Cool video, your channel is really an inspiration. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Bond with your God brother. And you might have to repent of worshiping that woman. Most of us have been there. Just don’t start sleeping with everybody or start destroying yourself. Life goes on.
@@k.weirdo7747 no need to I lived it the women I was with just didn't want to follow they had other agendas before we got married and I saw it coming but I ended up falling under the wrong mindset, happy wife happy life, I'm back to normal now lol.
@@wewhagg I hope you're able to find a woman who can not only follow but lead when necessary, while also understanding what state of mind to be in in both. 🥰
Lol, I understand the patience, but at some point as a leader you have know when to cut something off. Emotional ties are difficult, but if it's draining or distracting you from your purpose or lifestyle, andva piece of mind, cut it off.
That man really been here before learned a lot and came back to teach. I said it before and I’ll say it again I want my husband with his type of mindset ❤❤❤❤❤😂
*You cant override men who are attempting to do this. And that is the problem. Even the dude jumping was attempting to always do this in his relationship, but you guys when you are with a dude doing this.. you keep cutting him off from doing his job and attempt to keep it under control.. even your own bills, how you spend your money.. how to pay a cheaper rate on car notes or wait to another period to pick up a car maybe. Whatever it is..* if he knows about it, he will speak on it. If he doesnt know.. find someone who may know to explain to both of you and make the right decision within your means. Too many women living outside of their means and then getting evicted.. there is an epidemic of that it seems... I wonder how that happened?
@@idkjackman4418you said all this and not once acknowledged the women can also know, you went right to asking someone outside the relationship because the man doesn’t know and that’s why y’all aren’t leaders. You want control, a leader can acknowledge that they also have something to learn from what should be their partner, but I’m sure you enjoy the term follower, makes you men feel important without doing the real work. Also, all this examples were simply saying she should do what you say (like what car to buy lol), not once did you get into what it means to truly lead a home that flourishes and allows those in it to do the same.
Women think that "leader" is just a shallow title that some men have that doesn't permeate through the makings of his character, holistically. You cannot say you want to be with a strong leader and expect him to be a b!+c# once you enter his life, being all up under your dominion as a boss b!+c#. It doesn't work like that. If he's truly a leader then it ain't on him. It's in him (through and through). You either get with his program or get away from him and not waste neither of eachother's time.
Damn, couldn’t have broken that down better. I see that as one of the biggest struggles in black relationships. It’s the power struggle, and then the competition which go hand in hand. If I’m competing with you to be the leader and you even EXPECT ME to be, you’re the reason why things aren’t progressing. Play your role, or go be with somebody who needs a woman to lead them. But they wont respect him…it’s a never ending cycle. Seen it enough. This is a waste of time and it’s draining as hell.
A follower CHOOSES their leader. But a leader also CHOOSES his followers. Both need to take accountability. A BAD follower is someone who doesn’t TRUST the so-called leader.
I don't necessarily know that a leader chooses his followers. Also a follower doesn't only not follow because of poor leadership. The leadership may be good they just may not get on with the program. In school if you don't follow the program you fail. In sports you don't follow you're cut or traded. There are good and bad leadership in all arenas of life, but I just wanted to emphasize that a follower can either leave because of lack of trust or because they are unwilling to get on-board with the overall plan/program
@techniteazyceomaynardmorga5608 I'm talking about in the context of a husband and a wife. The husband leads and the wife follows. If the wife is not following, she doesn't trust her leader is competent. If a husband sees that his wife is not following, it would behoove him to ask himself, "why doesn't she trust my leadership?" They both have the choice in being together.
Because she respects Tripp…All of the ladies on the panel respect him..Women naturally fall into a submissive role around intelligent Men who display leadership qualities…
@@nayjavu Progress, we'll take it. I think she's...ok but she would be much better if she were a bit more patient and a little more soft spoken. When she realizes that she doesn't have to yell to be heard, she doesn't have to be defensive to make a point and doesn't have to wear pounds of makeup to be seen.... We will get to see the real her.
Amennnnnnn God created men to lead. Women, I learned today that when a man is around...I let my wrist break...meaning no one is gonna help you if you can do it all on your own
What a lot of people don’t understand about both being a leader & being led is that it requires humility & a lack of pride from both parties. It’s really hard to find that these days.
I grew up seeing a lot of men(relatives, non-family, managers, , co-workers, saved and unsaved) but only knew a few who were actually good leaders. 😢...Even today I can clearly recognize those who are good leaders and those who just like the position or authority of a leader but arent actually leading much of anything or dont stay consistent long enough to be effective. Men have to equip, teach and prepare other men to be good leaders if not they will just be title holders only.
