I know the video says women find men more attractive when they don't smile but, I like when men smile. Men, if a woman smiles at you, you should at least smile back.
Being a woman...I'm attracted to men that are highly intelligent..confident...kind..polite..honest....facial semitry...broad shoulders.. moderately muscular body...moderately narrow waist...
Ig it is kindve cringey but i think it adds a bit more to the video. Ig im so used to seeing it, that its just normal to see those annoying asf cringey short clips🤷♀️
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They're not even people you want to be with anyway. It is like loving a brick wall. They are shallow and empty people who hate themselves and are irrationally jealous. Don't walk away from them, RUN.
I will never forget when I first saw my best friend Patricia. She waltzed into class 20min late, bright red lipstick, and the biggest most beautiful smile you have ever seen. She was just lovely and made the whole classroom happy.
A girl that doesn't care if you have alot of friends, doesn't care if everybody likes you, isn't into the phony social queen scene, and has an authentic personality, attractive
That has more to do with appearance than anything else. A great-looking person can walk into a room with a big smile and brighten the place up. Very little to do with their personality or mindset, mostly just looks. Some people can do it with their personality though, but very few people are actually like that.
@@1toshi32 yes, they have higher fertility as well as healthier than average male. Same as curvier women are more considered more feminine and fertile.
Lol “Men are turned off by the ‘smell’ of tears”. Translation: The guy at the club wearing Axe body spray doesn’t care about your feelings. Whoa! Mind blowing insights.
Life Progress - ideas for a better life TV , an attractive person can always play down their looks with Dowdy clothes, loose clothes,ill fitting clothes etc.No excuses to be plain. ....
Oh yeah, I could never fall in love with a conventionally "hot" guy, more average looking guys and girls (5 or 6/10) are much more attractive to me, and same goes for almost everyone I know
That fact was actually accurate for me! My dad was 23 was I was born and I’m attracted to young men! They can’t be too young though if you know what I mean! I’m 31 and I look for men in their late 20s to 40s but not older than 48 or what not!
Infatuation is related to mental illness,depression.the person who becomes infatuated is usually not happy in there own life and need anti depressants to help them sleep better and help them become more content in themselves so they can make the necessary lifestyle changes.
My father just turned 82 years old and I think of him as the strong 💪🏼 handsome man as if he is aging gracefully and he still such a very actractive elder man
That's a subconscious pattern that you will continue to repeat until you reprogram the subconscious... and consciously become aware that you have to change the way you choose a guy if you wish to change the current pattern. Also, from a 'law of attraction' viewpoint, the belief that you always attract a bad person, or the declaration you attract a bad person... is exactly why you continue to get a bad person. The universe gives you what you think about. What you believe you will get. Not what you want. If you want a great guy... but you expect your blind date will turn out to be an ass, and you tell your friends he'll probably be an ass... you can bet he'll be an ass. It's easy to change these things once you understand how these seemingly small and innocent habits are actually responsible for creating your life. Change your story, the way you tell it... and it will change. Speak what you wish to have in a guy as if you already have that guy. Everyday. 'I'm so grateful for my amazing bf' 'My bf is my best friend and soul mate' etc.. It takes some practice but as you see the changes begin to occur, it becomes much easier. :)
That's called being female and young. Young girls (teenagers I mean) are often attracted to belligerent, arrogant guys. It's the young female attraction mechanism. Extreme arrogance and belligerence is seen by many young women as a sign of dominance, so they go for guys that are serious trouble. They grow out of it as they get older, because guys that are always in prison can't earn much money :)
You must be no older than a toddler if you're falling in love with girls nearly twice your age. Otherwise, you'd be falling in love with women, not girls.
Then you're certainly a very lucky dude, because most men are pretty miserable as they get older since women about the same age as them aren't attractive anymore! Guys that like older women, especially much older, are lucky as hell. Most guys middle-aged or older are the exact opposite.
I like the way science and sociology are blended into your perspective. Thanks! Greetings from a 71 year old Mountain Woman from Wyoming-on the lookout still!🙋🏼♀️🏔🌠
@@docst5481 Must be that lovely crisp cool mountain air. The sun is what damages skin the most. I used to live in the Blue Mountains in NSW Australia. Most people up there have beautiful skin.
I found the part about different scents fascinating, and the part about in the end we are attracted to whoever we're attracted to. SO TRUE!!! I have been baffled many times by who I am attracted to. But these people just "feel right" to me. There is a lot going on behind the scenes in attraction. Great piece. Thank you!
@@kishanchali8752 that's a very good question. Women can excuse the looks for a guy's intelligence and financial stability that women look for in long term relationships where as men seek youth and beauty because men are visual. I'm not saying some women do not prioritize looks, they do at a certain extent but not as important as the factors I mentioned in the beginning. Ugly guys are even encouraged and motivated that they can pursue and get attractive women where as tell me about some coaches that encourage unattractive women that they can get attractive men or financially stable men
@@NoName-mm6gh then how do you say that facial features matter more? Also, according your second comment, basically it means that women go after money, isn't it? Cause I have seen it myself too. I'm an average looking guy now living in Europe. Almost all the girls I've tried to pickup in my country or here were looking either for money or if it's a tall white guy. Especially in Europe women are racist.
