15 Surprising Things Guys Find Unattractive
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 11 ธ.ค. 2018
- Here are some surprising things guys find unattractive - and if you’re a girl, you should take note of them. You can consider these as dating tips and advice! Girls typically do whatever they can to get the attention of the opposite gender. But, some of their actions and behaviors can actually have the opposite effect! In fact, girls may not even realize that they do certain things that drive men away.
In order to attract the right guys, there are some thing you are best to avoid doing.
Are you one of those girls who constantly complains about how terrible men are, and how you wish you had the perfect relationship? Then maybe you need to take a step back and examine if you are a candidate for that man. If you want to attract the ideal mate, you need to make sure you are putting the best version of your best self out in the world.
Listen carefully to this list of surprising things guys find unattractive in a woman and if you notice yourself in any of the points, it may be time to make a few changes.
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Girls, which of these things surprised you the most? AND GUYS…
Do you agree with this list? Is there anything else you would add?
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fortunately, all men are not attracted to the same things in women. it means there there will always be plenty to go around. I couldn't make it through your whole video, but from what I did see I can say we'd never be competing for the same girls. long hair is sexy. after you hook up with a girl with long hair you suggest the way you'd like to see it and if she's into you to, she'll wear it the way you like. and if you don't know what long nails are good for, you're loss. Oh....confidence is sexy. needy women are the ones you want to avoid. most women with confidence are smart enough to expect you to open the door and the lid to the pickles because what's good for your ego is good for her.
@@subvet657 I disagree with "if she's into you to, she'll wear it the way you like." She should have a mind of her own and not be manipulated so easily.
I've actually agree from this list, I seriously don't like someone who's smokes also from females, a Gossip Girl is annoying to me, and don't like a strong sense of Perfume.
Also I did subscribed from this Channel, I find the lists interesting.
Nandi Dlamini it depends what kind of parties you are going to. We guys have a small concern inside our mind that a big party girl would most likely get drunk and cheat on us with someone else
As a woman, I find the the term “too much” of anything to be very subjective and nonsensical. A person’s identity and lifestyle choices are irrelevant of their gender and it’s quite sexist and unrealistic to assume that “guys” don’t like certain aspects of a woman’s personality when they could just as easily identify with these traits themselves.
Here's the moral:
*Find someone that accepts you fully*
I totally agree!!
Aman!
Yess
@@bbdo267 nah my dream came true cuz my boyfriend accepts me the way I am lol
Wise words Sir Patrick San
Guys : don't like it when women wear too much perfume
Also guys : Drown themselves in axe and cologne
Truuuue
No lies..
Our smell is not as good as womans so we need more time to smell how much much " Axe " we put on. .. look athe the big picture .. you need a little of everything not one everything.
Axe body spray having been invented in the first place is a real tragedy that unfortunately still continues to rack up casualties.
If a guy puts on too much cologne, then he's doing it wrong too.
*Best Tip: Find a guy who'll like you, the way you are.*
👍👍👍👍👍👍true
@@LrdNearQuadTTV We like to wear makeup not for guys to look at us but for ourselves, just like how guys wear cologne do hair cuts etc... It's something us girls like to do.
@@LrdNearQuadTTV Also what doesn't make sense is when guys say "I like girls with no makeup" but when they see us without they find us ugly... how is that fair?
@@LrdNearQuadTTV Why don't you wear makeup then? We didn't stop you, you can wear it too and be happy.
@@LrdNearQuadTTV And fyi not all girls wear makeup some like it and some don't.. why not just ignore us and live your life because it wont affect us what you say but your health. Stay safe and have a good life.
ordering a salad doesn’t mean you starve yourself..
Salad judging is a thing seemingly
@Wolfgem Playz 101 Yeah same!
Yes! Like I love Panera salad lol
He meant when you order salad to appear healthy, not because you actually like salad
He didn't say that it did
Guys: I like natural women, no make up.
Also guys: Ew are you sick? Why do you look so tired?
Y'all need like 1 layer, and you put like 8...
@@michaelramos4528 hey. Leave us alone some of us are uglier than most !
@@amberbartlett5067 mentality
You mean you like me
@@michaelramos4528 well great. I'm screwed... I'm ugly AND immature.
I strongly believe that most of the viewers watching this are female.
