How To Make The Greatest Comeback Of Your Life (In 6-12 months)
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Jesus is Lord of lords, King of kings and God of God's
hang up? lol.
The deepest reason for failure ~
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If I set goal to marry you Ruri, Will I be able to achieve that?
1. 4hours of deep work
2. No alcohol
3. Limit social media usage
4. Workout
5. 7+ hr of sleep
6. Get sunlight
7. Remind yourself of your goal
8. Gratitude practice
thanks
Thanks
9. Smoke weed every day
@@TokyoXtremeeven snoop cut that out bruh don't get too addicted moderation is the key😁
9. Buy ASUS ZenScreen MB16QHG QHD
I’m 6 months I’ll be back!! I’m an unemployed post grad, feeling stuck, and honestly a bit depressed for the first time in my life. Today, I commit to 6 months. I will be back, and I will tell everyone how I’ve changed. Someone else commented this, so I’m doing it too.
Work, exercise, sleep, sunlight, goals, gratitude, the full job lot!
Edit 1: 2 weeks in and I’m employed in my dream job 💞
I think we all know what needs to be done deep down, but having someone to remind us and give that extra push once in a while is really helpful.
why would anybody need this?
You couldn't have said it better.
The best Quote: "If I want to have an extraordinary life, I can’t live like an ordinary person."
This reminded me of: "if you truly want to continue escaping from everyday life, you've got no other choice than to keep evolving, no matter whether you're aiming for higher or lower"
If anyone knows whose this quote belongs to... Yeah, maybe not the best role model but it has some truth to it :d
Both solid quotes. Cheers 🤙
Ruri is absolutely killing it with her videos! She's not only talented, but also incredibly tough and determined. I have no doubt that she will continue to do great things in life. Keep shining, Ruri! You're an inspiration to us all.❤
Agree 100%. Right on point. This summary video shows important ground of her strong personality.
Very beautiful also.
Don't forget to mention beautiful.
She looks like an ai generated character. I dont mean that in a bad way. It just trips me out
Apparently not determined enough to finish her degree.
She is quite literally living off the aesthetics of "productivity", without having the stamina to do any particular project herself. It is economically advantageous of course and good for her; but she is selling all the time something that does not actually exist. Her strong point are languages since she comes from a rich international family.
@@SiriProject degrees are for losers now a days. People waste so much time and money on useless degrees in bs.
Her commitment and love for her parents is so admirable and inspiring.
The way you described your family issues about poverty and how you are doing now is one of the biggest comeback in itself, W ruri as Always
Damn, this is so simple but yet so hard, but it is worth it. When you're talking about your family situation I totally empathize and I also need a bigger comeback in my life!
Thank you Ruri for always killing it and for your hard work for us !!
Another amazing, well thought-out and comprehensive practical video. Thanks, Ruri. I, too, have ADHD and overcame (meds helped then) depression over family stuff. You are helping more people of all ages than you realize. Glad you're over a million subsceribers, too. Bless you!
Thank you for this video Ruri! May you be blessed with more success and strength!
I knew I can count on you! A big help in guiding us to our dream lives. Keep it up Ruri!
from today i am promising myself very seriously about the carrier ..as i will be better and better day by day everyday no matter whatever the circumstances are ...........i promised me !!!!!!!!!!🙁
Love your content, def in the monk mode at this point in my life. Lost my job, got cheated on, injured my neck was downer than down. But crawling up is the best feeling, because it's only up to you, ain't nobody gonna help you but you. Loved this video. 👊🏾
Ruri i am genuinely grateful that i've discovered your channel because you made me completely changed my life and mindset. You are my inspiration💗💗
I can totally relate to family issues that you suffered. You are an inspiration to all of us, and I have taken steps based on your suggestions to help put myself back on track by not allowing distractions to impede both my personal and career growth. Thank you!
Couldn't agree with you more. Life is always full of challenges and obstacles. Nothing is handed to you. Take action today. Thanks for sharing.
You’re so upbeat and it’s inspiring. Thanks for posting!
Just found you yesterday! This vid is just what I needed. I too have ADHD and it has been a rough few years. Ready to put my plan into action and will use these tools! Thank you Ruri!!!
Yess a new Ruri video!❤❤ I am always so inspired by your videos they are such a good reminder of staying focused on my goals. I've recently started writing more video scripts and I'm just racking up the courage to start filming again. I completely agree with fighting the negative thoughts and feelings. But I try to remind myself of the feeling of giving others knowledge and sharing experiences.
