if you are doing okay in life. Remember a woman is to compliment your life not a priority. I am not saying be arrogant, but NEVER make her too important with all these points laid down. Live your life. I am a good example. I did everything my mother taught me and she left at my lowest low in life, after suffering with her cancer for 4 years. Only do all these Jessy said if you are married, and she does all these for you, then reciprocate it. Men are easily fooled with that soft opened tissues between her legs, use your head instead!
Women who love you,love you nothing can be done to change that.The women who do not love you, nothing can be done to make them obsess with you .Love comes naturally it can only be improved and can not be manifested.
I believe love has no manual, love is natural, love is divine, love is a blessing that cannot be forced or forged. Who isn't for you, won't be for you even if you study love psychology till the world end. It's so annoying when you give your all to one you love and they trample on it.
A woman that truly love you will ever look to all this. Women should make loving natural not optional Eg if he does do this that it means...... Nowadays when there watched all this videos there will try to enforce it in their relationship and if a man dose not play along it leads to breakups and unessassary problems in the family or relationship.
Point no. 4 is the deal-breaker. The rest are kind of 50/50. The women I've met all seem to be craving an emotional adventure that most contemporary guys either don't know how to or aren't willing to provide. Out of sheer curiosity I decided to do away with the other traditional stuff we hear: chivalry, kindness and empathy, emotional security, physical gifts... and decided to focus entirely on entertainment and providing a roller-coaster unpredictable experience. A good number didn't leave: regardless of how seriously I took the relationship.
This is of course assuming that you're already settled and stable in your life (not struggling with emotional, financial, psychological or physical insecurities). The other factor that people usually avoid talking about is the bedroom experience. You screw up on this, she leaves.
@@barakaraysam9198 . What about when she's already a friend who is sick with cancer. Doesn't that chamge the dynamics some? She's in a group home, doesn't deive but is overall independant. Has very frequent headaches and has to rest. How would taking her on an emotional roller coaster affect her in a case like this? Just seems the being the nice caring guy that chases half the women away would be best. The only thing I can see doing is not be availavle every time, teasing her a little, and delaying replies to texts for over a day from time to time.
If the guy isn't feeling well, I prefer that he calls to cancel the date so that he doesn't infect me or anyone else, the date can always be rescheduled.
I finally got over my anxious attachment issues. I stopped stressing about what to say and what to do next and trusted myself in the moment. Being stoic and certain always works.
Yeah, Good advice Jessica. And this is exactly why I stay single, entertaining and catering to a womans emotion is something I can't stand. But I don't mind the friends with benefits thing.
I believe men should treasure their happiness first..love is a state of mind.dont share it until if you think its worth it.Respect woman who is raised to be a wife material .... submissive, humble,kind, feminine, cooperative and loving... always be mysterious and be calm at all times..
My advice, be yourself guys, when you're too nice they leave, when you're not they leave. When you want a woman, make all the sacrifices to get her but don't sacrifice too much knowing she wouldn't do same for you. Make more money since women are into providers than a lover.
Imagine dating Jessica, that’ll be a glorious experience, cos I enjoy to discuss these things, and I usually seek a very deep understanding of someone’s mind, and hers seems to be extremely deep.
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Jessica, I agree with you on most of the point, however, starting a relationship depends on the intent. Guys who want a short-term relationship normally do just anything to get the woman. With a long-term relationship in mind, I believe it's better to let the woman know who you are and be open for changes. In this case, the lady gets to decide whether to embark on that long-lasting relationship. It's not a great idea to forcibly subdue your true colors. It may work, but they will come out later. Also, suggestions that borders on safety shouldn't wait, especially if the guys truly care about the lady. Love your channel though.
I disagree with the part of showing up for a date even when I'm sick. If I'm feeling sick or tired I'm going to cancel the date with a 3-4 hour advance notice. I cancel hang outs with friends when I'm sick. That's normal for me. Besides it may be for her benefit that I cancel as I might be contagious.
If someone is sick during the first 6 months of meeting them. Delete their number. Why? Because they are illustrating that they have bad genes and are probably not a good candidate to procreate with.
after effectively exploring various topics in the build up of your channel, i see the love and romantic topic is working magic for you...keep going higher Jess!!!
A lot of women don't care about these things. Sure, most of them want the attention that these gestures imply, BUT when it is time to choose between the man doing these things and the guy they find attractive, whether he is actually abusive or not, they could very well end up with the latter. All those things you have done and all the emotional investments and even financial sometimes, won't matter! They care mostly about how they feel! And what they want! So, please, while these points are good, they definitely don't get or keep women. They like and want the attention, but you could be deemed a whimp by those same women enjoying those gestures. Women should actually figure out what they want, while men should not tolerate all kinds of trash in hopes of trying to get a woman!
