It is truly traumatizing. It changes you. You not only grieve who you thought they were, you grieve the loss of the person you used to be. And that's where the majority of the damage is done.
This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back .
@@charlesdavid-p1y If it's not possible to reunite. Accept it, brother. Make peace with it. You're not alone. And just as I was able to move on and find love again after thinking it was impossible, I know you can, too. You will go through this season of grief and it may feel so heavy for you now, but you'll make it to the other side.
This is why I won't stay with someone who so deeply betrayed me. I refuse to put myself through all of what she discussed for the sake of keeping someone. As far as I'm concerned, this person does not care about my mental and emotional well-being, my physical or sexual health, or my ability to trust them or others ever again. Forget that. Cut my losses, focus on healing myself, and keep it moving.
right, maybe it wasn't in this clip, but i don't feel like forgiveness means you have to stay. personally it's "thank you for showing me this was for a season and not for life, and goodbye" but honestly, break up with me, don't cheat. go ahead and free yourself.
Woo!! If she wasn’t telling the truth and nothing but the truth then I don’t think you heard her. Go listen again!! That was heavy and enlightening at the same time ❤❤
That's why Jesus is our anchor and saving grace. Best to depend wholly on him to avoid all the pitfalls. If you don't know Jesus, now is the time to take him as Lord and Savior . Listen a man who is not submitted to a spiritual father won't be someone you can submit to. All his actions, thoughts and behaviors will be contrary leading to betrayals, hurts, cheating etc. Pure and simple. Sis spit truth for sure. Go girl ❤❤
Yes, I remember my friend telling me a sister of hers had a mild seizure the day her husband cheated. It was like she could feel it in real time. Cheating is so dangerous and damaging to the betrayed spouse
Amen!!!! I stopped eating, sleeping, my skin broke out, I was losing hair, had anxiety and depression.... it physically broke me down on top of the emotional damage!!!! I was a shell of myself
Cheaters are more evil than you think 🤔 In order to cheat ,1. they create deception of loyalty 2. Maintain secrecy to hide their disgusting behaviour 3. Pretend like a victim of the situation 4. Gaslight u if u question their intentions of actions It's very manipulative
Amen!!!! I stopped eating, sleeping, my skin broke out, I was losing hair, had anxiety and depression.... it physically broke me down on top of the emotional damage!!!! I was a shell of myself!!! I was in therapy, marriage counseling (alone...), in a womens betrayal trauma group therapy, back to church, and joined a women's Bible study... Well I'm getting divorced after 6 years and rebuilding myself after realizing this chapter will only end when I stop writing it!!! Closing the book on that life and now in the process of writing the first chapters of my new beginning No looking back, no regrets, forgiving myself, making peace with the shame, time wasted, and sadness Time to rise like a Phoenix from the ashes!!! With God I will shine like the sun on an August day in Texas!!! Gonna be hot with joy!!!
My therapist told me that forgiveness is not for them it is for me. When she said that to me it opened my eyes and my heart. I am now able to forgive and also walk away finding MY peace within myself and giving MYSELF some grace to not beat myself up, to not criticize myself. He lied and cheated while I loved. I choose Me, i choose God. I choose love over hate, courage over fear, and although my heart is broken I know I will heal and be stronger, more intentional, more discerning and filled with more self-love as I embark on this new journey on my own. I will put God first.
love cannot make a home where lies and secrets sleep one of the most important lessons of love is that self-love is nonnegotiable one mistake many people make when building a relationship or connection with others is forgetting to love themselves before you give others love your cup of self- affection must be full
And that is why psychiatrist are diagnosing being cheated on by a spouse as PTSD. Cheating is abuse, and people need to start recognizing it first what it is.
@@Thatsher21 ...I can agree with that too! 💯 My 1st time ever hearing that cheating was diagnosed as PTSD, was by a friend of mine. Her husband was constantly cheating to the point that her psychiatrist diagnosed her with PTSD. At 1st I laughed, but then I thought about it. Cheating is truly a form of abuse, and when done repeatedly, it will cause mental trauma. And til this day, she is still with him. I had to distance myself from her because I refuse to watch her take her husband's abuse (cheating with no regard) every 2-3 business days with everything that moves. I just pray she doesn't catch something that she cannot get rid of.