Thank you Ruri
That last encouraging phrase felt like...it was said by a friend who truly believes in me...and I am so grateful for that and the video, I can't even put it in the words...looking forward to seeing you in 12 months with me being better self and living my dream life.
Thank you so much, Ruri! I really need this now, at the lowest point in my life
I'vent words enough to thank you for this video Ruri! Thank you so much! You nailed it!
You really motivate me to want to do better. Your videos are really well made. You’re not only easy on the eyes, but you’re very interesting to listen to. Your life is very much relatable as I’ve gone through very similar experiences as you.
You strengthen my journey. You are my inspiration RURI.
I have felt depressed about my life lately, and I keep thinking about wanting to change my life. Your video is literally the answer, and I'm so thankful that you made this video. I can totally relate to what you described, feeling hopeless and not having motivation. I'm going to work hard to prioritize my health and well-being. Thank you for your genuine advice and for being realistic. I admire your mindset and determination. Thank you for your hard work, Ruri! You are amazing, and I'm so glad that you exist. I hope I have an opportunity to meet you one day.
Could you help me with speaking?
how's the life change going
You just need to find a man and get kids and you'll be happy, babe.
that's so fucking weird. a man doesn't dictate someone's happiness. and the "babe" yeah you're a creep@@I666I
@@I666I Not everyone wants that though??
I am really grateful for your content and about your content, Ruri! Goal creation is in the essence now. You are incredible, please keep at it! I am listening! And as you should be expecting by now, yes, thank you so much!
This video came across my suggested feed. I listened, and now am working towards a better me. You inspired me to be more dedicated to my main overall. Thank you Ruri. I look forward to your new videos.
There's a lot of improvements in the way Ruri makes her vid. Here are some of the things i noticed.
1. It started immediately!
2. More B rolls.
3. Improved Jcuts for seamless connection.
4. Ruri's A-roll being shown on stock videos that isn't her.
5. B-roll quality improving. It always match what's being said. So much b roll super engaging!
6. Wiggle positions in graphics for constant engagement
7. No gaps in speaking.
8. Zooming in, crops and constant change on a-roll for seamless vid.
9. I like the skew effect on article makes it more interactive.
Potential improvement:
-experiment with sound design on animation
-On showing articles zoom it in highlighting what Ruri sighted
-Experiment with Chapters TH-cam feature and segment sponsor and headline like the monk mode 10 listicles and etc. (also when there's sponsor add a yellow loading line below or above so user have idea when it's done.)
Well done Ruri!. 🙏 Also well done editor if it's someone else.
Thank you :)
Exactly her editing is fire
Also the emaunt of B roll in this video make me think she was in a film and she use all the clips in it
Thank you ruri. I'm learning english and next year i will pass ielts test.i want change my life ❤🤝
I'll see ya in a few months Ruri! THanks!
Thank you for this video! Hello from Brazil!
whenever I come and watch your videos I always learn something new. If I disappear for 6-12 months, I'll certainly consume your contents. Thanks a lot, Ruri-san!
Ruri, I'm going through this "where am I going" crisis again, so watching this video helped me take control again, it's exhausting to feel like you're not moving forward, but I've been on this path since 2019 and I feel like I wouldn't have made much progress but from that year until now it's too much, what I want to say is don't give up, it's hard to regain your strength but seeing all this content gives you the will to live again, thank you for everything Ruri
You are so right. Thank you for being such an inspiration. I am activating Monk mode and going all in on my personal transformation. Keep up the good work! Thank you.
You asre one of the few creator's that reached 1 million that has not become toxic you kept you're genuine personality love you're video's you are always interesting
Thanks for the great videos Ruri! I used to avoid watching youtube because a lot of creators would spend too much time going on about themselves. Then I discovered people like you and Izzy who get straight to the point and every second of your videos are full of valuable information. You are an inspiration for people of all ages!
I'm so grateful that I found this channel back then, it really helps with motivation. Thank you Ruri
This video is so precious! 🥺 Thank you very much!
A young person changing the lives of older people is a hallmark of legitimacy and authority in my personal experience. #gratitutde #thankful #domoarigato #shukren =D
You know Ruri I was literally thinking about how to change my life..like I was stucking in the same place in my life for a long time..My friends improving a lot & I'm not...I feel miserable right now...
But I suddenly saw the notification from you and this video...
