That girl wasn’t being manipulated, she knew exactly how her dad treated Lisa . She laughed about leaving Lisa w him and driving home, knowing her dad was going to hurt her. Lisa better hope that girl doesn’t get a bf who doesn’t like her mom, she’d go right along w him. I grew up around abuse & at 14 you definitely know who’s the abuser and who’s abused!!
@@tyeshad.pierce4555 That’s an even bigger problem if driving overrides your own mother being murdered!! It seems like she was the least affected by her dad’s abuse, she’d be a sibling that would help torture & starve the rest if that’s what daddy wanted. There’s family getting locked up left & right for abusing & torturing their own siblings and family members to death
She was just a child, only 14. The nonsense I believed when I was 14YO: God, backmasking, D&D suicides, satanic killings, women shouldn't be preachers or president . . . . I'm much wiser now. WTF?!?!?!?! She was just a kid. SHe believed the BS her dad told her. WHo didn't at that age?
@@Theworstwitch72 This is so messed up to say to a child who was a victim who will read this. The person who loved and was supposed to protect her manipulated her brain that is not fully developed at 14. Do you also blame victims who stay with abusive spouses? She is nothing like her father.
@@eboyd2478My first thoughts! She’d be with her dad. And how she’s smirking after the fact, knowing everything that has happened. We’d have to repair our relationship from a distance
The fact the daughter can talk about such a horrific night while chuckling is so disturbing. I could never feel comfortable with her again. I have a 16 year old son and he would NEVER hurt his father to be hurt emotionally or physically even though he rarely sees him.
That daughter is wicked. Watch as she SMILES when she brags on how it was her idea to put graffiti on her mother's walls. At 14 you know wrong and right. She deliberately harmed her mother.
My daughter threatened my life and I will no longer allow her into my home. I am being told that I am wrong by some people. She tried to attack me with her boyfriend already. I refuse to be one of these shows because my child and her boyfriend has taken my life! It happens every day because nobody wants to believe that their child would harm them. The titles that people carry has gotten a lot of people killed! Daughter, Mother, Sister, Daddy or whoever. They are capable of doing evil things if they can say them out of their mouths and allow someone else to harm you and lie for them! When someone shows you who they are, you better believe them! I don't care what title they hold in your life! Children are killing parents with no regrets! My neighbors son just shot and killed him because he put him on punishment! this just happened one month ago! So NO I will not close my eyes around my own daughter! She has married this man now! I have lesions on my brain, he pushed me over a table and I hit my head on a book shelf and the floor! He could have killed me and she was on his side. All of this because I asked them to clean up my house after themselves. They were living with me at that time. She has not lived with me nor talked to me since that day. She told me that I am not her mother anymore.
I’m so sorry that happened to you, but you are projecting here. If you watch the whole thing, you’ll see arden testify she never witnessed physical assault between her father and mother, and it’s very easy for the parent who has more dominant custody to say whatever they want to the child to manipulate them. The fathers end goal wasn’t expressing anger - it was getting to the mother so he was only showing what would get him to that goal.
Bet she was abused physically. Seemed all happy bout being daddy girl. Said "we would go on little dates and stuff" it all off he was probably abusing the daughter
She was a child who was manipulated and abused as well. All she wanted was her family back together. Who knows what all her dad told her to get her do unlock the door for him. To blame a child and speak like that is exactly the type of behavior her dad portrayed.
@@vanessaweston6455 One has nothing to do with the other. If I believed something like that, I would state it. Apparently, your mind is going to other places here.
She was a hopeful child, who wanted her parents together. Do better! Trevor is an awful person who took advantage of that. Orrrrr, she's a Sociopath 🤷🏾♀️
@@KaydanPp sociopath. At that age you know right from wrong. She needs to be evaluated, she could not live with me and the other kids. She help cause their trauma as well.
If someone wants something really much, then even a smart person can get manipulated. Saving your family is a big motivation. You get vulnerable to manipulation and indoctrination.
Arden is an offspring of her father. The things she did in a blinking of an eye, so smooth and error less. How could she have done that to her mother? I will feel sorry for her partner
I know it sounds that way but but I watched as my husband convinced my children that I was in the wrong. I am married to a narcissist sociopath. We were a family that people asked how I raised such great children. Narcissist sociopaths can do that. They are so convincing. And their goal is to find a way to turn people against other people. It is a really creepy form of control.. something normal people can’t relate to until you live through it.
Every American has the right to face/question their accuser in a court of law. Without that a lot of innocent people would be convicted simply by word of mouth. Which is why the victim HAS to get in front of a jury & the person they accused so the jury can read them & see if what their saying is bs or not because another human beings life is in their hands.
@@feemariethose laws were written hundreds of years ago to prevent crazy witch trials. Today we have evidence, DNA, cell records, cameras. There is more than enough evidence. Victims do not have to re-traumatise themselves for an old archaic law. They also didn’t have the insane monsters as they do today. The crimes these days were not happening back then as this society gets sicker and sicker
No women should be able to put false statements of abuse in the justice system and walk away without punishment? Argo the "victim" can handle seeing there abuser in court? otherwise stop the CAP and get a life.
@@ImpartiallySpeaking SHE chose this guy and made MULTIPLE children with him. No one goes psycho overnight…. She enjoyed telling this story. She’s as sick as he is.
Yeah… she’s awful. Dressed to show her tattoos, her look at me attitude. To be fair the mother doesn’t seem to be a nice person either, tells her husband she wants a divorce, straight on dating sites. I’m sure she remarried as soon as the divorce went thru. No time to get over an abusive marriage straight onto the next one. Weird family all around!
right!! Imagine being told what to freaking wear everyday!!! i mean could you even get any more of a nightmare than THAT!!! like WHOAAAAAAAA like how did she like survive!?!?!? like she might be the strongest women in the world??? No????? what a inspiration!!! even her own daughter looks up to.....oh wait........wait a minute here!! how come her daughter hates her guts too? i thought she was the "victim"???? awhhh man thats a bummmmer huh?????/? HUH??????
My husband taught me how to weld so I’d like to go to the metal shop and one day he found out that I was there and he got very upset because they were only men there so I told him he better not go to Walmart because there’s women there and he better not talk to women if I can’t talk to men
@sbutler2147 check out some other true crime Podcaster deep dives on this story. some of them go more into the specifics of ardens involvement. they kind of downplayed it in this one. it was actually worse than this lead you to believe
Woman here but no man can or will keep a woman pregnant in this age. She had children and then he used them against her. Fortunately she survived this monster and her children, although scarred, will come through this. Pregnancy can be used as a weapon in relationships by both partners. This woman did not deserve any bit of what happened to her. Re: Case #1. Arden was used by her father.
This Mother is very strong. Imagine leaving everything but clothes on your back w/5 kids going to a shelter. However, Arden was both manipulated by the Father AND a manipulator herself! She was young but she has “agency” and will unfortunately but likely grow up w/many of her father’s terrible traits.
Silly comment to make about a child. The mother was an adult, and the monster of a father was diabolical enough to manipulate her into a marriage and 5 children. Yet you expect a 14yo to be immune to his manipulation, when adults weren't? Blame the perpetrator, not the manipulated child.
@@LRLoud Her mother met him at age 16 and he was able to manipulate her into 5 children with a monster, for YEARS, but sure, his 14 year old should have been onto him 🙄
Watching this sent a cold shiver down my spine, bringing back similar images with my husband, but worse due to living in the middle-east where a woman had no rights against her husband.