@lauriemyles2010 Sadly, your friend may have something already. And choose to stay with her husband bc she don't want to spread what she has. It's just my thought. I am not saying it's fact
@@marywifey1russell -- Woah! I never thought about that! But...to still stay is insane. Maybe that is because I know about STD's too well. When I 1st went to college, my major was medical technology, but I changed it later on. I soon found out that blood & some other things was just not my cup of tea. 🤣😂 Anywho, I did a research paper on HIV/AIDS. I found out A LOT about that disease & other STD's too. So...her staying would be foolish! I really hope that is not the case because she can actually get sicker by catching a strand(s) that can make it difficult for her to be treated. HIV/AIDS is NOT like how it used to be. It is no longer a death sentence. Yet, it still doesn't mean a person should keep sleeping around. It only means that people can lead a happy, and probably, a much healthier life than most as long as they still STAY safe. Even after catching that disease, using condoms is still a MUST. A lot of people living with HIV/AIDS, who are taking medication, are undetectable. And that 💩 is SCARY. That is why I am a FIRM believer in making a man test before I sleep with him, or I will just continue practicing abstinence. It is REAL...like, REAL CRAZY out there! STD's are NO joke anymore! You cannot look at someone & think they don't have anything, nor can you fully trust a person after knowing them for years. To me, even married couples should get a full screening each year on their own as a precaution. 🤷🏾♀️ I'm divorced now, but when I was married, I still included a full STD screening each year I had my Pap smear. And my ex-husband was NOT a cheater! He was bat ass crazy, but NEVER a cheater. Even though I felt I knew that about him 100%, I still tested every year.🤷🏾♀️
@lauriemyles2010 I took the time to read because u took the time to write ✍️. That's a lot of information. Good stuff. Thank u. I will share all of this information with my kids and friends 🧡 it's not safe outside
Everything she said I went through with my first fiancee! I started to question Everything thing about myself. At the end of the day, it was her and her greed. Find someone who is the ying to your yang!
Yeah and men go through the same when cheated on too... It's tough. No matter how much confidence they have... It just may be mostly internalized though.
I went through similar trauma from my wife, who was becoming more and more disrespectful. I told her that for a man, disrespect is equal to cheating. She did not listen. Now we are separate, and my kids are hurting for it. I was traumatized to feel throughout the relationship i was losing my best friend. But she did not care. Its not ok to hurt your partner just because the world says its ok or you think they will bounce back. It's wrong.
@PhantomVortex indeed. And thank you for not some how trying to place the blame on the man just because I am a man. Though the heading was about a female example of the video, men receive this as well. And yes, it was physical also and many people think because you are in a relationship, they are valid in putting their hands on you.
@@PhantomVortex What was emotional abuse? He said she was disrespectful but didn't qualify what she did so we don't know if she was. The topic here is about cheating which he says he has no proof of her doing🤷🏾♀️ The comment is seeking to deflect from cheating.
Eh. The "why" doesn't matter to me. Finding out the -excuse- "reason" is not going to justify the act, especially since it's going to be routed in a narcissistic selfishness where a "need" was purposely not communicated to simultaneously be used as ammunition and a bargaining chip where they exclaim that "if you do x, I won't cheat (again)" to maintain their image, relationship, and resources through your forgiveness. Spoiler alert: it was never about you or what you did and didn't do, and they *will* do it again.
Some people cheat because they need that thrill and variety, they really should stay single. Some people cheat because they're just not happy in their relationship or being mistreated and finding appreciation and happiness somewhere else. Communication is so important.
She’s speaking nothing but facts. This is everything I felt in my marriage. It was hard to forgive and now I suffer from anxiety and PTSD. I was crushed when I found out and it just wasn’t a once thing with the same person.
