Traditional Women Are Rare
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Many traditional women exists today. Most of us aren’t posting our lives on social media, comparing hers to mine mine to hers, and engaging in internet drama.
They do exist just in other countries
No one Gives a shit About Boss babe ,
@@arminkhoshbin1406 no they are here it’s just where you look for them that is the problem
yeah that’s what i was thinking. very small sighted to think she can speak for all women.
@@lucillespider I mean it's pretty obvious shes talking in broad strokes speaking on stereotypical women of today, but I'm sure you pointing out the semantics to the statement is helping those with smoother brains.
I’m so sick of the relationship podcasts being made by people who aren’t in successful relationships 💀
Then you should make one and show us how it's done :)
Facts
Fr
YOU start one then 🤷🏿♂️. I'll watch
The person who made this comment is a woman
Y’all fighting about gender differences, meanwhile, I’m crying over these damn gas prices 😭
Rebuild cities away from car dependence. Embrace Urbanism.
@@eitkoml _"Embrace Urbanism."_
Screw that.
What if I _don't_ want to live in a city?
@@FourFourSeven Have you ever seen a city that's built for humans, not cars?
@@eitkoml ive read that as "Embrace Uranium" 💀
Yea bc u probably have nobody that finds you attractive
Hey, traditional women did work A LOT! They contribute to the finance of a household: farming, agriculture, and several services.
Also, there are women out here that don't spend on manicure, hair dye, and actual save money and care for their families. And there are men not providing for their family. A lot of adults have no consideration about finances neither safety.
They intentionally pick a time where a wife was hardly treated as a human being, stuck on opium or worst case had to get a lobotomy 🤷🏽♀️.
Well pearl is a business woman and she caters to a fetish a lot of lonely men have to milk them financially. They don't realize they put all their thoughts and energy in to girls they try to avoid instead of concentrating on what they want. There is a war going on on family, men and women and we are the pawns in this sick game of chess. I don't believe that men or women are the problem. It seems more of a problem of society that creates these "modern men" and "modern women" which are both horrible, hateful and destructive.
In all these arguments we keep forgetting that we are all human beings with our own needs, desires and dreams and noone is . If it keeps going like that we will have a Korean 2.0 of the 4B movement. No one is entitled to have a spouse or partner.
These are sad times for everyone...
Women be like “We want equal pay as men” but then be like “We want our men to make more than us”. Like bro, that’s not how math works 😂
Edit: Since y’all seem to misunderstand, let me clarify. I am not against equal pay for the same work. I am just against women who view their man as a financial investment for their future. It’s greedy, materialistic, and it’s not love. And you never see it the other way around. I’ve never heard a man say he won’t date a girl because she only makes minimum wage. People should be judged by their personality and the size of their heart. That’s how God judges people. That’s how love works and how relationships work. Y’all ultra-feminists and ultra-trad/conservatives both have it all mixed up with these gender roles. Only thing that matters is love.
That is exactly right 🤣🤣🤣
this is facts. I never looked at it this way haha
They never know what they want.
@@MakeMoneyOnlineWithEmma I'm a truck driver and 99% of truckers are men. And most of the time they can't handle jobs only us men can do that are too physically demanding. We deserve more love, respect, and appreciation by all these females.
yh, they all gonna have to settle after going through their hoe phase.
My wife is none of those things. We fell in love at the lowest point in my life. I was drug addicted, and went to prison. She made me the man I am today. I’m three years clean and sober, work full time (like she does), we split all the bills and take care of each other. I am so thankful for my wife and the woman she is.
May God protect your love, and make you both happy forever
You’ve got the traditional woman my man! Congrats!
Congrats! You found your soulmate..❤
Great because we should totally take on men with issues and help them get back in their feet
Wow, She believes in you and herself
She mentions hair, nails, and makeup...that was part of the "traditional" women's lifestyle...
Respect to the women who are humble, understanding and hardworking.
❤
Where are these women? I want one. Been looking a long time not found a women even close
So much love for those women
Not a lot left
she was also a feminist earlier but now, she learnt from her lyf, she is just trying to save women's from seeing worst 😂
She took the “I’m not like the other girls” to an another level
edit: iwdym what does he get? am i an object that should be prepared for that guy? if a girl has to be the perfect virgin untouchable one same thing for the guy why do girls get playboy guys, non virgin guys + if the average salary can cover an appartment for women it can do the same for men. we breath the same, eat the same, sleep the same
She's speaking fax tho
yeah 😭 the sad music makes it so much funnier like what she's saying even makes sense. She really think she can say "we" and speak for a whole gender
@@janel8169 point to a moment she is wrong instead of being mad that she's calling you out
@@ThundaAaAaAaAaAh lol these western woman make me laugh☕🤧
@@ThundaAaAaAaAaAh I could but you people aren't worth arguing with :p have a good life stranger
I will say this... Im newly divorced. Was married for 10 yrs. Being a single man for 2 years. Her description of some women are spot on. Im in my 40s and most women are emotionally broken, never been married, have multiple children, value money over love, party every weekend, and think men with standards are narcissistic. She not wrong. Its crazy. Their arent any really good choices for dating. Smdh
emotional broken...... how do you call a divorce man?
@@evv150880 percent of women file for divorce. 90 percent college educated women. That's broken
@@evv1508simple, a divorced man is a man that no longer has to deal with an emotionally broken female. 👍😉
@@evv1508depends on the women he left ...
You acting like it wasn't started by men self the destruction to women....the men abused the traditional women because worldy men were selfish and didn't do what they had to and became corrupted and that's when Satan came between one flesh ..between women en men and it started with men greed ....source of selfishness
When she speaks it feels like she's gonna burst into tears.
Because she feels the pain of the men
When the gender roles fail the societies purpose changes then boom collapse or evolution but for infinity its always been collapse never change forever
@@guushuiden955 Because she knows this is destroying our society that has only thrived due to the strong family structure we have always had until now.
@@vCLOWNSHOESv woman are distroying it and destroging all the good man by leaving them alone and depressed for yearssssss
She knows in which she speaks is the honest truth. It’s more compelling to see a female has actually started to see who the lady’s that surround her actually are.
That's why I will die for my wife.. no makeup. no nails (does it herself), lives within what I provide, Lifts me up when I fall... she is a queen in my eyes
🔹N C How Beautiful Bless You and your wife Sir.🔹..🔹. 🔹🔹🔹Al Freeman was the same may he RIP 👑🕊️🌿🕯️I thank God for putting Him into my life because it's all about material things that's so sad I pray that everyone meet that special someone 🙏🙏🙏
Okay. But if a woman could work and provide herself the lifestyle she wants there’s no reason for end her career to be a stay at home wife. If she wants that lifestyle it should be her responsibility to support it. A man should not expect her to give up her lifestyle because he isn’t able to support it if she quit working like he asked.
@@Layo78 come on women are working these days too. If a guys wants a housewife it's his own choice if you don't agree with him, Find someone who you agree with. This is as simple as it gets.
Bro if your wife has a sister I'm interested to marry her 🤣🤣
@@Layo78and if a woman wants to be at home with her kids and her husband taking care of the family like a queen, feminists and liberal hypocrites should let her free and not force her to be unhappy
I don’t get my nails done, my hair dyed or even cut and I don’t spend money on literally any luxeries and we STILL struggle on 2 incomes. Wages are so low compared to expenses these days.
Exactly! Like what salary is the average person earning that can really afford 2k+ rent? Most people don’t have careers due to whatever circumstance so they settle with jobs. They build all these new Apt buildings in my city and i always wonder who are these people moving into these apartments that cost damn year half a mill and studios starting at 2-3k???
Let me tell you WHY this happened. You ready for it?
