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  • On this episode of Shady, we explore the rise of cosmetic procedures posted on social media and meet the women who undergo them to achieve the perfect selfie. For many young women, the path from using photo editing apps to getting lip filler injections is quick - but who is really profiting from this phenomenon? Press play on this week's episode of Shady to see which doctors are legitimate!
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  • @refinery29
    @refinery29  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1460

    What other aspects of the beauty world would you like to see explored on Shady? Comment below!

    • @Bina-sm4xq
      @Bina-sm4xq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      hair removal​

    • @strawberriec
      @strawberriec 6 ปีที่แล้ว +140

      Diet pills/product

    • @isitamoguel
      @isitamoguel 6 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Diet pills, that Kim k lollipops she promoted, etc

    • @AS-tx3fi
      @AS-tx3fi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      Body hair

    • @margaridasilva3119
      @margaridasilva3119 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Hi, i loved this video. I think it would be interesting to reflect about *teeth whitening* . Thank you

  • @Doodlebopjunior
    @Doodlebopjunior 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14313

    "she spends many hours a day looking at herself" girl you need a therapist not lip injections

    • @MaritheCreator2001
      @MaritheCreator2001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +134

      Tea

    • @turtlepetal
      @turtlepetal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +629

      "like many young women" lol. I don't even spend hours looking at myself in the mirror or taking selfies.

    • @stmualimah89
      @stmualimah89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +271

      @@turtlepetal sometimes I forget to look in the mirror all day because I'm super lazy at doing make up or just to check up on my face. I always think that my face is still look the same as the day before so why bother checking it again? 😁

    • @mimmikibilly
      @mimmikibilly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +162

      I mean, I like looking at myself in the mirror if I feel like it. but out of confidence or to try and accept the flaws my body inevitably comes with, just like every other body. and unless I am trying on clothes, it usually lasts a few minutes at best.

    • @CP-ll6qg
      @CP-ll6qg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      It seems like she kind of knows that but can't stop herself.

  • @kristin9573
    @kristin9573 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10082

    Be yourself, because everyone else is starting to look the same

    • @humansrtrash324
      @humansrtrash324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Istg

    • @user-qx1om2wj1h
      @user-qx1om2wj1h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      Kardashians, Kardashians everywhere (/ 'o ')/ ( ' ').

    • @bennybelly
      @bennybelly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      exactly

    • @pangkoulee7648
      @pangkoulee7648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      For real. I saw someone with very different looking makeup on, and I was in awe because it wasn't like the usual makeup I was seeing. She was beautiful.

    • @sunebites
      @sunebites 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      THIIIIISSSS

  • @zaprude
    @zaprude 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4672

    I wish people would spend more time on enlarging their character and moral instead of their lips.

    • @invosahh
      @invosahh 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      hahahaha good one! wait, you were purposely trying to sound like a self righteous prick right?

    • @TranceGurl20
      @TranceGurl20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Not everybody has self awareness.....

    • @tams7411
      @tams7411 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Bahahaha, this is painfully true.

    • @kirin1230
      @kirin1230 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Agreed.

    • @learnenglishwithshruti
      @learnenglishwithshruti 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Someone had to say that

  • @reagan3846
    @reagan3846 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5839

    Looolll I mostly use Instagram for memes and hyping up my friends

    • @yeeboii8261
      @yeeboii8261 5 ปีที่แล้ว +174

      and cute animals posts xD

    • @walwal6449
      @walwal6449 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      I use it to follow my favourite bands and other people to check what they're up to or any updates lol
      Also, to post my drawings when I feel like it

    • @sakshivinchurkar2881
      @sakshivinchurkar2881 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@yeeboii8261 same here

    • @juratory8876
      @juratory8876 5 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      I use mine for cosplay, social issues, and dank memes.

    • @ayyedallas3521
      @ayyedallas3521 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Shiina Omfg exactly

  • @mohdshow
    @mohdshow 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17363

    “In a society that profits on your self doubt, loving yourself is an act of rebellion”

  • @imsotox
    @imsotox 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6140

    “My boyfriend says I’m obsessed”
    >.> girl you are obsessed you’re literally talking while looking at your phone and not even looking where you’re going..

    • @user-gx8fw8qr6d
      @user-gx8fw8qr6d 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      She needs to listen to her boyfriend he’s right she is obsessed!!

    • @sophii7906
      @sophii7906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      She bout to get hit by a car and won't know why

    • @foodfood6745
      @foodfood6745 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      and she doesn't even have 1k followers? like how much interaction can there even be with such a low number? that's so weird.

    • @roseywinter
      @roseywinter 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      And she's doing all this for only 841 followers? Definitely obsessed/addicted.

    • @dollym1lk980
      @dollym1lk980 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sim Mckenzie your profile picture is amazing 😂

  • @mezmerized4lifejay654
    @mezmerized4lifejay654 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1710

    No amount of surgery will fix that feeling Inside 💯

    • @prabhsodhi5402
      @prabhsodhi5402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      It's the soul that needs the surgery

    • @kekepalmer3904
      @kekepalmer3904 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Preach honey

    • @prabhsodhi5402
      @prabhsodhi5402 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Jamar Grant wish there was a surgery to fix brain

    • @sahars9427
      @sahars9427 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it does

    • @hannahhi5707
      @hannahhi5707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Periodt

  • @bittercaramel7652
    @bittercaramel7652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1782

    I gave up Instagram and Facebook, keep TH-cam and Pinterest.

    • @berenices0103
      @berenices0103 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Sameeee

    • @tasniatabassumorni1973
      @tasniatabassumorni1973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

      I hate instagram!!

    • @wallflower1435
      @wallflower1435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Congrats. Im on my way

    • @blessyjanesanchez7942
      @blessyjanesanchez7942 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

      Same . I gave up on instagram and twitter . There are so many toxic beauty standards there and gives us pressure to look like THE TREND . But facebook ? Ive reducing my use of it because it makes me communicate with my friends :)

    • @fas-8487
      @fas-8487 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Get reddit

  • @hazelmaeve597
    @hazelmaeve597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3662

    "I didn't edit this photo... Other than smoothing my face on face tune." Uhh, that counts as editing, princess.

    • @MissHannah2036
      @MissHannah2036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +130

      yeah the poor girl is delusional ;)

    • @lilyo5248
      @lilyo5248 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      no it doesn't

    • @theteaishotandserved2279
      @theteaishotandserved2279 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      she meant photoshop as to alter her jawline, eyes, cheekbones etc

    • @TeylaDex
      @TeylaDex 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@theteaishotandserved2279 but that's not what she said

    • @vampyre1849
      @vampyre1849 5 ปีที่แล้ว +85

      @@lilyo5248 it does count as editing, an unedited photo would be completely untouched

  • @NameePark
    @NameePark 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6991

    Ok but does anyone else hate needles ? This video was so interesting but so painful to watch 😭

    • @saraalaa8683
      @saraalaa8683 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      OMFG NAMIIII ILYSM

    • @user-ee5om8wy7u
      @user-ee5om8wy7u 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      These people don't hate needles - they hate their own natural face.