Yessir!! Let me add though... FOR ME.. It's his role and it great when he is efficient at it..yes..but, he is not the end all be all. He must be lead by a power greater than HIMSELF. I'm not talking a "holyroller" but he must be aware of the importance of being CONNECTED to a something greater.. Because that's where the true power is...thats where the true hope and aspiration and success lies! And that fuels the feeling of security in both. 💜💪🏾💜
For all my bros out here, keep in mind not to get it twisted when a woman asks you to be a leader and not a tyrant. She's not asking you to impose your authority or dictate the relationship, as if you're trying to turn her into a submissive, docile, obedient girl for your own personal gain. That's not the type of leadership women want in a relationship. A good leader is a person who is responsible for other's success. He must lead the next leader. So for you to be a good leader in the relationship, you're gonna have to guide your partner, so she may take charge of the household and maintain it's foundation.
Men aren't the ones who have this confused. Women are the ones who ask for leadership, and then act like when the leader decides that something they want isn't what's best, then that's the definition of tyranny. You can always get your way in the end, or you can get a leader. You can't get both. Because if your way was always the right way, then you wouldn't want a leader. Maybe the most caring thing a person can do for you is be the one to say, "No", when you really need to here it.
@@JCPRuckus "...women act like when the leader decides that something they want isn't the best, then that's the definition of tyranny..." "...the most caring thing a person can do for you is be the one to say "no", when you really need to hear it" That's not an act of leading, that's just being controlling. You're not supposed to take charge of every decisions that she wants to make, you're suppose to lead her to make the right decision and trust her to make those decisions on her own
Yes! In order to be a great leader you have to be able identify when to fall back and follow when it permits. This includes intimate relationships 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
@@TEDDYSCARDSGAMESLLC again, that’s not every woman. I’ve been married twenty years so I’m more inclined to take advice from women who have been in stable relationships rather than women sitting around wishing they had a male companion. Evidently their opinions aren’t founded on much
women think just by being their and having cookie is enough. then they wonder why most are not wives. amazing how so many women refuse to learn from the mistakes of OTHER women.
EXACTLY😂😂😂....and it's just that...women at work always asking why u always run off (after presenting themselves and batting eyes in my face) I'm big on energy ...they just don't understand😂😂😂
Fax. The truth is, even tho this shit popped up on my feed, I'm over these conversations. A woman, or man for that matter, you have to constantly beat over the head with reality is not worth talking too. They've made it into adulthood with this foolishness. They've been paying bills, signing legal documents, & operating motor vehicles next to you on the road all while living in lala land. Chances are they not even gone get it when they're old & washed up & life punch em in they face cuz they getting punched right now & don't even notice it. Those who get it will remain in practice & find each other & everyone else will fall. That's that. Let em suffer. They gone keep wondering why they not happy & continue with the behavior that's creating the results
At best, they’ll give lip service and say they daddy but if you really look into they family history.. they never really followed him either, they just use him as an example when convenient.
I can honestly say that I’ve never had a man to follow before, unless it was a boss at my job. I’m afraid I’ve had to lead more often than I wanted to. I can follow, but I realize that a level of trust and vulnerability is needed for me to be able to follow as successfully as I’d like to.
I experienced healthy leadership growing up with my parents. They taught me to always pursue knowledge and education, to think critically, and to trust my own instincts that I might become an accomplished woman who can LEAD her own life. I can earn and manage my own money and assets, advance my professional position, and avoid many of life’s pitfalls. I was brought up to, as a fully grown adult, not require to be “led” by anyone.
@@butterflymage5623 Nice response to “HereForIt”… I know if one is in ANY kind of relationship, there will be compromise, fluctuations, etc challenges. Lead, follow or get outta the relationship.
Being a good *follower* comes from one's individual *mindset* ...not from an _external_ imposition of leadership. Discipline, respect, and humility are *crucial* elements in someone being a *_good_* follower.
You can't expect pookie who doesn't even have a steady income or even a place to sleep to be a leader. But you still choose to procreate with him which is crazy.
Pookie and tyrone been leading them right to this very moment. Meanwhile, the BM who know how to lead get passed right on by, cause they lack swagger, bullet holes, a prison record, have a 9-5 job. BM who know how lead, bw will not follow.
It's always so refreshing when one hits balance.... Everybody is just fixated on self and pointing fingers to blame. It's so freaking exhausting man. 😩
@@hereforit2347yup, they are just heavy luggage (if they are imposing themselves on the situation) or slaves (if the situation is imposed on them). Will is a very important concept. If a woman isn’t willing to submit, you simply leave… she isn’t ready to be a wife, hopefully someday with another man.