If being generally even-tempered and interesting works, I can dig that. Playing minds games to get someone obsessed is dangerous; feelings get hurt, and property damage happens.
Hello Jessica have been following you for a quit long and the things you always say I practice them in my relationship and they work well,,,kindly can you do a video on long distance relationships?
Thank you Jessica. I have failed on most of the points you raised in this video. These points are an eye opener for me leading me to realise where my relationship went wrong.
So you’re saying you were a complete a-hole in your relationships? If not I can guarantee you had 1 or more of these qualities that she liked which means there were others she didn’t which also means you can never fully please a woman. Work on yourself and allow only the woman who accepts you who you are! Trying to please a woman only hurts you in the long run.
One of the things I have learnt about women is 99.9% of them are confuse and don't know what they want. Make money n focus on ur grind bcos there is no love any where without MONEY.
Yes thankyou Jessica all your video's are very helpful for me I've learned alot about women through your video's that I would not know without them . You are helping us men out in the big world of women and relationships with them . Thank you once again Kevin from UK 🇬🇧 Radcliffe near Manchester xxx
Everyone has different experiences when it comes down to relationships but the most important thing in a relationship is communication. If a woman wants to communicate with you she will. No one wants to be told what to do. They want to understand what to do. No relationship is perfect and everyone can get better. You always should love yourself first but loving yourself too much can lead to a downfall of how you treat your lady. I was told when something feels off then it might be you can't think like that because that's a negative way of looking at it. If a woman does you the same way you treat her, then it's telling in ways especially if you forget what she says and try to change up what she says.
Good points Jess. But I believe doing all of these is like you trying to be perfect in her sight and she may feel like you're just pretending. And besides it is possible to do all of these things and she won't value you. That's a woman who don't value your existence. I believe when you are dating a woman take it like Forex trading, you lose or you gain.. you stay happy and continue with life. I've been too nice to ladies and I ended up in a friend..brother..zone 😅😅😅 😂😂
Yeah, they're like forex trading😂. Very unpredictable. Swayed more by emotions rather than reason. So don't do pass yourself on woman matter. Just be real and find someone who is real with you. Reciprocal love.
Women are very complicated beings sometimes they prefer men who are hard on them, no matter how you threat them, they will complain. I like your voice and grammar. You are too good
As a woman, I prefer nice men. If the woman's father treated his daughter well, that is what she'll expect from her partner, and on the other hand, if she weren't lucky and her father treated her poorly, well, she would attract men who aren't nice. This is a phycological fact, parents groom their children without even being aware of it.
@@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 yeah I completely agree this one, this is called as 'the law of resonance' we attract our mirror self, if we don't respect our selves (which is psychologically if his father treats her mother respectfully) she's adopt that self respect into, later this is gonna be resonate to her adult relationships As a child she observe father and mother relationship, and subconsciously that is going to be benchmark of her future adult relationships. Self-awareness is key, if she's in a toxic relationship, she's is setting her daughter future relationship benchmark, even without realising it.
@@H-CSELEKrishnaMohan it dose not really boils down to how your dad treat your mum or your mum treats your dad, environment also and self need or want. It's how that person wants to be treated.
One thing you should know as a guy is that predators never get hunting tips from preys. Men are the prize in this world and should begin living with this knowledge... Increase your value and watch how these creatures will queue up for you.
Nice points. But fam I have done almost every single one of them , won’t lie but last last breakfast served 😂. Focus on yourself bro. Focus on self development. That’s worth while .
A relationship is mutual Jessica! It’s a two way effort and not one way. Treating your other half; either a man or a woman is equally important and deserved. This is a very subjective feminist outlook and bias perspective coming into a relationship. What you are saying MUST be applied by both men and women in a relationship. For instance; "listening" both parties in any type of a relationship should know how to listen! Your argument should not start from ‘how a man should listen’ it should start from ‘how men and women should listen to each other!’ Please; strive to have objective content!
Hahah this is how u lose a woman. If you treat them too well they lose interest. I did these things and ended up her losing interest in me. I was less caring to some people and omg they sticked to me 😂😂
@@Otto8507 Exactly. Just always be ready to walk away. Never get too settled in relationship it will keep the suspense up. Else oh god the moment she understand you can't go on without her you are so dead.
If you care less, you play your cards right. Let us not be fooled to glorify and praise women coz one thing’s for sure once you give the sense of needing her than wanting her you’ve lost G! Just focus on your money.