Does that mean I am a femboy?
yea because we want all your secrets
Watching because i am curious
Soooo true
@@nataliek878 omg ur soooo right lol
I ain't no fucking girl
The only thing girls want in a guy: SOMEONE WHO APPRECIATES THEM
Yaass gurl 100%
Same thing for guys
Girls: I want my guy to be a gentleman
Also Girls: I only like bad boys
Dishant Tank literally no girls say that. Men just think that way.
@@missuniverse3169 they dont say that but its clearly evident. I have literally seen it happen in real life! All the popular guys in my school who are all macho and do drugs have had soo many girlfriends. While its hard for nice guys like me to get chicks... even though i am attractive.
You will never know what i got so many likes for cuz i changed this comment!
Same here with me too.. both of us riding in the same boat! 🙌
Yup. ☹️☹️☹️
Same here
Same thing...😂😂😂
You have few options, LIKE, DISLIKE, OR REPLY
So my “turn off list” for guys are as follows:
1. Demanding and/or controlling.
2. Cheaters.
3. Liars... this should actually be number 1.
4. Arrogance.
5. Lack of education.
6. And last but not least abusive.
These are my opinions. Don’t have to like it or agree with it. XOXO💜
Yes!!!👏👏👏
Deadset 💯
And I add: 7.Being cheap; 8. Neglected teeth; 9. Eating and talking with his mouth open. 10. Cursing.
Agreed
100%
Be yourself the right man will find you
Hey fellow swiftie!
hello there Swiftie
Or girl.
Same old crap.
thanks
I don't care bout what is attractive or unattractive...
I just try to be the best version of myself
💯may God bless you
He: Boys hates gossiping girls
My bf: are you having curd in your mouth , plz say something every minute
@Boycott Halal Certified Products ummm she ment boy friend
lmfao you women love generalizing
1 surprising thing girls find unattractive:
Guys telling them what to do
guy tells what things girls do guys find unattractive - woman reacts in anger, a guy tells a girl how to wear make-up - a woman pays compliments to him. go figure the lack of your logic.
that goes both ways
nobody likes to be told what to do.man or woman.taking a bit of advice from the opposite gender can be beneficial.
Neither like being told what to do.
LOL except plenty of women LOVE to be told what to do that's why bdsm is a thing and countless other obvious instances of evidence for women liking men telling them what to do.....LOLOLOLOL
It’s great to be unattractive to many men. The right man is attracted
But then if the man is ugly y’all treat us like shit 🤷🏻♂️
Keep telling yourself that. If you're unattractive to most men, the possibility of encountering the "right man" is very slim. If you're not attractive don't act like a snob, be positive, be joyful. Looks matter the first time, but if you grow on the guy, personality-wise, looks will matter less and less.
True❤️
@@savannathesavage jajajaj
Well said
“Be confident...but not too confident” right ok..
It reminds me 14 th century 😃😃
thats a super simple thing, its like the difference between being confident and cocky with guys, the confidence to ask a girl out is not the same level as telling a girl "I'll go out with you for 1000 dollars"
Be confident not arrogant should be the right term
Like be confident but not full of yourself .
@@Karen_McJudgerson I agree,but either way, you know what he means sooo.🤷🏾♂️
This should be titled as "why women don't need men".
had a breakup resently?
@@kevo8664 I never had a boyfriend. :)
@@inthe_running lol saythat after you get one
@@kevo8664 lol not necessary
@@inthe_running can't judge what you do not know
TH-cam: men don’t like slick straight hair.
Me: but... but what if it’s natural?
Jordan Ries yeah that’s what
I don’t think it’s about curly or straight hair. I think they’re just saying when girls have hair styles that are overly “fixed” looking or too harsh, they may not look very approachable.
Yes I have naturally straight hairs😭
I have naturally curly hair and i hate it, trust me i don't know how i would come off as attractive with my hair, thats why i always braid it in two or just one side braid, or ill usually curl it but not too much so that it looks natural and soft
Surprise! TH-cam is not Men.
I hate it when guy expect too much yet offer nothing.
Exactly Fat smelly cheap dwarves especially
True !
WHAT YOU WANT TO BE OFFERED?
*Feminism alert*
@@kayleetooker8327 WELL HAVING STANDARDS ISNT BAD
"Nails look like weapons to men"
Boys I know: *They look so delicious*
They are scared to be pounced on
Just like me
I don't think I've ever heard any guy talk about nails...ever.
I mean why not
I won’t ever get a guy who is afraid of my claws-
Like scratching his back and leaving scratches turn me on I’m a very kinky person
Basically in this video they told on how women can be more submissive to men 🙄
This is how many times he said “a real turn off”
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Bruh I don't do any of those and I'm still single😂😂
You will find the right man soon.
