The longer you live female free and get used to the peace and harmony, the harder it will be to tolerate a woman in your life! We not only become self sufficient, but spoiled to the lack of stress. It's like being on vacation all the time! It's addictive!!
I have 4 sons 29-39, and they are not even dating. They see women as bad news. They come from a stable family with a mom and dad that have never divorced. Not looking good for the future.
Tell them to learn a bit of Spanish and send them / suggest a trip to South / Central America. Game changer. Just returned from a 2 month trip. Coming back to Australia I now feel disgusted at the quality of women here.
@@8.o.8 You guys are fooling yourselves if you think south america girls are high quality. You're just Chad here, that's all. Women are women (almost?) everywhere. I was typing considering you were american until I read again and saw Australia. So the things are bad there too. Just as I said.
@@fredcavalcante1887Latin women are far superior. Stop saying women are women. Latin women are a higher tier of quality. Have you dated a Latina woman and an American woman? Can you do a side by side comparison for me?
I think most men see this coming, but it seems like most woman still think there is prince charming around the corner for everyone and refuse to lower their standards and attitudes
@@brewcrew5854 I just got 30. I remember I used to be interested with girls since I was primary school until high school. Just I got rejected many times cuz they think I’m weird and odd. So it’s best to giving up.
@@Fearless18-i1f never had girlfriend in my life throughout highschool. Even college until today cuz they think i’m weird to them. It’s fine by me. It’s really peaceful and quiet being single anyway. I used to be social back in the day but no anymore All good things must come to end, right? Just got 30. By the way, it’s my birthday
I just went through a nasty divorce. I gave her everything. The new truck I put 20K down on. I give her 33% of my paycheck while she quit her job, moved in with mommy and daddy 1300 miles away from me. She won’t even let me speak to them on the phone regularly. She kidnapped the kids and then when I text her angrily she used that as justification to get a PPO and make it harder for me to see my kids. They are ruthless fellas. I am a disabled veteran and can’t work. I just had my car repossessed and my house foreclosed on because of the amount of child support. It ruined my credit and I can’t rent near my children. I am now in a position that I have to leave the country, most likely Philippines, to rebuild my credit and life before I can finally make it closer to my children. This is truly insane. Men, don’t ever get married. Women, stop using children as pawns.
As a single man looking at the current single world, I am absolutely terrified to date women anymore. Most women who are single have expectations of men doing everything and them doing very minimal things and looking for an opportunity to pounce on a guy for their benefit. They all seem to have an agenda and I don't remember women having this mindset from 20 years ago, they were looking for a man to marry or at least stay with long term... this is not the case anymore. Its all about getting as much money and possessions as they can regardless of how much it damages a man's life and reputation. Women have made men scared to date them!
Loneliness doesn't kill you. Despite all the nonsense you hear about it being so detrimental to your health. It is the individual's outlook and lifestyle.
The information makes sense. It's tough to figure out if the cause was from growing up in a basic household or being that more people are more independent financially or not at this time.
Isaiah 4-7 New International Version 4 1 In that day seven women will take hold of one man and say, “We will eat our own food and provide our own clothes; only let us be called by your name. Take away our disgrace!”
My wife left me about a year ago, and I've tried dating since. I'm a young looking 62 yr old, tall and muscular, financially secure, generous and understanding, and I've been dating women 45yrs old and up. It's been an eye opener to say the least. The attitude of these women, the self delusion of their appearance, what they think they "deserve" in a man, and how they want us to treat them, without them giving us anything of value in return, is amazing. They also have no idea of what men really want in a women. They often list to me their achievements starting with things like "I'm intelligent, I have a successful career, I've got 4 degrees, and then ramble along the same lines like they are applying for a corporate position!! At the end of the monologue I just look them in the eye and say " None of the things you just said are important to me at all. All I want is a woman who is nice to me. Non demanding. Accepting of who I am. Easy to get along with. Loyal and faithful. Loving and affectionate. That's it! And if you can't do that I'm not interested."
Modern woman think we want a version of ourselves... Sorry hunny.. not interested in your career or your degree. Just be nice, smile, treat me well, don't be crazy and just be understanding, nurturing and loving... thats it. Why is that so hard? lol
I am an old guy, 62...so sad to see that the whole American dream being crushed into nothingness. Between propaganda of wokeness and f nism....we are losing this country...the loss of family unit was key to the destruction...and therefore they have won
It was all engineered but you seem to know it already and yes it is sad. Even if we started to change everything for the better NOW the trauma and mess that was caused may take decades to heal. Just another lost generation that has to pay for what a few rich psychopaths had planned.
@@vknight7497 fight for each other and the women who had to step into their masculine energy. It isn't a fight against feminists. It's a fight against AI based social media propaganda. United we stand. Divided we fall.
I'm a 43 year old man who never married or had children, I also never went through a divorce or had to pay child support, everything in my life is paid for, I couldn't be happier.
Who is going to have to look out for you, care for you or advocate for you when the underpaid ppl in your care home you hopefully can afford decide to molest you? Happens a lot. I'm stressed with the amount of childless boomer relatives I have to look out for, and I won't be able to ensure adequate care for them all. Hope you've made some intergenerational connections to ensure someone feels loyalty to you when you become dependent. Almost everyone does, in the end.
@@stefaniebeh706 - Having children doesn't guarantee they will live near you nor will even want to provide care for you when the time comes. Most people are selfish with their time & lives.
To add to your point. Seems a good majority have kids for the sake of adding to their insurance policy, as a benefit. Which is selfish. @@OC_OUTDOORSMAN
If I were a man, I don't think I would want to get married in today's world. You're married ten years, she gets bored and wants a divorce. There goes half of everything you worked for, plus you have to pay child support and alimony. It's like that song, that's my house, that's my car, that's my kids, that's my dog, she has a new man who now has your life.
I put my house in my father's name and took my kids out of state, then filed for divorce and full custody. I ended up only getting $39 a month for 2 kids the whole time they were minors
Why would men need to deal with entitled 20-40 years old childrens. Women have a biogical clock not men. Men can live alone, women past 35 can't cope with this reality.
@@billmacia-0808 don’t forget those sperm mutations are increased in mid thirties as well. Mens biological clocks also causing disabled kids. Over used men organs are causing infertility. What are we missing out on lol
@@billmacia-0808 Bro 😭Single women literally live longer while married men live longer. A husband dying increases life span of women but Wife dying decreases life span of man as per study. Anyway single life is better
Great choice young man, Mgtow. Here is a post that I wrote that you may want to read: Finally great to see a courageous, intelligent and articulate woman speak the facts, the stats, the truth about the bleak reality of what feminism has brought upon them. I am 72 years old and I am going off again in a couple of weeks to Thailand and other countries to enjoy this incredible world. All I can say to you, young dudes, is to live free, live your life as you want it, because that is the only thing that is truly under your control. Don't sign over your life to a woman and to the government that will enslave you for it and strip you of everything you have worked for to give to her when the marriage ends in divorce ...So, don't get married. Don't cohabitate. Don't impregnate. Don't let feelings control you. Don't spend more than you want to or can afford on women. Protect yourself at all times, women are not your friends. And, have a wonderful life, living free, with peace of mind. If you want that, then go MGTOW! If you don't know what this men's liberation movement is, look it up..MGTOW!!!!!you may want to read:
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
The marriage industry is dying, because men are deciding it isn't worth the risk; Eventually, the divorce industry will also calm down, because the decline in married couples will ultimately follow. The family courts will still be there, to determine child support for single-parent "families", etc., unless DNA testing becomes a mandatory prerequisite to getting child support (which should reduce the dispute somewhat). Men have decided that women aren't worth the energy or risk, and women are competing for the same 5% of men who are happy to Pump & Dump, but won't wife any of them. There are going to be a lot of unhappy/lonely people out there. The good news, is that a lot of cats/pets will have homes.
Dna testing is already nearly always an option outside of less than .05 of situations if the man questions paternity, even if he has already signed the birth certificate. Of you are subpoenaed for child support court, you show up, question paternity, and they court will order a paternity test prior to further proceedings. I have no issue with automatic testing at birth, but it already is a thing prior to child support if you question paternity
Also, I think the biggest issue comes from the fact that today, both men and women are so concerned with going through this list of requirements, like shopping for the right brand of clothing, and trying out different people to see which one they prefer, when that’s not what marriage is or should be built on. There is someone for everyone. But because of social media and our culture, all we see are all these options. Even when someone finds their someone, they friendzone them because they think these superficial things like height, eight, class, attractiveness, etc will make them look good or make them happier than being with their person, and that’s not the case. Anyone who has truly found there person will tell you that it’s undeniable that they are made for each other, but also that they often didn’t expect it necessarily, because they didn’t meet these superficial “requirements” that they had in mind for a partner. We aren’t car shopping here. We are recognizing the spark of our soulmate and deciding to dedicate our everything to them and build a family and life together, something that many people just aren’t doing for the right reasons today even when they do marry
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Yah its funny to hear women talking about how they will get the wrong stick in the end but sadly wants they do it them self they will learn marriage in the west is for them not for both man and women. The young girls don't see what really goes down as they are just being lied to by other women. I mean it should be right there in their faces when you see more single mothers with their kids than the single fathers with their kids.
ok so why everyman in the country want a trad wife or a home maker, when u make too many people depend on u then in the event of emergency whatsgoing to happen to them?
Wait a minute now... EVERYTHING??? 🤔 Some years ago, it was 'only' 50% of everything. Plus, what if she owns more stuff already? => Perhaps time to give some of it to you...
The future will be men eventually setting up an alternative culture within the current structure with bucket loads of cash to spend and they will dictate what sort of women they will allow to participate. But never as equals again.
Yes We are free We are men We want normal women We do not want criminals We do not want to live with criminals We do not want to marry criminals We do not want to have children with criminals We do not want to love criminals We are normal we are normal people We will find normal women somewhere on this planet
Look at the average weight of Americans now compared to 1980s. I am very fit. I do not find un-fit women attractive... AT ALL. The few that are thin or in-shape think that they are beauty queens, even when they are plain at best. They have overwhelmingly high expectations and expect to offer nothing. And they cheat. The situation is grim indeed.
Women will still be spending most of the money regardless, it isn't that women HAVE to be buying "stuff", they can be buying stuff for families. And we still need fun and all, the economy can shift I don't see why not. There is hope, especially with all you bleeding hearts nowadays, people don't stop and think. And frankly, I believe they are brainwashed but we can still reverse it.