@Lesley Martinez.. you're correct. There's no certain body type that can be labeled as attractive. Attraction is based on personal taste. If this video was true, it would be only good looking men who'd be getting pretty women, which is not the case
I smile at nearly everyone I see. Women and men respond positively and usually return the smiles. I just do this naturally with no plan. BTW I'm gay. My natural smile has opened a lot of doors in various life situations.
I completely disagree that waiting for someone to talk to you makes you more picky than the one that starts the conversation. Everyone I know that don't start conversations with people they're interested in is because they're too nervous or insecure to talk to the person first, not because they think that there's a line of people waiting to talk to them lol
Please add the style of dressing to attraction..I prefer a sense of style and if someone knows how to look good in a simple tee shirt and jeans is an added level of attraction for me!!
Girls, y’all do not need to have an hourglass figure or be slim thick for a guy to like you, You are beautiful just the way you are and if a guy can’t see that then he ain’t right for you! Everyone’s a queen periodtt 👏🏽👏🏽
What I find attractive (this is me, personally, lol) in a guy... 1., Solid Christian, and wants to grow in his faith alongside me. This is one of my two non-negotiables, and for good reasons. 2., GREAT personality, good with kids, animals, and elderly people (good indicator of what kind of person they are). I value personality 10x's over looks. 3., Preferably foreign, from another country (I'm a white girl from the US xD how plain vanilla can you get...?), OR a different ethnicity than me(other cultures fascinate me, and I just am attracted to other ethnicities and how their voices sound. I can't help it. While ya'll are describing physical features, I'm over here like, daaaaannnngggg..... that is one hot/cool accent!!
I love this! One piece of advice my grandma gave me when I was 18, was to start praying for my future husband, and journal about it. I'm still glad I did this. ❤
Very interesting video for attraction, smile or not smile , attractive to however attractive I think how much the person caring about you , thank you for sharing this video I love it 👌♥️♥️
I know if the guy smiles at me, it gives a nicer vibe than someone who just looks without returning your smile. Gives off a friendlier feeling. I guess a guy who doesn't smile is considered a bit of a bad boy and a little dangerous???
Yeah, good to hear some honesty for a change. I have had it with various men throughout my life totally checking chicks out and swearing they weren’t. It’s like, dude, admit it so we can move on. I’d respect them more rather than them lying about it.
me ,personally think..that attractive appeals whts in your heart....going out finding people that are attractive to you..is one hell of a job already.,,truly go for wht you feel...whts attractive to you may not be attractive to someone else....nature course of life is that..our hormones tend ..drive to go for whatever and settling off you don't want to be alone so you'll settle and try to make attraction..no no..its best go for and feel emotions and wht arousal you..and all physical attraction and emotionally attractive, and that appearance ,,is all.it matters because if some one likes you is an bonus💪😏♓🏳️🌈
I noticed I am generally attracted to a mans hair style first, then the jawline then the eyes & lastly the smile. Literally in that order upon spotting someone out haha then after it’d be his style of clothing, shoulder size, torso & legs, if they’re big or not - does he workout or doesn’t? it’s not a deal breaker if he doesn’t but I would probably encourage him to later on haha because I work out. I attracted to pretty boys who have a manly but not stocky figure... idk that’s just MY attraction preference though :)
As a man, I'm attracted to more strong, wise and independent women, even tho she may not be much attractive outside (and I'm very esthetic and have very high and unconventional expectations when it comes to outside beauty). As a strong person who pursue an independent lifestyle myself (I'm still not there yet and I have a long way ahead), I feel very safe when I know that I have a partner who know what she wants in her life and capable to love, more than anything else❣😘♒💜
Opinion: I am a man (straight) attracted to beautiful woman as most men are; every person looks for something different. The difference is I personally look for an attractive woman who is a Born Again Christian and loves GOD First. Second, a non-smoker, non-alcoholic drinker. Those are the primary fundamental basics; followed by my personal attractions: 1. Nice Body 2. Nice face to complete her body. 3. *Most importantly MUST BE BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE, more so than her outward appearances. 4. A woman who loves me for me alone and no other reason ! Just because she loves me with all her heart without knowing why; and the same from me for her... The Forever Kind Of LOVE... And, a romantic that we can have fun enjoying each other’s company... 5. Loyalty, Complete Devotion To Only me, and NEVER A QUITER ! Me the same for her. Someone mature enough for a lifetime commitment & trust worthy and me the same for her, growing old together for our complete life times pulling together no matter what. “AGAPE LOVE...” This is what I hope God will make reality. 6. Lastly: Always sharing together a GOD CENTERED RELATIONSHIP; FOUNDED IN & ON JESUS CHRIST and Very Good Communication Skills with Each Other HONESTLY...! ...And, I won’t settle !Or, I will choose to live my life alone. [ Note: I was married once before and she turned out to be a quitter ! ] > Scaring my Heart, which defines who I am now and what I want GOD to do for me. ~ FAITH ~
It’s one thing to be good looking but having a good personality also matters men that have goals are attractive yes appearance does matter and being kind to people .
