CIA Spy: "Leave The USA Before 2030!" Why You Shouldn't Trust Your Gut! - Andrew Bustamante

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  • Andrew Bustamante is a former covert CIA intelligence officer and US Air Force combat veteran. He is the founder of EverydaySpy, an online education platform that teaches real-world international espionage techniques that can be used in everyday life.
    00:00 Intro
    02:47 Your Time At The CIA
    03:15 What Is The CIA?
    03:57 You've Got It Wrong About Spies
    06:43 Applying Real Spy Skills To Overcome Any Barrier In Our Lives
    08:13 How To Manipulate People
    18:15 The Psychological Profile Of A CIA Agent
    21:13 I Held The Key To Nuclear Missiles
    23:15 It Was A Horrible Job
    25:00 Would You Have You Pressed The Nuclear Button?
    27:18 The CIA Message That Changed My Life
    29:13 The Interview Process For The CIA
    31:31 How Did You Feel When You Received That Letter?
    33:54 Did The CIA Tell You To Cut Off From Your Social Circle?
    34:44 Your Ethnicity Factor To Be Recruited By The CIA
    36:03 Do You Have To Change Your Identity?
    37:14 How Expensive Is To Train A CIA Agent?
    37:21 What's The CIA Training Scheme?
    38:04 Do They Show You How To Kill?
    39:06 How You Teach The Art Of Lying
    41:00 Body Language & Lying
    42:46 Demystifying Lying Signs
    45:44 How To Tell If Someone Is Lying
    47:34 Human Psychology
    50:32 The Essence Of Manipulation
    52:09 How To Find Someone's Ideology To Manipulate Them
    56:12 Have You Changed The Way You Look At The World?
    01:00:01 Perception vs Perceptive
    01:01:59 Leaning Into Objective vs Subjective Feelings
    01:03:25 How To Train Yourself To Apply Rational Objective Perspective
    01:05:54 Your Business Success
    01:09:01 What Is SADRAT?
    01:11:07 Change The Game When Selling Your Products
    01:13:13 What Is Espionage?
    01:14:08 What Is Our Secret Life?
    01:18:16 How To Enter Someone's Secret Life
    01:23:33 How To Apply It To Business
    01:26:19 Adapting To Change Faster Than Your Opponent
    01:29:18 Were There Times Your Life Was At Threat?
    01:31:43 Sexpionage, What Is It?
    01:33:49 Disguise, Did You Ever Do It?
    01:38:44 Do CIA Agents Get Trained To Not Feel Fear & Anxiety?
    01:41:23 How Do They Train You To Slow Down Your Emotional Brain?
    01:47:28 Your Wife & You Leaving The CIA
    01:48:55 America Is Going Through A Hard Period
    01:54:15 What's The Advice For Everyone To Make That Change?
    01:56:27 How Does Your Identity Stop You From Evolving?
    01:57:39 What Is Something You Used To Believe That You No Longer Do?
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  • @TheDiaryOfACEO
    @TheDiaryOfACEO  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3596

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    • @bridgeidiot262
      @bridgeidiot262 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +140

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    • @stomper5432
      @stomper5432 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      @@bridgeidiot262 odin

    • @user-zq4fv8sj6v
      @user-zq4fv8sj6v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Your guests are too terrified to dismantle Biden. Deflection equals weakness which I don’t respect!

    • @stomper5432
      @stomper5432 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@destekaya9942 right

    • @bernitajenkins7581
      @bernitajenkins7581 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Why, sure 👍😁🇦🇺

  • @NotRiansLuke
    @NotRiansLuke 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11192

    So here's the thing: By his own admission, he was trained to lie. He also explains that they recruited him because he was ALREADY a liar *by nature*, and the CIA made him even better at lying. Which, honestly, makes me wonder how much of what he says is even true...

    • @MacroTh3ory
      @MacroTh3ory 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +718

      I came to the comment section to write the same comment! Excellently worded. I feel the same way about how much of this is truth.

    • @LiveWell6
      @LiveWell6 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +334

      You can verify that many of the things he says are true. What specifically do you have evidence is a lie. It isn’t like he is sharing secrets.

    • @user-gk8xj8no1n
      @user-gk8xj8no1n 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      W

    • @jetnzmusic
      @jetnzmusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Yes

    • @jetnzmusic
      @jetnzmusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +115

      Knowledge & information is Power, Truth stands out for some of us…what we do with it counts

  • @realm3164
    @realm3164 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11974

    I am a clinically trained psychologist and a somatic therapist. I literally lead trauma trainings on following your gut. His type of training of ignoring your gut, and using the head, is perhaps effective in the field, but disembodies the self, separates the mind and body process. It creates the process loop in the cycle where the brain is always used to control emotions. What happens when the brain is taxed (multiple layers of stress - children, business, or physical injury or illness) beyond it's ability to control is that they cannot disembody their own painful emotions anymore, and all the pain he's repressed FLOODS back to the system and creates severe depression. This kind of training is exactly why soldiers have high alcoholism and suicide rates. I would HIGHLY NOT recommend this.

    • @englandbengal
      @englandbengal 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +524

      He is saying to use it in business not real life.

    • @user-mt4zr5kp7h
      @user-mt4zr5kp7h 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As far as I'm concerned, this guy still works for the CIA if he is teaching you not to trust your gut. If he's telling you to trust your mind and only your mind, then he is an operative. The reason I say that is because the mind can be controlled by entities outside of yourself. Your instincts, your intuition, cannot. Your thoughts can lie to you. Your gut never will.

    • @cptlou
      @cptlou 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      yes. Agree.

    • @uiliumpowell4684
      @uiliumpowell4684 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +285

      You have a heart and mind laying around, you might as well use both. Governments don't need secrets, they need transparency especially when we go out to vote. It seems that everyone ignores this for some strange reason and just puts their votes into machines as if that is transparent or something.

    • @user-nd1ef8xj6d
      @user-nd1ef8xj6d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +216

      Also one of the reasons why the government wants you to do it. He said they want the superiority over you. So they can "help" you.

  • @retired_early
    @retired_early 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +426

    I will never stop listening to my gut. It's been right 100% of the time. Every time I've ignored it, I've regretted it.

    • @m.j.2939
      @m.j.2939 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Truth

    • @annastarr2043
      @annastarr2043 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      It's saved my life on a number of ocasions

    • @vannarooski8730
      @vannarooski8730 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Every single frikken time. You’d think you’d learn a thing or two but nooOooo. Within a matter of days you forget about all
      About it and do it all over again

    • @67siddartha
      @67siddartha 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Word!

    • @user-rc4jz9dy1i
      @user-rc4jz9dy1i 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      instinct and intuition can be trained. emotion is vital to the human experience. and those that ignore the animal will never be able to utilize it.

  • @clairebrown9944
    @clairebrown9944 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +59

    BTW- I don’t agree with not listening to your gut. I was an ER Nurse for some years and if I didn’t listen to my gut then I think some people would have been dead because of it. I was also a Hospice nurse. I woke up in the morning and my gut told me to go to the right person’s home that morning because they needed my help first. All emotional but in the medical field, our work is an Art and a science. Gut plays a part. 😊

    • @handlesareweird
      @handlesareweird 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      I think you're right to a degree, but are not taking certain things into consideration. Your 'gut instinct' was honed from lots of good experience in your field, so maybe some people's gut instincts work better than others, and in certain respects. I've learnt a lot in my life to not trust my gut, so my experience is different to yours and it blew me away that this guy said exactly what I've personally realised is true in my own life.
      Also, as a sidenote: my dad used to be the CEO of a hospice branch in South Africa, and I found hospice to be one of the most amazing health groups that doesn't get nearly as much credit as it should, and so much of that credit was the wonderful gentle care provided by the nurses :D

    • @darkwolf7645
      @darkwolf7645 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      He worded it poorly. It's not distrusting your gut, it's forming unbiased opinions from observations. It's a basic analytic skill used by intelligence professionals. Analysts use their gut all the time. Why? Because your "gut" gives you a "feeling" based off prior observations. If something feels off, that's a reason to dig deeper or focus more. All of this while maintaining an unbiased eye.

    • @Brenda-in8bd
      @Brenda-in8bd 9 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      I have been blessed with Incredible Instincts. If I did not listen to my gut I would have already dead 10x over. Thank you Lord Jesus for this gift. Always listen to your gut. I don't care what anyone else says .

  • @ad5792
    @ad5792 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9281

    He lost me when he mentioned that CIA follows human rights and country laws

    • @gulaschnikov5335
      @gulaschnikov5335 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +380

      must be a joke...

    • @ShaferHart
      @ShaferHart 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1423

      There's no such a thing as a former CIA agent..