So sorry. I hope you talk about this often, with a therapist or trusted friend if you're unable to do therapy. I never realized just how much simply talking helps with trauma, after spending decades refusing to do so. Now I'm regretful of holding so much in, because of the massive weight it's lifted.
@@juliefregien6426 Table of Contents A Note on "Project 2025" Paul Dans Foreword: A Promise to America Kevin D. Roberts, PhD Section 1: Taking the Reins of Government 1 White House Office Rick Dearborn 2 Executive Office of the President of the United States Russ Vought 3 Central Personnel Agencies: Managing the Bureaucracy Donald Devine Dennis Dean Kirk Paul Dans Section 2: The Common Defense 4 Department of Defense Christopher Miller 5 Department of Homeland Security Ken Cuccinelli 6 Department of State Kiron K. Skinner 7 Intelligence Community Dustin J. Carmack 8 Media Agencies U.S. Agency for Global Media Mora Namdar Corporation for Public Broadcasting Mike Gonzalez 9 Agency for International Development Max Primorac Section 3: The General Welfare 10 Department of Agriculture Daren Bakst 11 Department of Education Lindsey M. Burke 12 Department of Energy and Related Commissions Bernard L. McNamee 13 Environmental Protection Agency Mandy M. Gunasekara 14 Department of Health and Human Services Roger Severino 15 Department of Housing and Urban Development Benjamin S. Carson, Sr., MD 16 Department of the Interior William Perry Pendley 17 Department of Justice Gene Hamilton 18 Department of Labor and Related Agencies Jonathan Berry 19 Department of Transportation Diana Furchtgott-Roth 20 Department of Veterans Affairs Brooks D. Tucker Section 4: The Economy 21 Department of Commerce Thomas F. Gilman 22 Department of the Treasury William L. Walton Stephen Moore David R. Burton 23 Export-Import Bank The Export-Import Bank Should Be Abolished Veronique de Rugy The Case for the Export-Import Bank Jennifer Hazelton 24 Federal Reserve Paul Winfree 25 Small Business Administration Karen Kerrigan 26 Trade The Case for Fair Trade Peter Navarro The Case for Free Trade Kent Lassman Section 5: Independent Regulatory Agencies 27 Financial Regulatory Agencies Securities and Exchange Commission and Related Agencies David R. Burton Consumer Financial Protection Bureau Robert Bowes 28 Federal Communications Commission Brendan Carr 29 Federal Election Commission Hans A. von Spakovsky 30 Federal Trade Commission Adam Candeub Where
I was also a victim of domestic violence,i feel 100% for this lady. Im extremely happy she survived and is remarried and happy. Your kids even look happy. Congrats to you and God will heal your physical and mental wounds.Sending Blessings to you and your entire family.
Me too I am married to a narcissist sociopath. I can so relate to her story. I stayed married because if I divorced him I would have no say as to who he would bring into their lives. While what he put we through was awful it didn’t escalate to violence. I am so sorry for what you went through. If it had turned violent I would have had to choose another path
I was too. My ex-husband treated me much like this poor lady was treated. He also tried turning my kids against me. So, I believe her. I am glad she survived. I gave Donny h empathy and compassion for her.
@@shelteredsparrow2736JDVance Senator Ohio (18 months) running for VP doesn’t believe women should be able to divorce with kids even in situations like this😳 Republicans like Sen Tom Cotton also😳👀🤣
@@bonniejosavland3227 That is my state Senator and that is complete lie. They believe in the nuclear family, however it has been very clear that they DO NOT condone abuse of ANY KIND and Vance has even stated that there are circumstances where things happen outside of the want and intentions of the marriage where it puts either a man or woman (whomever the victim is) and their children at risk. He does NOT believe in being forced to remain married in a dangerous situation. Your claim is just absurd.
What a piece of work Trevor is. He even manipulated his defense attorney into believing he didn't understand the difference between consent and acquiescence. Brennan is a real danger to society. His behavior at 16 is an ominous predictor of future behavior.
Sometimes attorneys will float "clever" defenses they don't even believe in, in order to cast doubt and improve their chances of winning cases and enhancing their career score. Some even identify with the perps.
It infuriates me that Trevor was given a chance to victimize his wife Alysa and children again by the judge. I'm glad Arden came out well. I'm glad Alysa had her wits about her and was able to survive for the sake of her children. Happy she found someone to love and protect them. ❤
Every American, has the right to face their accuser and question them on the stand. He was still “innocent”‘because he was NOT convicted by a jury yet.
@@feemariewho needs a jury when there is evidence ? videos, blood, surveillance cameras - the man is far from innocent Those ancient laws were set up to prevent witch trials but in this day and age NO Victim should have to be re-traumatised and face their perpetrator. Guilt and innocence is so easily proven these days
Thats how the system works has ZERO to do with judge . And truthfully it will make everyone wanna toss him u see the jail without parole !! Its gross but it will be the dagger in his trial
I honestly would separate from my daughter! She was old enough to understand the severity but still chose to participate in things that was not moral! And that speaks volumes She's the same as the father and as she gets older i guarantee you she will do the same with her boyfriends
Exactly my thoughts. I struggle to believe she imagined her father could achieve anything positive by having him climb through a window during the night when her mother was asleep.
I'm surprised she never talked to her mom to try and understand her side of the story, after the first attack with the divorce papers/graffiti, then and when she had called saying she missed her mom. When I was 14 I was smart enough to have some sense to at least ASK/be nosy. Not just believe only the dad's side of the story. I mean they both had requested restraining orders against each other, after they had met up to sign the divorce papers?? Uhhhh some bad sh*t must've happened? She not only vandalized the house, but helped her father in planning to essentially BREAK IN to the house. Let alone AT NIGHT. And somehow daddy was making perfect sense and that seemed like a completely normal thing to do. Why not just ask mom to meet up with dad to reconcile and/or with other adults present... None of her actions add up to being good.
I have no empathy for the daughter in the first story.. she was old enough to know better! Even if I buy that she was manipulated into letting him in the house, why did she never attempt to call the police after she realized the severity of the situation?
Why on earth would she immediately go to the car, once she snuck the monster into mom's house? Why did she not periodically check on her mom? Because she KNEW what he was going to do, and SHE APPROVED. Trevor brainwashed Arden into believing that mom was the one breaking the family apart? I'm not totally buying it.
I'm going to come talk to your mom in the middle of the night, and we're going to get back together. I need you to let me inside the house through the window, and (not through front door like a normal human being). And some of you don't think that the 14 year old daughter wasn't smart enough to have a second thought about anything being wrong with her dad wanting to enter from the window instead of the front door??? Gtfoh!!!
It is normal for children to side with their abusive parents and against the abused parent. This is a survival strategy that comes out of fear. I am glad the judge told Arden that what happened was not her fault.
I find it ironic that Trevor tried to state that the sex and abuse was consensual and that his wife wasn’t under duress, BUT claimed that his confession at the hospital should not be used because he was held captive?
Thankfully she's a good mother, who knows how manipulative her ex is since he manipulated her as an adult. She doesn't want people blaming her daughter because they both believed the same man.
She was so incredible strong!! All three of these stories were intense but listening to Donna and what she went through and how she survived is incredible!
Even a 5 year old would know it’s wrong and want to love a protect their mother. She’s a little devil. And her story makes no senses. She texts the dad she’s fast asleep so he can come in and do what ?? And she sees the mother than hours later distressed and does nothing ? She sounds like a psychopath
It’s what ensured he got the maximum penalty for more counts whereas in many cases a good defense attorney could have put doubt in the jury and gotten him off. He could have walked but because he represented himself there’s no chance he’ll ever be able to hurt his family again.