Guess what? If no one is submitting to you, no one is following you, and no one is *willing* to follow you, you’re *not* a leader in the first place. You’re delusional. 😂
They always ignore that there are TONS of women who have had DOZENS of men in their lives that did a GREAT job--and they have still made up their mind a long time ago that they are not going to follow even the PERFECT leader. The want POWER, and they are NOT looking to ever give it up, by playing a wife's proper role. SMH
Yep !! But most men are not conscious enough to understand that the average woman PRIORITIZES control they want to wear the PANTS in the relationship !! She will choose a man she can control but doesnt love before she will choose a man she loves but cant control anyday !!
Followers are first inspired to become good followers and supporters, due to great leadership. Followers will literally nominate and promote their Leader based on these attributes.
This is dumb. People thought Hilter was a good leader. People that Idi Amin was a good leader. I can keep going😂 The point is people don't knpw what good leadership looks like. They like leaders that think like them even if that thinking is flawed and dangerous.
..there’s a reason why the “common folk” weren’t allowed to VOTE in this counties yesteryear. Because the founding fathers KNEW there are DUMB @$! followers who couldn’t be “led” out of a damn paper bag.
EXACTLY !! Because up under Tripp’s point only good followers can be lead no in reality duh their are terrible followers but that’s what makes a great leader a great leader. It’s giving he has never actually lead
@@BlueBookLessonsugh duh there is people who don’t know what great leadership and duh there are people who don’t know how to follow those people need leadership the most lol. it takes a great leader to help them learn it’s really giving yall ain’t never lead anyone lol. Because to assume ONLY good followers can be lead is idiotic as a leader and it says maybe you shouldn’t be a leader because NOT everyone is going to be a good follower some people truly have to be built by a GOOD LEADER lmbo yall math ain’t mathing today Jesus
@@ApolloStuckeyArthere’s the thing. No one is gonna lead you if you’re a bad follower unless its their job to do so, their your parent, or they love you more then they love themselves. Your talking point isn’t a talking point, because being a leader doesn’t mean wasting your time on someone who doesn’t want to follow you. Your math isn’t mathing.
Thank you for the encouragement. I am learning to be confident about what I want and stick with my standards. I want to give off high vibrational energy. Logan comes first you don’t have to apologize! He’s going to love Mario World. I’m glad you’ll be vlogging soon. Yes we want to see
Oh there have been times she hasn't agreed with Tripp! For the most part, the women respect his take on things. It's all about delivery! Some of the other guys have this arrogance with them, but Tripp and Ace usually have confidence with themselves! Arrogance and confidence tastes very different! Confidence is definitely more palatable than arrogance!
when men get back in the true masculinity and provide for their families they cant lead a woman… thats why women feel like 50/50 is for a roomate which is fair because men have providing for their families since the beginning of time, nowadays men want women to go 50/50, now they both in a masculine role
Paying all the bills doesn't make you masculine. Saying to the other adult of the opposite sex do your part or keep it moving isn't feminine. Break the cycle
Exactly enough said. If he has his life under control then he will not allow you to come in and disrupt that control. You will fall in line or you will be let go, dismissed, handed your resignation.
that is a SOFT brother to even have to have another man validate what he has been saying to his girl. if a woman doesn't want to follow, a man should immediately walk away. never waste time with hard headed women. what is the gain?
I am a woman and i already have my shit together and under control. If you want to be a leader in my life you need to show me a destinstion that is better than where I am already headed. If you can't do that than you either follow my lead or go on to somebody else.
Buddy is absolutely right! “In Certain arenas…” everybody is “DIFFERENT” why is this hard for Us to understand? Where one is strong another might not be as skilled.. and vice versa!! When we accept THIS reality.. all of these one sided convos will finally STOP!
Everybody always want a leader until it's time to be led
You heard nothing did you?
That part
Facts! Then get mad that you're trying to regulate shit, to solve problems, while they are just making things worse.
Man exactly. These women say that shit but u can’t lead them to victory in broad day light
Oof!
Trip always knows how to shut them up Politely
ALWAYS 😍🥹🔥
He don't miss
💯💯💯
Big facts, but ppl tend to expect to be treated politely after being unruly. That needs to stop.
@@tinyking11ip❤❤p
A man can't lead someone who can't follow no more than a shield can protect you if you don't stand behind it.
Damn that's a good one
Yessir lol
Bars.
Yep!!! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
BARS!!!