No it's not.. They even state that. This does not go out to *all* men. So it's a percentage of I dunno ¿79%? of all male. Not 100% and therefore not 100% accurate. I even found things that don't count for me in this video. Plus you never know with some studies. How accurate are They? We don't kno what source it comes from, what people participated ? I'm not stating they are incorrect just implying they can be.. I dunno, just a bit of a bold statement. People need to stop belive *everything* they read/hear that they see on interenet/television/papers. Just question more but I'm sure this video is pretty on the spot since we're animals and looking for a partner basically becomes instinct, survival and reproduction. Hence hips, boobs etc.
Im attracted to the smell definitely number one and their smile is very important but my favorite body part is hands i look at men's hands i just get a feeling when i hold someone's hand and it just feels right hands are a big turn on but of course someones eyes they are the way to see into someone's soul also the crows feet around the eyes i call it sunshine eyes I've always been attracted to older guys but my father isn't that old i usually like men closer in age to my father then to myself and its not because of how they act or how mature they are because alot of the men ive been with acted like kids which is why it didnt work out) but its the body type of a older man..now that im 40 and even in my thirties ive really been attracted to a silver fox i love grey hair but the baldspots not so much ...lol..i like skinny guys and of course guys that are athletic and muscular healthy too i love tattoos on a man but not on myself so much... i really like a guy with a unique style and he's got to be CLEAN Im super attracted to a mans sweat after work but not right after work or after they've sat around in dirty clothes but after the sweat has dried n i just get a neck wiff down below no tho he needs to wash those private parts i don't like those smells ..lol but I'm very much attracted to a artist or a musician someone that is construction tough and works hard .yup thats my kind of guy a grease monkey working man ..mmmhhhmmm any single guys out there . ? ...Lol...I'm recently single :(
I'm a good looking dude. (not trying to make myself highly btw). I do believe a girl likes you more or questions more. When you don't smile. Obviously, When a cute guy smiles your way it's a turn on. That's because you feel what he feels during that moment. But if his just a random attractive guy (just doing him). Then often a girl would have curiosity or assumptions about you. That's what draws them in. "The smile" just gives comfort within each other. "your basic plain face" your story for people to find out.
What's most attracted to me the heart and the mind. I don't care how someone looks but I DO care who someone is. It's what's on the inside that matters most. Think about it are you looking for one night stand a fling or are you looking for the long-term what really matters...
It really depends on what day or the front of the month or the end of the month. Sometimes you feel laid back and sometimes you feel and sometimes you feel all guns free.and the most important thing is you can't give a fuck about anything or what anyone says
I like the excitement of having a younger guy but I'd prefer an older partner because there is a higher sense of maturity and security. Of course, there are many exceptions.
I never knew that about when women start/stop taking birth control it changes their sense of smell. I never went on them myself but knew someone who was extremely sensitive to smell after she stopped taking her birth control pills and got pregnant. I thought it was because she was pregnant. Maybe it was some of both. I remember her dreading interactions with her parents because they smelled "like old people" what ever that means. But it stopped as soon as she had the baby fed with formula and went back on her birth control.
I can understand if women look for wealth in a man more attractive but in today’s world things cost a lot and they are no guarantees one will ever make enough to pay for all the things women expect us to have before they will ever consider actually getting with a guy who likes them for who they are so they then hook with someone who does and end up with a partner who looks for superficial things instead of what’s real it’s time we as people changed our mindsets and set our expectations low because everyone is worthy of love and appreciation and they deserve the best chances in life. It’s time we all respect one another for who we are individually and accept that everyone is different.
I understand what you're saying. I'm actually really proud person and I don't accept someone taking care of me. But you also need to remember that men are visual creatures. Women need to look good, and even then many men will leave their partners for a younger one. I just saw an actor who said to his wife " no, you're not allowed to grow old and look like that, I'm allowed to do so you're not " Life is not fair. We have to accept that.
Nessma Galal your right it is not fair but women say and do the same thing for women they walk around with a mental checklist of what to expect a man to be. Over where I live people my age look up to actors, singers, musicians all people famous and how they treat their partners and pass it off as what’s allowed and normal to do today. This is the wrong attitude that people have and it needs to change.
I found the statement and explanation that all men look to be interesting. Although I had come to realize that all men look, though I have met a few that don't but they have their reasons which are, in my opinion, counter to the norm, your explanation as to their reasons not necessarily being what you'd think gave me food for thought. Thank you for that.
I know the video says women find men more attractive when they don't smile but, I like when men smile. Men, if a woman smiles at you, you should at least smile back.
Me, too! In fact, the first thing that I look at in the opposite sex is his smile...
😃
Me too.
Except if we’re talking bout that one creepy dude in your neighbourhood though, yikes
@@yafookinlosah LOL! True! No creeps allowed!
I'm attracted to younger men I had a older father
Are you SURE that your daddy is your actual daddy? ;)
@@tcp1623 🙄😒
@@tcp1623 lol🤣🤣
BTW I've a question that do girls like those guys who don't keep a beard at all ?