    • @annetteniebelski7513
      @annetteniebelski7513 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +380

      He probably has to say that

    • @Wesmancan
      @Wesmancan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I do t trust the dude at all. Do t know him. Don’t want to. Cia is corrupt just like every other government agency.

    • @elenabob4953
      @elenabob4953 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +324

      ​@@ShaferHart I know, even now he is doing PR for CIA. Maybe I didn't reached to it but I didn't see the part mentioning the bad things with CIA.

  • @magpie1744
    @magpie1744 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4682

    So many questions:
    1. What conditioner do you use.
    2. Do you blowdry or airdry?
    3. Gel or cream?

    • @brendaadair3418
      @brendaadair3418 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +320

      😂my first thought was nice hair!

    • @janoganno
      @janoganno 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +258

      I m surprised I had to scroll this far down to find the hair comments. I thought he was undercover and had borrowed a wig from an 90's RnB backing singer.

    • @KarlFreeman-fe1nd
      @KarlFreeman-fe1nd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +283

      CIA man. It's a wig

    • @mimithompson3049
      @mimithompson3049 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      😂😂

    • @bibinoojen
      @bibinoojen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      😂😂😂

  • @lorencarpenter8374
    @lorencarpenter8374 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    The not listening to your gut bit, he was saying this is how you understand all of your options. This is a tool to help you make the most informed decisions for yourself so you don’t make decisions on autopilot that are solely based in how you feel. He’s not saying your natural instinct is always wrong, but we humans aren’t ALWAYS in a fight/flight/fawn situation and so it is a good thing to practice using perspective in most situations because most of the time, we aren’t in immediate danger. Yes, trust your gut, but trust it when it is appropriate and there is no other reason not to. That is what I got out of that part of this interview.

    • @neilmatikblake2325
      @neilmatikblake2325 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      There is always more applicable data to process than what one is experiencing at the moment. If making the most informed decision is the goal..

    • @SkyeSage17
      @SkyeSage17 3 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I absolutely agree with your assessment of
      "What I saw in the video".
      It appears many viewers immediately took offense "to not trust ur gut".
      It most definitely matters on how to accurately assess the situation. All tools are needed when facing imminent life challenges and changes.

    • @Brenda-in8bd
      @Brenda-in8bd 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      My gut feelings have never led me in the wrong direction.

    • @SkyeSage17
      @SkyeSage17 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@Brenda-in8bd .
      Not the point. Yes, it can help, but to have an advantage of intelligence is everything. ❤️‍🔥

    • @lorencarpenter8374
      @lorencarpenter8374 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      @@Brenda-in8bd Cool.

  • @Haley-rh6sh
    @Haley-rh6sh 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    This comment section portrays the one point Bustamante makes that the majority of people commenting are trying to disprove...
    So many people are commenting,"I sKiPpED tO tHe NeXt ViDeO wHeN hE sAiD dOnT tRuSt YoUr GuT" or "I kNeW hE wAs OuT oF hIs MiNd wHeN hE SaId tHaT, I ALWAYS Trust My GuT & ItS NeVeR DoNe Me WrOnG"
    He wasn't saying straight up, "Never Trust Your Gut!" If you were paying attention, the interviewer asked,"How can I train myself to lean more on my perspective?"
    That's when Bustamante explains there's 2 things: 1st being, Don't trust your gut because your gut is based on emotion. If you have perspective on something then you have multiple data points on something so when you feel yourself getting emotional stop and let your emotion happen for a second.
    Everyone commenting, trying to disprove what he's saying, jumped to a response based on emotion ("Hes wrong, because my gut has never lead me wrong") rather than actually paying attention, listening, and seeing that he's answering the interviewers question on how to lean more on your perspective than ....**Imagine That**...your perception.
    😆😅
    You guys are making me feel smart for merely paying attention..🤭

    • @JamesHetfield-wv1or
      @JamesHetfield-wv1or 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You're an ignorant fool for even implying that you listened to and trust anything an agent from the Centralized Intelligence has to say. They are professional liars, deceivers and disinformation agents.

    • @angeles9938
      @angeles9938 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Agree, when started to read the comments made me came to similar conclusion....

    • @firerabbit2659
      @firerabbit2659 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      That's the 90% of the population for you.

    • @swhiting100
      @swhiting100 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'd question that 'feeling' if I were you.

    • @Thomas-zd3ts
      @Thomas-zd3ts 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      I think most people were actually paying attention to the fact that this MFer is a exCIA pos. This guy regrets absolutely nothing and has no problems with using CIA tactics to make unsuspecting people do what he wants them to do and even teaches others how to use these strategies. You should not feel too good about yourself if you're not able to see what a dangerous person this is.

  • @PeterParker-xv9mo
    @PeterParker-xv9mo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3576

    I got a gut feeling I should question anyone that suggest i shouldnt trust my gut.

    • @timebot000
      @timebot000 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +94

      Trust, but Verify....
      Hardest thing to remember to do!

    • @Iancreed8592
      @Iancreed8592 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah especially when its a fed boy who's obviously been propped up and promoted to the masses

    • @tienslabien
      @tienslabien 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

      Do you want a plane ticket to Washington ? ;)

    • @r.p.8906
      @r.p.8906 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      you nailed it

    • @phaedragardeness
      @phaedragardeness 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yep.

  • @jimmcfarland9318
    @jimmcfarland9318 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3437

    Lying is not an admirable trait, but recognizing lies is.

    • @cw6136
      @cw6136 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      Takes one to know one.

    • @psychedelicartistry
      @psychedelicartistry 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +122

      Depends. Lying for the sake of lying, no, but a well-placed lie at the right time can save your life or your livelihood.

    • @MandatedReporter
      @MandatedReporter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      As a military contractor I know a lie but from a person who has been indoctrinated it's difficult to see. Signs of mania can stress the comprehension as well so it's overall a very difficult trait to read in those types. The way that I work is what do your lips say before you speak or act? That's one of my ways and also the fall and rise of the vocal train. Are you confident or are you not so sure... Things like that. Mental dysfunction throws all that out the window again. I dislike it when people use their hands alot because it's a method of brainwashing. I do this a lot because of training but I often feel like I'm an oppressive person when I notice people feel confident in me. In actuality I'm not in the know of the lobbyists interests though I was a tool of their interests. All Americans are.

    • @tracimoon172
      @tracimoon172 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      That’s based on your opinion and perception. Obviously, it is a trait that the government, which you represent, is very interested in. Go subscribe to the behavioral panel, and watched how everybody lies. I bet you even lie and you’ve just forgot you did. Everybody lies.

    • @jimmcfarland9318
      @jimmcfarland9318 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@tracimoon172 I don't represent government, but I do lie, like when I said your photo was rather pretty. I was just being polite.

  • @nemtstartup
    @nemtstartup 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    I literally just applied one of these strategies on my consultations today and they are all now hot leads! Thank you for such a beautiful interview.

  • @donnasloane9031
    @donnasloane9031 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    He is not traing us to be Narcissistic....just to be aware and have knowledge...Listening to this gentleman has SAVED MY LIFE.....I am now continuing to pusue perspectives...No more contempt prior to investigation....Thank you Andrew for inspiring me to increase grey brain cells!

  • @lisarogers1392
    @lisarogers1392 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2740

    I'm alot older than this guy but the times I didnt listen to my gut are the times I regret.

    • @user-riseshinegrind
      @user-riseshinegrind 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +56

      AGreed at 40 now I have to trust it AND the red flags other other wise I get fd. lol

    • @jill3686
      @jill3686 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Me 2

    • @dorothysay8327
      @dorothysay8327 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Word. His bs on so-called ‘rationality’ is a losing proposition.

    • @timkc1638
      @timkc1638 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

      I think saying that your gut is emotional..isn’t what people really mean by “gut” it’s more than just emotional.

    • @waclawrutyna1274
      @waclawrutyna1274 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      I didn’t listen to my guts and I’ve got screwed twice, by single moms. 😂😂😂

  • @cchanc3
    @cchanc3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +771

    not listening to my gut is the only thing that has ever gotten me into trouble

    • @lldd11
      @lldd11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Same...

    • @alisonsneed3707
      @alisonsneed3707 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Follow your considered intuition (not knee jerk impulses or triggered emotions). If you’re meditating when an idea comes - that is different from a fear or ego driven reaction.

    • @anneli1735
      @anneli1735 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      🤔 Seems that there is kind of a misconception: “Don’t trust your gut” if it’s all about “emotions”, yes! - but TRUST YOUR GUT if it’s about “intuition”! Emotions vs. Intuition as they’re definitely not the same 🤷‍♀️

    • @joejones9520
      @joejones9520 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      other people are who have caused all my troubles, on my own things go well.