I agree. I have a son who has dated several woman and they always become disillusioned no matter how attentive and kind you treat them. Yet they'll run after guys who treat them like crap and jump through hoops to keep these toxic relationships going. Many seem to thrive on drama and enjoy being unhappy. I'll never understand the young women of today. 🤔
Yep these days it isn't love but rather what can you do to please her. Even older people are starting to feel that way. I said 30 years ago I would never marry and it's the best decision I've ever done. Sad seeing so many trapped in such misery. My furry ones don't take much to please, just some treats now and then.
Men are tired. Tired of being shamed for nothing. Constantly being called toxic. Constantly being told we aren't needed. We are tired of it. Woman beat men down so much that fine...it's easier to be alone. Being alone doesn't call us toxic.
Yeah society has promoted that "smash and pass" life style too...just look at movies in the last 30 years, almost all of them show the lead characters in a promiscuous relationship.
@@Tail_sez wanting your partner to change their values, be the source of all your happiness or go against their natural masculine or feminine polarity which most of the times is asked out of the guy... its kinda goofy you are asking when you could literally just look at all the articles and news and watch what is happening against men. like..... have you been living under a rock???
@@sandobando9390To be fair, there are people on both sides who only think about what THEY get from the relationship, not what they can give and provide to their partner. It has morphed into this sociopathic, resource focused mindset...
@@sandobando9390 It was a legit question - especially if there are some people don't follow social trends. There are a lot of them that stumble across the phenomena but haven't put 2 + 2 together. Don't be mean - take it as an opportunity to educate.
I was married 34 years to the same woman, before she passed away. We shared the same values and dedication to each other, no matter the circumstances that befell us. I don't see such dedication in today's young people, who would claim that it's too "restrictive". But, if you have rejected those "restrictions", why are you so unhappy now? Sticking together, thru hard times, adds value to your marriage and makes you appreciate it more.
Thank you for the encouragement! I am 26 and have been married for 4.5 years. My wife and I are on the same page with everything. We hope to one day make it to those high numbers.
@@calebpeters6267 Values are the key. Now, my wife had interests different from mine, but our values were the same. It's been over 2 years, since she passed, and I still miss her greatly. Make sure to spend as much time as possible, with your wife.
@@liftyshifty Someone who loves you and sticks by you, no matter the circumstances. But if you have to ask, there's a good chance you'll never find someone like that.
100% agree. No more making men responsible for divorce. I think anyone getting a divorce should have to pay a court appointed money manager for the life of the kid until support ends. 50/50 all the way then watch how fast divorce rates go down lol
Women never accept accountability for their own actions, it somehow is indoctrinated in them. I've been single for the past 24 years, and it's been the best decision I've ever made.
Kind of a meaningless timeline. If you’re 24, you’ve been NECESSARILY single for eighteen of those years. Nobody knows how old you are, and it’s highly unlikely you made some explicit decision twenty four years ago. Given that you write like someone who barely graduated high school, I’m going to assume you’re 24. And your claim is BS.
@@totwallybaba The key is not coming back. Their are plenty of expat communities overseas so you would still be around Americans. You cash would also go a lot further.
still you can go overseas and enjoy real females. Even if at 74 it is going to be harder to find a 25yo girl, still you can go for a 40yo woman that hasn't wasted herself in her youth.
I'm a 62 years old British guy. My western wife had her own career , paid for nothing , it was all down to me to pay for our lifestyle for ten years. Well, she left , emptied the bank ,and filed for divorce , took everything . My female colleagues / friends ,100% of them said, "you must have done something wrong" , blaming me! They could see that a woman could be in the wrong. I didn't look at women for years then met an Ethiopian lady; an angel. She cares about my happiness and treats me so well and in return I really care for her Bottom line gents there's a rich seam of non-western ladies that still cherish the men in their lives . I wouldn't even look at a western woman now , too tainted .
if she was working, she should have helped paid, and you should have required her to do so. if she didn't want to, then she could leave. i am western and i buy my guy things and help pay for our vacations and rent. I also buy my father clothes because he doesn't have much since he is retired now. I also buy my mother winter clothes and items that she likes. but i have found that western men can be very stubborn and selfish. they also can be horrible at communicating how they feel in a way that is easier to handle. i wish that men would get better and telling a woman nicely how they feel and what they think instead of love bombing and ghosting. and don't get me started on all the western men that get violent when they don't get what they want when they want it.
You are making me think my wife and I should start a podcast because we have two boys in elementary school and been married 10 years and still have a very active love life. Praise God
Young men. Do NOT enter into a long-term relationship with a Western woman, or you WILL live to regret it. Happy are those who can learn from the mistakes of others rather than their own.
Once women had the choice whether or not to marry,women have chosen the latter. Even in traditional countries women are opting out. We no longer choose to be house fraus
It's really what everyone should want. The global population should be 500,000,000. 15 out of every 16 people should be willing to not replace themselves.
@@Rylynn2017 They're referring to the rate at which we consume resources. For it to be sustainable at the rate humans use resources, it's about 500mil. I think if this is orchestrated, that might be one of the main reasons.
Divorce forces women into poverty. Men lose nothing in divorce. They leave their marriages with an earning capacity because they haven't looked after their own babies. Anything that they have to give to their ex-wives, is offset by the contribution a childless woman can contribute to his new household.
Feminism is to blame. Women have no consequences for their behavior and men are blamed for any and all bad behavior on the part of women. Family court is simply feminism in action.
You just don't know them enough buddy. In my culture things still work traditionally to some extent, so women must be loving, non-materialistic and feminine, right? When you compare them to western women, yes. BUT, they often ask for marriage (which is normal), and after you marry them and have kids with them (they insist on having them asap), you're going to see the female version of Machiavelli ahead of you. A woman is a woman, choose the one who chooses you but from what I have seen, and after all what I have read, and with social media and the internet, I wouldn't recommend marriage.
"We know that half will end in divorce" This is why marriage isn't returning. It's coin flip. You have a 50% chance of completely screwing up your life!
Again no, It is not 50% if you considera the relevant stats , from people married ten ago more than 90% ended Divorced. The 50% stats takes in account married people like your granpa and granma
@@Break1815 so you are saying if you only look at marriages in the last 20-30 years the divorce rate is much higher? 90% I know in California it was 2/3 of all marriages end in divorce.
I have lots of friends in their 40s and 50s. All of the guys say they can't find a single person to date because the women in this age group have super high standards that are ridiculously out-of-touch and all the women are lonely and single and say every day on facebook how "I won't settle" and they cry every night alone with their 4 cats. It's more common than people might think.
You really have 2 options: A) find you a young girl, not run-through, without her head full of crap B) go to other parts of the world to find a decent woman. I.e. the east, including Russia and the eslavic countries. Also, A) is much easier if you do B) first.
@@Synth2000women are the same everywhere don’t think that you will be sheltered if you go to other countries social media and dating apps fu…. Everything
They aren’t looking in the right places. I have a lot of single friends in that age group who would love to settle down with a guy who can be a partner, as long as he isn’t a drunk or a cheater, loves her and makes a good companion. Money isn’t a priority to everyone, just the vocal shallow ones.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
@Sunshineheart124to be fair, I see S.E.A. Women as much as gold diggers as US women, but at least their are more realistic for their standards and are not looking for a Leonardo Di Caprio with Bezos's purse to "settle" (just to leave him as soon as then divorce court allowed her to do it with honors)
Men just aren't willing anymore to bust their asses to provide for a family in the hopes that the woman won't arbitrarily decide to walk away with everything and leave you penniless and homeless.
People aren't self sufficient enough to provide for themselves let alone others. Not including external factors leading to poor moral choices and people lives being ruined by industries who don't have peoples best interest in mind (entertainment, media, education)
True enough but the opposite is also true: Men are being financially ruined by job destruction and chronic unemployment. They want to work and support a family but....cannot. Many women are too unwilling to understand that men are being economically destroyed and it is not their fault.
Sadly, a disturbing and accurate description of what is happening and in what direction we are heading. I'm pushing 75 and have watched it all transpire, from the early days of feminism to the breakup of the western family. "Give women the vote and they will become your masters" - Cato the Elder, Roman Senator.
Women want what they want, women get what they want. Especially after the vote, everyone caters to what they want. And the cost of women getting what they want, is the slow collapse of society. The cost is just being bared by the next generation.
It took about 45 years for women's vote to really effect America, they pushed the Democratic Party far to the left into open Socialism and Cultural Marxism.
The unkind, masculine women have the power to be different. It's up to them. Accountability and shame are deflected. It's always someone or something else's fault. The pedestal we have put women on is their downfall. Take the government out of marriage/bedrooms and we may have a chance.
Not just that. Legal liabilities (family courts/CMS) with having children with women have hugely affected women chances becoming pregnant...never mind getting married.
@@Julie-en5lg Short term interests are often not compatible or conducive to long term best interests. For instance: I drank through half of the '70s and all of the '80s. In the short term, I had a lot of good times. In the long term, which is the course of my 67 years, it's had a deleterious affect on my health. Diabetes, for instance.
What young people never learned the old Adages like "Be Careful what you ask for because you just might get it" and so you have. I love that modern women say "I don't need No Man" when everything they use, drive & work with was invented & made by men even the Tampax they use.
Freshly divorcing 43 yrs old father of three (15, 11, 5). Kids stay with me. And she cheated, with a 13yrs younger Chad. Weak people. No hope in this generation. I sm turning to religion, more conservative, in hopes to save my kids. At least kids will be much happier and have stronger morals. Gid save us all.
Mark 12:30-31 (KJV) And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment. And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
I gave women plenty of chances when I was young, but they were all chasing the top 1% of men, so I just walked away. The further I get, the better my life is. Shrug.
There was probably that one women who wanted you but you didn't want her for whatever reason. Just like some of us women weren't wanted by a guy we really liked. It's called "preference"!
@@denesejamerson2356 I can guarantee most of us guys would have never noticed that one just because she wasn't obvious about her interest. Heck, my own mother only got together with my dad after one of his friends told her she had to be straightforward with him, because every other woman who hinted she was into him he wasn't even aware of.
So sorry the pretty popular girls didn't want you. Try humbling yourself and date within your league. Most people aren't that attractive and want someone more attractive than they deserve.
Women on IG are getting hit up globally by men. This is also why women will have an overall bad view on men because so many foreign men will say the trashiest things that US men would mostly never say.