love can’t survive in the darkness that shields lies and secrets but it thrives in the light of your truth all you have to do is have the courage to share it with those you can trust then watch as your relationship flourishes remember no one else can complete you only you can do that attachment is not love attachment latches on to a partner out of fear that he may leave love opens the door for the partner to leave if that’s what makes him happy attachment feels like a cage remember you are your own person before you are a partner if you can’t take care of yourself how do you expect to take care of someone else
The effects are correct. The forgiveness part is very spiritual I’m saying that because there is a dysfunction in society that puts a big expectation for the betrayed spouse to bring the judgement or punishment. Specifically the betrayed spouse is supposed to change how they love or love with reservations? Also talk about how the community will turn a blind eye to what is happening saying it’s not their business so they think the standard is not something we collectively need to uphold. Are we willing to distance ourselves from friends or family who betray their spouse? Are we willing to let them know we not ok with it? Many people won’t because they have issues in their own life they don’t want to be checked about. Dr.Derwin L Gray said that people prefer God’s wrath instead of God’s love. The love of God is a love that He wants us even though we betray Him. This unconditional love demands a change
that 1:27 clip is literally what i’m going through as we speak.. unsure as to whether not she cheated but she just became unavailable to me.. not calling, etc so i became lost in trying to keep up w her and losing myself i gave up… it sucks but like goes on and time will heal all wounds
If only we lived in a world where people were taught how to love and what real love is.... people wouldn't have to be suffering the immense damage of infidelity.....
Heal through it and leave. It's gonna hurt. It's gonna take a long time, but why in the hell would you fight to love someone who clearly doesn't love you? Reflect on yourself. Maybe you WERE the reason why they sought someone else. Maybe you weren't the reason. The whole point of it is to heal and become a better version of yourself once you're finished. Staying with someone who cheated on you is such a disrespectful act to oneself, man.
Yea this video hit me hard, i betrayed my ex and i know she went thru all of what's said in this video. I'm truly sorry and hurt by my actions, I immediately got in therapy and i wanna be better for me first and for my future partner. I don't wanna go thru this again
when there are more tears than smiles leave when there are more fights than jokes leave when it hurts more than it feels good leave they don’t have the right to destroy you just because you love them and loving them doesn’t mean you have to stay
take each moment as an experience; turn any regrets into lessons from which to learn; attain forgiveness for those who trespass against you but do not forget, because if you forget you run the risk of history repeating itself
there are many reasons why someone might not want to date someone with more problems than them but ultimately the decisions is up to the individual social skills-if someone doesn’t have any friends it could be because they have social skill deficits self-esteem- low self esteem can be a factor in choosing the wrong person to date childhood trauma-unresolved childhood traumas can be a factor in choosing the wrong person to date dating anxiety-can be caused by past trauma mental health struggles or childhood expectations many people experience dating anxiety regardless of age gender or sxual orientation so don’t be so quick when dating take it slow get to know the person better e anessa
You know how’s the one hoo been really cheated?? You got that trust in somebody that you think that is full complete and cohesive than it bring someone else to the chain, so he or she cheated i’m self breaking the ring .. it hurts more to know that that person is not complete than it can cheat on me, maybe because it’s not suppose to be and on that matter we losing time of are life 🤷🏾♂️ ⁉️⁉️❓💔😵
Sounds like being crazy and clueless. These ppl keep talking in circles about being lost and confused and never getting clarity or truly being grounded, except for some version of throwaway standoff isolation and disdain. Keeps ppl emotionally immature and ...crazy.
Matthew 19:9 KJVAAE [9] And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
All this is true...but what some of yall call cheating ain't cheating...cause you only in a relationship in your head cause he never agreed to a relationship but you assume one cause he "acting" like this or that. Granted some men too weak to tell you what it is then agree to monogamy and can't deliver but that ain't always the case.
We as men need to be far more open about our intentions and don't lead these women on, thinking we want a committed relationship when we just want casual companionship. Men trade a relationship for access to sex and women trade access to sex for a relationship without either party being honest about what they actually want.
Dam she mic dropped and walked out like that lol aye she be speaking facts though... or you just go straight into resentment. It's hard af to bounce back from infidelity, it's so many steps to get to 75% because are you truly 100% afterwards if we bring honest... no lol. I tell everybody before u cheat beat ya may or flick that bean lol if u feel the same afterwards cool if not it was just lust and not you can look at the deeper issue as to why you wanted to cheat in the 1st place.
It is truly traumatizing. It changes you. You not only grieve who you thought they were, you grieve the loss of the person you used to be. And that's where the majority of the damage is done.