@@tcp1623 🤣🤣 lol
Super ideas like this videos I wanted, human psychology, how to attract women's men super master class sir
I have no hour glass figure. I'm just fat. But I think guys are attracted to all types of girls, and girls to guys. Am I wrong?
Being a woman...I'm attracted to men that are highly intelligent..confident...kind..polite..honest....facial semitry...broad shoulders.. moderately muscular body...moderately narrow waist...
I love when a man is confident yet humble, it's beautiful when a man smiles and blush
So the main point u miissed? Man who gives lots of love to you?
And a man makes u perfect
Number 7: blushing.
*laughs in black*
Your skin color is beautiful, I turn red when I laugh to hard and it's really not cute
I love this comment😂😂😂"laughs in black", lmao
Dont you people turn purple?
@@yourdaddyonceler1239 "you people" bruh?? Nah come on we past that🤦🏿♀️
I'M WEAAAK
Who else cringes when they insert clips of these “couples” into the video that are really just bad actors
Perhaps you can "Act" better?
Ig it is kindve cringey but i think it adds a bit more to the video. Ig im so used to seeing it, that its just normal to see those annoying asf cringey short clips🤷♀️
Nah
I can't even tell.
*blushing is a good thing*
Forces red blush on brown skin.😂😂
Bruh 😂😂
Hahahskjend
Same😂😂
I died hahaha
fuck dog...
Men who smile a lot are less attractive?
Have you seen Chris Evans?
Edit: turns out I'm a lesbian 😂
The world would be very sad if Chris Evans didn't smile. 😟
Yes but he was born attractive.
@@kiera6326 Chris Evans look like he would be a great friend. Very cool guy.
No. Who's that?
I mean he's hot af so like...
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*Always be nothing less than your best self.* ❤️
Thanks, Esabelle~♡~
Thanks for reminding
Thank you. 😊
Thx, you too! 😘
Hahahaha...yes you
Nothing works with narcissist. They only attracted to themselves
Tape a mirror on your face lol
Yawn...…….so?
They're not even people you want to be with anyway. It is like loving a brick wall. They are shallow and empty people who hate themselves and are irrationally jealous. Don't walk away from them, RUN.
Funny comment
rosey saz 😀🙋🏻♀️👍🏻true
If someone can walk in the room and brighten up ppl mood- Most Attractive Thing 💕💕💕 personalities
I will never forget when I first saw my best friend Patricia. She waltzed into class 20min late, bright red lipstick, and the biggest most beautiful smile you have ever seen. She was just lovely and made the whole classroom happy.
A girl that doesn't care if you have alot of friends, doesn't care if everybody likes you, isn't into the phony social queen scene, and has an authentic personality, attractive
That has more to do with appearance than anything else. A great-looking person can walk into a room with a big smile and brighten the place up.
Very little to do with their personality or mindset, mostly just looks. Some people can do it with their personality though, but very few people are actually like that.
Who can smell tears?? 😂
Ikr😂😂😂
Ong 😭🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Seriously 🤔😂
Us, subconsciously
6:39 What did they tell that guy? "We need you to be an example of a less masculine man" lol
I had to look and laughed way too hard :-P
🤣🤣🤣
Voice of a man with deep rumble. That's attractive.
Maybe the sign of high testosterone so more likely to be a good provider and stronger man???
Hey Charlie puth's voice isn't so deep enough still a lot of girls have crush on him.
Quite different choice u hv ,I like it Khushboo...
@@1toshi32 yes, they have higher fertility as well as healthier than average male. Same as curvier women are more considered more feminine and fertile.
A big block HD? Harley Davidson.
“Men are subconsciously turned off by the smell of tears” well shittt no wonder men don’t talk to me 😅
This video is full of crap.
@@chrisallen6362 no its not. Guaranteed boner kill when a woman starts crying
If there is a legit reason to it why the girl cryes, i dont think it is a turnoff. I do not think that everything applies to everyone in this video
Legit my ex got turned on when I cried 🤷🏻♀️
Chrissy Chrissy remember “he is your ex”
Lol “Men are turned off by the ‘smell’ of tears”. Translation: The guy at the club wearing Axe body spray doesn’t care about your feelings. Whoa! Mind blowing insights.
Marie C I think it’s a good thing tbh. You don’t want a man turn on while you are having a emotional breakdown lol...
“Smells like allergies to me....”
Yeah this point is very tenuous and ridic
The most attractive traits I look for is : 1) HONESTY 2) FAITHFULNESS and 3) LOYALTY!
Yeah but you cant see those traits at a first glance.
If this is true then......
Shame on you a dog is more beautiful than you.🤣
WRONG THE MOST ATTRACTIVE TRAITS ARE SMELL, SHOE SIZE, TEETH SHAPE!!!!!!
@@laogai6292 WTF🤣
@@AdityaKumar-op5zc get on it sis! Pay attention to your man's teeth.
*_That's interesting so some studies suggest that being "average looking" can be beneficial_*
i did smile at this statement bc this is a first ever that ive heard this!