@@REmcoo36 key word "soon"
@@kiraparker-oxford9288 How soon i don't know of course...also depends on how critical she is towards men...
😂😂😂😂
Me to!😂😫
Women can style the way they want, and if a man doesn't like that, then, well....bye😐
🙄😂
@Mikulika To tell her opinion and the truth about what most girls really think.
Then why are you here?
@@lakshana.3488 that's not true. It's pretty natural to want to attract the opposite sex unless you're gay. You guys are just lying at this point.
Sounds like somebody pressed.
“Loose curls and wavy hair🤩🤩” girls with staight it kinky curly hair:😐😑
That’s why wigs and hair irons exist lol I already knew this from experience
I don't do any of these things....
How am i still single *; - ;*
Ladies, don’t change yourselves for anybody. If it makes you feel good and comfortable, don’t stop.
Nicholas O'Brien what?
Steven, if you were near you would get a friendly smile.
victoria ann zabaras that’s very kind. Thank you.
...except if they r overly confident bc that makes them conceded
Steven Malone right but moderation
Girls that are single... WHERE ARE YOU!!!??? 😜😎🙋
Only me?
Here 😂
here
Me..
Here😥
Me too🙋♀️🙋♀️😜
He's probably talking about what he personally like in girls
Of course that would be his main point of reference, its his video. But as a guy I could agree with him on this one.
🤣🤣🤣
As a guy, my friends agrees with this video. Idk..
@@juliusresurreccion144 oh noo
This is what This SPECIFIC Guy finds unattractive in women. Everybody is different both guys and dudes... Generalizing is misleading.
Yes
You actually say that to feel better. But what he was saying actually is true for 80% of the men.
True I get what your saying. But at the same time, I'm sure a lot of guys would agree with him . I certainly do . Using the argument that everyone is different would invalidate a lot of TH-cam videos. Although everyone is different we all still have a lot of similarities . Because we are all human at the end of the day.
Me just sitting here with round face and bags under eyes thinking: maybe there's still hope for me lol
Bleach • lmfaoaoa same
Same
I feel that
Lmbo
Sameee😂😂😂
*If you are a girl take note of it* lmao I ain't changing myself to look good to guys 😂
아미
Period. Love yourself
That is certainly your prerogative. I think the video assumes that if a woman is watching she cares about the subject in the title, but I certainly won't complain about one more unattractive woman being out in the world :)
@Saranya Babu 💜💜💜💜
love ur self so others will too
Hey all, professional long-time guy here! Here’s the truth: find a guy you don’t need to change yourself for, they’ll find you attractive no matter what
also professional guy here.. i believe we are all imperfect and could all use some work so how about acknowledge your short comings and be humble about your personal changes but not naive either. this whole “you’re perfect you shouldn’t have to change for a guy” is misleading. yes you shouldn’t change your personality but if there are some aspects of yourself you’re unhappy with work with your partner to change those and vise versa. it is called growth leaves you both a better person in the end
As a girl I hate most of those too. My friends sometimes gossip even if they don't mean any harm. To me, it's akward.
“girls do everything with their power to get the attention of the other gender”
me: diNg dOnG yOuR oPiniOn iS wRoNg
Agreed. That was so annoying to hear the narrator say that... like wtf?🤨🤨🤨
@@chrishellams1755 lol what?
kelvin deWolfe 😂
I laughed hella hard at this
@@kyliedewolfe7058 this dude is either had a traumatic past about woman or all woman reject him. I mean,, i can see why lol
Lmao, don’t put makeup on but be naturally pretty
Don’t be clingy but don’t be independent
Don’t smoke don’t go to parties
Don’t be insecure but don’t be too confident.
Yall basically want a doll
Cherry bomb I don’t do any of these and I’m not dead so yeah there are people that can live without doing any of these
@@ulalaa8216
Yep
Ulalaa but you don't like parties? Who doesn't like partying while the night is still young?
Eniola Rotimi partying isn’t just my thing I mostly chill with my family or friends at home
Ulalaa Oh well everyone is different and unique.
My Man doesn’t like me to get all made up and dress up nice. But he sure likes to look at other women that are all dressed up and made up
😀
It relates 😂😂
probably so other men won't stare at u or something.. idk tho lol
That's why he's sad about you when dressing up. Because he knows that other men will look at you. Experienced and 100% true.