Because 50% of the population entered the workforce driving down salaries of the other 50% so now your ass has to work until you die instead of just your husband.
ENJOY IT! :)
You need to move then. I’m not sure what city you’re in right now but the further you get from the metropolitan area the cheaper rent will get. My husband and I live off of his salary because we live further from the city. If you can’t bring yourself to leave the city then that’s an example of being addicted to a lifestyle.
Inflation has decreased the value of the dollar to a third of what our parents made at our age. The work is still just as back breaking though. No hopes of having a happy family with blue colored work anymore. Everyone just gets so high on pills they can’t even see that.
Just tell us…. Who did you vote for?
I'm addicted to my Lifestyle too. difference is I provide it for myself.
You act like most women aren't paying for their own nails looool she will have nails with or without a man
Word up bro!
@@laurelshade she'll get her nails, but her children aren't getting food lmao
Bruh you’re a man
@@mollie7884 congratulations, you understood the joke! Here's a gold sticker ✨️
I can honestly say my hubby told me to stop working and go to school. That was 7yrs ago. We are both 31yrs old…He has been paying ALL the bills since then plus take care of 7 kids which 4 aren’t biologically his but he loves them. Put us in a brand new home & cars last yr. He makes sure all of us looks good & have what we need…Him being a young black man taking on all of this with a legit job..I make sure he doesn’t do a damn thing at home but rest😊I am forever grateful for my 6’6 chocolate man🥰
God bless you for taking care of him, and him taking care of you.
Do you think he has a side piece?
Dude makes bank then
@user-kw1hs4dn1g probably not, if he's the type to do that why would he tie him self down with 4 kids not his own. He could easily still be pumping and dumping
That's how you can be grateful for a good man that take care of you and your child
This was my gentle reminder to put my phone down and sleep
And now it's mine
Why? She seems to be making sense to me..
People are getting conditioned into asking for energy they themselves are not projecting…
If women want traditional values in a relationship or marriage then they should hold traditional values for themselves as well…
A lot of women say they want to be courted, they want to be protected, they want their man to make more, etc.. Women are very verbal about what they want so people took note and are seeing the energy not being reciprocated…
Lmao I agree she speaks from her own life experiences that’s all real to her and folks who are experiencing the issues she states. She is valid and invalid in the same breath.
A lot of women don’t like to accept the fact that they’re materialistic and ask more than they give. Granted, there are some that give more than ask, but those are very few. Staying single, being without any attachments until you actually find a woman that appreciates life, and not lifestyle, is a big key to staying sane.
Good luck bro.
It's easier to block out things you don't like rather than actually engage your brain in thinking about different perspectives lmao
I might be old fashion but I believe in constructing together the household and lifestyle we want to have.
You're not the only one buddy. 👍
This is true. When people get married they become 1 body. Everything they do effects each others ways whether for good or bad. You will affect each others minds, hearts, spirits, and actions in a positive or negative way.
With a guy who is already rich 😂
@@lightner6924 facts
That’s sounds problematic in 2022.
"I'm not like the other girls" - 🤡
Hmmm sure
im not like the other girls im a ferret
she never said she wasn't.
She legit said "no one in the room".
Clearly she isn’t like the other girls. And good for her.
My husband pays all the bills, but I work part time, just so I can have my own lil money to spoil our kids with cute outfits and activities. Also myself, hair nails and facials. And that works for us :)
So you contribute nothing. Good job. 👍
@@BluesDeville I clean, cook, laundry and take care of my husband and kids when I’m not at work. Bring a mom is a full time job itself. How is that nothing?
@@yesseniacorona5040
Being a mom is not a full-time job. It's a full-time privilege. A privilege afforded to you by your husband that actually works a full time job with no loyalty or understanding from his boss like you have from your husband.
It's his sole responsibility to pay the bills to keep a roof over your heads, keep water/gas/electric on, food, internet, phone bills, automobiles, insurances, medical, dental, maintenance costs, etc.
He goes to work every day knowing if he doesn't do his job on schedule and better than the next guy, or the economy/job market takes a dive, his beloved family could end up living on the streets. He goes to bed with that thought every night and wakes up with it every morning. It's what drives him to keep doing it day in and day out. And, if he works a physically labor-intensive job, he knows he's wearing his body out and wondering if there will be anything left if and when he retires. But, he'll never tell you, even if you ask him, because he doesn't want to burden you with his agony. He just wants you to take care of the kids, and enjoy the privilege of getting to do so...because he doesn't get that privilege.
I know both sides of this because I live both sides of it. I'm a single full-time dad (because my wife went off the deep end and decided she didn't want to be a mom anymore long ago) that gets the privilege of raising my kids like you do. While, also, like your husband, getting the agony of working full time to pay the bills and trying to keep my family housed, fed, clothed, and medically well. On top of that, I do all of the maintenance on my home, yard, and vehicle. I'm lucky that my oldest is finally reaching the age where he can look after his younger brother and sister for a bit while I'm working late or going to the grocery store, or running errands, etc, and he can contribute to cleaning and laundry duties.
There are also single full-time mothers that do most of the things I do, and some of them are even balancing multiple jobs to make hours to live paycheck to paycheck to keep their kids taken care of.
Modern women that think just being a mom in the comfort of their own home with modern appliances like vacuums, dishwashers, and washer/dryer (some of which are robotic or wirelessly controlled) is a full time job seriously have no real perspective of what their husbands actually mentally and physically deal with. I'd take the privilege of just being a dad over the agony of being the sole provider without a moment of hesitation.
With that said... I've used up the 15 minutes of break time I have to respond instead of just watching menial videos to clear my head at work.
Just make sure you tell your husband that you appreciate what he does and save him the nitpicking because he has enough going on in his mind that you don't even know about.
@@BluesDevilleso why do you want her to do as a wife to her husband ? "Contribute nothing" ? She doin all the chores, if you as a man feel burden because you're working try to be a SAHD, and i feel traditional women didn't fit you, you need modern independent women who'll provides you so you can have all the chores and kids to yourself at home
@@mega6221
I don't need a useless woman, traditional nor modern. I'm doing just fine without one.
Just the whole "are you sure" after the protection shit
💀💀💀
I started a war ☠️
Right because when have women ever been protected?? The ones we love the most are usually the ones that hurt us the most. But now that women are doing it back guys are screaming it's an issue LMAO what have men been doing to women since the beginning of time? Treating them like shit, slaves and like their bodies are a man's tools. Now that women are starting to treat men like shit, it suddenly the biggest issue ever LMAO it's a joke to me
Bruh that's so annoying how can you choose a crappy partner then turn around and blame the world for him being that way
@@convictgames3895 it goes both ways
@@Mila-kz8tt it does but you're deflecting. You sound like a yt person when we talk about racism.
@@convictgames3895 if at least half of women have shit relationships with men, what does that tell you? And by the way, this can be applied to men’s complaints as well. Why aren’t men just picking the right women? If they were there would be no podcast, no manosphere, no men going their own way.
My lifestyle changed dramatically when I decided to be a stay at home mom. My hubby and I made great money together, but my role wasn’t money maker, it became home maker once that baby well seasoned in my belly. Nearly 30 years later, I have no regrets. My kids are homeschooled as well. I cooked everyday, three times a day. I did the soccer mom thing, I coached basketball for youth sports so my kid could play. We raised a garden, we canned spaghetti sauce every year for gifts, we made cinnamon rolls and sold them, we learned Tae Kwon Do together. I could not have done that if my lifestyle took precedence over my actual life. Life changes and lifestyles evolve.
I bestow you with the Title of W-oman and W mom
This was really heart warning to read.
Sounds like a text book life
God bless, this is what it's all about.
