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Drawback to Labels (Pt. 2)
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sorry for potato quality
A Drawback to Personality Labels
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A Drawback to Personality Labels
My (Awkward) ENFP Friendship
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#YallRLoved
3 INFJ Language Barriers
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3 INFJ Language Barriers
Why Solohouette?
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Decided to ramble to the camera today! And technically, the word should be spelled "solhouette" (to play off silhouette) but I liked "solohouette" better
Rethinking Destiny
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Rethinking Destiny
Thank you
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INXJs: Surrendering to Se
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Thanks for watching! Links: Se survey: goo.gl/forms/FDxEjvBnbc Survey results: docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1NUZ0jVbo7bwmNc7LdcXpUT8ZTiLBDigfVsCxH8MkX_g/edit#gid=1988176033 Form of the Inferior Functions www.the16types.info/vbulletin/content.php/135-MBTI-Form-of-the-Inferior-Functions Song: Oxford - You and Me
3 Reasons why INFJs love MBTI
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Finally..a new video! I appreciate your patience & support!
The Challenges of Committing to Change
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Forgive my informal intro! Lol Sources: How Hard Wired Is Human Behavior? hbr.org/1998/07/how-hardwired-is-human-behavior Tony Robbins - Raise Your Standards th-cam.com/video/hwMn-Th1GCQ/w-d-xo.html Five Steps: 1. Understand your psychology/genetic background (driven towards comfort) and assess your self-limiting beliefs 2. Single out your most limiting belief and write down 1) why you have it ...
Reacting to INTJ/INFJ stereotypes
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Stereotypes we went over: INTJ - Cold/unemotional exterior - Intelligent/objective - Arrogant about their knowledge/beliefs - "I'm just trying to help fix the problem" INFJ - Aversion to criticism/conflict - Perfectionists at heart - Warm exterior/cold interior - "I don't want to go but I should" Both: - High expectations for themselves/others - Extreme need for efficiency (not included in vide...
3 Drawbacks of having dominant Ni (Pt. 2)
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3 Drawbacks of having dominant Ni (Pt. 2)
Ni & Its role in how INFJs process information (Pt.1)
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I encourage your feedback/comments about the functions to help us all understand these ideas better. Pt. 2 will talk about some of the drawbacks of Ni, so keep an eye out for that video later in the week. I was sort of rushed at the end because people kept texting me, lol.
Judgement and its enclosing nature
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Judgement and its enclosing nature
The curse of perfectionism
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The curse of perfectionism
This too shall pass
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This too shall pass
There are two sides to every INFJ
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There are two sides to every INFJ
5 Things that suck about being an INFJ
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5 Things that suck about being an INFJ

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  • @xm15a2
    @xm15a2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    yr cute

  • @NEEMS-x5g
    @NEEMS-x5g หลายเดือนก่อน

    i think the lord save me from mbti if you look at most in the community they are only actors after money. they not contributing nothing groundbreaking and i realize my identity is in christ. its a recent aha moment for me but when i found infj from yrs ago video i realize the same thing also its dark arts even the enneagram. my intuition tells me its not all it seems and there are things not said to trap infj glad you dont follow it anymore

  • @GeertHorringa
    @GeertHorringa หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your video helps me to do something that I try to evite, normally -because of the people pleasing. It is : 'coming out' regarding my strong esoteric interests. People don't know what the hell I am talking about. I very much like your experience that the people you really feel a connection to, are the 'just you'-version of your three pictures. (But I do still very prepare for a meeting with someone who I am going to be open with regarding these interests...) ♥️👍

  • @GeertHorringa
    @GeertHorringa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have this emotionally real problem with my paranormal sensitivity. When my mother died, she was just there in my room, after the moment she died, she had come to say goodbye- I could smell her particular fysical odour and realized her motive for coming-, it's simply real to me. (And I am also aware of the systematic parapsychological research which investigates such experiences in limitless mass.) I tell it to a friend who as not INFJ and I perceive that they think: X(me) is very gifted and a very good friend, and also has this nameless other thing, his 'esotericism', which might well amount to local area of hidden madness. And it hurts.

  • @BasedGodEmperorTrump
    @BasedGodEmperorTrump 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    With Lithiums final comment about romanticizing speech, We INFJ speak in metaphors, symbols, abstract etc so to sensors we come off as being cryptic because they don't pick up on our connections relayed via speech. This attributes to us always feeling misunderstood because others don't understand us from the same perception.