    • @mochiebear2882
      @mochiebear2882 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      NamiiCho ILYSM

    • @yami8165
      @yami8165 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      IT WAS SO PAINFUL OML I CRINGED SO HARD

    • @blissclair9743
      @blissclair9743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I kept covering the screen!

  • @Honorableflickflack
    @Honorableflickflack 5 ปีที่แล้ว +616

    I don't think I have ever even spent 5 minutes thinking of my lips

    • @brittanymyers7552
      @brittanymyers7552 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Me either people are crazy lol

    • @aiko9393
      @aiko9393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I thought about my lip color for 10 minutes maybe, on my wedding day 🤣🤣

    • @nishitaiyengar
      @nishitaiyengar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      The only time I thought about my lips were when they were bleeding after I accidentally bit down while eating. Smh.

    • @aiko9393
      @aiko9393 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@nishitaiyengar ouch.

    • @criesinpoor1725
      @criesinpoor1725 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I spent a handful amount of time in the past to think about my lips because it was always been chapped

  • @pixeleighted3062
    @pixeleighted3062 4 ปีที่แล้ว +972

    they really did that blonde so dirtyy, none of her clips made her look like anything more than self obsessed

    • @jihue
      @jihue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      frrr😳

    • @YourMajesty143
      @YourMajesty143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      She did that all by herself. She's clearly obsessed. No other way to frame her than to display exactly how she is.

    • @lidiapietrusza5014
      @lidiapietrusza5014 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@YourMajesty143 if you truly saw past appearance you’d know that all that is is appearance. She appears a certain way in this video but it’s only a slice of her. And there are complicated reasons why people feel this terrible way. It’s all complicated and simplifying someone down to what they say in a video is just ridiculous

    • @cassandrasteingo5941
      @cassandrasteingo5941 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂.. facts

    • @idalarsen2540
      @idalarsen2540 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@lidiapietrusza5014 Get over yourself. She portrayed herself the way she did, it's not like they edited her words or anything. She did it to herself. She agreed to show herself to the world like that. As an example of an insecure Instagram-girl.

  • @HoneyDubey23
    @HoneyDubey23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2592

    Take the phone away from her. She needs an intervention 🤔

    • @xnovax4189
      @xnovax4189 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sadly, that is true. ;-;

    • @sophii7906
      @sophii7906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      When I thought about it, especially in children, when you take someone's phone away, they become crazy. Not gonna lie.

    • @bianccaraines7412
      @bianccaraines7412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      she needs braces not lip fillers if she does insist on getting some work done

    • @fim1968
      @fim1968 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What a gret idea! Take her phone away. It's like seeing an alcoholic and saying take their drink away. How come nobody thought of that?

    • @krystalsmith3057
      @krystalsmith3057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Nope she needs invisalign. The lips are not the problem.

  • @persianprincessxo1539
    @persianprincessxo1539 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1749

    I love that Dr.Patel says that fillers are becoming so common, like making a hair appointment. It’s so relevant and refreshing that a doctor acknowledges this.

    • @Pomagranite167
      @Pomagranite167 5 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      @@sierracasady2234 literally exactly what the doctor said in the damn video, smart ass.

    • @tvloover80
      @tvloover80 5 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      @@sierracasady2234 - Dr. Patel did say that. She mentioned that she was concerned that people were treating like that (no big deal/everyday thing)

    • @BarbaraMerryGeng
      @BarbaraMerryGeng 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s ok, let it go ..

  • @jht3fougifh393
    @jht3fougifh393 5 ปีที่แล้ว +669

    "This is just me. I didn't, like, edit this photo..."
    Followed immediately by admitting she used face tune.
    Serious time, guys?
    _People are becoming absolutely delusional._

    • @fuzzy2413
      @fuzzy2413 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Right?! That girl needs some help lol

    • @subblonde3101
      @subblonde3101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      shes just desperately trying to convince herself that thats what she looks like in person haha.

    • @XxXxlicaxXxX
      @XxXxlicaxXxX 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      if that were the case she wouldnt have said "i wish i looked like this in real life" lol

  • @T-Laydie
    @T-Laydie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +698

    Look how stunningly beautiful the reporter is, and looks so natural and not like an Instagram clone. 🙄

    • @venus_envy
      @venus_envy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She looks like a Dutch Masters painting subject, maybe.

    • @kimliptraumatizedbycocomon2314
      @kimliptraumatizedbycocomon2314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Right? She's gorgeous! And so are you 😊

    • @4Majce7
      @4Majce7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Sadia Afrin Both she and Dr Patelle 😍

  • @farheenrehmatpure700
    @farheenrehmatpure700 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5052

    Let's take a moment to appreciate the hosts natural lips

    • @sophii7906
      @sophii7906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +196

      SHE'S SO BEAUTIFUL!!!!

    • @farheenrehmatpure700
      @farheenrehmatpure700 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@sophii7906 yupppp😄

    • @lauraliekay9431
      @lauraliekay9431 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

      Yassss. Honestly, small lips are cute and makes you look like a doll. That’s why it’s sad everyone hates them now

    • @JayJay-ue3xy
      @JayJay-ue3xy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Heated Heat you're blind af

    • @blackswanvante
      @blackswanvante 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Heated Heat nah they look like a papercut but sausage lips are worse

  • @1letlovein
    @1letlovein 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1793

    I came to realize that being confident in your own skin makes you definitely more attractive. No matter the looks, if you’re happy with yourself you truly glow differently.

    • @Usagi.moon.power.
      @Usagi.moon.power. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Don very true! If you love yourself in your own skin that's all that matters ❤

    • @1letlovein
      @1letlovein 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lipstickngore ❤️

    • @kmp8985
      @kmp8985 6 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Agreed! I grew up with the normal beauty pressures at a young age, but thank God social media didn't exist at the time. I feel bad for these young girls nowadays. I make it my mission to speak to my younger sister about these kind of things and not let her fall victim to all the scam..

    • @SongofBeauty
      @SongofBeauty 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true!!!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      +don We agree!! :)

  • @jessliliana5232
    @jessliliana5232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +520

    She said BLINDNESS is a risk! I had no idea, no thanks, i like my vision 👄

    • @BiBi-mc9dj
      @BiBi-mc9dj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah, if you inject it on your forehead

    • @shhhentient
      @shhhentient 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@BiBi-mc9dj not true. Other high risk areas are the nasal bridge and nasolabial folds due to major vessels that also feed the eyes.

    • @dazaihavemahbabies5013
      @dazaihavemahbabies5013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@BiBi-mc9dj i prefer staying 👁-👁 than ⚫️👄⚫️

  • @blairariavanderkamp3405
    @blairariavanderkamp3405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +496

    Doctors don't have to be board certified or finish their residency?!!??? That's extremely horrifying!!

    • @laurenneema
      @laurenneema 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      its very uncommon like he said, he couldn't find a residency to pursue his dreams.

    • @majestic6303
      @majestic6303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Even a nurse can do the procedure. You don’t need a doctor.

