How To Be Witty In Conversation
ฝัง
- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ก.พ. 2025
- In this video, you'll learn how to be witty in conversation.
👉 Download your social confidence cheat sheet: socialconfiden...
👉 Book your social confidence consultation: calendly.com/s...
Watch this video if you're a software engineer and you often feel lonely:
👉 How to connect with people as an introvert in tech: • Video
Today, we're going to talk about how to be witty and humorous. If you've ever wondered how to be witty, charming, and clever, make sure you watch the whole thing.
You'll discover how to be witty and funny with comebacks. By the end of the video, you'll figure out how to be witty, quick, and sarcastic.
Let's keep in touch:
👉 Join our Facebook group: / socialconfidencemastery
👉 Follow us on Instagram: / socialconfidencemastery
👉 Listen to our podcast: socialconfiden...
Watch this video if you're a software engineer and you often feel lonely:
👉 How to connect with people as an introvert in tech: th-cam.com/video/_m55IjfDPWs/w-d-xo.html
There is this problem that I and many people face and I think this needs to be talk about so badly... We can't seem to come up with a comeback at the moment we need but, when we're out of that situation then all sorts of comebacks, sassy retorts comes flooding in our mind which aren't of any use later on.
You can always prepare ahead of time!
@@SocialConfidenceMastery How?
@@jhilmilgil4512 for me I rehearse every scenerio I possibly can get into so when it comes im ready usualy this happens in th shower
@@jhilmilgil4512 by seeing the future duh
@@choxomoxxo565 I knew you were gonna say that
1: stop caring
2: expand knowledge
3: create unexpected associations
4: Prepare for future scenarios
5: Be in the moment
6: Confident
7: Pay attention to how you make people feel
8: Remember the good jokes
9: Be courageous
10: keep it short and sweet
I appreciate you summarizing the video!
Which one was your favourite tip?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery keep it short and sweet
No. 1, 4 and 5 are contradictory.
@@kiloocal8763 Not necessarily, you can prepare yourself for future conversations while being secure in playing it be ear
"I can assure you, most people would have forgotten you by the time you get home." 😂 Ouch
I find this actually freeing
Sometime they will and then when they come across you next time they will smile for sure and remember that joke which makes to build a rapport.
Basically....respectfully be care free and curiously confident...let loose and find you humor.
That's a good summary!
What's been working well for you to improve your humor?
@@SocialConfidenceMasterygot rejected
Ugh if only if I could think of witty remarks and comebacks in the moment but then think of so many later, when I’m out of the situation 🤦♂️
What's holding you back? Let's see if we can solve it together here.
I’m the same way! When I’m in the moment I have NOTHING, but 60 seconds later I have GOLD!
Always shower while in a conversation
That’s called Staircase Wit
I'm perplexed by the fact that I've known/thought each and every point in this video before watching it. The real challenge is to really get into and apply them constantly in different life situations.
This information right here is pure gold fellas. Work your way with it cause it is 100% accurate.
I'm happy to hear that!
What's holding you back from implementing these tips?
Thanks my dude-very analytical and “boring” person here. Thanks for helping me spice up my conversations🙏🏻
Happy to help!
Which tip did you like the most?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I really liked living in the moment. I feel like generally, I dont have anything funny or clever to say, hopefully this helps ease the pressure and make it easier to say something spontaneous and funny.
@@Gman0440-Gamer Definitely! Hard to be quick-witted if you're mind is somewhere else.
@@Gman0440-Gamer You might find this video helpful: th-cam.com/video/gD3wMCgmxqw/w-d-xo.html
Go to work, go home, and play videogames. He just described me, and it makes me think.
What are you thinking about?
@@SocialConfidenceMasteryEither video games or work, I imagine 😂
I have a lot of difficulty in social situations. I have some social anxiety at times. I lack humor, and confidents but im comfortable when people show friendliness as well. People do like me but it would be good if i was better socially.
Its kinda crazy how there was a little voice telling me this exact thing deep down this whole time that I was neglecting more than I was embracing. Thank you. Christ bless thee
What does that voice sound like?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery😂
I'll put it there, my e it will help someone
Some years ago, i realise that i restrected my self too much. Especialy in social situation
I was very shy boy in class, and i really hated when i got a good joke on my mind and not telling it,
So one day I decided to improve myself and my social skill, I started work out and most importantly cultivate my wittiness.