I ain't an expert on any of this, but I do know that women are humans, and humans are capable of being guilty of things. We should never treat any group of people as being totally blameless. That's not to say they are responsible for everything around them, but it means if they do something wrong, it's their fault, not just society's fault
All I can say is I am glad I married a woman from my own generation (born in the late 1960s). She works hard, loves me, appreciates me, and values our marriage above anything. She believes in give and take, and win-win, so we each play to our strengths and support one another when things get tough. For that, she will have my loyalty and support in all ways until our last breaths.
Well, women back then were still sane. If you were born in the 1990s or 2000s, there's a decent chance that you wouldn't have been able to find a relationship. Women today are significantly crazier.
There’s an even more ominous cultural storm cloud coming . . . We’ve essentially told 90%+ of men to die alone, childless and in poverty. 90%. You think these are just going to collectively say “Thank you, sir. May I have another?”
There's far more to a relationship than sex alone. It's beyond your imagination. it was beyond mine, until I got here. This is a wonderful 1/3 century-long marriage talking.
I never married or had children. I earned an ordinary income as a tradesman and, not wasting money, have a net worth of several million dollars. Retired at age 57. Aside from a planned $10,000 campaign contribution for Trump, what the hell should I do with that net worth?
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Started to see it more and more. I dont understand other woman what so ever but sorry real men suffer unnecessarily. Leaving that statement broad. But had to say it
As the video mentioned, 80 percent of the consumer spending is done by women. That means the media, which is sponsored by advertisers selling consumer goods, will be always make women look good. So if there are problems they always blame men out of expedience. Neither the media, nor the govt who want women's votes, will ever lay any blame on women.
But at least she has some understanding of the world, her available choices, and what she must do to in seeking her goals. That sets her apart from some horribly vast majority of her peers. She has a legitimate chance to partner well.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
@@timwashburn8553 I'm sorry for your situation. You need health and money to enjoy the passport bro movement. Just learn to live your live decently, find passions that you like, maybe a escort can help you alleviate the solitude. But live IMHO can be very good even if you stay alone. You don't need woman to be happy.
Man, it's all around us. The West is screwed big time. With the influx of illegals and the crashing birth rate, this country will be beyond recognizable in 5-10 years. I 'm 60 and sound like my dad back in the 70s-80 when he'd say "I'm glad Im old and don't have much time left on this rock because this world is goin' down the toilet"! One the marriage note, I was married for 13 years, divorced in 2005....still single, house is paid off, no credit card debt, not all stressed out, I only have to clean the house once a week. Don't need a woman in my life at this stage .
so you recognize that you're repeating the same scared bs as your dad did when he was your age and your conclusion is "everythings wrong" and not "everything changes and i'm just a scared little guy like my dad and every boomer on the planet". is this really the first time youve figured out that... gasp... everything.. changes.
It's wired in their nervous systems. Kings had harems. Beastlike women always want the top male, no matter if she's just one of 20. That's what most of them are. Just somewhat intimidated wild animals.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Great point and well crafted commented, the Tao te Ching says something similar, “the more rules, the more thieves will appear” and I know your not saying exactly that but we’re supposed to be living in age of accountability but you point out the truth it’s exactly the opposite, and you could say people not being accountable doesn’t make them thieves…. But in a way it does.
The only way you could have a return to traditionalism would be through a true collapse of society, whether that takes the form of most likely an economic collapse or war (or most likely a combination) or I suppose you could have a truly deadly pandemic where you lose at least half the population. But in essence it would take some type of true disaster that would necessitate a return to traditional roles.
Nah, all would take is enough men standing up and demanding the change. Men just need to refuse marriage and it would change. Women would yell and scream but in the end it would change.
As a boomer, I was taught in bad economic times, hemlines go up, as do manners. All I see is mobile phone addiction and pandering to likes or whatever and norming to a fictional 3*6 plus fairytale that must come true. None of this having each others back, through thick or thin. I have given up on these miserable creatures having to agree with the stats that Pearl has stated. May they experience homelessness - because rents are not going down, while shops are placing items in Perspex display cases.
It isn't going to be war or economic collapse, at least not directly. It is going to be population collapse. This will lead to war and economic collapse, but if we don't have the people to do the work society falls apart. China is projected to lose half its population by 2050. Germany, Korea, Japan, Russia, and Italy are all in that same boat. The US has quite a bit more time, so hopefully we can unf**k this before it is too late for the US.
@@darcydicksonI would like that too be true but I agree with OP. It takes the harsh realities of nature to bring back sanity. I think most women do not give two fucks about most men. The men they want to marry they just end up sharing with other average and above average women
Bronze-Age belief systems no longer work for organizing first world countries. It's astounding that rather than face that, conservatives insist on doubling down.
In 1969, at age 19, I observed the PLAGUE of divorce. I decided never to get married or have children. Not worth the risk of social and financial disaster. Now, at age 74 ----- BEST DECISION EVER!
I’m 28 and have pretty much given up on trying to find a partner. I don’t want someone that has an OF or raise another man’s children. I’ve just been focusing on my career and doing things that make me happy but it’s depressing sometimes
Indeed. It's weird to me how so many women basically expect their husband to provide fun + excitement + help her regulate her emotions + make her happy.
It started with THE TENDER YEARS ACT of 1830, which gave women custody of the kids after divorce. Eventually, with the kids, came the house, the new van, the retirement, alimony, and child support. Cash, prizes, and government-backed power for divorcing women.
The modern legal system (ie, people) figured out that they could enrich themselves on the misery of others, and they aren't going to quit as long as there are people getting married. And that will come to an end.
Yea, 80 years ago, when people got married, they stayed married until death did they part. Another reason the courts and laws need to be changed to reflect today's temporary wife's club.
Divorced woman here! Last year for me to make payment to my ex. He came with nothing and left with over a million cash and assets! Not all women are the problem
I noticed back in 2020 (even though it was right under my nose all along) that the 2 floor mall I used to go to back in the 80's has 100% female stores with 100% female catered businesses run by 100% female staff. I went to get a new iphone and I didn't see a single male in the entire mall. No businesses there for males. Not even a shoe store. They are depending on females to spend foolishly and frivolously to stay in business even now that the economy is completely upside down, I'm just thankful that I work from home now and my mortgage has been paid off since 2015.
Did ya ever notice those really sad depressed guys in the malls back in the day sitting there with all the bags alone while their woman shopped? In the old days those men were the suckers, the simps. And yes the vast majority of consumerism is based around women unless you are in a hardware store or a motorcycle dealership.
Oh how our minds are different. Personally I'm 40, single, never been married, have no kids and it's staying that way. I love life 🙂🙂 quiet, coffee, reading, creativity, looking forward to stuff, using common sense, making smart decisions and so much more. Men are simple, women are not just what I see
Some woman described women's emotions as a Kelidascope. Fair analysis. Who wants to deal with that ca ca 24/7, 365/6. I support marriage. I'm a sincere Catholic, but where are the wives. We've got immature gimme machines.
It's easy to protect yourself from everything. IF your single. Mobility and flexibility. Poor? Commit crime, you'll always get away with it if your a true loner. Loners never lose.
Imagine if the handmaid’s tale actually happens. But instead of women being forced to do it, women actively choose to do it, because men don’t want nothing to do with women, and this would be the only way they could get pregnant.
Very true. Everywhere the women got the vote we saw an immediate hard left turn and hysterical feel-good politics with no connection to reality, like prohibition, open borders and greenism... A civilization-ending mistake.
Losing money is bad. To me the worst is losing my children and having to understand that nothing I wanted with my children will ever happen. That pain is a destroyer of my soul.
@@empirecity61 I went through the same thing in 1985. Had joint custody of my daughter and the ex moved across country and there was nothing I could do about it. Grieve your loss as thoroughly as you can and move on. The best revenge is to succeed in life.
Focusing on myself without the intention of dating is how I see this next chapter of my life going in no way am I remotely happy with my current dating situation. I feel hopeless at this point not dating at all feels like a better option mentally and economically
As a man I wanted a huge family. three to four kids. I only had one, and she left, divorced and took my kid across the country. That destroyed my life, had major effects on my son. Getting to what you said. I do wish I did have the expectation of being a single parent. Maybe if I did, I could have recovered and reset faster and made another family. I think you are doing a good thing. Men should be cautious, be prepared for the worst. I did remarry, but never got my large family. as my second wife could not have children. But thats life.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
For thousands of years men could only step up and meet the challenge head on. But the modern sisterhood movement gave men the option to step aside. So now that men are learning how they can have their lives ruined by women. Due to the modern legal system many are opting to step aside.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
You are not wrong , im 31 , have a job , i paid my entire house and im in pretty good shape and i can tell that im done dating modern woman, the delusion is out of this world.
Agreed. I see them walking in public all the time doing it, with people and potential hazards all around them. I know this is a weird thought, but sometimes I’d like to stop them and tell them how easily they could be victimized walking around like that. They’re so worried about something happening to them, but they do nothing to prevent the possibility. Even as man I’m always trying to be fully aware of my surroundings. Also, it’s just a bad look in general.
It's not just women doing that is the thing. Went on a walk in a big park a couple weeks back and it hit me. I struggled to find people walking there that didn't have their heads down and glued to their phone. People there alone, couples, families, everyone. Some might be talking to each other, but they were talking down at their phone, not facing each other. Whole families, mom, dad, sons, daughters, everyone just on their phones. It was a nice day, in a beautiful park, people should be there to enjoy the scenery and the company of others. Social media and smartphones have made everyone LESS connected imo.
34 year old male, been single for 3 years, never married but engaged. I feel like I am about done trying to date. Tried for a while and everything I see out here is hopeless and feels pointless now to the point of where I’m giving up. The dating scene feels like a comedy sketch.
@@TheIKrushalotall over the western GLOBE. In Japan, women cheat so hard, men have to cope or not confront them on it; just to hold the family unity. They are not worth it anymore… personal experience (married and divorced to a modern woman) and first hand observation :( Play by YOUR rules, don’t simp and feed these monsters…
I just turned 34 a few weeks ago and have a very similar attitude as you towards dating, I'm in the U.S btw. Around 2018 or so I started getting this feeling that there was something off with the dating market but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. I had this suspicion that most other men were having a hard time, it was just an unspoken reality. I started noticing towards the end of 2020 and into 2021 that there were a lot of stats coming out talking about how many men were sexless, struggling in the dating market or not even looking at all. I essentially had all of my suspicions confirmed when the pieces finally were put together.