Yeah, because when a guy is at a club and wants to make out with a girl he'll think "Wait Cristopher, this girl is reckless and makes rush decisions! I shall go and marry a milkmaid now."
😂😂😂
Making out with a girl shouldn't be equated to anything serious nowadays, especially in a club. Most of the time the girls guys choose to marry, weren't met at a club on a drunk night out.
Makeup? Unattractive? Yet boys wear their pants halfway down they're legs with their whole underwear showing and THAT'S attractive.
Am I missing something?
Edit: okay, guys😂 I mentioned the pant style boys wear as unattractive, I was being sarcastic. I was basically trying to say that the things girl do with their faces, doesn't look nearly as bad as what guys do with their whole selves. Girls don't need a guide on how to look, it's just what makes them comfortable, so honestly who cares what guys think? Take it or leave it tbh. Thank you for the likes also, it's highly appreciated
Edit 2:
Okay look, a lot of people are disagreeing with me, and thats fine, but many people are also saying I'm thinking for others, and disrespecting my opinion. Its just my opinion, if you disgaree cool, but please dont make a big deal out of it. Trust me, nobody wants drama.
"Makeup? Unattractive?"
Very.
"boys wear their pants … with their whole underwear showing and THAT'S attractive"
To whom? No girl I know, they find it hilarious or disgusting.
"Am I missing something?"
Looks that way, 0-2 so far.
@@silversolver7809 looks like your not getting my point. My point is, is that girls shouldn't have to change themselves to make boys think their attractive. If you disagree, just keep on scrolling
@@silversolver7809 AND I find the pant thing very unattractive by the way.
So true LMAO
EXACTLY!!!!!!
But we wear make up to make ourselves happy, not really to show guys
Why you need makeup for that😂
some of us wear just a little makeup, wanting to look as good as we can. as a woman, i can see why men don't like the extremes----the cat eyes, the surgically puffy lips, etc. being hard to get ? depends on how nicely you can say no, and how much he wants you.
@@rosiestewart870 exactly
I don't need makeup to be happy.
Nobody needs makeup
And that's why it's so fun and creative
Nobody needs candy too it's why it's so good🤗
I love my bare face and i love crazy makeup and for many peoples it's cultural stop to see negative things when there are none and keep your stupid comments for you...😩
I have the strong impression that's this list is for teenager boys
Because real men will love you with your own choises when it comes too makeup,clothes and nails😌
Ps:sorry for my bad english i speak french
Basically what this video is trying to say is that guys don’t like fake girls (or boys). It’s all about the nature beauty.
No, it's stereotyping people and creating strict rules for women
You are the most positive comment I discovered so far in this not very positive comment section ^^💞
@@adelineemmerich5019 they're are videos what women don't like in men. I can say the same about those videos too
@@nimalperera948 i dont like those either stfu
@@adelineemmerich5019 Yep, exactly.
Just be yourself, and the right one's will stay.
Simple as that.💙
So basically don't be a Kardashian
Mystic Eyes this cracked me up😂🤣
@@Ms_mimi_101 well It's what they're saying right🤗
Mystic Eyes ya i know right?!!☺️
😂😂
Ironically men love kardashian and jenner hahaha
15 things I find unattractive in a guy...
1 swearing
2 farting
3 spitting
4 trying to act cooler than they are
5 bad personal hygiene
6 being late
7 being an octopus
8 not talking enough
9 bad dress sense
10 smelly feet
11 long fingernails
12 being possessive
13 jealousy
14 being rough
15 not being loving enough or too distant
IT WORKS BOTH WAYS...
Zirconia !!!! Omg over jealous, bad hygiene, and bad dress sense
You are perfect
You'd criticize your partner for farting?? "How dare you perform a normal bodily function around me (which is dangerous to keep held in your body)!!!!!"
🤪🤪🤪🤧
Zirconia !!!!
Pretty sure they did a video about men too, and first. Just saying...
I like to cake on the pale makeup & hyper style my bright red hair so I can lure people to the sewer to feed off their fear. You'll float too, Georgey!
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🔪🔪🔪
We don't wear make-up to impress. We do it to express ourselves. We don't give a shxt if guys don't like us. We'd rather stay single then deal with guys getting mad at us for certain things, we are ourselves. Girls, if you do this stuff. Don't be embarrassed. Just be yourself. That's the most important thing.