Exactly,this she gender easily farmiliarises everything u do for them several times,if u over love her,she will assume that it's ur role to love her with her not doing it for u in return,if u keep texting her first,she will take it as ur role to text first,stop it and u will see fire ,etc and so many other sorts of care men have tried showing women they love,so I don't recommend any man to be so good to a lady as if she's is the only one,never overshow that to a girl even if she is a queen to u,, otherwise u will regret all ur knowledge and tactics u put in that relationship,
Charleyyyy🤦🏿♂️ The task on men is very huge and complicated. Making a living itself ain't easy , now to talk of keeping a relationship ouch! . Ebi like some us go stay single like this ooo 😩 That was insightful tho Thank you Miss Jessy
I didn't came to this life to satisfy women, everyday is woman, woman, woman,,, we are kings and should be respected not bowing low to ladies we crowned 👑 Queeens
Thanks for the wisdom... however, I wouldn't want my son to go through all this set of expectations. I believe times have changed, and modern life is too stressful for everyone to carry such.
I was reading about research that shows 28% of men are now deciding to remain single and to keep to themselves because of the stress of dating. Women are to difficult. These were settled minded men.
Never ask a fish to teach you how to fish, ask the fisherman instead. All the things she laid down will at best make you a simp. One major thing to watch out for as a guy is genuine interest and desire and other things will follow
while so much of what you have said may be true, there are also some studies that prove that women don't really know what attracts them to the opposite sex. women differ from one another more so than men do. if as a man I can't give advice or guidance to the woman I'm with simply because she didn't ask for it, what does that say about me as a man? men are the leaders in relationships, while women are followers. it's been like that since the beginning of time. as a man I need to take leadership in the relationship, as my woman is a reflection of me in so many ways. so what a lot of women need to do let men be the men.
Here's my list: 1) Be yourself, have a positive zest for life, and hold your head high 2) Be yourself, have a positive zest for life, and hold your head high 3) Be yourself, have a positive zest for life, and hold your head high 4) Be yourself, have a positive zest for life, and hold your head high If you live each day joyfully and with enthusiasm you will send out an energy that is VERY powerful--and you will attract women!!
If a woman wants you she will do whatever in her power to keep you vice versa so just be yourself and take care of yourself and find a life outside the relationship let the relationship breath
wooow❤❤one video leads me to another....i love your content...and the way you like know how to bring out what people are going through plus giving us what we could do to make everything right😊😊😊
....how to treat others is a Human virtues and those who seek trouble are never in my list of love ones....sorry girl. Your videos are so addictive. Asante sana Dada.
thanks for the video maa'am ... hoping you start making videos too that educates women on what a man wants. i realized you only educate men like the obligations and duties fall right on us. thats not bad. but pls kindly educate the women on how to treat us too. men have a life too. That way, everything will be balanced. looking forward to that.
Hey hi Jess its Justice Here all the way from South Africa, " jus wanted to pass by and say thanks for being Original really in peace now even if i haven't Mrs Me yet but its ok ( Much Love From me Just )
I will not do none of those things for any woman unless she's my mother, my sister or a close relative. They don't deserve it. In my 37 years of being alive, I have never experienced genuine love, care, or attention from a woman I was attracted to unless there was something expected in return. Every time I open myself up, I end up hurt and more broken than before. My confidence has been reduced to zero. The prospects of finding someone to spend my life with seem to be dwindling, leaving me with a deep-seated anger and bitterness towards all women.
I watched the video and I will say without money their is no way you can meet up with the above been said, without financial stability a man can not be happy to dish out calm advice to her woman cos the tension and the breakdown will always be there
I really love your channel and your insights on how men should treat women and i agree with the "12 commandments". However most women do not offer much in return!
I love every point Jess...however, I thought the "Death or coma"(if you meant it) is too extreme!? I mean, don't get me wrong, I take punctuality and integrity very seriously. But death or coma? Don't you think there several other reasons beyond human control that could cause one to fall behind scheduled time?
Hello thank you for your insight. Do you have any recommendations for a long distance relationship. I am from Pennsylvania 🇺🇸 and my wife is from Trinidad 🇹🇹. We met on a interracial dating site back in 2019 and we developed from there. In time we will be together but I want to keep our relationship fresh as we communicate at a distance. Thank you.