Always such a level headed take, very much respect your opinion. I am a happy single man and would not even CONSIDER a relationship lol. And Ive had ALL GOOD ones! My relationships are with my friends, family, animals, nature and personal goals. Women have been given the opportunity in recent decades to shape a large portion of how things are today, well, here we are.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Western men in 2024 are dealing with the worst women for dating and marriage in the annals of human history.
Not sure if in the human history, but for sure few of the in the annals
@@renzochepar NO WAY it's ever been worse
@@edwardroy3401Unless of course the powers that be reset our history every so often and this is simply a repeat of what has happened before.
True.
Oh well, these are the beginnings of societal collapse. Every empire in history has fallen and America will be no different.
I'm a 33 single male and I'll never date a woman these days. Screw that. Too much drama.
Same age. Same mindset.
Renting is cheaper. At least you know you get services performed guaranteed.
Smart, Im 49 and given up now, I want to retire in 5 years, too risky getting involved with Women now.
Good you probably have bad seed
The longer you live female free and get used to the peace and harmony, the harder it will be to tolerate a woman in your life! We not only become self sufficient, but spoiled to the lack of stress. It's like being on vacation all the time! It's addictive!!
I have 4 sons 29-39, and they are not even dating. They see women as bad news. They come from a stable family with a mom and dad that have never divorced. Not looking good for the future.
Sad but true
Tell them to learn a bit of Spanish and send them / suggest a trip to South / Central America. Game changer. Just returned from a 2 month trip. Coming back to Australia I now feel disgusted at the quality of women here.
@@8.o.8 You guys are fooling yourselves if you think south america girls are high quality. You're just Chad here, that's all. Women are women (almost?) everywhere. I was typing considering you were american until I read again and saw Australia. So the things are bad there too. Just as I said.
@@fredcavalcante1887Latin women are far superior. Stop saying women are women. Latin women are a higher tier of quality.
Have you dated a Latina woman and an American woman? Can you do a side by side comparison for me?
Same with my brothers and I. 3 men with all decent jobs that are single with no kids and refuse to even date. Life is great for us
I think most men see this coming, but it seems like most woman still think there is prince charming around the corner for everyone and refuse to lower their standards and attitudes
I'm a 29 year old male and I can barely be bothered dealing with women, let alone signing my life to the government for one...
are u wearing shades cuz ur" future looks bright ! "
@@brewcrew5854 I just got 30. I remember I used to be interested with girls since I was primary school until high school. Just I got rejected many times cuz they think I’m weird and odd. So it’s best to giving up.
Yea bro modern day women are hard to deal w
@@Fearless18-i1f never had girlfriend in my life throughout highschool. Even college until today cuz they think i’m weird to them. It’s fine by me. It’s really peaceful and quiet being single anyway. I used to be social back in the day but no anymore
All good things must come to end, right?
Just got 30. By the way, it’s my birthday
29 was the age I got married. I’m now 42 and she has 1/2 of everything I worked for. She’s never had a job.
I just went through a nasty divorce. I gave her everything. The new truck I put 20K down on. I give her 33% of my paycheck while she quit her job, moved in with mommy and daddy 1300 miles away from me. She won’t even let me speak to them on the phone regularly. She kidnapped the kids and then when I text her angrily she used that as justification to get a PPO and make it harder for me to see my kids. They are ruthless fellas. I am a disabled veteran and can’t work. I just had my car repossessed and my house foreclosed on because of the amount of child support. It ruined my credit and I can’t rent near my children. I am now in a position that I have to leave the country, most likely Philippines, to rebuild my credit and life before I can finally make it closer to my children. This is truly insane.
Men, don’t ever get married.
Women, stop using children as pawns.
If you must then move to the Philippines. Your alternative is becoming homeless. That's not good.
As a divorcee myself i agree, never get married, stay strong brother.
Amen, brother! I hope you find happiness in the Philippines.
Vietnam is better
@@Really2950 honestly I will probably bounce around all of SEA. Still cheaper than living here.
As a single man looking at the current single world, I am absolutely terrified to date women anymore. Most women who are single have expectations of men doing everything and them doing very minimal things and looking for an opportunity to pounce on a guy for their benefit. They all seem to have an agenda and I don't remember women having this mindset from 20 years ago, they were looking for a man to marry or at least stay with long term... this is not the case anymore. Its all about getting as much money and possessions as they can regardless of how much it damages a man's life and reputation. Women have made men scared to date them!
Agree
omg so true^^^^^^^
They made me homeless here in the UK for having the wrong opinion, now I don't have to worry about dating... Yay 😁🎉
I don't take women seriously anymore. I always keep my options open. I think that's a better answer than staying single.
Women have always been scared to date and marry men, especially in the past, and for good reason. Glad we have more options now.
Loneliness doesn't kill you. Despite all the nonsense you hear about it being so detrimental to your health. It is the individual's outlook and lifestyle.
This is true. So much butthurt in these comments.
This is extremely true!!
Apparently loneliness is killing men because more and more of them are battling depression and suicide.
But it unthrives you!
The information makes sense. It's tough to figure out if the cause was from growing up in a basic household or being that more people are more independent financially or not at this time.
Latest study: 'divorce rate is on a decline' but they don't tell you so is marriage. Less marriage less divorce
Yep
U know what the biggest cause of divorce is right?
Marriage!
True- but the percentage of marriages (however many there are) that end in divorce is also down.
Isaiah 4-7
New International Version
4 1 In that day seven women
will take hold of one man
and say, “We will eat our own food
and provide our own clothes;
only let us be called by your name.
Take away our disgrace!”
Big deal. People just live together and then split up.
@@acornsucks2111 live together?
Gentlemen, cohabitation is the beginning of the end
No thank you!
My wife left me about a year ago, and I've tried dating since.
I'm a young looking 62 yr old, tall and muscular, financially secure, generous and understanding, and I've been dating women 45yrs old and up.
It's been an eye opener to say the least.
The attitude of these women, the self delusion of their appearance, what they think they "deserve" in a man, and how they want us to treat them, without them giving us anything of value in return, is amazing.
They also have no idea of what men really want in a women.
They often list to me their achievements starting with things like "I'm intelligent, I have a successful career, I've got 4 degrees, and then ramble along the same lines like they are applying for a corporate position!!
At the end of the monologue I just look them in the eye and say " None of the things you just said are important to me at all. All I want is a woman who is nice to me. Non demanding. Accepting of who I am. Easy to get along with. Loyal and faithful. Loving and affectionate. That's it! And if you can't do that I'm not interested."
It must have been tough for you when your wife left. I hope you meet a great lady who will be warm and loyal to you.
Modern woman think we want a version of ourselves... Sorry hunny.. not interested in your career or your degree. Just be nice, smile, treat me well, don't be crazy and just be understanding, nurturing and loving... thats it. Why is that so hard? lol
Praise your freedom, mental health.. becareful who you out inside your House,privacy and bed..
Best regards
Get a dawg.
Might be better to get your passport bro. Western women not worth it.
I am an old guy, 62...so sad to see that the whole American dream being crushed into nothingness. Between propaganda of wokeness and f nism....we are losing this country...the loss of family unit was key to the destruction...and therefore they have won
The fight isn’t over. The men haven’t begun to fight. We have to organize.
It was all engineered but you seem to know it already and yes it is sad. Even if we started to change everything for the better NOW the trauma and mess that was caused may take decades to heal. Just another lost generation that has to pay for what a few rich psychopaths had planned.
Was it divorce? I'm sorry man.
@@vknight7497 fight for each other and the women who had to step into their masculine energy. It isn't a fight against feminists. It's a fight against AI based social media propaganda.
United we stand. Divided we fall.
The American dream is done and the women woke us up!
Why are they even complaining? The average men is invisible to women.
Pearl is complaining 😂😂
@@toddjohnson271 who is that?
@@toddjohnson271 Oh, ok
But their wallets aren't and access is getting really low lately.
and no man wants an average woman these days so what's your point ? Seems everyone wants something for nothing
I'm a 43 year old man who never married or had children, I also never went through a divorce or had to pay child support, everything in my life is paid for, I couldn't be happier.
Who is going to have to look out for you, care for you or advocate for you when the underpaid ppl in your care home you hopefully can afford decide to molest you? Happens a lot. I'm stressed with the amount of childless boomer relatives I have to look out for, and I won't be able to ensure adequate care for them all. Hope you've made some intergenerational connections to ensure someone feels loyalty to you when you become dependent. Almost everyone does, in the end.
@@stefaniebeh706 - Having children doesn't guarantee they will live near you nor will even want to provide care for you when the time comes. Most people are selfish with their time & lives.
@grubalcava That ain't no joke, seems like if there's any amount of money involved that's all the relatives are after in the end.
To add to your point. Seems a good majority have kids for the sake of adding to their insurance policy, as a benefit. Which is selfish. @@OC_OUTDOORSMAN
@@stefaniebeh706life isn't peaches and cream cause you have family when your old life isn't a fairy tale
If I were a man, I don't think I would want to get married in today's world. You're married ten years, she gets bored and wants a divorce. There goes half of everything you worked for, plus you have to pay child support and alimony. It's like that song, that's my house, that's my car, that's my kids, that's my dog, she has a new man who now has your life.
You need to realize that is Soft Communism.
mariage is a deal breaker
I put my house in my father's name and took my kids out of state, then filed for divorce and full custody. I ended up only getting $39 a month for 2 kids the whole time they were minors
They get bored in three years. The divorce is timed on advice of their attorney to max payout. The game is simple and obvious gentlemen.
Women won the divorce battle, but lost the marriage war doing it.
they became Single is the Natural Selection, but the problem is the Single Mom who will have a bad influence for the future generation
Hide your kids.
Been happening for decades already.
There will be fewer and fewer "future generations".
@@derikuk2967 Yeah...not good.
we see this every day, too many kids without dads end up with bad life outcomes
Why would men need to deal with entitled 20-40 years old childrens. Women have a biogical clock not men. Men can live alone, women past 35 can't cope with this reality.
I've often compared women to children lol they have a lot in common.
lol wow incel alert
@@billmacia-0808 don’t forget those sperm mutations are increased in mid thirties as well. Mens biological clocks also causing disabled kids. Over used men organs are causing infertility. What are we missing out on lol
@@ifimust89 this whole comment section is an actual cesspool I cant rn
@@billmacia-0808 Bro 😭Single women literally live longer while married men live longer. A husband dying increases life span of women but Wife dying decreases life span of man as per study. Anyway single life is better
MGTOW for 11 years. Happiest decade of my life. That’s a fact.
