Steve’s Powerful and Personal Response to Stuttering

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  • @707beats6
    @707beats6 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7496

    Her stuttering was basically gone after he told her there was nothing wrong with her haha. I hope she's doing ok

    • @thenormalman1172
      @thenormalman1172 5 ปีที่แล้ว +405

      Also in her monologue at the beginning the stuttering went after about 15seconds. Comes from thinking too much

    • @froggiechair_4735
      @froggiechair_4735 5 ปีที่แล้ว +292

      My brother has stutters. When he gets nervous or has to say a big sentence it gets so bad

    • @JG-on2wx
      @JG-on2wx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

      I have a very mild stutter when I'm nervous, especially when I have to present something in front of other people. I always think about what I want to say next and how I'm going to say it, while I haven't even finished the first sentence. I stumble across words, mix them up, miss them, repeat them, and so on. I think it can't really be considered stuttering, because I experience it not that often, but I'm not sure, really. There's also a reason to why this happens to me, I guess: when I was smaller, I always used to talk a lot, for example when I wanted to tell about something really exciting. But some people that were close to me at that time and who I looked up to interrupted me every time to tell me how boring it was to listen to me, because it took me so long to tell something. But since I didn't want to leave out important aspects, I began to talk faster, so that they wouldn't have to wait too long. :/

    • @Axel-ib9ms
      @Axel-ib9ms 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      This was great, I have been researching "why do i stutter a lot" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Rincaas Stammify Blocker - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my co-worker got amazing results with it.

    • @jessie92801
      @jessie92801 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm screaming hahahaha

  • @reaganbrooke8578
    @reaganbrooke8578 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10121

    If someone doesn’t want you because of a speech impediment they don’t deserve you.

    • @patriciaalston7623
      @patriciaalston7623 5 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I agree wholeheartedly

    • @TravelerVolkriin
      @TravelerVolkriin 5 ปีที่แล้ว +52

      Or maybe men want a regular convo...

    • @corneliuschelimo3609
      @corneliuschelimo3609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I believe so too..bottom line is that we are all human beings.

    • @sophon238
      @sophon238 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Good communication is key.

    • @tneelilsupaguy
      @tneelilsupaguy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      @@TravelerVolkriin Then men should talk. A person's stuttering doesn't keep them from being able to have a conversation.

  • @Learn_Local_App
    @Learn_Local_App 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6748

    She stuttered as she began telling her story of how stuttering is affecting her dating life, she stopped stuttering when she was giving praise to Steve, then started stuttering again when she closed her opening question by asking how she can personally get over this. When she internalizes she stutters. She was so sure of Steve but didn't have the same confidence in herself. I hope she builds the confidence she deserves to see how beautiful and significant she is.

    • @ATouchOfKlass
      @ATouchOfKlass 5 ปีที่แล้ว +138

      Great observation

    • @ceceb15
      @ceceb15 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      I noticed that as well.

    • @whorrorstories4485
      @whorrorstories4485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      hmalikfnp my ex friend used to stutter too. I think it was related to childhood trauma and insecurity. Now she’s in college and has her own apartment with her friends. We aren’t friends anymore but she seems happy and I’d noticed as we got older her stuttering had gotten better. So I hope that having more life experiences, growing up, and becoming her own person has helped ❤️

    • @Unconventionaljec11
      @Unconventionaljec11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      hmalikfnp yes I noticed that as well

    • @blvcktalldude8240
      @blvcktalldude8240 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hmalikfnp like she's hot😍

  • @bianca_7909
    @bianca_7909 4 ปีที่แล้ว +404

    It’s so true. Unless you have a stutter you don’t really know the frustration of not being able to finish your sentence. I watched this about 3 months ago (I had a very bad stutter) and after trying this I stutter only occasionally instead of during each sentence. I’m so glad I came across this video because it has really changed my life

    • @androssomusic
      @androssomusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      im very happy for you. i still stutter and have done so since i was 9. it really is painful and especially when you look around and see how people just talk freely without any blocks, extensions or repetitions. anyway, im happy you managed to get rid of it :)

    • @amaazarshad131
      @amaazarshad131 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@androssomusic same feeling bro :(

    • @bayoubabery
      @bayoubabery ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@androssomusic same. It's plagued me my whole life. Speaking on the phone is the most difficult -- I usually get hung up on before I can eek out, "I sssssssssssspeak with a stttttttttutter, please bbbbbbbbbbeeeee patient." Humans are so cruel. The only time my speech is 100% fluent without any prolongations or blocks is when I'm singing, so this is truly my preferred way of communication.

    • @gbslayer214
      @gbslayer214 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good for you... not being rude or anything but I think my stutter is literally uncurable. I tried man and I want to commit it which I'm sure was most of us thought process

    • @hunchojnr_3250
      @hunchojnr_3250 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just came across this video 04:26.
      I'm really glade i did.

  • @patrickkowalski8256
    @patrickkowalski8256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3731

    As a stutterer myself I feel this is inspiring. There is nothing wrong with you, Steve is right

    • @etramulnn785
      @etramulnn785 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Me too bro

    • @Gyrbae
      @Gyrbae 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @R3CK3Digau lol

    • @adrianthomas2399
      @adrianthomas2399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      There's nothing wrong with anyone who stutters. May God bless everybody and cure anyone of any thing they may feel holds them back in a spiritual, mental, physical, social, or emotion way.

    • @adrianthomas2399
      @adrianthomas2399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Feeling insecure about something is the start of individuals believing that something is wrong with them. First thing is to understand that we all may find things wrong with our selfs but we need to know that nothing is wrong with us and we are all great people. Psychologically we have to believe that the things we won't to cure ourselves from is possible but we just have to believe and try to get better at it day by day.