Cool video, your channel is really an inspiration. My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.
its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?
Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
Bond with your God brother. And you might have to repent of worshiping that woman. Most of us have been there. Just don’t start sleeping with everybody or start destroying yourself. Life goes on.
Tripp spits fire. He might be a dragon.
😂 Yes! Very true 🙌🏾
Lil Wayne shoutout??
That’s a bar!!!!
Drogon in the flesh
He is definitely a fire spitting dragon 😂
Leadership conversations have been weaponized by people who are professionals at insubordination.
MUHFUCKIN OLYMPIANS!!!!
It's always the ones who are the most resistant to a man leading that are always lecturing men on how they should lead.
@@Craigthomas322this is true
Weaponized against who?
@@hereforit2347 people. I've seen both men and women do it
One thing about a great leader is they are great followers. They learn and evolutionize the teachings. ❤❤
So that means they can teach others how to be good followers so they can lead when he's not around correct👊🏾
@@wewhagg Absolutely. Look into the book 'Leaders Eat Last' by Simon Sinek.
@@k.weirdo7747 no need to I lived it the women I was with just didn't want to follow they had other agendas before we got married and I saw it coming but I ended up falling under the wrong mindset, happy wife happy life, I'm back to normal now lol.
@@wewhagg I hope you're able to find a woman who can not only follow but lead when necessary, while also understanding what state of mind to be in in both. 🥰
🗣️🗣️🗣️
“When he has is shit under control, he gonna hold shit down under control” 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Facts. It’s hard to lead someone you have to drag with you.
At that point you're not leading, just carrying extra weight.
This!!!!!!
If I have to drag someone to lead them, guess what. They getting dropped. I'm not dragging anybody. You either follow or you leave. It's voluntary.
@@richardlafleur2511 ultimately, that’s how it plays out unless you volunteer for a life of frustration. And yeah, I’m not signing up for that.
Lol, I understand the patience, but at some point as a leader you have know when to cut something off. Emotional ties are difficult, but if it's draining or distracting you from your purpose or lifestyle, andva piece of mind, cut it off.
Tripp needs his own show!
Been saying this
He can do this easily....
Agreed
Feminists ruined women who embrace it. On.e out of four women hate themselves so much that they take antidepressants as a result. Smh
Come on now. Let them win as a team. We're too quick to break things up. Don't fix what's not broken
Homie never fails with the fact that he speaks..👍🏾
She annoying though . Ready to respond even though he wasn’t finished . Sad
That man really been here before learned a lot and came back to teach. I said it before and I’ll say it again I want my husband with his type of mindset ❤❤❤❤❤😂
Tbh Tripp definitely is one of those guys who are very rare and well thought out.
@@elsiem7295 yes very rare ❤️💕
*You cant override men who are attempting to do this. And that is the problem. Even the dude jumping was attempting to always do this in his relationship, but you guys when you are with a dude doing this.. you keep cutting him off from doing his job and attempt to keep it under control.. even your own bills, how you spend your money.. how to pay a cheaper rate on car notes or wait to another period to pick up a car maybe. Whatever it is..* if he knows about it, he will speak on it. If he doesnt know.. find someone who may know to explain to both of you and make the right decision within your means. Too many women living outside of their means and then getting evicted.. there is an epidemic of that it seems... I wonder how that happened?
@@idkjackman4418you said all this and not once acknowledged the women can also know, you went right to asking someone outside the relationship because the man doesn’t know and that’s why y’all aren’t leaders. You want control, a leader can acknowledge that they also have something to learn from what should be their partner, but I’m sure you enjoy the term follower, makes you men feel important without doing the real work. Also, all this examples were simply saying she should do what you say (like what car to buy lol), not once did you get into what it means to truly lead a home that flourishes and allows those in it to do the same.
@@nmw654shut it
Women think that "leader" is just a shallow title that some men have that doesn't permeate through the makings of his character, holistically. You cannot say you want to be with a strong leader and expect him to be a b!+c# once you enter his life, being all up under your dominion as a boss b!+c#. It doesn't work like that. If he's truly a leader then it ain't on him. It's in him (through and through). You either get with his program or get away from him and not waste neither of eachother's time.
Drop that mic, Vaughn!!! 🎤 🔥
Damn, couldn’t have broken that down better. I see that as one of the biggest struggles in black relationships. It’s the power struggle, and then the competition which go hand in hand. If I’m competing with you to be the leader and you even EXPECT ME to be, you’re the reason why things aren’t progressing. Play your role, or go be with somebody who needs a woman to lead them. But they wont respect him…it’s a never ending cycle. Seen it enough. This is a waste of time and it’s draining as hell.