The biggest mistake a man can make is pedestalizing a women, which is what this video is talking about. Women expect men to treat them like Queens while women treat men with no special treatment (It is one sided). I disagree with most of what is in this video. A man must have a purpose, goals and constantly developing yourself to increase your self value. A woman will see this and respect that and will decide to be with you. Its not what you do for her that is important, its what you do for yourself that is more important. Woman may come and go out of your life, but if you are constantly making a better life for yourself, you will naturally attract woman into your life. Don't put all your hope in one woman, there are many fish in the sea.
a woman i dated got her hair done, i complimented it after 3 days.... she said " i was expecting you to say something the day i got it done, i had noticed she expected attention certain times, when i didnt she practically crawled to me, when i did it when she expected it she pretty much acted like she had me under control
I don't know if I should listen to Jessica or just go and hustle first. Coz I need money badly.. my heart is so cold, all I think about is my Goals. I don't think I'll be able to treat my sis that nice self. That girl love money too much
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Thank you so much Ma.
Jessica ,are you married?iam asking for my neighbour
Great
just Created a Patreon account back here but till trying to learn how it goes
@@MAKOMERE hahahaha
There's a book called FlirtoSphere Seduction, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, it's the real deal
In my 53 years of being alive, now married for 20 years with kids. This is my take: make yourself a priority, advance yourself in your career or business, be healthy, stay in shape, have hobbies & friends, love, provide & protect your family. Have plans for the future that includes your family, treat your wife extremely well, naturally she will reciprocate, if she doesn’t, don’t stress yourself, life is too short. Whatever you do: don’t put your hope on any human being including your wife. If you do, you might be disappointed.
Gbam!
Best comment I've heard in a long time
@@TheLegend-uq1gz so so true .., this info is so needed for today's men .., they are following what internet influencer say ..
Thank you very much, I do 100 % agree with you Sir
Great Mate.
Guys, make money, and you don't gotta worry about these things! There's no manual for these emotional creatures
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😂😂😂true though
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What if everyone in your area has money? What happens then?
I doubt I will ever do a thing to impress a female, it's not worth it, you just gotta be yourself and love yourself more.
100%
As much as you say this King its true dont beg each remember a relationship is a two way street
PREACH KING 💯
I agree with you, love your self most
100% correct love yourself
"The way you treat people around you is a sure indication of how you'll treat her in the future" 💯
But if you got enemies, she expects you to defend yourself cause it will also be an indication of how you'll protect her in the future
@@Sammie551 of course, you'll defend her just like yourself. That's love
@@demoleeakins not only love but bravery, some men aren't brave
Thanks!
Thanks ❤️
Jessica I told you a year ago that the star isn't the limit... I knew you hard proper content so space is you limit
Keep it up... You're mentoring millions
I love you
Guys, please take care of your future. Be the leader, take care of your role, involve her in decision but don't make her a priority. A woman is not a special being as Jessy just laid out. All these suggestion will make you a simp and the lady will end up leaving you because you are too nice.
A good woman will be in place for you when your life is in order and successful. You need little effort if you are doing okay in life. Remember a woman is to compliment your life not a priority. I am not saying be arrogant, but NEVER make her too important with all these points laid down. Live your life.
I am a good example. I did everything my mother taught me and she left at my lowest low in life, after suffering with her cancer for 4 years.
Only do all these Jessy said if you are married, and she does all these for you, then reciprocate it. Men are easily fooled with that soft opened tissues between her legs, use your head instead!
Well said Chief🥂
#IgboAmaka✌️😎
Beautiful👌
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My neega 👏! I couldn't agree more
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Women who love you,love you nothing can be done to change that.The women who do not love you, nothing can be done to make them obsess with you .Love comes naturally it can only be improved and can not be manifested.
There you go. Big facts
wrong get out of this Romantic novel mindset
I believe love has no manual, love is natural, love is divine, love is a blessing that cannot be forced or forged. Who isn't for you, won't be for you even if you study love psychology till the world end. It's so annoying when you give your all to one you love and they trample on it.
Lol
Truth!
A woman that truly love you will ever look to all this. Women should make loving natural not optional Eg if he does do this that it means...... Nowadays when there watched all this videos there will try to enforce it in their relationship and if a man dose not play along it leads to breakups and unessassary problems in the family or relationship.
That's true,love❤ is magic 🎉
Point no. 4 is the deal-breaker. The rest are kind of 50/50. The women I've met all seem to be craving an emotional adventure that most contemporary guys either don't know how to or aren't willing to provide. Out of sheer curiosity I decided to do away with the other traditional stuff we hear: chivalry, kindness and empathy, emotional security, physical gifts... and decided to focus entirely on entertainment and providing a roller-coaster unpredictable experience. A good number didn't leave: regardless of how seriously I took the relationship.