Life Progress - ideas for a better life TV , to attract other average looking people BORING
Life Progress - ideas for a better life TV , an attractive person can always play down their looks with Dowdy clothes, loose clothes,ill fitting clothes etc.No excuses to be plain. ....
maybe cause it less intimidating
Oh yeah, I could never fall in love with a conventionally "hot" guy, more average looking guys and girls (5 or 6/10) are much more attractive to me, and same goes for almost everyone I know
1:58 made me scream
My dad is 40 years older than me and I am obsessed with a guy whom is 13 years older than me.
That fact was actually accurate for me! My dad was 23 was I was born and I’m attracted to young men! They can’t be too young though if you know what I mean! I’m 31 and I look for men in their late 20s to 40s but not older than 48 or what not!
Hmmm....do a video on infatuation...how we get infatuated? And why ? ..and how long the infatuation lasts..??..and what are the factors?
Oooh! Good one!! Vust vs. Love. Even the word alone, 'Infatuation' sounds sexy..
@Erum.rahman1 V2satv2sat
We did a video on 'infatuation vs love' a while back - th-cam.com/video/PYe748IDeG4/w-d-xo.html
Infatuation is related to mental illness,depression.the person who becomes infatuated is usually not happy in there own life and need anti depressants to help them sleep better and help them become more content in themselves so they can make the necessary lifestyle changes.
My father just turned 82 years old and I think of him as the strong 💪🏼 handsome man as if he is aging gracefully and he still such a very actractive elder man
I hope he lives a very long life.
Adam Dawood thanks guys 😉🙏🏼❤️
I love smiling men.
Sense of humor!
I disagree with the second one because my dad is hella old and I don‘t like older men at all.. I prefer younger.
You're also probably 12.
Jayson T I’m 18 🤗💗
The speaker used the word "often" as opposed to "always." Big difference there.
Hetero women like
1. Deep voice
2. Masculine
3. Money
4. Nice car/house
5. Big dick or long
6. Nice smell
7. Bread
@@bakalurx you're only spot on with 'nice smell'.
😆 I’m attractive to a man who seems to have nice personality. Kind and caring because I got those traits myself ! In a good way yeah !
What about people who are always attracted to bad people?
That's a subconscious pattern that you will continue to repeat until you reprogram the subconscious... and consciously become aware that you have to change the way you choose a guy if you wish to change the current pattern. Also, from a 'law of attraction' viewpoint, the belief that you always attract a bad person, or the declaration you attract a bad person... is exactly why you continue to get a bad person. The universe gives you what you think about. What you believe you will get. Not what you want. If you want a great guy... but you expect your blind date will turn out to be an ass, and you tell your friends he'll probably be an ass... you can bet he'll be an ass. It's easy to change these things once you understand how these seemingly small and innocent habits are actually responsible for creating your life. Change your story, the way you tell it... and it will change. Speak what you wish to have in a guy as if you already have that guy. Everyday. 'I'm so grateful for my amazing bf' 'My bf is my best friend and soul mate' etc.. It takes some practice but as you see the changes begin to occur, it becomes much easier. :)
It means that you have poor boundaries and lack self-esteem.
That's called being female and young.
Young girls (teenagers I mean) are often attracted to belligerent, arrogant guys. It's the young female attraction mechanism. Extreme arrogance and belligerence is seen by many young women as a sign of dominance, so they go for guys that are serious trouble.
They grow out of it as they get older, because guys that are always in prison can't earn much money :)
and there is me falling love with girls (mature) nearly twice my age 🥰😎.
You must be no older than a toddler if you're falling in love with girls nearly twice your age. Otherwise, you'd be falling in love with women, not girls.
R u single now?? 😋😁
Then you're certainly a very lucky dude, because most men are pretty miserable as they get older since women about the same age as them aren't attractive anymore!
Guys that like older women, especially much older, are lucky as hell. Most guys middle-aged or older are the exact opposite.
I like the way science and sociology are blended into your perspective. Thanks! Greetings from a 71 year old Mountain Woman from Wyoming-on the lookout still!🙋🏼♀️🏔🌠
What!!! Ur 70?? U don't look like it.... Hi there
@@docst5481 Must be that lovely crisp cool mountain air. The sun is what damages skin the most. I used to live in the Blue Mountains in NSW Australia. Most people up there have beautiful skin.
Damn i didnt know
Melanie O'Hara you still got it
Him: “Different scents make different attractions”
Me: *smells myself*
*nothing*
Self-conscious: no scents mean no love. Sorry dah’ling.
me: ☹️
I more than like the scents of woman,,,in a carnal way
Lol wtf
Ya slaying me
Lol
“I love you” has a more emotional effect on the brain when it’s whispered into the left ear.
Should i try this on my crush😂😂🤣🤣 he would be terrified my swear !! 😁
@@vellivampire Haha! you must go for it :D
I found the part about different scents fascinating, and the part about in the end we are attracted to whoever we're attracted to. SO TRUE!!! I have been baffled many times by who I am attracted to. But these people just "feel right" to me. There is a lot going on behind the scenes in attraction. Great piece. Thank you!
good
I liked this video until it said men and women preferred a certain body type.