    • @Cheeseboardv
      @Cheeseboardv 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should’ve thrown in a wee typing stutter for comedic effect

  • @jamevolve8380
    @jamevolve8380 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7461

    When she started crying, she didn’t stutter and she said a lot

    • @attica50
      @attica50 5 ปีที่แล้ว +415

      JaM EvolvE
      It’s only certain words that causes a stutter

    • @carmencarter209
      @carmencarter209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +413

      She was relaxed

    • @lakitisha1
      @lakitisha1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      One of my soldiers studder and you can tell she is so uncomfortable but no one makes her feel bad we understand

    • @deannarose7000
      @deannarose7000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +127

      My mom used to tell me, if I'm anxious that I'm going to stutter, I will. Relax and take my time, it's the best advice I've ever gotten. I say the same thing about driving a car, if you feel like you're driving badly you will lol it's all anxiety, it's hard to break but it takes time. Nothing is wrong it just takes practice to relax yourself

    • @chocolatediamond9453
      @chocolatediamond9453 5 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      My son stutter i just tell him to slow down and relax then he dont stutter

  • @preciousjewlz284
    @preciousjewlz284 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2132

    She’s amazing for stepping out of her box🙌🏽

    • @TyTyslickster
      @TyTyslickster 6 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yes very brave on national television, and she will be rewarded for it. In JESUS NAME

    • @RJ25255
      @RJ25255 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TyTyslickster yes indeed!!

    • @grandpaslim3745
      @grandpaslim3745 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes very brave much respect to her

    • @joycecunningham8785
      @joycecunningham8785 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I stutter too

    • @queenmamafabulous8374
      @queenmamafabulous8374 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Precious Jewlz yesssssssss ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @hughbennett5342
    @hughbennett5342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    I was so impressed that he took time out of the show to help this person! He knew the pain she was going through and he knew he could help her overcome it! That's a good heart!

    • @sicklecellman2456
      @sicklecellman2456 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Her starmering is fair compare to mine, but i thank God it didn't stop me from achieving my dream. I practice medicine now

    • @hughbennett5342
      @hughbennett5342 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sicklecellman2456 That is fantastic!

  • @razadelasand899
    @razadelasand899 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2712

    I dont stutter but i swear this helped me to be more mindful of how i treat and interact with people.

    • @jaybae7315
      @jaybae7315 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      May God bless you.

    • @carolineroberts2748
      @carolineroberts2748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I do

    • @amgoose9032
      @amgoose9032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I stutter alot when im stressed out

    • @thelasttime684
      @thelasttime684 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      it took a video to teach you not to be disrespectful to all kinds of people?

    • @razadelasand899
      @razadelasand899 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@thelasttime684 honey i was never disrespectful. I was just uneducated. Sometimes people think they choose the right words when in fact they did not. I always try to be respectful when interacting with different folks. I could never be mean to someone becUse of something as small as a speech impediment but now i know that the stutter is not there because they are nervous so me telling them "its ok. Calm down" is not as kind and patient as i thought it was. Its ignorant.
      I hope tomorrow when you wake up you know not to just jump down people's throats with such a negative output when they say they want to do better. Its unbecoming of a decent human being and comes off as argumentative.
      Hope this helps.

  • @annieblogger489
    @annieblogger489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3686

    As an ex-stutterer, i find this very inspirational! I have learned a lot from steve harvey. His tips + what i learned from this course 'never stutter again' by john isaac really helped me get rid of stuttering. now im teaching my son what i learned from john isaac and steve harvey.

    • @itsjusme6447
      @itsjusme6447 5 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Thanks so much!.. 😊 I needed that. I stutter whenever I get excited, angry, or nervous; my tongue jumps as if; the nerves in it goes haywire. And it's so embarrassing to me. So again; Thanks for the heads up!

    • @FaisalAhmed-cy8zb
      @FaisalAhmed-cy8zb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Can u give some of the tips u learned from john isaac?

    • @godofd3rpz19
      @godofd3rpz19 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fffffffffofo foreal?

    • @annieblogger489
      @annieblogger489 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@FaisalAhmed-cy8zb Hi Ahmed. You can join his newsletter, he shares tips every day to subscribers :)

    • @anonexpectus8838
      @anonexpectus8838 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@godofd3rpz19 yooo you wildin

  • @HoneysAstro
    @HoneysAstro 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2086

    This made me cry heavy. She's beautiful ♡

    • @jaymoor5309
      @jaymoor5309 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yaaaaazzzzz....She showed so much grace, power by simply speaking her truth

    • @sahra1385
      @sahra1385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wanna like your comment but it’s at 200 and I don’t wanna ruint it

    • @TheDrewshowPodcast
      @TheDrewshowPodcast 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes she is.

    • @corneliuschelimo3609
      @corneliuschelimo3609 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Absolutely....

    • @n_3226
      @n_3226 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Apfelsaft Nobody asked what you think

  • @sprettybear9290
    @sprettybear9290 5 ปีที่แล้ว +573

    I stutter really bad and what he said made me cry with this 😭❤️

    • @adelinemukashema1244
      @adelinemukashema1244 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too❤️

    • @ItsJustTruTv
      @ItsJustTruTv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I feel your pain..hopefully we overcome this struggle ♥️

    • @external5134
      @external5134 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here❤️

    • @mariequeenmarie100
      @mariequeenmarie100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      U ok ❤️💕

    • @usangtv
      @usangtv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You don't have to feel bad okay, you are wonderfully made Trust me.

  • @wlehtola
    @wlehtola 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1507

    That first trick could apply to everyone. We all need to think b4 we talk.

    • @PattiLaBarbie
      @PattiLaBarbie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      lol this made me chuckle.

    • @duck5336
      @duck5336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Absolutely

    • @wonderwoman8920
      @wonderwoman8920 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wlehtola that’s right

    • @Hermetic_Pupil
      @Hermetic_Pupil 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol

    • @kimikokimi
      @kimikokimi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yeah, but it’s helpful to her because stuttering is kinda tied to confidence. By saying it to yourself internally, it calms a person down and helps them be more confident with their speech.

  • @NikkiJayArtistry
    @NikkiJayArtistry 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1692

    This girl is so powerful and beautiful

    • @sheeraabd3558
      @sheeraabd3558 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      New Creation Powerful in terms of what? Is she God?

    • @lf6392
      @lf6392 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Sheera Abd you don’t have to be God to be powerful and beautiful. This girl is an example.

  • @vintageheart7314
    @vintageheart7314 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1837

    She seems like such a sweet soul and she’s gorgeous a speech impediment shouldn’t even be a problem when it comes to finding love !! She’s precious

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I stutter, too... but if I didn't, I would still date her. She's beautiful and seems very sweet.

    • @thatonedude7070
      @thatonedude7070 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Things aint

    • @MissAlanieous
      @MissAlanieous 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you for your comment. The problem comes with effective communication like tone and expressing how I feel.