So i read book on make jokes and socializing and watching vidéos too,
and all of the best tips on making jokes are in this video
Literaly, Just apply then and you will improve in few months or even weeks
My best tips is to try to make connection between very opposite things (said in the vidéo)
And a useful tip is to watch podcast and standups
Edit: i am the famous Guy on yt comments, Who dont really speaks english ( so be indulgent :)
Thank u sweetheart ❤
Stop caring is the best tip. Basically it's only that you need.
As I got older I became less talkative and kept to myself now I struggle with being clever and shut down as I don’t like the attention being drawn to me. I am taking mental notes on how to fix that
From my personal experience whatever he said is totally correct and can be used to improve humor and sarcasm
I know it's irrelevant, but I can't help staring at your hair,..its just great!
Thank you so much!
I blow dry it, use dry wax and sea salt spray!
Out of curiosity, which tip did you find the most helpful from the video?
Man. You must like hair porn.
@@SocialConfidenceMastery you're nose tip
You are awesome-the best teacher I've come across👏👏🤝🤝👊👊🙏🙏 You've literally turned me into James Bond 007.
I'm subscribing right away.
That's great to hear!
Glad to have you as part of the community!
This video is gem for someone who understood each and every word correctly
Thanks for that!
Which tip did you like the most?
Most of them can't choose and thanks for the gem although I knew some of them from experience that's why realised immediately how good it is
This is what I do all the time, and I think it's a good idea 💡 to pull out these things and be suitable for the discussion.
That's great to hear!
I appreciate you stopping by!
Indeed. l also pull out my gun when I can't say anything.
One trick is to actually answer questions logically, but in a funny delivery. Sometimes the actual situation sounds funnier than the imagery you can create with said scenario.
fr
Is this the most important video of my life bcoz this applies to all languages
The stare at the end of your statements are menacing bro
I think it’s because he is lowering his chin after every statement which creates a menacing expression 😂 like the jack nicholson stare
Thank you so much! as someone with social anxiety this really helps 🙌🏾
You are so welcome Kayla!
Which tip did you find the most helpful?
Kayla Maddox oh hello lovely Kayla, me too. But I used hypnosis recordings and absolutely overcame social anxiety. I've made quite a big improvement. They are available in TH-cam. Good luck out there.
what exactly do you think is a good hypnosis recording to improve social anxiety.
I think it's part of the journey. The tips are helpful along but they won't make you witty; you have to do that with experience and proper execution. It's like- knowing the formula and solving a problem by using the formula are two different things. The fiormer one is easily accesible but the latter is more crucial.
Great tips on how to be funny in social situations. One tip that I might add is, if you have the courage, to take a class in improv.
I find the tip that has to do with associations very helpful. For example the chair example you mentioned.
Excellent!
Thanks for sharing that!
This advice sounds like a spiritual journey
What makes you say that?
Can anyone recommend books on increasing knowledge? I don't know where to start and learn new things.
Thanks for the video. Very helpful!
I'm so happy to hear that!
Which tip did you find the most helpful?
Really great advice! I love this video and all the. tips. I’m a very boring so i hope this helps me be less bland with conversations
Glad you liked it!
Which tip did you like the most?
Thanks.
You're so welcome!
Which one was your favorite tip?
I really like this video 😍.thanks
You're so welcome!
You only say that because the dislike button is banned
This is a great video with actionable insights. A lot of these tips I learned while taking improv classes.
That's great to hear!
Which tip did you like the most?
Thankyou for such good tips.❤
You are so welcome!
Which tip did you like the most?
If all u do is go to work, go home and play video games… lol bro called me out😂
Someone's gotta do it! 😅
I’m generally a funny person and always have inside jokes. I’m one of the funniest in my different circles of friends. But when I moved to the US it seems to have changed and I know some reasons are language barrier and some cultural differences. I’d love to be able to bring that old self back
People who call themselves funny are generally not funny
@@hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266humor is subjective so he may actually be funny to some.
@@_showvoid_2428 No shit, that doesn't change what i said
@@hewhoshallacquirepowerando1266 It quite literally does dumbass
“People who call themselves funny are generally not funny”
Which is false because humor is SUBJECTIVE I can say I’m the funniest man on earth while you think I’m not funny just cause I’m making a statement based on myself, but someone among many people would agree.
Your statement holds no merit because it’s based on your opinion which is irrelevant because as I said
HUMOR IS SUBJECTIVE 🤦🏾♂️
I just subscribed your channel after watching 0:20 sec o video 😂
Thanks I learned a lot 😊
Great tips bro
Happy to hear that!
