While funny, it is absolutely true. I am 28, got a daughter that is 9 now, and i am deathly scared that she will end up hooking up with people that act like i did when i was younger. Thankfully i think i know the manwhore tips and tricks, considering i was one for many years.
And the other one didn't even have that fragile of an ego to get angry. I can't believe thats the worst man he ever encountered and if he is, well this dude has very cool people around him.
@memecat I mean Modern women tend to go after boys who are raised only by a single parent, mostly a mother. So the men that most likely have never had a father figure, to begin with, and worse, they are never around men who will act like it to them so the cycle continues. My father is the kindest man I know, taught me how to shoot, how to have patience, and to be a kind human being. My mom tried to teach me to be a victim, to hurt those who hurt me, and to never fully trust a person even a friend (When they both separated). I don't hate my mother, but I noticed my sister was the same with her kids, my cousin was the same with her child and it's just something I noticed. We need both parents to make a decent human being, single parents make a monster 80% of the time. That or never have a country parent marry a city parent XD
I raised three girls. I gave them permission to defend themselves, we talked about the facts of life early and often. My girls could come to me for anything, even if they thought it would be embarrassing. I taught them to respect their sense of self-worth and to never give any part of themselves away to anyone who didn't deserve it. I have three well balanced and independent daughters who make me proud every day.
WHAT EVER WORKS AT ANY MOMENT .AT ANY I MEAN ANY TIME IN LIFE LIFE DAUGHTERS AND SONS I WILL ENFISIZE SONS ALSO BECOUSE THIS IS WHAT I WOULD HAVE WANTED IN MY LIFE. A PARRENT, THAT REMEMBERS HOW DIFFICULT IT IS TO MEET AN EXPECTATIONS TO THE ONE THEY LOVE THE MOST. SO SAD NOT TO talk about the world today.
To talk about what is in the world today with an open mind ,honesty, and confidence. Children should always be able to find their parents throughout and in like a NINJA(nijilism) .
You sound like my Dad. He taught me well. I've been married for 53 yrs. to a wonderful husband and father. I retired as a Major. Yeah, I can shoot too. Thank you for being like my Dad. He was one of the greatest fathers in the world, a member of the First Blue Angels Squadron, and a fabulous husband for sixty-seven years. 😊🎉❤
"Tell your daughter you love her 'cause if you don't someone who doesn't will & she'll believe him." A simple and short sentence, full of wisdom and compassion. Sir, if all girls have had a father like you, I think our crazy world would be a much more better place. God bless you.
I've seen a white fat dyed hair Australian feminist who have a loving father still make bad decisions and unmarried. One don't need to tell their offsprings that they love them but guide them to make wise decisions and responsible for themselves.
"Tell your daughter you love her because if you don't, someone who doesn't will and she'll believe them" is one of the wisest quotes I've heard in a long time.
@@Dk-hx2zv it's really hard to offend a guy friend, me and my friends say nasty things to one another and we're just laugh it off, of course there's a line that we shouldn't cross while joking with each other
@@Chad-bc9vi True. Especially if you know each other, you can insult him in the most terrible way possible, but he will just do something back to you and laugh it off. Don't do it with strangers though.
Well done. I wish my dad would had been like you. Your daughter's will be so proud of you, and you will have their love and trust of your life, best gift ever. Good man. Congrats.
Honestly everyone needs to be told by any type of parental figure that they are loved, and shown proper respect and care, because that shapes how they view their future relationships and gives them standards for friends or romantic partners.
@@AnimangaGirlChii You laugh but it's sad really that love, respect and honesty are too big of expectations for an adult grown man to fulfil in a relationship with an adult grown woman. Seems like we need to raise our boys to be men in stead of overgrown children, huh.
I have identical twin girls who are still young. I hang onto every word you say about rising your daughters. Thank you for these tips. I hope to raise my girls with the sense your girls have Today.
Honestly that bit about "Tell them you love them, or if someone who doesn't will, and they'll believe them." Is good advice for any kid. How your parents treat you as a kid really sets your expectations and standards for what you deserve from others in the future.
as a former kid i confirm this fr and the video you should teach your kids to never lie to you and tell them to stay away from people don't watch porn and all other stuff my own mother teach me a lot of these things and they all have saved but she did not teach me don't watch porn its harmful so i got into it and it was very bad for me but i did not ever use cigar even tho i was the only among my Friends but thanks to my mothers advise which she give me every day i am not addicted to cigar unlike half of my Friends there and i ask you to teach your kids to be careful about peoples kids as they might be bully as well that they might try to Assault sexually assault which they did to me but i was saved cause they not run after me and they were thinking i wont tell my Family but i did that sometime later we moved from there to Afghanistan my home country peace from Afghanistan.
Something my dad said when my sister brought a guy home for the first time still sticks with me. "No I'm not going to threaten him, because I respect you." Your daughter is capable if you raised her to be, she doesn't need your protection all the time, but if she gets hurt she does need your comfort and support.
@@tylernielsen3319 can vouch for this 🥲 my parents were super non-accepting of my current boyfriend and we've been through soooooo much shit, i can't even begin to explain; just because they believe they are right and.. ?? I honestly don't know what goes through a person's mind when they think its okay or justified to threaten someone that their child has chosen to love. And yeah, it's completely ruined our relationship. I can't talk to them the same way anymore, can't fully respect any of their opinions (Im still super respectful to them, just don't have any faith in any of their beliefs/opinions anymore), and my mental health (while already pretty shitty) took a DIIIIIIIVE 😂💀📉 Love your children, parents. In an unconditional, unselfish way that allows you to see them as individuals in their own right, with their own (STRONG) thoughts and emotions. Empathize with them in every way you can, because all of what you do as a parent has a major impact on an individual coming into the world.
And the flipside: that after getting burned by so many partners who lied to her about loving them, she won't believe it when someone who sincerely does tells her they love her. Signed, a child of parents who only saw "love" for how much they could get from their offspring.
As someone with daddy issues this hits hard. I'm really glad there are people like you out there. Thank you for being cool and supporting your daughter.
Good fathering. It's rare to see these days, but it's good to know there's good fathers out here protecting amd caring for their daughters I'm making sure that they don't end up with the kind of men that wouldn't love or respect them as people.
I want to throw in another piece of advise as well. As the daughter of a military vet and now cop father if ever you have a bad day at work and your in a bad mood, Take a long drive and difuse before coming home. Because if you go home you will explode at some point, she will be around and that will make her want to stay away from you instead of coming to you during hard times.
U are so right!...... but then u have parents who say that, but will flip out and make the situation worse bc u told them instead of being supportive & helping them even with the consequences. Then the child starts to realize that being open and honest with parent(s) maybe isn't a good idea..... thus the solitary teenage life begins.
"Tell your daughter you love her 'cause if you don't someone who doesn't will & she'll believe him." The basic truth of this statement broke my heart & made me cry.