I'm glad you're happy with your choice to be a housewife, the only issue people have with it is when people think every woman should follow that path. You had the power to choose so let other women choose for themselves too
stop with the "all women" bullshit. I just want a man with emotional intelligence and a stable income to show he can take care of himself. I want him to be a joy in my life not a provider. there are people out there who still want to love and be loved. it's not all about money for everyone.
Most
@@kyngedwards9799 How about stop generalizing women?
Exactly!!! At this rate…it’s exhausting
Men to
@@pathetic-traveller06 90% of women stop capping
Traditional women wore make up, wore dresses, almost every day, and always had their hair done, plus took care of the kids in the house.
She is most likely referring to the more expensive treatments that are available nowadays that can not be done at home.
And most often worked
Facts. Traditional men want traditional women. Both still exist. They just don’t hang out in clubs or the local bar.
100% correct.
Yes they do
👍🏻
@Greg thats a gold digger and no one wants those. Traditional men want to do the working and protecting and complimenting that, a traditional woman wants to build the family at home and make use of the husband’s income to the entire family’s benefit.
@@BB.0101 well said
She talks a lot about women sleeping around. But I’ve never heard a thing about dudes that do.
Yeah somehow that doesn’t come up 🤔
Because people like her and tate think men sleeping around is okay. It's even traditional. But a woman sleeping around "lowers" her value as if she's a piece of land.
Safe to say both are dipshits lol
Maybe cause it's a show for women?
They don't have to talk about all things about all people all the time.
Everybody already knows male Chad slut is a useless tool, but he gets women who chase looks and money and the feeling that they've snagged someone all the girls want.
Stay away from players of both genders. There is a world or normal good people out there beside those types.
Come on babe, you can’t be so ignorant to think that sl*t and stud are close to being equivalent.
@@AdventuringMind sleeping around is sleeping around, by any name.
"I'm not like most girls" -most girls
except in cases like this where all those other girls are attacking them...
Facts
If I had a dime for every time I heard a woman say that
My wife was an immigrant nanny & I was an ex Military Police doing transit security when we met, had a small apartment and loved being together.
immigrants are always vulnerable when they come to a country and dont know nobody that’s different
Awww sounds like the beginning of a beautiful love story. Warms the ❤️ to read 🙂
Sometimes when I'm home alone I like to go out into the garden, lie down, cover myself in dirt and pretend I'm a carrot.
Hahah interesting comment.
Love that for you
🤣
🤣 not the 1st time I have seen this comment
😂😂😂
Fellas, educate yourself, workout even if it's for 5 minutes a day. Get a plant or pet and take care of it. Paint, read and create something you're proud of. Don't be afraid to speak your mind and have your own standards and values. You're the true prize. Focus on you and the loved ones closest too you be it friends or family. We only have so much time on this earth so do what makes you feel accomplished. We all wanna see you each succeed 🤝. Keep an eye out for those red flags and the right one will appear. But for now focus on yourself.
Be as soft as a dove and as wise as a serpent stay kind king
Thank you, I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately. I can’t help anyone if I don’t take care of myself
Beautiful. Well said.
Everyone focusing on themselves is why we're in this predicament. That sounds like a sensible solution but it is the path that is leading us all to destruction. Focus on being there for others and require those in your circle to do the same. When you see a woman with flawless hair, flawless makeup flawless clothes, flawless body... You're looking at a person entirely focused on themselves. There's a reason your mom wore mom jeans, why your father wore cargo shorts and new balance sneakers, they weren't focused on themselves, their resources time and attention were on others. Do something kind for someone without posting it on social media for clout and instant gratification. Serve others and you will encounter like minded women of true value. 😂
@@manb4war ... That last sentence actually had something good in it. 👍
Got to find me a damn soup kitchen 👍
I hear Kevin Samuels from heaven saying- “get a dog and die alone”
they don't have a choice.
Leader of poor men
Feel however you like but women like u die alone! R.I.P G.O.A.T! Pearl is real talk i enjoy her opinions! Feminists always buck against her takes!
@@wintersantiago2274 and Derrick Jackson leading y'all to the pet store.
Man I miss him!!! RIP Mr. Samuels. ✊🏽
40yrs old and I’ve been with my misses for over half that time. How? Respect!
We all have a role to play in life.
How?Because you didn't go out and see what's out there. You just settled for the first women that would sleep with you.
34 years old been with my wife for 17 years married for 5 and have our 5th child on the way I'm a lucky man my wife is amazing
Good for you!
@@dcfc198888 and with that information she's not a traditional woman, having your babies while unmarried. Same boat here. We don't have to live by an old standard. This "protection" she speaks of is fantasy. Most wives were being beat and basically imprisoned by their husbands.
She's talking about young women now mate not someone you've been with 40years.
Don't get pulled into responding, don't get pulled into responding
Thank god I am not alone
I really tried
So true now this is in our algorithm 🤦🏾♀️
Please do
me earlier on another video lmaO cancelled the paragraph I had written out lmao
Girl, a traditional woman WOULD expect a man to pay all the bills. Because she'd be at home taking care of the house. Men want a traditional woman until they ask him to pay for everything, then she suddenly becomes a "gold digger" to them.
Wait wait. What you mean "eeeeeeverything"?? Traditional women are already content when the rent, groceries, basic hygiëne products and some clothes are paid. But you're talking about brand shoes & clothes, beauty salons, chic restaurants, jewelery gifts, exotic holidays and whatever your lifestyle is. I think you don't actually have a clue what a traditional woman is. She doesn't need any of that. She doesn't care for it. You're only using the words "traditional woman" for your own benefits and desires to get men to finance your lifestyle, but you're not that woman. You're simply not.
@@Kyoto99952
I pay for my own "lifestyle". I don't ask a man to do it for me. But, if I did have a traditional relationship with a man, and he bought me bare minimum things just simply for me to exist and breath, that is in no way enriching my life or our children's lives. Your bare minimum contribution shows to me that I'm just an accessory in your life. And not a person who you genuinely are interested in making happy. If I made my husband microwaved ramen every night after got home from work and said "well I cooked for you, that's good enough", it's rather disappointing isn't it? I can do the bare minimum too. I'm sure any husband would appreciate something more substantial.
And let me be clear and say that what we give our partners shouldn't have to be ridiculously unreasonable. But basic things? What about funding your children's and wife's interests/hobbies? After school activities? Field trips? Those are purchases and expenses that are beyond the basics.
At a minimum, if you estimate that your wife does 40 hours a week worth of housework and child caretaking at $7.25/hr, that's $15,000 a year. So that's $1,250 worth of value a month.
I don't know if you and I have a different perspective on what women are buying and what level of lifestyle they are at, but damn, if shes putting in effort to make the household as best as it can be, then basic provisions are an insult. Just as a perspective, I make $30,000 a year and pay my bills just fine and manage to travel twice a year because I find extremely cheap deals. I manage to budget my hobbies and buy things that I want just fine. But it's certainly not basic.
So honestly it just depends on what YOU think is unreasonable. Because I think most women are far more reasonable than people give them credit for. Pearl was interviewing a lady who wanted a $200,000 wedding ring and that's just NOT the normal public.
@@Kyoto99952 UUUffff👏👏👏🤝
@@RavenFeathers90 read my comment carefully because you're not processing what I am saying. Even when you tried to imagine ''if I was in a traditional relationship'' you didn't picture yourself as a traditional woman, because you said ''basic provisions are an insult''. Traditional women wouldn't say or think that, they don't feel this sense of entitlement and ingratitude. But again, you wouldn't know because you are not one. You couldn't even imagine being one for 2 seconds. And I know why. You actually don't want to be a traditional woman. You just want the benefits of the traditional relationship where a man provides for you, but you are not willing to have the responsibilities of the traditional woman. What do you have to offer as a non-traditional woman? It's just not gonna cut it. That's how you go wrong, wanting it both ways. You want your cake and eat it too, but you simply can't.