Which one was your favourite?
Thank you!
You're so welcome!
Which tip did you like the most?
Hi, I have been trying to be witty my entire life. I always asked open ended questions, and sometimes this works. But I never get asked any questions from anyone else. I say something to add to the conversation (finally),and the conversation stops cold , noon
Being witty comes down to saying something that's unexpected, positive and relatable.
If you're having awkward silences during your interactions, that sounds like a different issue.
thanks !!
You're so welcome!
Which tip did you like the most?
U r so underrated
Thank you so much!
Which tip did you like the most?
Please list all time favorite books ideally, not commercially well known 🙏🙏
Great video man
I appreciate that Zahir!
Which tip did you like the most?
This video helped me so muchh
That's great to hear!
Which tip did you like the most?
Love you 🌙🌟💥⚡️
Thanks for stopping by!
You just met him
watching south park has helped me
How to get a repartee? Reacting to sarcasm, disparaging, Etc
What do you mean exactly?
I can’t find any videos on this but what does it mean when I’m always the funny one in every situation
sometimes I feel like I'm a terrible person
Why is that?
Grass: Weed, Trees, lawnmower, summertime, fun, money, blades, dirt, neighborhood, boogers
A good wit is a better self defense than jiu jitsu
Totally agree!
How are things going for you so far?
Hey, If someone can write his personal experience after he listen to this video
I need something to motivate me, and thank you
How can I help you?
being witty is the opposite of this. it’s knowing you’re fucking armed to the strakes in any conversation and sit there and pray nobody drops a house on them. this level of fast genius… it’s cute. y’all cute.
how should i get started on research?
What do you mean exactly?
Herro 🤗 so I'm autistic and have this thing when I experience big mental breakthroughs I also shut down verbally. I get more serious. Loosey humor and have a slower speech along with poor mental recall. I'm here now trying to Relearn how to Mask for society. Because these phases really bring down everyone around me. I say this for education purposes and also as a hidden meaning thank you for making these videos. Also do you have specific advice in not over analyzing the situation?
Do you do any coaching ?
Yes I do, what's your email?
Don't do it man. Just like he said, be carefree. Why would you give a fuck about his coaching.
Is this guy reading from a blog ? I found this same info on some blog and its like hes readinng from it
Helpful :)
Glad you think so!
Comebacks😏
You know it!
I must be pretty evil. I’m only watching this so that I can destroy people better with comebacks.
“Can’t just work and play video game” Ight im a head out
It's hard to be creative if you don't do new things, right?
Out of curiosity, what other hobbies do you have?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I get it..sarcasm doesn’t translate well through text. What would a sarcasm emoji look like?
What helped me with Wittness is freestyle rap and writing rhymes with metaphors and punchlines.
Nice
Thanks for stopping by!
Which tip did you like the most?
I wish my father said that when I graduated from college.
What to do if you find some ppl really boring?
What do you mean exactly?
You look like Tam from the big bang theory
Your face cuts are amazing
Thank you!
Which tip did you like the most?
Guys just watch the UK show 'would i lie to you'
I think it's good advice but it will require a lot of work.
It's natural...you can copy but can't learn
Why do you say that?
0:03 No
HI.😀 I have to stop over worry and I am learning something.😐 Goodbye.😀
5:10 7:30
That's seems like a scam. The army will teach you how talk, sing, communicate, analyze, and react. Probably learn a lot of humor from your drill instructor. They're very witty.
What do you mean?
i also want to be Woody
2:30 a chair makes you think of those?
Geez man I would hate to hear what you think about a banana.
You might find it amusing at the very least haha
@@SocialConfidenceMastery ohhh cmon I know you meant "we"😉
A chair and a rope 🥸
What works for me is when I smoke marijuana I’m very witty
Good for you!
How often do you have to do that to be able to banter with others?
@@SocialConfidenceMastery I smoke weed invariably
Same! It’s like the weed unlock this special conversational chat bot area of my brain. Bro the speed is unmatched! It’s basically instantaneous.
Rule no 1 : Be an asian
I got that dialed in for sure!
have trauma in your early life
Checked ✅
This video is boring not witty at all
Thanks for your feedback!
Did you try any of the tips?
This helped me 😭
Thank you so much 🙏
I am the type of person who would rather talk about me searching how to be witty than actually being witty myself🫠
I relate