Lesley Martinez trust me, facial features matter more.
@@NoName-mm6gh Then how ugly guys get good looking girls?
@@kishanchali8752 that's a very good question. Women can excuse the looks for a guy's intelligence and financial stability that women look for in long term relationships where as men seek youth and beauty because men are visual. I'm not saying some women do not prioritize looks, they do at a certain extent but not as important as the factors I mentioned in the beginning. Ugly guys are even encouraged and motivated that they can pursue and get attractive women where as tell me about some coaches that encourage unattractive women that they can get attractive men or financially stable men
@@NoName-mm6gh then how do you say that facial features matter more?
Also, according your second comment, basically it means that women go after money, isn't it? Cause I have seen it myself too.
I'm an average looking guy now living in Europe. Almost all the girls I've tried to pickup in my country or here were looking either for money or if it's a tall white guy. Especially in Europe women are racist.
@Lesley Martinez.. you're correct. There's no certain body type that can be labeled as attractive. Attraction is based on personal taste. If this video was true, it would be only good looking men who'd be getting pretty women, which is not the case
Kindness is the most attractive thing
Yes... i am attracted to older man, and yes my father is old, but i like older man cause they are more matured.
exactly!!!!
They also **** well.
I was born to an older father and I'm attracted to younger men.
I agree so much. I don’t want to date someone who looks like my father for some reason.
I became attracted and bonded to a guy as he had the same interests my dad has
I got young father and I attracted to older men lol
wow
I smile at nearly everyone I see. Women and men respond positively and usually return the smiles. I just do this naturally with no plan. BTW I'm gay. My natural smile has opened a lot of doors in various life situations.
I completely disagree that waiting for someone to talk to you makes you more picky than the one that starts the conversation. Everyone I know that don't start conversations with people they're interested in is because they're too nervous or insecure to talk to the person first, not because they think that there's a line of people waiting to talk to them lol
I concur.
I blushed alot when I was younger. It was because I was feeling self conscious. According to this I would have fancied alot of people lol
HONESTY is most attractive....
Priscilla Ortiz then why are you always so attracted to liars, manipulators, and users?
Majority cant handle the truth,they like to live a lie.
@@SolidGeddoe In psychology, they would call that defense mechanism denial
@@SolidGeddoe Do you like to live lies?
Yes
Why do all videos about attraction always attribute it to having offspring. Some people dont even want children.
that's the way ur modern brain thinks. ur primitive brain doesn't know that.
Please add the style of dressing to attraction..I prefer a sense of style and if someone knows how to look good in a simple tee shirt and jeans is an added level of attraction for me!!
Overly energetic men with the wide smile plastered on and who talk a lot are the major turn off
Physical things I'm attracted to In a guy:
Tussled hair
Broad shoulders
Warm smile (yes I like smiles)
As long as he's a good person, I like.
@Dera Kio Why?
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Girls, y’all do not need to have an hourglass figure or be slim thick for a guy to like you, You are beautiful just the way you are and if a guy can’t see that then he ain’t right for you! Everyone’s a queen periodtt 👏🏽👏🏽
Women: attracted to sweat
Men: attracted to perfume
And we say *they're* the unhygienic ones lmao
What I find attractive (this is me, personally, lol) in a guy...
1., Solid Christian, and wants to grow in his faith alongside me. This is one of my two non-negotiables, and for good reasons.
2., GREAT personality, good with kids, animals, and elderly people (good indicator of what kind of person they are). I value personality 10x's over looks.
3., Preferably foreign, from another country (I'm a white girl from the US xD how plain vanilla can you get...?), OR a different ethnicity than me(other cultures fascinate me, and I just am attracted to other ethnicities and how their voices sound. I can't help it. While ya'll are describing physical features, I'm over here like, daaaaannnngggg..... that is one hot/cool accent!!
I love this! One piece of advice my grandma gave me when I was 18, was to start praying for my future husband, and journal about it. I'm still glad I did this. ❤
It’s funny how I was thinking about someone and then.... BOOM this video gets uploaded. Lol.
Marry
hey it me I will.💯
Meditation
i love when men smile🥺
Most of us do.
:)
*Attraction is not a choice - if it didn't jump inside initially, then it's not genuine*
Well put.
Maybe true when it comes to attraction, but not love. Love is what lasts.
Nonsense.
Go with your instinct, be yourself and if people love you for that then that's great...
*soooo what if your gay?*
Very interesting video for attraction, smile or not smile , attractive to however attractive I think how much the person caring about you , thank you for sharing this video I love it 👌♥️♥️
I know if the guy smiles at me, it gives a nicer vibe than someone who just looks without returning your smile. Gives off a friendlier feeling. I guess a guy who doesn't smile is considered a bit of a bad boy and a little dangerous???
Latinas. we need more of them i tell you!