I got some hope & I'll try my best to become the best version of myself....
I'm truly thankful ❤🙏❤
I'm 17 btw
Dude you are 17 relax
Thank You, Ruri!
Thank you Ruri, for making videos like this. I started going to the gym 2-3 times a week and for whatever reason, something just snapped which made uaging a gym routine work for me. But besides gym, I still sleep late nights and don't go out much. So videos like these make me honestly so grateful for people like you, Ruri, who make content that isn't just inspiration pron, but shows you a good routine and healthy living.
You're the best example for my life ❤️
I'll never give up
I appreciate you for all your supporting ❤
This is what I needed to hear today! Thank you ❤ I just started my own asmr TH-cam channel and feel a bit discouraged already because I didn't get a lot of views or comments. But I still got some, and you just reminded me to be grateful and keep going. 🤗
I love your videos, the messages, the filming and the way you present it is great! Thank you so much!
Thank you for this. I lost my job and barely making ends meet. This video is helpful and learning to live a life I am proud of. There’s a saying, “better to disappoint others for a few years than disappointing yourself for the rest of your life.” I don’t remember who said this but I think it’s true.
I certainly needed to hear all this. Taking a step back, reevaluating my priorities, and going into monk mode for a while could do the trick for just how unhappy I've been lately.
Also, I didn't know you also had ADHD, Ruri! I feel seen, and this gives me hope for my own life.
You don't know how much I needed to hear this now. Thank you!
Your timing always comes at it‘s best!!!
I've discovered your channel and been watching your content over the last few days
-This is the one I truly needed! Thank you so much.
I just woke up, I feel so tired and demotivated like the other days of my life. Yesterday I fall asleep while I was crying and asking for help inside me. I normally don't scroll on social media but today I just did it and find your video.
You posted this 18 min ago, what a coinsidence. I am still watching it, Im on the 4th minute btm. I truly hope after watcing this, something will trigger inside me which will guide me to change and step by step I will take control of my life. This is what I wished exactely right before sleeping and I don't even know when I fall asleep, last thing I remember that I was crying and wishing for "health, happiness, strength, energy, sense of responsibility and consistency".
I'm going to continue watching your video and I hope one day I will come back here and let a reply that I did it and I am finally able to control my life while being healthy. Thank you!💜
You got this💪🏻
Thank you Ruri! This is my comeback video to personal development. It's been a pleasure watching you. :) Really entertaining video. Keep going!
Ruri, you’re awesome!
I’m a beginner youtuber from Brazil and you always inspire me with your videos.
Thank you so much for sharing!
I really like that you’re understanding of peoples personal struggles without shaming them. It makes me feel motivated out of passion instead of peer pressure.
My gripe with videos like this is that you never hear from the people who did all of this work just like she says, but still didn't get their life together. People are lucky if they find the missing piece in their life from watching self improvement content on TH-cam. It's not that easy for everyone and working hard isn't always enough because sometimes you need professional help. Finding the proper care that you need can also be very difficult depending on your economic situation. That said, hard work and determination is at the root of it all. I've been doing it for the last 7 years or so and only the last year or so i feel like im starting to see the light. So it took 6 years of feeling like i was every day trying to fix my life but not getting anywhere at all. Ive given up so many times only to get back up again. It has to be like a compulsion to always get back up even if there seems to be no point.
im glad you are starting to see the light. good luck friend
@@penny1992 Thank you
Yeah the winner bias. I remember there was this trainee who was going to part of bts. He did the work and didn’t make the cut. Also working hard doesn’t equal success. People also have to work smart and that’s something that isn’t said much in productive or grind culture.
Thank God that I can understand English languaje. You are a big kick of motivation. Thank you. Love from Chile!!
I’ll do this Ruri, thank you 🙏🏻
Your video helped me so much. As a man, I have been fighting for my family. For being kind and having weakness I had to pay the price. I could not forgive myself. But I was saved by your daily life. I am still fighting for peace. And I will always be happy to do so for people like you. Here is my advice.
1. Health for functioning
2. Wealth for [1]
Do what you need. Then be a good person. Wish you the best.
Thanks for keeping it real. Its awesome to see your channel develop and your content is refreshing and informative. Keep it up girl!
Thank you once again, Ruri!!!