Yes but he got one thing wrong, partly. You show your daughters you love them because if you just say it then when someone else says it they will believe it, too. If you SHOW them and say it then when the person only says it and doesn't show it, they will discern the truth and not waste their time on lip service. Too many parents get this wrong and then wonder why their kids end up with classical and covert narcissists and other BS, user types. The answer is they fell for it because it was familiar, their childhood idea of love that their parent.or parents portrayed.. Prioritize your kids and they will not waste time on people who cannot and will not reciprocate! Don't spoil them with praise once in a while and ignore them the majority or they will seek that in a spouse without even knowing and those types will find them so quick and get their hooks in easy. Also, It is CRUCIAL to Treat your spouse the way you want your Kid's spouses to treat them! Role model it with actions and not just words or if you can't then get out of the way for someone who can if you want your kids to have their best chance in life.
@@MurakiChiyo I mean it's kinda sad even if someone else who genuinely loves them but is a stranger. Yet the parent who raised them never uttered such foul words.
Daddy so important! I selected the best dad by looking at his friends, sister and mother and how he treated his cats! Best caretaker for the animals and respectful to his sister n mother! He adores the girls 🎉
I love that also. Sad that there are those wrong sort of guys to begin with. I don't know why their behavior is even tolerated by good men, but it's great when good men like this one do their best to love, protect and educate their daughters.
@@kenv9191 the idea is to teach them how to tell the difference between sincere love and insincere ones. Of course if the dad does it right and truly cares for his daughter.
Yeah. Me too. I had a narcissist, drunken man child for a father who never moved out of his mother's house. He was never in my life and all of my relationships were based on his dysfunctional perspective of love and life. May God bless you and help you find peace, self forgiveness and warm love.
Best advice I was ever given as a father was “they’ll treat each other and their future partners the way you treat yours, so show them what a loving husband and a good father looks like”
One thing about man whores is that they are pretty honest to themselves, they know they are trash for the situation they are in and are will to share trade secrets to help become like them or to avoid becoming like them lol I had 5 friends who fit that bill and they did just that (share what they know and experienced with so I can make an informed decision)
I got chills at the “tell your daughter you love them, because if you don’t, someone else who doesn’t will and she’ll believe them”. If more fathers heard those words there’d be way less women who live for the validation from men that they never got from their fathers because their fathers didn’t know how to be emotionally available towards their daughters since their fathers probably weren’t that way with them.
this goes to show how impactful a parent’s role can affect their child’s life. i’m glad your daughters have a dad like you, everyone deserves to have this connection.
@@kashviruparelia9464 I have bpd and I was loved and influenced by not very good people that found me during a rough time when I was younger, so I'm glad this guy actually knows what to do haha.
True that. I'm almost 29 years old. Male. Grew up without a dad and the differences between someone raised by a man and myself is drastic. I'm pretty much comparable to a 22 year old. Behind on so much.
You're right that is a real man. But with all due respect you're a woman and you don't get to talk about what makes a man a man as if you know what it's like. You don't see me calling girls who don't get abortions real women because that is their choice. I believe in gender equality and you clearly believe yourself to be superior to men based off of your statement assuming what it is like to be one. You are clearly a misandrist and I find it disgusting.
The fact the Manwhore guy was so blatantly honest shows a bit of character in him that I can respect. It takes a strong character to be able to tell the honest truth even if it's negative against yourself.
Men are this way because they have no other options. They have no other options because women choose to sort themselves out into harems. The wrong guy is the loser resorting to manipulation to get what he wants.
Whenever I see dads who genuinely care about their daughters like this and actively make sure they're being a good father... It makes me tear up a little 🥺
@@CharlieCabralos rightt fr tho, a father/parent who cares and is active in their kids lives should NOT be noteworthy. That should be standard and bare minimum
I know a lot of girls who's father's were the exact opposite and one of the most important stories I could tell is this one friend I had in middle school. We were around the same age(probably 15) and had similar interests so I went over to her house for the first time and the conversation led to talking about our families, she started crying after I told her that she deserves better and I asked if she wanted a hug, she proceeded to cling to me the whole time until I had to leave. She was so amazed that I actually listened to her and didn't get annoyed at her for being emotional and I'm 100% sure she would have done anything I asked her to if I had ulterior motives. So many girls don't know how to react when a guy is actually interested in their personal life or touches them in a non sexual manner (like a genuine hug) because they've never experienced it before and it makes them vulnerable to getting hurt or manipulated.
Thank you for being a genuine person and man, I hope many young and old men learn how to treat others like this and teach their children and brothers the same!
Oh ya as a kid growing up I was taught you only go to a guys house or hang out in a non public place is sexual. So now meeting new people and trying to have good relationships with guys I feel weird and literally don’t know how to act. Even tho We are both not interested there’s always that feeling that it can’t just be a friend ship. I will never do that to my daughter.
A message to those who read this, and to you: please, if you find these people, make sure to not only support them emotionally, but to bring their personality up so that they don't continue with this mentality.
Im a man and never had a dad to tell me that he loved me. Ive always wanted a father figure and im happy to know that your there for you daughters, Thank you for not being a bad dad 👍
The wisdom in this video deserves more than 2.7 million likes, but I'm so glad at least 2.7 million people heard it. You and your wife are blessed to have each other and your daughters will be better off because of it. God bless yall
As a teenager who's father is only present physically and very little emotionally, thank you. Your daughters will never know the pain of not being able to talk to or do stuff with their dad Edit: I am so very sorry to everyone who has similar experiences with one or both of their parents. I sincerely appreciate the kind words too. I know my relationship with my parents will likely not improve due to certain circumstances, but I hope all of you are able to improve your relationships with your parent(s), and if not then I hope you can find a father/mother figure to be there for you and show you what love from that certain missing person feels like. Thankfully I have a father figure in my life, he and his wife have taken me under their wings and treat me like blood, allowing me to stay over sometimes, work for them, babysit their biological daughters, have dinners with them, etc. I am extremely lucky to have found someone like that, and I hope all of you do as well. If anyone ever wants to talk, I'm always here 😊❤️
I feel you. My father was the same way my entire life till he finally just left when I was 14. Which was the best since he was a narcissistic abusive ass but I’m getting away from my point. My point is even if he’s not there emotionally still just having a father even if he isn’t fully present is better than not having one at all. Trust me I know it sucks but it really is better than nothing. I really don’t like my father but honestly just knowing I had one even if I couldn’t come to him for anything it still helped.
Maybe you can help me understand something. A bit of a story so bear with me. I have a niece who will be turning 16 in a couple months. Her father, my brother, committed suicide when she was an infant. She was adopted by a woman who was single so no father figure her whole life except my parents who could visit her a number of times over the years. My wife and I finally saw her this year twice. I was very happy to see her and I'm pretty sure she was happy to see me. I suspect and correct me if I'm wrong but I believe she very much wants to know me and is happy when I'm around because I'm the closest thing she has to her father. My wife told me she told her I'm more normal than my parents so I guess that's good lol
@@madphatdopeyo742 i know for me it’s always nice having a male role model in my life and does make me happy because it makes me feel like for even a moment that I do have a dad. Whenever I see anything about a dad being happy with his kids it’s like a stab in the heart cause I know I never or will ever have that. So I’m sure when she sees you especially being the uncle it’s kinda like she is drawn more to you because you’re the closest thing she’ll ever have to a dad. If I could give you advice just please try to always be in her life as much as you possibly can. With everything I went through with my own father both before and after he left made me suffer really really bad depression even a few years later. So it’s made me push away the only father figure I have.