Well hi then 😊
Believe me, he's looking at more than her outfit😁 Be happy with yourself and do your best👏👍😎
6:07 *lmao just say kim seok jin* 😂😂😂
We had the same brain cell😂
@@kimsoakedjinieee2601 yeah!!!! And *LMAO YOUR USERNAME* ( or whatever you call it)
ARMY'S R LITERALLY EVERYWHERE LOL
ahhhHHHHH why do we have the same thought process 😂😂
Oh god,,,...I thought the same
Why don’t some woman like men who smile lmao a smile is so attractive 😍😍
If I'm looking at a woman long enough for anyone to notice, I'm 100% checking her out.
i love this comment! 100% honest! lmao!
@@KristinKali Thanks! Lol!
Yeah, good to hear some honesty for a change. I have had it with various men throughout my life totally checking chicks out and swearing they weren’t. It’s like, dude, admit it so we can move on. I’d respect them more rather than them lying about it.
Intelligent
Listening
Good communicatiion
Usage of words/ positive
Friendly
Understanding
Just know I crawl in the sheets with any ole thing.
The color of their eyes😍😍❤️
Definitely their hygiene, clean teeth
Very interesting facts!! Love your channel ❤️
The older I get, the more I realize that I don't have a type.
Same
When you get older and see what scraps are left, you can't have a "type".
me ,personally think..that attractive appeals whts in your heart....going out finding people that are attractive to you..is one hell of a job already.,,truly go for wht you feel...whts attractive to you may not be attractive to someone else....nature course of life is that..our hormones tend ..drive to go for whatever and settling off you don't want to be alone so you'll settle and try to make attraction..no no..its best go for and feel emotions and wht arousal you..and all physical attraction and emotionally attractive, and that appearance ,,is all.it matters because if some one likes you is an bonus💪😏♓🏳️🌈
I noticed I am generally attracted to a mans hair style first, then the jawline then the eyes & lastly the smile. Literally in that order upon spotting someone out haha then after it’d be his style of clothing, shoulder size, torso & legs, if they’re big or not - does he workout or doesn’t? it’s not a deal breaker if he doesn’t but I would probably encourage him to later on haha because I work out. I attracted to pretty boys who have a manly but not stocky figure... idk that’s just MY attraction preference though :)
Geez I’m picky 😂
@@rennaveli so skinny pretty boys like a lot of other women?…
As a man, I'm attracted to more strong, wise and independent women, even tho she may not be much attractive outside (and I'm very esthetic and have very high and unconventional expectations when it comes to outside beauty). As a strong person who pursue an independent lifestyle myself (I'm still not there yet and I have a long way ahead), I feel very safe when I know that I have a partner who know what she wants in her life and capable to love, more than anything else❣😘♒💜
I ❤️man with self confidence ,❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
If we smile we often aren't confident, me included
Opinion:
I am a man (straight) attracted to beautiful woman as most men are; every person looks for something different. The difference is I personally look for an attractive woman who is a Born Again Christian and loves GOD First. Second, a non-smoker, non-alcoholic drinker. Those are the primary fundamental basics; followed by my personal attractions:
1. Nice Body
2. Nice face to complete her body.
3. *Most importantly MUST BE BEAUTIFUL ON THE INSIDE, more so than her outward appearances.
4. A woman who loves me for me alone and no other reason ! Just because she loves me with all her heart without knowing why; and the same from me for her... The Forever Kind Of LOVE... And, a romantic that we can have fun enjoying each other’s company...
5. Loyalty, Complete Devotion To Only me, and NEVER A QUITER ! Me the same for her. Someone mature enough for a lifetime commitment & trust worthy and me the same for her, growing old together for our complete life times pulling together no matter what. “AGAPE LOVE...” This is what I hope God will make reality.
6. Lastly: Always sharing together a GOD CENTERED RELATIONSHIP; FOUNDED IN & ON JESUS CHRIST
and Very Good Communication Skills with Each Other HONESTLY...!
...And, I won’t settle !Or, I will choose to live my life alone.
[ Note: I was married once before and she turned out to be a quitter ! ] > Scaring my Heart, which defines who I am now and what I want GOD to do for me.
~ FAITH ~
I really don't care about physical "attractiveness" as much but a guy's smile is the one thing that i find very attractive...
Hello 👋
As a man let me tell you....blushing got me plenty of drawers. It's an art. 😊
It’s one thing to be good looking but having a good personality also matters men that have goals are attractive yes appearance does matter and being kind to people .
110% true and correct.✅❤️👌🏿👍🏿😎
No it's not.. They even state that. This does not go out to *all* men. So it's a percentage of I dunno ¿79%? of all male. Not 100% and therefore not 100% accurate. I even found things that don't count for me in this video. Plus you never know with some studies. How accurate are They? We don't kno
what source it comes from, what people participated ? I'm not stating they are incorrect just implying they can be.. I dunno, just a bit of a bold statement. People need to stop belive *everything* they read/hear that they see on interenet/television/papers. Just question more but I'm sure this video is pretty on the spot since we're animals and looking for a partner basically becomes instinct, survival and reproduction. Hence hips, boobs etc.