    • @blairariavanderkamp3405
      @blairariavanderkamp3405 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@majestic6303 Yes!!! That's even more horrifying!!

    • @TheDaneyeledee
      @TheDaneyeledee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Blair Aria Van der Kamp ... why is that horrifying? Most nurses perform routine procedures all the time...not doctors. Go to any regular hospital, the floor is usually run by RNs. Greys Anatomy is a lie...doctors don’t tend to be very present.

    • @danan9061
      @danan9061 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@blairariavanderkamp3405 not horrifying. Its an injection.

  • @lottajohn503
    @lottajohn503 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1980

    Do people actually spend that amount of time on their OWN instagram? Or am I the weird stalker for looking at other peoples accounts lol

    • @HERSHISKISS
      @HERSHISKISS 6 ปีที่แล้ว +185

      Lotta John That's what I'm saying. After I post a picture I don't even care anymore.

    • @dat1ndnguy
      @dat1ndnguy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      I stare at myself on my phone at *LEAST* 22 hours a day!
      😂😂 Jk that's just insanity.

    • @Usagi.moon.power.
      @Usagi.moon.power. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Lotta John girl same! I barely go on it now and will post only if I feel like it lol this isnt real life and its so sad most people dont realize it :(

    • @elenakk9125
      @elenakk9125 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Lotta John sometimes i look through my own ig but thats more like once a week or once per two weeks lol

    • @helloworld7818
      @helloworld7818 6 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Lotta John Instagram is the best way to compare yourself to everyone else who is dedicated to beauty industry and then feel like shit because you are not that way. Or compare yourself to your friends because they have more followers and you don't. It is pretty sick.

  • @malicahamilton
    @malicahamilton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2252

    I don’t understand why everyone wants lip injections their lips always look oddly swollen and don’t even look nice 🙁 And that girl with 800 followers is she okay ?

    • @blaq_betty
      @blaq_betty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same thing i thought

    • @WhatTheHellRachelle
      @WhatTheHellRachelle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      ANNIHILATOR I don’t think it’s that people have forgotten how to cope with insecurities, i would say they never learned how in the first place. There’s now 2 generations that have become accustomed to instant gratification. I’m a bit older, and to be honest, the expectation to look perfect is even beginning to affect me as I begin to see early signs of aging. I’m in my 40’s but have good genetics as well as a history of taking really good care of my skin. I have also spent the last 10+ years of my life battling chronic illnesses and feel that I lost a huge portion of my youth, which creates added pressure to look even better and younger. I challenged myself yesterday morning by sending a selfie right after I had just woken up (no makeup or filters) to my long distance soulmate whom I’ve known for 22 years but haven’t seen in person for a really long time (its really complicated). However, I’m not sure I could have mustered up the courage if it were anyone else.

    • @malicahamilton
      @malicahamilton 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      ANNIHILATOR That's a point! Its so sad because fixing one problem will then result in another problem and it will go on and on until you actually just stop and tell yourself its alright to look how i look and accept it. Instagram is addicting but we must always remember it's not real life people only show what they want you to see which is the best side of them ☺️

    • @lucia-di-lammermoor
      @lucia-di-lammermoor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      tbh it just looks swollen on 90% non black girls

    • @cheshireix9631
      @cheshireix9631 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Becuz some people like thicker lips.
      Like how some people like tiny lips.

  • @gemmarium4337
    @gemmarium4337 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    People who are obsessed with themselves never developed any talents or skills and therefore fall back onto cheap and empty entertainment. Like social media and vanity.

    • @majestic6303
      @majestic6303 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And where do these lady get the money

    • @lisaeischens2352
      @lisaeischens2352 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      If they spent a fraction of that time learning how to play an instrument or painting or gardening or...these fake people have got to be the most boring people to talk to. I’d rather be old and wrinkly with some personality rather than someone who just wants to have pictures taken of themselves. Sad world.

    • @bonfire5794
      @bonfire5794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      If someone wants to look good they should EAT and EXERCISE. That’s the natural way to do it, by eating food that is good for you and eating enough calories, and by doing moderate exercise you can be healthy. You don’t need fancy procedures or luxury products to be healthy

    • @icedcat4021
      @icedcat4021 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Those people are usually very insecure. Listen to the blonde woman (not the reporter, the other one) in the video, especially at the end. She’s clearly not happy.

    • @jajo2471
      @jajo2471 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This generation and the upcoming ones are and will be pathetic. Wish people uninstalled Instagram, and found true meaning in developing their talents.

  • @sarafernengle3676
    @sarafernengle3676 4 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    It makes me so sad that women and girls are consistently being told that their natural beauty isn’t good enough😢

  • @niab.3600
    @niab.3600 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5733

    The downside to social media! Social media dysmorphia & addiction.

    • @starcherry6814
      @starcherry6814 6 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Is it really that different from when people would cover their faces on lead makeup?

    • @laurenbennett7674
      @laurenbennett7674 6 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      Star Cherry The core insecurity hasn’t changed but I think social media and a general rise in living conditions (more free time/disposable income) have really worsened the problem.

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      +niab. Very true!

    • @JenLovesBenz
      @JenLovesBenz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      This is why I don't have social media

    • @missrobinhoodie
      @missrobinhoodie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Jenny Babe TH-cam is social media too...

  • @ashleyj3202
    @ashleyj3202 6 ปีที่แล้ว +723

    Sis did the most for 800 followers

    • @cindyga50
      @cindyga50 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Alrightashley right Lmaoo

  • @7pupu133
    @7pupu133 4 ปีที่แล้ว +262

    Kylie Jenner: I hvnt done any injections for my thick lips. It's all about makeup.
    *The surgeon shows up*

    • @toi4154
      @toi4154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did she say that?

    • @dimunyu6809
      @dimunyu6809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@toi4154 yep, she used to deny it lol

  • @LauraCuba
    @LauraCuba 4 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Never understood how can anybody see Kyle's fillers as beautiful and become a trend...

    • @fluffymochi328
      @fluffymochi328 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      They look nice but definitely very unnatural

    • @Uchiha.Itachii
      @Uchiha.Itachii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      kylies lips never looked nice tho but some peoples lips are nice after restylane etc

    • @bissacool2789
      @bissacool2789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same the look fake and ygly

    • @anniem251
      @anniem251 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They make her face look compressed you’re right they’re not pretty at all

    • @noname-zz1nr
      @noname-zz1nr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Not a fan of her but don't call anyone ugly

  • @eurekamreum5458
    @eurekamreum5458 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1607

    Ok, Dr. Anita Patel is gorgeous.

    • @dokidoki6927
      @dokidoki6927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Eureka Mreum- Yesssssss

    • @sophii7906
      @sophii7906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I thought the same thing!! And the main girl who was doing the whole video

    • @prabhsodhi5402
      @prabhsodhi5402 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yasssss

    • @vanna3970
      @vanna3970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      and smart too :)

  • @MrVinceMunro
    @MrVinceMunro 6 ปีที่แล้ว +536

    "There can be things like blindness" Ok bye, I'll stay ugly thank you

    • @ughara8630
      @ughara8630 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Ryan White
      You're not ugly.