Not the same situation, but my dad passed when I was a teenager. Absence (of any kind) of a father in his daughter’s life can be a hard wound to heal. I pray you find healthy and good hearted father figures to encourage you and speak truth to you when you need it, and that your father wakes up to how precious you are. Hang in there, it does get better ❤️
This man is truly blessed because his way of thinking is unique and one of a kind. In this world you have followers and leaders . Which one are you ?? When you play your role in life to the best of your ability then your conscience is clear for a good night's rest. 🙏💜
A girl went to a party where she was having a good time until everyone started using drugs. She told her friend she needs to leave immediately. Her friend said: “Why? Are you scared your Dad’s gonna hurt you if he finds out?” She replied: “No. I’m scared I’m gonna hurt my dad if he finds out”. 💔
This can be applicable God being the Father who is telling His daughters that He loves them and also He helps them to be united with their rib mates - husbands sent by Him to them and not with counterfeits.
@@rickykozak58 , first, please speak civilised. Secondly, yes, spiritually, this can be a message from the Heavenly Father through Ruah ha'Kodesh- Holy Spirit, but obviously it's not for you. Shalom and have a blessed day ( P.S. learn to see and hear with Holy Spirit's help beyond natural images and words 🙂)
@@gsp4prezit’s not exactly telling her that he loves her, but getting advice to know how to keep his daughter away from men who fool around, the advice being “don’t neglect her and she’ll know who actually loves her.”
If you've tried to fix things and he hasn't done his part, then be at peace because you've done your part and thats all you can do. If not, then do your part and see what happens. Either way, you'll be blessed and have an answer whether than be in limbo. Hang in there and God bless you.
You summed it up nicely! I taught mine martial arts and told them I would risk going to jail to protect them. No one was going to manhandle or abuse them. I have 4 married daughters with great husbands. It’s good to be former military. It makes the guys think twice. My wife and I set the bar pretty high. They know they are loved and respected and it is reciprocated. Nothing is more powerful than that of a great example. We are truly blessed and so are you Nick! Proud grandfather and great grandfather now .
My parents are divorced and that part where he said "tell them you love them or someone who doesnt will and she'll believe them" hit so hard. I never really saw my dad that often growing up, probably once every few weeks. Then he got a girlfriend, had 2 kids, and moved to the suburbs. So of course, I see him every few years now. He never once told me he loved me. But I watched him say it to his kids. Now I have to sit there at his wedding in 6 months and watch him say it to a woman he met 6 years ago. You're a good father, I wish I had one like you growing up.
You don’t gotta go to his wedding and bring that hurt upon yourself. Choose yourself, you deserve your happiness without him . He’s chosen his already. Too many fathers never realize how much their children really need them until they need their children to be there for them. Not everyone deserves to be a parent or even should.
@@michaelahenshaw4344 OP didn't bring up their mother but meantioned enough to imply that the relationship probably ended poorly and slowly. Most guys have to completely cut ties to keep from getting emotionally blackmailed by the one in control of whatever they are hoping to build. With parenting that means not saying what you want to or need to say to your kids so that thier mom doesn't use to as a knife later to twist in you.
So sorry to hear this. Tell your dad one day how you feel please. He needs to hear it loud and clear. And, also you don’t have to be there for him if you really don’t want to. Your feelings matter also.
😍 This is spot on! My stepdad raised me and I didn't have an involved father before him. He sent me Valentine's gifts to school and had 16 roses delivered to class on my 16th birthday. He took me out often, just me and him, to a nice restaurant or a movie and listened to everything going on in my life. He taught me I had value and to respect myself. I wasn't perfect, but I was not running around with boys like my friends. I wasn't looking for validation because I had that. My husband is wonderful and loves me the way my daddy loved my mama because he set the bar watching how he treated her and us. He's my guiding light because he didn't have to be, but I felt better about myself because he wanted to be my father, even if my bio dad didn't. He always treated me equally to my siblings that came after me, and I'm so thankful for him. That is what a father is, steadfast and constant! ♥️
Amen! My dad did this and I don’t know what my life would be like if I didn’t hear that he loved me and tell me that I could tell him anything. I learned what real love and trust was from my dad.
🫡🫡🫡🫡 salute to you dad. those lessons will be with them forever....even when they have little girls of their own Daddy's girl here who is 31 raising her own daughter and trying to teach her the good way, the right way.
I miss my dad. He always make sure that i always feel loved. It balanced with my mom who makes sure i'm unworthy lol. He passed away, and i'm thankfull for him cause if i have a one more parent like my mom i'd be desperate for love
My parents divorced when I was two, but he worked so hard to always be there for me. I'm glad you have given your girls the love and support they need. ❤️
@@ItchiestBum the mother, i took her to court and earned 50% custody where I essentially have my daughter for half the year now although our realationship is great I want to know what to maintain
I love that you went straight to a man who you had hoped your daughter would not encounter her own version of lol, I wish my dad had protected me from his friends who treated women / girls poorly instead of introducing me and allowing them to treat me badly as well. Your daughter is a lucky girl and I can tell you’re a great father ❤ We need more of you:)
My parents were naive enough to believe that people like that would never end up remotely close to their daughter. But they grew up before the internet and I grew up on the internet. It's gonna happen. If you're not honest with yourself about what your kids can be exposed to, they'll still be exposed to it, but they won't be prepared or know how to maturely handle it.
@@ashleybroening6933 same feeling but different circumstances, my parents were very much the same way. My mum had a friend who's kid almost commited suicide and that friend said "I had no idea he was struggling, you should talk to your kids and make sure they're okay" and my mum responded "my kids are fine, they would never do anything like that." At that time I had been struggling with clinical depression for nearly a decade and self harm for about half that time. Parents like to imagine that these bad things could never possibly happen to their own kids but like you said it is just naive.
As a father with daughter issues I wish I had a daughter like you..I’m kidding I just wanted to see how weird that sounded I love my baby girl and I hope you find peace !
As a girl who has a dad like you, know this: 1) We're more thankful than all the "thank you's" we give💕 2) You will ALWAYS have a home with us, and we will give you dessert first when you're old- because the rule is "just don't tell Mom".🤷🏾♀️ 3) It doesn't matter who we said our best friend is- you're the best friend. 👨👧
I'm barely 20 years old but reading this really inspired me to become the best dad possible when the time comes. I mean I had already thought about it, giving someone what I never had, but reading this made me realize that yeah, I want that someone to be my baby girl or boy someday
HAHAHA I'm sorry! I'm sorry! But as an erotica writer, a daughter having the rule "Just don't tell mom" with her father has an ENTIRELY different meaning when I read it lmao I'm still laughing! Very sweet though, very sweet, when I become a father I'll do my best to be one that is truthful, honest, and supportive.
"how do i protect my daughter from someone like you?" cracked the shit out of me 😭💀💀
But that’s literally so smart. Players lowkey make the best fathers because they know what to help their daughters avoid
Players are masters at spotting broken/insecure women
@@donquixote3292 the best fathers but not mothers
While funny, it is absolutely true. I am 28, got a daughter that is 9 now, and i am deathly scared that she will end up hooking up with people that act like i did when i was younger. Thankfully i think i know the manwhore tips and tricks, considering i was one for many years.