    • @cnainmi
      @cnainmi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I keep watching this segment because this sweet, precious woman is so brave and needs to be highly admired. To face something head on to conquer it is a huge accomplishment. Im proud of her!!

    • @ginny177
      @ginny177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      the problem is stuttering is also about constent anxiety..when you live it every day it is very exhausting...it is not just stuttering

  • @mystery38106
    @mystery38106 2 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    When she started crying that was her finally talking to someone who truly understands how she feels and can articulate her feelings 💜

  • @ChasingCarson
    @ChasingCarson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1382

    It’s awesome because you never really noticed Steve stuttered until now. ❤️

    • @dagmawitthompson9307
      @dagmawitthompson9307 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Alexis Rush yesss I was like wait he stutters lol

    • @Swanksbishhy
      @Swanksbishhy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Alexis Rush exactly

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      stutter

    • @ChasingCarson
      @ChasingCarson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Michelle thanks

    • @Slayreviews2025
      @Slayreviews2025 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think everyone stutters from time to time. My godsister had the same problem as this beautiful black woman in the video had now she doesn't. What she has is very curable. I have a speech impediment problem

  • @jasmyneartis5867
    @jasmyneartis5867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2626

    My boyfriend stutters and I don’t give a damn , I love him 👌

    • @preciouswatson4142
      @preciouswatson4142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +73

      go head my sista!!!!🤗

    • @mrsyellowhawk5
      @mrsyellowhawk5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +63

      Jasmyne... That's so sweet. Both of my brothers used to stutter. There was absolutely Nothing wrong with them. They just had to learn how to slow down before speaking.

    • @jazziehuggins7764
      @jazziehuggins7764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      My step dad stutters a lot too and I'm. Not his bio child but it has affected my brothers I it's kind of like.. We picked up on tht speach. I stutter sometimes but it's like Steve says.. U expect ur gonna stutter so u do.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lucky dude... wit yo fine ass

    • @saydie6646
      @saydie6646 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What a sweet lady. Bless you both.

  • @anisboucheneb736
    @anisboucheneb736 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3714

    She's too beautiful to be treated the wrong way.

    • @codyc722
      @codyc722 5 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      So ugly people can be treated the wrong way?

    • @shera4276
      @shera4276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +135

      @@codyc722 no obviously... thats not what hes saying

    • @allisonm127
      @allisonm127 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Ford Racing '82 Yeah

    • @ryana-6762
      @ryana-6762 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      she's ugly though?

    • @nickiminaj111
      @nickiminaj111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +103

      Ryan Zad just because you find her ugly doesn’t mean she is

  • @Kpopfanatic05
    @Kpopfanatic05 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I know Steve's a jokester but I love his serious side. I'm glad he's motivating and helping people.

  • @haylajas8343
    @haylajas8343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1285

    My sister stutters and it hurts when she thinks people judge so she closes up and stops talking ☹️😭😭

    • @thexvault
      @thexvault 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Hayla JAS show her this video

    • @rebeccarebeccachao
      @rebeccarebeccachao 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Show her this video, and tell her to be free

    • @anonymousunknown798
      @anonymousunknown798 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol 😂

    • @QuanBrown27
      @QuanBrown27 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel bad for her.

    • @Summerwork789
      @Summerwork789 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Hayla JAS tell her she isnt the only one, and that it becomes easier to control. My stutter is horrible, to where every 2-4 words i stutter, but i have learned to either push through it with deep breaths or learn new words that won’t impede my speech

  • @Tolu1994
    @Tolu1994 6 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    'Oh you doing jokes too' so amazing to see. Great job Steve

    • @hahyyt473
      @hahyyt473 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tolu1994 ى

    • @cmclem1959
      @cmclem1959 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's because he made her relax.

  • @chosen2serve1
    @chosen2serve1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1300

    Her cry for help in front of millions immediately healed her; it was in her walk (her stride) and in her talk (the joke). Reminded me of the biblical testimony of Blind Bartimaeus.

    • @bryleacloud2316
      @bryleacloud2316 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      chosen2serve1 YES THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING!!

    • @user-go4sh1rv5l
      @user-go4sh1rv5l 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      chosen2serve1 yessss. Her walk was so beautiful and how she was talking was amazing. She’s an angle in disguise ❤️

    • @jackdyson2268
      @jackdyson2268 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      an angle in disguise, that’s quite obtuse

    • @user-go4sh1rv5l
      @user-go4sh1rv5l 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      jack dyson yeah her cry for help and to do it in front of millions/world. Then on top of that she’s so beautiful

    • @raulhinojosa3860
      @raulhinojosa3860 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@jackdyson2268 No many ppl will understand this underrated comment! 😂

  • @chinonsowilfred2663
    @chinonsowilfred2663 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have a stutter but I just talked to myself in the mirror for several minutes and barely stuttered. I’m so glad I came across this video. Now I understand that the problem is more mental than it is physical. Thank you so much Steve.

  • @blimpz2389
    @blimpz2389 5 ปีที่แล้ว +729

    I stuttered a lot and I still do
    I’ve tried this method for the past few days and now I find myself to be social to people the normal

    • @christineowori750
      @christineowori750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good job Kenny, keep going!

    • @yolucid
      @yolucid 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kenny we stan u

    • @syounas4677
      @syounas4677 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm gonna try it myself

    • @skylaa2798
      @skylaa2798 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you give me an update on how you’re doing I have a stutter and I want to know if this method works

  • @ANGELSLVME
    @ANGELSLVME 5 ปีที่แล้ว +410

    My daughter stuttered, and it’s def curable!, I was so scared for her, but I prayed , worked with her myself and it stopped!

    • @BiiMesiah
      @BiiMesiah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Amen. God bless you and your daughter.

    • @ANGELSLVME
      @ANGELSLVME 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Kenzita v beurden both !, I’m a spiritual person!, and WE worked hard, and please Parents be Patient!!!!with your kids!nothing wrong with prayer

    • @asesina6650
      @asesina6650 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      @Kenzita v beurden Don't start that.

    • @あけみ-w4k
      @あけみ-w4k 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@asesina6650 I agree.