    • @jarodnorth7134
      @jarodnorth7134 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I completely agree with you, I love my guts navigation advisory ❤

  • @everythingisenergyenergyis3801
    @everythingisenergyenergyis3801 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    I've heard Andrew several times. This was the best- great questions, not too much personal stories. Thank you

  • @kasha5839
    @kasha5839 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Thank you for your time... Really appreciate Andrew's thought and consideration about his children's future environment and opportunities.

  • @haikubandit6997
    @haikubandit6997 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6389

    My gut's telling me
    Trusting* CIA Spy* is
    *Oxymoronic

    • @OGmediahub
      @OGmediahub 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This guy is a fraud …. CIA queen maybe …

    • @julianamitchell3183
      @julianamitchell3183 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +125

      Exactly.

    • @user-zf4uz3hy8z
      @user-zf4uz3hy8z 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +287

      Looking around at the world we live in, with sex and race at the forefront of conflict, and hearing this guy describing how the CIA has diversified their actions through diversifying their officer profile to include LGBT and minorities, makes me more sure of what my intuition tells me about how these agencies stir these problems.

    • @Short_Clips44
      @Short_Clips44 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-zf4uz3hy8z Those orgs fought homosexuality 50 years ago, now they promote it. The idea was that fornicators (which includes all homosexuals by definition) are easily corruptable. Edgar Hoover used it against his rivals. The bankers and the mafia used Hoover to control the politicians. Thats how it started. The mafia in the US were not italian btw, its a lie, they just looked italian 🙂

    • @victoriasofitel
      @victoriasofitel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +175

      I am SO INSPIRED in humanity by the comments section 🙌🏽🙏🏽👊🏽

  • @danielsanders2412
    @danielsanders2412 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3793

    Never trust a CIA agent.

    • @bigelectrickat
      @bigelectrickat 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

      Facts

    • @Goal67i
      @Goal67i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

      ​@scribbler0077 Look at this guy would trust him?

    • @carlnorth3034
      @carlnorth3034 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +148

      You can add the government to this aswell

    • @Goal67i
      @Goal67i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@carlnorth3034 wt you talking about

    • @notorioustori
      @notorioustori 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      ​@@carlnorth3034you might want to be more specific. The government covers a lot of bases. While I don't trust politicians and some LEOs, I'd like to trust VA nurses and most customer service representatives of different agencies. I'd also like to trust the DOT, FAA, & TSA are during their jobs. Oh, and Coast Guard!

  • @danimaquestiau5834
    @danimaquestiau5834 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    loving all your guests, I really enjoyed that, thank you! 🥰

  • @alyahamzah1952
    @alyahamzah1952 หลายเดือนก่อน +797

    As a dr who worked in the ICU for babies and children for over a decade, i cant remember how many times a life was saved or a major catastrophic event was avoided by listening to my gut. Of course the brain is there to help with the analysis of the situation at hand, but the gut helps you decide which way to go. I will never stop listening to my gut feelings

    • @annie9099
      @annie9099 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      This is intuition. I've avoided terrible things in my life because of intuition. Intuition is God telling us something we would not otherwise know. But this guy seems not to know about intuition, only an emotional reaction. Perhaps he just doesn't trust his intuition.

    • @moseslugalia02
      @moseslugalia02 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      How do you get in tuned with your intuition?

    • @vittoriofioravanti2493
      @vittoriofioravanti2493 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      He said, “people are stuck in their perception” which is true - though the “gut” is processed perception converted to intelligence - a God-given instrument to anticipate, discern and make the right decision.

    • @AntonyKarolis
      @AntonyKarolis หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Your gut brain is a real thing and may be aware of things your conscious perception is missing. Don’t ignore it but don’t rely on it.

    • @alialm2876
      @alialm2876 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Habibi

  • @Chris-rz7xi
    @Chris-rz7xi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1459

    It was my father's job, in WW2, to work behind enemy lines and bring out downed allied pilots. I asked him how he survived. He said you go by your gut, ignore intelligence. If it feels bad, get out. I have been in this situation twice now, I got out, and I survived a bombing and a coup.

    • @lizziejay5362
      @lizziejay5362 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +119

      Ya when I don't trust my intuition, that's when things went bad. Our instincts pick up on these little subtle things, like body language and what not. It's almost like studying stuff so much has caused him to start overthinking things. No longer being able to just instinctually know and having to over analyze to know.

    • @Wesmancan
      @Wesmancan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      So your an American. Congrats.

    • @-cMc-
      @-cMc- 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Untrained ppl don’t know there is another option. Why does healthcare have to be free? Why can’t it cost a penny?

    • @PassionateFlower
      @PassionateFlower 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      Everything feels bad to me so now I trust my gut and I don't go anywhere, do anything, or talk to anyone because my instinct is that nothing is safe and everyone is an immediate danger to my survival.

    • @alexandrianunley5124
      @alexandrianunley5124 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

      @@PassionateFlower you can’t escape death, none of us can. Don’t let fear prevent you from actually living in the meantime.

  • @allkick1494
    @allkick1494 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'd like to thank you for the lesson in psychology. I have a court date coming up and hopefully I'll be able rap my mind around your shared knowledge and utilize it to my advantage. A big thanks!

  • @victoriagoddard6573
    @victoriagoddard6573 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Fascinating Chat, I think instinct and "gut" should not be confused with emotions created from a subjective perception. I ALWAYS trust my gut!

  • @MiC-T
    @MiC-T 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3896

    The best thing you can do for your soul is to NOT think like the CIA.

    • @Lyra1.618
      @Lyra1.618 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

      I agree.

    • @derp195
      @derp195 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

      If you're thinking like the CIA, you'd realize that you shouldn't be taking advice from the CIA.

    • @michelechapman9974
      @michelechapman9974 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      I didn't think he was recruiting it was a more you know type of interview to me

    • @mattsandoval9430
      @mattsandoval9430 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

      Straight up all negative energy work items haha

    • @annalisa14
      @annalisa14 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@derp195😂

  • @b-real4real417
    @b-real4real417 หลายเดือนก่อน +570

    As soon as he said don't trust your gut....my gut said next video. It was a good gut call

    • @Logansrae
      @Logansrae หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Lmfaooooo

    • @danphillips8530
      @danphillips8530 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      COL, (chuckled out loud)

    • @1TheREALLYREAL
      @1TheREALLYREAL หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Facts

    • @1TheREALLYREAL
      @1TheREALLYREAL หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      I’m a CIA spy…. I’m so special… I’m telling you everything. You should listen to me. I smarter than you….. foh

    • @BriLoveMusic
      @BriLoveMusic หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      His information was really powerful. He explained how to not respond with fear but instead to rationalize with logic so you overcome it. That’s amazing insight for relationships and marriage. We hear the wrong things when we respond with emotion instead of seeing it from the other person’s perspective first sometimes. Basically, assess the situation before you address. Lots of good points he made.

  • @veronicaelsegood5175
    @veronicaelsegood5175 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Came across your channel for the 1st time tonight and have subscribed because the content was actually really interesting.

  • @joyzenger6016
    @joyzenger6016 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow to you both ❤ 1st time here and sure you are the best interviewer I’ve run across… following ❤

  • @amichaels1871
    @amichaels1871 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +880

    I'd DEFINITELY TRUST my GUT
    before a CIA officer or ANYONE in the government...
    🤦‍♀️💔🤔

    • @ThunderSen
      @ThunderSen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

      Trusting gut saves lives.

    • @Edith.G.G.
      @Edith.G.G. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

      Exactly. This man wants people to stop listening to themselves, trusting themselves and trust him! That he is a professional liar and manipulator.

    • @AndreasDelleske
      @AndreasDelleske 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So, if someone said: I don't trust ANY American, how do you react?

    • @edd9200
      @edd9200 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      What if you have bubble guts😮

    • @ThunderSen
      @ThunderSen 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@edd9200 I do its even better.

  • @OK-pi6fq
    @OK-pi6fq หลายเดือนก่อน +334

    I grew up in an extremely dangerous neighborhood. My gut saved my life so many times. I literally learned the hard way to trust my gut. Life was better after.

