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- The games we have to play to match the energy of men✨ Deep dive into being internally feminine, feeling fed up with liars and cheaters, navigating on a date when you are disappointed with men... Let's discuss!
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You'll notice I'm doing longer videos these days, so you can listen whilst getting ready for the day or even for a date. I think it's important for you to take the videos in their entirety by watching to the very end, otherwise you miss valid points ♥
This is what I do! I listen while getting ready for dates, it's a must have. Thank you for your videos ❤️
This is what I’m doing starting my day with a good breakfast whilst listening! Great video Ziva always enjoy and learn from them 💕
I was also a fantasy girlie until married men started approaching me and then I asked myself “are men capable of love or loyalty?”. I was initially disgusted but then I matured and realised that men date for benefits. So I decided I will also date for benefits, make my anger expensive and get a new car or a bigger home if a provider cheats/lies/disrespects
Full stop.👏👏
Better a little late than never! Next week's videos will be on time Wednesdays and Fridays at 6pm GMT.
I’ve always loved the fact that you don't sugarcoat anything and you're just brutally honest 😂.
Thank you, Ziva !
You’re looking fabulous 🌹
🤣 That’s how I know my subscribers are on the ball 🥰🫶 This is the exact reason I wasn’t liked / misunderstood growing up, but when I share with the women who get it, I’m understood 🥹🙏💕 And thank you!
Omg this hit home! Shout out to girl who asked this question.
Thanks Ziva for addressing this 🤓
Note: I bought 2 flower neck accessories after seeing them you wearing and nailing it, and I get more looks/compliments girl!!😊
This is such a sad truth, but it has to be acknowledged, so I’m glad my subscriber asked what she did 💝
The flower necklaces seem to get a lot of attention from both men and women 🥰🥹 I’m pleased you’re happy with your purchase ✨💕🖤
To me, if I’m supposed to be in a committed, monogamous relationship, cheating is a dealbreaker for me. The STDs, including the potentially deadly ones (HPV, HIV) are on the rise, and I take my health very seriously.
That said, your point is a valid one. If a woman is going to accept and overlooking cheating, it’s easier to overlook it if the guy is a wealthy provider instead of a broke dusty that has to depend on you financially. I think about Queen Alexandra (wife of Edward VII and great-great-grandmother of Charles III). She knew that her husband had mistresses. She accepted the relationships and going so much as to befriend the mistresses (including Alice Keppel, the great-grandmother of Queen Camilla). She did this because regardless of what kind of relationship he had with these women, the bottom line was that she was the Queen of England, and she got all the perks and wealth from being the queen. Edward VII still treated Queen Alexandra with love and respect, and she would still get top priority over the mistresses.
You’re so right about the dangers that can come from men being irresponsible. It would be amazing if they would simply not step outside of relationships, but unfortunately this is the case in soooo many situations. Thanks for sharing this seriously important point 💝
I feel like I will never meet another man that I can fall in love with.
She is back ❤️❤️❤️🥰
I sure am 🥹 it feels good 🥰🥰
Thank you so much for getting into this topic. Internally I’ve been struggling with this, I’m very attracted to men physically but I’m disgusted by their lack of effort to be providers, pursuers and just honest gentlemen.
This month alone I went on 2 dates and cancelled 1 date. Men really need more healing and let go of the bitterness and hate they are carrying it is making even dating miserable.
I love the community I have with friends and could see myself just traveling in flirting with whom ever I want.
I desire getting married but it feels so far away with the state of men…
I’ve considered dating women as well.
I think a lot of women will deeply resonate with you on that one 🫶
When you love yourself and when you have put in the work, choosing yourself becomes the best option. I'm not sacrificing my health, my mental or my life for a man that isn't everything I require. Leveling up for me has nothing to do with men. It has everything to do with my self actualization.
I hate to say this but I’ve cheated on every boyfriend I’ve dated since my early 20s (obviously I was benefiting from the new men and I didn’t up my body count) but since I’ve been doing that I’m never overtly paranoid or even care if I get cheated on as long as I feel the benefit was worth it and if not I always have a roster available of guys who are just as good I can move onto. I don’t view a relationship as official unless I’m married so I really feel no guilt behind it and it ensures I don’t waste my time as a woman. I don’t expect ppl to agree but it’s what works for me. Beautiful as always ziva!!
I relate with this completely 🙃 it doesn’t sound bad to me at all!
Thanks for hearing the mind of a cheater
If I would have known the logic of dating was this simple , I would have saved so much time ! Once I understood the nature of men, I had no more doubts about what my intuition was trying to warn me about. I also would have dated more men in my teens, have fun and avoid the entire concept of being loyal etc. I only did it because I was conditioned and I want to break out of this conditioning and do what is BEST FOR ME. Mxn have been doing this for generations ! Im taking my power back and leave LaLa land.
All I can say is 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 to everything you said!
I spent years being loyal and got played .How foolish I had been.
This is the harsh reality… I would say not all men cheat but most , being a alone is better than settling but pray for discernment and better yourself so you’d just allow anything. Men and woman need each other but unfortunately here we are 😩
I agree, not all but definitely most! I think they all cheat in some way or another, but 99% will heat physically given the opportunity
*cheat
This is why I love you lady. You speak the truth.
Your hair this way flatters your face very much! Middle parts are harsh on those of us with a low cranial top. This gives the height and truly harmonizes!
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Thank you x
Your hair looks lovely Z!!!! Really beautiful look and great content as always ❤
Aw thank you 🥹🥹🥹 I’m trying some trial and error of my own with different hair looks at the moment… 😊 I’m glad to hear you’re liking the content 🫶🥰🥰💝
This really resonates with me. How do we deal with cheating/lying men who we are currently in a relationship with and we are financially benefiting from?
I know I should be unbothered but can’t help feel a little hurt 😄
Search for “sheraseven let your man cheat” 😊
You leave them but at least you gains something from the person as he had something to offer you in someway (if he’s well to do/provider)
@@ariah457 thanks for the reply girl!
I would simply use it as an opportunity to get something bigger than what you’ve asked for before. Hopefully his guilt (if he has any) will kick in and he’ll grant you what you wish from him 🧞♂️
Excellent video. Thank you for your great advices 💜
Thanks for watching! 💝💕✨
Where are you getting you necklaces from? & are they available in the US?
I’ve bought them in a few colours on Etsy (UK). I’m sure they’ll have them on the JS Etsy too. Just type in ‘flower choker’ and see if something similar pops up x
This is all true but i don't want to be married to a disrespectful and cheating man. I will just date lol
Very true 🫣🙃 None of us want that or aim to attract it, but the sad truth is that it’s happening every single day, and we would be naive to think it could never happen to us. Love your name btw ✨🫶
Haven't been here in a while.
I noticed ✨ hope you’re ok 💕♥️
@@ZIVAZIVA Not too good, not too bad.
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I’m going to approach a guy tomorrow who asked for my number a month ago but never texted back. Usually I know that means they aren’t interested but I feel like it’s possible I gave him wrong # b/c he seems interested in me. What’s your thoughts?
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Lol I love how honest you are. It’s sickening how truthful everything is🫤
I know what you mean 🫣 the harsh reality of dating men I guess 😵💫
I think this is one of your best videos yet! I hope it drives more conversations, deep, layered and truthful 🤍💘
I appreciate that 🙏 especially since you’re a subscriber who has been here from the start ❤️♥️❤️ I also hope this topic sparks conversations and opinions x