  • @glennsohm6643
    @glennsohm6643 6 ปีที่แล้ว +544

    Well he is very correct about the fact that much stuttering is linked to feelings of anxiety. And he is very correct about anticipation being one of the triggers. And, finally, it is an extremely painful, frustrating and demoralizing affliction. I thank God that I was able to completely overcome it.

    • @stevengerrard6711
      @stevengerrard6711 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How did u overcome stuttering if u don't mind

    • @Howtonaturally
      @Howtonaturally 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He mentioned it was linked to feelings of anxiety, so maybe find out how to over come social anxiety. Books, courses, online etc.

    • @glennsohm6643
      @glennsohm6643 6 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      One of the things I did was confronted my anxiety by placing myself in an intensive group setting (theater company) where I could make friends and come to the realization that it was ok to trust. Yes, there were those who I did not get along with, but overall it was a great experience. I noticed early on that I could speak without stuttering or stammering when talking with those I trusted, yet I had difficulty talking with strangers. Once I understood that it did not matter whether someone liked me or not, I was able to relax and it all finally went away. The other thing I did was to read passages in books outloud. This trained my vocal and breath muscles. It required some exageration of facial and vocal muscles, but it helped a lot. Muscle memory definitely played into my cure, but most was overcoming my anxiety.
      I believe that my cure could have been accelerated had I entered some kind of psychological counseling at an early age. Speech therapy was of little value and help with my situation.
      I know the pain stutterers experience...and so it is painful for me to watch others who are afflicted with this disorder. But...I believe that in most cases it can be overcome.

    • @etramulnn785
      @etramulnn785 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am still stutoring :(

    • @mellamobrittney
      @mellamobrittney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@glennsohm6643 I stuttered as a child, so much to where I was barely intelligible. Because of this I was psychologically and emotionally abused by one of my teachers who would openly mock my stuttering in front of my peers which, in turn, led to me being bullied and ostracized by my classmates. This teacher, horribly enough, also happened to be my speech therapist and ran an after school program at her house for parents who worked late hours. It's like I couldn't get away from her torment and I was too terrified of her to tell my parents. Fortunately for me, I was able to fully overcome stuttering by age 8 or so, and it was through sheer willpower and determination...definitely not because of any "help" on her part. So, I get what you mean by it being hard to watch/listen to others who stutter. In fact, as soon as the girl in the video started stuttering, I had to immediately pause it because it's almost painful to listen to...it just brings back so many awful feelings and memories. Only a former stutterer will know just how debilitating it can feel. I truly hope she's able to overcome it.

  • @jamesroper4952
    @jamesroper4952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Everything Steve said, especially about other people look at the stutterer is totally true. What's worse is when they make a joke about it, I've been in more fights about that than anything else. People who don't stutter, have no idea what people who do stutter go through on a daily basis.
    When someone like Steve Harvey comes around, and shows you what he or she used to quit stuttering. It's like a breath of fresh air.

  • @abdillahiabdisamad6161
    @abdillahiabdisamad6161 6 ปีที่แล้ว +399

    I need part 2 from this one . Who else want ?

  • @rafelthompson
    @rafelthompson 5 ปีที่แล้ว +483

    Damn this is amazing. This is what TH-cam is all about.

    • @terrycrews1760
      @terrycrews1760 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Rafel Thompson this isn’t what TH-cam is all about. TH-cam is all about gaming vlogs, twerk videos and political antics. I think you wish this is what TH-cam was all about

    • @Digital_Flayer
      @Digital_Flayer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shakalaka Bombastic um... TH-cam is about everything, not just limited to that stuff buddy. But then again no arguing with a biased person

    • @k.o.h8446
      @k.o.h8446 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      GhostFace _ yup

  • @RoodianneTide
    @RoodianneTide 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1105

    Aww that was so touching 😩 I really hope this works for her. And even if it doesn’t, I pray she finds a man who can look past it ❤️

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 6 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It will work for her, he's giving her tools that will definitely work she just has to practice.

    • @lorivanice
      @lorivanice 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good

    • @sattuadda6660
      @sattuadda6660 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Tide Family may I get her fb id or name I want to marry her...

    • @Brandon_Obeng
      @Brandon_Obeng 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      she will!!!!

    • @S1RLANC3
      @S1RLANC3 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It has worked for her. She was on Drew Lynch's TH-cam channel and is doing much better.

  • @JayDavante
    @JayDavante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "Slow down, breathe, and talk slowly makes things worse" A lot of people tend to tell people this but a person that stutters hears this and trys to apply what they heard and definitely stutters more. It has to be a better way to speak to people that have a stutter without causing them to think more and then stutter some more. To everyone that has a stutter I just was to tell you that I love you and I'm here for you the best way that I can be. I truly don't see anything wrong with anyone that stutters and I just want to tell everyone with a stutter that you are great and special because God made you.. If everyone makes you feel bad or can't accept you for stuttering they don't know or love God. ❤️

    • @hunchojnr_3250
      @hunchojnr_3250 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We really appreciate

  • @MeiZ125
    @MeiZ125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1204

    She’s so gorgeous I couldn’t imagine how a man wouldn’t want her

    • @R.O.T.C._SEEM
      @R.O.T.C._SEEM 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Because it's all made up. A guy will want anything with a pocket in between her legs and even if it doesn't. Men can care less about trivial things such as stuttering, anyone from a woman who has half a body to a woman who doesn't have an actual vagina hole has manage to find a mate. Women are the picky daters, they will dislike a guy for the dumbest reasons like he had blonde hair or he has the same name as my brother

    • @carsonpreston6457
      @carsonpreston6457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

      R.O.T.C SEEM you sound a little hurt bud

    • @MeiZ125
      @MeiZ125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      carson preston right???? something tells me this guy has never been laid 😂

    • @carsonpreston6457
      @carsonpreston6457 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Shero Frizzy Head the truth from the perspective of somebody who has had bad experiences with women*

    • @Haddy29
      @Haddy29 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@R.O.T.C._SEEM ok incel 😑

  • @TyTyslickster
    @TyTyslickster 6 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    Steve is telling the ABSOLUTE TRUTH, I use to stutter very bad growing up . However for me breathing exercises helped me, I would take a deep breath let it out and answer. Doing this actually helped me relax, and by high school know one could even tell. Even now if I stammer, I take a quick breath and pause and then speak. Steve this really hit home ! GOD BLESS YOU FOR HELPING HER

  • @Starzsannnie
    @Starzsannnie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +509

    She’s such a gorgeous kind soul ♥︎

  • @denisebanks9408
    @denisebanks9408 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So powerful !! Thank u beautiful black Queen for being so strong on national TV and Steve Harvey u are amazing !!!!! You are blessed and delivered ! Hope is what I saw, and I know u will be delivered!

