Mind Again
Mind Again
  • 221
  • 1 723 466
Can INFPs Develop Thick Skin ?
Can INFPs Develop Thick Skin ?
INFPs have been termed "Emotional sponges" because they easily feel other people’s emotions, even the subtle ones. This trait is beautiful and unique, especially in today's world, where people mask their true nature, but it can sometimes feel like a double-edged sword. While sensitivity enhances creativity and compassion, it may also leave INFPs vulnerable to harsh criticism and heartaches of the outside world.
Many INFPs struggle with growing the proverbial "thick skin" that allows them to brush off insults or disappointments. Can sensitive people truly toughen up without losing touch with their gentle nature? Let's x-ray this.
#infp #developthickskin #infps #MindAgain
INFOGRAPHIC / POSTER
▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀
► Animated Infographic Posters (PNG/GIF/PDF): www.empathsrefuge.com
OUR RESOURCES FOR EMPATHS
▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀
► (PNG/PDF) How To Stop Picking Other People’s Energy: www.empathsrefuge.com/other-people-energy/
► Tips and reports on Mental health: www.psychologyandi.com
VIDEO SUGGESTIONS
▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀
► th-cam.com/video/D7aH8vCWfjw/w-d-xo.html
► th-cam.com/video/OQZoedvZk_k/w-d-xo.html
► th-cam.com/video/tg76IPqCTgQ/w-d-xo.html
► th-cam.com/video/NDMW1Ft1Be0/w-d-xo.html
THE MAKING OF THIS VIDEO
▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀
► Soundtrack: Psych DIGITAL Studio
► Scripting: Moses N. Chukwu
► Illustration & Animation: Moses N. Chukwu
มุมมอง: 459