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This captivating video triggers a flood of painful memories from the end of my 6 year relationship just three months ago. The woman I loved with all my heart chose to walk away, leaving me grappling with an insurmountable sense of loss. Despite my relentless efforts to salvage what we had, I'm left feeling disillusioned and unable to imagine a future without her. Despite my attempts to move on, I'm drawn to express my deep-seated longing for her here.
Its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 5 years ended, but i couldn't just let her go i did all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring her back .
Incredible! Where did you find a spiritual counselor.
Suzanne Ann Walters is the name of an exceptional spiritual counselor renowned for her ability to reunite you with your former partner.
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online.
@@charlesdavid-p1y
If it's not possible to reunite. Accept it, brother. Make peace with it.
You're not alone. And just as I was able to move on and find love again after thinking it was impossible, I know you can, too.
You will go through this season of grief and it may feel so heavy for you now, but you'll make it to the other side.
Everything she said is what I went through, I'm working on self healing now
This is why open relationships is the way to go so people won't have cheat. Men and women are not naturally monogamous.
This is why I won't stay with someone who so deeply betrayed me. I refuse to put myself through all of what she discussed for the sake of keeping someone. As far as I'm concerned, this person does not care about my mental and emotional well-being, my physical or sexual health, or my ability to trust them or others ever again. Forget that. Cut my losses, focus on healing myself, and keep it moving.
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right, maybe it wasn't in this clip, but i don't feel like forgiveness means you have to stay. personally it's "thank you for showing me this was for a season and not for life, and goodbye" but honestly, break up with me, don't cheat. go ahead and free yourself.
Amen. 🙏🏿
Woo!! If she wasn’t telling the truth and nothing but the truth then I don’t think you heard her. Go listen again!! That was heavy and enlightening at the same time ❤❤
That's why Jesus is our anchor and saving grace. Best to depend wholly on him to avoid all the pitfalls. If you don't know Jesus, now is the time to take him as Lord and Savior .
Listen a man who is not submitted to a spiritual father won't be someone you can submit to. All his actions, thoughts and behaviors will be contrary leading to betrayals, hurts, cheating etc. Pure and simple.
Sis spit truth for sure. Go girl ❤❤
Yes, I agree this happened to me, and it is so hard to even trust again. Your whole body breaks down.
True story, 🎯🎯🎯
Yes, I remember my friend telling me a sister of hers had a mild seizure the day her husband cheated. It was like she could feel it in real time. Cheating is so dangerous and damaging to the betrayed spouse
Amen!!!! I stopped eating, sleeping, my skin broke out, I was losing hair, had anxiety and depression.... it physically broke me down on top of the emotional damage!!!! I was a shell of myself
She needs her own television show. 🙏🥰😘
Mrs. Kitty stays on point **snaps fingers**
Cheaters are more evil than you think 🤔
In order to cheat ,1. they create deception of loyalty
2. Maintain secrecy to hide their disgusting behaviour
3. Pretend like a victim of the situation
4. Gaslight u if u question their intentions of actions
It's very manipulative
Glad that is is labeled generally. This emotional roller coaster is not exclusive to women.
Amen!!!! I stopped eating, sleeping, my skin broke out, I was losing hair, had anxiety and depression.... it physically broke me down on top of the emotional damage!!!! I was a shell of myself!!!
I was in therapy, marriage counseling (alone...), in a womens betrayal trauma group therapy, back to church, and joined a women's Bible study...
Well I'm getting divorced after 6 years and rebuilding myself after realizing this chapter will only end when I stop writing it!!! Closing the book on that life and now in the process of writing the first chapters of my new beginning
No looking back, no regrets, forgiving myself, making peace with the shame, time wasted, and sadness
Time to rise like a Phoenix from the ashes!!! With God I will shine like the sun on an August day in Texas!!! Gonna be hot with joy!!!
My therapist told me that forgiveness is not for them it is for me. When she said that to me it opened my eyes and my heart. I am now able to forgive and also walk away finding MY peace within myself and giving MYSELF some grace to not beat myself up, to not criticize myself. He lied and cheated while I loved. I choose Me, i choose God. I choose love over hate, courage over fear, and although my heart is broken I know I will heal and be stronger, more intentional, more discerning and filled with more self-love as I embark on this new journey on my own. I will put God first.