Yea found a person who is understandable
XD
Some wear make-up to impress
Keep deluding yourselves women👏
Maybe you do it for yourself, but you're delusional if you think a lot of women don't do it to be more attractive. Regardless of the reason though, it's still unattractive when there's too much makeup on.
Anything which is too much is unattractive for both genders 😉
Santosh Vohra Best statement on here
@@breezybreeze730 😊
Agreed
Bingo
@Beautiful ARMY yess !!! 😊
Okay a lot of girls wear/put makeup for fun or cause it makes them feel more beautiful not always for guys attention.
Or you are subconsciously attracting guys without knowing.
I don't know i'm not a girl
@@jersonryan9269 no. Not really. We just like to look good. It makes us feel good when we look good
I love to have makeup when I am home alone so nope not for guys
That's all well and good, especially if they want to scare men away.
@@ReubenAStern that attitude probably doesnt help with getting girls. You can have your opinion, but geez
As a guy, I completely agree with everything. More power to the women who choose to do whatever they want, but it's a fact that guys are attracted to feminine energy just as ladies are to masculinity. It's in our DNA just like yours.
Sure there will be guys who'll get with just about any girl, but quality men have standards. Not because we are macho but rather we truly value relationships. We are in it for the long haul and want to make sure it's worth it before we invest ourselves.
Based
To be honest, I thought I would definitely disagree with you. But once I opened the video I was absolutely shocked. Absolutely spot on! Love it. Thank you so damn much.
Basically, if u want a guy to like you, just be yourself.
Jay Jade yh But watch how u speak around a girl, as we interpret things differently.
-Scratches crotch and burps like a toad.... welp thats not helping hahah
@@judetermanini477 well that is due to our brain's mental lobes being active in different locations. For women's activity occurring in the left and right lobe, as well as genetic inheritance from past ancestry, women are more prone and identifiable to communication naturally than men are, who's activity is in the front and back lobes. Basically, men prefer direct conversations while women tend to be a bit more word-play with their conversations. At least that is what I learned from sociology and biology. Then again, any person can interpret what another says incorrectly at times depending on tone, body behavior, and emotion, so I guess this comment isn't limited to just girls. Guys can be overqueatinable as well, as I also learned from behavioral analysis.
Not being able to communicate wants and needs properly is a huge turn off!!
Ok, got it!
Men are so lazy they think the woman mst know what they want without having to say it. FCK that
@@joeldwest So should i do what guy's want me to do or not? Im so confused, whats wrong with me!? :(
@@joeldwest It's not laziness, we just thought you women would have the common sense and intelligence to work it out straight away. Most men fancy most women, and want to have sex with most women, that's the reality. I'm not going to go around and constantly say to women 'I want to have sex with you' because the police would be on to me, but it's what i'm thinking in my head, and most guys are thinking it in their heads. It gets on my nerves when women I like are already in a relationship and they can't see that i'm obviously better for them.
@@beautifultragedy1644 If you want to pull me, all you have to do is be classy and intelligent, and not wear too much make up, it really is that simple. Also it helps that you like Doctor Who.
"Boys like wavy hair"
Me with naturaly frizzy hair: does mine count?
Unfortunately things haven't changed much, some things that men still find unattractive in girls/women are: if they are taller than himself, if they are smarter, more intelligent, talk more, being the leader. Luckily there is one thing, that every man finds very attraktive: having a good sense of humour and esp. dark humour. :)
Even I am a girl but I am scared of long Sharp nails 😫😫
Ikr especially the super long ones,How tf do they wipe their butt without hurting themselves
True
Sonal Limaye I don’t like doing my nails
Honestly same
@AnimationFailer I have no idea how,like- you can't even see my nails if you look upwards (*^*)
Personally, When I do my hair, pick out clothes/shoes to wear & consider makeup choices, I don't think about what a man might see when he looks at me. I just do me! I find being genuine to be an attractive quality in people & suspect others feel that way too. For the most part I do agree w/ the vid.
Jill Kennedy oooo
Fortunately most people have a powerful subconscious that helps them behave effectively without having to reason out why. They say they are doing what feels good which means they're obeying what their subconscious tells them is a good idea. When something "feels bad" you're conscious self is probably at war with what your subconscious wants to do. If your subconscious already has effective instincts then a video like this probably isn't very valuable for a person like you. That is fortunate. Not everyone is so fortunate.
Wish I could relate😂
Jill Kennedy same
I dont give a crap what anyone thinks of meh ima reabel so. . .
GEEEEEET DUNKED ON
Me: Watching this to see how to get guys to *NOT* like me.