    • @newworldlord643
      @newworldlord643 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly..I feel you!!!!

    • @thatonedog819
      @thatonedog819 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm already mostly blind, but I hate needles soo

    • @thatonedog819
      @thatonedog819 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lalayastill610 needles don't really hurt... That's not the problem. I have an irrational phobia of them

    • @hanahmohmed1705
      @hanahmohmed1705 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thatonedog819 me too

  • @anastasiabeaverhausen5319
    @anastasiabeaverhausen5319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    After watching this video, I’m now super worried about a stranger. Ashley, you ok girl?

  • @Hannah-nc7cb
    @Hannah-nc7cb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +625

    People: I don’t want toxic chemicals or eat toxic foods in my body
    Also people: gets cosmetic injections with toxic fillers

    • @jemmaj2919
      @jemmaj2919 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Fillers r not toxic, botox is and botox isnt a filler

    • @estherreis6631
      @estherreis6631 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Fillers are mostly made of hyaluronic acid, which is an acid that we already have in our body and with time our body absorbs it naturally

    • @DAMxVENN
      @DAMxVENN 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@estherreis6631 google told you that huh 😂 ask yourself "if its ALREADY in our body where did they get it ? better yet how do they MAKE IT "

    • @meganyoung2029
      @meganyoung2029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@DAMxVENN 😂🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼

  • @misswilde3054
    @misswilde3054 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7718

    This video was so sad but eye-opening

    • @annaoop2484
      @annaoop2484 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lauren Wilde sad?

    • @misswilde3054
      @misswilde3054 6 ปีที่แล้ว +150

      Pigmented Hoe yeah social media is promoting an ideal of perfection that literally no one has, not even the person who appears in the photos. It's creating insecurities in young women who don't fully accept themselves and selling the idea that lip injections or Botox are going to solve their problems, but spoiler alert, they won't

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      +laurenwilde Thanks for checking it out!!

    • @lynkent677
      @lynkent677 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Lauren..yep....lets throw out our TV...Stop buying magazines and fuck off social media....before our kids/grandchildren become victims of Greed and Vanity....x

    • @ely7431
      @ely7431 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Lauren Wilde Black girls, do mostly have natural plump lips tho lmfao

  • @callmekat1838
    @callmekat1838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3170

    You should do a video on plastic surgery in Korea. It’s on a whole different level in Korea

    • @queenb7209
      @queenb7209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      YES!

    • @RobloxGymnastics
      @RobloxGymnastics 5 ปีที่แล้ว +159

      Yup! shaving the jaw bone and such

    • @rmarr1163
      @rmarr1163 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@RobloxGymnastics i thought they already did... oops, i've been watching a lot i guess. there are other good videos on the topic though.

    • @Dee8Bee
      @Dee8Bee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +136

      South Korea has totally perfected it. When I see those patients, I’m in shock. Especially the ones on the makeover shows.

    • @sunebites
      @sunebites 5 ปีที่แล้ว +205

      @카르멘Carmen girl... I must tell you this
      Please DO NOT do more plastic surgery. It can be very dangerous and korea's beauty standards are way too high... And only values one kind of beauty.
      Everyone can be beautiful if they take good care of themselves... You don't need to change your face to be truly beautiful.
      The "beautiful" korean and western societies have created is around money making. They create your insecurities to then profit out of them... Think of it this way: When did you start disliking your facial features? Probably when someone told you they were ugly... It's all in the society. Not only monetarily but also in terms of power. Companies like that put their customers down if they don't get plastic surgery like "you need a nosejob to be pretty!" is what the ads tell us indirectly for example.
      Let's all try to achieve natural, true beauty :) don't let your unique features and health be lost. Love ya

  • @commentscrusader3842
    @commentscrusader3842 4 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    Anita Patel is stunning and natural. How do her patients not see she doesn't have any procedure with her lips

  • @billpiranha7860
    @billpiranha7860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    the girl at the end who said 'I didn't edit my photo.. just did some facetune... like that IS editing your photo!!! Do people not see that as editing??

  • @zoesinovich6191
    @zoesinovich6191 5 ปีที่แล้ว +809

    Our generation is growing and glorifying a surplus of insecure women

    • @AlexaMonroe-fk6yc
      @AlexaMonroe-fk6yc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      There is nothing wrong in being a better version of yourself by applying lip fillers, for me it makes me feel better not because social media “made me do it”, I wanted to be better for me not for everyone

    • @honeyclove
      @honeyclove 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AlexaMonroe-fk6yc Yh that’s true it’s your body your choice and if thats what you want go for it! If I may ask, why do you think getting lip fillers would help you be a better version of yourself? Just curious

    • @AlexaMonroe-fk6yc
      @AlexaMonroe-fk6yc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@honeyclove i wanted lip fillers not because social media but, I didn’t like my lips and I wanted to feel confident. I will tell you a personal experience, since 6th grade I was bullied and when I was insecure I hide my lips because my bullies always made me insecure of my lips, giving me horrible nicknames. My lips were shrinking (due to anorexia).Time passed, I grew up and took therapy I became confident, my lips stayed small, I wanted to feel better with my fuller lips. Some people might say that I should have just accept myself and live with how my lips were, but self love is something difficult to achieve, and I feel confident with my lips 👄😁

    • @hashbites
      @hashbites 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      “YOURE INSECURE
      YOURE INSECURE”

    • @AlexaMonroe-fk6yc
      @AlexaMonroe-fk6yc 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hashbites If you want to look good for yourself, its okay. But, if you want to change just to fit in the social media standards, then that person needs to go to psychologist.

  • @plant1224
    @plant1224 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1010

    She needs to get off the internet for a few days or at least hrs other than sleep

    • @Usagi.moon.power.
      @Usagi.moon.power. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Plant I think it will do her some good. She needs a break

    • @supahstar857
      @supahstar857 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Then**

  • @parisz
    @parisz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +188

    I’m so glad I never created an IG account in the first place

    • @venus_envy
      @venus_envy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I almost did the other day just to see more content from a local artist but for some reason it wouldn't let so I gave up and now that I've seen this and I remember who owns insta (facebook), I'm really glad! ( ˘ ³˘)♡ phew dodged a bullet.

    • @Amelia-vo5le
      @Amelia-vo5le 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      my friends pushed me to get it. Now I’m addicted. :h

    • @nganly9305
      @nganly9305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I deleted my account when I have an indication of addicting to instagram

    • @vavacadoz
      @vavacadoz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You don’t have to follow anything beauty related lol. There are many things on there to suit whatever interests you have

    • @jajo2471
      @jajo2471 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG SAME.

  • @lordgremlin580
    @lordgremlin580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    It was a win for Jenner who made an empire with a trait she never had in the first place

    • @khyati7733
      @khyati7733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is so true

  • @moniquew3603
    @moniquew3603 6 ปีที่แล้ว +743

    This is why I'm off social media. It's addictive, and people behave very strange. The way the girl was talking at the end just creeped me out.🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @julial3758
      @julial3758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      LOL me too :) *High FIVe*

    • @AC-iw5mv
      @AC-iw5mv 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Same!!!