I agree. There should be a law that he have co counsel,at the very least, to question his victims. He definitely did that to be able to hurt them all over again. What a pig
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!! It is SO GLARINGLY OBVIOUS how BEYOND WRONG, SICK, TWISTED,even EVIL it is, that Trevor was allowed to be in the same room, let alone represent himself/address Alisa & her children. My ghast is thoroughly flabbered over that! Since it is easily possible these days, criminals like him should be zoomed-in from an entirely different area...ATLEAST on the other side of town. Smh...I am SO IRATE r.n.
Every American has the right to face/question their accuser in a court of law. Without that a lot of innocent people would be convicted simply by word of mouth. Which is why the victim HAS to get in front of a jury & the person they accused so the jury can read them & see if what their saying is bs or not because another human beings life is in their hands.
If 14yr olds can be charged as adults then her age isn’t an excuse for her actions. She knew exactly what she was doing was wrong. 2 days of her dad telling her that her mom is horrible isn’t enough time to brainwash her. No excuses
The lawyer for Trevor is delulu. Trevor is a piece of work. He literally whinned and said he felt "valurable, taken advantage of, and coerced" when the detective questioned him!!!!! He is guilty of all those things and more! He is unbelievable! Smh This was hard to watch. I am so glad she is safe and happy. He got everythibg he deserves. The judge was phenomenal.
Trevor claiming that he couldn’t give proper consent to be questioned because of his “surgery” (LOL) but then saying the s*x with Alisa was consensual while she was attacked and hog tied ??? What a piece of sh*t. And shame on the judge for allowing the abuser to cross examine the survivor
I understand how Donna could feel less strong after such an experience, but I hope by now she understands how this illustrates just how powerful she is, how powerful women have always been, sadly cuz men have always been this dangerous.
He & Arden vandalized her house, including writing profane messages about the mom, then convinced Arden he wanted to get back together with her mom. Vandalizing and defaming a spouse is not how you express your desire to repair the relationship. Now Arden has the foundation that control and humiliation are a part of love. The girl will need therapy. A lot of it.
Arden is such a weird girl, dangerous....14 year olds go to jail in usa when they conspire, with friends, so why does she get off? hmmmm something like double standards....Two other cases and the kid got jail too for helping
It is so aggravating that summers said that his wife was consenting because she didnt say no. Then he says that it was unfair and scary that the officer talked to him and he felt coerced.
No doubt!! How horrific for those kids 😢 thing is, we all have the right to defend/represent ourselves. It usually does not end well for them. There's that at least
I still don’t get the American criminal system someone gets 3 years others get a warning and he gets 200+ years. So confusing. Glad he’s locked up but I’ve seen a lot worse cases get nothing
Naw. That daughter knew more. She was old enough at the time to realize what she was doing was wrong. She’s probably just as manipulative now, as her dad was then.
I love that her friend used an entire system to help her deal with the anxiety of a visit. Anytime I work with a woman in sobriety & she has told me that men make her nervous, or loud voices, etc, I use a lot of the same methods. Never approach them from behind without making sure they know, never getting too close, don't touch them, even in what may be normal interactions, & with everything, ask for their consent, tell them they can create & adjust any boundaries they want, at any time, with no argument from me. Its not just healthy & compassionate, but its also ethical.
This series really shows how dark human nature can get 😟. It's wild to think about what some people will do for control. I mean, I'm just glad Alisa got out and is living her life now. 💪 She's a real survivor! 🌟
The Ray story brought tears to my eyes. Although he made mistakes he did try to change. A sad ending for a man trying to recover from his mistakes. Rest in peace 🩵
Oh my goodness! What an amazing story of survival! I have chills. You are amazing!!! 💕 It's so frightening to think that sometimes the monster is inside the house smh.
I was abused, stalked, kidnapped at gun point and raped by the father of my child when I was 18. I had to sweet talk him and agree to come back or die in the woods. I escaped, went to child services for help, they took my child to protect him and told me I was 18 and they couldn’t protect me, but they would help me get a divorce, so I moved to another city, changed my name, and got remarried eventually and tried to get my son back but couldn’t. Eight years later, he found me and called me at work. I told him I was married and not to call me again. The next day, he killed his wife. Went to prison until he died. Run for your life. No amount of personal possessions is worth it.
I don’t think it’s fair that an accused can represent themselves, therefore feeding information about themselves to the jury and not have to testify. The victims deserve better.
The judge had no choice. The law states he has the right to represent himself, unfortunately. He really made him PAY for it in the end though, didn’t he!? 😂
Summers is one dangerous dude...but...the Judge was sensational in the trial...he saw through the narcissism and saw to it that Hell will freeze over before he steps on grass again...
The sentence was so extreme that I believe the higher courts will overturn it. I think that under a different judge, he will end up with about 25 years.
😮Vocal fry is a mystery to me. When did it become fashionable? I don't remember it existing until recent years; I'm glad to know I'm not alone in finding it unpleasant.
Idk something doesn’t seem right… if the daughter thought the dad was coming over to just talk then why is she texting her dad saying “ coast is clear she’s fast asleep”? I wouldnt be able to trust my own kid. She may have been confused or in the dark a little but at 14 not knowing her dad is abusive … she even played it up on the phone pretending to miss her mom . Just very strange. She even seen her mom on the ground yelling help and she just ignores it and never calls for help. That’s so scary.
What a shame, this manipulative man putting his entire family through this ordeal and then letting him question them in a court of law, very narcissistic of his part. My best wishes to Alisa. God bless us all.
The phone confession, “I’m holding her against her will.” There’s no coming back from that To say that this man doesn’t understand the difference between consent and acquiescence…Oh yes he does. I think this guy truly believes that his actions were necessary. He’s using the “she had it coming” defense.
I love love survivor stories!!!! I’ve seen Alyssa’s story before. Ive seen and been in relationships like this before. It’s scary. They get controlling and it happens gradually over time. Starts with, “don’t wear skirts when I’m not with you cause I can’t protect you unless you are with me” you think it’s sweet so you comply but then it keeps adding on over years. Whats ever scarier is that he was controlling his oldest daughter and having her vandalize the home etc. I’m so glad she got out and with 5 kids she was able to rebuild and have a new life with a new man.
IM GLAD SHES ALIVE TO TELL HER STORY 😢BUT ALL THIS DOSENT CHANGE THE FACT THAT SHE WILL FOREVER BE TRAUMATIZE I FEEL SHES A TOUGH WOMAN AND I WISH HER AND HER KIDS A GREAT PEACEFULLY BEAUTIFUL LIFE AHEAD BLESSINGS TO THEM ALL
As someone who has PTSD from my ex I could NOT imagine being questioned by him and seeing him up there for 4 hours. I’d probably throw up. And I’m a pretty tough chic not gonna lie.
The fact the court allowed him to question the woman he brutalized. What a sick situation. As for the daughter, is she also mentally ill? The daughter seemed like a sociopath.
I live 20 mins away from Jersey shore hospital- there amazing hospital they saved my boy!- this obviously happened in Nj- So, happy they were able to save you!
Had Trevor succeeded in kiling Alyssa,Arden Would've gotten convicted for her role in the crime. 3rd case:Much respect for Donna. Attention.....2027 Brenan will be released out of prison and he will be 30 yrs old.