This is of course assuming that you're already settled and stable in your life (not struggling with emotional, financial, psychological or physical insecurities). The other factor that people usually avoid talking about is the bedroom experience. You screw up on this, she leaves.
@@barakaraysam9198 . What about when she's already a friend who is sick with cancer. Doesn't that chamge the dynamics some? She's in a group home, doesn't deive but is overall independant. Has very frequent headaches and has to rest. How would taking her on an emotional roller coaster affect her in a case like this? Just seems the being the nice caring guy that chases half the women away would be best. The only thing I can see doing is not be availavle every time, teasing her a little, and delaying replies to texts for over a day from time to time.
If the guy isn't feeling well, I prefer that he calls to cancel the date so that he doesn't infect me or anyone else, the date can always be rescheduled.
I finally got over my anxious attachment issues. I stopped stressing about what to say and what to do next and trusted myself in the moment. Being stoic and certain always works.
Just take care of yourself first and all will align. No one can love you more than you love you and never expect that from a woman
it doesn't just happen
Lately this channel has really helped me build my relationship stronger
@jessica Os what do you think
Yeah, Good advice Jessica. And this is exactly why I stay single, entertaining and catering to a womans emotion is something I can't stand. But I don't mind the friends with benefits thing.
Hahahaa...
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You don't need to
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I believe men should treasure their happiness first..love is a state of mind.dont share it until if you think its worth it.Respect woman who is raised to be a wife material .... submissive, humble,kind, feminine, cooperative and loving... always be mysterious and be calm at all times..
All these are not important the most important thing is money. If you have all these qualities she will still cheat on you if you don't have money.
My advice, be yourself guys, when you're too nice they leave, when you're not they leave. When you want a woman, make all the sacrifices to get her but don't sacrifice too much knowing she wouldn't do same for you. Make more money since women are into providers than a lover.
Every woman wants a good man until, that man requires her to be a better woman. Make sure you get equal effort from the woman.
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true we must not do such things while they dont dish back
Facts
All this burden to boy child!what is expected of women?
And if you dont get? What next? Leave her? Mind you, she will find the new man times faster than you.
Imagine dating Jessica, that’ll be a glorious experience, cos I enjoy to discuss these things, and I usually seek a very deep understanding of someone’s mind, and hers seems to be extremely deep.
This is one of the best channels on youtube so far. Thanks Jessica.
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She gets my attention, i lock myself up to listen n watch like i am preparing for exam
O. M. G you nailed it, my hubby compliments me when h is very drunk and it pisses me off. We end up fighting coz of that
what is wrong with you
@@tinotendadarangwa4977 this is the only time his eyes can see beyond
I like Sam's quotes, he comes up with stuff that I could not think of, he's a riot, and Matt knows how to pick 'em. Another great video.
Jessica, I agree with you on most of the point, however, starting a relationship depends on the intent. Guys who want a short-term relationship normally do just anything to get the woman. With a long-term relationship in mind, I believe it's better to let the woman know who you are and be open for changes. In this case, the lady gets to decide whether to embark on that long-lasting relationship. It's not a great idea to forcibly subdue your true colors. It may work, but they will come out later. Also, suggestions that borders on safety shouldn't wait, especially if the guys truly care about the lady.
Love your channel though.
I disagree with the part of showing up for a date even when I'm sick. If I'm feeling sick or tired I'm going to cancel the date with a 3-4 hour advance notice. I cancel hang outs with friends when I'm sick. That's normal for me.
Besides it may be for her benefit that I cancel as I might be contagious.
A phone call telling her you're sick and rescheduling can work too.
@@dianalawrence4950 if she is really in love most of them don't like their partners
I totally agree with you on this
She said "let her know"
If someone is sick during the first 6 months of meeting them. Delete their number. Why? Because they are illustrating that they have bad genes and are probably not a good candidate to procreate with.
thanks coach!
sounds quite challenging, even more than establishing an enterprise lol..
keyword: patience and attention, then compassion.
after effectively exploring various topics in the build up of your channel, i see the love and romantic topic is working magic for you...keep going higher Jess!!!
A lot of women don't care about these things. Sure, most of them want the attention that these gestures imply, BUT when it is time to choose between the man doing these things and the guy they find attractive, whether he is actually abusive or not, they could very well end up with the latter. All those things you have done and all the emotional investments and even financial sometimes, won't matter! They care mostly about how they feel! And what they want! So, please, while these points are good, they definitely don't get or keep women. They like and want the attention, but you could be deemed a whimp by those same women enjoying those gestures. Women should actually figure out what they want, while men should not tolerate all kinds of trash in hopes of trying to get a woman!