    • @laladeylaya6738
      @laladeylaya6738 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      my daughter had told e m yes mo we going on out yearly vaca... hmm okay I went every year for 5 years... but something did not feel right... well I got picture of where we'd stay.. my guts say yeah they really don't want me to go this time.... I said well I am gonna just start training I hope you guys have fun .. she sensed I felt something she say no the kids are expecting you... you gonna disappoint them..well okay but my gut said something was not right... then the day they left I got the address after they;left! I said you know what I am not going this year she said you gonna make the kids cry I told them you were coming... I said you know I just got the address...mom how could you do this..they are expecting you... I then jump on the highway to get there not feeling right regardless of her words my gut said no you should not go... well I been there a day I told my granddaughter to stop being disrespectful... she started screaming mom and Dad said you should not even be here you did give them 200 dollars for the ABand B ... I was heartbroken... I was just in tears... ( well I wanted to stay to start training for my new job, I had mostly taken care of them and only worked part-time! I thave excellent credit 40,000 worth of credit I was going pay for all tickets and food to make up for it) ... well I have not been the same... I do not talk to my daughter and her husband and things have not been the same with me and my granddaughter, now here is a good gut story... I applied for 8 jobs they all said I was hired great hmmm which one should I chose... well I accepted All of them why I do not know it just felt like I should! but guess what ! only one of them actually called me to train even thought I had offer letter and a statement saying we will be in touch to give you training dates and times and congratulatory letters FROM ALL 8 OF THEM! !! had I chosen the ONLY one that paid $2 more and hour and not accepted all of them ... I WOULD HAVE noT MADE ALMOST $90,000 a sales rep with the only job that actually gave me training and kept good on their offer letter!! I never sold before and made $15,000 the previous year IN CUSTOMER SERVICE !!!! SO trust your gut!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @wisdoma4860
      @wisdoma4860 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      If you show respect in a AKA Dangerous neighborhood and dont show weakness, or be a trouble maker? you are fine in any neighborhood. Go to other countries in europe, asia, or africa, middle east those have real dangerous neighborhoods, but you still need show respect and youl earn it.

    • @super266
      @super266 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Your "gut" is your subconscious coalescing all the information your sensory system inputs in real-time. It's a super computer that takes all the input you aren't consciously aware of and spits out a flag after instantly comparing all the input data to previous case-studies stored in your long term memory. It's an incredible system if it was trained correctly like machine learning. It's your best friend, because it's always invested in your immediate survival.
      What this guy should have said, is you should identify your gut feeling, than ask yourself questions that either concur that thesis, or disproves it, not ignore it entirely.
      The real lesson here is don't listen to guys that look like Krusty the Clown because they'll try to convince you it's "The, Bart The", instead of "Die, Bart, Die".

    • @douglombard7924
      @douglombard7924 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am trusting my gut that this guy is full of shit!

    • @jerichojohnson3219
      @jerichojohnson3219 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      IS TRUST YOUR GUT? A PREMONITION / HUNCH / FEELING / SPIDEY SENSE ? SUCH A MYSTERY NEBULOUS TERM ? CAN MEAN JUST ABOUT ANYTHING ? MAYBE IT WAS THE STILL SMALL VOICE OF GOD OR YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL [ HOLY SPIRIT ] GUIDING YOU?

  • @jdakamcmikey
    @jdakamcmikey 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This man changing my life. Great interview and questions sir

  • @katherineeason5465
    @katherineeason5465 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you for all of your hard work and dedication! Really high quality channel!

  • @pamil3524
    @pamil3524 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +829

    There is a big difference in listening to your "gut" and having an emotional reaction to a situation. My gut has never led me wrong, but I did have to learn the difference between the two and how NOT to respond emotionally to any situation I was in. And that does require you train yourself NOT to re-act but to stop and quickly assess the situation BEFORE you respond, rather than allowing yourself to have an emotion driven "knee jerk" reaction.

    • @lekcje_rysunku
      @lekcje_rysunku 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      How are you differentiating it?

    • @TheMysteryDriver
      @TheMysteryDriver 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      Having abusive parents helps you to not have emotional responses.

    • @pikotard
      @pikotard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@lekcje_rysunku curious on that too... seems like the emotional reactions are defined as wrong and the gut is defined as right and that is it. It'd be interesting to hear if there is more depth beyond that though.

    • @karenkeleher4924
      @karenkeleher4924 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I have been 100% correct while listening to my gut. My behavior is emotionally controlled. Feelings are NOT behavior.

    • @LisaZirkle
      @LisaZirkle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Excellent point.

  • @creekfinds
    @creekfinds 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1279

    If you want to be a great dad
    1. Learn to become the best listener you've ever known
    2. Learn how to control your anger and your words
    3. Be intentional with spending time with your children
    4. Never stop reading/or listening to people that have great parenting advice
    5. Learn what hills aren't important to die on, and stop dying on them

    • @ellencooney5563
      @ellencooney5563 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +61

      You forgot: honesty, humility, laughter, and restore your self... love.

    • @user-dw6dp5yx7b
      @user-dw6dp5yx7b 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      And don’t forget to use this advice not to tear down other men.

    • @magslight3728
      @magslight3728 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      learn to heal and cleanse everything else will come back to balance, but he knows that he just doesn't want YOU knowing it, he wants you to glorify your mental health issues, not heal them.

    • @brettlott570
      @brettlott570 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      This is great advice.
      I need to work harder at #2. I have anger problems and cuss like a sailor

    • @iampurelightbeing
      @iampurelightbeing 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Me too now my son is teaching other kids how to b a sailor ​@@brettlott570

  • @ellieokeefe27
    @ellieokeefe27 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wow! Andrew you are an amazing speaker. I feel your authenticity in my heart. Thank you for sharing so honestly..

  • @intezoo
    @intezoo 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    This is one of the best best episodes!!!! ❤ THANK YOU

  • @hoptoads
    @hoptoads 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +580

    Trusting my gut has saved my life on a number of occasions. Thank you, gut !

    • @ntitus3025
      @ntitus3025 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      Thank you, same here. That not trusting your gut is flawed and I wonder if he's telling the truth!

    • @MultiChrisjb
      @MultiChrisjb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You're the best gut!

    • @melissahoots5179
      @melissahoots5179 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

      I think he's calling "gut" and emotions the same thing, but they are not the same at all. It's a learned skill to be able to separate them internally.

    • @johnlovorn4641
      @johnlovorn4641 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This guy is still being used by the CIA as a mouthpiece to steer and control the public. Don't trust your gut? The same thing as don't trust yourself. Trust a CIA officer and not yourself?? Really?? Not buying what this guy keeps selling on many long form podcast.

    • @ntitus3025
      @ntitus3025 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @MultiChrisjb Oh, The BEST-EST!😊

  • @velmasablan2290
    @velmasablan2290 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +620

    His idea about why he wanted to join the Peace Corps makes sense. I once spoke to a guy who had worked as a guard in a prison. He later became an elementary teacher. He said he was tired of seeing the end product of people who made many bad choices. He said he wanted to do something in which he could hopefully reach children in their early age and help guide them towards better choices and avoid the point of possibly landing in jail.

    • @silvermisst
      @silvermisst 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      That's nice ❤

    • @fs5775
      @fs5775 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      It's why I ended up doing the Peace Corps. Lucky for me I'm not a broken human being or pathological liar so I got no calls from the CIA when I was applying for the Peace Corps. I just wanted to help people and that's what I did in Africa for almost 3 years. Not CIA material.

    • @fizzykalimetalinka7250
      @fizzykalimetalinka7250 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@fs5775❤

    • @tw33kish
      @tw33kish 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@fs5775 no, god forbid we build a system where compassion and sympathy are rewarded. Rather have people make millions talking about moral relativism

    • @pepperprovasnik
      @pepperprovasnik 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The Peace Corps is an agency on the same level as the Red Cross who are in league with the CIA

  • @Superstar-nl5tl
    @Superstar-nl5tl 15 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

    He didn't really say anything we didn't already know. He just delivers it really convincingly. I will listen to this again, I think it will help me overcome my anxiety.

  • @ReLapseJunkie
    @ReLapseJunkie 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Gut feeling IS instinct. Always trust this and act on it; you’ll get stronger.

  • @jessiejames2020
    @jessiejames2020 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    First time watcher. Great program. I'm subscribed.

  • @whereskarlo
    @whereskarlo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +561

    "As I left the CIA, I realized how I could market myself using the word CIA to land various gigs and make a living".

    • @darksat6
      @darksat6 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Hey, it sells!

    • @gordonramsheesh1188
      @gordonramsheesh1188 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      You don't understand the scale of his achievments.

    • @DRourk
      @DRourk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@darksat6 To evil and dumb people it does!

    • @fatehsakkal8777
      @fatehsakkal8777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

      This is the comment I was looking for. Great observation 👍

    • @aliebou6492
      @aliebou6492 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Yes! You said it!

  • @andrasfeinek1621
    @andrasfeinek1621 หลายเดือนก่อน +482

    Most important quote from this freakin 2h long conversation: "Bad liars talk a lot." I can see clearly now...