@@Kyoto99952
Your idea of a traditional woman is one who accepts bare minimum things from her husband without complaints, while she herself puts in maximum effort for him. A traditional woman is simply one that takes over housework and childcare. That doesn't mean she just shut ups and stays quiet when her husband doesn't put in the same effort as she does. You can have different roles and still expect the same output.
"A girl who has been ran through" 🤣 that hit different 🤣
Oh.. It hit different alright😅 Different angles and positions 😎
@@megawatch8625 lolllllll
A-train moment
@@yes-dy2xp the Boys
🤣🤣🤣💯
I hope she gets a husband who tells her to shut her social media because she is a traditional woman. And she will obey him and that would be the best blessing to us women.
And the guys who like her and agree with everything she says, please go marry her. I beg you to do that😊
I would marry Pearl in a heartbeat but her podcast is her business and I don't always agree with it's topics it is part of her and it comes with her.
If you don't agree with anything she says then why are you watching them just keep scrolling past them
That is the best Thing I have ever read in all her comments😂
@@Victor.McCann You watch them because TH-cam recommends them, you dont know what all this is yet so you wanna take a look at it. And then you wanna see with what Kind of crap she has come up now. And then, sometimes, you're just so dumbfounded by how stupid that woman justufies her always weirdly generalized statements that you Just feel the need to let it out somehow, with a very accurate, fair and friendly comment Like this for example
Is she wrong?
She have brains! Makes sense. You're not
I have a traditional wife. We’re 28, own our own place, no debt. We live comfortably for our age, nothing fancy. I think social media has skewed people’s view of reality.
Props to u I had my own home at 29 and I'm married twice now and I'm the happiest every .keep being happy and loving
And tv
It's true man, I say this often. There's a cultural perception that _everyone_ is living according to a set of standards that are mostly fictional, only existing in the social media sphere
homerun comment
who cares
Women- find a guy you love to be with and build a “lifestyle” together. Two people who love each other unconditionally can move mountains together and build something that you can’t put any price on. ❤
She’s talking about a realistic lifestyle. Not a celebrity one and most young women are stuck on that.
Ok, but would you date someone who is very loving and caring for your needs but refuses to work for money?
That is where the lifestyle ends and real love begins.
@@danhair No. There needs to be a balance. He needs to be hardworking and so does she. They need to be able to support each other in all things and that does include finances. No one can live on just love. We have other needs that money does cover. That's just facts. Let's be logical.
Edit: Love and caring for each other is needed and so is money to have a home and basics like food.
@@sandypuentes866 that is where the love for the person ends and the question of love for the lifestyle begins.
When you marry someone are you marrying them because you love them unconditionally or because you see them supporting your lifestyle and improving it?
Realistically the answer is B but romantically the answer is A.
But there are ways around it like, let’s say: can you love an artist or a writer? They are usually poor unless they are successful but more than 70% of the times they are poor partners who can’t support you.
unconditional love does not exist in the majority of relationships. There are conditions to everything in life. I'm married, and I'm telling you the truth. Life and relationships are about compromises and trade-offs. By that fact, alone you cant have unconditional
Because the world is changing. Nothing is wrong with being traditional but those who choose not to be Uber traditional shouldn’t be frowned upon!
Lemme guess the longest relationship they have been in is less than 6 months.
Or "I've never been in a relationship."
"Are you sure?" 😂☠️
“What do I get?”
She sounds like andrew tate😂
@@darianr3645 Difference is though, he has a valid reason to say that to people. This woman didn't. She just said it for the sake of saying it because she no doubt feels like the victim, while taking no accountability for her actions.
no
Oprah'sarmy strikes back
My biggest problem is when she said apartments are affordable on what people make….I live in Boston this shit ain’t cheap even for two people. I wanna know where she lives at.
For real. That is the part where I was like, this bitch full of shit. WHO TF can afford an apt on 1 income. NO ONE.
The Midwest is affordable. Out of cities. You want to find a state with a lower population density and off of the coasts.
Well you live in Boston there’s ur first mistake. In New York a 700k house would be 350k in texas. Red areas are usually cheaper than blue areas
She said the average salary can cover an apartment. Nothing about apartments being affordable.
@@DemonbacktonyQ
No matter what you give a woman, she always wants more.
Not all women are like that
@@roseweaver3226 bullshit you women are never satisfied. You always want more. You want what you can't have and you won't be happy until or after you get it. You're all the same. Not one of you are different.
@@roseweaver3226 not all men are gym creeps and grapists, but that's what the internet implies.
You choose those kinds of women..
@@nitikasheoran9861 you are all those kind of women.
“Addicted to lifestyle” really got me.
It’s crazy.. really omg. And they will still find things to complain about.
"Women get protected and provided for" "are you sure? "
Check the ordinance laws, how many women's shelters against that of men, in a disaster women get same privileges as children. Even you as an individual, if a man and a woman were in an altercation, who is your instinct likely to protect irrespective of size? We can make a whole list.
If you really have to ask that question as a man then you're obviously not doing the protecting and the providing.
@@blackpoptart4781 shes not a man
@@wuuwuu6727 lmao!
You have a good name Craig jones
Recently met a girl that doesn’t wear makeup, is naturally really pretty, is highly Educated and down to earth. she can cook, paint, draw and I ask myself how the hell she’s single.
Unfortunately men want things they can’t have and there are allot of “Untraditional” women because short term it’s rewarded, if you want a girl like this they do exist but people want what’s easily obtainable.
men if you don’t want “boss babes” then simply don’t chase them, most men will though because it’s better to be with someone than no one, loneliness sucks.
In this pov I agree with you. I see men that criticise women who get their nail, make up, hair, all thoses things done. But when I go out all dolled up, I get male attention, invitations to date etc. When I go out with no make up, simple clothes, ponytail, not even a good morning from a sales guy at a store, it almost like I'm invisible (which sometimes is also good haha). Some guys want pretty girls but rejected everything that beauty involves.
exactly. you guys say that you want a normal woman with real hair and no makeup... yet the only time i get attention from males is when I'm all dolled up.
Exactly. Men say they hate high maintenance women but in reality, men vote with their time and attention.
@@yesthatsmycat9919 Check if it's your attitude. I never wear makeup etc, and always used to get unwanted attention. That changed when I started getting pissed off at the world and people, and looking at them like they should be sent to Madagascar. But still, when I'm in a good mood and forget that society, the world, and most people are fucked, I suddenly start getting comments and smiles etc. You might portray better vibes when you're done up because you feel more confident or more sociable or whatever.
@@lj0727 Another reason this could be, is that they are less intimidated by women who are all dolled up, because they're signalling that they want random men trying to pick them up. Whereas, men might feel awkward and rude giving attention to women who aren't sending these signals. Make sure you're looking approachable and friendly, and respond well to men making small talk comments as these often lead to further comments, conversation, and compliments, but not if you're rude to their initial try to engage you.
I'm a traditional wife. I got married at 22. We waited until we were married to have sex. I'm a homemaker.
When we got married, he was in his 20's and was still building his career. Our budget was tight at first, but he is intelligent, has his MBA, and is a very driven and ambitious man. I knew he would do whatever it took to build his career and provide a lovely life for us
I was frugal, especially in those early years, and we lived a very simple life. But now, we have been married for 12 years and his career is doing amazing. We live way below our means and have disposable income now. We have built a beautiful life together, but it took short term sacrifice for long term gain! Every sacrifice was worth it. Sacrifice builds character.