You sleep on the couch in your auntie’s basement.
@@hereforit2347 ...but where was I wrong?
@hereforit2347 exactly🤣🤣🤣🤣 on TH-cam with her wifi, but she got to get with "his program" 🤣🤣🤣
A follower CHOOSES their leader. But a leader also CHOOSES his followers. Both need to take accountability. A BAD follower is someone who doesn’t TRUST the so-called leader.
That's all that is...
I don't necessarily know that a leader chooses his followers. Also a follower doesn't only not follow because of poor leadership. The leadership may be good they just may not get on with the program. In school if you don't follow the program you fail. In sports you don't follow you're cut or traded. There are good and bad leadership in all arenas of life, but I just wanted to emphasize that a follower can either leave because of lack of trust or because they are unwilling to get on-board with the overall plan/program
@techniteazyceomaynardmorga5608 I'm talking about in the context of a husband and a wife. The husband leads and the wife follows. If the wife is not following, she doesn't trust her leader is competent. If a husband sees that his wife is not following, it would behoove him to ask himself, "why doesn't she trust my leadership?" They both have the choice in being together.
True, you understand. Unfortunately that part which is logical, is not clicking for some people.
Horrible logic a leader doesn’t pick his followers
Trip need a book deal & a show!!!!
Trip be spitting fire! Kita was there like “damn this guy never misses and it’s annoying” face
That's her name? She is a clown to me, she is mad toxic...
She actually didn't interrupt!!!!
Holy shit
Because she respects Tripp…All of the ladies on the panel respect him..Women naturally fall into a submissive role around intelligent Men who display leadership qualities…
@@user-ye4bu6xh4cyoure definitely a woman. Dont lie about it either
You could tell she also wasn't listening either. She was ready to respond before he even finished his thought
I think kita has been reading comments and seeing the videos and how she looks. Lately she even stopped dressing like a street walker. Lol
@@nayjavu Progress, we'll take it. I think she's...ok but she would be much better if she were a bit more patient and a little more soft spoken.
When she realizes that she doesn't have to yell to be heard, she doesn't have to be defensive to make a point and doesn't have to wear pounds of makeup to be seen....
We will get to see the real her.
Amennnnnnn God created men to lead. Women, I learned today that when a man is around...I let my wrist break...meaning no one is gonna help you if you can do it all on your own
Protect this King 👑
He can protect himself. He seems like that type of Brother.
“King” of *what?* 😂
Exactly. I love his viewpoints because it straight to the point and super sensible.
Preach King!
Kita that FACE YOU MADE IS 😂EVERYTHING ( it’s funny A.F)
What a lot of people don’t understand about both being a leader & being led is that it requires humility & a lack of pride from both parties. It’s really hard to find that these days.
I grew up seeing a lot of men(relatives, non-family, managers, , co-workers, saved and unsaved) but only knew a few who were actually good leaders. 😢...Even today I can clearly recognize those who are good leaders and those who just like the position or authority of a leader but arent actually leading much of anything or dont stay consistent long enough to be effective. Men have to equip, teach and prepare other men to be good leaders if not they will just be title holders only.
Yessir!! Let me add though... FOR ME.. It's his role and it great when he is efficient at it..yes..but, he is not the end all be all. He must be lead by a power greater than HIMSELF. I'm not talking a "holyroller" but he must be aware of the importance of being CONNECTED to a something greater.. Because that's where the true power is...thats where the true hope and aspiration and success lies! And that fuels the feeling of security in both. 💜💪🏾💜
the guy clapping took me smoove out 😂😂
For all my bros out here, keep in mind not to get it twisted when a woman asks you to be a leader and not a tyrant. She's not asking you to impose your authority or dictate the relationship, as if you're trying to turn her into a submissive, docile, obedient girl for your own personal gain. That's not the type of leadership women want in a relationship. A good leader is a person who is responsible for other's success. He must lead the next leader. So for you to be a good leader in the relationship, you're gonna have to guide your partner, so she may take charge of the household and maintain it's foundation.
That's not what a leader does. A tyrant is not a leader you are mixing things up. Leaders are not narcissistic
@@abcminime You know there are two types of leaders right? A good and a bad one. So what does a leader do then?
Gender is moot. No one wants to be treated like that
Men aren't the ones who have this confused. Women are the ones who ask for leadership, and then act like when the leader decides that something they want isn't what's best, then that's the definition of tyranny. You can always get your way in the end, or you can get a leader. You can't get both. Because if your way was always the right way, then you wouldn't want a leader. Maybe the most caring thing a person can do for you is be the one to say, "No", when you really need to here it.
