How To Stay Calm And Relaxed During Sex

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  • @truthseeker8671
    @truthseeker8671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    Man I'm so sick of performance anxiety it kills my sexual confidence smh

    • @e.l_emprendedor
      @e.l_emprendedor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Performance anxiety can be reverse, I have been there and finally got it fixed (for the most time). After 5 years suffering and 2 since I recover I have decided to make what worked for me available to every male.
      Slow Down app was created by my therapist and now its approved by a panel of physicians in Canada and being distributed in multiple physicians clinics. Get it now and start training

  • @DylanBegazo
    @DylanBegazo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    My fears pull me out of the present and into my mind which doesn't allow me to be in the present.
    But I've learned how to mentally return myself to the present and stay that way in my body.
    The way I do it is by facing my fears head on and logically productively solving them biasedly.
    I call it Mind Expansion. When your afraid of something you retreat into your mind and stay in there like a turtle right?
    The goal of my quote below is to re-expand your consciousness out of your mind to re-FILL the room your in like water in a glass. Cause a normal person who isn't afraid isn't retreated in their mind. They aren't stuck in their minds talking to themselves oblivious to the huge outside world they are currently inhabiting.
    So If I'm worried about what she might be thinking, for example, I will mentally face the fear by making myself believe:
    "I am afraid of what she's thinking. True. Obviously. But I must remember, My actions dictate how this whole thing will turn out and what she will experience. My actions. She's already doing her part by being here and giving herself to me and being open and vulnerable for me to do whatever I please. So she's already done her part. My part right now is what's remaining thus what determines the outcome..... Leave my mind and return to this room, to this present moment. Leave. Expand back out of my mind... To her. Yes... Good... Now don't restrict my breathing anymore... Let go of my breathing. Yes.... Breathe automatically.... More automatic.... Yes.... No more mental talking to myself, Now look up to her... Now act!"
    This mental process is how I've made myself defeat my fears and pulled myself out of my mind logically in a biasedly constructive way back into the present moment. It's a conscious effort to stay out of your mind but after enough time it becomes a habit.

  • @streetwiseguitar5113
    @streetwiseguitar5113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Jason, you have GREAT videos. Conversely, you spend so little time to get back to your subscribers. You really should......

  • @markcoetzee5458
    @markcoetzee5458 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I usually have the "fock I don't care what happens" approach, lol this honestly works cause now you not focused on what your partner thinks

  • @nathanthomforde5079
    @nathanthomforde5079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Shits weird. Every time things are getting frisky my legs get so tense and shaky and my breathing changes like it’s hard to breath idk why this happens.

  • @hansmuller6595
    @hansmuller6595 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    never thought that meditation could be used in that way - very interesting!

    • @e.l_emprendedor
      @e.l_emprendedor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It actually works and if you mix it with the right exercises then it really is a game changer.

  • @MPAROR
    @MPAROR 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Question: how is alcohol linked to premature ejaculation? I personally don't drink at all and i'm worried i will never be able to relax enough to last a decent amount of time

    • @e.l_emprendedor
      @e.l_emprendedor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is in most cases the fact that males don't really know how to identify when they are about to come before being in the point of no return. When you are able to identify or prevent to get to that state then you will control your body like a master. In our app you will find a number of physical and behavioural exercises that will help you get you there.

  • @Bruh1234moment
    @Bruh1234moment 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I get so tense, not to anxiety but just to pure sexual excitement that I feel sick in the stomach. Do I have a problem

    • @e.l_emprendedor
      @e.l_emprendedor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Definitely sounds like performance anxiety, please refer to our relaxation, breathing exercises.

    • @lewistowers3135
      @lewistowers3135 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro what works for me is stop looking at the girl for a couple seconds and focus your energy on deep breaths literally that simple

    • @Bruh1234moment
      @Bruh1234moment 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lewistowers3135 I’ll try that next time thanks mate

  • @jettpeters3470
    @jettpeters3470 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Great advice, and Phoshatadyl Serine really does work !!!!!

  • @jangajuff3927
    @jangajuff3927 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bro noway someone commented that what you read xD i hope he is real but tbh that sounds like a hella good advertise ;D but love your videos!

  • @edgarantonio5728
    @edgarantonio5728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What’s up brother 👊

  • @alezanakobi4404
    @alezanakobi4404 ปีที่แล้ว

    My first time I felt anxious when meeting my fiance, but anyway thx for da information

  • @Mysterious_Butterfly98
    @Mysterious_Butterfly98 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your style

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    @GordonH-gc8lx 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @JB-ul4fi
    @JB-ul4fi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love you Jason ❤️

  • @corning1
    @corning1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How about using benzos to relax? Xanax etc

    • @e.l_emprendedor
      @e.l_emprendedor 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      The problem is that pharma products bring too many side effects that are not really worth it, it might be better to learn to control your mind and muscles. Please really consider other ways like training with our free app, or the advices on this video.

    • @AaronW-ww4ds
      @AaronW-ww4ds 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some side effects of any medications including prescription can have the opposite effect of what they're prescribed for

    • @snowqueen24
      @snowqueen24 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      No.

  • @rajeevtripathi6230
    @rajeevtripathi6230 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please help me to overcome my sex weakness. PE and tight erections.
    I a not able to enjoy my married life.
    Pl advise. I will be very grateful to you.
    Regards
    Rajeev Tripathi age 54 years.

  • @soulful5284
    @soulful5284 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for this🙏

  • @GreenGecko101
    @GreenGecko101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    japanese tattoo looks good on u

  • @Hi-qt2nj
    @Hi-qt2nj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does anyone have this after smoking weed?

    • @watchacc5783
      @watchacc5783 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah smoking weed naturally brings you even more into your thoughts so the effect is multiplied while you’re high, but if you are able to allow yourself to stay calm and out of your thoughts while high, it will be fine, you just gotta relax and not overthink in the moment.

    • @Hi-qt2nj
      @Hi-qt2nj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@watchacc5783 thank you . I did just that last week and had sex like 10 times with no problem. If I can add to what you said , to help anyone reading this I’ll say to not judge your negative thoughts.

    • @watchacc5783
      @watchacc5783 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Hi-qt2nj That’s good to hear, I didn’t have the experience I hoped to when I last did it, but I spoke to my girl about it and i guess I’ll just try do what I can to improve this situation

    • @Hi-qt2nj
      @Hi-qt2nj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@watchacc5783 yea man just keep trying. What helped me was thinking my negative thoughts as “clouds” just passing by and not judging them as good or bad. I hope you the best

  • @leonn5181
    @leonn5181 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg Thank you

  • @Gamingprodigy_321
    @Gamingprodigy_321 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Same

  • @icelandichorsesarelife4280
    @icelandichorsesarelife4280 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What am I watching😢

  • @mohsenashorioun9423
    @mohsenashorioun9423 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Grate

  • @brianconnaughton7077
    @brianconnaughton7077 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey Jason do you have any tips for someone whats to know how to go down on a women but does not know how thank Brian

    • @tayashley3539
      @tayashley3539 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ask the girl. All of our pussies arent the same.