  • @tmbreezy2192
    @tmbreezy2192 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1418

    She is the cutest thing I have ever seen in my life.

    • @brimmyburner7530
      @brimmyburner7530 6 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      she doesn't like when people say that.. she is BEAUTIFUL..

    • @nedudee7861
      @nedudee7861 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am a sucker for beautiful girls that stammer

    • @nedudee7861
      @nedudee7861 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Heidi Wood ...you are a beautiful soul Heidi

    • @jayblack908
      @jayblack908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She’s so beautiful

    • @JStieloSoloPhysique1987
      @JStieloSoloPhysique1987 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      TJ KinG Jr ikr . She’s amazing

  • @christywegner1315
    @christywegner1315 6 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    Tonight I was making an order from Victoria’s Secret, for my family for Christmas, I apologized for stuttering , after my order was confirmed, the person who works for Victoria’s Secret, mentioned at the end he’s was helped by watching this episode, well I watched it , when I stopped crying, I will be using the method you use, I don’t know how to thank the man who helped me, he didn’t have to use his time or courage to enlighten me, he cared!! Wow there are good people in this crazy time!
    Much appreciation to the young man who answers calls for VS and to you!! Christy Wegner

  • @maryhasaballa4052
    @maryhasaballa4052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +792

    I wonder if this helps with social anxiety too. I am going to try this!

    • @minmin3228
      @minmin3228 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      same ;-;

    • @creolela
      @creolela 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      Yes I have bad social anxiety sometimes I have to stop for a few seconds which seems like a long time to others ... I’m very anxious around people . I don’t have a stuttering problem but around certain ppl I do

    • @animdoodle
      @animdoodle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ya I blush a lot and it tends to get in the way of what I say

    • @Lincorn1
      @Lincorn1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Man i say the dumbest things sometimes bc im anxious and can't think straight.

    • @venus4685
      @venus4685 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      SavageGirl30 Girlie that’s no where close to stuttering

  • @Fsdomii
    @Fsdomii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm in 7th grade and I've been stuttering since I was 4. Hearing his words are very heart warming ❤️

  • @pattylabell2166
    @pattylabell2166 5 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    Steve ain't lying. What he says makes so much sense.

    • @kryssiewoo51
      @kryssiewoo51 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It is for real. As a woman who stutters, when I was younger I had to tell myself 3 times what I was gonna say out loud to even direct a taxi cab driver. People don't understand the mental push you have to constantly give urself just to let the words come out how you think it! But I AK telling you it worked, not all the time but most of the time till now...u don't even know unless am mad that I actually stutter.

  • @tirnanogconscious-centered9142
    @tirnanogconscious-centered9142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +574

    I'm a therapist but I agree with Steve. When therapist
    haven't experienced certain things all they have to fall back on are theories. Personal experience counts for a lot. That is why my methods are not conventional. You must get to know the person so that you can support them as an individual. Steve is doing such a great job.

    • @seerking
      @seerking 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Natalie Wilson everything you learn is neurological, everything you think and do and smell and move, every single function and feeling is neurological. So saying its neurological doesnt really day much. Having thr ability to see and me typing right this second every single movements and press and accuracy and everything is neurological. When your sleeping its neurological. When you wet the bed or pee or poop its neurological. When your afraid or happy or excited or horny. Its neurological l. When you heal after a workout ita neurological, anxiety is neurological. Anyone that dates stuttering is neurological is correct. But it doesn't mean they are neurologically broken. It doesnt mean they have brain damage or nervous system damage at all. Unless you have physical evidence from a doctor that ran scans on your brain that says u have brain damage it's not because of that. But every function will always be neurological. Lol

    • @searat2
      @searat2 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi I had 3 TBI. Do you think that the neurological pattern of speech is different. Like from people who stutter from anxiety? I heard myself recorded at speech before and the breatheing and pattern of the speech is difffferent. IE the rate and

    • @Babymac24
      @Babymac24 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't agree with him and I've stuttered my entire life. Different strokes for different folks I guess.

  • @LonjeMarie7
    @LonjeMarie7 6 ปีที่แล้ว +696

    I sometimes stutter,and what works for me is if I literally stop and restart the sentence then the stuttering completely goes away ,maybe this is the same principle,And I stutter more of course when I’m nervous or anxious

    • @reginapeet6648
      @reginapeet6648 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That's me too, only when I'm anxious, nervous, or upset.

    • @tianamiller6820
      @tianamiller6820 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I stutter when i sm nervous or speaking to peoplr im not familiar with or uncomfortable being in the presence of and also sometimes i speak really fast when telling a story which doednt help. Making a conscious effort to think about what youre going to say and speaking a bit slower definitely helps

    • @reginapeet6648
      @reginapeet6648 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Fantastic View thanks for advice, I'll do that.

    • @mirandaarchbold
      @mirandaarchbold 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Once I start to stutter I restructure what I was planning to say on a whole lol

    • @desmondokyere
      @desmondokyere 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me too.i was born with this.my dad stutter too

  • @JayDavante
    @JayDavante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The courage to speak and still ask Steve her question is truly remarkable and inspiring. Most humans wouldn't have even been able to build up the courage to even ask Steve a question because the fear of stuttering then being judged is so powerful

  • @aramedt
    @aramedt 6 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    She’s beautiful, hope you’ll be able to overcome it love. You’re gorgeous, you can do this.

  • @Sha-Niyah
    @Sha-Niyah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    I stutter as well and this made me so emotional 😭✨

    • @willicollins2069
      @willicollins2069 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We should talk . I stutter too

    • @angelomordini6779
      @angelomordini6779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sha-Niyah Ortiz it’s hard but we get through it, do you slur too? I do

    • @GTBadGyaal
      @GTBadGyaal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sha-Niyah Ortiz UGH YES GIRLLLL

    • @GTBadGyaal
      @GTBadGyaal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      YOUR SO PRETTTYYYYYY

    • @blackwinter963
      @blackwinter963 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sending you lots of positive energy Hun.