If being generally even-tempered and interesting works, I can dig that. Playing minds games to get someone obsessed is dangerous; feelings get hurt, and property damage happens.
@@rabiumuazu stop trying to steal MFs money!
Hello Jessica have been following you for a quit long and the things you always say I practice them in my relationship and they work well,,,kindly can you do a video on long distance relationships?
Young men focusing on important issues, than yearning to impress galz😅…. Its really satisfying 😊
From Africa with love. We don't break up over small matters just look for money protect her and give her kids. You're good to go.
Thank you Jessica. I have failed on most of the points you raised in this video. These points are an eye opener for me leading me to realise where my relationship went wrong.
Do all these and see her go for the thug. Take a chance see how it goes. Fewer women are at a level to be receptive to this.
@@radarinfinite1032 You know ⚡
Please just be yourself. All this drama is too much.
So you’re saying you were a complete a-hole in your relationships? If not I can guarantee you had 1 or more of these qualities that she liked which means there were others she didn’t which also means you can never fully please a woman. Work on yourself and allow only the woman who accepts you who you are! Trying to please a woman only hurts you in the long run.
One of the things I have learnt about women is 99.9% of them are confuse and don't know what they want. Make money n focus on ur grind bcos there is no love any where without MONEY.
Aunty Jessica, thanks a lot for these advice. After doing all these for her, what are the things she will do for me to be attracted to her?
Good question bro
Yes thankyou Jessica all your video's are very helpful for me I've learned alot about women through your video's that I would not know without them .
You are helping us men out in the big world of women and relationships with them .
Thank you once again
Kevin from UK 🇬🇧 Radcliffe near Manchester xxx
Yesterday I came across your videos and found out how you're impressively gifted lady,
Keep doing n help women to be subjective!
God bless you!
Thank you, I will
Everyone has different experiences when it comes down to relationships but the most important thing in a relationship is communication. If a woman wants to communicate with you she will. No one wants to be told what to do. They want to understand what to do. No relationship is perfect and everyone can get better. You always should love yourself first but loving yourself too much can lead to a downfall of how you treat your lady. I was told when something feels off then it might be you can't think like that because that's a negative way of looking at it. If a woman does you the same way you treat her, then it's telling in ways especially if you forget what she says and try to change up what she says.
Good points Jess. But I believe doing all of these is like you trying to be perfect in her sight and she may feel like you're just pretending. And besides it is possible to do all of these things and she won't value you. That's a woman who don't value your existence. I believe when you are dating a woman take it like Forex trading, you lose or you gain.. you stay happy and continue with life. I've been too nice to ladies and I ended up in a friend..brother..zone 😅😅😅 😂😂
You nailed it
Forex trading 🤣🤣
Yeah, they're like forex trading😂. Very unpredictable. Swayed more by emotions rather than reason. So don't do pass yourself on woman matter. Just be real and find someone who is real with you. Reciprocal love.
I am still taking cues. Thanks Jess.
Women are very complicated beings sometimes they prefer men who are hard on them, no matter how you threat them, they will complain.
I like your voice and grammar. You are too good
As a woman, I prefer nice men. If the woman's father treated his daughter well, that is what she'll expect from her partner, and on the other hand, if she weren't lucky and her father treated her poorly, well, she would attract men who aren't nice. This is a phycological fact, parents groom their children without even being aware of it.
@@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 yeah I completely agree this one, this is called as 'the law of resonance' we attract our mirror self, if we don't respect our selves (which is psychologically if his father treats her mother respectfully) she's adopt that self respect into, later this is gonna be resonate to her adult relationships
As a child she observe father and mother relationship, and subconsciously that is going to be benchmark of her future adult relationships.
Self-awareness is key, if she's in a toxic relationship, she's is setting her daughter future relationship benchmark, even without realising it.
Women who want men to be "hard on them".... Run away from them.... it's unhealthy to be with that type of woman
@@H-CSELEKrishnaMohan it dose not really boils down to how your dad treat your mum or your mum treats your dad, environment also and self need or want. It's how that person wants to be treated.
Thank you 😊 so much Ma. It has been a while since I watched your videos. Thank you for this Ma. You are the best.
Man means strength. Don't chase girls, just be a man. A man who is strong and free
This gender is too demanding
But y don't they make their own money,why are they becoming to needy , women watch out,after all u have been saying u and men should be equal
No bs
MGTOW is growing.
Men still feel like they're on the losing end.
😅 hectic
One thing you should know as a guy is that predators never get hunting tips from preys.
Men are the prize in this world and should begin living with this knowledge... Increase your value and watch how these creatures will queue up for you.