@@JCPRuckus "...women act like when the leader decides that something they want isn't the best, then that's the definition of tyranny..."
"...the most caring thing a person can do for you is be the one to say "no", when you really need to hear it"
That's not an act of leading, that's just being controlling. You're not supposed to take charge of every decisions that she wants to make, you're suppose to lead her to make the right decision and trust her to make those decisions on her own
All day long...preach Bruh 👍👍👍
A true man can only lead when his spiritual life is in order period!
Tripp just get your own show please 🙏🏾 always drop gems
Kita wanted to say something back as always but she was smart not to because Tripp has a way of making ppl look dumb and he'll do it respectfully.
Kita isn't acting... She is definitely dumb
Right it was like 👀😏😩😳🙂🙃🫣😅🤭☺️
Facts
Kita just regurgitate talking points from the feminist modern woman handbook. Nothing based on facts, just emotion and feelings
@@Craigthomas322😂 She didn’t say anything you dingbat
As a woman, ooh weeee Trip!!! Baaaaabeeee! Say it louder for the people in the back! I rocks with you, Trip!
Yes! In order to be a great leader you have to be able identify when to fall back and follow when it permits. This includes intimate relationships 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Where did you hear this from? Fiction? Women complain when they have to step into leadership positions in relationships.
When did he say anything about that??? Wtf are you talkin bout
@@TEDDYSCARDSGAMESLLC maybe the women you deal with. It’s an exchange of power.
@@prim.an.propher1505 it's countless women around the world and even on social media complaining about " leading" in a relationship.
@@TEDDYSCARDSGAMESLLC again, that’s not every woman. I’ve been married twenty years so I’m more inclined to take advice from women who have been in stable relationships rather than women sitting around wishing they had a male companion. Evidently their opinions aren’t founded on much
This is, Reinventing Energy And Love ✊🏿 ❤️ 👊🏿
I love to hear him speak on these subjects.
Bro just upped the score ! We up 3 Fellas👌🏾
Facts. I agree with him 200%. Stop asking for things that you are ready to play your role (woman).
Bless you for your wisdom 🙏🏿
women think just by being their and having cookie is enough. then they wonder why most are not wives. amazing how so many women refuse to learn from the mistakes of OTHER women.
Leadership begins with leading yourself with integrity and healthy boundaries! Everything else is secondary.
The boy doesn’t miss
This MAN!
Learning this in my own relationship 🙏🏽
This brother never misses👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
He dropped the Mic, don't even have to add anything to that!✌️❤
He shuts that unruly & Jezebel spirits down time after time. She twists & turns on stage everytime he speaks cuz her spirit can't handle that energy.
This the comment I was waiting on❤
shes divorced & only makes sense half the time so i aint surprised
EXACTLY😂😂😂....and it's just that...women at work always asking why u always run off (after presenting themselves and batting eyes in my face) I'm big on energy ...they just don't understand😂😂😂
Fax. The truth is, even tho this shit popped up on my feed, I'm over these conversations. A woman, or man for that matter, you have to constantly beat over the head with reality is not worth talking too. They've made it into adulthood with this foolishness. They've been paying bills, signing legal documents, & operating motor vehicles next to you on the road all while living in lala land. Chances are they not even gone get it when they're old & washed up & life punch em in they face cuz they getting punched right now & don't even notice it. Those who get it will remain in practice & find each other & everyone else will fall. That's that. Let em suffer. They gone keep wondering why they not happy & continue with the behavior that's creating the results
🤣🤣🤣 crying
He never misses🎉
Women who complain they want men to be leaders but you ask them "what man are you following or have ever followed"..It's crickets
At best, they’ll give lip service and say they daddy but if you really look into they family history.. they never really followed him either, they just use him as an example when convenient.
I can honestly say that I’ve never had a man to follow before, unless it was a boss at my job. I’m afraid I’ve had to lead more often than I wanted to. I can follow, but I realize that a level of trust and vulnerability is needed for me to be able to follow as successfully as I’d like to.
@@marquinarawlingsexcuses and no accountability. Typical
@@bigde131 Who are you speaking of that is making excuses and having no accountability?
@@bigde131 I gave reasons and solutions, so I am sure that you are not referring to me.
Its the brotha in the back jumping up/winning the argument for me😂❤❤❤
I was looking for this comment. He was with his wife, I had to 😊at their body language toward one another
I experienced healthy leadership growing up with my parents. They taught me to always pursue knowledge and education, to think critically, and to trust my own instincts that I might become an accomplished woman who can LEAD her own life.