  • @tytaylor8762
    @tytaylor8762 6 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    When I was younger I had a severe stuttering problem. The elementary school I attended put me in the special needs class and treated it like a disability and kept me separate from the regular classes. I felt ashamed of it. I did work hard to overcome it.

    • @milirodriguez8493
      @milirodriguez8493 6 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Glad to hear that you didnt let that get to you.I heard a quote from a tv show called Once Upon A Time that said, "people are going to tell you who you are your whole life,but you just have to step back and say 'no,this is who I am' ".Prove youre not just a guy who stutters but much more in you.

    • @Z1nny
      @Z1nny 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So happy for you Ty. I have a brother who used to stutter badly when we were kids.
      He was told he couldn't have a career that involved a lot of talking. With hardwork and support he overcame. Now he's a senior manager in a fortune 500 company and a college professor.
      All the best Ty.

    • @aimeeolivia2382
      @aimeeolivia2382 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ty Taylor there is nothing wrong with you . I had hearing loss all of my life . I had been to special education since elementary school and middle school . I went to regular high school and college . My mother said school district didn’t help me that much until I got to high school . My high school , deaf and hard of hearing program helped me so much and dedicated teachers helped me through 4 years . I said to myself I felt a normal person and very smart person . My son is autism and so lucky he can talk . He goes regular classes and few special education classes. I was thankful for that.

    • @KmoneyPG
      @KmoneyPG 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ty Taylor 👏👍👌 I’m glad that you handled it well and stayed strong good job bro

    • @Maasai-El
      @Maasai-El 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ty, many people think stuttering is a mental issue. Its mental but not from a clinical standpoint. The problem with speech therapy is that they focus speech dysfluency and not the cure. In other words you have to begin at the root and not the fruit.

  • @user-rn1ix9or3f
    @user-rn1ix9or3f 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I bet she cried becuz she feel being understood. That's empower more than telling how to fix it. I can see the hope in her eyes. This is so beautiful. This is the big moment.

  • @dollhousexoxo6904
    @dollhousexoxo6904 5 ปีที่แล้ว +293

    She had such a calm and beautiful aura surrounding her💫

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I would love the hell out of her. She needs to be my wife.

    • @seerking
      @seerking 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That is so fake. Auras like the new age ppl think of are not at all how they are. Everything has an aura in some respect. It's just a vibration of energy that can be measured scientifically actually. It's not beautiful or not beautiful. It's just science. It's just their. It's a byproduct of the material and aroms and electricity. You cant describe it as calm and beautiful because it's not visible and no they dont have colors and no they dont have feelings to it. You cant taste it, smell it, see it or feel it as calm or wild. You can feel it in the sense of their being an airy mass though. Sorry I just coudlnt keep quiet because that comment is not authentic.

    • @KtotheG
      @KtotheG 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@seerking Positive energy is beautiful, though. It's peaceful.

  • @ohmygosh4761
    @ohmygosh4761 6 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    Imagine that Steven did more for her in minutes than her therapist did in years. Sometimes its experience and someone who's been there that can help. God bless her such a beautiful soul

    • @TyTyslickster
      @TyTyslickster 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're quite right , I've been there and it can be very disheartening.

    • @ohmygosh4761
      @ohmygosh4761 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TyTyslickster 😍 Don't let it get you down. People can be heartless

  • @Troublelinktv
    @Troublelinktv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +376

    Steve you the man

    • @ricardosantiago3489
      @ricardosantiago3489 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you just said what I felt!! He the man!

    • @Troublelinktv
      @Troublelinktv 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ricardosantiago3489 right on point

    • @here4852
      @here4852 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Big mouth ref 😂

  • @braziltokyoschool
    @braziltokyoschool 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a brave woman to show herself off. I'm proud of her!
    God be praised

  • @746nubianqueen
    @746nubianqueen 6 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Any man that’s gets her should realize his blessing, with her stutter or without. Her positive vibe, intellect, personality and loving kindness leaped off of this video. May God bless her with her hearts desire! #ThanksSteve

    • @gregoryjohnson4319
      @gregoryjohnson4319 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen. The Beauty of her spirit is undeniable.

  • @ClassE-Therapy
    @ClassE-Therapy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +606

    She's so darn adorable and beautiful! Stunning young lady!!🤗

  • @richardgates3439
    @richardgates3439 6 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    Her laugh, confidence, and beauty are very attractive and infectious! A man is a fool not to try a relationship with her. She's quality!

    • @chrisdorsey2304
      @chrisdorsey2304 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yessa! Makes me wish I was in Los Angeles

  • @zakariabdallah1868
    @zakariabdallah1868 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I've watched this severally but anytime I'm watching, when it gets to the point where she's tearing, my tears flows

  • @ushyamamoto7098
    @ushyamamoto7098 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3263

    Stutter is from overthinking and low self esteem it manifests as a stutter

    • @crystalmethany3245
      @crystalmethany3245 5 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      I overthink cause of ocd and have a very low self esteem and i stutter severely Thank you for telling me this i had no idea

    • @sarahhand9179
      @sarahhand9179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +239

      No its not, It can be caused neurologically or because of genes. I got my stammer from my dad

    • @Kriana-fp5kk
      @Kriana-fp5kk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I Had That than I stopped with over thinking and now I'm dumb🤣

    • @crystalmethany3245
      @crystalmethany3245 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sarahhand9179 whats a stammer?

    • @sarahhand9179
      @sarahhand9179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@crystalmethany3245same thing as a stutter just a different word

  • @kathleenblight5071
    @kathleenblight5071 6 ปีที่แล้ว +99

    We want updates on this beautiful lady! Please let us know how she gets on with your suggestions. This lady just pulls the heart strings :)

    • @TyTyslickster
      @TyTyslickster 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes this definitely deserves an update, because I definitely feel her pain. An Steve wasn't lying , because my cousin use to look at me the same way. Also in class during elementary school teachers would look at me like that and I felt so bad, I just thank God I've over come this .

    • @candacewilliams3717
      @candacewilliams3717 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kathleen Blight her name is missalanieous on insta

  • @kevinac1
    @kevinac1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    This woman is so beautiful 😍 💯🙌🏾

    • @leilam.a6701
      @leilam.a6701 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kevin Curtis so beautiful.