❤️ the jiu jitsu footage during " don't be macho" lol
Nice points. But fam I have done almost every single one of them , won’t lie but last last breakfast served 😂. Focus on yourself bro. Focus on self development. That’s worth while .
A relationship is mutual Jessica! It’s a two way effort and not one way. Treating your other half; either a man or a woman is equally important and deserved. This is a very subjective feminist outlook and bias perspective coming into a relationship. What you are saying MUST be applied by both men and women in a relationship. For instance; "listening" both parties in any type of a relationship should know how to listen! Your argument should not start from ‘how a man should listen’ it should start from ‘how men and women should listen to each other!’ Please; strive to have objective content!
Agree with this. It should just be how humans should interact with each other. That's where it all starts.
This is the GODLY way
Jessica, you are the ABSOLUTE BEST!
Thank you very much!❤
Hahah this is how u lose a woman. If you treat them too well they lose interest. I did these things and ended up her losing interest in me. I was less caring to some people and omg they sticked to me 😂😂
Fact, being a simp doesn't help.😂😂
Exactly. Especially the modern day women. They like bad guys with a bit of alpha male qualities.
@@Otto8507 Exactly. Just always be ready to walk away. Never get too settled in relationship it will keep the suspense up. Else oh god the moment she understand you can't go on without her you are so dead.
If you care less, you play your cards right. Let us not be fooled to glorify and praise women coz one thing’s for sure once you give the sense of needing her than wanting her you’ve lost G! Just focus on your money.
Exactly,this she gender easily farmiliarises everything u do for them several times,if u over love her,she will assume that it's ur role to love her with her not doing it for u in return,if u keep texting her first,she will take it as ur role to text first,stop it and u will see fire ,etc and so many other sorts of care men have tried showing women they love,so I don't recommend any man to be so good to a lady as if she's is the only one,never overshow that to a girl even if she is a queen to u,, otherwise u will regret all ur knowledge and tactics u put in that relationship,
Charleyyyy🤦🏿♂️
The task on men is very huge and complicated. Making a living itself ain't easy , now to talk of keeping a relationship ouch! . Ebi like some us go stay single like this ooo 😩
That was insightful tho
Thank you Miss Jessy
Although I am a female, I do agree with you.
@@beebeesfuntasticadventures6110 Thank you very much dearie
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Thank you so much @JessicaOs
A guidebook on how to be a Simp 😂😂
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Exactly
I didn't came to this life to satisfy women, everyday is woman, woman, woman,,, we are kings and should be respected not bowing low to ladies we crowned 👑 Queeens
Is true my bro I rather put more energy on God than to a woman that is a whole wasting of time because no body cares
Thanks for the wisdom... however, I wouldn't want my son to go through all this set of expectations. I believe times have changed, and modern life is too stressful for everyone to carry such.
I was reading about research that shows 28% of men are now deciding to remain single and to keep to themselves because of the stress of dating. Women are to difficult. These were settled minded men.
Never ask a fish to teach you how to fish, ask the fisherman instead. All the things she laid down will at best make you a simp. One major thing to watch out for as a guy is genuine interest and desire and other things will follow
Thank you Jessica for all your help in this particular vide .
I Always get alot out of your video's. Kevin from UK 🇬🇧
I really enjoyed listening to this segment!
Glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks for informative video
What if after doing majority of these, she doesn't reciprocate the love shown to her??
Well, you move on to something better.
@07whatsapp3 , I am Ga, now living in the USA, what' part of Ghana are you from?
He gave you attention. Why are you no longer with him? That's why I always do opposite of anything a woman says.
lol! does staying together require only one person??? Think!
Damn right
@@JessicaOS My goodness! Lol
@@mukomalavhu lol. Some things aren't obvious to some people I realise
while so much of what you have said may be true, there are also some studies that prove that women don't really know what attracts them to the opposite sex. women differ from one another more so than men do. if as a man I can't give advice or guidance to the woman I'm with simply because she didn't ask for it, what does that say about me as a man? men are the leaders in relationships, while women are followers. it's been like that since the beginning of time. as a man I need to take leadership in the relationship, as my woman is a reflection of me in so many ways. so what a lot of women need to do let men be the men.
AK, your right on track if this was 1955
Here's my list:
1) Be yourself, have a positive zest for life, and hold your head high
2) Be yourself, have a positive zest for life, and hold your head high
3) Be yourself, have a positive zest for life, and hold your head high
4) Be yourself, have a positive zest for life, and hold your head high
If you live each day joyfully and with enthusiasm you will send out an energy that is VERY powerful--and you will attract women!!