It was interesting that he said he was tied up and forced to cooperate in the hospital is wrong-BUT- him tieing her up and her being forced to cooperate with his plan is not wrong. We watched him question her in court and couldn't believe this was allowed. It was him trying to control and torment again
Trevor Summers is a perfect example of genuine misogyny. His gaslighting so blatantly to try justifying his behavior is why he should automatically be denied parole every time he comes up for it. The best revenge, though is that Alisa and the kids are happy, and even if he does get out he will be branded the loathsome creep he is for the rest of his life. Robert Manor is a monster, and no matter what anyone tries to gaslight with, he had no right to do what he did to Raymond Wright. He is rotting in prison and he is another person who deserves automatic denial of parole till he has served enough of his sentence. I am so glad that Donna Ongsiako survived and she is helping other victims as well. What Brennan Doyle did is horrible, and drugs only made him more willing to do what he was already capable of. Donna's healthy lifestyle absolutely played a huge part of how she survived. The fact that the Doyle family *_blatantly_* tried to obfuscate to hinder the investigation tells a lot as well. I especially agree that he was not "high enough" that he had no understanding or control.
I understand the daughter was manipulated but at the same time she comes across as just a brat is she gonna take responsibility? How can a daughter do that? I understand daddy’s little girl, but seriously
Arden watched her mother be controlled by her father her entire life. Of course she was easily manipulated to do whatever her father wanted her to do. Not surprised at all!
The irony. My didn’t do to me what Trevor did to Alissa but the manipulation of the daughter wow. Before and after the divorce he used my eldest to harass me. It worked so well that at 43 she is spoil, entitled and resentful. According to her I should be taking care of her forever while she’s in and out of jail and can’t hold a job and never a place to live. It’s sad. My youngest never fell for it and she passed unexpectedly at 33. Eldest still angry about my relationship with her sister which was completely different. He destroyed our daughter.
I watched the Trevor Summers trial. That judge is amazing. And her testimony and cross examination was painful to watch. But also inspiring. I wanted to cheer when he was convicted.
Alisa is a very brave woman. How sad that he manipulated her daughter into betraying her. He really did a maximum amount of damage. It's heartening to see Alisa's defiance, she didn't let him break her.
Alissa says that she cares about the kids, and first thing she does, after the awful experience she had before with her first husband, it’s go and get married. Something is not right with her either, how can she put her kids in jeopardy again. Even though her new husband seems to be a good man, she should have waited to get married again
NO fkn child should be afraid to be in their own home, period..! the true definition of home is safety, security and serenity. my grown kids still come home when they need to just relax, or they need help.
She must have learned in the domestic violence shelter that she should never meet him alone.I wonder what made her ignore that advice. And I would have thought she was taught if there is no evidence, it's useless to go to the police. They can't do anything.
That girl wasn’t being manipulated, she knew exactly how her dad treated Lisa . She laughed about leaving Lisa w him and driving home, knowing her dad was going to hurt her. Lisa better hope that girl doesn’t get a bf who doesn’t like her mom, she’d go right along w him. I grew up around abuse & at 14 you definitely know who’s the abuser and who’s abused!!
She should have definitely checked on her mom before she left them alone. She got excited about driving. I bet the guilt did hit her hard.
@@tyeshad.pierce4555 That’s an even bigger problem if driving overrides your own mother being murdered!! It seems like she was the least affected by her dad’s abuse, she’d be a sibling that would help torture & starve the rest if that’s what daddy wanted. There’s family getting locked up left & right for abusing & torturing their own siblings and family members to death
@@KlapbackI completely agree
FACTS FACTS AND MORE FACTS ❤
I agree 100%
I don't think Arden is as innocent as she claims. I would never trust her or want to be around her.
Exactly, she wouldn't be around my younger children
She was just a child, only 14.
The nonsense I believed when I was 14YO:
God, backmasking, D&D suicides, satanic killings, women shouldn't be preachers or president . . . .
I'm much wiser now.
WTF?!?!?!?! She was just a kid. SHe believed the BS her dad told her. WHo didn't at that age?
@@Theworstwitch72 This is so messed up to say to a child who was a victim who will read this. The person who loved and was supposed to protect her manipulated her brain that is not fully developed at 14. Do you also blame victims who stay with abusive spouses? She is nothing like her father.
Sick victim blaming again 🤦♀️ shame on you 🤷♀️ what’s wrong with you?
Right-MANY kids would Neva....
I know Arden was 14 but after that some serious counseling has to be done I wouldn’t be able to trust her
Yeah she would have to stay away from me. Daughter and all.
@@eboyd2478I'm glad more people are talking about it cause that daughter is worth 💩. I hope the mother never talks to her ever again. She's dangerous
@@eboyd2478My first thoughts! She’d be with her dad. And how she’s smirking after the fact, knowing everything that has happened. We’d have to repair our relationship from a distance
@@leekeene5889 Bottom line
@@eboyd2478 that part💯💯
The fact the daughter can talk about such a horrific night while chuckling is so disturbing. I could never feel comfortable with her again. I have a 16 year old son and he would NEVER hurt his father to be hurt emotionally or physically even though he rarely sees him.
Agreed. I wouldn't want my son to hook up with her.
Exactly the daughter is disturbing me forreal.
finally someone says this. That daughter is so strange , potential another mind manipulator.
The mom seemed way too excited and even performative when retelling the story too. Both mom and daughter seem really unhinged
@@dreeemer when psycho meets crazy and has a baby = psycho crazy daughter
That daughter is wicked. Watch as she SMILES when she brags on how it was her idea to put graffiti on her mother's walls. At 14 you know wrong and right. She deliberately harmed her mother.
Helter Skelter & Charlie Manson-esk
My daughter threatened my life and I will no longer allow her into my home. I am being told that I am wrong by some people. She tried to attack me with her boyfriend already. I refuse to be one of these shows because my child and her boyfriend has taken my life! It happens every day because nobody wants to believe that their child would harm them. The titles that people carry has gotten a lot of people killed! Daughter, Mother, Sister, Daddy or whoever. They are capable of doing evil things if they can say them out of their mouths and allow someone else to harm you and lie for them! When someone shows you who they are, you better believe them! I don't care what title they hold in your life! Children are killing parents with no regrets! My neighbors son just shot and killed him because he put him on punishment! this just happened one month ago! So NO I will not close my eyes around my own daughter! She has married this man now! I have lesions on my brain, he pushed me over a table and I hit my head on a book shelf and the floor! He could have killed me and she was on his side. All of this because I asked them to clean up my house after themselves. They were living with me at that time. She has not lived with me nor talked to me since that day. She told me that I am not her mother anymore.
@@staceyg861 #grifter/lazyAzzes
I’m so sorry that happened to you, but you are projecting here. If you watch the whole thing, you’ll see arden testify she never witnessed physical assault between her father and mother, and it’s very easy for the parent who has more dominant custody to say whatever they want to the child to manipulate them. The fathers end goal wasn’t expressing anger - it was getting to the mother so he was only showing what would get him to that goal.
The way Trevor looked so smug and proud of himself while taking those videos, what a psychopath
There is NO WAY Arden didn't know what kind of "man" her father is. NO WAY!
He brainwashed her.
She’s scary & I feel for whomever she gets with😳
Bet she was abused physically. Seemed all happy bout being daddy girl. Said "we would go on little dates and stuff" it all off he was probably abusing the daughter
Same with the wife.
She ignored major red flags from the beginning. When a normal person would have leftt, she stayed, married him and had 5 kids.