    • @MooBerry2009
      @MooBerry2009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Ok instagram been gone for 3 years now i never check fb because idk my password, tf is a snapchat lol

    • @etamlous
      @etamlous 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I think she talked creepy because it's a West Coast thing whee they all sound high and airheaded, like omg, like so koool

    • @svendmathiassen5666
      @svendmathiassen5666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Uhm TH-cam was is a social media sis

  • @kylerkristo
    @kylerkristo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3403

    They should do a segment on men and plastic surgery because it’s not being talked about but it’s been increasing so much in recent years

    • @cowinafield6282
      @cowinafield6282 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      A Williams I think that there have also been procedures where men go to get surgery done on their pectorals to make them look larger/buffer, and end up with a botched surgery where unnaturally large breast implants have been used. I remember their was an actor that went through this and the doctor (who actually had lost his license) ended up going to jail. Also VenusAngelic, a culture TH-camr, had a gastric bypass to alter her physique in which was also botched. Although it’s not plastic surgery I thinks it important to mention since the black market surgeon actually stole two of her organs.

    • @CADsAnonymous
      @CADsAnonymous 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yes I’m v curious! This guy I went to high school with started getting lip injections and it’s like he doesn’t know how to stop now, his lips are about to reach outer space 👽

    • @NoName-1239
      @NoName-1239 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      females are more insecure than men

    • @brookeharrison908
      @brookeharrison908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      i agree i feel like the men who do get it done have really good doctors

    • @brookeharrison908
      @brookeharrison908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      A Williams i saw that dr phil warmed him and he didn't listen so guess who came back to dr phil crying

  • @sweetlikechocolate437
    @sweetlikechocolate437 4 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    8:53 "they're nice and firm" says Simon Ourian. Me: "FIRM...they're not supposed to BE FIRM...lips are supposed to be soft and be able to move, not concrete firm!".

    • @guillaumem9953
      @guillaumem9953 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Seems like she can’t even smile...

  • @paupau4633
    @paupau4633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    And this is why I deleted all my social media accounts ... and never looked back! TBH it feels AMAZING not having any social media 😍

    • @alezandradavila2581
      @alezandradavila2581 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yea there tactics don’t work on me tho I’m an esthetician we see thru it all and Simon ourian he’s not board certified he’s a general practitioner no board certification so please go do ur research

  • @milkshakes1
    @milkshakes1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2283

    Dear god I can’t stand all the needles and I don’t even have that big of a fear of them, i just feel so uncomfortable seeing them go into skin....

    • @ngndnd
      @ngndnd 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      Jordan Ugo same i thought they would cut those parts out but they didnt

    • @kiaraisherebish9446
      @kiaraisherebish9446 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same!!!

    • @coolsnake224
      @coolsnake224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same and im a diabetic

    • @alexplaka2
      @alexplaka2 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Then simply just don’t watch this vid? Wtfffff

    • @um_from_umbridge7285
      @um_from_umbridge7285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      right I literally can't look at the screen full on when they show it

  • @g.aloysie8439
    @g.aloysie8439 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2482

    Small lips, big lips they are all pretty, it would be bad if we all had the same lips, what if the whole world had big lips?, we should learn to love ourselves instead, love every part of your body the way it is, that part makes you unique. This is really sad, because even if you get injections you'll never be fully satisfied with your looks,

    • @daniwilliams4365
      @daniwilliams4365 6 ปีที่แล้ว +88

      G. Aloysie true, I’ve seen that in social media that people with big lips get a lot more attention and are called beautiful even if the lips are fake or not, it makes people who are viewing those things think that they must look like that to be beautiful but it’s not true

    • @helephant472
      @helephant472 6 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      That’s why I promised myself that I would never get Botox or injections

    • @claraabreu7178
      @claraabreu7178 6 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Hello It's Jello that's how I feel :) I have very small lips and though I don't like them something in me makes me think they're pretty

    • @asdfghjkl-oo7lv
      @asdfghjkl-oo7lv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hellomynameisclara dont worry!

    • @lelleakaj1616
      @lelleakaj1616 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Like the documentary lady’s lips is so beautiful but not in the mainstream way. I do agree, we are individuals and that is so interesting and beautiful!

  • @muz755
    @muz755 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    That blonde girl at the end with the “or can I?” creeped me tf out

  • @emmacarmichael2403
    @emmacarmichael2403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    “What a rebellious act it is to love yourself naturally in a world of fake appearances.”

  • @ByDaniSimone
    @ByDaniSimone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2368

    Kylie has made herself look like a Latina or mixed black and white or black and Latina girl. Just my opinion.

    • @naomibowman4090
      @naomibowman4090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +168

      I totally agree my friend who didn’t know who she was though she was Latina.😬

    • @victorialynn2652
      @victorialynn2652 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I mean she's italian

    • @Lilohilo97
      @Lilohilo97 5 ปีที่แล้ว +269

      @@victorialynn2652 that's Ariana not Kylie

    • @llamaliammm
      @llamaliammm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Ikr i cant tell u my mindblown when i learnt she wasnt at least half black

    • @sayJessg
      @sayJessg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Victoria Lynn no she’s not

  • @athenapoe3377
    @athenapoe3377 5 ปีที่แล้ว +425

    Side effect...possible blindness?!!!!! I would never take that kind of risk. Also, I don't understand why this isn't regulated or how someone can practice this without finishing his residency; I would never trust that person.

    • @venus_envy
      @venus_envy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same, that doctor scares me, and I wonder why would someone with tonnes of money not go to someone better, anyway? Also I get skeeved-out watching the needles go in the lips. >.

    • @subblonde3101
      @subblonde3101 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      do you know what a residency is? He finished school....but you have to spend time working at a hospital under other doctors supervision....basically just practicing what you learned. Its not like hes performing major surgeries, hes doing injectables for pete sakes....and hes had a ton of practice.....hes a pro.

    • @nanaa428
      @nanaa428 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Athena Poe to be fair, possible blindness is super super super super rare

  • @liyaaa4879
    @liyaaa4879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    I can easily go without social media/my phone and have idk how & why people my age are so obsessed with Instagram it gets boring after awhile. I'm 16 btw.

  • @tanyagoel7141
    @tanyagoel7141 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Repeat this everyday to yourself:
    Love myself
    Love yourself

  • @sillypoop
    @sillypoop 6 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    this is one of the MANY reasons why i deleted instagram. i wasted so many hours comparing my life to others. even though what people share on instagram isn’t real. it’s done wonders for my mental health.

    • @isabellahu4606
      @isabellahu4606 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mel how'd your friends react to that?

    • @sillypoop
      @sillypoop 6 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Brendons Forehead some of them were confused and told me to make another account. but after explaining it to them they understood why i did it. and even if they don’t fully understand it’s not like you can force someone to be on instagram.