Great choice young man, Mgtow.
Here is a post that I wrote that you may want to read:
Finally great to see a courageous, intelligent and articulate woman speak the facts, the stats,
the truth about the bleak reality of what feminism has brought upon them.
I am 72 years old and I am going off again in a couple of weeks to Thailand and other countries
to enjoy this incredible world. All I can say to you, young dudes, is to live free, live your life as you want it,
because that is the only thing that is truly under your control.
Don't sign over your life to a woman and to the government that will enslave you for it
and strip you of everything you have worked for to give to her when the marriage ends in divorce
...So, don't get married.
Don't cohabitate.
Don't impregnate.
Don't let feelings control you.
Don't spend more than you want to or can afford on women.
Protect yourself at all times, women are not your friends.
And, have a wonderful life, living free, with peace of mind.
If you want that, then go MGTOW!
If you don't know what this men's liberation movement is, look it up..MGTOW!!!!!you may want to read:
MGTOW FOREVER.
Cope
Let’s see how you’ll be at 70 still alone
@@bluesteel920women most affected.
Unfortunately woman are not held accountable and this is why there is family breakdown!
The ststem/ goverment is the problem women are just following their narcissistic nature and what financially best benefits them.
That's because women make 80% of the consumer buying decisions. Big business knows better than to bite the hand that feeds them.
Paulfreespirit: Precisely.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
That old saying...Women and accoutability....LOL
The marriage industry is dying, because men are deciding it isn't worth the risk; Eventually, the divorce industry will also calm down, because the decline in married couples will ultimately follow. The family courts will still be there, to determine child support for single-parent "families", etc., unless DNA testing becomes a mandatory prerequisite to getting child support (which should reduce the dispute somewhat).
Men have decided that women aren't worth the energy or risk, and women are competing for the same 5% of men who are happy to Pump & Dump, but won't wife any of them.
There are going to be a lot of unhappy/lonely people out there. The good news, is that a lot of cats/pets will have homes.
The truth of our political values lies in the risks we refuse to accept.
Dna testing is already nearly always an option outside of less than .05 of situations if the man questions paternity, even if he has already signed the birth certificate. Of you are subpoenaed for child support court, you show up, question paternity, and they court will order a paternity test prior to further proceedings.
I have no issue with automatic testing at birth, but it already is a thing prior to child support if you question paternity
Also, I think the biggest issue comes from the fact that today, both men and women are so concerned with going through this list of requirements, like shopping for the right brand of clothing, and trying out different people to see which one they prefer, when that’s not what marriage is or should be built on.
There is someone for everyone. But because of social media and our culture, all we see are all these options. Even when someone finds their someone, they friendzone them because they think these superficial things like height, eight, class, attractiveness, etc will make them look good or make them happier than being with their person, and that’s not the case.
Anyone who has truly found there person will tell you that it’s undeniable that they are made for each other, but also that they often didn’t expect it necessarily, because they didn’t meet these superficial “requirements” that they had in mind for a partner.
We aren’t car shopping here. We are recognizing the spark of our soulmate and deciding to dedicate our everything to them and build a family and life together, something that many people just aren’t doing for the right reasons today even when they do marry
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Yah its funny to hear women talking about how they will get the wrong stick in the end but sadly wants they do it them self they will learn marriage in the west is for them not for both man and women. The young girls don't see what really goes down as they are just being lied to by other women. I mean it should be right there in their faces when you see more single mothers with their kids than the single fathers with their kids.
If you marry a woman, you are giving her everything you own in the event of Divorce.
It is very hard to trust anyone that much.
ok so why everyman in the country want a trad wife or a home maker, when u make too many people depend on u then in the event of emergency whatsgoing to happen to them?
Wait a minute now... EVERYTHING??? 🤔
Some years ago, it was 'only' 50% of everything.
Plus, what if she owns more stuff already?
=> Perhaps time to give some of it to you...
If she won't sign a prenuptial agreement then you know.....
@@kCI251 Then walk away and you are the winner. It's that simple
@@_munkykok_Middle ground if you file a no fault you get nothing.
The future will be men eventually setting up an alternative culture within the current structure with bucket loads of cash to spend and they will dictate what sort of women they will allow to participate. But never as equals again.
Patriarchal communes in a sense
Yes
We are free
We are men
We want normal women
We do not want criminals
We do not want to live with criminals
We do not want to marry criminals
We do not want to have children with criminals
We do not want to love criminals
We are normal we are normal people
We will find normal women somewhere on this planet
What an odd manosphere dystopia.
Women wouldn't choose that.
@@Julie-en5lg that is a far better "dystopia" than the current one.
@@Julie-en5lg Wanna bet? Not all or even a large percentage to be sure but enough would.
Remember folks, as bad as Pearl claims things are, THINGS ARE EVEN WORSE
Great. Good. More of this.
Oh hells yeah!
Its a Richter scale, inverse proportional, its going to gat a lot worse a lot faster.
Everything seems to be going to hell on purpose,we are doing nothing as society to fix it so theres only one way to go...
great.. less corpses ($$$) for the cemetery industrial complex
Look at the average weight of Americans now compared to 1980s. I am very fit. I do not find un-fit women attractive... AT ALL. The few that are thin or in-shape think that they are beauty queens, even when they are plain at best. They have overwhelmingly high expectations and expect to offer nothing. And they cheat. The situation is grim indeed.
This 👆🏻
Facts!
Sad, but true.
The whales , they do swim …and proudly tell us we should accept it this way… BS.
They are not cheating they are storing other men's semen for future pregnancies.
Women will still be spending most of the money regardless, it isn't that women HAVE to be buying "stuff", they can be buying stuff for families. And we still need fun and all, the economy can shift I don't see why not. There is hope, especially with all you bleeding hearts nowadays, people don't stop and think. And frankly, I believe they are brainwashed but we can still reverse it.
I'm not even going to try to keep a woman happy in 2024. It's near impossible.
😢
Yup, they seem to be always looking to be miserable.
Smart move
I agree. I have a son who has dated several woman and they always become disillusioned no matter how attentive and kind you treat them. Yet they'll run after guys who treat them like crap and jump through hoops to keep these toxic relationships going. Many seem to thrive on drama and enjoy being unhappy. I'll never understand the young women of today. 🤔
Yep these days it isn't love but rather what can you do to please her. Even older people are starting to feel that way. I said 30 years ago I would never marry and it's the best decision I've ever done. Sad seeing so many trapped in such misery. My furry ones don't take much to please, just some treats now and then.
Men are tired. Tired of being shamed for nothing. Constantly being called toxic. Constantly being told we aren't needed. We are tired of it. Woman beat men down so much that fine...it's easier to be alone. Being alone doesn't call us toxic.
There is a huge difference between being alone and lonely. I love my alone time with my dog.
That’s sad. I’m sorry 😢
you dont have to be invested into a girl to be with her
Sorry the truth is hurting you
@jenbodhi1133 so agree that women do these things?
Women chose the smash and pass lifestyle. And the guys that don’t want to smash and pass have given up.
And thats where all the good men went!
They don't want to pick up after pookie and ray ray, chad, and tyrone.
Yeah society has promoted that "smash and pass" life style too...just look at movies in the last 30 years, almost all of them show the lead characters in a promiscuous relationship.
@@abdulrahmanraheem423 it's part of a larger agenda.
@@benstandard I agree! It's very destructive...and now we see the results.
Feminism destroyed Humanity.
It was obviously headed that way from it's re-emergence in 1969.
Nah just the west.
@@GreatQoutes-123 But, like any virus, it cannot be allowed to spread and must be cured where it exists.
@@GreatQoutes-123 Wrong again.
@@GreatQoutes-123 Wrong again.
I’m a 40 year old male & the last 10 years has told me that I’m going to be single because of unrealistic expectations of modern women.
What kinds of expectations, just out of curiousity? :)
@@Tail_sez wanting your partner to change their values,
be the source of all your happiness or
go against their natural masculine or feminine polarity
which most of the times is asked out of the guy...
its kinda goofy you are asking when you could literally just look at all the articles and news and watch what is happening against men. like.....
have you been living under a rock???
@@sandobando9390To be fair, there are people on both sides who only think about what THEY get from the relationship, not what they can give and provide to their partner. It has morphed into this sociopathic, resource focused mindset...
Go to a really poor country and find a woman, she will appreciate you
@@sandobando9390 It was a legit question - especially if there are some people don't follow social trends. There are a lot of them that stumble across the phenomena but haven't put 2 + 2 together. Don't be mean - take it as an opportunity to educate.
I was married 34 years to the same woman, before she passed away. We shared the same values and dedication to each other, no matter the circumstances that befell us. I don't see such dedication in today's young people, who would claim that it's too "restrictive". But, if you have rejected those "restrictions", why are you so unhappy now? Sticking together, thru hard times, adds value to your marriage and makes you appreciate it more.
Thank you for the encouragement! I am 26 and have been married for 4.5 years. My wife and I are on the same page with everything. We hope to one day make it to those high numbers.
@@calebpeters6267 Values are the key. Now, my wife had interests different from mine, but our values were the same. It's been over 2 years, since she passed, and I still miss her greatly. Make sure to spend as much time as possible, with your wife.
@ricardcluter4765 thank you, I'm sorry to hear that. I wish you the best of luck!
Define dedication
@@liftyshifty Someone who loves you and sticks by you, no matter the circumstances. But if you have to ask, there's a good chance you'll never find someone like that.
Take child support and welfare away and it would all change in a year
Exactly. Those things are 1950s code when women were not working as much and more vulnerable. Things have changed and so should those laws.
They are afraid that if they take child support and welfare almost no babies will be born at all given the culture they themselves created.
and don't forget Alimony.
100% agree. No more making men responsible for divorce. I think anyone getting a divorce should have to pay a court appointed money manager for the life of the kid until support ends. 50/50 all the way then watch how fast divorce rates go down lol
Along with other things as well.
*Marriage or Freedom* choice is yours. 😤
Women never accept accountability for their own actions, it somehow is indoctrinated in them. I've been single for the past 24 years, and it's been the best decision I've ever made.
Are you projecting?
@@makeitcount2985 I think it's just stating a generalized fact. Most modern women are like that.
Yes, the truth.@@makeitcount2985
Kind of a meaningless timeline. If you’re 24, you’ve been NECESSARILY single for eighteen of those years. Nobody knows how old you are, and it’s highly unlikely you made some explicit decision twenty four years ago. Given that you write like someone who barely graduated high school, I’m going to assume you’re 24. And your claim is BS.