And the other one didn't even have that fragile of an ego to get angry. I can't believe thats the worst man he ever encountered and if he is, well this dude has very cool people around him.
“Also taught them how to shoot just in case” best line period XD
Definitely! 🏆
Other countries: I gave my daughter a pepper spray, tazer....
Americans: I taught her how to shoot, just in case 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@xc4945 best father I’ve ever seen XD.
@memecat I mean Modern women tend to go after boys who are raised only by a single parent, mostly a mother. So the men that most likely have never had a father figure, to begin with, and worse, they are never around men who will act like it to them so the cycle continues.
My father is the kindest man I know, taught me how to shoot, how to have patience, and to be a kind human being. My mom tried to teach me to be a victim, to hurt those who hurt me, and to never fully trust a person even a friend (When they both separated). I don't hate my mother, but I noticed my sister was the same with her kids, my cousin was the same with her child and it's just something I noticed. We need both parents to make a decent human being, single parents make a monster 80% of the time.
That or never have a country parent marry a city parent XD
Except he didn't say the he said "I taught him how to shoot" which is weird thing to do as a thank-you for advice.
Man is out here doing what most dads fail to do. tip my hat to ya sir.
I misread hat as hair
@@adains8819LMAO
Spitting out straight facts, my guy!😎
Most mom's are failing to be role models out there, that's the problem. Not dad's lol
@@jkuhedei think it’s a reasonable variety of both. These comments having “most” is unnecessary
I raised three girls. I gave them permission to defend themselves, we talked about the facts of life early and often. My girls could come to me for anything, even if they thought it would be embarrassing. I taught them to respect their sense of self-worth and to never give any part of themselves away to anyone who didn't deserve it. I have three well balanced and independent daughters who make me proud every day.
Your daughters are definitely lucky to have you as their dad 😊
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WHAT EVER WORKS AT ANY MOMENT .AT ANY I MEAN ANY TIME IN LIFE LIFE DAUGHTERS AND SONS I WILL ENFISIZE SONS ALSO BECOUSE THIS IS WHAT I WOULD HAVE WANTED IN MY LIFE. A PARRENT, THAT REMEMBERS HOW DIFFICULT IT IS TO MEET AN EXPECTATIONS TO THE ONE THEY LOVE THE MOST. SO SAD NOT TO talk about the world today.
To talk about what is in the world today with an open mind ,honesty, and confidence. Children should always be able to find their parents throughout and in like a NINJA(nijilism) .
"How do I protect my daughter from someone like you?" 💀💀💀
His mate was on point tho, damn. 💀
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That Wass actually a good person to ask like the old saying goes to catch a criminal you have to think like a criminal
@@orestisveseli1603 I doubt he actually asked that. Especially before the daughters were even born or old enough to even be thinking on that level.
@Monkey D Luffy Lol Oda level foreshadowing.
"She's a girl. Figured she might know some things. She did." This sparked joy for me.
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You sound like my Dad. He taught me well. I've been married for 53 yrs. to a wonderful husband and father. I retired as a Major.
Yeah, I can shoot too. Thank you for being like my Dad. He was one of the greatest fathers in the world, a member of the First Blue Angels Squadron, and a fabulous husband for sixty-seven years. 😊🎉❤
"Tell your daughter you love her 'cause if you don't someone who doesn't will & she'll believe him." A simple and short sentence, full of wisdom and compassion. Sir, if all girls have had a father like you, I think our crazy world would be a much more better place. God bless you.
protect them from @hicouples
I've seen a white fat dyed hair Australian feminist who have a loving father still make bad decisions and unmarried. One don't need to tell their offsprings that they love them but guide them to make wise decisions and responsible for themselves.
"Tell your daughter you love her because if you don't, someone who doesn't will and she'll believe them" is one of the wisest quotes I've heard in a long time.
Im actually in tears from that
Absolutely!
And it souns pretty much true
Learned from experience and that is true
My tears fell when he said that actually😭😭😭
"How do I protect her from someone like you? " Beautiful
Aye w to the buddy atleast he didnt get super offensive and ignored it
@@Dk-hx2zv it's really hard to offend a guy friend, me and my friends say nasty things to one another and we're just laugh it off, of course there's a line that we shouldn't cross while joking with each other
@@Chad-bc9vi especially a military guy
@@candle_eatist maybe, but I think it's just guys in general
@@Chad-bc9vi True. Especially if you know each other, you can insult him in the most terrible way possible, but he will just do something back to you and laugh it off. Don't do it with strangers though.
Well done. I wish my dad would had been like you. Your daughter's will be so proud of you, and you will have their love and trust of your life, best gift ever. Good man. Congrats.
“And I taught her how to shoot”😂😂😂 what an American thing to say.😂😂😂
Murica 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🦅🦅🔫🔫🔫
"Tell her you love her because if you don't some one who doesn't will and she will believe him " 💀 i need that
I hope the best for you and your future. I’m sorry for what you may have been through I’m life and I hope it gets much better each day❤️
Honestly everyone needs to be told by any type of parental figure that they are loved, and shown proper respect and care, because that shapes how they view their future relationships and gives them standards for friends or romantic partners.
I am SO with you on that ❤
I guess that would go for every guy who wants to be called 'daddy', even the ones who do love their girl.
honestly 💀
"Young woman that had a high expectation for love, respect, and honesty." That right there is the key!
You forgot that they can shoot 😂
What respectable women truly are
He forgot to say that because of those high expectations they are single cuz no man is a match 🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@AnimangaGirlChii I am a match 😂👌
@@AnimangaGirlChii You laugh but it's sad really that love, respect and honesty are too big of expectations for an adult grown man to fulfil in a relationship with an adult grown woman. Seems like we need to raise our boys to be men in stead of overgrown children, huh.
"Also taught HIM how to shoot" (like in the subtitle) sounded like the ultimate plot twist 😂❤
I have identical twin girls who are still young. I hang onto every word you say about rising your daughters. Thank you for these tips. I hope to raise my girls with the sense your girls have Today.
I have identical twin 14 year old girls ❤❤
Honestly that bit about "Tell them you love them, or if someone who doesn't will, and they'll believe them." Is good advice for any kid. How your parents treat you as a kid really sets your expectations and standards for what you deserve from others in the future.
as a former kid i confirm this fr and the video you should teach your kids to never lie to you and tell them to stay away from people don't watch porn and all other stuff my own mother teach me a lot of these things and they all have saved but she did not teach me don't watch porn its harmful so i got into it and it was very bad for me but i did not ever use cigar even tho i was the only among my Friends but thanks to my mothers advise which she give me every day i am not addicted to cigar unlike half of my Friends there and i ask you to teach your kids to be careful about peoples kids as they might be bully as well that they might try to Assault sexually assault which they did to me but i was saved cause they not run after me and they were thinking i wont tell my Family but i did that sometime later we moved from there to Afghanistan my home country
peace from Afghanistan.
@@Nima-ec4tr 😂
@@Scuffy what about this is remotely funny? The internet is weird.
@@SquashBits I'm guessing the "as a former kid" line
@@pepsy3085 bruh everything, from the a former kid to the Afghanistan
Respect man. Teaching your daughters how to find the right guy is way better than threatening any guy she brings home.
Something my dad said when my sister brought a guy home for the first time still sticks with me.