She was a child who was manipulated and abused as well. All she wanted was her family back together. Who knows what all her dad told her to get her do unlock the door for him. To blame a child and speak like that is exactly the type of behavior her dad portrayed.
Arden is a sociopath. There is no way she went that far with her dad.
Just like her father
@@Zbee167 She was a child. Do you also blame victims for staying with her abuser?
@@vanessaweston6455 One has nothing to do with the other. If I believed something like that, I would state it. Apparently, your mind is going to other places here.
She was a hopeful child, who wanted her parents together. Do better! Trevor is an awful person who took advantage of that. Orrrrr, she's a Sociopath 🤷🏾♀️
@@KaydanPp sociopath. At that age you know right from wrong. She needs to be evaluated, she could not live with me and the other kids. She help cause their trauma as well.
I know the oldest daughter isn’t this naïve…. Girl bye. I wasn’t this slow as a child.
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Right. She'd have to go live with someone else.
Right 💯
If someone wants something really much, then even a smart person can get manipulated. Saving your family is a big motivation. You get vulnerable to manipulation and indoctrination.
Absolutely! I agree with you 100%.
Arden is an offspring of her father. The things she did in a blinking of an eye, so smooth and error less. How could she have done that to her mother? I will feel sorry for her partner
I know it sounds that way but but I watched as my husband convinced my children that I was in the wrong. I am married to a narcissist sociopath. We were a family that people asked how I raised such great children.
Narcissist sociopaths can do that.
They are so convincing. And their goal is to find a way to turn people against other people. It is a really creepy form of control.. something normal people can’t relate to until you live through it.
I’m so happy that judge saw a danger to society and gave him a life sentence. That man is sick!
No woman should ever be forced to see an abusive husband. The justice system failed her terribly
Every American has the right to face/question their accuser in a court of law. Without that a lot of innocent people would be convicted simply by word of mouth. Which is why the victim HAS to get in front of a jury & the person they accused so the jury can read them & see if what their saying is bs or not because another human beings life is in their hands.
@@feemariethose laws were written hundreds of years ago to prevent crazy witch trials. Today we have evidence, DNA, cell records, cameras. There is more than enough evidence. Victims do not have to re-traumatise themselves for an old archaic law. They also didn’t have the insane monsters as they do today. The crimes these days were not happening back then as this society gets sicker and sicker
No women should be able to put false statements of abuse in the justice system and walk away without punishment? Argo the "victim" can handle seeing there abuser in court? otherwise stop the CAP and get a life.
@@feemariethen tell the police to actually enforce restraining orders.
Now they are under no obligation to do such.
@@ImpartiallySpeaking SHE chose this guy and made MULTIPLE children with him. No one goes psycho overnight…. She enjoyed telling this story. She’s as sick as he is.
As for Brennan Doyle....
The drugs did not turn you into a monster. The drugs just brought out the monster that was already there.
I appreciate cases where the victims survive to tell their story..
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Omg! I was thinking the same thing. 😊 Vote blue 💙💙💙
Me too🙏
An average of over 3 wives/girlfriends a day do not. in the US.
Rr5
The daughter 😲very disturbing !!!
Scary!
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Yeah… she’s awful. Dressed to show her tattoos, her look at me attitude. To be fair the mother doesn’t seem to be a nice person either, tells her husband she wants a divorce, straight on dating sites. I’m sure she remarried as soon as the divorce went thru. No time to get over an abusive marriage straight onto the next one. Weird family all around!
I am sooo HAPPY that Alisa survived and was able to move on and be HAPPY herself. She deserves it! Especially after that nightmare she endured.❤
So true she deserves all the happiness in Life with her Family!
right!! Imagine being told what to freaking wear everyday!!! i mean could you even get any more of a nightmare than THAT!!! like WHOAAAAAAAA like how did she like survive!?!?!? like she might be the strongest women in the world??? No????? what a inspiration!!! even her own daughter looks up to.....oh wait........wait a minute here!! how come her daughter hates her guts too? i thought she was the "victim"???? awhhh man thats a bummmmer huh?????/? HUH??????
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My husband taught me how to weld so I’d like to go to the metal shop and one day he found out that I was there and he got very upset because they were only men there so I told him he better not go to Walmart because there’s women there and he better not talk to women if I can’t talk to men
I wouldn't trust that little brat to save my life....
The daughter is really creepy....
@sbutler2147 check out some other true crime Podcaster deep dives on this story. some of them go more into the specifics of ardens involvement. they kind of downplayed it in this one. it was actually worse than this lead you to believe
I think calling someone creepy is creepy....
I agree.
@@mcdarkness4779Are you her boyfriend 😂 she's is a psychopath
@@firsttimeisawjupiter1031 C'mon. Nobody is perfect!!🤣🤣🤣🤣
I think Trevor kept Alissia pregnant thinking he would have more control over her, and that no other man would want a woman with 5 kids,
Woman here but no man can or will keep a woman pregnant in this age. She had children and then he used them against her. Fortunately she survived this monster and her children, although scarred, will come through this. Pregnancy can be used as a weapon in relationships by both partners. This woman did not deserve any bit of what happened to her. Re: Case #1. Arden was used by her father.
I think you're right.
Why didn't she leave him and take birth control!!!!
@donnagraciale1745 why don't you not victim blame, gd.
@@PupcakesDogCare
Why don't you read it again and put your brain in overdrive to understand what I wrote.
This Mother is very strong. Imagine leaving everything but clothes on your back w/5 kids going to a shelter. However, Arden was both manipulated by the Father AND a manipulator herself! She was young but she has “agency” and will unfortunately but likely grow up w/many of her father’s terrible traits.
Silly comment to make about a child. The mother was an adult, and the monster of a father was diabolical enough to manipulate her into a marriage and 5 children. Yet you expect a 14yo to be immune to his manipulation, when adults weren't? Blame the perpetrator, not the manipulated child.
@@AliceA333 a 14 year old knows right from wrong
. That girl should go to jail like her father. She is cold as ice.
@@LRLoud Her mother met him at age 16 and he was able to manipulate her into 5 children with a monster, for YEARS, but sure, his 14 year old should have been onto him 🙄
Watching this sent a cold shiver down my spine, bringing back similar images with my husband, but worse due to living in the middle-east where a woman had no rights against her husband.
I can't imagine! I'm sure you were in survival mode the entire time.
So sorry. I hope you talk about this often, with a therapist or trusted friend if you're unable to do therapy. I never realized just how much simply talking helps with trauma, after spending decades refusing to do so. Now I'm regretful of holding so much in, because of the massive weight it's lifted.
Take a look at project 2025. America could be the same as well.
@@juliefregien6426 terrifying!!