A hahaha. That was the comment I was looking for!
@@identity123. I was searching for one too, but couldn’t find one, so I’ve posted this.
Me too😂😂😂
If a guy isn’t turned on by me scratching them with my claws and leaving scratches on their back, I’m not having him-
Occasionally, a woman will do something to please herself instead of to draw in a man. Wild, I know.
Lmao seriously, idk where these people are coming from.
Girlllll right??
You came here watching the video though...
Sxnflower 1123 just to get a good laugh
I've yet to meet one of those women frankly. The women friends i have do it because they feel they have to. By society standards and to look good for men. I don't wear it myself
But what if I just like salad
Looool true 😂 Well as long as youre eating the salad and not the guys food.
Flowey the freakin flower ya lol
BURN THE WITCH!!!!!!!!!!
Stew Thomas ?
Then you're fine. I think guys dont like it when a girl gets salad and then eats the guys food instead of the food they got
Hard to get is childish. Keep it simple, no games whatsoever. Fellas don't waste your time. Neither let women waste your time. It's a few more things he didn't mention but the whole video was on point.
Me: No wonder my crush rejected me
Also me: *Already moved on*
Not to be mean, of course, but I’m glad you didn’t end up with your ex-crush. It’s better to be with someone who fully accepts you with the way you are.
Woman don't wear makeup for men we wear make up because we like to
angel with wings I highly doubt that 😂 if you don’t care what guys think about your look, why don’t you stop wearing make up then ?
@@YoungDarak idk it fun
Yes...i really like do my makeup, try new looks
Speak for yourself aha!
Guys that will actually love a woman, look for women that are modest. Just a tip. :)
Girls, you can do and wear whatever you want. Just be yourself
Let’s be real
We’re all single trying to get a boyfriend/girlfriend
Marlene Akogyeram no, I’m trying to avoid getting one.
La Pleb
oop so how is that going
Marlene Akogyeram pretty great.
emilia grandell yeah same but it’s hard to manage because too many people are completely delusional.
Nah I just want boys to like me
09: ‘Joey doesn’t share food’
*Summary of the video:*
*•don’t do anything*
😂😂😂😂
Noo....its dont do anything excessive
I agree
Ugh
No it's be yourself and be healthy. Wearing too much makeup is definitely unattractive bad for your skin too. Ordering the salads and taking your boyfriend's food it's just selfish. And as a girl I wouldn't be dating somebody like that. Smoking. Being overconfident. Gossiping. Really these are bad stuff so of course guys we think is unattractive it's not actually healthy.
It takes a strong man to love a strong woman. If a man feels intimidated by the interests or actions of a woman, then he's not the right guy for her. And vice versa.
that's good advice, thanks
The comments were missing this. Some guys are just intimidated if they see a confident and independent woman.
Well darling, guys have issues with women who are too confident and independent towards them b/c they don't make good girlfriends and wives. You'll see more articles about it in the year 2020.
KEEP TELLING THAT TO YOUSELF
Nobody care what guys like or not😊 Just be yourself girl, do what you like to do, put tone of make up if you like it, do whatever you want 😘 don't care about others opinion and enjoy life❤❤❤
Well then if a guy doesn't stick with you don't blame it on him. It's probably because you just wanted to be yourself all the time and didn't respect his opinions. People like honestly will be a lot happier being single
You can't approach a relationship with that kind of personality
@@nimalperera948 Hun, I don't want relationship..I do what I do and love that for me. Nobody gonna tell me what kind of person should I be, so shut up.
@@hristina3369 that's why I said you should be single because you can't always think about yourself when you're in a relationship. Did you not see that point?
@@nimalperera948 I don't give a shit
I love how honest and frank you are with your videos. It makes them more genuine, and the truth is what the world needs right now. But many people cannot handle the truth or easily take offence, even though the truth will set the free. Anyways, thanks for inspiring me today, God bless you! Subscribed! 🙏🏾🌼
This comment honestly gives me hope. Thank you so much for making my day.
nikr00 you’re welcome !❤️
Keep it up Rachel.🤝
@@marcus3672 thank you ❤️
Me being born with naturally straight hair: “oh okay, understandable.” 😭
Don't worry I'm attracted to girls with really straight hair I don't know I think they look better so as you can see there will be boys attracted to you
Marco 12345 so what about curly and wavy haired girls?..🤨🙄
@@namikat6068 I can be attracted to them but normally I just preffer girls with straight hair
then ur lucky 😒
@@marcca45 yep
Good thing whatever I do, I do for me and not for men.