"No I'm not going to threaten him, because I respect you."
Your daughter is capable if you raised her to be, she doesn't need your protection all the time, but if she gets hurt she does need your comfort and support.
Ye and how to shoot, don’t forget the important part.
Amen brother. If you threaten the boyfriend it'll scare em away and mess the relationship up between guy and girl and girl and dad
@@tylernielsen3319 can vouch for this 🥲 my parents were super non-accepting of my current boyfriend and we've been through soooooo much shit, i can't even begin to explain; just because they believe they are right and.. ?? I honestly don't know what goes through a person's mind when they think its okay or justified to threaten someone that their child has chosen to love. And yeah, it's completely ruined our relationship. I can't talk to them the same way anymore, can't fully respect any of their opinions (Im still super respectful to them, just don't have any faith in any of their beliefs/opinions anymore), and my mental health (while already pretty shitty) took a DIIIIIIIVE 😂💀📉
Love your children, parents. In an unconditional, unselfish way that allows you to see them as individuals in their own right, with their own (STRONG) thoughts and emotions. Empathize with them in every way you can, because all of what you do as a parent has a major impact on an individual coming into the world.
Sorry for the long comment 💀😬
You are one heck of a dad!😂......you are awesome!
I wish I had a dad like you.
“How do i protect my daughter from someone like you?”
Hilarious🤣
"You couldn't even protect yourself!"
"Draw your blade..."
That’s an honest relationship right there
it's very true
It's a genuine question for sure.
You can't. No matter how great of a Dad you are, you will not be able to protect him/her from predators.
"Tell her you love her, because if you don't, someone that doesn't will, and she'll believe him" absolutely
And the flipside: that after getting burned by so many partners who lied to her about loving them, she won't believe it when someone who sincerely does tells her they love her.
Signed, a child of parents who only saw "love" for how much they could get from their offspring.
As someone with daddy issues this hits hard. I'm really glad there are people like you out there. Thank you for being cool and supporting your daughter.
Wow that broke my heart
Worked on me. Now I have all kinds of trauma to rework and therapy bills.
@@noonesaccount6675 you just remember the first word in that phrase and make sure you know it's his fault entirely. 100% his and only his fault.
Good fathering. It's rare to see these days, but it's good to know there's good fathers out here protecting amd caring for their daughters I'm making sure that they don't end up with the kind of men that wouldn't love or respect them as people.
I want to throw in another piece of advise as well. As the daughter of a military vet and now cop father if ever you have a bad day at work and your in a bad mood, Take a long drive and difuse before coming home. Because if you go home you will explode at some point, she will be around and that will make her want to stay away from you instead of coming to you during hard times.
“Tell your daughter you love her bc if you don’t, someone who doesn’t will & she’ll believe him” oof that hit hard.
Frrr
Right in the heart
Its probably the most real and usefull advice ever
that's straight up the most appropriate way to prevent your daughter to have daddy issues
Yep, this is the biggest advice everyone must know. Tell the ones you love that you love them.
it's the "you can always tell daddy the truth no matter what" for me, we need more parents like this man... comunication fkin matters
Open communication is EVERYTHING
Trueeee😩
When you have thoose man you leave them for Chad Thundercock....
You won't be seeing much of that in black households because of corporeal punishment
U are so right!...... but then u have parents who say that, but will flip out and make the situation worse bc u told them instead of being supportive & helping them even with the consequences. Then the child starts to realize that being open and honest with parent(s) maybe isn't a good idea..... thus the solitary teenage life begins.
Dad, you couldn't have done a better job. Be proud. I have this kind of father, and in my 67 years, it has and continues to serve me well!
Its giving good dad. It makes me happy.
"Tell your daughter you love her 'cause if you don't someone who doesn't will & she'll believe him." The basic truth of this statement broke my heart & made me cry.
Yes but he got one thing wrong, partly. You show your daughters you love them because if you just say it then when someone else says it they will believe it, too. If you SHOW them and say it then when the person only says it and doesn't show it, they will discern the truth and not waste their time on lip service. Too many parents get this wrong and then wonder why their kids end up with classical and covert narcissists and other BS, user types. The answer is they fell for it because it was familiar, their childhood idea of love that their parent.or parents portrayed.. Prioritize your kids and they will not waste time on people who cannot and will not reciprocate! Don't spoil them with praise once in a while and ignore them the majority or they will seek that in a spouse without even knowing and those types will find them so quick and get their hooks in easy. Also, It is CRUCIAL to Treat your spouse the way you want your Kid's spouses to treat them! Role model it with actions and not just words or if you can't then get out of the way for someone who can if you want your kids to have their best chance in life.
@@amandachilds5290 gotta hol essay
@@Mxppxt is that too long? I mean most people don't click the "read more".so the first sentence is what really matters, right?.
@@amandachilds5290 nah I'm just making jokes it's all good lol
@@Mxppxt cool. No worries
He has the wholesomest friendship with his military friend.
Always will be a whore in your unit. My guy got penicillin prescribed so many times he was facing disciplinary actions from the higher ups lol
To the video creator. Your wife is a woman, not a girl. That’s condescending and sexist.
@@DX-d wtf
@@DX-d didnt ask
@@DX-d uhhh what?
I have seen this multiple times, TH-cam keeps recommending this great video to me!!
I really cried while im hearing this..
“Tell them you love them, because if you don’t. someone who doesn’t will, and they’ll believe them”
Such a good line, Ima steal that
1k like- but yeah
You probably won't ever need it
Atleast quote correctly 🤦
I don't need that now. I probably won't need that for a while. But someday that line will come in handy!
@@MurakiChiyo I mean it's kinda sad even if someone else who genuinely loves them but is a stranger. Yet the parent who raised them never uttered such foul words.
Basically “Don’t give them Daddy Issues”
And teach them how to fight for themselves. ✊
Yup.
Daddy knows daddy cares now back to work
And daughters are lesbian 😂😂😂😂
Daddy so important! I selected the best dad by looking at his friends, sister and mother and how he treated his cats! Best caretaker for the animals and respectful to his sister n mother! He adores the girls 🎉
I alway's tell my daughter I love her. Mum and daughter bond.❤
This video made me cry so much and made me understand myself much better. Thank you
“Tell them you love them or someone who doesn’t will.” ❤
Also teach them to shoot just in case
I love that also. Sad that there are those wrong sort of guys to begin with. I don't know why their behavior is even tolerated by good men, but it's great when good men like this one do their best to love, protect and educate their daughters.
That's some sound advice.
Kinda makes no sense actually. Sounds nice, but what you say to your daughter doesn’t stop someone else from saying the same thing.
@@kenv9191 the idea is to teach them how to tell the difference between sincere love and insincere ones. Of course if the dad does it right and truly cares for his daughter.
Sounds like my Dad. He made me the woman I am. I miss him everyday since his passing, but everyday I feel him in my heart and make him proud.
What an insightful man you are!! Hats off to you!! Too many fathers just don't care and their daughters suffer greatly. Spread the word.
As a girl who didn't have a dad around and also as a person who was looking for love in all the wrong places...this is true!!!
yeah exactly true😓
I'm sorry. I know how it feels. I had abusive parents. I hope you are doing better now.
So many of us have trauma from our father's not being there to protect & love on us in a non-sexual weirdo way!