@@juliefregien6426 Table of Contents
A Note on "Project 2025"
Paul Dans
Foreword: A Promise to America
Kevin D. Roberts, PhD
Section 1: Taking the Reins of Government
1
White House Office
Rick Dearborn
2
Executive Office of the President of the United States
Russ Vought
3
Central Personnel Agencies: Managing the Bureaucracy
Donald Devine
Dennis Dean Kirk
Paul Dans
Section 2: The Common Defense
4
Department of Defense
Christopher Miller
5
Department of Homeland Security
Ken Cuccinelli
6
Department of State
Kiron K. Skinner
7
Intelligence Community
Dustin J. Carmack
8
Media Agencies
U.S. Agency for Global Media
Mora Namdar
Corporation for Public Broadcasting
Mike Gonzalez
9
Agency for International Development
Max Primorac
Section 3: The General Welfare
10
Department of Agriculture
Daren Bakst
11
Department of Education
Lindsey M. Burke
12
Department of Energy and Related Commissions
Bernard L. McNamee
13
Environmental Protection Agency
Mandy M. Gunasekara
14
Department of Health and Human Services
Roger Severino
15
Department of Housing and Urban Development
Benjamin S. Carson, Sr., MD
16
Department of the Interior
William Perry Pendley
17
Department of Justice
Gene Hamilton
18
Department of Labor and Related Agencies
Jonathan Berry
19
Department of Transportation
Diana Furchtgott-Roth
20
Department of Veterans Affairs
Brooks D. Tucker
Section 4: The Economy
21
Department of Commerce
Thomas F. Gilman
22
Department of the Treasury
William L. Walton
Stephen Moore
David R. Burton
23
Export-Import Bank
The Export-Import Bank Should Be Abolished
Veronique de Rugy
The Case for the Export-Import Bank
Jennifer Hazelton
24
Federal Reserve
Paul Winfree
25
Small Business Administration
Karen Kerrigan
26
Trade
The Case for Fair Trade
Peter Navarro
The Case for Free Trade
Kent Lassman
Section 5: Independent Regulatory Agencies
27
Financial Regulatory Agencies
Securities and Exchange Commission and Related Agencies
David R. Burton
Consumer Financial Protection Bureau
Robert Bowes
28
Federal Communications Commission
Brendan Carr
29
Federal Election Commission
Hans A. von Spakovsky
30
Federal Trade Commission
Adam Candeub
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I was also a victim of domestic violence,i feel 100% for this lady. Im extremely happy she survived and is remarried and happy. Your kids even look happy. Congrats to you and God will heal your physical and mental wounds.Sending Blessings to you and your entire family.
Me too
I am married to a narcissist sociopath. I can so relate to her story. I stayed married because if I divorced him I would have no say as to who he would bring into their lives. While what he put we through was awful it didn’t escalate to violence. I am so sorry for what you went through. If it had turned violent I would have had to choose another path
I was too. My ex-husband treated me much like this poor lady was treated. He also tried turning my kids against me. So, I believe her. I am glad she survived. I gave Donny h empathy and compassion for her.
@@shelteredsparrow2736JDVance Senator Ohio (18 months) running for VP doesn’t believe women should be able to divorce with kids even in situations like this😳 Republicans like Sen Tom Cotton also😳👀🤣
@@bonniejosavland3227
That is my state Senator and that is complete lie. They believe in the nuclear family, however it has been very clear that they DO NOT condone abuse of ANY KIND and Vance has even stated that there are circumstances where things happen outside of the want and intentions of the marriage where it puts either a man or woman (whomever the victim is) and their children at risk. He does NOT believe in being forced to remain married in a dangerous situation. Your claim is just absurd.
Me too 😢
I don't believe Arden. As an investigator of several years I've seen similar behavior.
@ jamessimmons 3416 I totally agree with you !
Wow the two of you are unbelievable! Arden was a child! Her dad gaslighted her. Shallow thoughtless comment! 🤬
Wow the two of you are unbelievable! Arden was a child! Her dad gaslighted her. Shallow thoughtless comment! 🤬
Wow the two of you are unbelievable! Arden was a child! Her dad gaslighted her. Shallow thoughtless comment! 🤬
Wow the two of you are unbelievable! Arden was a child! Her dad gaslighted her. Shallow thoughtless comment! 🤬
What a piece of work Trevor is. He even manipulated his defense attorney into believing he didn't understand the difference between consent and acquiescence. Brennan is a real danger to society. His behavior at 16 is an ominous predictor of future behavior.
Sometimes attorneys will float "clever" defenses they don't even believe in, in order to cast doubt and improve their chances of winning cases and enhancing their career score. Some even identify with the perps.
It infuriates me that Trevor was given a chance to victimize his wife Alysa and children again by the judge. I'm glad Arden came out well. I'm glad Alysa had her wits about her and was able to survive for the sake of her children. Happy she found someone to love and protect them. ❤
Every American, has the right to face their accuser and question them on the stand. He was still “innocent”‘because he was NOT convicted by a jury yet.
@@feemariewho needs a jury when there is evidence ? videos, blood, surveillance cameras - the man is far from innocent
Those ancient laws were set up to prevent witch trials but in this day and age NO Victim should have to be re-traumatised and face their perpetrator. Guilt and innocence is so easily proven these days
Thats how the system works has ZERO to do with judge . And truthfully it will make everyone wanna toss him u see the jail without parole !! Its gross but it will be the dagger in his trial
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@@paddyward7802what part
Arden is lying she knew her dad was going to harm her mom.
Otherwise why would she go to car after sneaking him in the house! That daughter is evil
She is IN love ---->dad
She was 14 and manipulated.
@@tamaralevy3805your usual person of that age is smarter, I speak for myself and friends I had back then! No comparison!
Of course she lying! She is actually smiling telling her story!
@@tamaralevy3805no she wasn’t! When the plan changed she knew dad was going to hurt her mom!
I honestly would separate from my daughter! She was old enough to understand the severity but still chose to participate in things that was not moral! And that speaks volumes
She's the same as the father and as she gets older i guarantee you she will do the same with her boyfriends
the daughter is already a red flag for any men to date or marry
Fiica trebuie monitorizata, este bebuna
@@abstyles6218the piercing and tattoo doesn’t help! 🙄
Exactly my thoughts. I struggle to believe she imagined her father could achieve anything positive by having him climb through a window during the night when her mother was asleep.
I'm surprised she never talked to her mom to try and understand her side of the story, after the first attack with the divorce papers/graffiti, then and when she had called saying she missed her mom. When I was 14 I was smart enough to have some sense to at least ASK/be nosy. Not just believe only the dad's side of the story. I mean they both had requested restraining orders against each other, after they had met up to sign the divorce papers?? Uhhhh some bad sh*t must've happened? She not only vandalized the house, but helped her father in planning to essentially BREAK IN to the house. Let alone AT NIGHT. And somehow daddy was making perfect sense and that seemed like a completely normal thing to do. Why not just ask mom to meet up with dad to reconcile and/or with other adults present... None of her actions add up to being good.
The daughter is gonna be one scary girl 😱.
Hi
He smile alone gives her away
Is one scary girl, scarier in the future.
I have no empathy for the daughter in the first story.. she was old enough to know better! Even if I buy that she was manipulated into letting him in the house, why did she never attempt to call the police after she realized the severity of the situation?
That daughter is scary. She’s sounding pretty cheerful telling the story of how she helped her father rape and kidnap her mother.
Why on earth would she immediately go to the car, once she snuck the monster into mom's house? Why did she not periodically check on her mom? Because she KNEW what he was going to do, and SHE APPROVED. Trevor brainwashed Arden into believing that mom was the one breaking the family apart? I'm not totally buying it.
My 8 year old knew that we had to run (I always had a to-go bag for my daughter & myself). She was scared of him!
I'm going to come talk to your mom in the middle of the night, and we're going to get back together. I need you to let me inside the house through the window, and (not through front door like a normal human being). And some of you don't think that the 14 year old daughter wasn't smart enough to have a second thought about anything being wrong with her dad wanting to enter from the window instead of the front door??? Gtfoh!!!
It is normal for children to side with their abusive parents and against the abused parent. This is a survival strategy that comes out of fear. I am glad the judge told Arden that what happened was not her fault.