  • @BasedGodEmperorTrump
    @BasedGodEmperorTrump 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perfectionism is correlated to OCD, which is a trauma response. It's an obsessive compulsion. Anxiety of what others think about us relates to our blind spot Te. Performance anxiety is correlated to inferior Se, which in that position leads to people pleasing that's also a trauma response of codependency and fight or fight fawning response. Unhealthy validation seeking is a trauma response to being a narcissistic trait defense mechanism(not implying pathology). INFJ in itself is a product of trauma. All the behavioral traits related to INFJ can all be linked to trauma. Most people are unaware of being traumatized and that they experience triggers thinking it's normal behavior.

  • @wRaYnEDrops
    @wRaYnEDrops 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To all INFJ, Be patient young Jedi, All shall be revealed to you in due Time.. 🖖😌 .. 🦄

  • @louie4939
    @louie4939 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi I'm just new to your channel.. Whatever your decisions, I believed in your intuition.. ✌️😘

  • @japanesereadingandwriting
    @japanesereadingandwriting 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Have you read Isabel Myers' book?

  • @japanesereadingandwriting
    @japanesereadingandwriting 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Categorizing people is okay, as long as it is done correctly.

  • @user-zz4km7xw6z
    @user-zz4km7xw6z 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    when you coming back

  • @noturbo
    @noturbo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i have a subaru scoop lol

  • @BasedGodEmperorTrump
    @BasedGodEmperorTrump 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Has a lot of internal struggles. - Fi Goes off on multiple tangents. - Ne Recalls multiple past experiences. - Si Watches Dr. Phil for outside influence. - Te You come off as an INFP.

  • @slick_Ric
    @slick_Ric ปีที่แล้ว

    happy you broke out of the personality theory trap! i found your videos useful years back but Jesus eventually pulled me out of that stuff, and life has been much better for me too 😊

  • @seunghyungkim7727
    @seunghyungkim7727 ปีที่แล้ว

    thats actually the case for everyone not just infjs

  • @andrewe8732
    @andrewe8732 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have all The INFJs.I was so amazed when I first discovered that I wasn't alone.Also how inteligent we all are.

  • @andrewe8732
    @andrewe8732 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm also INFJ-t love the courage of explaining NI.Very complex to explain too.Your also very cute

  • @nicolasdanek4225
    @nicolasdanek4225 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel is very good.

  • @kcartsbeat
    @kcartsbeat ปีที่แล้ว

    Please don’t ever take down your videos. I’m an INTP, And I regularly regularly return to your videos. You do such a great job and have such unique insights. I admire the hard work you’ve done with your videos. So please don’t take them down.

  • @AndreNewinski
    @AndreNewinski ปีที่แล้ว

    very profound!!

  • @Bar_Bar27
    @Bar_Bar27 ปีที่แล้ว

    you're gorgeous! and i like your shyness

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This woman needs to come back to YT. I hope she’s not getting swallowed into the corporate world.

  • @tianqiluo590
    @tianqiluo590 ปีที่แล้ว

    Even though this is an old video, I still want to say that I relate very well to what you internally going through. Wish I had replied 7 years ago. It’s not exactly about public speaking for me, but about being fitting into new groups with my second language. I like the way you shared your emotions. It feels a lot of resonance with your story. I’m very sure by now you’ve have mastered public speaking skills. For people like us (quite possibly prone to self-doubt), it’s important to know we are not what has happened. If we stay with the bad feelings long enough, we can find a new light to look at it and get better from there. Then the bad feelings are gone. it’s not always the easiest thing to do, but you are also very capable of doing ‘hard’ things.

  • @seankody4804
    @seankody4804 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pretty Kool you guys.👍 I don't know what infj or inft is, but it seems from your talks like an individual personality thing? Anyway, it was cool listening to you guys talk. And the guy is a crack up. Thanks for sharing a small part of youR lives with us. Stay safe and Kool. Au revoir mon Ami.

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The INFJ label is also a convenient and concise term to sum up our complexity. You could call it a crux for us. Those instances which cause is frustration, we can now think “that’s due to being an INFJ “. It stops us from getting so stressed due to knowledge of self and others in relation to us.

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are divinely beautiful imo

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    INFJ are masters of mind and heart.

  • @germanandresdussan4670
    @germanandresdussan4670 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i didn't know about the information of INFJ is really educational

  • @apoorvsom9120
    @apoorvsom9120 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I will actually build such a map for my cognitive functions again. I forgot where my previous map is XD (weak Si)

  • @apoorvsom9120
    @apoorvsom9120 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    INTJ here! Ahah, I use the same diagrams to understand everything around me. I approve the approach. :)

  • @sift396
    @sift396 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    wow lol I'm INFJ guy but my love language definitely IS touch ngl

  • @AndreNewinski
    @AndreNewinski 2 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @AndreNewinski
    @AndreNewinski 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    whats your name Solohouette?