    • @isabellahu4606
      @isabellahu4606 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      mel what did you do instead of being on social media? When o got nothing to do I go on social media and I'm bored quite often since its vacation and I'm staying home again

    • @emilynoble74
      @emilynoble74 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      every one should do this! I started with facebook and am trying to convince myself to finally bite the bullet and get rid of instagram too

    • @oliverxhmll
      @oliverxhmll 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      people thinking u r weird if you arent on social media forces everyone to have social media presence :/ They prefer to look at ur profile and pictures and think they know everything about you. I only use snapchat because it's 100% my friends not some insta celebrities everywhere

  • @mariahzalera2123
    @mariahzalera2123 6 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    they should've said "Meet ashley, like many young women, she looks nothing like she does in her instagram pictures"

    • @Vj-go7sg
      @Vj-go7sg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      spot on!!

    • @TheonlyOnyx223
      @TheonlyOnyx223 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂 tru

    • @queene3oh3
      @queene3oh3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You Ain't Lying!!!

    • @ByDaniSimone
      @ByDaniSimone 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The more natural the beauty the less likely she’ll be posting millions of selfies.

    • @mariahzalera2123
      @mariahzalera2123 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      yep exactly

  • @shannarafryer3111
    @shannarafryer3111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    🤢🤮 I hate seeing needles going into skin

  • @glittercatfeet5448
    @glittercatfeet5448 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Shady, please do a video on Korean plastic surgery!

  • @EricaYE6
    @EricaYE6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +386

    When I was a kid, I was picked on for having big lips. Now, everybody wants them.

    • @madelineamberyart
      @madelineamberyart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      EricaYE6 me

    • @FruityHachi
      @FruityHachi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      yeah, same with big butts and curves

    • @patatapatosa
      @patatapatosa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      And big eyebrows, using glasses also having curly hair, being extremely skinny and so on, smh.

    • @linhcao1029
      @linhcao1029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@patatapatosa having freckles also

    • @linhcao1029
      @linhcao1029 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Basically, people want what they don't have and don't know how to embrace things they posess

  • @kissyou427
    @kissyou427 5 ปีที่แล้ว +968

    Seeing all the lip injection clips, it really shocks me how much damage Kylie Jenner did to the young girls in our country. Ugh...

    • @ayaferrari
      @ayaferrari 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      C. Shen they should be smarter than to follow that low life

    • @pythomas29
      @pythomas29 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Aya HK AGREED!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This world is so shallow, ppl don’t want to be leaders anymore!

    • @xenarai6366
      @xenarai6366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +102

      Dude...kylie never did wrong.. She changed her body for herself... Its not her fault that everyone is following her..
      She didn't ask for the hype.. We gave her... The problem is insecurities and improper family guidance

    • @mushu6928
      @mushu6928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      xena rai - right? but the only thing i blame on her is when she said she was all natural and never had cosmetic surgery.

    • @s.a.8457
      @s.a.8457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Country ? The whole universe

  • @jhonnex3338
    @jhonnex3338 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Oh how so ironic to achieve perfection but never be able to observe it.

  • @aimeedavies34
    @aimeedavies34 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    People post their best on Instagram. Their best takes a lot of effort, through makeup, filters, editing or various plastic surgeries and augmentations.
    I always have the mindset that, unless stated, the vast majority of photos posted are not real...in some way.

  • @lincolniscool
    @lincolniscool 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1781

    Yo the blond sounds so shallow and hollow

    • @calebmatthews2026
      @calebmatthews2026 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Gabrielle Taco her voice made me suicide

    • @shunkahato
      @shunkahato 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      When she said she had a boyfriend I thought, “Wonder if they’re still together.”

    • @sheena333
      @sheena333 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      it’s really sad. she shouldn’t have to be so focused on her looks :(

    • @sweetlullaby7768
      @sweetlullaby7768 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I think it's because she brands herself as a person who wouldn't be relevant if she wasn't as "pretty" as she is now, that's why she's so fixated in keeping them.

    • @bianccaraines7412
      @bianccaraines7412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      she needs braces not lip fillers

  • @theadventuresofaidenandgin1613
    @theadventuresofaidenandgin1613 6 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    Thing is ,genetically some mouths are not meant to be bigger or fuller because it doesn't work with other facial features , but of course still doesn't stop people

    • @MissHannah2036
      @MissHannah2036 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Exactly that's why it doesn't look natural, esp when someone get's a nose job, it artificially alters the structure of the face, not how it should look naturally. Nose is then out of proportion with the rest of the face. Like that TIffany woman has picked peter pan's nose out of a catalogue or is it Michael Jackson's :)

    • @RandomGamerMoments
      @RandomGamerMoments 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I got quite big lips for a whiter skinned girl but that’s because I’m mixed. I got the big lips but also got small slanted eyes like the Native Americans. Now you got these girls who have these huge eyes getting their lips done and being able to have both. Nah nah, if I can deal with my small eyes you can deal with your small lips

    • @wetsockks
      @wetsockks 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lip injections make lips look like little water balloons. Anyone can tell when it's natural or not so I don't get it either.

    • @retroartsclique6331
      @retroartsclique6331 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yeah hun and those mouths with filler end up looking ridiculous. Just sad.

  • @armankaurjohal748
    @armankaurjohal748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    We are not born ugly, we are just born in judgemental society
    -RM

  • @soulonice99
    @soulonice99 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    A good cosmetologist or watching makeup tutorials can do wonders. I think changing your makeup is fun and you can always wash it off; but surgery is permanent, like a tattoo, it's a commitment

  • @Christine-Tina
    @Christine-Tina 6 ปีที่แล้ว +554

    The blonde white girl they kept showing made me feel disgust and then pity for her. It's sad that this is my generation; with everything happening in the world.

    • @sofiapalacios4326
      @sofiapalacios4326 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Christine yes it was sad

    • @ashleykarges2191
      @ashleykarges2191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      Christine it’s ok you don’t have to pity me. I am disappointed too because there was six hours of footage and many important topics were discussed. Unfortunately they painted me in a very one dimensional light :/

    • @sofiapalacios4326
      @sofiapalacios4326 6 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Ashley Karges really? That was shady af

    • @litaiero1139
      @litaiero1139 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Ashley Karges It's amazing what editing can do. Even though you may have said those things, I'd imagine they were either taken out of context, or only one point of view was displayed. I'm so sorry. That's the wrong idea that I got. I'm sorry for all the misinterpretations and hate coming your way :/

    • @ashleykarges2191
      @ashleykarges2191 6 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Sofia Palacios i know 😔tell me about it

  • @k_a_y_l_e_e
    @k_a_y_l_e_e 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1300

    ooooh this makes me feel deeply uncomfortable. this is so depressing, to know that this is what society is now.

    • @joyjacqueline686
      @joyjacqueline686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      totally agree :z

    • @Con3033
      @Con3033 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      huh, people have been chasing beauty literally forever. Look at chinese foot binding and corsets etc, it's human nature and not a new current phenomenon

    • @kbs1212
      @kbs1212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Crazy how fake and hypocritical people are becoming. It starts with those annoying face-slimming Snapchat filters that makes people look like aliens with flowers on their head and now everybody wants their face to look that that in person. Wish they would just be comfortable with their appearance without a filter.

    • @lukeyt963
      @lukeyt963 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i agree pathetic!