I find it ironic that Trevor tried to state that the sex and abuse was consensual and that his wife wasn’t under duress, BUT claimed that his confession at the hospital should not be used because he was held captive?
I hope this woman never talks to that coward child of hers again. How evil!!
Thankfully she's a good mother, who knows how manipulative her ex is since he manipulated her as an adult. She doesn't want people blaming her daughter because they both believed the same man.
That daughter should go to jail to.That girl is evil and set her mom up.
Agreed
Mrs. Donna I'm so glad you are still with us. I'm so proud of you, you go girl. In my prayers. My girlfriend is from from your hometown NJ, Paterson.
She was so incredible strong!! All three of these stories were intense but listening to Donna and what she went through and how she survived is incredible!
I dont think lil miss arden is any angel
A girl that age knew that writing graffiti on the wall was wrong especially to your mother . I hope the daughter is in therapy.
Agree. She was to old to acted this way. I would have trouble ever trusting her again.
Even a 5 year old would know it’s wrong and want to love a protect their mother. She’s a little devil. And her story makes no senses. She texts the dad she’s fast asleep so he can come in and do what ?? And she sees the mother than hours later distressed and does nothing ? She sounds like a psychopath
Yeah .. She comes off extremely gross ..she was plenty old enough to know what's going on
@sleigh4019 you would think so. Intetesting all the kids where living with him and not mom. Even the youngest. Whole thing strange
Absolute joke that the abuser could question his victim
Only a misogynist judge would allow it.
Need to stop allowing people to represent themselves in certain situations. It's awful that he could abuse the wife and kids again through court
Why would she try online dating and going through that extensive abuse?
It’s what ensured he got the maximum penalty for more counts whereas in many cases a good defense attorney could have put doubt in the jury and gotten him off. He could have walked but because he represented himself there’s no chance he’ll ever be able to hurt his family again.
I agree. There should be a law that he have co counsel,at the very least, to question his victims. He definitely did that to be able to hurt them all over again. What a pig
YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY CORRECT!!!
It is SO GLARINGLY OBVIOUS how BEYOND WRONG, SICK, TWISTED,even EVIL it is, that Trevor was allowed to be in the same room, let alone represent himself/address Alisa & her children. My ghast is thoroughly flabbered over that! Since it is easily possible these days, criminals like him should be zoomed-in from an entirely different area...ATLEAST on the other side of town.
Smh...I am SO IRATE r.n.
Every American has the right to face/question their accuser in a court of law. Without that a lot of innocent people would be convicted simply by word of mouth. Which is why the victim HAS to get in front of a jury & the person they accused so the jury can read them & see if what their saying is bs or not because another human beings life is in their hands.
The daughter is seriously disgusting. She was more than old enough to know better and seems to have no remorse for her part in the ordeal
She was 14.
Zero remorse or empathy
If 14yr olds can be charged as adults then her age isn’t an excuse for her actions. She knew exactly what she was doing was wrong. 2 days of her dad telling her that her mom is horrible isn’t enough time to brainwash her. No excuses
The lawyer for Trevor is delulu.
Trevor is a piece of work. He literally whinned and said he felt "valurable, taken advantage of, and coerced" when the detective questioned him!!!!! He is guilty of all those things and more! He is unbelievable! Smh
This was hard to watch. I am so glad she is safe and happy. He got everythibg he deserves. The judge was phenomenal.
Trevor claiming that he couldn’t give proper consent to be questioned because of his “surgery” (LOL) but then saying the s*x with Alisa was consensual while she was attacked and hog tied ??? What a piece of sh*t. And shame on the judge for allowing the abuser to cross examine the survivor
I understand how Donna could feel less strong after such an experience, but I hope by now she understands how this illustrates just how powerful she is, how powerful women have always been, sadly cuz men have always been this dangerous.
He & Arden vandalized her house, including writing profane messages about the mom, then convinced Arden he wanted to get back together with her mom.
Vandalizing and defaming a spouse is not how you express your desire to repair the relationship. Now Arden has the foundation that control and humiliation are a part of love. The girl will need therapy. A lot of it.
That's why she's not that innocent imo, surely she isn't that naive
I’m sorry but I would’ve turned Arden every way but loose. That girl done lost her mind!! Her mama need to cut ties, I don’t trust that girl AT ALL
Trevor acted like a bad guy in a low budget film with a motive that made absolutely no sense.
What i thought exactly lol 😂
Arden is such a weird girl, dangerous....14 year olds go to jail in usa when they conspire, with friends, so why does she get off? hmmmm something like double standards....Two other cases and the kid got jail too for helping
It is so aggravating that summers said that his wife was consenting because she didnt say no. Then he says that it was unfair and scary that the officer talked to him and he felt coerced.
My thoughts exactly!! So so infuriating
Unbelievable that the mum in the last story survived that attack. What a strong woman she is.
The fact the judge would allow him to question not just the victim but the children as well is horrendous 😢
No doubt!! How horrific for those kids 😢 thing is, we all have the right to defend/represent ourselves. It usually does not end well for them. There's that at least
Don't blame the judge, he didn't write the laws. His job is to make sure they are followed. You are allowed to be your own attorney.
I still don’t get the American criminal system someone gets 3 years others get a warning and he gets 200+ years. So confusing. Glad he’s locked up but I’ve seen a lot worse cases get nothing
Exactly .. very odd. Only saw the end so now watching the rest to see how someone got this many years yet she is alive
Naw. That daughter knew more. She was old enough at the time to realize what she was doing was wrong. She’s probably just as manipulative now, as her dad was then.
Arden the daughter is just as evil😮 as the husband
I love that her friend used an entire system to help her deal with the anxiety of a visit. Anytime I work with a woman in sobriety & she has told me that men make her nervous, or loud voices, etc, I use a lot of the same methods. Never approach them from behind without making sure they know, never getting too close, don't touch them, even in what may be normal interactions, & with everything, ask for their consent, tell them they can create & adjust any boundaries they want, at any time, with no argument from me. Its not just healthy & compassionate, but its also ethical.
Thanks for making these available here!
This series really shows how dark human nature can get 😟. It's wild to think about what some people will do for control. I mean, I'm just glad Alisa got out and is living her life now. 💪 She's a real survivor! 🌟
The Ray Wright case always makes me absolutely sick to my stomach. That poor man. 😢
The Ray story brought tears to my eyes. Although he made mistakes he did try to change. A sad ending for a man trying to recover from his mistakes. Rest in peace 🩵
WHAT A SHAME!!! How on earth has he ANY right to interview his own victim in court for 4 hours ?!?
Oh my goodness! What an amazing story of survival! I have chills. You are amazing!!! 💕 It's so frightening to think that sometimes the monster is inside the house smh.
I was abused, stalked, kidnapped at gun point and raped by the father of my child when I was 18. I had to sweet talk him and agree to come back or die in the woods.
I escaped, went to child services for help, they took my child to protect him and told me I was 18 and they couldn’t protect me, but they would help me get a divorce, so I moved to another city, changed my name, and got remarried eventually and tried to get my son back but couldn’t. Eight years later, he found me and called me at work. I told him I was married and not to call me again. The next day, he killed his wife. Went to prison until he died. Run for your life. No amount of personal possessions is worth it.
I don’t think it’s fair that an accused can represent themselves, therefore feeding information about themselves to the jury and not have to testify. The victims deserve better.
Alisa being questioned by her ex husband during his trial is just sick and wrong. I don't get how the judge could have allowed it.