  • @zenmama365
    @zenmama365 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m an INFJ and I get it.

  • @swancoven759
    @swancoven759 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    crushing on this person...

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Downsides of Ni Dom - poor on details, hard to concentrate, easily bored, being misunderstood, not understanding self, laziness, tunnel thinking (missing alternatives obvious to others).

  • @Coneman3
    @Coneman3 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    U r beautiful. Please come back and out of the corporate route.

  • @martisearmstrong462
    @martisearmstrong462 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm SOOO curious as to the type of work that you do that you're so good at... I'm struggling to find out something in the business world that I would feel in my zone in doing like you seem to be.... If you read this, please share ..

  • @atomicwilderbeast1
    @atomicwilderbeast1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brilliant, thank you😃👍

  • @GB_i25
    @GB_i25 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    you’re so beautiful

  • @marcelinogalicia7612
    @marcelinogalicia7612 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    At different intervals, remember a person or persons to form an opinion on what may happen in the future for the INFJ . reminds me of a supercomputer Quantum mechanic. this computer can run many scenarios, and come up with the best answer. this sounds somewhat alike.

  • @ezj8262
    @ezj8262 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not uncommon for me to hear about INFJ (extroverted feeling) getting in the way of us trying to express our thoughts, views, and opinions. I also noticed that assertiveness is something I have a real issue with, especially as a T (turbulent) INFJ (as the label goes). I do believe that my lack of ability to be assertive in a healthy way, has to do with me being raised in a household where I had a violent and wrathful dad. I had to contain myself as much as possible, and I just didn't have that freedom of expression. Meanwhile, my dad was fully free to express himself. I brought this issue with me all throughout my school years. Sometimes I would even have panic attacks, because I didn't want to be called on, or give a speech. In my later college years, the panic attacks went away, and I could speak more, but I find myself to be somewhat bitter against people with a domineering nature. Though I firmly believe that I have the right to express myself, I do not believe that I have the right to be domineering. Also, when people demand that I do things their way, and I do not think that their way is the best way, or even a good way, I will stand my grand perhaps too strongly. Most of my younger life, I was passive, allowed myself to be a doormat, and didn't allow my voice to be heard, and catered to everyone else - so now I have shifted too much. I'm having trouble finding that happy medium, that balance.

    • @evbemma33
      @evbemma33 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My narcististic mother was full free to express her anger, criticism, black and white opinions. Maybe thats why im a perfectionist people pleaser and im scared of anger and conflict.

  • @doughalversen7913
    @doughalversen7913 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ya told this know lol

  • @TobyMFu
    @TobyMFu 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your guys parings are nice, great!

  • @AndreNewinski
    @AndreNewinski 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    great insights Sarah :)

  • @Rinsuki
    @Rinsuki 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol. I've since left my work place but the ENFP that I met there wouldn't stop hugging me. She's like you're leaving so I'm definitely gonna hug the crap out of you. It was very awkward and people thought we were a couple. I'm like no she is just touchy feely.

  • @Shermanys926
    @Shermanys926 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can you believe INFJ found a baby which is INTJ and that INFJ can take the lead to talk but also a dark side struggle at some point 😵👻 INTJ are too slow for me as an INFJ I will probably get back my depression state. Are there INFJ that thinks the same 🖐🏻?and because most of the videos I watch are INFJ and INTJ. The ones that dares to do things and then push the INTJ to go first

  • @bigd7355
    @bigd7355 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The tragedy of Admiral Holdo is that she sacrificed herself when she was the only one in the galaxy worth sacrificing for. I hope you don't make the same mistake. I'm sorry if I had anything to do with your "success." INFJs forever!

  • @gballmaier
    @gballmaier 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Here's how the world works. U meet 300 people. 100 will be threatened by you. 100 will initially accept u. Out of those 100, 50 will eventually walk away. With the final 100 its a toss up, but, 50 of the remaining people will actually think you are just an amazing solid wise living person. The other 50 will try to use u. So why bother with any of it. JUST BE THE GIFT TO THE WORLD THAT U OBVIOUSLY ARE.

  • @gballmaier
    @gballmaier 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Told you your life would get better. You are not a label you are an incredible creation of God.