Peace and love to you❤️
@@tenitarichards3203 💙
love cannot make a home where lies and secrets sleep one of the most important lessons of love is that self-love is nonnegotiable one mistake many people make when building a relationship or connection with others is forgetting to love themselves before you give others love your cup of self- affection must be full
use punctuation, bruh
And that is why psychiatrist are diagnosing being cheated on by a spouse as PTSD. Cheating is abuse, and people need to start recognizing it first what it is.
And staying with a cheater, makes you a participant in the abuse. You can only complain about it and play victim for so long.
@@Thatsher21 ...I can agree with that too! 💯
My 1st time ever hearing that cheating was diagnosed as PTSD, was by a friend of mine. Her husband was constantly cheating to the point that her psychiatrist diagnosed her with PTSD. At 1st I laughed, but then I thought about it. Cheating is truly a form of abuse, and when done repeatedly, it will cause mental trauma. And til this day, she is still with him. I had to distance myself from her because I refuse to watch her take her husband's abuse (cheating with no regard) every 2-3 business days with everything that moves. I just pray she doesn't catch something that she cannot get rid of.
@lauriemyles2010 Sadly, your friend may have something already. And choose to stay with her husband bc she don't want to spread what she has. It's just my thought. I am not saying it's fact
@@marywifey1russell -- Woah! I never thought about that! But...to still stay is insane. Maybe that is because I know about STD's too well. When I 1st went to college, my major was medical technology, but I changed it later on. I soon found out that blood & some other things was just not my cup of tea. 🤣😂 Anywho, I did a research paper on HIV/AIDS. I found out A LOT about that disease & other STD's too. So...her staying would be foolish! I really hope that is not the case because she can actually get sicker by catching a strand(s) that can make it difficult for her to be treated. HIV/AIDS is NOT like how it used to be. It is no longer a death sentence. Yet, it still doesn't mean a person should keep sleeping around. It only means that people can lead a happy, and probably, a much healthier life than most as long as they still STAY safe. Even after catching that disease, using condoms is still a MUST.
A lot of people living with HIV/AIDS, who are taking medication, are undetectable. And that 💩 is SCARY. That is why I am a FIRM believer in making a man test before I sleep with him, or I will just continue practicing abstinence. It is REAL...like, REAL CRAZY out there! STD's are NO joke anymore! You cannot look at someone & think they don't have anything, nor can you fully trust a person after knowing them for years. To me, even married couples should get a full screening each year on their own as a precaution. 🤷🏾♀️ I'm divorced now, but when I was married, I still included a full STD screening each year I had my Pap smear. And my ex-husband was NOT a cheater! He was bat ass crazy, but NEVER a cheater. Even though I felt I knew that about him 100%, I still tested every year.🤷🏾♀️
@lauriemyles2010 I took the time to read because u took the time to write ✍️. That's a lot of information. Good stuff. Thank u. I will share all of this information with my kids and friends 🧡 it's not safe outside
Everything she said I went through with my first fiancee! I started to question Everything thing about myself. At the end of the day, it was her and her greed. Find someone who is the ying to your yang!
Yeah and men go through the same when cheated on too... It's tough. No matter how much confidence they have... It just may be mostly internalized though.
MS.KITTY ALWAYZ SNAP TRUTH
I went through similar trauma from my wife, who was becoming more and more disrespectful. I told her that for a man, disrespect is equal to cheating. She did not listen. Now we are separate, and my kids are hurting for it. I was traumatized to feel throughout the relationship i was losing my best friend. But she did not care. Its not ok to hurt your partner just because the world says its ok or you think they will bounce back. It's wrong.
@@planetdee3587 So you weren't cheated on??? 🤔😒
@@filmadcamp1512 to be honest, I completely believe I was cheated on but have no proof. But still, there are things just as bad in a relationship.
It was definitely emotional abuse and you should still leave.
@PhantomVortex indeed. And thank you for not some how trying to place the blame on the man just because I am a man. Though the heading was about a female example of the video, men receive this as well. And yes, it was physical also and many people think because you are in a relationship, they are valid in putting their hands on you.
@@PhantomVortex What was emotional abuse? He said she was disrespectful but didn't qualify what she did so we don't know if she was. The topic here is about cheating which he says he has no proof of her doing🤷🏾♀️
The comment is seeking to deflect from cheating.