Love how this video appeared when i needed it the most. Thank you
How can you post the videos When I needed them most. Tysm sis, I'm literally appreciated for this content and I think that this kind of videos are so mobilizing for us. I must comeback to my life because of my education carrier and for my family. Thank you again for everything💚💜
Ruri is the best ! on inspiring people! Moreover her life is the best example of how her videos’re really work! More than 1.2 million subscribers can’t be wrong! We love you Rurisan!
Great video! The monk mode and going to the extreme, was my favorite part!
Keep going Ruri 💖💖💖
Girl I ought to say you're truly inspiring, and I'm gonna say thank you for this video it gave me insight on what should I change !
Ruri is the definition of determination and hardwork. She is a role model to all of us out there 🙌🏻🤩. She always makes me motivated with her amazing content 😍💖 Thankyou once again ruri. Really appreciate the hardwork you put out there 🙌🏻
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@@SAINTxSZNyes
This is so simple. Recently got fired and my depression symptoms have been sharply increasing. Nice to know you also had depression but were able to get out of it, I feel exactly how you described yourself.
you're officially my new teacher!! Thankyou sm for the motivation:))
Okay let’s try this out, I’ll be back to this video after 6 months and every time someone likes this comment ill get reminded for sure ✨ thanks ruri 🤌❤️
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Same thing starting today, also… Reminder for you
Thanks Ruri!! Your videos are a great help in keeping me focused on my goals. They help me stay motivated!
That "I will see you in a much better position in 6 to 12 months" at the end, gave me goosebumps.
Absolutely loved the things that you shared!!
Subscribed!!
Lesson learned through experience. If your friends have no aspirations, you’re going to have to just accept the fact if you want to work on yourself and improve, you WILL have to dedicate the time to it. Even if it means saying no to going out for drinks. I didn’t push my friends away, but none of them have any goals and are content with the bare minimum. That’s fine if you’re like that. I wasn’t. Focused on myself. Barely saw them for a year. Started learning and hanging out with a multi millionaire who was already where I would’ve liked to have been. My networth went up 4x. And my friends were still there when I got back.
Your content has brought me value as always. Hoping one day to be able to meet you! Thank you for everything!
Thank you Ruri, I really needed this right now
This video literally hyped me up! I’m in the phase of mediocrity where everything I used to enjoys looks flat and boring, it’s time to make a change. I’m gonna watch this video every morning and start to take some action, thank you so much for this!
Watching this made me realize that, after a long take of running towards my goals, I just lose the way.
One of my Monk Mode rules has always been "whenever you want to start something, start it now or today", and that's what I'm going to do right now. It's time to take control over myself, find the way and start converging all of that information that I learned in the way of the years.
I love your channel because your videos always make me want to actually take action.
Such a great and inspiring video!
Ruri thank you for your videos! for a very long time i wanted to do youtube and share my life experiancias and help my self and others, teach what i know and build a community, your videos and your journey inspired me to finally take action .
Huge help. Thank you Ruri.
Ruri, you inspire me a lot. I promise you i will become the person i wanted in 6-12 months and come back to this video and give feedback. My biggest dream is to study medicine in italy right now. While watching your videos i figured out that actually almost all of us are facing with same problems. Our family, teachers or friends might not believe our goals. But i know myself, i know i want to do this. Thanks a lot sister :)
Best of luck, never give up!!
You are right, I don't want a mediocre life that's why I usually watch this type of content. I don't have self-confidence and I've always struggled to trust myself. I need only more clarity in my life. My mind is foggy and I can't think straight. Thanks for your videos and energy
Use the energy you are using to focus on your past self and use that energy for how to improve your future self. Overtime you will love and trust yourself better.
♥♥@@chrish7308
Damn I needed this ruri, I've been having the same low energy days for 4 months straight (with the exception of a few productive burdsts here and there) taking action isnt the same as it was before and im determined
I feel you Ruri, My dad was also scammed by my uncles. Keep the good work up and keep moving forward.
Hey Ruri, let me start by saying that you've motivated me a lot more than ever to stay active and productive, can't thank you enough! Also, you're right regarding social media, because if you know how to use it properly, then it really can make you a living, otherwise, you'll just get left feeling depressed 24/7 from the more pointless side of social media. Also, on another note, thanks so much for teaching me about "monk mode", I'll take that a lot more into consideration, now! You're basically THE strongest motivational productivity channel on YT, without a doubt, keep up the awesome work!