We have an amazing marriage. My husband is my best friend and the person I love most in the world. He is loving and kind. He provides and protects me. He's an excellent decision maker and is so smart. We have the best most interesting conversations and we love to listen to audiobooks together. We have such a great life.
I can't imagine if I had had the same mindset as so many of these women she's talking about. Had I been unwilling to date him because he was "average" as far as income went I would have missed out on being with a man who loves me so deeply and would do anything for me. And for what? Temporary pleasures?
This comment should be pinned. Bless you and your family!
If you had decided not to date him, that would have been your decision and yours alone to make. Women make decisions all the time for their own reasons, and they don't need to justify them beyond "it's not what I want right now."
And if a woman decides not to date a man because he's not rich enough, that is her right and he can happily move on with his life knowing that he dodged a bullet and find himself a woman who cares more about other things.
Not every man is set for greatness. Some men need to sort themselves out before they think about marriage and that is not up to women to do for them.
A "born again virgin" straight bars😂😭
lol
What is born again virgin lol?
@@HMD1986- someone trying to start over after fucking too many nobodies
@@HMD1986- a girl who slept around during her best years, giving it up to everyone else but you - you have to hold out, develop a relationship that merits a marriage, and THEN you can have her sloppy seconds.
@@jbc242424 😭🤣🤣😂😅
“you should know they don’t love you they love your life style” Lloyd Banks said this about 10 years ago still true 🎶
And that's why I married my wife. She agreed to marry me when I had very little. She has always been supportive of me and I of her.
@@jasonmorrill3701 Smart Move 😎
"The physical presence of a female's the form of a demon
That's why I, fuck 'em and leave 'em
Get my nut while I'm breathin' " Lloyd Banks, verse 8-Mile Remix
@@jasonmorrill3701 you are blessed brother
@@jasonmorrill3701 lucky basted lol. Smart man
From the way y’all reacting I’d say she hit a nerve 😂
A hit dog will holler. You know the truth was spoken when you hear all the reactions that don't even address the point made, just noise because their feelings where hurt by the truth
Nah, she is just full of shit
😂😂😂
MASS-TRIGGERING!
LOL.
She hit nerves and all the feelings got hurt 😂
Im a traditional woman, I clean, cook and take care of my family and home! But Im also a bad b thats in love with the lifestyle! Yes sis, get you a man that makes more than you. If my man cant get it I go get mine bc Im also a bread winner in my home, Im independent but I can depend on him bc I can and I want to. I want both!
I met my baby when I was poor. She came from a rich family. She joined me and moved 2000km away to a foreign country with me. We were surviving at minimum wage for only 1 or 2 years. Later I got pretty rich. Now we have 2 baby boys and a third is on the way. She never went out to do her nails. I love her like I love my kids. I never could wake up and not love my kids. She is my family. She is the backbone of my family.
You won the ultimate prize there mate that's how it should be moneys don't mean anything in a traditional relationship it's making do with what you got when you have to then sit back and celebrate when you are better off...
If it's traditional you should be happy with a roof and a full belly as long as you are together...
Beautiful!
@@UrbanMatts that's basically what he said he did 😂 🤣 💀 go home you toxic troll
@@joshuacarr6865 get off your ass and go make some money Josh
lucky you. congrats
Whenever I listen to those kinds of relationship podcasts I feel like these people are living in a different universe.
Just showing their true colors and it's crazy how many people think these people say amazing things a broken clock is still right 2 times a day.
What exactly is she saying that’s so crazy?
Exactly. Its like they live in L.A. around a bunch of social media influencers and think that the shit they see around them is indicative of how the average person in the U.S. lives. I know far more married/taken people than I do single. I know so many men who have low to average paying jobs that have wives/girlfriends. Most couples live in normal sized homes. The average woman does not expect a mansion. The average woman just wants a normal happy relationship with a normal man in which they are a true partnership, not him thinking hes above her or treating her like his subordinate. Most women also work so acting like women should still do all the cooking/cleaning/childcare when they work full-time too isnt realistic or fair. Sorry but "traditional" women didnt work or pay bills. The man was expected to pay for every single expense. Yet nowadays if a woman says she expects that shes called a gold-digger. So do men really want traditional or not? No, most who talk like that only want it when it benefits them, ie being waited on hand and foot at home, having their wife run herself in the ground doing it all, etc. I'm so glad I'm married to a normal man who loves me and views me as an equal. We are a team. We both work, both cook, both clean, both take care of our child, etc. It eases the load all around when you share in each role. He cant expect me to be happy, mentally healthy, and in the mood for intimacy if I'm carrying more of the load.
Well if you think that thiers traditional women out their, your the one living in an other universe
@@CARLTONSCACHE Your a clock 6 hours off, your always wrong
As a woman, I don't wear makeup, get my nails and hair professionally done, and I don't wear anything flashy or fancy. I wear jeans bought at Walmart, t-shirts, and sneakers, daily. My husband makes less than I do, and we've been together for 14 years. I love his companionship, and what we have, we've built, together as a team. So, no, not every woman wants that lifestyle; many of us prefer real. If that means I'm somehow not a "real woman", so be it.
Ur such a queen
Married 14 years so you’re probably not from the generation that she is talking about and also there of course are women who don’t care about the lifestyle but the sad truth is that most of them will choose a lifestyle over companionship
I prefer a woman who's comfortable with her natural beauty, I've never cared for the war paint
I like to wear fancy and do my makeup, and I love skincare.
Obviously you are a great woman that us men appreciate. However, she is not referring to you but rather the modern women who often say they need no man unless he checks impossible boxes.
Boys keep your money. These 304s ain't worth it.
I'm in a successful relationship, over 20 years now and still in love. This is so true! All my girl friends can't say the same, not even my own mother. I went for love and companionship. I have a modest lifestyle and as I watch my friends struggle with their expectations, I just become more and more certain I made the right choice, and he feels the same. ❤️ Our children get to see what real love looks like now too.
Is it open relationship?
I bet you don't say this to their faces
any pointers?
any pointers=?
Awesome, good work figuring that out. That’s the key right there.
What she is describing about the man “making more”, and “living a lifestyle” IS a traditional woman. This is how the traditional lifestyle is and how it’s always been. The man is the breadwinner and provides that lifestyle for his girl. I would say nowadays most relationships are 50/50. And most of the girls I know want to be considered an equal to their partner.
No matter what it is ultimately the man's responsibility to bring food on table. And females themselves want man to uphold this duty. So with this high obligation on the man's shoulder, how can there be equality?
Wohmen want a traditional man, when Wohmen are the exact opposite of traditional, they always want their cake, and to eat it to. TAKE TAKE TAKE & USE.
@@johnmcaulay8448 feel free to date men
@@subhradeepghosh8263 "men and females" 💀💀💀💀 then you wonder why you can't get a girlfriend
@@SilverstreamPJ28 how do you know he can't get a girlfriend? Or you just talking to make yourself feel better?
She is rare as a unicorn. Protect her at all costs.
this is not a traditional world...
Exactly
Damn a man wouldn't want a woman who knows how to pay bills and take care of herself aka "boss bitch"? Okay 👀
She is a pick me
@@debkass9718 pick me's get picked
Im a traditional virgin woman in my 40's in asia. And I have lots of female friends who are like that because that is in my culture.
Ladies, you can be traditional if you want to. You can work and be conservative at the same time.
Which girls are y’all meeting 😢 communication and companionship are what’s most important to me
She’s basing it off of young adults on TikTok living their 20’s like they should instead of getting married and shit. Like some people just don’t want to be married let alone in a relationship.