    • @adrianchristopher5867
      @adrianchristopher5867 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    • @lifesyphon1
      @lifesyphon1 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      “Brevity is the soul of wit.” - One of the greatest teller of tales to ever live

    • @jasminblue1
      @jasminblue1 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂

    • @stehaniemul9288
      @stehaniemul9288 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lmao thanks for the warning

    • @Sleuth_Squad
      @Sleuth_Squad 25 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      😂😂😂

  • @MsKlaaa
    @MsKlaaa 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Omg first comment on DOCEO, this man is phenomenal and so relatable as a parent myself!!! Thank you for this interview just had to comment!!! ❤

  • @aaronhargreaves8417
    @aaronhargreaves8417 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you for this its given me alot to think about

  • @iatl7306
    @iatl7306 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +418

    Every time i didn't trust my gut i came to regret it. This world has us trapped in our ego but ego is always based in fears and is the worst liar, we need to get out of our egos and live from the heart.

    • @educational1651
      @educational1651 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Same.

    • @user-jv6kz3tc4g
      @user-jv6kz3tc4g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Very Well Said!!!

    • @user-jv6kz3tc4g
      @user-jv6kz3tc4g 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      The EGOS of people these Days Are Truly SICK.

    • @michaelhoudecki3657
      @michaelhoudecki3657 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Pretty sure ex see eye eh aren't supposed to say they were see eye eh because wherever they were working they had contacts and friends etc. etc. and they were spying. Outing yourself (like this guy is.. supposedly...) outs the people he used, and the country which used him... This thing is fishy

    • @user-ht1rc9fn1v
      @user-ht1rc9fn1v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      Is your gut not basically your second brain. If hadnt trusted my gut every time I wouldn't be here now

  • @Dr.Disregard
    @Dr.Disregard 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +736

    30 year career in the cia means ten years in the cia. Then you "retire" and go work for a social media company or a news agency for the next 20

    • @partlysunnydk
      @partlysunnydk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +95

      or become a handler and get paid for harassing and aiding in the deaths of innocent citizens.

    • @aikoyu9815
      @aikoyu9815 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +82

      Philippines was thrown into abyss by CIA. Before, Philippine peso is equivalent to U. S. Dollars. When CIA came , Philippines become poor and politicians become corrupt.That was said by my teacher in elementary school. Unfortunately, she passed away already.

    • @conchitapaz3938
      @conchitapaz3938 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

      @@aikoyu9815not only in the Philippines others countries and islands too. Now I know why so many people dislike American citizens.

    • @lindabrown3893
      @lindabrown3893 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Or a "history channel" doing a series on Skin Walker Ranch, lol.

    • @michaelchevreaux7780
      @michaelchevreaux7780 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

      ​@@conchitapaz3938
      The Dislike Should Be For The Politicians And CIA.

  • @kasha5839
    @kasha5839 9 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I really enjoy your channel when I watch and listen, thank you.

  • @dklc28
    @dklc28 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great interview, insightful.. thank you!

  • @YashoShasho
    @YashoShasho 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +663

    Not trusting your gut is like not trusting what you are smelling.

    • @jodiwest23
      @jodiwest23 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      That is an excellent way of describing "trusting your gut".

    • @rromi6129
      @rromi6129 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      LOL, I love that

    • @teatimetours2551
      @teatimetours2551 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      You totally have to listen to your emotions and 'gut feeling', maybe not ONLY trust them, but you certainly should not train yourself to cut yourself off from them! I think he seems too focussed on how to be 'successful' in business.

    • @GaBy06ph4sMa
      @GaBy06ph4sMa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I agree with the fact that trusting your gut is sometimes a wrong idea. But there are many cases where you have to believe it. Rational reason and your gut must work together. Instinct feat. critical analysis = access to the truth. But if the truth is not found after that, it is better to choose the truth of reason and not your gut....I think.

    • @istudios225
      @istudios225 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Our gut instinct is there for a reason. It's not something accidental which happened in our evolution.

  • @jodyglaser1
    @jodyglaser1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +352

    Andrew's advice about selling was pretty much right on. As someone who sold for 25 years, my success came from asking the right questions in the right way, listening, and then helping clients solve problems. Clients want to be heard and helped -- NOT SOLD. thank you

    • @MicroMyco
      @MicroMyco 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @jodyglaser1 What type of products were you selling? There are a lot of products that that advice doesn't seem applicable to -- like what kind of problems could be solved for a customer looking to buy a car, tv, cellphone, etc

    • @onyenmehieihenagarankeoma2070
      @onyenmehieihenagarankeoma2070 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@MicroMycowhat kind of problem does a car, tv, etc did you ask?
      Think utilitarian
      Think status
      Think meet a need.
      I’m sure your question is rhetorical.

    • @knoahbody69
      @knoahbody69 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He looks like the guy who is on The Secret of Skinwalker Ranch. Beyond th3 ranch.

    • @Steelers4life68
      @Steelers4life68 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My father too died when I was very young, didnt know him, I had a step dad by 89 or 90 I think. He was a navy seal. I too was born in 80. I didn't get to serve which broke my heart. No woman has ever broke my heart though.

    • @sairlordmusic
      @sairlordmusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      exactly right, and in another cloak i have made many million dollar deals

  • @Eye_of_a_Texan
    @Eye_of_a_Texan 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    The thing is, I'm honest and I value honesty. I value justice, real justice. Cause and effect stuff.
    This guy is all about "breaking barriers." Let me point you to Chesterton's Wall

    • @joshuastauter107
      @joshuastauter107 6 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      And let me point you right back at a cargo cult

  • @NutHouseReject
    @NutHouseReject 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I enjoyed the conversation, it had very good points and an interesting perspective

  • @Pauliesha
    @Pauliesha หลายเดือนก่อน +420

    My gut feeling tells me not to trust this guy… And I will never go against my gut feeling.

    • @28louisgf
      @28louisgf หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I agree

    • @chelsmaria
      @chelsmaria หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Bad vibes immediately here too

    • @sdsfgfhrfdgebsfv4556
      @sdsfgfhrfdgebsfv4556 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      then he's a terrible spy

    • @thegrimpeeper8865
      @thegrimpeeper8865 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yep

    • @28louisgf
      @28louisgf หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      @@sdsfgfhrfdgebsfv4556 well I think he’s a recruiter for the cia is what he is doing.

  • @picsnics9606
    @picsnics9606 หลายเดือนก่อน +567

    Before spending two hours watching the video, my gut told me to read the comments quickly. One of the comments talked about this guy saying “CIA follows human rights and country laws”. As soon as I read that I quickly left. My gut saved me two hours of wasted time. I thanked my gut. 👏

    • @iamr1o
      @iamr1o หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      my gut told me to read the comments too, and i resonated with yours so much, thank you i am about to bounce and watch something else

    • @veldalarsen5311
      @veldalarsen5311 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Who determine human or biological garbage?? Do biological garbage needs human righrs?, Absolutely NOT😅😅

    • @EXITLlFE
      @EXITLlFE หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      ​@@iamr1oyou're letting kids trick you into not watching this man by taking stuff out of context. He has a lot of knowledge and experience you need to hear. It's better to know it than not to know. As he also says lol

    • @Budgetwiththerodriguez
      @Budgetwiththerodriguez หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am here doing the same 😂

    • @DaoDragonFire
      @DaoDragonFire หลายเดือนก่อน

      same haha; party on@@Budgetwiththerodriguez

  • @s.me.
    @s.me. 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Such a great conversation...THANK YOU 🙏👈😶

  • @robertmcginness4610
    @robertmcginness4610 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes this is PTSD ( non violent) having been in survival mood virtually my entire 70 plus years. It's so highly developed that my transfer from startle to assessment is so instantaneous virtually imperceptible. Ie fight / flight, startle, or fear/ to assessment/ action or continue as you were.

  • @conchitapaz3938
    @conchitapaz3938 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +396

    Why will I trust a stranger before myself? My gut feeling has never let me down. Always on point!

    • @lowell62
      @lowell62 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      Right on. Only times I've gone down the wrong path is when I have not paid attention to my own gut,

    • @Reidar911
      @Reidar911 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@lowell62 that take guts.....

    • @shereeglasson22
      @shereeglasson22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      It feels like his gut feelings would let him down but that is exactly why he was hired by an organisation who could control even his own needs and desires. Thanks fully we are not all like that and many of us have the guts to follow our own feeling states. however I do think he had some good advice about not trusting our own prejudices and assumptions. This for me is different from our gut.

    • @shereeglasson22
      @shereeglasson22 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      But sometimes listening to our gut does not necessarily mean following it, right? But rather, collecting useful information from it about the other person’s emotions and potential motives?

    • @Monkeesh
      @Monkeesh 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      why would you need to trust to listen and filter information?

  • @nunyabeezwacks1408
    @nunyabeezwacks1408 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +861

    There are no former CIA agents.
    ONCE CIA, ALWAYS CIA.

    • @brightpage1020
      @brightpage1020 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      Sure there are. Check graveyards and obituaries. Maybe drag some water bodies? You’re bound to find a few, right?