P.S. - No pain, no gain! 😎💪🏼🤓
Having a clear goal like a shonen protagonist allows us to not only dream big but have direction. It gives us that drive to strive towards achieving that goal. Your tip about cutting things out, disappearing and dedicating a set amount of time will only increase the likelihood of it becoming a reality. It's easier said than done. Being trapped in that doom-scrolling mindset is hard to snap out of. So randomly coming across and watching this video has helped tremendously. Now I just need to put the work in, think smart, be motivated and the results will show. Hey maybe in 6-12 months time things will be different. Thank you for sharing and good luck to those out there trying their best.
Thanks for sharing. I needed this. ♥
Thank you so much Ruri
❤ such a valuable content!
Ah Ruri I love seeing these kind of stories. I had this kind of uprising too. I lost count how many nights I wasted doom scrolling and got so depressed that I attempted taking my own life several times. I decided that one day was enough and decided to push and now I’m going to be working for the government. In a twisted way I’m glad I went through what I did.
I feel like i have lost myself.. I used to be so focused in my school days. But in recent years i am left with nothing but demotivation to do anything. But your video suddenly popped out and I couldn't resist myself to watch it.. Really feeling better that we all go through the same situation atleast once in a lifetime but in the end how do you overcome it is the thing that matter..
Same
You're my greatest inspiration!
This was just what I needed. Thank you so much.
I'd watch all your videos at once but I better go and get those sleep hours in!
sadece yapmak istediğim çok fazla şey ama kısıtlı zmanım var ve bunu düşünmek beni yoruyor. Sonra bir bakmışım yatağımda shorts ya da reels izliyorum.... Videoların her zaman yardımcı oluyor ama sanırım bu beni en çok etkileyen ve kafamı düzene sokan oldu. Teşekkür ederim Ruri 🥰
Life is good, you just need to keep climbing the stairs up no matter what. Stay connected with true friends that support & care about you, also one way to go through rough batches in life.
Fire video! It's so true how watching videos about productivity and changing your life can make you feel like you're doing something but it's not until we start to take action that the changes actually starts.
you have definitely a positive aura which is best for those who fighting with their own negative thoughts. and Thanks for such a good video.😊
Amazing content as always! 🚀 My whole life I struggled to stick to a routine until I understood that, for my ADHD, a routine serves more as a guideline, not a strict plan. Once I understood this I was able to focus on the things that truly move the needle.
If this is of any help to anyone, here are some of the things that have helped me during 🧘 'Monk mode":
> Commit to one goal at a time: If I split my energy into multiple pieces and try to do a little bit of this and a little bit of that every day it will eventually become repetitive, boring, and much harder to achieve. Instead, I do sprints of hyperfocus for 3-4 days into a single project, then rest for 1 or 2 days, and tackle the next objective.
> Have food available for different levels of energy: If you want to cook. Awesome! but if you don't have the energy make sure to always have things available that don't require too much preparation.
> Have a ritual to trigger hyperfocus: Mine is 1. Change my outfit to the most comfortable possible. 2. Brush my teeth. 3. Fill my bottle of water. 4. Grab a couple of snacks so I don't get interrupted by cravings. 5. Clean my workstation. 6. START
> Install the News Feed Eradicator Chrome extension (Or something similar for your browser), for my phone I use the "Stay Focused' app to block or limit social media usage.
Dude....that is so helpful
Highlights
🌟 Commit to monk mode for 6-12 months, focusing solely on achieving your goals through dedicated deep work sessions.
🌞 Prioritize healthy habits such as regular exercise, adequate sleep, and exposure to sunlight for improved physical and mental well-being.
🚫 Eliminate distractions, including excessive social media use, alcohol, drugs, and unnecessary consumption, to maintain focus and drive towards success.
💡 Cultivate personal meaning, motivation, and resilience to overcome challenges and setbacks on the path to achieving your dreams.
💪 Embrace the privilege of having access to resources like the internet for learning, networking, and self-improvement.
I really needed to hear this, thank you, Ruri
1. Disappearing for 6-12 months (focus on success solely, whatever happens; for an extraordinary life an extraordinary sacrifice)
2. Routine is suppliment to push forward
3. Meaningful goal and philosophy (strong)
4. Being alive is the greatest privilege we ever have
Ruri you are the brilliant motivator!
This video is wonderful - and so are you! Thank you for putting out helpful content like this! If just one person out of 1000 takes it and runs with it, it's worth it. Keep up the good work - it truly makes a difference and has meaning, even if you don't see it.