Yeah she lost me. Ppl like that are immature to think they should get what they can't/won't give
@@borngaga95 but isn’t that the end goal!?!? Nobody was born into the world to not have companionship love a life partner…. Like the saying goes “there is somebody for everybody “
@@_SevenKay
Sadly, for a great many men, some women too, that isn’t always the case.
@@taw1967 what!? The point of being is to love one another
“The average salary can cover an apartment “. This statement shows how out of touch she is. She’s a pick me girl and it looks like it still hasn’t paid off. 😂😂
Thats what Im saying! Lmao she says just about what men complain about. Shes not actually seeing their perspective and offering no type of real advice to help them. She boosting egos. She saying be equal, and be a housewife... thats not traditional. Sadly a big part of life is finance these days, so its unrealistic to not wanna support each other as best as possible. We def not surviving on one paycheck, of an average salary.. and me being a housewife and dont even add kids lmao but I guess as long as you got somebody to drown with, why not? Here I was thinking that the key to success was staying afloat smh.
If your salary is not covering an apartment rent. You either live in an area you can’t afford or you are broke af
@@loisa2458 she is saying why we are so addictive for luxury lifestyle
What century is she referring to the average salary -???may be in the 80’s🤔🧐🤔🧐🤔🧐????
She voices her opinion you spewing names .. modern women point proven.
I am addicted to being single and drama free. Keep your bossy attitude and I will keep my sanity.
Preach On!!!!!😂😂😂
Can be a good lyrics with rap flow yoo 😎😁
people dont know how good peace of mind is, having a partner is treated like a checklist, but i dont wanna be with a person who does not want to be with me, for me. I understand if women want a man for money or height or whatever thing they perceive as important, but than they have to understand that i dont want them.
@@user-dl8xm4kz4i Nothing wrong with that and honestly when a relationship or partner is based on preference rather than the person they are and if you are good a couple or not it usually ends up being a bad relationship because they are with them for the wrong reasons. Everyone has preferences which is normal but if people want a happy healthy relationship and someone who makes them happy then they should put those preferences to the side more and find someone they like for who they are and click with well cuz you can be attracted to someone but that doesn't mean you love them
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I am proud to be a traditional woman. I used to work but my husband pays for everything. He just does, from the day we married.
My traditional grandmothers, great grandmothers all worked in agriculture and farming. Traditionally, the cost of living was always split.
@@angiecr nuh huh
I allowed 2 dudes to take away my lifestyle…My little boys. 😂 I have been with my husband for 12 years and sacrificed my career to build his business and have babies. I’ve worked from home or part time to pay for makeup, hair, clothes and everything for our boys so our ‘wants’ didn’t affect our income. My husband sold his Harley and boat…his lifestyle 🤔 Men & women have a lifestyle they appreciate… the key is adjusting the income-spending ratio as a team. Don’t date based on someone’s lifestyle, just choose someone who is capable of selflessly adjusting their lifestyle.
You have my respect
Finally I have seen two women use thier brain for more then two seconds. This commentor and the girl in the video
That's sad the man could've kept his boat or at least downgraded or something,let your man have a flat- bottom,as a fishermen who hasn't been at sea in a while...I miss her dearly. Don't deny your Husband the happiness that I too have found myself far from as of late.
It's not too late Belle E. Flopp. Every child needs their toy and your man child needs his
You're the exception, not the rule. Congrats to you and the family!✊🏿
This woman always speaks reality...Totally right. She's hit the nail on the head but don't forget it goes both ways. Men want traditional woman that cook clean raise kids but look like models too.... Men need to check their reality as well
Looks has little to do with tradition anyways. Both genders outside of the gender roles would still go for attractive people.
I mean even KIM K said she cooked for Kanye.(it's just about not hunting what's bigger than you).
It's a different thing if they are demanding a woman who is as "sexy" and flamboyant as a supermodel. With top notch skills on bed😂
The fact that her response was to interrupt to say, “what do I get?” Tells you everything you need to know abt the modern woman.
Yea she knows what she gets definitely mad food from McDonald's 💀
Then They brainwash the younger girls that don’t know better into thinking that’s cool. It’s all part of their vicious plan. To Divide and conquer. Seek Lifestyle, provide, consume repeat that’s the cycle of want that they’ve implemented into peoples brains always looking for more
Took the words right out of my mouth. It's unfortunate, but I have a hypothesis of this action. I believe real education (not necessarily a degree, but real knowledge) can help transform people to open their eyes to the BIG picture and learn to listen to understand another person's perspective, not listen to speak. Yet when they do speak, they speak amicably. Not necessarily agreeing to others, we all don't think the same, but debate in a way where one isn't talking down base on looks, money,... but amicably debate on logic. There was once beauty in the way of being real, simple, intelligent, respectful,... I believe we can get there again, but it starts with us.
Excuse my tangent. I just hear too many people (not just women) rush actions you pointed out.
100% what i was thinking my friend SMFH
I was just thinking king the same
Not all woman want that “lifestyle”. Someone woman want an average guy who just loves them.
Yeah i'm so sick of these stupid shorts that bring me nowhere
But i can not seem to get rid of them
A lot of good men have been screwed over by shitty women as often as good women get screwed over by shitty dudes; most everyone is just burnt out by the concept b/c it's not worth the risk of getting hurt all over again. And a whole lot of lack of communication & inability to compromise.
Yeah, but there's like 4 of them and they're already in committed relationships.
That's it?
You women don't ask anything else of the men?
Wow. So hypocritical.
@@jareddemarzo8196 nah there are plenty of women. If you can’t get a gf then maybe your standards are too high or maybe you need to work on yourself and become a man that a woman wants to date.
I work non stop everyday to pay for my apartment and bill all by myself and my car and my dog. I am a independent boss woman and I am proud of who I am just like any woman should be! Stop bringing other women down because you are not proud to be the women you are 🙏
But she isn't doing that. I don't even think you fall under the category she is speaking of. Unless you want a man to do everything for you. All while it's clear you're able to take care of yourself.
Nothing wrong with wanting any lifestyle as far as you can give it to yourself and not expect it to be someone else's duty.
Right like I don't see the problem here? Giving up everything for a partner who's not compatible with who you are or what you want in life is much more of a bad decision. You'll end up being miserable and resenting your partner for it. You're life should not revolve around a man or woman.
Incorrect. It is actually one of the sins.
@@didyouwashyourlegstoday3601 I think you missed the point.
Lol the point she's making is most women want an unrealistic lifestyle and think they deserve it. Go ahead and go earn it then
@@Dr_Diaz Sin is liberation though. Lucifer, the fallen King of Angels, dared to oppose the tyrannical demiurge commonly refered to as "god" because he loved humanity with all of his heart and wanted it to prosper, not be forced into an existence as infantile pets, so he took the form of the snake and lead us to the fruit of enlightenment, which gave humanity the wisdom to understand the demiurges true evil.
This is why religiosu education relies on children from a young age being indoctrinated into believing in god, because it goes against our base instincts, which would acknowledge god as the true enemy of mankind, the one who needs to be broken, enslaved and finally slaughtered for mankind to archieve true liberation.
I like how she categorize woman and downgrades them. Not all woman are the same. I work. I clean. I live with my man in an apartment. I pay for bills. You have to understand that just because you view yourself as "ex ho, ran through, boss bitch/babe" not all woman are like you. A relationship is about companionship but everyone have standards and just because they have standards that aren't like yours it doesn't make you better than them.
It is not standard. A standard is something you can offer to yourself. When you expect someone to do for you, it is not standard, it is prostitution.... Period
@@blatabe So wanting a certain life style means it's prostitution? You do know that there are guys who expect the same when dating a woman too right? It can't be categorized just to woman because men do it too. Dating to preference. If you prefer to date certain type of women and you get burned by it, it's your fault. Are you willing to date down as well? Ofc not! You want to date a girl who looks good, have a nice body and dress nice. Doesn't matter what her point is, girls or guys they look for certain things within their standards.