@@makeitcount2985Not a projection. Modern women are insufferable.
At 74, I've given up. Not because of my age but I am disheartened at what I see in sciety.
You could of went overseas
Yes. He could have. I am 54. I could go. Why? We can't bring one back without the same risk of loss.@Laambos_house
@@totwallybaba The key is not coming back. Their are plenty of expat communities overseas so you would still be around Americans. You cash would also go a lot further.
I'm 43 and feel the same way you do.
still you can go overseas and enjoy real females. Even if at 74 it is going to be harder to find a 25yo girl, still you can go for a 40yo woman that hasn't wasted herself in her youth.
I'm a 62 years old British guy.
My western wife had her own career , paid for nothing , it was all down to me to pay for our lifestyle for ten years. Well, she left , emptied the bank ,and filed for divorce , took everything .
My female colleagues / friends ,100% of them said, "you must have done something wrong" , blaming me! They could see that a woman could be in the wrong.
I didn't look at women for years then met an Ethiopian lady; an angel.
She cares about my happiness and treats me so well and in return I really care for her
Bottom line gents there's a rich seam of non-western ladies that still cherish the men in their lives .
I wouldn't even look at a western woman now , too tainted .
Women readers don't care. They would rather learn how she did it.
Or asían women, also really traditional, loving and caring
You stayed strong. You're blessed
at least you didn't spend your entire life with such creatures you got a 2nd chance
if she was working, she should have helped paid, and you should have required her to do so. if she didn't want to, then she could leave. i am western and i buy my guy things and help pay for our vacations and rent. I also buy my father clothes because he doesn't have much since he is retired now. I also buy my mother winter clothes and items that she likes.
but i have found that western men can be very stubborn and selfish. they also can be horrible at communicating how they feel in a way that is easier to handle. i wish that men would get better and telling a woman nicely how they feel and what they think instead of love bombing and ghosting. and don't get me started on all the western men that get violent when they don't get what they want when they want it.
You are making me think my wife and I should start a podcast because we have two boys in elementary school and been married 10 years and still have a very active love life. Praise God
Sounds interesting!
Better hope it stays content for the next forever.
Remember, to females the grass is _always_ greener on the other side. *AWALT* 💊
@@DTreatz “for the next forever” indeed. Get yourself a TradWife!
It's over for western women 😮
@@Julie-en5lgI hope you and your cats enjoy your future.
True story. Pearl is on target!
@@Julie-en5lg we're free from women bs.
With the internet, eastern women are going the same way, just slowly.
@@ryzen7428 Isn't it better when everyone's independent?
Make some male friends. Pick up a hobby.
Young men. Do NOT enter into a long-term relationship with a Western woman, or you WILL live to regret it.
Happy are those who can learn from the mistakes of others rather than their own.
Agreed.
Once women had the choice whether or not to marry,women have chosen the latter. Even in traditional countries women are opting out. We no longer choose to be house fraus
Also, do not take life changing advice based on Internet comments
Need to embrace Islam, especially western
@@theblackiyepodcast8369Or partners. Maybe. spoiled daughters?
This is what the real owners of the world wants
It's really what everyone should want. The global population should be 500,000,000. 15 out of every 16 people should be willing to not replace themselves.
@@rievaulxlucienne1176 what?? Do you think before you comment??.
True. The owners want complete confusion and collapse so it’s easier for them to control everything
@@Rylynn2017 They're referring to the rate at which we consume resources. For it to be sustainable at the rate humans use resources, it's about 500mil. I think if this is orchestrated, that might be one of the main reasons.
@@who_is_dis - You are decieved.
Family court is mostly to blame. No man wants that exposure.
Family court is just a tool. The one who used it is to blame.
Divorce forces women into poverty. Men lose nothing in divorce. They leave their marriages with an earning capacity because they haven't looked after their own babies. Anything that they have to give to their ex-wives, is offset by the contribution a childless woman can contribute to his new household.
@@chriswatson1698 "Men lose nothing in divorce."
You're trolling.
@@chriswatson1698 that's delusional
Feminism is to blame. Women have no consequences for their behavior and men are blamed for any and all bad behavior on the part of women. Family court is simply feminism in action.
Refuse to be hurt again. Refuse to play mind games. No more western women for me.
"Western" women are fine if they are conservative rural women, do not touch liberal urban women with a ten foot pole.
Well, pump n dump, but no cohabitation.
Same here. Easterns are far better women in all respects. This include eslavic and russians.
Bruh, it's the same in asia too. let's enjoy the decline
@@johnnytate69
agree. online dating apps allow women to check the top 20% of men.. bottom 80% will be ignored.
Society will not go out with a bang, it will go out with a queef.
Best comment!
I can't be the only one who read that in "Terrence and Phillip" voice......
@@thenewbohemian5779 🤣
😂😂
😂😂
When I left America, I was shocked how down to Earth women were.
it's because our culture is so toxic
Europe?
North Korea??
@@beavischrist5 Yes must be North Korea! Lovely place to go!
You just don't know them enough buddy.
In my culture things still work traditionally to some extent, so women must be loving, non-materialistic and feminine, right?
When you compare them to western women, yes.
BUT, they often ask for marriage (which is normal), and after you marry them and have kids with them (they insist on having them asap), you're going to see the female version of Machiavelli ahead of you.
A woman is a woman, choose the one who chooses you but from what I have seen, and after all what I have read, and with social media and the internet, I wouldn't recommend marriage.
Blame modern day ‘feminism’ which isn’t feminism at all.
Blame modern day toxic masculinism that has nothing to do with being virile.
What is modern feminism? Feminism is rights for women mostly to work and be able to sustain themselves. The rest is unrelated.
@@luckystone2293 priorities capitolist thuggery?
it's all feminism
how. how is it not feminism at all? break it down for us. explain the science.
"We know that half will end in divorce" This is why marriage isn't returning. It's coin flip. You have a 50% chance of completely screwing up your life!
Plus all the people who stay married miserably.
Again no, It is not 50% if you considera the relevant stats , from people married ten ago more than 90% ended Divorced.
The 50% stats takes in account married people like your granpa and granma
@@Break1815 so you are saying if you only look at marriages in the last 20-30 years the divorce rate is much higher? 90% I know in California it was 2/3 of all marriages end in divorce.
And what percentage are married are unhappy.
imagine if you could take half your friends stuff every time you fell out. no one would have friends.
I have lots of friends in their 40s and 50s. All of the guys say they can't find a single person to date because the women in this age group have super high standards that are ridiculously out-of-touch and all the women are lonely and single and say every day on facebook how "I won't settle" and they cry every night alone with their 4 cats. It's more common than people might think.
The "I won't settle" mantra still makes me laugh at the stupidity. They have been shouting this for decades.
You really have 2 options:
A) find you a young girl, not run-through, without her head full of crap
B) go to other parts of the world to find a decent woman. I.e. the east, including Russia and the eslavic countries.
Also, A) is much easier if you do B) first.
@@Synth2000women are the same everywhere don’t think that you will be sheltered if you go to other countries social media and dating apps fu…. Everything
@@Synth2000 ew.
They aren’t looking in the right places. I have a lot of single friends in that age group who would love to settle down with a guy who can be a partner, as long as he isn’t a drunk or a cheater, loves her and makes a good companion. Money isn’t a priority to everyone, just the vocal shallow ones.
It's over for western women and those who copy them.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
@Sunshineheart124 exactly. It’s better to be positive and do the best you can and then the right one will come along.
@Sunshineheart124to be fair, I see S.E.A. Women as much as gold diggers as US women, but at least their are more realistic for their standards and are not looking for a Leonardo Di Caprio with Bezos's purse to "settle" (just to leave him as soon as then divorce court allowed her to do it with honors)
… and for those who worship them as well
Lol.
Let people be. Stop forcing marriage.
Men just aren't willing anymore to bust their asses to provide for a family in the hopes that the woman won't arbitrarily decide to walk away with everything and leave you penniless and homeless.
I'm scared of it, and I don't even have much to lose.
Never sign any contract with woman
People aren't self sufficient enough to provide for themselves let alone others. Not including external factors leading to poor moral choices and people lives being ruined by industries who don't have peoples best interest in mind (entertainment, media, education)
True enough but the opposite is also true: Men are being financially ruined by job destruction and chronic unemployment. They want to work and support a family but....cannot. Many women are too unwilling to understand that men are being economically destroyed and it is not their fault.
Utter bollox
80% of women date the same 10% of chads. 🤣 they deserve each other.
They're not dating, they're being passed around.
@@randomuserame Its called "the carousel" for a reason :)
Then, they inevitable get played, lied to, and cheated on and often come away shouldering a stance of misandry by insinuating that "all men are bad!".
Hahahaha
Thats not really true
To paraphrase Jack Reacher, to western modern women: " Remember, you wanted this"
Could not have said it any better myself
They will vote for a government that taxes men and hands it to them.
I don't want democracy
The truth is you wanted this also. Stop the cap.
@@assessobserveandexemplify4112 how is accepting reality "wanting it"
Interesting that Tom Cruise isn't married in 2024
Can't imagine living with someone on her phone most of the time who is talking to someone else.
What kind of a relationship is that?
Lmao men do that all
The time
O gosh sounds like hell😂
@@streetracer1o124gosh people do this crazy 😂
I’ve seen mobile phone contracts last longer than some marriages.
Going on 15 years with my phone contract.
@@Noplayster13
I’m going on 9 years with mine.
That's because it is harder to break those contracts as bad as that sounds. :)
@@ispep8882
That just demonstrates how easy a marriage contract is the throw away.
It’s sad really.
I gotta write this comment down this is hilarious 😂
Sadly, a disturbing and accurate description of what is happening and in what direction we are heading. I'm pushing 75 and have watched it all transpire, from the early days of feminism to the breakup of the western family. "Give women the vote and they will become your masters" - Cato the Elder, Roman Senator.
Ditto...
Women want what they want, women get what they want. Especially after the vote, everyone caters to what they want. And the cost of women getting what they want, is the slow collapse of society. The cost is just being bared by the next generation.
i looked up that quote and the search comes up with nothing..i wonder if its been washed?
@@WillyEckaslikealso it could be a Woozle Effect
It took about 45 years for women's vote to really effect America, they pushed the Democratic Party far to the left into open Socialism and Cultural Marxism.
The unkind, masculine women have the power to be different. It's up to them. Accountability and shame are deflected. It's always someone or something else's fault. The pedestal we have put women on is their downfall. Take the government out of marriage/bedrooms and we may have a chance.