    • @kevinac1
      @kevinac1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Layla Ahmed and so are you 😉😍💯

    • @GreenBanana675
      @GreenBanana675 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👏🏾❤

    • @ryanferrier2227
      @ryanferrier2227 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes she is beautiful

  • @devspace718
    @devspace718 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Watched this and it filled me with so much hope about overcoming my stutter.
    Thanks, Steve Harvey! 😊

  • @1grandadventure37
    @1grandadventure37 6 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I have no more stutter."If they don't have enough time to listen to you,they aren't important enough to talk to at all." It is a physical habit of learned responses. Breathe. Think of yourself as brave. Practice is important I did this in front of the mirror too!Lastly, pray!

  • @cjayconrod
    @cjayconrod 5 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    This really resonated with me, as a former stutterer. Speech therapy really did help me. I was never told to avoid words. I was forced to take my time and calm down. Anxiety really is a big part of the problem.

    • @jadamcmillan9344
      @jadamcmillan9344 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      💚

    • @JayDavante
      @JayDavante 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      When people say to calm down, and breathe, and take your time that makes things worse

    • @cjayconrod
      @cjayconrod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@JayDavante In actual conversation, yes, that would increase anxiety. But we practiced it over an be over in speech therapy, until it was second nature. You find you're telling yourself what you need to hear before anyone can.

    • @cjayconrod
      @cjayconrod 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @DenRock Ent. Only occasionally.

    • @2jcward
      @2jcward ปีที่แล้ว

      I was wondering if anxiety was part of it, like public speaking.

  • @mrsdeannawilliams9282
    @mrsdeannawilliams9282 6 ปีที่แล้ว +148

    I feel very emotional and this is one of the reasons why I love Steve Harvey he is a Doctor of life. As a child I had a speech impediment and I stuttered horribly. Today this is something that people would be surprised to know about me. Please treat people with compassion it’s so much easier to simply be kind.

    • @chinemeremudoh3732
      @chinemeremudoh3732 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes it is dear. Yes it is!

    • @TyTyslickster
      @TyTyslickster 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I had this same problem in elementary all the way up to Junior High school. It is curable 👍

  • @arkohgeorge9136
    @arkohgeorge9136 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I call you Steve the genius..you encourage me with teaching the world with all the bitter experiences you have been through to making the world a better place..God bless you and keep for us...

  • @PowerPuffGurl86
    @PowerPuffGurl86 6 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    This was really helpful. My son has had a stutter for years. He's 9 now. I'm going to use these tips.

    • @SamSam-ns4is
      @SamSam-ns4is 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Temeka Chapman show him this video

    • @yaboijuan4052
      @yaboijuan4052 6 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Im 23 now and I've stuttered since i was 5. I urge you to be as supportive as you possibly can. Unfortunately my mom never understood how i felt having this stutter and it effected me in school and i went through alot of depression. Please do your research and practice with your son everyday. If you don't, that stutter will eat him alive from the inside. I know from experience. Goodluck to you and your son.

    • @ellevaughan7180
      @ellevaughan7180 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I used to stutter and I promise you everything he said was true! Now people compliment me all the time on how well I speak.

    • @yaboijuan4052
      @yaboijuan4052 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ellevaughan7180 mind sharing how you got better? I still stutter to this day. Some days are worse than others. But i think everyone here can benefit from your experience an how you got better, including me.

    • @bfrank715
      @bfrank715 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Shay I think you’re going to be just fine in your own time. I stuttered for about 17yrs. It was emotionally draining to have conversations with people who all assumed I was “dumb” smh. I wrote things down a lot and reread them out loud... I’m 29 now and hardly stutter. It’s a daily effort. I know you’re going to get through it by God’s grace

  • @dedranaemaxwell1346
    @dedranaemaxwell1346 6 ปีที่แล้ว +325

    She is so freaking gorgeous ❤️❤️❤️

  • @vaakoextrav9400
    @vaakoextrav9400 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    2:07 when she start to not stutter that made me so happy to hear her sounding so happy about herself

  • @tinybubbles9850
    @tinybubbles9850 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    thank thank you THANK YOU for this vid
    myself i stuffer a lot i never watched u in my life but this is my first vid that i watched of u really made me cry a lot
    thank you so much!!!...

  • @RP-ez2jm
    @RP-ez2jm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    She is just so sweet, well-spoken, and beautiful. I wouldn't even be able to hear the stutter.

  • @dr.dermixgirlmd7479
    @dr.dermixgirlmd7479 6 ปีที่แล้ว +601

    Her stuttering literally got better within 5 minutes!!

    • @apotebill
      @apotebill 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Dr Dermix Girl I noticed that too

    • @TheIceMurder2
      @TheIceMurder2 6 ปีที่แล้ว +87

      Lol it's obvious you don't stutter. Stutterers have good moments and bad moments, it's not like they stutter 24/7. Not trying to be mean BTW just saying.

    • @roseofsharon1009
      @roseofsharon1009 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

      I think he made her feel comfortable too.

    • @Zach-qs2bw
      @Zach-qs2bw 6 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Having a stutter is like playing Russian roulette but instead of fearing that the next time you pull the trigger the gun will fire the bullet you fear thatthe next time you try and speak you'll stutter and just like everytime you pull the trigger of the gun it doesn't fire every time you speak you don't always stutter

    • @007Fusiion
      @007Fusiion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think she went into fight mode and 'performed on stage'

  • @chobitsie
    @chobitsie 5 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    this made me emotional and i don't have a stutter.
    she seems like such a kind person and i hope she's doing great!!

    • @francoiswilliams815
      @francoiswilliams815 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Allison W she made me cry as well

    • @MissAlanieous
      @MissAlanieous 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm glad this was segment was able to touch you in some way. I'm doing ok, could be better but I am grateful and blessed to be where I am.