Im attracted to the smell definitely number one and their smile is very important but my favorite body part is hands i look at men's hands i just get a feeling when i hold someone's hand and it just feels right hands are a big turn on but of course someones eyes they are the way to see into someone's soul also the crows feet around the eyes i call it sunshine eyes I've always been attracted to older guys but my father isn't that old i usually like men closer in age to my father then to myself and its not because of how they act or how mature they are because alot of the men ive been with acted like kids which is why it didnt work out) but its the body type of a older man..now that im 40 and even in my thirties ive really been attracted to a silver fox i love grey hair but the baldspots not so much ...lol..i like skinny guys and of course guys that are athletic and muscular healthy too i love tattoos on a man but not on myself so much... i really like a guy with a unique style and he's got to be CLEAN Im super attracted to a mans sweat after work but not right after work or after they've sat around in dirty clothes but after the sweat has dried n i just get a neck wiff down below no tho he needs to wash those private parts i don't like those smells ..lol but I'm very much attracted to a artist or a musician someone that is construction tough and works hard .yup thats my kind of guy a grease monkey working man ..mmmhhhmmm any single guys out there . ? ...Lol...I'm recently single :(
So if you’re a girl and you have a high pitched sqeaky whiny voice guys will love you
I love when my partner blushes!
Have an old father (who is amazing) and always been really attracted to older men. The problem tho is that only younger men approach me :/
I try to make most people smile
If Im a lesbian, does all these facts apply to me??
Are you?
9:56 that's not realistic
Less hair and more wrinkles had me laughing
Yeah me too
I'm a good looking dude. (not trying to make myself highly btw). I do believe a girl likes you more or questions more. When you don't smile. Obviously, When a cute guy smiles your way it's a turn on. That's because you feel what he feels during that moment. But if his just a random attractive guy (just doing him). Then often a girl would have curiosity or assumptions about you. That's what draws them in. "The smile" just gives comfort within each other. "your basic plain face" your story for people to find out.
In my experience, woman like older men bcz their own father's didn't have a close relationship with them.
That's very true for me .
What's most attracted to me the heart and the mind.
I don't care how someone looks but I DO care who someone is. It's what's on the inside that matters most. Think about it are you looking for one night stand a fling or are you looking for the long-term what really matters...
Men need beauty. Women need money. What's to figure ?
Typically in Gemini men we find conversation is the most attractive thing
Im a gemini but my conversation skill sucks ..its clumsy .
It really depends on what day or the front of the month or the end of the month. Sometimes you feel laid back and sometimes you feel and sometimes you feel all guns free.and the most important thing is you can't give a fuck about anything or what anyone says
@@glogictechsummers3045 yes i dont give a damn and yes that part is true haha
Ugh gemini men. No thanks.
@@SR77736 I know the reason why you say to Gemini men it's probably because you picked a bad boy and try to change him which you all do
I like the excitement of having a younger guy but I'd prefer an older partner because there is a higher sense of maturity and security. Of course, there are many exceptions.
I never knew that about when women start/stop taking birth control it changes their sense of smell. I never went on them myself but knew someone who was extremely sensitive to smell after she stopped taking her birth control pills and got pregnant. I thought it was because she was pregnant. Maybe it was some of both. I remember her dreading interactions with her parents because they smelled "like old people" what ever that means. But it stopped as soon as she had the baby fed with formula and went back on her birth control.
I love brainy dose
When they talking bout blushing and I’m black 🤦🏾♂️
The high pitch ovulation .. would that be when im screamin ma head off dealing with the hormones 🤣🤣
I can understand if women look for wealth in a man more attractive but in today’s world things cost a lot and they are no guarantees one will ever make enough to pay for all the things women expect us to have before they will ever consider actually getting with a guy who likes them for who they are so they then hook with someone who does and end up with a partner who looks for superficial things instead of what’s real it’s time we as people changed our mindsets and set our expectations low because everyone is worthy of love and appreciation and they deserve the best chances in life.
It’s time we all respect one another for who we are individually and accept that everyone is different.
I understand what you're saying. I'm actually really proud person and I don't accept someone taking care of me. But you also need to remember that men are visual creatures. Women need to look good, and even then many men will leave their partners for a younger one. I just saw an actor who said to his wife " no, you're not allowed to grow old and look like that, I'm allowed to do so you're not "
Life is not fair. We have to accept that.
Nessma Galal your right it is not fair but women say and do the same thing for women they walk around with a mental checklist of what to expect a man to be.
Over where I live people my age look up to actors, singers, musicians all people famous and how they treat their partners and pass it off as what’s allowed and normal to do today.
This is the wrong attitude that people have and it needs to change.
At this point, I pretty much look at anybody.
Male preference = any wo man
😂😂😂
I think that might be just teenagers
As longs as there's a hole
90% of singles are watching this video 😂😂😂
Well who is hungry😅?
Attractive man: confident.
I found the statement and explanation that all men look to be interesting. Although I had come to realize that all men look, though I have met a few that don't but they have their reasons which are, in my opinion, counter to the norm, your explanation as to their reasons not necessarily being what you'd think gave me food for thought. Thank you for that.
these facts are full of assumptions