Not just that. Legal liabilities (family courts/CMS) with having children with women have hugely affected women chances becoming pregnant...never mind getting married.
Women will continue to stand up for ourselves and pursue our best interests
@@RealLimerickmanGood good. We can focus on other things. 🎉
@@Julie-en5lgThe ticktock videos flooding the net don't seem to suggest that.
@@Julie-en5lg Short term interests are often not compatible or conducive to long term best interests.
For instance: I drank through half of the '70s and all of the '80s. In the short term, I had a lot of good times. In the long term, which is the course of my 67 years, it's had a deleterious affect on my health. Diabetes, for instance.
What young people never learned the old Adages like "Be Careful what you ask for because you just might get it" and so you have. I love that modern women say "I don't need No Man" when everything they use, drive & work with was invented & made by men even the Tampax they use.
Freshly divorcing 43 yrs old father of three (15, 11, 5). Kids stay with me.
And she cheated, with a 13yrs younger Chad. Weak people.
No hope in this generation.
I sm turning to religion, more conservative, in hopes to save my kids. At least kids will be much happier and have stronger morals.
Gid save us all.
Fix your spelling for more upvotes.
I don't care.
Cared enough to comment.
@@dakansa
Mark 12:30-31 (KJV) And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.
And the second is like, namely this, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. There is none other commandment greater than these.
statistically men make better guardians of the kids and their outcomes in life are better
I gave women plenty of chances when I was young, but they were all chasing the top 1% of men, so I just walked away. The further I get, the better my life is. Shrug.
There was probably that one women who wanted you but you didn't want her for whatever reason. Just like some of us women weren't wanted by a guy we really liked. It's called "preference"!
Funny thing is it gets worse by the year! Instead of fixing the problem we're hyperinflating it.....well women are!
And they then turn round and ask where have all the good men gone. They were in the 99% they ignored.
@@denesejamerson2356 I can guarantee most of us guys would have never noticed that one just because she wasn't obvious about her interest. Heck, my own mother only got together with my dad after one of his friends told her she had to be straightforward with him, because every other woman who hinted she was into him he wasn't even aware of.
So sorry the pretty popular girls didn't want you. Try humbling yourself and date within your league. Most people aren't that attractive and want someone more attractive than they deserve.
Dating apps make average women feel like a '10' temporarily. Unfortunately, many women are taking way too long to figure this out.
I agree. Social media played a big role in the narcissism we see today with modern women.
Women on IG are getting hit up globally by men. This is also why women will have an overall bad view on men because so many foreign men will say the trashiest things that US men would mostly never say.
They just have that natural tendency when they receive attention. It’s ridiculous what is happening.
they can get sex with high value guys but can never get a long term relationship from them, aka a "forever side chick"
No lose there lrg pct on Adderall or mifepristone
I ain't an expert on any of this, but I do know that women are humans, and humans are capable of being guilty of things. We should never treat any group of people as being totally blameless. That's not to say they are responsible for everything around them, but it means if they do something wrong, it's their fault, not just society's fault
I'm 58 yrs old
Never married
No kids
Every woman hates me
Passport for me soon
Mgtow
It's coming
I will leave soon
Same age. Same status. Same goals.
Your time is running out. Better hurry.
What’s mgtow? Why the passport?
men going their own way @@neatnateable
@@hyperteleXii😂😂 that’s a good one
All I can say is I am glad I married a woman from my own generation (born in the late 1960s). She works hard, loves me, appreciates me, and values our marriage above anything. She believes in give and take, and win-win, so we each play to our strengths and support one another when things get tough. For that, she will have my loyalty and support in all ways until our last breaths.
He said this right before he found out about Chad.
What is a woman 🤣😂
@@HappyGermanShepherd-xi5sq His name is Jaimie
Well, women back then were still sane.
If you were born in the 1990s or 2000s, there's a decent chance that you wouldn't have been able to find a relationship. Women today are significantly crazier.
She "makes it work". She kissed you out of duty not because she wanted to. There's a difference. I'm glad you're happy.
There’s an even more ominous cultural storm cloud coming . . .
We’ve essentially told 90%+ of men to die alone, childless and in poverty.
90%.
You think these are just going to collectively say “Thank you, sir. May I have another?”
There are much worse fates.. Try being the patrirch of most modern families these days.. 🙂
Then all you have to do is get that passport but ok dude.
As men, we just have to adapt. If you want sex, paying for it is cheaper, easier, less stressful, safer and you get variety.
Even in a relationship you are paying for sex anyways
@@cronix1314 exactly
Rodney Dangerfield voice: YEAH! VARIETY! IN A PETRI DISH!!!😳😳😳
@@TheCuratorWillBQuytOperational actually when women make it their jobs, they tend to be safer
There's far more to a relationship than sex alone. It's beyond your imagination. it was beyond mine, until I got here. This is a wonderful 1/3 century-long marriage talking.
A man who has no stake in the future, cares not for the future.
It makes no sense to risk life and limb for decrepit society (and a wicked system ruling over it) that doesn't have your best interest at heart.
Yeahhhh. Mate. Surrreee. Suuuurrrreeeeee
I need to remember that quote.
I never married or had children. I earned an ordinary income as a tradesman and, not wasting money, have a net worth of several million dollars. Retired at age 57.
Aside from a planned $10,000 campaign contribution for Trump, what the hell should I do with that net worth?
@@SeattlePioneerFigure out a way to do something good with it once you no longer need it.
There is no benefit for men to marry. Game over
Free lifetime family healthcare,
Fully survivorable Pensions,
double step-up in basis,
I won't continue,
READ
As it has always been.
Same for women. Game over.
@@kriskeena9438 Just say you can't do math, it's a lot easier. 😂
@@kriskeena9438 Women☕
Your best video of All Time. This is a very serious issue and it needs real serious attention.! Keep it going.! Mike in Colorado
As usual, whatever happens or doesn't happen men will be blamed for it.
Yup, which is exactly why society can never be fixed.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Started to see it more and more. I dont understand other woman what so ever but sorry real men suffer unnecessarily. Leaving that statement broad. But had to say it
And undoubtedly will have to fix it
As the video mentioned, 80 percent of the consumer spending is done by women. That means the media, which is sponsored by advertisers selling consumer goods, will be always make women look good. So if there are problems they always blame men out of expedience. Neither the media, nor the govt who want women's votes, will ever lay any blame on women.
Pearl is about to be 30, single and childless. She is 28 or 29 right now and she's single.
FEMINISM
But at least she has some understanding of the world, her available choices, and what she must do to in seeking her goals. That sets her apart from some horribly vast majority of her peers. She has a legitimate chance to partner well.
She is actually in a relationship
So was Mother Terrisa
@@mlackey9812She's not Mother Teresa
The passport brothers movement will be HUGE!
Facts, as well as MGTOW and Monk Mode.
@@jaimepimentel1502 that will be the best choice because being a passport brother is risky if you make the mistake of marrying and/or have child.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Can't afford to go to other countries. Can't work due to disability. I am screwed when it comes to getting married and having a family. I'm 57yo btw.
@@timwashburn8553 I'm sorry for your situation. You need health and money to enjoy the passport bro movement. Just learn to live your live decently, find passions that you like, maybe a escort can help you alleviate the solitude. But live IMHO can be very good even if you stay alone. You don't need woman to be happy.
Man, it's all around us. The West is screwed big time. With the influx of illegals and the crashing birth rate, this country will be beyond recognizable in 5-10 years. I 'm 60 and sound like my dad back in the 70s-80 when he'd say "I'm glad Im old and don't have much time left on this rock because this world is goin' down the toilet"! One the marriage note, I was married for 13 years, divorced in 2005....still single, house is paid off, no credit card debt, not all stressed out, I only have to clean the house once a week. Don't need a woman in my life at this stage .
so you recognize that you're repeating the same scared bs as your dad did when he was your age and your conclusion is "everythings wrong" and not "everything changes and i'm just a scared little guy like my dad and every boomer on the planet". is this really the first time youve figured out that... gasp... everything.. changes.
@houseofvultures582 Is English your first language? Just asking for a friend.
@@nobody5825-b3l. This civilization is about to collapse. No bs.
lol women know they share men. They know exactly what they're doing.
exactly. women know exactly what they are doing. women always share men in one way or another.
It's wired in their nervous systems. Kings had harems. Beastlike women always want the top male, no matter if she's just one of 20. That's what most of them are. Just somewhat intimidated wild animals.
living in the age of unaccountability not helping the cause at all
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Good point
men are accountable !, women ? its a hard NO
That’s the real problem. The morals are lost in the profit world.
Great point and well crafted commented, the Tao te Ching says something similar, “the more rules, the more thieves will appear” and I know your not saying exactly that but we’re supposed to be living in age of accountability but you point out the truth it’s exactly the opposite, and you could say people not being accountable doesn’t make them thieves…. But in a way it does.
The only way you could have a return to traditionalism would be through a true collapse of society, whether that takes the form of most likely an economic collapse or war (or most likely a combination) or I suppose you could have a truly deadly pandemic where you lose at least half the population. But in essence it would take some type of true disaster that would necessitate a return to traditional roles.
Nah, all would take is enough men standing up and demanding the change. Men just need to refuse marriage and it would change. Women would yell and scream but in the end it would change.
Yes, just dont marry and dont save them, never pardon them. In some generations things will fix themselves.
As a boomer, I was taught in bad economic times, hemlines go up, as do manners. All I see is mobile phone addiction and pandering to likes or whatever and norming to a fictional 3*6 plus fairytale that must come true. None of this having each others back, through thick or thin. I have given up on these miserable creatures having to agree with the stats that Pearl has stated. May they experience homelessness - because rents are not going down, while shops are placing items in Perspex display cases.
It isn't going to be war or economic collapse, at least not directly. It is going to be population collapse. This will lead to war and economic collapse, but if we don't have the people to do the work society falls apart. China is projected to lose half its population by 2050. Germany, Korea, Japan, Russia, and Italy are all in that same boat. The US has quite a bit more time, so hopefully we can unf**k this before it is too late for the US.
@@darcydicksonI would like that too be true but I agree with OP. It takes the harsh realities of nature to bring back sanity.
I think most women do not give two fucks about most men. The men they want to marry they just end up sharing with other average and above average women
Ever since America rejected God, it’s gone down this self-destructive path. It’s no coincidence. Romans 1:28
Bronze-Age belief systems no longer work for organizing first world countries. It's astounding that rather than face that, conservatives insist on doubling down.