Oh So Fab Tanamara period sis
Some people be like, watch this video of what men find unattractive and comment that they don't care of what boys think. Ooooppss 😂✌
True. It's to improve ourselves not to please others.
Ok tung
Tanamara
Same with men. NOW SHOO!
_-signed by Lancer-_
_singed by some 13 year old girl_
This is why relationships are garbage, no one should change theirselves to make a guy like them. You do you! Screw guys lets live our lives how we want!
Phantom Cat preachh 🙌🏻
Jesus Christ yea, I guess that's true. Other then the you’ll wind up in hell without a parter thing
Ztornado life doesn’t have to go on. Nobody should be obligated to have a partner or a child, if you want to, that’s great! But if you don’t, that’s great too!
Ztornado Well, only the future will tell
Going by this list, I should be having a whole line of guys waiting for me lol.
I like to wear excessive makeup sometimes, but it's not to impress guys, it's to express myself. I see my face as a canvas, so I like to paint on it. And u know what? I may be single, but there lots of guys out there, so I'm certain I'll find one who accepts me and loves me anyway who I love just as much
You understand how it works!!
Me too!
Kerstin Luichinger so awesome ! goodluck for that :)
Everyday, I wear mascara, concealer, and highlighter at most. Usually it’s only mascara. Then for example, today I had a dance and I went with a full face of makeup. My boyfriend didn’t like it, but it made me feel good
Sameeee
*When a male cares about his phone more than you. Major turnoff.*
That what men think about women to you know
Pansexual Pancake holy schnitzel I live for you’re name 😩
@@lou8976 thank you! 😂
I had one like this . Left him . After 2 years he wanted me back. Sorry
Yesssss
I grew up with a mom that pretty much treated me like a mini her. Doing my hair, putting on bits of her perfume, and trying her best to get me used to lipstick and makeup in general. She never could get me used to makeup and actually gave up on that. After years of looking at my mom’s makeup items, perfume bottles, lotions, etc I decided I wasn’t gonna do that. In my mind it was too much effort to put so much on just to be so uncomfortable. Our men notice when we aren’t comfortable and hate it. Heck they ask us why we wear it. Because of watching my mom, her friends, and some of my older female friends with their morning rituals, going through the horror of me shopping with mom for clothes and such. All that ended up with me hating perfume, almost all makeup is too annoying to bother with, hairspray is evil, shopping for clothes and shoes is basically living hell. The only way you will get me to go shopping is to say it’s only groceries. Or the big one say the word ‘bookstore’ you’ll have my ears perking up with interest instantly. Basically the only thing I’ll work your wallet on would be books, mostly hardcover copies if possible. But I never go too far cause I Hate upsetting people. I’m gonna see what my husband thinks of this vid and see what he considers correct. Lol
i have no idea what i’m doing here-
i’m a lesbian
🌈
Hobi’s Tea Mochi me toi
@@roses_are_rosies-g4h srx? Go out of here Is not ur your problem, let them do their live
You don't care if I'm here or not just leave me alone......
I dont wanna fight someone who is not matured enough.
Im single
”she wants a burger with fries, but instead they get a salad” DO PEOPLE ACTUALLY DO THIS!?
Stupid people do
believe it
All the girls do?? :D
Remco Harms I don't...
This right here is the best comment in the whole comment section 😂
It’s not just about what guys find unattractive... These things are a turn off from women to women also. TOOOO MUCH is TOOOO MUCH. And... let’s see what men do that women dislike.
Michelle Hill Makes sense. Yet, I seen Lesbians with lesbians who act like the annoying one. Weird. 😂
I dislike men who are vain and who wear tight shirts to show off their muscles.
1. making unwanted advances
2. possessiveness
3. overconfidence
4. obsession with sports or training
5. drinking too much
6. smoking
@@lumossk3657 good start of a long list. Lol
I dislike men who
1.talk nonstop
2. Smoke
3. are addicted to video games.
4.are irresponsible
5.are childish and immature.
6.are bossy.
7.have lot of closefriends who are girls and Don't interact much with male friends.
8. Vain
9.over confident
10. Too much drinking
"Doesn't like slick straight ironed hair..."
me: asian with naturally super straight hair...
The images were not at all relatable to the content.
Sorry but the last time i checked i didnt wear make up to impress any guy. Nor do i do my hair to impress a guy😂😂
pink pink Then why are you watching this video?