Your not alone.
God bless you 🙏 ❤️ 🙌
Yeah. Me too. I had a narcissist, drunken man child for a father who never moved out of his mother's house. He was never in my life and all of my relationships were based on his dysfunctional perspective of love and life. May God bless you and help you find peace, self forgiveness and warm love.
Damn I felt that
"I thought he was about to say the second person was me"
- His mom
💀💀💀💀
🤗
Lol
Aww ..we always get left out...they seem to think we don't know...or we aren't in the know
@@coveredbychrist54 I'm guessing he probably doesnt have a sister lmao
Good on you dude especially with the last part
Love the “Taught em how to shoot”. Just in case “. lol 😂🎉❤
“The first person was my wife, Tina, cause she’s a girl.” Amazing line, love it
"Figured she might know some things. She did." What a shocker. XD
@@IzzyKawaiichi lol
Loved it too
Such a good dad. He studied BEFORE the test!
Yeah, that’s how you study.
Do you study during the test?💀
@@Mozarella_king bro delete this comment pleaseeeee for your dignity
@@Mozarella_king not too late to delete brother
@@Slenderkllz you dont know how silly you're being
no shit are you gonna revise after?💀
Wonderful Tips! I really hope your daughters know how much you love them. 😊
Best advice I was ever given as a father was “they’ll treat each other and their future partners the way you treat yours, so show them what a loving husband and a good father looks like”
Yes! I believe a good father is a good husband first and vice versa!
imagine someone coming up to you like "yo how do i get my kids to stay away from people like you" lmao
slay tho
One thing about man whores is that they are pretty honest to themselves, they know they are trash for the situation they are in and are will to share trade secrets to help become like them or to avoid becoming like them lol I had 5 friends who fit that bill and they did just that (share what they know and experienced with so I can make an informed decision)
woahh
ong😭
😭😭😭
Honestly I'd be pissed, I know I WOULD be a bad influence to kids but still
Best father in the world be like: "also I taught them how to shoot, Just in case."
You okay GMD?
POV america
Okay
Yeah bc that's what makes the best father in the world 🙄 get your priorities in check.
@@saladnander3690 boo hoo
I shared this message in church today as as way to remind people we need to be accepting of the Saviors love so we aren’t lead astray by the world
Good advice Nick! My daughter is 33 & a day doesn't go by without me telling her that I love her!
“Also I taught them how to shoot just in case”
This is the most AMERICAN statement i’ve ever heard 🤣
Right hahahah
And for all non American dads- how to make it hurt and get away
We all should be able to do it. Why "only Americans" should have the good sense to do so?
That’s racist
@@RamiAli0821 bffr🤣
Nick: How do I protect my daughter from someone like you?
Army Friend: I’ve been preparing my whole life for this moment.
666th like
Army Friend: I've been preparing my whore life for this moment
🤣
😂
Lol
My dad also taught me how to shoot and also how to box. ❤
Excellent advice for daughters!!!! You're a great father.
What a great dad, seriously hope my future kids have a dad just like this.
Can you read You're comment again for me real quick I'm doing homework right now
Just realized you're a girl
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@@biology9810 you're not the only one who thought 🤣🤣🤣🤣
I am... So when we having kids-
I told my daughter “nobody will ever love you as much as I do, but someday, someone else’s love will mean more to you”
Awe, that actually made me cry. My father's love still means more to me though. 💙
What a beauty of a phrase!! 🔥🔥
I cried reading this
😭😭😭😭😭😭
I just cried omg
Such a wise and caring father, truly admirable. Great advice for all parents out there.
the last one is brilliant 😂😂😂😂
I got chills at the “tell your daughter you love them, because if you don’t, someone else who doesn’t will and she’ll believe them”. If more fathers heard those words there’d be way less women who live for the validation from men that they never got from their fathers because their fathers didn’t know how to be emotionally available towards their daughters since their fathers probably weren’t that way with them.
That was literally the best parenting advice I've ever heard
damn, what a weakness. that sucks :/
@@stevispevisclips4429 what the fuck
@piztah *thats* what im saying. dont get me wrong. im being empathetic to the cause.
Or your dad just ghosted your ass when you were 4 months old and died in your 20s before you ever got to meet him, like me.
this goes to show how impactful a parent’s role can affect their child’s life. i’m glad your daughters have a dad like you, everyone deserves to have this connection.
Yess ✨✨, so lucky to have such father , btw childhood trauma is a very big thing , it is a very big cause for bipolar disorder!
@@kashviruparelia9464 I have bpd and I was loved and influenced by not very good people that found me during a rough time when I was younger, so I'm glad this guy actually knows what to do haha.
True that. I'm almost 29 years old. Male. Grew up without a dad and the differences between someone raised by a man and myself is drastic. I'm pretty much comparable to a 22 year old. Behind on so much.
You are really an awesome husband and dad. May the Lord continue to bless you.
What an amazing dad👍
There’s a real man. A good Dad.
Idk why you dont have more likes
You're right that is a real man. But with all due respect you're a woman and you don't get to talk about what makes a man a man as if you know what it's like. You don't see me calling girls who don't get abortions real women because that is their choice. I believe in gender equality and you clearly believe yourself to be superior to men based off of your statement assuming what it is like to be one. You are clearly a misandrist and I find it disgusting.
And a good husband.
Definitely
@@esefo909 wish granted but he should still have more
"How do I protect my daughter from people like u"
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Take away their phones
Frrrr 💀💀💀
@@nickmurray7703 do y’all people don’t talk irl anymore💀💀💀
@@nickmurray7703 lol no
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Nick, Thank you for putting out this advice! Praise Jesus!
As a girl who's father never told he loved her this hits real hard. Thank you
i agree
Same here. I wish my dad valued me when I was growing up but instead he beat me up till I was 20
@@marymusau1662 Sending you cyber hugs, I can't imagine thew damage that did to you. I hope you work through it, sending you love and light
@@kirabozeridahsarah thanks. Much appreciated. I have moved on from that toxic life.
agreed knowing they love you does not ease the pain of never hearing the words. words unspoken are just as painful.
The fact the Manwhore guy was so blatantly honest shows a bit of character in him that I can respect. It takes a strong character to be able to tell the honest truth even if it's negative against yourself.
I'm guessing he was either a marine or soldier with that mentality. Those brothas don't have many effs left to give
Because he doesn't exist...
Of course, that’s that raw uncut military mindset 💪🏽
Men are straightforward i mean real men.
Men are this way because they have no other options. They have no other options because women choose to sort themselves out into harems. The wrong guy is the loser resorting to manipulation to get what he wants.
Hilarious all the way😂😂😂😂😂 sooooo fwding it to my husband. No3 is a feisty girl God help us all 😂😂😂
Whenever I see dads who genuinely care about their daughters like this and actively make sure they're being a good father... It makes me tear up a little 🥺
Makes me wish I had one like that
It’s sad that it seems to be uncommon lol. Pisses me off there a people having children and NOT thinking about how they can be a good parent.