Exactly. I also realized that while she spoke down to women she put men on a pedestal. They are also hoes who have been run through 🤷🏾♀️ also she hasn’t truly made her point so
@@sleepypandaaaa I made it clear to you. I do want a standard and a lifestyle but i do not expect someone else to offer that to me. I do like fine dining and girls i hangout with also do. My circle can afford it. The girls do not need a guy to go out for dinner in those places. The issue is when people expect others to do it for them.
@@blatabe But what did you make clear? I literally was stating a fact. That all woman should not be categorized into 1 and downgraded because some woman choose to want that life style. I have no idea what you're going on about. Doesn't matter gender. I've seen woman and men both want to be a traditional spouse. I also can afford my own living without depending on a man to do it for me. If I found someone who is willing to share my life with, then great! If not I still take care of myself just fine. So what was your point?
If you want to be treated like a queen, you have to treat him like a king. It's not 50/50, it's 100/100.
dude i agree but 50 out of 50 is the same as 100 out of 100.
100/100 makes 200 😂
She is Soo right!! Women demand things they don't deserve. Expect things they don't give. And they complain for things they don't have because they don't want to work for it..
You’re right about everything bro. Women are whoring nowadays. Dressing half-naked, party every weekend, emotionally damaged, baggages, broken, have multiple kids with different men, etc. They bring it upon themselves. They never take responsibility and accountability. They bring absolutely nothing to the table.
the arrogant "are you sure" got me
And then look at her ass...like why are you even talking ugmo!🤦🏾♂️
This is all people who cannot think for themselves can say
bruh😪
And the woman who asked that has spent a lot on her body: her hair, make up, etc. Lol
@@matahari2667 she look fat...look at her shoulders and jawls🤣
Traditional woman here 🙋♀️ Married 23 years and it’s a team effort. I could never sit back and watch him work while I go out and spend 🥰
Unfortunately it is pretty much impossible to find a 20 year old girl in the west who hasn't slept with anyone yet
You are, a rare, exception.
You are great he's lucky.
Penny pincher of the house too. Stay at home, and constantly cook and clean for him. My husband has to tell me to let me be spoiled now and then. But I ain't no pick me girl trying to pretend that I'm better than other women. Like they don't work just as hard and care about their families just as much as I do. So please for the love of God don't lump me in with these two.
I am 57 and I have been married to the most wonderful and beautiful lady in the world for 35 years this coming February.
I wish more women would think like that
I agree
Amen brother.
Me too.
Pearly Tate
There is no more traditional women, but we dont have traditional men either.... Im traditional waiting for marriage and all. I know sooo many young women like me. But we cant find one good traditional man who is also waiting for marriage and a virgin. We get guys who cant keep a job or finish a degree, who slept around. And then say lets split the bills 😂😂
The saddest story is when a woman gives her traditional self to a man and become totally dependent on him with no safety net and then he leaves her behind. Society is seeing it now how these women who married young, had no other education or job experiences and now 20 years later is a new divorcee and don’t know how to start over.
women: "i want a guy to subsidize my laziness"
men: "FOH"
Damn when you say it like that it makes women sound like evil overlords
Nawe…. This girl is traditional all rite…😂🤣
And the best comment award goes to...
@@rakeemsmith8289 bruh🤣🤣
Dead right. On your bike 'babe'.
How do I always end up watching these videos….
Algorithm
It's 🤢 sickening. Life is hard 🙂 enough.
🤣🤣🤣
Right😭😭😭😭 take me out the gc
😂
"I want all of the groceries put into one bag, but i dont want the bag to be heavy!" - Mrs. Skinner 😂
@@hiddenleaf2 Bro you serious
@@scuvastebe5778 I’m sorry
Yup, that's the logic we're dealing with. I want to be equal to a man but I also want him to be superior to me. Guys are like... What?
@@codygeer7096 so, go for the second option and be superior and talk some sense into that woman
@@hiddenleaf2 Don’t be sorry my guy, it’s all good 😊
So women have to settle for nontraditional men because its not "realistic" but men shouldnt have to settle for nontraditional women? Right 😒
It is such a red flag when people bring up behavioral flaws in society but associate them with only one gender like bruh 🤦🏿♀️
"Born again virgin" is actually hilarious 🤣
Some girls actually belive it can just be forgotten 💀💀
Bless with holy tadpoles.
100 miles of di** ran through them yet they’re a virgin now LOL.
Can someone explain what that Is 🤔
I literally do my own hair, my own nails, I can I sew, I crochet. I do all the house work, and cooking. While still maintaining a job. I gave up friendships to make this happen. Sure Bill's and provisions are good but I can provide that for myself as well. What I cant create on my own... companionship with loyalty and a soft touch. Theres a reason females got this way.
The reason females got that way, it because they feel that they all can relate to one another. I mean, I am pretty sure that there are still a lot like you around. But there are also women and girls that thinks that they can relate to you and that's the problem.
Being independent is great. But having a relationship that's gonna last requires sacrifice and commitment, and if you're not willing to do that then you're gonna be very lonely.
@@charlesharrison4953 I have been in a committed relationship for 4 years. Currently going through struggles because I'm a giver with little boundaries. Hes a taker with little boundaries. You are right though. Relationships take sacrifices. From BOTH parties. Once one partner feels like a servant and not a partner you have a problem.
@@sherrijamison338 I'm not trying to pry but is he a boyfriend or your husband ?
@@sherrijamison338 Toxic relationships and people are not good. It's not easy to meet traditional men but they find it hard to meet traditional women too. You won't get any closer while you're in a toxic relationship. If that's really what you're in.
Everyone and their aunt have a podcast these days.
And yet here we are
But! IS she wrong? NOPE
Stay mad
@@benitocamela174 anger is a pointless emotion, it doesn’t live here.
💀💀💀true
Yes but traditional man goes with traditional woman. Things don’t happen overnight, neither men or women are 100% wrong or right. I constantly see here people attacking women, saying they are not a women enough. But we live in a world where no one is enough for anything. All these so called men who are looking for a traditional woman, spend hours playing video games, don’t own a property, a house, a field, livestock, they don’t build. That is a traditional man. Not some dj, or influencer, podcast bot, online gamer. He is a man who takes care of his family and provides for them.
All this stuff makes me appreciate my girl way more , we get married in 11 months and have been together 7 years. When we first met two months into our relationship we lived together because we both were going into college and wanted out of our parents house ( pretty stupid but lucky it worked out) less then a month later she had to get a life changing hip surgery and i took care of everything. And she went on to have 6 more hip surgeries( hip displascia or how ever you spell it) and i took care of every bill everytime she couldn’t walk for months + . Then cut to me losing my father and my twin brother 7 months apart, i was a hallow human who just wanted to die, i could barley eat or sleep, lost my job and was going to kill myself. But she returned the favor and payed for our living during the time, helped me get out of the worst place i have ever been in my life without hesitation. Even when i reclused myself from my friends and family she was by my side every day no matter what. I couldn’t ask for a better life partner. She is the best thing to happen to me and it should not have taken me 7 years to marry her but it is what it is. And I can’t imagine my life with anyone else especially in this day and age of “boss betches” and train conductor hoez . She has been nothing but loyal and I couldn’t ask for anything more then that. Im on my way to creating a million dollar business with one other person i work with and i cant wait to treat her to anything and everything she wants in the world because she deserves nothing less! Chose your woman wisely, stop giving these ratchet girls your attention and they will switch up or get left to live with cats !