วีดีโอ

These 5 Bible Characters May Have Been INFPs
มุมมอง 718วันที่ผ่านมา
5 Bible Characters That May Have Been INFPs. Have you ever wondered how ancient figures from the Bible would fit into today's personality frameworks? Let's dive into the world of personality types and explore the possibility that some of these characters could have been INFPs. As an INFP personality type myself and a reader of the Bible, I've always felt a sense of kinship with some of the more...
7 Ways INFPs Can Have More Willpower
มุมมอง 93821 วันที่ผ่านมา
7 Ways INFPs Can Have More Willpower. For those with the INFP personality type, willpower can sometimes feel elusive. As idealistic dreamers who live richly in the world of their imagination, INFPs can struggle with following through on goals in the real world. Getting derailed by new ideas, losing enthusiasm, or succumbing to procrastination are common pitfalls. But willpower is a muscle that ...
Are INFPs Emotionally Closed?
มุมมอง 1.1K21 วันที่ผ่านมา
Are INFPs Emotionally Closed? At first glance, it's easy to mistake an INFP for a closed book, as their quiet demeanour and introspective nature lead some to assume that they keep their emotions tightly under wraps. But beneath the surface lies a vast ocean of intense and complex feelings. INFPs experience emotions with a depth and richness that few can comprehend; each sentiment is imbued with...
The Benefits Of Stoicism For INFPs
มุมมอง 83128 วันที่ผ่านมา
The Benefits Of Stoicism For INFPs. One philosophy that INFPs may find helpful is Stoicism. Stoicism is an ancient Greek way of thinking that teaches how to be resilient and at peace no matter what life throws your way. Philosophy originated in Greece around 300 BC. It teaches us how to live a good life by focusing on what we can control and letting go of what we cannot. #infps #marcusaurelius ...
What Is It Like To Break Up With An INFP
มุมมอง 904หลายเดือนก่อน
What Is It Like To Break Up With An INFP. Breaking up is hard. It doesn't matter who you are or what kind of relationship you have. Ending something once filled with love, hope, and shared experiences is an emotionally taxing process. But breaking up with someone with an INFP personality type comes with unique challenges and heartaches. INFPs are guided by a deep well of emotion, imagination, a...
Why Do INFPs Disappear At Times?
มุมมอง 1.5Kหลายเดือนก่อน
Why Do INFPs Disappear At Times? Imagine you have a super imaginative, kind-hearted friend who loves to help others. That friend might be an INFP! These are some of the most creative and caring people around. But guess what? Sometimes, they disappear for a while, leaving everyone wondering where they went. INFPs have incredibly rich inner worlds. They're like treasure chests full of ideas, drea...
INFP or INFJ | Who Is the Better Listener?
มุมมอง 1Kหลายเดือนก่อน
INFP or INFJ | Who Is the Better Listener? Both INFPs and INFJs belong to the "idealist" temperament, and they are known for their empathetic and excellent listening skills. However, they may approach listening differently because of their personality types. INFPs are very empathetic and non-judgmental listeners. They are often profoundly considerate of the emotions and feelings of others, so t...
How the 16 Personalities Find Comfort | INFP
มุมมอง 486หลายเดือนก่อน
How The 16 Personalities Find Comfort | INFP . While many people like doing things that make them feel comfortable and at peace, not everyone does. What could make one person feel calmer might make another person feel stressed or just plain useless. INFPs, for instance, find comfort when they are in tune with themselves rather than the outside world. Earlier, we posted a video on how INFPs find...
When An INFP Becomes A Realist | What Happens?
มุมมอง 2.6K2 หลายเดือนก่อน
When An INFP Becomes A Realist | What Happens? INFPs are dreamers at heart. They are highly imaginative people who see the world very differently than most. Their minds are constantly whirling with creative thoughts and fanciful visions. They tend to focus more on how things could be than how they are. #infps #infpidealist #realistmbti #infp #realistinfp #MindAgain INFOGRAPHIC POSTER ▀▀▀▀▀▀▀▀ ►...
Are INFPs Too Subtle ?
มุมมอง 1.2K2 หลายเดือนก่อน
Are INFPs Too Subtle ? One of the defining characteristics of INFPs is their subtlety. They express themselves better through nuanced gestures, art, or writing. This subtlety can sometimes make it challenging for others to grasp the depth of their emotions and beliefs truly. They prefer to navigate life with gentleness and empathy, portraying them as complex personalities. INFPs are often descr...
How INFPs Can Build An Undefeatable Character (the #Stoics Way)
มุมมอง 1.4K2 หลายเดือนก่อน
How INFPs Can Build An Undefeatable Character (the #Stoics Way) In a world that often feels overwhelming, where external factors can easily sway emotions and decisions, individuals with the INFP personality type often seek inner strength and resilience. The Stoic philosophy, known for its emphasis on Virtue, wisdom, and emotional stability, offers a valuable framework for INFPs to build an unde...
How To Tell A Mediator ( INFP ) and Adventurer ( ISFP ) Apart
มุมมอง 7112 หลายเดือนก่อน
How To Tell A Mediator ( INFP ) and Adventurer ( ISFP ) Apart The Mediators (INFP) and the Adventurer (ISFP). These personality types, defined by the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), showcase unique traits that make them intriguing and sometimes challenging to distinguish. Understanding the subtle differences between these personalities can be crucial, whether navigating relationships, colla...
INFP vs. INTP vs. ENFJ vs. INFJ | The Differences
มุมมอง 8342 หลายเดือนก่อน
INFP vs. INTP vs. ENFJ vs. INFJ | The Differences. In the personality sphere, the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI) offers a fascinating lens through which we can understand the intricacies of human behavior. Among the myriad options, the INFP, INTP, ENFJ, and INFJ stand out for their unique blends of traits and tendencies. Let's embark on a journey through the intricate maze of these personal...
The Worst Things I Heard Someone Say About INFPs
มุมมอง 1.3K3 หลายเดือนก่อน
The Worst Things I Heard Someone Say About INFPs The world has diverse personalities, but INFPs are unique breeds. But like any personality type, they are not immune to misconceptions and stereotypes. There are a lot of things said about the INFPs. Critics argue that they live in a world of their creation, often disconnected from reality. Some label them as "dreamers" with their heads perpetual...
5 Reasons It's Too Dangerous To Mess With INFPs
มุมมอง 2.4K3 หลายเดือนก่อน
5 Reasons It's Too Dangerous To Mess With INFPs
How INFPs Can Build Self-Discipline | According To Marcus Aurelius
มุมมอง 1.8K3 หลายเดือนก่อน
How INFPs Can Build Self-Discipline | According To Marcus Aurelius
How To Tell An INFP Guy Or Girl On A Dating Site
มุมมอง 5544 หลายเดือนก่อน
How To Tell An INFP Guy Or Girl On A Dating Site
16 Personalities | Which Is The Best? (Least Flawed)
มุมมอง 8014 หลายเดือนก่อน
16 Personalities | Which Is The Best? (Least Flawed)
The Unexpected Desires of INFPs
มุมมอง 1.3K4 หลายเดือนก่อน
The Unexpected Desires of INFPs
16 Personalities: What Type is More Prone to Getting Lost In Thought?
มุมมอง 3325 หลายเดือนก่อน
16 Personalities: What Type is More Prone to Getting Lost In Thought?
Here's the Animal You Would Be, Based on Your MBTI Personality
มุมมอง 2K5 หลายเดือนก่อน
Here's the Animal You Would Be, Based on Your MBTI Personality
When An INFP Is Absolutely Done With You: What Happens?
มุมมอง 3.5K5 หลายเดือนก่อน
When An INFP Is Absolutely Done With You: What Happens?
How INFPs Defy ALL Stereotypes
มุมมอง 1.8K5 หลายเดือนก่อน
How INFPs Defy ALL Stereotypes
16 Personalities: If Each Were Arrested, What Would It Be For?
มุมมอง 2.4K5 หลายเดือนก่อน
16 Personalities: If Each Were Arrested, What Would It Be For?
INFP Careers That Make More Money
มุมมอง 1.9K6 หลายเดือนก่อน
INFP Careers That Make More Money
Why Narcissists Are So Attracted To INFPs | The REAL Reasons.
มุมมอง 3.1K6 หลายเดือนก่อน
Why Narcissists Are So Attracted To INFPs | The REAL Reasons.
INFPs, INTPs, & INFJs | Who Is Cuter ?
มุมมอง 9716 หลายเดือนก่อน
INFPs, INTPs, & INFJs | Who Is Cuter ?
INFPs | Why Are We So Nostalgic ?
มุมมอง 1.4K6 หลายเดือนก่อน
INFPs | Why Are We So Nostalgic ?
Carl Jung [ INFP ] Rules That Changed My Life
มุมมอง 2.3K6 หลายเดือนก่อน
Carl Jung [ INFP ] Rules That Changed My Life