Babyyyyy she hit every single point!
Y'all mfs just need to stop cheating 😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅 I SCREAMED SOOO LOUDT HAHAHAHAHAHA
@@gotrescuedauto3584I am hollering 😂😂😂
The way I just spit out this juice baybay!!!!!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
My God if this ain’t it idk what is lawddd hammercy this hit straight home for me. She couldn’t have explained this any better ❤
That's so for real💯I thank God I finally knew my worth I did, but love is blind frfr...but I'm ok💪🏾🙏🏾🥰💯
That’s why you leave. Because there are men out there that will not cheat on you. What a concept I know.🙄
My God, nothing BUT THE TRUTH!!
Well that was by far the best explanation of why cheating isn’t easy to forgive that I’ve ever heard ! 👏🏻👏🏻
Eh. The "why" doesn't matter to me. Finding out the -excuse- "reason" is not going to justify the act, especially since it's going to be routed in a narcissistic selfishness where a "need" was purposely not communicated to simultaneously be used as ammunition and a bargaining chip where they exclaim that "if you do x, I won't cheat (again)" to maintain their image, relationship, and resources through your forgiveness.
Spoiler alert: it was never about you or what you did and didn't do, and they *will* do it again.
Some people cheat because they need that thrill and variety, they really should stay single. Some people cheat because they're just not happy in their relationship or being mistreated and finding appreciation and happiness somewhere else.
Communication is so important.
You can always leave. You don’t have to stay with a traitor. 🤷🏾♀️
She’s speaking nothing but facts. This is everything I felt in my marriage. It was hard to forgive and now I suffer from anxiety and PTSD. I was crushed when I found out and it just wasn’t a once thing with the same person.
I love to hear the dark skin woman speak. Very intelligent‼️
love can’t survive in the
darkness that shields lies and secrets but it thrives in the light of your truth all you have to do is have the courage to share it with those you can trust
then watch as your relationship flourishes remember no one else can complete you only you can do that
attachment is not love
attachment latches on to
a partner out of fear that he may leave
love opens the door for the partner to leave if that’s what makes him happy attachment feels like a cage
remember you are your own person before you are a partner if you can’t take care of yourself
how do you expect to take care of someone else
Amen 🙏🏼 nothing but facts 💯
Damn on point not even a word foe it mane.... She spoke to my soul for lmao
I keep hearing that having a top tier man (as far as taking care of you, etc) him cheating is bound to happen. I’m conflicted …
Whew she said a whole lot 💯
I love Kitty,she is awesome
The effects are correct. The forgiveness part is very spiritual I’m saying that because there is a dysfunction in society that puts a big expectation for the betrayed spouse to bring the judgement or punishment. Specifically the betrayed spouse is supposed to change how they love or love with reservations? Also talk about how the community will turn a blind eye to what is happening saying it’s not their business so they think the standard is not something we collectively need to uphold. Are we willing to distance ourselves from friends or family who betray their spouse? Are we willing to let them know we not ok with it? Many people won’t because they have issues in their own life they don’t want to be checked about.
Dr.Derwin L Gray said that people prefer God’s wrath instead of God’s love. The love of God is a love that He wants us even though we betray Him. This unconditional love demands a change
that 1:27 clip is literally what i’m going through as we speak.. unsure as to whether not she cheated but she just became unavailable to me.. not calling, etc so i became lost in trying to keep up w her and losing myself i gave up… it sucks but like goes on and time will heal all wounds
If only we lived in a world where people were taught how to love and what real love is.... people wouldn't have to be suffering the immense damage of infidelity.....
The stages of grief OMG
Heal through it and leave. It's gonna hurt. It's gonna take a long time, but why in the hell would you fight to love someone who clearly doesn't love you?
Reflect on yourself. Maybe you WERE the reason why they sought someone else. Maybe you weren't the reason. The whole point of it is to heal and become a better version of yourself once you're finished. Staying with someone who cheated on you is such a disrespectful act to oneself, man.
Someone choosing to cheat is their own fault. It's never the fault of the person being cheated on.