Im good
Imma comment so this can get to the top. I call on others to do the same.
You both have good morals. Hope you guys have a great life together ❤️
Glad your here still man that suicide shi ain’t no joke
Glad your here still man that suicide shi ain’t no joke
Your speaking for yourself. Most Men also want this “lifestyle” and more then one woman at a time. There are good woman just like there are good men who haven’t fallen into this trap 🪤 May we stop caring how the world views us that’s the start to a good life what doesn’t fit into society!
Your wrong just stop giving your opinions if they are complete shit. we want happiness something special that nobody has just like she said if you want anything else your fake asf and 90 percent of this world has no morals no respect no rules in life obviously your one of them
@@brandonshawler9732 How you speak classified you as one of them “immoral” You can say I’m one of the good men who haven’t fallen into this trap. I want happiness over what this world has to offer. Simple, done... but your response says your one of the hostile men who can’t think straight or accurate. I’m not your enemy.
Female Andrew Tate isn't real, she can't hurt you
Female Andrew Tate:
🤣🤣🤣🤣 you on point here ☝🏼
She is so full of crap. Every woman is not protected.
@@serene2414 she didn't say every women is protected. It's your fault if you choose shitty men
You must be a kid
@@serene2414 She's saying you still can get the traditional man who protect and give provision today vs what you get in a woman which is non traditional woman.
I went significantly down in lifestyle, no dishwasher anymore, no laundry in apartment, I do his hair and mine etc. but I fell in love and that was worth way more than "lifestyle". I would live in a cardboard box with this man, he is my best friend the love of my life and I wouldn't trade that for anything in the world.
I just re-read my comment and felt I should clarify, the reason I went down in lifestyle is because before covid I had a comfortable job and we had a good combined income, when the schools shut down it was supposed to be 3 weeks and my boss was ok with that but then schools were out till the end of the school year and I wasn't able to work from home in my line of work. So he works very hard to make sure we have a roof over our heads and I would never think of "trading up" to "improve" my lifestyle. I would much rather weather the storm with the man I love.
True love.
Fairplay Saoirse, good Irish name 🇮🇪
Good for you! The beauty of the 21st century is that we can all live life how we see fit. If this makes you happy, then that's how you should live your life!
OH I just died on youtube tonight... must've been something you said...
That's much different than what she is talking about. Your lifestyle changes due to your employment, not because you got with an average earner
It's not that controversial what she just said. It's like saying "the sky is blue" and then someone saying: "Part of it is purple during sunset!"
The "born again virgin" killed me.
😂😂😂
Yea they could probably identify as a virgin after they been ran through.
Same
@@kbgibson ran through by nasty men.
Imagine that crap!.. "Born again virgin" 🤦🏽♂️.... Only women could come up with such condescending phrases!.. Smh
I had a coworker ask me the other day if I was going to date someone or get married. The only thing I could manage was laughing as I walked out the door. I'm 54, financially comfy, and have zero ideations about inviting someone else to fuck that up.
Do you have a pet or a plant Something that you can take care of?
You're a boss. You're a real man that takes care of himself. I'm in a similar situation. Dated a lot in the past to know I'm more content by being single.
Believing someone else will fuck it up is your chosen mindprogramming whilst limiting yourself from experiencing authentic unconditional love.
@@susiemac6295 I understand and partially agree with what you say, but I've seen all the divorces that happened to my group of friends. Ultimately, a man has to make a decision whether he is willing to take a risk. Marriage is a risk. Theres a risk of it not working out and possibly putting a man's way of life in disarray. I'm mainly talking about financial implications and risks.
@@susiemac6295 having an awesome girl by your side is really nice, I'll give you that. However, that same girl on a whim can ruin an entire marriage and family with almost the push of a button. I'm not giving ANYBODY, man or woman, that type of power over me and my livelihood
" we want this lifestyle that ain't even realistic these days " She nailed it.
Sadly they want it because they have seen it happening in social media, so they start to think they are entitled to it aswell. "If she can have it, so do I" slowly turning into "I should have it"
I mean the only thing that's new is pretty much the nails
It is realistic, but in a slightly different format. He could for example cover the bills while she does house labor and uses her paycheck (from her part-time or easier full-time job) to treat herself.
That paycheck can be a soft pillow to land on should he lose his job too...
That way both parties get the lifestyle they want essentially without hurting the others autonomy.
Just an example...
No, we want to have a say in our lifestyle. Men don't get to make all the decisions. Because they aren't the only ones contributing.
@@auralay2497 why do you assume that all women out here have easier jobs or careers than men? What planet are you living on?
Social media has ruined everything. People post photos of hired Lamborghinis and photos of them on the beach like they’re millionaires when in reality they don’t have a pot to piss in. It’s called having a champagne lifestyle on lemonade money. It makes everyone think they can live beyond their means.
"The average salary can cover an apartment" BARELY.
There was a study about 8 years ago that 80% of renters in my city spent over 50% of their income on housing. Banks consider the reasonable cost of housing to be around 30%. Which means most renters were living above their means on housing alone.
@@sweetseve1150 tying in with both your post and OP, a recent study in California looked at the cost of housing across the state; they found that in order to be able to afford just a 1 br apartment in Santa Cruz, the renter would need to make $165,000 per year..
@@sweetseve1150 That is really sad to hear. I really hope the housing issue gets better soon, it's getting crazy
For a man . . . yes. For a gold-digger . . . nope.
@@SineEyed 😳😳😳 WHAAAAT! A person hafta earn six figures to rent a one bed apartment? Insanity
"The average salary could cover an apartment" 🤣🤣🤣
Do you know what “salary” means?
Barely
@@deebrown7160 Barely for people living above their means. Depending on the state you can with no problem.
Yes if you don’t waste money on bullshit hair, nails, makeup, new tits, face lift, Botox, eyebrows, manicure, pedicure, Amazon shopping, you’d be surprised how much you can save
Not in California
Their favorite question is “are you sure”. 😂
Fr, they need to reevaluate the "men" they date
cus she’s wrong
@@ciaras3170 incorrect
@@ciaras3170 I hope that's not you in your profile picture
@@ciaras3170 shes not wrong. More women are like this than not
For richer or poorer….I said those vows and meant it. Being poor doesn’t negate happiness.
Honestly I don’t even care about traditional women anymore, was happy with my dog 🐕 😢. RIP Ashley 2007-2021
Based mgtow
I rlly hope ur not saying this in a zoophile sense bc what does the dog have to do with finding a "traditional woman" and what is the connection here
@@gostupid8376 lmao 💀💀
Sorry for your loss man!
Awwww
Wow, sometimes this feels like a window to a world that is so different of mine. I am happily married for 22 years. Most of my family and friends are. We have moddest lives, go out, go to a restaurant, get to work. Most of the wifes work less than the guys and take care of the children. At Sundays we go to church. What a nice relaxed life we live 😂😂😂
Yessss♡
different generation, less destructive influence with a far better economic situation thats why it worked in your generation. Sadly this generation watched while all that made their lives good got destroyed
@gxl5548 Netherlands
I see it all the time. Is what is pushed on the telly. Not the majority.
@@peterwubs5663Netherlands, that's why. Most women around the world are normal and decent and don't have those issues that she is talking about. What she is describing are American women and also Americanized British women. American women are the worst form of females on earth.
Hmm. I have businesses, am financially independent, but still a traditional women. I cook for my family, I take care of my house, and I married a man that had nothing financially to give me but everything emotionally. Not all women are the same.
“What do I get?”🙄I can’t stand that shx
She gets ran through
Always about what they GET not about what they PROVIDE.
You get a little brown dog.
Then the nerve to say “are you sure”😅 F me
"you get what you deserve" 🤡