ความคิดเห็น

  • @NatsuDragneel-pi7cs
    @NatsuDragneel-pi7cs 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I’m an infp Libra 😅

  • @MrMexikin
    @MrMexikin 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    This is very much my life🫠

  • @proprgent
    @proprgent วันที่ผ่านมา

    Something that might help to allow the physical sensations of any emotions that arise, to fully run their course. It can help to process the emotion quickly and use that energy for you benefit. I think it's called radical emotional acceptance

  • @bunnipops
    @bunnipops 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Im in the saved by Jesus christ stage

  • @sandrafrancis3631
    @sandrafrancis3631 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jesus is said to be INFJ. Which might make better sense. There was a structure and planning to his life. He wasn't passive with no particular sense of direction or indecisive, or wanting to opt out and be alone. When he was young he is thought to have been a carpenter, then he was a teacher and leader. Sounds more INFJ to me. 🤔

  • @elijahlennox7881
    @elijahlennox7881 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Me 😢

  • @connietalbotfan1988
    @connietalbotfan1988 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Please can you also do a video of the infp woman in the bible?

  • @kateduncan7628
    @kateduncan7628 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My favorite types are 1. INTJ, 2. ENTJ, 3. INFJ, and 4. ENFJ. I would not like someone who is S rather than N or P rather than J. I find every part of this video wrong (except for the INTJ).

  • @sandrafrancis3631
    @sandrafrancis3631 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm INFP, i'm not that quiet but i do spend a large amount of time alone. We're not emotionally closed, we're too open. We are reserved, i am, and we tend to hang back a bit before revealing our selfs, because we like to find out about people, what sort of person they are, before becoming more friendly. It is a defensive attitude, the need to protect ourselves, that's what i think 🤔?

  • @QuotesArticles
    @QuotesArticles 5 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nice video, brother! I can agree with Jesus, John the beloved apostle being INFPs, even Paul I can understand and agree but have to look into the other two (King David and Jeremiah) being INFPs! 😊🙏🙌🌟 (David, I do agree on certain aspects being an INFP absolutely but at certain times he seems to be an out and out extrovert! Maybe his shadow functions coming to the front!)

  • @perry4807
    @perry4807 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm an INFP and I would relate or want to be like David

  • @SeelenTaucher
    @SeelenTaucher 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thx much 4 that one. Love IT ❤ John and Mary might have been Infp and Peter might have been enfp.

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching

  • @EnochianChronicles
    @EnochianChronicles 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Interesting, I never even considered the temperaments of holy bible characters (except I have seen others type Jesus as either INFJ or INFP. I knew King David would be one of your choices. To be fair about Jesus, if you understand his writings, he says he never once did his own will and only spoke the words his Father gave him to speak (hence why he is the word manifest or incarnate), so that would make it the Father's personality expressed through the son. This is my life study/work. I was born again 36 years ago and baptized in the holy spirit 29 years ago (this year will be my 30 walking in the spirit). Thanks for the video, peace be upon you and God be with you.