"genuinely care"
@@CharlieCabralos I’ve always said there should be a licensing procedure to become a parent
@@CharlieCabralos rightt fr tho, a father/parent who cares and is active in their kids lives should NOT be noteworthy. That should be standard and bare minimum
I know a lot of girls who's father's were the exact opposite and one of the most important stories I could tell is this one friend I had in middle school. We were around the same age(probably 15) and had similar interests so I went over to her house for the first time and the conversation led to talking about our families, she started crying after I told her that she deserves better and I asked if she wanted a hug, she proceeded to cling to me the whole time until I had to leave. She was so amazed that I actually listened to her and didn't get annoyed at her for being emotional and I'm 100% sure she would have done anything I asked her to if I had ulterior motives. So many girls don't know how to react when a guy is actually interested in their personal life or touches them in a non sexual manner (like a genuine hug) because they've never experienced it before and it makes them vulnerable to getting hurt or manipulated.
Thank you for being a genuine person and man, I hope many young and old men learn how to treat others like this and teach their children and brothers the same!
Oh ya as a kid growing up I was taught you only go to a guys house or hang out in a non public place is sexual. So now meeting new people and trying to have good relationships with guys I feel weird and literally don’t know how to act. Even tho We are both not interested there’s always that feeling that it can’t just be a friend ship. I will never do that to my daughter.
A message to those who read this, and to you: please, if you find these people, make sure to not only support them emotionally, but to bring their personality up so that they don't continue with this mentality.
Hugs are the bessttttt. Why has No one caught onto to the fact that hugs make everyone happy!
Your comment is honestly so true and I absolutely love your comment honestly. 💯🙌🏼
Im a man and never had a dad to tell me that he loved me. Ive always wanted a father figure and im happy to know that your there for you daughters, Thank you for not being a bad dad 👍
The wisdom in this video deserves more than 2.7 million likes, but I'm so glad at least 2.7 million people heard it. You and your wife are blessed to have each other and your daughters will be better off because of it. God bless yall
As a teenager who's father is only present physically and very little emotionally, thank you. Your daughters will never know the pain of not being able to talk to or do stuff with their dad
Edit: I am so very sorry to everyone who has similar experiences with one or both of their parents. I sincerely appreciate the kind words too. I know my relationship with my parents will likely not improve due to certain circumstances, but I hope all of you are able to improve your relationships with your parent(s), and if not then I hope you can find a father/mother figure to be there for you and show you what love from that certain missing person feels like. Thankfully I have a father figure in my life, he and his wife have taken me under their wings and treat me like blood, allowing me to stay over sometimes, work for them, babysit their biological daughters, have dinners with them, etc. I am extremely lucky to have found someone like that, and I hope all of you do as well. If anyone ever wants to talk, I'm always here 😊❤️
I feel you. My father was the same way my entire life till he finally just left when I was 14. Which was the best since he was a narcissistic abusive ass but I’m getting away from my point. My point is even if he’s not there emotionally still just having a father even if he isn’t fully present is better than not having one at all. Trust me I know it sucks but it really is better than nothing. I really don’t like my father but honestly just knowing I had one even if I couldn’t come to him for anything it still helped.
Aye bruh ever need someone to talk to we got you
Maybe you can help me understand something. A bit of a story so bear with me. I have a niece who will be turning 16 in a couple months. Her father, my brother, committed suicide when she was an infant. She was adopted by a woman who was single so no father figure her whole life except my parents who could visit her a number of times over the years. My wife and I finally saw her this year twice. I was very happy to see her and I'm pretty sure she was happy to see me. I suspect and correct me if I'm wrong but I believe she very much wants to know me and is happy when I'm around because I'm the closest thing she has to her father. My wife told me she told her I'm more normal than my parents so I guess that's good lol
@@madphatdopeyo742 i know for me it’s always nice having a male role model in my life and does make me happy because it makes me feel like for even a moment that I do have a dad. Whenever I see anything about a dad being happy with his kids it’s like a stab in the heart cause I know I never or will ever have that. So I’m sure when she sees you especially being the uncle it’s kinda like she is drawn more to you because you’re the closest thing she’ll ever have to a dad. If I could give you advice just please try to always be in her life as much as you possibly can. With everything I went through with my own father both before and after he left made me suffer really really bad depression even a few years later. So it’s made me push away the only father figure I have.
Not the same situation, but my dad passed when I was a teenager. Absence (of any kind) of a father in his daughter’s life can be a hard wound to heal. I pray you find healthy and good hearted father figures to encourage you and speak truth to you when you need it, and that your father wakes up to how precious you are. Hang in there, it does get better ❤️
“Tell your daughter you love her, because if you don’t, someone who doesn’t will and she’ll believe it…” why’d this hurt so much 😂💀😅
So much truth though.
Cause it's true...
Im 15 learning how to be a dad for when Im an adult this helps alot thanks man
having a worthy father is one of the biggest blessings anyone can have .
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I lost my father 3 weeks ago
@@ImperiumRomanum476 no reply needed. Everyone just agrees.
@@omarfatthy4893 sorry to hear, bro. Hope you have better days.
Seriously. Without them, we'll likely go down a darker path. God bless every father, including mine.
This man is truly blessed because his way of thinking is unique and one of a kind. In this world you have followers and leaders . Which one are you ?? When you play your role in life to the best of your ability then your conscience is clear for a good night's rest. 🙏💜
A girl went to a party where she was having a good time until everyone started using drugs. She told her friend she needs to leave immediately. Her friend said: “Why? Are you scared your Dad’s gonna hurt you if he finds out?” She replied: “No. I’m scared I’m gonna hurt my dad if he finds out”. 💔
God bless you!
Based reply.
That took balls for her to say that. Hat’s off
Family is the best bond you can have, and to destroy that over some temporary feeling good drug bs then you seriously have some problem
but she wasn't against taking them if jer dad wasn't a factor, she doesn't have internal motivation
“Tell your daughter you love her, because if you don’t, someone who doesn’t will and she’ll believe him.” Best line ever said❤
This can be applicable God being the Father who is telling His daughters that He loves them and also He helps them to be united with their rib mates - husbands sent by Him to them and not with counterfeits.
@@glorytothealmightycreator9548 wtf?
@@glorytothealmightycreator9548 🤦🏻♂️
@@rickykozak58 , first, please speak civilised. Secondly, yes, spiritually, this can be a message from the Heavenly Father through Ruah ha'Kodesh- Holy Spirit, but obviously it's not for you.
Shalom and have a blessed day
( P.S. learn to see and hear with Holy Spirit's help beyond natural images and words 🙂)
@@glorytothealmightycreator9548 bruh🤦
“I must make this video in my truck wearing sunglasses. I must not forget to deepen my voice while I’m at it “
We need More men like this
That guy friend's advice was premium. Like actually, genuinely such good advice
You need someone else to know that you should tell your daughter you love her? Yikes dude
@@Francia-cv9wtit’s most of the video, did you watch it?
@@Francia-cv9wtare you okay? Can this man speak for himself? Bye!
@@gsp4prezit’s not exactly telling her that he loves her, but getting advice to know how to keep his daughter away from men who fool around, the advice being “don’t neglect her and she’ll know who actually loves her.”
@@gsp4prez My brother is christ you missed the point
This hit home. If my dad told me he loved me and meant it, we would be talking.
Go talk before it's too late
@@abhaypatel4292 💯
Go talk to him before it's too late some people wish they knew there dad and have him around but won't ever get that
Do you tell him that you love him? If not, start with that. It is going to be magical.