    • @devinngeorge
      @devinngeorge 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      We went through slavery relax yuh tits. It's not that serious

  • @hibu88
    @hibu88 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Shoutout to all the people who are just happy with their “imperfect” self!❤️😍

  • @tempuraroll
    @tempuraroll 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Trust me, after everyone end up looking the same there will be a trend of looking unique as possible (basically just the way you were born).

    • @FruityHachi
      @FruityHachi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      exactly, wait 10 years and some influencer will make natural beauty trendy, then all girls will envy you not getting anything done

  • @lafeetriste
    @lafeetriste 6 ปีที่แล้ว +225

    Actually this is kind of stupid but I didn’t realize people edited photos.. I always thought why everyone’s skin is so smooth, bright flawless and my skin never looked like that. Now I know.. helps you feel better about yourself

    • @rachelkohwoonsim7445
      @rachelkohwoonsim7445 6 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Even if you do not deliberately edit the photos, it's pretty common now for phone cameras to automatically "beautify" you on selfie mode too :/ It's pretty hard to run away from filters now.

    • @kaleyjoplinRAWRR
      @kaleyjoplinRAWRR 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Haha same!

    • @nohesiii
      @nohesiii 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rachel Koh Woon Sim wtf?? iphone cameras don’t do that.. wish they did cause i’m ugly smh

    • @rachelkohwoonsim7445
      @rachelkohwoonsim7445 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      really? my samsung does and i don't like it tbh haha. i think instastory kinda does that too

    • @lightsoff9008
      @lightsoff9008 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      The iPhone makes me look crooked hellll no

  • @mg-en6qo
    @mg-en6qo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +714

    im a girl and i go on instagram for a LONG time but its for the memes

    • @emmarellda181
      @emmarellda181 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      idk LOOO relatable but mine is fandoms

    • @LetsStopThisSong
      @LetsStopThisSong 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ig memes are almost always stolen from twitter tho

    • @Eccentric-YURR
      @Eccentric-YURR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Fr

    • @pvrpl313
      @pvrpl313 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And the puppies

    • @dovecamron8440
      @dovecamron8440 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      FACTS

  • @jordana-8405
    @jordana-8405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Not caring about instagram has done wonders for my self confidence. I used to scroll through at night and cry because I didnt look like all these girls on instagram and feel absolutely horrible. Now that I havent really used instagram much and archived almost all the pictures on my account, I feel a lot better about myself. Constantly comparing myself and feeling ashamed ain't it sis

  • @janice8514
    @janice8514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The creators of FB knew they there would be a rush from getting positive feedback online and a downer from negative feedback. They knew the power beforehand and said they did it anyway.

  • @imaplant4030
    @imaplant4030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +548

    I'm glad I don't use social media that much

    • @mdelvalle2456
      @mdelvalle2456 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i love doggos may I ask what do you do instead? In general?

    • @imaplant4030
      @imaplant4030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Marcos Del Valle I practice singing and do guitar. :)

    • @imaplant4030
      @imaplant4030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tiahna Grace True thattt

    • @imaplant4030
      @imaplant4030 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Tiahna Grace we would be good friends irl :3

    • @tanuchaudhary3917
      @tanuchaudhary3917 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.

  • @sleepysartorialist
    @sleepysartorialist 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3045

    This series is very eye opening

    • @Raquel.maksoud
      @Raquel.maksoud 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Mad Lolita i was the 666th to like this comment, niiice

    • @katb9445
      @katb9445 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      more like lip opening amirite

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +themadlolita Thanks for checking it out!!

  • @alexandraalmanzar570
    @alexandraalmanzar570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    There was something eerie about those last 30 seconds.

  • @Marissa-ys4qp
    @Marissa-ys4qp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this is why i don't have social media, it's toxic and it changes people into seeing themselves as not good enough

  • @Tktube9925
    @Tktube9925 5 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    The fact that all these doctors don't under go these procedure.

    • @yoursnottruly
      @yoursnottruly 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      That celebrity doctor looked like he did something? Just me?

    • @JessicaXnetwork
      @JessicaXnetwork 5 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Yesss look at all the female doctors. They’re always natural

    • @minsugathefirst4574
      @minsugathefirst4574 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@yoursnottruly yea his mouth looked too pretty

    • @amandaneilson7789
      @amandaneilson7789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      tok tube I’ve seen doctors that say everyone in the building has gotten work done. I saw it in a video where Gabbie Hanna goes to get stuff done and she says everyone in the building is so beautiful and the doctor says “we all get work done here” or something along those lines.

    • @friedrice4015
      @friedrice4015 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Plenty of plastic surgeons get procedures done. I personally know more than a few (no I've never had plastic surgery) people who are in the surgery/injections area and they get them done. They just A) aren't as obsessive as a lot of people online are and B)know exactly how to toe the line and look natural.

  • @Iyana
    @Iyana 5 ปีที่แล้ว +316

    I still feel wary about cosmetic surgeries despite the stigma diminishing slowly. Also as someone with thicker / fuller lips, most of the time the results don't look great to me, they look like ducks. I understand the argument is "As long as they are happy, that's all that matters", this just seems like such an unsettling future. It's teaching girls and boys that it's easier to just get surgery than to learn how to love yourself.

    • @LeratoM98
      @LeratoM98 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Very well said.

    • @stmualimah89
      @stmualimah89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      This is what we called "instant generation" in my country. Most of young people just want everything instant, not wanting to experience the process and take the lessons from it.

    • @MinttMeringue
      @MinttMeringue 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My thoughts as well. It makes me worried that we'll turn into places like S Korea, and suddenly this procedures will almost be required for many jobs and such. Its worrying.

    • @elenamancheva9961
      @elenamancheva9961 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree with your message but surgeries really are way easier to get than just loving yourself

    • @LPanastasia
      @LPanastasia ปีที่แล้ว

      @@elenamancheva9961 you don't understand. Today the standard is looking like a doll or having huge lips. Tomorrow they are gonna change the trend to thin lips. Beauty trends change with time. It doesn't mean that people will keep on changing their features too. Also don't you think it's lame that everybody wanna have the same features? Like the word uniqueness will lack a meaning.

  • @SincerelyTammy
    @SincerelyTammy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish social media can show us that being ourselves was ok..so that upcoming teens or young people wont feel insecure and know they are beautiful

  • @ansujoseph6703
    @ansujoseph6703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    When people like your photo,it is like a validation!
    Validation on what???

    • @XandriaRavenheart
      @XandriaRavenheart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Validation of how dumb you are, and how you made the plastic surgery world a little wealthier through your self-doubt. xD

    • @pihupanchal9109
      @pihupanchal9109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Validation on her life

  • @victoriaindigo
    @victoriaindigo 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2130

    Wow I had no idea doctors weren't required to finish their residency! I'd definitely only go to a Board Certified cosmetic surgeon that finished their residency lol I would never pick a surgeon based on the Kardashians!
    Loving the Shady series!

    • @refinery29
      @refinery29  6 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      +victoriagrant Thanks for tuning in!