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Interesting. thanks for watching

  • @kateduncan7628
    @kateduncan7628 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jesus doesn’t fit into any of the MBTI personalities because he has no weekends and has every true, honest, pure, lovely, and noble strength. Putting Jesus into a standard is minimizing His power and strength, He was there at the beginning of time and is above such conditions to fit inside a personality type.

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      thanks

    • @drtonymilton2684
      @drtonymilton2684 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

      Jesus was an INFJ

  • @ww-kl9wd
    @ww-kl9wd 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I just thought about it and video show up

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      that's interesting to know

  • @EliAlexaSamaniego
    @EliAlexaSamaniego 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Now I really want to have Christ-like attributes. I'm INFP btw, it's so amazing that you connected the bible to our personality type, I read the bible but I struggle so hard to be like Jesus and this somehow helped me:33

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm glad you enjoyed this update

    • @EnochianChronicles
      @EnochianChronicles 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Jesus was like the Father (to show us the Father, the image of the invisible God) as he was fully submissive as the suffering servant and word (of God) become flesh. The spirit of God within us (Christ means the anointed one, anointed with the holy spirit and power) transforms us into his likeness (from glory to glory). It is a matter of learning to hear and obey the vice/word of God (still small voice) within and fully submit your will to his. I have been walking in this almost 30 years now and this is my goal in life and I believe my ultimate calling. Jesus came to show us the way to walk in these things, take up your cross and deny yourself and serve as he did. Peace be upon you and God be with you as learn to manifest the likeness of God in Christ.

  • @kikilala3430
    @kikilala3430 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel Moses and Jonah are probably Infp too. I think most of the disciples are introverts lol 🤣🤣🤣🤣 btw, i am an infp too.

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching

  • @dragonmummy1
    @dragonmummy1 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m an INFP. Nobody hates me. Total strangers trust me instinctively and tell me all sorts of stuff. For example, on a recent taxi ride I had the driver crying within minutes (“where are you from?” He replied “Kashmir “. “It sounds beautiful” I said. That was enough to start him off. I learned all about his family back home). At the end of the ride I promised to pray for him and his family. I’m an atheist. There is other stuff that I don’t recognise here either. For instance, I NEVER miss a deadline at work, and if I make you a promise I will keep it. But I stopped setting myself deadlines for my own stuff years ago. For instance, I know that “I’ll do the ironing this afternoon” is a lie. I’m honest now and know I’ll only iron when I’m desperate for something to wear.

  • @a.n4828
    @a.n4828 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    People want difference but cant except difference. They are scared of difference so please dont shy away due to others and nuture yourself as you are 💙🕊

  • @dillonmason4503
    @dillonmason4503 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Enfps make good friends. Though notsomuch as partners. As an INFP myself, I find the ENFJ & INFJ to be most attracted to me, and also ISTP (but to a lesser degree than the aforementioned two) ESFJs and ISFJs can also find us attractive, but that's only because they mistake us for ISFPs, lol. Enfj and Infj are the real ideal matches.

  • @dillonmason4503
    @dillonmason4503 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I can't decide between going the English Professor route or the Digital Marketer route.

  • @KrystalSnow26
    @KrystalSnow26 16 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My friends hates me for this :(

  • @yenibooo
    @yenibooo 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Nature, dance, music, sketching art, journaling, animals & communicating w loved ones (working on this one has been the toughest because I barely understand myself baby steps)

  • @sanjidaelmi1723
    @sanjidaelmi1723 19 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for the kind words.

  • @RjDaOne01
    @RjDaOne01 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

    1:32 BARS🫱🏼‍🫲🏽🔥

  • @sweetmeloday5935
    @sweetmeloday5935 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel called out on the "cutting people off for no reason" XD hahaha it's probably unnerving because I get way too caught up in my head and would already form a conclusion, so I expect people to also have an idea already when in reality they're probably not aware or don't know my reasoning immediately. So, it's a matter whether it's beneficial that they hear my reasoning so they could form closure or I'd rather not waste both of our times by explaining myself.

  • @heatherrogers548
    @heatherrogers548 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is very nice content, and, I use TH-cam all of the time to keep me motivated while I get ready for the day. Otherwise, simple task like washing up and getting out the door feels impossibly tedious.

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching

  • @user-er3dy2kd4b
    @user-er3dy2kd4b 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hello,I'm an INFP and I agree that it's difficult not to procrastinate, sometimes I get distracted and do activities that I really love, like I don't know... Studying or getting more and more knowledge😅

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 20 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for sharing!!