Or hug him every day. Pick whichever comes easier to you.
If you've tried to fix things and he hasn't done his part, then be at peace because you've done your part and thats all you can do. If not, then do your part and see what happens. Either way, you'll be blessed and have an answer whether than be in limbo. Hang in there and God bless you.
You're an amazing father for taking this advice to heart. It's good advice and others should follow in your footsteps
You summed it up nicely! I taught mine martial arts and told them I would risk going to jail to protect them. No one was going to manhandle or abuse them. I have 4 married daughters with great husbands. It’s good to be former military. It makes the guys think twice. My wife and I set the bar pretty high. They know they are loved and respected and it is reciprocated. Nothing is more powerful than that of a great example. We are truly blessed and so are you Nick! Proud grandfather and great grandfather now .
My parents are divorced and that part where he said "tell them you love them or someone who doesnt will and she'll believe them" hit so hard. I never really saw my dad that often growing up, probably once every few weeks. Then he got a girlfriend, had 2 kids, and moved to the suburbs. So of course, I see him every few years now. He never once told me he loved me. But I watched him say it to his kids. Now I have to sit there at his wedding in 6 months and watch him say it to a woman he met 6 years ago. You're a good father, I wish I had one like you growing up.
I am sorry this has happened to you, Sianna. Big hug.
You don’t gotta go to his wedding and bring that hurt upon yourself. Choose yourself, you deserve your happiness without him . He’s chosen his already. Too many fathers never realize how much their children really need them until they need their children to be there for them. Not everyone deserves to be a parent or even should.
Ahhhh sweet heart.
@@michaelahenshaw4344 OP didn't bring up their mother but meantioned enough to imply that the relationship probably ended poorly and slowly. Most guys have to completely cut ties to keep from getting emotionally blackmailed by the one in control of whatever they are hoping to build. With parenting that means not saying what you want to or need to say to your kids so that thier mom doesn't use to as a knife later to twist in you.
So sorry to hear this. Tell your dad one day how you feel please. He needs to hear it loud and clear. And, also you don’t have to be there for him if you really don’t want to. Your feelings matter also.
😍 This is spot on! My stepdad raised me and I didn't have an involved father before him. He sent me Valentine's gifts to school and had 16 roses delivered to class on my 16th birthday. He took me out often, just me and him, to a nice restaurant or a movie and listened to everything going on in my life. He taught me I had value and to respect myself. I wasn't perfect, but I was not running around with boys like my friends. I wasn't looking for validation because I had that. My husband is wonderful and loves me the way my daddy loved my mama because he set the bar watching how he treated her and us. He's my guiding light because he didn't have to be, but I felt better about myself because he wanted to be my father, even if my bio dad didn't. He always treated me equally to my siblings that came after me, and I'm so thankful for him. That is what a father is, steadfast and constant! ♥️
The Bible says, there is a special blessing for being a dad to a child. That blessing is the love of a child :)
He teach you how to shoot too? 😂
That's love babey!!!
@@itzkong he did lol.
this is giving sussy imposter
Powerful advice
Amen! My dad did this and I don’t know what my life would be like if I didn’t hear that he loved me and tell me that I could tell him anything. I learned what real love and trust was from my dad.
“also taught them how to shoot”
M u r i c a
'Murica!
Fuck yeah
I thought it was always murica
😆🤣
God bless America
That last part was hilarious… “and I taught them to shoot…”
That was dumb.
But I guess it entertained the kids
@@ThePresentation010 goobegarblegord
It’s funny until you realize they’re most likely to be hurt by someone they trust. That’s why the first part is more important.
@@wanderingmercurymarauder761 oh would you just shut it?
🫡🫡🫡🫡 salute to you dad. those lessons will be with them forever....even when they have little girls of their own
Daddy's girl here who is 31 raising her own daughter and trying to teach her the good way, the right way.
I miss my dad. He always make sure that i always feel loved. It balanced with my mom who makes sure i'm unworthy lol. He passed away, and i'm thankfull for him cause if i have a one more parent like my mom i'd be desperate for love
My parents divorced when I was two, but he worked so hard to always be there for me. I'm glad you have given your girls the love and support they need. ❤️
My parents also divorced when I was two. It leaves a mark. Do your best to be you, and not the hurt.
I had to leave my daughter's mom she was narcissistic 😔 any tips?
@@taazzmaann the mother or the daughter?
@@ItchiestBum the mother, i took her to court and earned 50% custody where I essentially have my daughter for half the year now although our realationship is great I want to know what to maintain
I love that you went straight to a man who you had hoped your daughter would not encounter her own version of lol, I wish my dad had protected me from his friends who treated women / girls poorly instead of introducing me and allowing them to treat me badly as well. Your daughter is a lucky girl and I can tell you’re a great father ❤ We need more of you:)
This hurts to hear but my pity won't help so all I'll say is hope your life is going well and joyful!
Stay positive my friend!
@@yuma2528 Aw well same to you! Thank you ☺️
My parents were naive enough to believe that people like that would never end up remotely close to their daughter. But they grew up before the internet and I grew up on the internet. It's gonna happen. If you're not honest with yourself about what your kids can be exposed to, they'll still be exposed to it, but they won't be prepared or know how to maturely handle it.
@@ashleybroening6933 same feeling but different circumstances, my parents were very much the same way. My mum had a friend who's kid almost commited suicide and that friend said "I had no idea he was struggling, you should talk to your kids and make sure they're okay" and my mum responded "my kids are fine, they would never do anything like that."
At that time I had been struggling with clinical depression for nearly a decade and self harm for about half that time.
Parents like to imagine that these bad things could never possibly happen to their own kids but like you said it is just naive.
Hope you and your family do well sister
This brought tears to my eyes ❤️
Last advice got me 😂
as a daughter with daddy issues, i wish i had a father like this
Me too! I've always wondered what it's like to be loved like that by a Dad/Daddy??? I am that girl that believes the creeps that lie.
Same.
like a relationship with a crush should be way more unrealistic than to have one with your own father or father figure, i get it
As a father with daughter issues I wish I had a daughter like you..I’m kidding I just wanted to see how weird that sounded I love my baby girl and I hope you find peace !
@@danielrivera1833 Caught in 4K 📸🤨📸.
As a girl who has a dad like you, know this:
1) We're more thankful than all the "thank you's" we give💕
2) You will ALWAYS have a home with us, and we will give you dessert first when you're old- because the rule is "just don't tell Mom".🤷🏾♀️
3) It doesn't matter who we said our best friend is- you're the best friend. 👨👧
I love this!!
I'm barely 20 years old but reading this really inspired me to become the best dad possible when the time comes. I mean I had already thought about it, giving someone what I never had, but reading this made me realize that yeah, I want that someone to be my baby girl or boy someday
@@NephiylusBaphson When your time comes, I'm rooting for you sweetheart.💝
maybe having kids ain't that bad
HAHAHA I'm sorry! I'm sorry! But as an erotica writer, a daughter having the rule "Just don't tell mom" with her father has an ENTIRELY different meaning when I read it lmao I'm still laughing!
Very sweet though, very sweet, when I become a father I'll do my best to be one that is truthful, honest, and supportive.