    • @juanwick2726
      @juanwick2726 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

      He's still wearing his best disguise which is Rafiki from The Lion King.

    • @dion8962
      @dion8962 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

      As if someone from counter intelligence is telling the truth. Maybe so, but only part of it.

    • @Polit_Burro
      @Polit_Burro 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Continually
      Instigating
      Arabs
      Congressmen
      Indebted to
      AIPAC

    • @bilb6571
      @bilb6571 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      but why does he wear the mask

  • @dorothyross9392
    @dorothyross9392 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    You are a very good interviewer. You are very smart and are a thinker. We like you.

  • @TrialRob
    @TrialRob 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi guys thanks for your dialogue well listened to and wish you good luck. Rob

  • @courtneyko1466
    @courtneyko1466 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +377

    I think he should have said "don't trust compulsive fearful thoughts". Your gut is quite good at giving you warnings without being based in emotion.

    • @dragonflymagictarot1180
      @dragonflymagictarot1180 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Love that ❤

    • @paulfelix9081
      @paulfelix9081 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Very important observation 👌

    • @imyourocd
      @imyourocd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      so, you rather have a well scripted response rather than an honest response?

    • @GaBy06ph4sMa
      @GaBy06ph4sMa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Gut is quite good for giving warning but not qualified to validate or invalidate the legitimacy and veracity of this warning. This is where reason comes in.

    • @Cafeallday222
      @Cafeallday222 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      100%. They don’t want you to listen to your gut, JUST them. So they say you’re natural instincts are wrong when they’re almost always right. Thr pre-training is already done by plucking them from the right families and they finish the job of telling them they are fundamentally wrong inside. You see a great example in this man here who fully buys or, or at least claims to.

  • @jank2900
    @jank2900 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

    That's scary, that there is a systemic institution, which hauls out sociopaths and psychopaths from the society and empowers them in skills, which make them powerful.
    How might that end up?
    Also kudos to Andrew for honesty.

    • @rhiannondom3538
      @rhiannondom3538 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Human nature is what it is! So how are we suppose to defend ourselves ? Fight evil with artificial evil. You have to be able to beat the bad ppl at their own game or else they take over....like now in 2024.

    • @rhiannondom3538
      @rhiannondom3538 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      There were already psychopaths who are put in their positions by manipulating the ignorant to gain their power and it's obvious they succeed. You haven't wandered how they can fool so many ppl ? Well, how else to know these things unless you find someone who can be trained to be on their level. How else you gonna figure it out? That's the problem....and ignorant way of looking at this podcast. You just heard him more or less claim he's a liar and there you choose to stay ignorant and a small thinker cuz you can't handle the rest of the information ....so you stay amongst the weak and the EASILY controlled. Smh....sad.

    • @MsElke11
      @MsElke11 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      it ends up with the current John Brennan OBAMAGATETRAITORS who are trying to destroy the USA from within.

    • @ericragnar3069
      @ericragnar3069 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You end up with the deep state. Warmongers who control your access to information and who go around the world starting shit with other countries. Exactly what’s been happening for the past half century. Exactly what Eisenhower warned against.

    • @rainbowlion7382
      @rainbowlion7382 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Basically with the world we have now - totally fucked up! These sociopaths and psychopaths have been trained in all areas of government & public life - politicians, corporations, banking, big industries. This is why we have psychopaths that rule the world. All they do is manipulate people to get what they want.

  • @mynameisbub97
    @mynameisbub97 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wow. That was a riveting podcast as I've grown accustomed to when you are the guest, Mr. Bustamante. But this one more than the rest leaves me with one burning question, what is your haircare regimen? I need to know how your curls curl like that, besides the genetic aspect.
    Besides that, thank you for your insight and world perspective. On a more serious topic, have you read Nuclear War: A Scenario by Annie Jacobeson, and what're your thoughts on it if you have.

  • @clairebrown9944
    @clairebrown9944 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I love this episode. As a nurse of 35 years, I have cared for some very challenging people in very difficult situations. Asking questions, validating feelings, mirroring, understanding the difference between perception and perspective. I employ those techniques everyday with my patients. Now I think I can be a CIA agent! I also ask a question, listen and confirm, then I may share a secret if I’m inclined. It often helps. It does make me vulnerable but people are hurting in this difficult world of ours. Such a thought provoking show. Thanks for sharing! BTW, had to go to work will listen to the end of the episode tonight. I hope it’s not too depressing 😢

  • @KalanSorion
    @KalanSorion หลายเดือนก่อน +178

    Making a choice poorly because emotions are clouding your judgement is not the same thing as trusting your gut.

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Paranoids always seem to know. HOW DO THEY DO IT?

    • @PandiNova
      @PandiNova หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Right, because following emotions and trusting your gut are two different things. One comes from the trauma, other comes from the intuition (animal instinct kinda). This guy twists it sadly..

    • @martinkent333
      @martinkent333 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PandiNova Paranoia is the solution. It keeps the fears validated and makes us look like total losers with zero trust!!!!!!!!! Oh My!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @ziiiii3444
      @ziiiii3444 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@martinkent333I don’t care how I look to some loser who incites paranoia. 🥶

    • @Godspeedysick
      @Godspeedysick หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@PandiNovaAnd this is why he’s of great value to them. Not necessarily lying doesn’t mean it’s true.
      The silky hair also humanizes him as well as throw us off. And it could potentially be used as a way to mock us all.
      Overall, their tactics have changed since the introduction of social media where personalities that match the 99.9% (whether goofy-looking or regular old Joe) is far more effective than a personality that match the typical gov agent we always see in the movies. This is why they are so effective.
      Always remember, a former s p y is a dead s p y.

  • @yogawithcedar4626
    @yogawithcedar4626 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +406

    This strikes me as so sad. A heart broken human being giving advice, learned through his brokenness about how to manipulate people, & advising a disconnected world to further disconnect and not trust their gut. I see so much pain in his eyes & I hope he finds truth, self love & safe, meaningful & loving connection.

    • @MCognettaable
      @MCognettaable 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

      Spot on

    • @RomanorumVita
      @RomanorumVita 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      And yet none of that will keep our (your) nation safe when the wolves come knocking.

    • @AndreiFantastic
      @AndreiFantastic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      Okay but so many people say what his mom said is okay, as far as loving your spouse more. There’s tons of articles written by both men and women saying this is the proper “order” of love. Funny though I see it the opposite but similar logic as his mom, I have to love my child therefore that love is stronger because my spouse will survive and has survived without my love, it’s unlikely a child can feel content without their parents love

    • @antonioarcano7989
      @antonioarcano7989 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      He not at fault, is the goverment who takes these broken people.
      Also remember there people like this working for the goverments someone has to do these types of jobs since the dawn of civilization.
      Religions were the firts to do this kind of things.

    • @texasfossilguy
      @texasfossilguy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      its scientific sociopathy

  • @chrisdarity975
    @chrisdarity975 6 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for sharing. Great video.

  • @yanalicious87
    @yanalicious87 วันที่ผ่านมา

    6.2 million at this point , this Channel is terrific

  • @TheIdiotChallenege
    @TheIdiotChallenege หลายเดือนก่อน +84

    CIA guy pops up out of nowhere and seems to now be everywhere and everyone is just like...oh ya, i'll take his advice, LMFAO

    • @1gmhope
      @1gmhope หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Just like others who popped up out of nowhere & people are listening to them despite there being many who have been exposing the same issues for years yet the new ones are spotlighted all over - sus at best

    • @EXITLlFE
      @EXITLlFE หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Always read between the lines. I listened to it all. You gotta listen thru what's real and what isn't

    • @ztaylor49
      @ztaylor49 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      He seems so confident

    • @jaydub5728
      @jaydub5728 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Retired? Yeah right! 😉 😜

    • @JS-ys4of
      @JS-ys4of หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      More motivational speaker than CIA. Geo politics on China are off. He does not know a democracy has life cycle Ah Rome it did not fall in a day .

  • @Zensjo
    @Zensjo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1542

    Trusting my Gut is my Northstar. Always has been always will be. 🙏🏼❤️

    • @TheDiaryOfACEO
      @TheDiaryOfACEO  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

      So good!! Team DOAC ❤️

    • @r.p.8906
      @r.p.8906 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +173

      yes, that's because you are NOT a psychopath. Psychopaths do not have that connection to the soul that non-psychopaths have. The gut feeling has saved my life more than once.😘 I am an empath.

    • @budbas
      @budbas 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      @@r.p.8906 That is true. But even psychopath has a mind to calculate cost benefit of the action they will take. The difference is what comes after the mind confirmed to go doing the action.

    • @eileensullivan4924
      @eileensullivan4924 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

      A recent guest said that intuition is our unconscious store of past experiences.