I can earn and manage my own money and assets, advance my professional position, and avoid many of life’s pitfalls. I was brought up to, as a fully grown adult, not require to be “led” by anyone.
Exactly. A relationship or a marriage is a partnership. I don't need to follow anyone's lead.
@@jas1565: THANK YOU! 💯😆
Then he’s not talking to you, he talking to the ones that say they want leadership.
@@butterflymage5623: And? The whole concept is asinine and antiquated.
@@butterflymage5623
Nice response to “HereForIt”…
I know if one is in ANY kind of relationship, there will be compromise, fluctuations, etc challenges. Lead, follow or get outta the relationship.
Dude is always on point!!
In every black arena THIS should be played & replayed!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
All arenas
Talk to 'em, Tripp!! 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
you're not gonna shame him?
@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Shame him? For what reason?
@@janairjohnson1280 most women love to stick with the sisterhood, no matter what, and if that means shaming a man.. oh well.
Salute to you, ma!
Being a good *follower* comes from one's individual *mindset* ...not from an _external_ imposition of leadership.
Discipline, respect, and humility are *crucial* elements in someone being a *_good_* follower.
Those same elements make good leaders but we all know the majority of blk men don't even have discipline!!!
Yes. It has to be in them to be a good follower
@@IAmTheBlackBeachBum77 Indeed.
I can really appreciate bro cuz when the shit gets overly out of order he delivers truth.
#TRIPP MADE EVERYONE SHUT UP 🎯💯🔥🖤
I couldn't say it better myself. Thanks Tripp 💯
You can't expect pookie who doesn't even have a steady income or even a place to sleep to be a leader.
But you still choose to procreate with him which is crazy.
They seem to forget that part.
Lol
Bruh this.
Pookie and tyrone been leading them right to this very moment.
Meanwhile, the BM who know how to lead get passed right on by, cause they lack swagger, bullet holes, a prison record, have a 9-5 job.
BM who know how lead, bw will not follow.
😂
My boi be preaching 🙌.. real gospel....
Even God had to turn smite some ppl
I swear this man don't miss!!!
Facts, When we get Quite we be trying to get GOD's direction in the next step. The closest leader I had was Uncle Phil.
It's always so refreshing when one hits balance.... Everybody is just fixated on self and pointing fingers to blame. It's so freaking exhausting man. 😩
Leaders cannot successfully lead without willing submission to his leadership. Unwilling followers will ruin effective leadership.
Unwilling followers aren’t followers at all.
@@hereforit2347yup, they are just heavy luggage (if they are imposing themselves on the situation) or slaves (if the situation is imposed on them). Will is a very important concept. If a woman isn’t willing to submit, you simply leave… she isn’t ready to be a wife, hopefully someday with another man.
Huh..yea right. You definitely skipped breakfast ....
😂😂😂😂😂
Guess what? If no one is submitting to you, no one is following you, and no one is *willing* to follow you, you’re *not* a leader in the first place. You’re delusional. 😂
Amen Tripp 👏🏾👏🏾🤙🏾💯
They always ignore that there are TONS of women who have had DOZENS of men in their lives that did a GREAT job--and they have still made up their mind a long time ago that they are not going to follow even the PERFECT leader. The want POWER, and they are NOT looking to ever give it up, by playing a wife's proper role.
SMH
Yep !! But most men are not conscious enough to understand that the average woman PRIORITIZES control they want to wear the PANTS in the relationship !! She will choose a man she can control but doesnt love before she will choose a man she loves but cant control anyday !!
I will not play a wife’s proper role. I live in California! Why would I? 😂
Because women are adults and don't need to be led. Perfect leader or not. Many women want partners, not leaders.
@@jas1565, exactly. I want us to each lead in different areas. We have our own individual strengths.
Why are so many black men preoccupied with having a woman follow them? I dare to say it's the men that want power
Tripp my favorite unbiased speaker on the panel. Stay giving deep perspectives and aha moments to the crowd.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 it said no comments yet lol😅🔥🔥🔥🦾
THANK YOUUU For Putting This Out There Tripp ❤
💯 !!!
I love it when Trip speaks he's so poetic and so deep when he speaks
I agree 100/100. You cannot lead a terrible follower. They don't even want to submit! One must submit in order to be led.
Brother I totally appreciate your breakdown of point of view and/or perspective
The most cerebral one on that podcast. Period!
Kita is all of us! Love her! ❤
Followers are first inspired to become good followers and supporters, due to great leadership. Followers will literally nominate and promote their Leader based on these attributes.