    • @ABC-nj1jn
      @ABC-nj1jn 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      victoria grant you don’t even need to go to a cosmetic surgeon, a dentist can do that just as well

    • @martindr251
      @martindr251 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      talent is inborn, skill is learned. Whether a surgeon has finished his residency or not, a really good surgeon will always be known and always stand out.

    • @soccerlover2292
      @soccerlover2292 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You mean a plastic surgeon. You don't want a cosmetic surgeon.

    • @helenp8510
      @helenp8510 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      He started his residency at UCLA which is incredibly competitive and maybe he wasn't getting as much "hands on" opportunity, but I don't get why he would just scrap it altogether. Why not just do your residency somewhere else? Weird.

  • @AH-vb2dw
    @AH-vb2dw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    the ending felt like the beginning of a black mirror episode

  • @bowegirl02
    @bowegirl02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I have thin lips and I'm insecure about them but I will never get surgery

    • @kat-oo9cj
      @kat-oo9cj 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try lip plumpers?

    • @kat-oo9cj
      @kat-oo9cj 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You really shouldn’t be that concerned though, honestly, the people who truly care for you are the ones who don’t care about your looks

    • @bowegirl02
      @bowegirl02 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @@kat-oo9cj lip plumpers are a scam lmao and I honestly have bigger problems to worry about than thin lips

    • @stace6971
      @stace6971 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      You’re just as beautiful 😌❤️

    • @ximenacarranza203
      @ximenacarranza203 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Do whatever you want with your body. If you want to get fillers, don't let anyone tell you that it's bad. If you like your lips, don't let anyone tell you that they're ugly.
      :)

  • @user-gc1bo4ry5n
    @user-gc1bo4ry5n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    so apparently imaginary likes on a post is "validation." my heart hurts, you poor girl.

  • @darmikeaandrique6096
    @darmikeaandrique6096 6 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    Social media has drastically changed society and the worlds perception of beauty, riches, normality and life in general! If your not strong minded you’ll always be chasing an illusion..

  • @kikipooh6350
    @kikipooh6350 5 ปีที่แล้ว +632

    Someone get platinum haired Becky some therapy PLEASE!

    • @bianccaraines7412
      @bianccaraines7412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      and braces not lip fillers!

    • @greciabenz
      @greciabenz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Biancca Raines lmao YES

    • @nadiar.4638
      @nadiar.4638 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Or maybe society needs to change from being so focused on looks

  • @reekashomekitchen4396
    @reekashomekitchen4396 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so glad I found this channel I am literally absessed

  • @sammlotshwa2140
    @sammlotshwa2140 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    I think it's a good time to change that scripture in the Bible that says "money is the root of all evil" into "Instagram is the root of all evil" seriously. This is madness

  • @DonYelleandDiana
    @DonYelleandDiana 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2030

    this makes my stomach hurt

    • @KittyCat-qb3cv
      @KittyCat-qb3cv 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      DonYelle and Diana same

    • @stormingskies2941
      @stormingskies2941 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      it makes my lips hurt

    • @simplyamethyst9660
      @simplyamethyst9660 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I covered my lips and looks away at the beginning.

    • @riasb
      @riasb 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      on god, it physically hurts watching it

    • @Freckles0948
      @Freckles0948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The last girl 😟 gonna need to reach out for help to stop this. Don’t ever start in the first place. Sheesh

  • @LifeofRi
    @LifeofRi 6 ปีที่แล้ว +775

    If you're only in your 20's already trying to alter your body.. imagine when you hit old age and everything goes south . YIKES

    • @ilivemotivated6526
      @ilivemotivated6526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      LifeofRi right? That’s what I’m thinking. All the filler and Botox is going to look really bad at an older age.

    • @nilu1121
      @nilu1121 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      For REAL !!!!!!!

    • @parnikaaima4793
      @parnikaaima4793 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      i feel like as you grow older you mature and learn to love yourself in most cases

    • @naritruwireve1381
      @naritruwireve1381 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      How does filler and botox affect your body as you age? I don't know much about how this stuff works

    • @irisje777
      @irisje777 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I am investing in skincare. Best thing ever

  • @nimmywren
    @nimmywren 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Did anyone else notice the low key shade lexy threw at "Dr" ourian

  • @minseokss
    @minseokss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    "Or can i?" Dude shes so creepy... She needs help.

  • @rosy4792
    @rosy4792 6 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    I stopped using Instagram for five months and I just feel so good

    • @gizmo123cm23
      @gizmo123cm23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same here

    • @bettyboob7167
      @bettyboob7167 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im agree

    • @diamondheart11
      @diamondheart11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Rosy • : Offline/privacy is the new luxury.

    • @Feliciatanktop
      @Feliciatanktop 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I haven’t used it in 2 weeks because I’m focusing on school and I thought I would miss it. I don’t. I actually feel much more confident. On Instagram I would just be comparing myself, every aspect of myself, to everyone else. I think I’m only going to get on to post things once in a few months or something but I’m definitely not going on for half an hour or more

    • @molly_romo
      @molly_romo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rosy • haven’t had any kind of social media for over 6 years. It’s great.

  • @lsnprice
    @lsnprice 6 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    I'm 25 and i deleted all my social media in 2012. People my age are starting to have a hard time connecting with people in person; they feel more comfortable communicating through their phones or computers. We need to change that before it gets worse.

  • @shirinraza8099
    @shirinraza8099 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wonderful work. Thanks

  • @taywall97
    @taywall97 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    This is why I got rid of Facebook and Instagram. Now I just use Twitter for memes.

  • @sea5205
    @sea5205 6 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Sorry but I have not seen one girl that has gotten lip fillers which looks “natural” afterwards. Even the smallest amount makes your lips a weird shape and creates this unnatural shine which makes it obvious

    • @stellafournodavlou
      @stellafournodavlou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kendall Jenner and Dove Cameron looked pretty fine to me. I couldn't have told. The fillers didn't go much off the natural shape of their lips.

    • @stellafournodavlou
      @stellafournodavlou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Seino Parks But yes, most of the time it's tell-tale.

    • @elisanaufel
      @elisanaufel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Seino Parks YES

    • @meikoblock
      @meikoblock 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      You could definitely tell because they both looked like Bratz dolls. But maybe I'm just hyper aware of it because I worked in a mall right next to a plastic surgeon so many people would go shopping after their fillers. It started to get obvious when you see 20 different women walk by with the same lip shape and pout.

    • @sea5205
      @sea5205 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      TLMAP kendall and dove looked so obvious Kendall less than dove but dove deffo

  • @fullup91
    @fullup91 6 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    In 200 years, they will look back at this and *laugh* ..... because in 200 years, we'll be injecting filler into our brains 😂😂😂

    • @alriyaad
      @alriyaad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rembrandt 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @ladytee4269
      @ladytee4269 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣

    • @lilyo5248
      @lilyo5248 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      no we will
      be robots

  • @Sara-pi3ni
    @Sara-pi3ni 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel as though if you wish to "improve" your body using plastic surgery you may do so. but it should still be used for people who need it. People with deformities that can effect a person's daily life