    • @b.l.a.c.k-shiva
      @b.l.a.c.k-shiva 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

      I think he's just untrained in the spiritual. He's lumping the gut and intuition in with the emotions and tossing them away except when they're used to recognizing how to appear sympathetic. They can also be used to analyze... But this is not something he's developing

  • @joejacquesschulz8514
    @joejacquesschulz8514 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Priceless. Having worked in customer service for decades I can confirm much of what has been said here.

  • @DF-dd5nf
    @DF-dd5nf 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Waw, extremely interesting video, I am pleased, that I have listened to it. Thanks a lot to the former CIA spy to share all of this with the public. It is very good of him. I found the psychology behind it extremely interesting. ❤❤❤

  • @MarkOakleyComics
    @MarkOakleyComics 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +266

    Once Agency, always Agency.
    This man is selling two things: Positive PR for the Agency and psychopathy.

    • @TheBrendonKasa
      @TheBrendonKasa 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      More Recruits ;)

    • @bernadetteloughlan2838
      @bernadetteloughlan2838 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Recruiting more information via not a spy now.

    • @annastarr2043
      @annastarr2043 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Worked for him 🤙

    • @mardyroux8136
      @mardyroux8136 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      As they say, there's no such thing as ex-CIA.

    • @PurpleOuchie
      @PurpleOuchie 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      My 1st though, psychopath. I live with one, to me years to realize it. Extremely intelligent & calculated.

  • @paulmakesvideos
    @paulmakesvideos หลายเดือนก่อน +273

    It's not that I don't trust my gut. It's that I don't trust this guy.

    • @opentrunk
      @opentrunk หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I don't trust this guy AND I don't trust my gut. There's a thing called LOGIC... I trust that.

    • @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181
      @k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@opentrunk YOu can trust your gut if it's based in logic and reasoning other perspectives. Sometimes that happens in an instant. I think his message needs refining but it's a good cutting start.

    • @TyrianHaze
      @TyrianHaze หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@opentrunk There is also a thing called intuition. When you need to make split second decisions that might save your ass, you can't sit there running scenarios through your head. Think of it as a machine learning algorithm being trained ahead of time to be able to respond in a split second instead of spending multiple seconds thinking through different scenarios while you get fucked.

    • @TyrianHaze
      @TyrianHaze หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@k-aw-teksleepysageuni8181 Exactly. The going with your gut is not random. It's based on life experience and evolutionary traits developed over millions of years with our ancestors escaping death in a split second instead of taking out their pipe and smoking while drawing up a plan.

    • @emdrpsychology
      @emdrpsychology หลายเดือนก่อน

      are you using your gut for that haha perfecto

  • @kathyconnors7409
    @kathyconnors7409 7 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    My goodness! I rarely listen to an entire 2hour video. I’m so impressed with his intelligence ❤

  • @steveoh1111
    @steveoh1111 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Moral flexibility was great 😂. Love it, im gonna start using that

    • @Yupthereitism
      @Yupthereitism 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Lol I was thinking the same thing

  • @whiskeysquiker
    @whiskeysquiker 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +122

    I think his version of "gut" is different than mine. My gut is my instinct. There is zero emotion attached to it. It's what kicks on when certain things don't add up, and I won't know what that is, but it's wrong and when I don't listen to that, that's when I always get screwed. If I have a feeling about something and I may even know what things cause me to feel a certain way about a scenario or whatever, I believe that's his version of "gut". Bottom line is, ALWAYS trust your gut. Don't wear your heart on your sleeve.

    • @brytankak9598
      @brytankak9598 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      I think what he means is "don't trust the narrative your mind builds to explain your gut feeling." E.g. your gut tells you your GF acts off. *dont* jump to conclusions that she's cheating. Evaluate the context logically.

    • @MartinGlasser-mj3dd
      @MartinGlasser-mj3dd 14 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I'm with you on that. He is a trained liar.

    • @Indylimburg
      @Indylimburg 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@brytankak9598 This. Don't trust your lying eyes and don't take things for face value.

    • @spindrifter7519
      @spindrifter7519 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Absolutely right. If I ignore my gut / instinct I get screwed over.

    • @anamarisela
      @anamarisela 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Wearing your heart on your sleeve it means let your feelings show, or am I wrong?

  • @eramg6324
    @eramg6324 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +236

    I clicked on this knowing there is no way I will sit through a 2 hour interview. My perception 😊was wrong. Enjoyed every minute. Fascinating discussion. Thank you both.

    • @user-og7nh5vm5f
      @user-og7nh5vm5f 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      nothing new. all public domain accessible informations

    • @fluxcapacitor05
      @fluxcapacitor05 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Holy hell an actual comment that was paid for. Lol, how's India treating ya?

    • @TheirIAre
      @TheirIAre 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same

    • @Captain-Awesome
      @Captain-Awesome 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am just getting started, not sure how long I will last.

    • @Boblawblah229
      @Boblawblah229 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      “Fascinating” 😂😂😂 this guy is completely full of crap “CIA follows human rights laws, doesn’t operate in the USA, follows USA laws” THESE ARE SLL PROVEN LIES. Anyone who buys this bs is their target audience. Change, get educated on the reality, don’t buy this bs😂😂😂

  • @rodneywoods4442
    @rodneywoods4442 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You guys sound like all of us whether we think about it or not! But listening to you makes us think about it.

  • @cyndra680
    @cyndra680 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing interview!

  • @pamelaiheozor-ejiofor5167
    @pamelaiheozor-ejiofor5167 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +255

    My gut has saved me and some people around me on several occasions. I ALWAYS go with my guts.

    • @travlntam
      @travlntam 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      There’s a big difference having a gut feeling on placing a bet. Or having a gut feeling you are not in a safe environment.
      I absolutely agree with you.
      It was a great lesson on not being lied to or being taken advantage of.

    • @CommandoKnetter
      @CommandoKnetter 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      My gut has saved me too... mostly from eating Taco Bell or at the local cheap Chinese restaurant

    • @GoodWoodWorks-le4cd
      @GoodWoodWorks-le4cd 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Even the gut reponce is operating on a Very safe measurement of "Learning"
      Keep Learning eyes open!

    • @triplehfarmsllc7348
      @triplehfarmsllc7348 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@GoodWoodWorks-le4cd a gut feeling is the same as a emotional reaction. Vs saying gut use your conscience thoughts because that’s in fact it. Because unless it makes you feel sick hungry feeling it’s not a gut feeling

    • @marisamenendez7875
      @marisamenendez7875 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I think it’s highly irresponsible of him to scorn intuition like that. People need to frame his words within the fact he admits to his several sociopathic traits. It’s like stating that we need consumers to remain ignorant… and the sociopathic attitude sees it as normal. He admits to moral flexibility, where he has principles, but he might get new ones tomorrow. Everything he said will lead untrained minds to erroneous conclusions and behaviors. By the way, to get all that knowledge you don’t need to be part of the CIA. you just have to study psychology or organizational behavior 😅. Most of the stuff he mentioned is common knowledge amongst university students, or at least amongst 4-year university graduates.

  • @janahughes13
    @janahughes13 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +292

    My question is how much of the actual "truth" is he allowed to share without "fearing" for potential consequences. With that said, listening to this with an open yet critical mindset.

    • @captrodgers4273
      @captrodgers4273 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      the united states government and the cia would not allow a real spy to run around doing podcasts like him....this guy is full of shit and not a spy

    • @silvermine2033
      @silvermine2033 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      He isn't just out here talking without someone's approval.

    • @song4mozart
      @song4mozart 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Exactly

    • @elmedinaloka189
      @elmedinaloka189 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Exactly! I always think that when ppl like this are invited

    • @rosen9425
      @rosen9425 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I think he touched on it at some point somewhere else. Whatever they decide is the appropriate level. also a judgement call. We're not about to hear something juicy classified "who ended JFK, I have all the documents" type stuff of anyone expected that

  • @hammondegger6205
    @hammondegger6205 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This has been a great awakening for me. Thank you.

  • @comerciogba5287
    @comerciogba5287 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Amazing chapter.. thanks man

  • @huwhitecavebeast1972
    @huwhitecavebeast1972 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +416

    I am going to continue to trust my "gut", or my intuition, because it has a perfect track record and hasn't been wrong once. If fact, every time I ignore it I get punished.

    • @pedrobarrantes1177
      @pedrobarrantes1177 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I love your comment!

    • @architecture.w
      @architecture.w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Me too.

    • @fumarate1
      @fumarate1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      because feelings are the language of the soul.

    • @user-oj1bg5iw3w
      @user-oj1bg5iw3w 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Exactly Right !

    • @rileydavidjesus
      @rileydavidjesus 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Better yet. Anybody who tells you not to trust you gut, is trying to manipulate you.