This is dumb. People thought Hilter was a good leader. People that Idi Amin was a good leader. I can keep going😂 The point is people don't knpw what good leadership looks like. They like leaders that think like them even if that thinking is flawed and dangerous.
..there’s a reason why the “common folk” weren’t allowed to VOTE in this counties yesteryear. Because the founding fathers KNEW there are DUMB @$! followers who couldn’t be “led” out of a damn paper bag.
EXACTLY !! Because up under Tripp’s point only good followers can be lead no in reality duh their are terrible followers but that’s what makes a great leader a great leader.
It’s giving he has never actually lead
@@BlueBookLessonsugh duh there is people who don’t know what great leadership and duh there are people who don’t know how to follow those people need leadership the most lol. it takes a great leader to help them learn it’s really giving yall ain’t never lead anyone lol.
Because to assume ONLY good followers can be lead is idiotic as a leader and it says maybe you shouldn’t be a leader because NOT everyone is going to be a good follower some people truly have to be built by a GOOD LEADER lmbo yall math ain’t mathing today Jesus
@@ApolloStuckeyArthere’s the thing. No one is gonna lead you if you’re a bad follower unless its their job to do so, their your parent, or they love you more then they love themselves.
Your talking point isn’t a talking point, because being a leader doesn’t mean wasting your time on someone who doesn’t want to follow you.
Your math isn’t mathing.
Thank you for the encouragement. I am learning to be confident about what I want and stick with my standards.
I want to give off high vibrational energy.
Logan comes first you don’t have to apologize! He’s going to love Mario World.
I’m glad you’ll be vlogging soon. Yes we want to see
Kita never challenges him bc she knows her gonna put her in her place
Oh there have been times she hasn't agreed with Tripp! For the most part, the women respect his take on things. It's all about delivery! Some of the other guys have this arrogance with them, but Tripp and Ace usually have confidence with themselves! Arrogance and confidence tastes very different! Confidence is definitely more palatable than arrogance!
I love the face kita made was priceless
This dude speakers everything Kevin Samuels speaks. If people have KS a listen they’d learn something.
Let your bisexual GodAuntie rest in piss.
Seriously.
Wise words well spoken bruh💯
when men get back in the true masculinity and provide for their families they cant lead a woman… thats why women feel like 50/50 is for a roomate which is fair because men have providing for their families since the beginning of time, nowadays men want women to go 50/50, now they both in a masculine role
Paying all the bills doesn't make you masculine. Saying to the other adult of the opposite sex do your part or keep it moving isn't feminine. Break the cycle
Did you look at those men who provide for their families back then? Broken, tired, some under appreciated, etc
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽thank you Trip 🔥🔥
Why y'all need a Kniggah to lead you?
Aren't you an adult?
True
THIS.
Exactly
C’mon, somebody. 💯💯💯💯💯
I think it is to lead a situation or goals or missions not the person per se.
Well said brotha….well said.
We need friends like Trip in all our lives. Big Shoutout to Trip.
Preach and Facts Tripp Preach and Facts 🏆🐐🎯🙏❤️
Speaking volumes sir!
Point made! Well said Trip!😊
Exactly enough said. If he has his life under control then he will not allow you to come in and disrupt that control. You will fall in line or you will be let go, dismissed, handed your resignation.
Well said. My mother has Narcissistic Disorder. She was a horrible follower of my father. She didn’t listen to him nor valued his opinion.
Trip…Run for President…You got my vote.
He felt super validated judging by that little jump at the end. ❤❤❤❤
that is a SOFT brother to even have to have another man validate what he has been saying to his girl. if a woman doesn't want to follow, a man should immediately walk away. never waste time with hard headed women. what is the gain?
This was good. I’m all for the direction
Bro be speaking facts so naturally 😤
I would follow this man anywhere, he is so wise.❤
You better preach!!! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Trip never miss😭💯 only person who can stop this man vs woman on the internet. To man folks pander to women because it gets them likes quickly.
TRIPP ALWAYS know how to make me DRIP!!!!
Woooow he said a lot!💯
I am a woman and i already have my shit together and under control. If you want to be a leader in my life you need to show me a destinstion that is better than where I am already headed. If you can't do that than you either follow my lead or go on to somebody else.
Good luck with that
....look at our girl Kita knowing when to hold em &when to fold em😆🤗☺️
Buddy is absolutely right! “In Certain arenas…” everybody is “DIFFERENT” why is this hard for Us to understand?
Where one is strong another might not be as skilled.. and vice versa!! When we accept THIS reality.. all of these one sided convos will finally STOP!