  • @sarenawiebe8690
    @sarenawiebe8690 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I made a rare connection last week. After staying up all night drinking wine and talking about our big ideas, I trusted him quickly. I was completely sure we'd see each other again. He ghosted. It was just one night. Why am I so upset by this? It makes me angry.

  • @Ieatmoldforfunzies_x0x0
    @Ieatmoldforfunzies_x0x0 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

    As an aromantic INFP i could personally never.

  • @ourawesomearabandmuslimwor5046
    @ourawesomearabandmuslimwor5046 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    but i can handle pressure very well as infp . i work better under pressure!

  • @Firos81
    @Firos81 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Me now

  • @ML-HS
    @ML-HS 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My great friend was an estp. I loved how he meant what he said. Great at giving advices. Trying to help out in whatever way. I could come forward with any issues and we would talk it out. Istp/intp on the other hand-woah. Incredibly dishonest, lying people prone to jumping and assuming things. Not to mention they don't want to talk things out unless they find you useful and have something to gain from you. The only people who can say they are splendid, open minded people are their simps and my infp heart feels sorry for those stuck with them.

  • @tjkasgl
    @tjkasgl 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Those weirdos". Yes! That's me!!!

  • @EnochianChronicles
    @EnochianChronicles 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Once we get to know you, you might wish you could put the cat back in the box Being an empath can really be exhausting some days though 😵‍💫 Good vid 👍

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you

  • @Nick-Nasty
    @Nick-Nasty 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Those are kind words, thanks for the viseo 👍

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks for watching

  • @chachyesmeralda18
    @chachyesmeralda18 26 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This was disappointing. Nothing new or even complicated. Childhood and Adolescence to Adulthood and Beyond? Nope. More like INFP kids read. Adolescents explore. Adults from 20 to Death use what they learn about themselves...well DUH🙄

  • @rumibtb3963
    @rumibtb3963 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    A cancer infp hereee❤

  • @walterhenry1009
    @walterhenry1009 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This seems unreal I mean bull - shit as made by, an amateur personality analysts who also happens to be "Infp".

  • @Alice-tc4ue
    @Alice-tc4ue 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Anyone who wants friendship with fellow INFP-t (Me) ??? 🙂💯❤️☮️

    • @surianih173
      @surianih173 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Me! Sometimes it sucks being INFP and even more, INFP-T. The isolation that was said is very true. I've been discouraged and disappointed by others so I tend to just isolate myself and do my own thing. But yes definitely nice to have a friend who has similar traits!

  • @EnochianChronicles
    @EnochianChronicles 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I read Meditations by Markus Aurelius in my early twenties. I have been a Christian Stoic ever since. As an INFP I went from a T to an A personality. The chaos of being a turbulent needs to be tempered by something lest you get swept away in the ensuing storms of life.

  • @Love_N_Light240
    @Love_N_Light240 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can infps be heyoke’s too as I know I’m a heyoke. I’ve taken the test twice 2 years apart it’s change slightly but I’m still an infp-a

  • @Rarldd
    @Rarldd 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    At best time to start adopt it as a way of thinking. thank you.

    • @MindAgain
      @MindAgain 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are so welcome!

  • @Keith-tz2jy
    @Keith-tz2jy หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's harder than it sounds

  • @mikereiss4216
    @mikereiss4216 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think one of the biggest misconceptions is you have to dress different or have purple hair or something like that. I look rather normal but I still consider myself a free spirit for other reasons.

  • @squirrelsyrup1921
    @squirrelsyrup1921 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Interesting how you suggest that INFPs may find ENTP inspiring and likeable. While they are sometimes described as the "Debater", it's more that the ENTP is a chaotic lover of doing whatever is different. Just looking up fictional ENTPs you get Jack Sparrow, Jack Skellington, Willy Wonka, Iron man, and Joker himself. None of them were particularly interested in holding debate, although you can imagine any of these giving a quick speech about their philosophy before moving onto action again. The catchphrase for these types might be, "I had a crazy idea; now I'm gonna DO it."

  • @marvinbeachy1893
    @marvinbeachy1893 หลายเดือนก่อน

    They establish truth in their mind,based on feelings and emotions. They can turn treacherous and cheat and lie to no end.

  • @Dr.ChiachengSen
    @Dr.ChiachengSen หลายเดือนก่อน

    INFP 🎉 approved

  • @Kyonyx.
    @Kyonyx. หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is really helpful to many INFPs

  • @lotuseater97
    @lotuseater97 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The fact that INFP-T is rare is crazy-