In 1969, at age 19, I observed the PLAGUE of divorce.
I decided never to get married or have children. Not worth the risk of social and financial disaster.
Now, at age 74 -----
BEST DECISION EVER!
How it feels to be alone noone is waiting for you in your house always empty house?
probalby heaven @@barhat961
@@barhat961
Very PEACEFUL.
@@barhat961 You just described peace dude.
@@barhat961I'm in the same situation. It's fantastic: nobody nagging me, messing with my stuff, inviting people over, etc.
I’m 28 and have pretty much given up on trying to find a partner. I don’t want someone that has an OF or raise another man’s children. I’ve just been focusing on my career and doing things that make me happy but it’s depressing sometimes
Get your passport dude.
Just have fun getting some once in awhile. There are very few lasting relationships these days. Do what you can to get by.
Hang in! Look to the Lord for where he wants you to be. That’s all that matters.
@@neatnateable You don't get passport from the Lord son, you get passports from the post office. 😂
@@paulh7798 True. Haha. I wasn't replying to your comment as much as the original one.
My ex wife was NEVER happy! The only time she was happy was when she was pissed off
Ha ha ha.
Now dats funni
Yep
Some women are not happy unless they are miserable.
Indeed. It's weird to me how so many women basically expect their husband to provide fun + excitement + help her regulate her emotions + make her happy.
pearl let me ask you. are you married. pls stop talking on behalf of all women and men. fix your life first. stop projecting.
The modern legal system has ruined what marriage originally stood for though.
It started with THE TENDER YEARS ACT of 1830, which gave women custody of the kids after divorce. Eventually, with the kids, came the house, the new van, the retirement, alimony, and child support. Cash, prizes, and government-backed power for divorcing women.
The modern legal system (ie, people) figured out that they could enrich themselves on the misery of others, and they aren't going to quit as long as there are people getting married. And that will come to an end.
part of theplan dee pop
Yea, 80 years ago, when people got married, they stayed married until death did they part. Another reason the courts and laws need to be changed to reflect today's temporary wife's club.
@@jpman9795 People just won't get married then, lol.
Never get married. No contracts. No shared bank accounts. Pay own tax. Never move out of your house.
Lessons learned and they sure run deep. 🎶
You Sir, are giving the best advice. Hope others read and follow!
...Mom's house? 😂😂
@@jayerbee7147 seeing who you are subscribed on, its clear you are still in your moms basement 😂😂😂😂
Like you say, Pearl. Unless the laws DRASTICALLY change to protect men, we are not going to marry. We want to. We just can't. It's not safe.
In some cases judges don't honor prenups either. Their excuse is they must do "what's best for the family".
@@muffs55mercury61 Oh yes, I know. lawyers on youtube say the same thing. A pre nup is useless if the woman says she signed it under duress.
@@orangeandslinky We live in a world where women can accuse men 30 years or more later and try and win civil judgements.
Divorced woman here! Last year for me to make payment to my ex. He came with nothing and left with over a million cash and assets! Not all women are the problem
@@abbeyrandall9390 do not believe any woman.
The women did it to themselves.
I noticed back in 2020 (even though it was right under my nose all along)
that the 2 floor mall I used to go to back in the 80's has 100% female stores
with 100% female catered businesses run by 100% female staff.
I went to get a new iphone and I didn't see a single male in the entire mall.
No businesses there for males. Not even a shoe store.
They are depending on females to spend foolishly and frivolously to stay in
business even now that the economy is completely upside down,
I'm just thankful that I work from home now and my mortgage has been paid
off since 2015.
Did ya ever notice those really sad depressed guys in the malls back in the day sitting there with all the bags alone while their woman shopped? In the old days those men were the suckers, the simps. And yes the vast majority of consumerism is based around women unless you are in a hardware store or a motorcycle dealership.
I never liked the mall anyway.
Currently women account for 85% of consumer spending, and that number is rising...
@@Ziegfried82 Thanks. And recently it is a guy pretending he is fascinated by what is on her phone.
Oh how our minds are different.
Personally I'm 40, single, never been married, have no kids and it's staying that way.
I love life 🙂🙂 quiet, coffee, reading, creativity, looking forward to stuff, using common sense, making smart decisions and so much more.
Men are simple, women are not just what I see
When women call the police on their "mate" they come in ready to "delete" with extreme prejudice.
@@LanierHale-oq3dr Police are really confused on lesbian relationships...right...so do they hammer down on the shortest haircut?
@@superchuck3259 🤣🤣🤣
Some woman described women's emotions as a Kelidascope. Fair analysis. Who wants to deal with that ca ca 24/7, 365/6. I support marriage. I'm a sincere Catholic, but where are the wives. We've got immature gimme machines.
Hard to protect yourself from the collapse of society
That’s the problem, isn’t it? This is what happens in a dying culture.
It's easy to protect yourself from everything.
IF your single. Mobility and flexibility. Poor? Commit crime, you'll always get away with it if your a true loner.
Loners never lose.
There are ways to elevate your thoughts into enlightenment. I talk about a lot of the things I’m learning on my channel. Feel free to stop by.
I have kids, successful marriage, no jabs, homestead. I'll be fine,
@@MakeYouFeelBetterNow When the food in the cities runs out, they will come knocking on your door..
Imagine if the handmaid’s tale actually happens. But instead of women being forced to do it, women actively choose to do it, because men don’t want nothing to do with women, and this would be the only way they could get pregnant.
Women got the vote and have been using emotions to make decisions where we should be using logic and reason.
Based
Very true. Everywhere the women got the vote we saw an immediate hard left turn and hysterical feel-good politics with no connection to reality, like prohibition, open borders and greenism... A civilization-ending mistake.
Fellas, never get married. Don't risk your $$$ and pension away. It's 2024 and you have nothing to gain and everything to lose. Bet!
Losing money is bad. To me the worst is losing my children and having to understand that nothing I wanted with my children will ever happen. That pain is a destroyer of my soul.
@@empirecity61
I went through the same thing in 1985. Had joint custody of my daughter and the ex moved across country and there was nothing I could do about it. Grieve your loss as thoroughly as you can and move on. The best revenge is to succeed in life.
Feminism = lesbian concept
How true is this.
No, comes from Tikkum Olam
Feminism came from the Soviet Union as a way to gain support of the population to win the Russian Civil War.
Feminism came from the Soviet Union.
@@purplespeckledappleeater8738
Soviet Union cams from Tikkum Olam.
Focusing on myself without the intention of dating is how I see this next chapter of my life going in no way am I remotely happy with my current dating situation. I feel hopeless at this point not dating at all feels like a better option mentally and economically
Let’s thank all women for liberating men👏Good job
Coping hard, aren’t ya?
truly.. but they didn't expect that.. short-sighted vision 😁😁
Might be the other way round considering many woman want a 4B movement 😂
Lmao
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As a man I wanted a huge family. three to four kids. I only had one, and she left, divorced and took my kid across the country. That destroyed my life, had major effects on my son. Getting to what you said. I do wish I did have the expectation of being a single parent. Maybe if I did, I could have recovered and reset faster and made another family. I think you are doing a good thing. Men should be cautious, be prepared for the worst. I did remarry, but never got my large family. as my second wife could not have children. But thats life.
Big facts.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Looks like my comment was deleted 🤷♀️. No one likes the truth.
you are very lucky to have a son, though.
you are a great man. you did not fail....the world failed you.
For thousands of years men could only step up and meet the challenge head on. But the modern sisterhood movement gave men the option to step aside. So now that men are learning how they can have their lives ruined by women. Due to the modern legal system many are opting to step aside.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
I'm gonna step aside and get on a plane 😂
Mgtow is the way to go
You are not wrong , im 31 , have a job , i paid my entire house and im in pretty good shape and i can tell that im done dating modern woman, the delusion is out of this world.
Everytime I see a woman buried in her phone looking at her DMs shows me every woman that is automatically a clear "no" in my mind.
Agreed. I see them walking in public all the time doing it, with people and potential hazards all around them. I know this is a weird thought, but sometimes I’d like to stop them and tell them how easily they could be victimized walking around like that. They’re so worried about something happening to them, but they do nothing to prevent the possibility. Even as man I’m always trying to be fully aware of my surroundings. Also, it’s just a bad look in general.
It's not just women doing that is the thing. Went on a walk in a big park a couple weeks back and it hit me. I struggled to find people walking there that didn't have their heads down and glued to their phone. People there alone, couples, families, everyone. Some might be talking to each other, but they were talking down at their phone, not facing each other. Whole families, mom, dad, sons, daughters, everyone just on their phones. It was a nice day, in a beautiful park, people should be there to enjoy the scenery and the company of others. Social media and smartphones have made everyone LESS connected imo.
34 year old male, been single for 3 years, never married but engaged. I feel like I am about done trying to date. Tried for a while and everything I see out here is hopeless and feels pointless now to the point of where I’m giving up. The dating scene feels like a comedy sketch.
Also glad to see after reading these comments I’m not alone. Thought maybe I’m the weird one. Nope.
The dating scene out here in Seattle is definitely a comedy sketch LOL
@@TheIKrushalotall over the western GLOBE. In Japan, women cheat so hard, men have to cope or not confront them on it; just to hold the family unity.
They are not worth it anymore… personal experience (married and divorced to a modern woman) and first hand observation :(
Play by YOUR rules, don’t simp and feed these monsters…
You are not and it is also the same in EU...
I just turned 34 a few weeks ago and have a very similar attitude as you towards dating, I'm in the U.S btw. Around 2018 or so I started getting this feeling that there was something off with the dating market but I couldn't quite put my finger on it. I had this suspicion that most other men were having a hard time, it was just an unspoken reality. I started noticing towards the end of 2020 and into 2021 that there were a lot of stats coming out talking about how many men were sexless, struggling in the dating market or not even looking at all. I essentially had all of my suspicions confirmed when the pieces finally were put together.
Including you Pearl...30. Unmarried. No kids. You aint lookin to good yourself
Always such a level headed take, very much respect your opinion. I am a happy single man and would not even CONSIDER a relationship lol. And Ive had ALL GOOD ones! My relationships are with my friends, family, animals, nature and personal goals. Women have been given the opportunity in recent decades to shape a large portion of how things are today, well, here we are.
It takes a lot to not give into the over sexualization of women. Men hold a level of power that can wipe out the s3x industry. The secret is self control.
Yep, they sure did a number on this world.