Hey same
Plain and scraggly all the way
pink pink girl we just havr to look good fr our selfs...our self's only...good fr us
@@MichaelKeaveneyTH-cam because i wanted to watch it. Also theres 14 other things i wanted to know
Liar
Why the heck am I watching this??😂😂😂😅
Because you clicked on it
Probably bored and has nothing much fun to do right now like me
...
I was thinking the same thing.
I'm bored. Maybe you too?
Same lol idek
As a guy, I can confirm that everything he is saying is VERY VERY TRUE
Moral: girls in the comment section are picky and insecure
Number 3: Sharp nails
Me: *Looks at mah sharp nails that I haven't cut for a month aggressively*
WE 👏 DON’T 👏 DO 👏 IT 👏 FOR 👏 ANYONE 👏 ELSE 👏.
STFU 👏 AND 👏 GO 👏 MAKE 👏 ME 👏 A 👏 SANDWICH 👏.
Ma man Kris!
If these things don't bother you then what made you to see this video.
are you sure about that?
Callum Smith Yes.
"MOM IM STUDYING GO AWAY"
Yes you are studying
The hairstyle depends on the girl, I like French tips for nails, I agree with the makeup thing, don't mind a little makeup, also depends on the girl but too much is a turn off.
It’s one thing to want to look your best but if you love someone it’s your heart that counts in the end love from your heart speaks volumes
As a guy...I approve👍
But as a guy we need accept who they are
PREACH
Thanks
your amazing ✨
Damn dude you're really smart
This video wasn't about rejecting people. It was about correcting possible misconceptions about what will be effective. I tend to think most of it was fairly obvious stuff, but if someone genuinely thought one of these behaviors was effective this could be a useful video for them. In other words as a guy, you weren't the target audience. As to the general validity of your statement, you do you. I'm going to keep using all the tools at my disposal to determine how effectively I could make someone happy. If I see signs of high maintenance I'm probably not going to pursue.
*Girls*
Why do we need to change for guys????
Përmanênt Smilè' or you could be a cat lady
We don't have to.
Nobody is asking you to
I love being conceited
Hearing the same complements gets boring. 😪
Give me a time stamp on where it says you should change yourself for guys. Oh yeah, there's none
As a girl I agree with some of these ..just be yourself and everything is ok
I came on here thinking there was a lot I was going to disagree on but I ended up agreeing with pretty much everything. This is totally accurate. 😂
I will do whatever I wanna do...
Cause I don't wake up everyday to impress them😒😒
preach gorl preach!
Yeeeeeeeaaaaaaa, girl that's it 💪💪
K...
Same.
Noones telling u to
I AM A GIRL AND I TOTALLY AGREE with this.. Idek why almost every girl here is annoyed.. Huh..
Thank you, Sabra. You are clearly a hyper-intelligent, fantastic, wonderful, interesting and intriguing person. My post doesn't need to be a gender-specific type of thing. The same negatives apply equally to men and women. Why is it that so many commenters on this thread are so quick to view it as anti-women ? It's almost as if they are misogynists. Ladies, chill. See yourself in this list, much ? These traits apply equally to men also.
I agree with you
Agree! 😄
lol, true 😂 theyre too butthurt
Totally agree!!
This vid is good! They nailed all the points.
Some ppl act like they agree with those bad behaviours when they say be ur self, it’s good to be your self but still it’s better for us to become nice person and proud of our body
U won't like me it's ok I was not born to impress you
that's a great come back
@@captainlarry8652 its seema not semen😂😂😂
Wow I just read this and I'm like damn....... You're right
@@captainlarry8652 I just don't get it why u gotta be rude, get over it you're not the most important thing in girls' lives, like bitch don't flatter yourself nobody is gonna dress up only for you I think they will not just simply do everything that you find attractive
But you expect men to do everything that flatters you.
1.Tall.
2.6 figure job.
3.Handsome.
4.10" dick.
5.Six pack.
hell,ya'll promote toxic masculanity and encourage men to hide their emotions for your stupid smelly,hairy ass.
it’s 2k19 guys are the ones starting gossip..
True!
So true
trrruuueeee
flying potato chip yikes
Men with low testosterone you mean. Too much damned estrogen in the water I suppose. It's turning men into soft skinned pussies who love to gossip.
Help others even when you know they can never repay you. Treat everyone like you want to be treated, be honest and get straight to the point. That's how I was raised.