The judge had no choice. The law states he has the right to represent himself, unfortunately. He really made him PAY for it in the end though, didn’t he!? 😂
Summers is one dangerous dude...but...the Judge was sensational in the trial...he saw through the narcissism and saw to it that Hell will freeze over before he steps on grass again...
The sentence was so extreme that I believe the higher courts will overturn it. I think that under a different judge, he will end up with about 25 years.
The dark haired daughter in the second case had vocal fry so badly that I received second degree burns.
😮Vocal fry is a mystery to me. When did it become fashionable? I don't remember it existing until recent years; I'm glad to know I'm not alone in finding it unpleasant.
Idk something doesn’t seem right… if the daughter thought the dad was coming over to just talk then why is she texting her dad saying “ coast is clear she’s fast asleep”? I wouldnt be able to trust my own kid. She may have been confused or in the dark a little but at 14 not knowing her dad is abusive … she even played it up on the phone pretending to miss her mom . Just very strange. She even seen her mom on the ground yelling help and she just ignores it and never calls for help. That’s so scary.
What a shame, this manipulative man putting his entire family through this ordeal and then letting him question them in a court of law, very narcissistic of his part. My best wishes to Alisa. God bless us all.
I could never trust my daughter again after that.
The phone confession, “I’m holding her against her will.” There’s no coming back from that To say that this man doesn’t understand the difference between consent and acquiescence…Oh yes he does.
I think this guy truly believes that his actions were necessary. He’s using the “she had it coming” defense.
I love love survivor stories!!!! I’ve seen Alyssa’s story before. Ive seen and been in relationships like this before. It’s scary. They get controlling and it happens gradually over time. Starts with, “don’t wear skirts when I’m not with you cause I can’t protect you unless you are with me” you think it’s sweet so you comply but then it keeps adding on over years. Whats ever scarier is that he was controlling his oldest daughter and having her vandalize the home etc. I’m so glad she got out and with 5 kids she was able to rebuild and have a new life with a new man.
IM GLAD SHES ALIVE TO TELL HER STORY 😢BUT ALL THIS DOSENT CHANGE THE FACT THAT SHE WILL FOREVER BE TRAUMATIZE I FEEL SHES A TOUGH WOMAN AND I WISH HER AND HER KIDS A GREAT PEACEFULLY BEAUTIFUL LIFE AHEAD BLESSINGS TO THEM ALL
As someone who has PTSD from my ex I could NOT imagine being questioned by him and seeing him up there for 4 hours. I’d probably throw up. And I’m a pretty tough chic not gonna lie.
Iam so glad Alisa found a Loving Partner and husband!
Trevor is a piece of work. Thank God she made it out alive.
I find it strange this compilation was about people who escape murders and kidnappings but the 2nd episode doesn't fit that description. 🤔
The fact the court allowed him to question the woman he brutalized. What a sick situation. As for the daughter, is she also mentally ill? The daughter seemed like a sociopath.
39:10 I am so glad the judge told the daughter she was not guilty!!!
Makes me mad that many didn't believe her because she was animated and elaborate
I live 20 mins away from Jersey shore hospital- there amazing hospital they saved my boy!- this obviously happened in Nj- So, happy they were able to save you!
Yup, Colts Neck up in/ near freehold!!
Had Trevor succeeded in kiling Alyssa,Arden
Would've gotten convicted for her role in the crime.
3rd case:Much respect for Donna.
Attention.....2027 Brenan will be released out of prison and he will be 30 yrs old.
SCARY that he'll be getting out at 30. SMH!
What an evil thing to do not only to your wife but also to your daughter! How hard is it going to be for that little girl to trust any man again?
The daughter is as bad as him
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It was interesting that he said he was tied up and forced to cooperate in the hospital is wrong-BUT- him tieing her up and her being forced to cooperate with his plan is not wrong.
We watched him question her in court and couldn't believe this was allowed. It was him trying to control and torment again
Alisa, you are one badass, strong woman. I’m so glad you are happy with hubby and your kids. ❤❤❤❤❤
Bless these children and their mom.🙏🙏🙏🙏
Arden learned so much pathology from her dad. I’m not sure how much damage was done, but I’d keep a very very close eye on her.
Donna: What an inspiring story, amazing woman, mother, survivor
Trevor Summers is a perfect example of genuine misogyny. His gaslighting so blatantly to try justifying his behavior is why he should automatically be denied parole every time he comes up for it. The best revenge, though is that Alisa and the kids are happy, and even if he does get out he will be branded the loathsome creep he is for the rest of his life.
Robert Manor is a monster, and no matter what anyone tries to gaslight with, he had no right to do what he did to Raymond Wright. He is rotting in prison and he is another person who deserves automatic denial of parole till he has served enough of his sentence.
I am so glad that Donna Ongsiako survived and she is helping other victims as well. What Brennan Doyle did is horrible, and drugs only made him more willing to do what he was already capable of. Donna's healthy lifestyle absolutely played a huge part of how she survived. The fact that the Doyle family *_blatantly_* tried to obfuscate to hinder the investigation tells a lot as well. I especially agree that he was not "high enough" that he had no understanding or control.
I agree with everything written above.
Arden was old enough to know better! Her involvement and the way she telling the story is odd something is most definitely off with her 😐
I understand the daughter was manipulated but at the same time she comes across as just a brat is she gonna take responsibility? How can a daughter do that? I understand daddy’s little girl, but seriously
Arden watched her mother be controlled by her father her entire life. Of course she was easily manipulated to do whatever her father wanted her to do. Not surprised at all!
The irony. My didn’t do to me what Trevor did to Alissa but the manipulation of the daughter wow. Before and after the divorce he used my eldest to harass me. It worked so well that at 43 she is spoil, entitled and resentful. According to her I should be taking care of her forever while she’s in and out of jail and can’t hold a job and never a place to live. It’s sad. My youngest never fell for it and she passed unexpectedly at 33. Eldest still angry about my relationship with her sister which was completely different. He destroyed our daughter.
Having no evidence for an arrest and "not believing her" are two different things.
I watched the Trevor Summers trial. That judge is amazing. And her testimony and cross examination was painful to watch. But also inspiring. I wanted to cheer when he was convicted.
Trevor’s attorney is as full of crap as Trevor.
Donna you are incredibly strong.
So happy that she’s able to tell her own story 🙏🏽
Alisa is a very brave woman. How sad that he manipulated her daughter into betraying her. He really did a maximum amount of damage. It's heartening to see Alisa's defiance, she didn't let him break her.
Alissa says that she cares about the kids, and first thing she does, after the awful experience she had before with her first husband, it’s go and get married. Something is not right with her either, how can she put her kids in jeopardy again. Even though her new husband seems to be a good man, she should have waited to get married again
That nose ring is killing me. Why? SMH
It’s ugly 😮😢
NO fkn child should be afraid to be in their own home, period..! the true definition of home is safety, security and serenity. my grown kids still come home when they need to just relax, or they need help.
You are absolutely right.
Kids who are home schooled are isolated from Social Workers who can identify abuse.
My ex got 2 life sentences,same thing I wanted a divorce and he shot me in my head. I was fighting for my life.
This man is insane!!
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And his daughter with the nose ring is as crazy as her father!!
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@@bbe3034 I do think nose rings look awful on a person. Gross!
She must have learned in the domestic violence shelter that she should never meet him alone.I wonder what made her ignore that advice. And I would have thought she was taught if there is no evidence, it's useless to go to the police. They can't do anything.