Yea this video hit me hard, i betrayed my ex and i know she went thru all of what's said in this video. I'm truly sorry and hurt by my actions, I immediately got in therapy and i wanna be better for me first and for my future partner. I don't wanna go thru this again
Very good description
when there are more tears than smiles leave
when there are more fights than jokes leave
when it hurts more than it feels good leave
they don’t have the right to destroy you just because you love them and loving them doesn’t mean you have to stay
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Forgive and change like 2pac say cuz the most high forgive us all the time but we can't be suckers for it and men get betrayed to ladies
NO. I would never forgive infidelity. It’s wrong for men and women to do. It destroys marriages, relationships and trust.
Sounds like she was speaking only for women.
Right! Like Women don't cheat at ALL
So give your prospective, if you’ve ever been cheated on…..this is also a clip, we don’t see if any of the men answered…..
Nothing she said was gender specific.
She never said she or he. She said how one feels when their partner cheats. It works both ways.
Such a battle to keep endure
This was my truth
Either stay or Go....
Thats why you just got to say fuc4 relationships.
OHHHHHHHHH, NOOOOOOO I'M GONE JACK. 1 TIME AND I'M OUT JACK. I CAN'T DO IT SSSHHHIIIFFFTTT
Absolutely true
take each moment as an experience; turn any regrets into lessons from which to learn; attain forgiveness for those who trespass against you but do not forget, because if you forget you run the risk of history repeating itself
there are many reasons why someone might not want to date someone with more problems
than them but ultimately the decisions is up to the individual
social skills-if someone doesn’t have any friends it could be because they have social skill deficits
self-esteem- low self esteem can be a factor in choosing the wrong person to date
childhood trauma-unresolved childhood traumas can be a factor
in choosing the wrong person to date
dating anxiety-can be caused by past trauma
mental health struggles or childhood expectations many people experience dating anxiety regardless of age gender or sxual orientation so don’t be so quick when dating take it slow get to know the person better e anessa
Simple …AGREED
Then move the fuck on.
They love him. No shame in that.
Well…🤔 I believe some people forget that the Bible says, “ trust no man!”
Do they think about this when they're the ones doing the cheating?
No
You know how’s the one hoo been really cheated?? You got that trust in somebody that you think that is full complete and cohesive than it bring someone else to the chain, so he or she cheated i’m self breaking the ring .. it hurts more to know that that person is not complete than it can cheat on me, maybe because it’s not suppose to be and on that matter we losing time of are life 🤷🏾♂️ ⁉️⁉️❓💔😵
That's just half the story
True!!
Preeeeeeaaaaaacccchhhhhhh
Sounds like being crazy and clueless. These ppl keep talking in circles about being lost and confused and never getting clarity or truly being grounded, except for some version of throwaway standoff isolation and disdain. Keeps ppl emotionally immature and ...crazy.
ThoSe Damn TruSt i s sues 😔
Facts
DAMN!!! SHE GAVE US A WHOLE LOT OF GAME AND I THINK SHE NAILED THAT SHIT!!! 👍
Matthew 19:9 KJVAAE
[9] And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
Fact
In my opinion you should find comfort in the holy Spirit not man
All this is true...but what some of yall call cheating ain't cheating...cause you only in a relationship in your head cause he never agreed to a relationship but you assume one cause he "acting" like this or that. Granted some men too weak to tell you what it is then agree to monogamy and can't deliver but that ain't always the case.
What is this mumbo jumbo you just typed to dodge accountability
We as men need to be far more open about our intentions and don't lead these women on, thinking we want a committed relationship when we just want casual companionship. Men trade a relationship for access to sex and women trade access to sex for a relationship without either party being honest about what they actually want.
@@filmadcamp1512He’s saying there no was formal commitments so there’s no actual cheating.
@@jayjonah83That’s why we have to get this money.
@@filmadcamp1512 did you read it?
Dam she mic dropped and walked out like that lol aye she be speaking facts though... or you just go straight into resentment. It's hard af to bounce back from infidelity, it's so many steps to get to 75% because are you truly 100% afterwards if we bring honest... no lol. I tell everybody before u cheat beat ya may or flick that bean lol if u feel the same afterwards cool if not it was just lust and not you can look at the deeper issue as to why you wanted to cheat in the 1st place.
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Her lashes don't compliment her eyes. Make the laziness stand out more😂