  • @marys3738
    @marys3738 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    I used to ignore my gut all the time and I always regret it. Now I follow my gut even if it does not make sense from a brain perspective. My gut is right most of the time.

    • @cherylmay595
      @cherylmay595 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      You miss what he was talking about. Few understand. Few are intelligent enough to understand what he's saying.

    • @UniversalMysticsOfChrist
      @UniversalMysticsOfChrist 26 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@cherylmay595intelligence has nothing to do with following your gut

    • @zaiten2012
      @zaiten2012 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      can you prove it? I'd be interested in knowing a few examples of what you are saying. I don't know how to follow my gut.

    • @leonduske847
      @leonduske847 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@zaiten2012 For me that does nearly, never happen. But if it does, you will know. At the least afterwards.

    • @reneelyons5006
      @reneelyons5006 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@zaiten2012 check in with your emotions… How do you feel about it? As opposed to what do you think about it? Are any of your Spidey senses going off? Etc., that kind of thing.

  • @dewaynerobinson7083
    @dewaynerobinson7083 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very. Very informative Thank you. Both of you!

  • @turogers13
    @turogers13 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    This guest was so interesting and had me actively listening from the start. Your professionalism and interpersonal attributes combined resulted in one of the best interviews that I have had the pleasure of watching.

  • @stefyroxanne7567
    @stefyroxanne7567 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +425

    Not trusting my gut would have killed or harmed me years ago.

    • @r_EVOL_utionRENEGADE
      @r_EVOL_utionRENEGADE 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +53

      @stefyroxanne7567 I don’t get that advice either going from my own experience. If you want to make it in a world full of liars go for it. But if you want to find authentic truthful people trust your gut!

    • @auntbeth448
      @auntbeth448 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

      Agreed. I think your gut is far more than emotion…your gut is intuitive, compiling subconsciously all sorts of signals…ie: the book “Blink” I can agree not to make decisions based on emotion…

    • @djamilawilschke7259
      @djamilawilschke7259 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      same here - he forgets that in everyday life this might be bad advise, intuition and gut feeling are not to be underestimated …

    • @Kinuhbud
      @Kinuhbud 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

      Coming from a guy who's mom said she 'had to love him.'
      He can't trust *his* emotions or intuition because that led him to assume wrong in the past. There are times when we should ignore our emotions and need for quick validation, but that's different than following your instincts on something... The gut is like a second brain. It is a neural network. The health of your gut directly influences everything.

    • @jshdelarosa
      @jshdelarosa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      But will it kill hoy tomorrow?

  • @SubUrbanSF
    @SubUrbanSF 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +259

    My mother and i had the same conversation.
    Never understood that shit either.
    As a father of two grown boys I always believed you should love your children first and most because they didn't ask to be here. You brought them, love them.

    • @deborahhebblethwaite1865
      @deborahhebblethwaite1865 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Why does love have to be a contest between two people. Nature in most cases creates a protective relationship with their young. And attachment changes even with children as they grow into adults and moveout. And actually I believe as spirit you choose your opportunity to come into this world. 🇨🇦🙏

    • @ComfortKM
      @ComfortKM 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Women don’t love the same way men do. Their love is much more pragmatic and provisional. That’s why the most insulting thing a woman can say about a man is a comment on his utility from her perspective.
      There’s also two parts to that utility: current and potential. Current is always better. Hence why children are often less loved than her lover given the requisite provision/ protection/ position. (Money/ power/ status)

    • @AAWT
      @AAWT 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I had a similar one, but she promised me and my sister she would never love anyone more than us. That's what a mother should do - mothers loving their new partner more than their kids is a toxic attitude, but now I know why bad mothers tolerate sexual abuse of their children by stepfathers. The feminist "I love him more because it's a choice" reasoning for that stupid attitude doesn't surprise me at all. Sadly, our mom passed away too early.

    • @ChosenOne232
      @ChosenOne232 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ComfortKM👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @timolson9722
      @timolson9722 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think it’s easy to understand think about it. She hast to choose to love her husband she doesn’t have to. She isn’t blood to him but she’s blunted that boy. I don’t think it means she loves one or the other more but if your husband goes crazy and commits murder and does some psycho shit you most likely not gonna love him anymore and you’re gonna let it go but if your son does that I don’t care if he’s on death row you’ll still love him and you’ll still go see him.

  • @tookymax
    @tookymax 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very interesting, well worth watching!

  • @pamharrison8348
    @pamharrison8348 15 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is absolutely fascinating. Keep the context in which he is speaking constantly in mind, and there is a lot to take away from all of this, even if it's knowing on an intellectual level. Will need to watch multiple times. I feel the split you would have to make between your true self and the "manipulative" self that would meet the skills he talks of is something I would not want to make in my life. But he does speak of a lot of gems of information,. Thank you.

  • @no-bq8hv
    @no-bq8hv 20 วันที่ผ่านมา +285

    Don't listen to your heart. It's too emotional and it falls in love. Don't listen to your brain. It over analyzes and thinks too much. Go with your gut. It feeds you.

    • @jaybee608
      @jaybee608 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Yeah, I kinda agree with that!

    • @reneboucher512
      @reneboucher512 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Bud, how does your heart differ from your gut. If you didn't get it, that question was rhetorical; you might sound logical and smart, but to me, you just seem clever and young, possibly soon, to be smart.

    • @benevolentessence8809
      @benevolentessence8809 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      oversimplified..you need all 3 for different situations..your gut will lie to you too when you're hungry ..good food can get poisoned too without you knowing about it

    • @strawberrytart5666
      @strawberrytart5666 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I DO...

    • @RPcropland
      @RPcropland 16 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      Lol the prefrontal cotex is less useful than our reptilian brain because it only distiguishes us from animals. Let's all suck our thumbs and act like toddlers who don't have reason b/c emotions are superior😂. /s

  • @Libertas1791
    @Libertas1791 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +468

    So right from his introduction, he is someone that no one can trust...

    • @IzzyBizzyBooBoo
      @IzzyBizzyBooBoo 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      valid.

    • @hllymchll
      @hllymchll 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

      yup. and pretty sure you never "leave" the cia anyway

    • @lolazal1
      @lolazal1 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

    • @gidget101
      @gidget101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      At least he admits it

    • @DaxterDV
      @DaxterDV 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Great critical thinking skills, I hope you didn't watch the entire video. You really didn't miss anything.

  • @imnotstupidandyournotcrazy9355
    @imnotstupidandyournotcrazy9355 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Perspective v Perception ! Priceless to know.

  • @Ravine777
    @Ravine777 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video!

  • @damadafknrio
    @damadafknrio 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +201

    I have a cold mother also and she'll never ever change. It can be tough on the heart, mind and soul. We are fortunate to hear Andrew speak of such things.

    • @rileyhalls9301
      @rileyhalls9301 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      I appreciate & was moved by your comment. I'm Very, very fortunate to have a wonderful tremendous mother. The thing is that you can take charge & break the cycle.

    • @rileyhalls9301
      @rileyhalls9301 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Comment above

    • @Tony-yd1vx
      @Tony-yd1vx 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      how 'bout below?@@rileyhalls9301

    • @mattstone8878
      @mattstone8878 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Eat bacon. 🥓 That is all.

    • @samm928
      @samm928 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Alright.. I had enough brainwashing for 2day

  • @findingthetrutheveryday
    @findingthetrutheveryday หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    When he said " we will ALL fu*k up as parents, but its how much/bad will you fu*k them up".... I felt that

    • @violetwilliamson5200
      @violetwilliamson5200 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Q

    • @katiethepro
      @katiethepro หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thats not fair.

    • @chezLynn
      @chezLynn หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yep, being 'messed', myself, I herd that, too. For what it's worth, unwillingly becoming a parent presented me with the choice to perpetuate the original 'sin' or 'errors' of my messed up family/society, or to do as the guest suggests and model a more 'healthy' possibility for my kids. Of course, it's seldom 'easy', but it really comes down to 'simple' day-to-day choices in 'how' we relate to others that anyone can make. Just wish that my particular traumas etc would have led me to becoming a hyper-achiever like these guys :)

    • @conniepritchardreinhardt9978
      @conniepritchardreinhardt9978 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I think he was say.. you have to be the bigger person and admit you faults as a parent. No one is a perfect person.

    • @Skitdora2010
      @Skitdora2010 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We don't all f up as parents. When you try your best you do you best, life's surprises are not your fault. Some parents are bad parents though, the selfish people as parenting requires you give of yourself and make sacrifices, for new humans you created who may end up ungrateful and one of those selfish people themselves. You are more likely to screw up if you had bad parents though, because you model your own parenting after them because it is what you know inherently.

  • @MargaritaLisenenkov-qh3ir
    @MargaritaLisenenkov-qh3ir วันที่ผ่านมา

    Informative!