If a woman wants you she will do whatever in her power to keep you vice versa so just be yourself and take care of yourself and find a life outside the relationship let the relationship breath
Jessica OS is a gem😊💎
What can i do if she break up with you, you stop communicating and then suddenly she calls you and ask that when can i see you again?
Block her.
Great insights Jessica. Thank you so much.
This program is very good am from zambia 🇿🇲
It's J;
Thanks Jessica, You make what you have to say easy to hear. How did you develop that ability? Thanks again
You give me shivers with your voice.
What a beautiful black lady you are, Jessy.
Thank you very much for the advice.
its cool that you get rite into it now.
Hello Mrs Jessica what if there’s no communication
To make a woman happy is a mission impossible.
wooow❤❤one video leads me to another....i love your content...and the way you like know how to bring out what people are going through plus giving us what we could do to make everything right😊😊😊
Awesome! Thank you!
I love these pieces of wisdom...I believe if the women did the same to their men what a great relationship...
These are the simp 101 rules.
....how to treat others is a Human virtues and those who seek trouble are never in my list of love ones....sorry girl. Your videos are so addictive. Asante sana Dada.
thanks for the video maa'am ... hoping you start making videos too that educates women on what a man wants. i realized you only educate men like the obligations and duties fall right on us. thats not bad. but pls kindly educate the women on how to treat us too. men have a life too. That way, everything will be balanced. looking forward to that.
Hey hi Jess its Justice Here all the way from South Africa, " jus wanted to pass by and say thanks for being Original really in peace now even if i haven't Mrs Me yet but its ok ( Much Love From me Just )
I will not do none of those things for any woman unless she's my mother, my sister or a close relative. They don't deserve it.
In my 37 years of being alive, I have never experienced genuine love, care, or attention from a woman I was attracted to unless there was something expected in return. Every time I open myself up, I end up hurt and more broken than before. My confidence has been reduced to zero.
The prospects of finding someone to spend my life with seem to be dwindling, leaving me with a deep-seated anger and bitterness towards all women.
Thank you 😊😊😊
I watched the video and I will say without money their is no way you can meet up with the above been said, without financial stability a man can not be happy to dish out calm advice to her woman cos the tension and the breakdown will always be there
Ever since I started listening to you, I have been extra careful with ladies
Haha, you a great student.
Invaluable, as always. ❤️❤️❤️
I really love your channel and your insights on how men should treat women and i agree with the "12 commandments". However most women do not offer much in return!
The fact that nobody talks about the forbidden book Flirtosphere Seduction on Vexoner speaks volumes about how people are stuck in a trance
Great video 👍🏿
I love every point Jess...however, I thought the "Death or coma"(if you meant it) is too extreme!?
I mean, don't get me wrong, I take punctuality and integrity very seriously. But death or coma? Don't you think there several other reasons beyond human control that could cause one to fall behind scheduled time?
Hey Jessica with all of the advice you give us 😭 getting into a relationship must be pretty tough for you right ?
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Hello thank you for your insight. Do you have any recommendations for a long distance relationship. I am from Pennsylvania 🇺🇸 and my wife is from Trinidad 🇹🇹. We met on a interracial dating site back in 2019 and we developed from there. In time we will be together but I want to keep our relationship fresh as we communicate at a distance. Thank you.
Please what's the site name
The biggest mistake a man can make is pedestalizing a women, which is what this video is talking about. Women expect men to treat them like Queens while women treat men with no special treatment (It is one sided). I disagree with most of what is in this video. A man must have a purpose, goals and constantly developing yourself to increase your self value. A woman will see this and respect that and will decide to be with you. Its not what you do for her that is important, its what you do for yourself that is more important. Woman may come and go out of your life, but if you are constantly making a better life for yourself, you will naturally attract woman into your life. Don't put all your hope in one woman, there are many fish in the sea.
a woman i dated got her hair done, i complimented it after 3 days.... she said " i was expecting you to say something the day i got it done, i had noticed she expected attention certain times, when i didnt she practically crawled to me, when i did it when she expected it she pretty much acted like she had me under control
Be yourself be nice be firm and most importantly pick the right girl preferably a caring home loving girl and you won’t go far wrong
I don't know if I should listen to Jessica or just go and hustle first. Coz I need money badly.. my heart is so cold, all I think about is my Goals. I don't think I'll be able to treat my sis that nice self. That girl love money too much
you are heading towards a million subs
So basically, it's usually the little things we need to look at 👌💝
Thank you so much, happy being among the first twenty to view
Ok