    • @anneruthgjelsas938
      @anneruthgjelsas938 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MissAlanieous Thank you for your openness and courage of talking about your stutter! I wonder if you at this point of life experience that the stuttering is totally gone? I ask as a speech and language therapist student who is very interested in Steve seeming to be so sure that there is a cure, as I have heard many people who stutter saying that they have tried "everything", and still stutter at least to some degree in some situations - that it does not go away completely. These people who stutter find comfort in accepting that they speak differently. For the record: I do not find stuttering as a wrong way of speeking, just different, and I hope the society changes it's view and standards for what is the the "right" way to speech. Your story is an important contribution to this cause! 👏🏼 Thank you again!☺️

  • @cocoadollcustoms4292
    @cocoadollcustoms4292 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She made me cry immediately I can feel her heart through the phone . Bless her

  • @LeAnnWatson1378
    @LeAnnWatson1378 5 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    She seems such a beautiful person inside and out...
    Her tears are not from pain...but from the healing Steve brought to her....

  • @MrCarl007
    @MrCarl007 6 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    And she seems like a very smart young lady too! I'm glad Steve is able to give her some pointers to help her. Her whole life is about to change. Good for her. Way to go Steve. I wanna be like Steve when I grow up.

  • @zzzroxyzzz
    @zzzroxyzzz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +265

    It's like her whole life no one told her she could get over it. That's what's sad to me. That's a strong woman right there

    • @ivantheterribler8346
      @ivantheterribler8346 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You don't know what your talking about.

    • @zzzroxyzzz
      @zzzroxyzzz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ivantheterribler8346 yeah... flip that, are you not paying attention to what you're watching?

    • @ivantheterribler8346
      @ivantheterribler8346 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@zzzroxyzzz get over what? You don't know what you're talking about.

    • @ivantheterribler8346
      @ivantheterribler8346 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@zzzroxyzzz yeah i know what im watching. Im watching a desperate women who doesn't love herself. Steve harvey should be telling her to love herself and not give her quick fixes to stop stutter.

    • @zzzroxyzzz
      @zzzroxyzzz 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ivantheterribler8346 it's a habit developed from issues that need to be addressed individually per each person's unique reason they find themselves stuttering... to break a bad habit one needs to be aware of when it rears its head the most..

  • @RubanPillaiClips
    @RubanPillaiClips 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    As a person who stutters there are pros and cons to this video. it's brought awareness but the techniques Steve shows are temporary and can trivialise the difficulties it causes.

    • @kuhsewbee
      @kuhsewbee ปีที่แล้ว

      Majority of the time people's (affect?/effect?)'s are different.

    • @NiskaMagnusson
      @NiskaMagnusson ปีที่แล้ว

      "different strokes for different people". Is there a specific technique you might suggest instead? I'm happy to do a bit of googling.

  • @ItsKendraP
    @ItsKendraP 6 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It’s amazing that she stutters but her way of speaking is so eloquent.. I love her voice, she has a beautiful smile and a warm personality. The fact that she was so brave and shared her story is admiring!! Steve is great for this!!

  • @davonhurn
    @davonhurn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    This one segment should have went Viral!!!! God Blessed Steve to help her! She’s beautiful inside and out, man this is the way to let God use you to help your brother or sister. Her tears are tears of Joy! The one clip has truly blessed me.

  • @Scarletraven87
    @Scarletraven87 6 ปีที่แล้ว +132

    She's such a sweetheart

  • @MrRedhogg
    @MrRedhogg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Immediately I could tell this young lady is a gem of a woman! You are one of the sweetest ladies I have ever seen on this show. I like your voice, your face your complexion your hair your eyes your height, how you speak, how soft you are as a person, your gentleness your humbleness. I don't think there is anything I did not like about you! You will not be single for long, I guarantee it! You are a refreshing sight to see! So great to see there are still women like you around! Thank God for you!

  • @deltal5846
    @deltal5846 6 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Steve has been alot of pain during his life...that’s why he’s such a masterpiece and a really great man... the lady is so cute and beautiful, no one should be ashamed of themselves , everyone can develop themselves and get over things ... im so happy she came out confidently and told Steve about her issue.

  • @tanakalancytunduwe5332
    @tanakalancytunduwe5332 6 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    You the best Steve I really admire what you did to her.

  • @shrondasmith7544
    @shrondasmith7544 6 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    She is beautiful and has a kind spirit about herself...

  • @mmiltenburg
    @mmiltenburg 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I stutter myself and feel really touched by this. It is such a struggle through life, but it also made me strong.

  • @sophiawishes3208
    @sophiawishes3208 5 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    Maaan I absolutely love Steve, I’m sold! He is a great person genuinely.

    • @mikamac724
      @mikamac724 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes he is!!!

    • @roycey32
      @roycey32 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can't help be think how beautiful it is you feel that way. Can't help but also think that... Unfortunately... In TODAY'S times, let ONE thing come out on him and; one "ALLEGED" indecent or accusation, and everybody who says this will turn on him... On a DIME. #sadSADworld

    • @49Princesse
      @49Princesse 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He does have a beautiful and humble heart 💝🙏

  • @N2000N.
    @N2000N. 6 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Can i please just admire how GORGEOUS she is!! #wow! #👑😍😍

    • @phara0h6nyne56
      @phara0h6nyne56 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Noki's Kitchen can I please join you?

    • @danield3513
      @danield3513 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Noki's Kitchen let us both because I said the same thing those dudes who turned her down is dumb this girl is gorgeous.

    • @vibrationalcurrency
      @vibrationalcurrency 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We need an update on her progress

  • @lexdave5758
    @lexdave5758 5 ปีที่แล้ว +82

    This actually can help with other social skills. Love it Steve

  • @jr_moodie
    @jr_moodie 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so moving, as a person who stutters too I always come back to this video its such an inspiration for us stutters and for who doesn't to respect each other, this truly resonates with me 🙏🏿 thank you Steve!

  • @kerrylarry8110
    @kerrylarry8110 6 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I just loved how he just lifted her and let her know how to go through the steps. The reminds me of a grown man I helped. He didn't know how to read and no one would take the time out to help him. I was the only who understood because when I didnt know how to read I was taught how to read. When I say he could not pronounce words that's how bad it was. I helped him to sound it out and he knew how to read from there. He told me thank you he has graduated from college because of me helping him if I didn't help he would still be in the same place. I say that to say sometimes we have to help those who needs help and I had to help him I knew he wanted to read.

    • @star-lord5963
      @star-lord5963 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow you were very kind to help him. I don't know if I know many people who would take the actual time and dedication to teach someone how to read. God bless you man (or woman)!

  • @hmm12336
    @hmm12336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    I was a stutterer till I was 19 where i could barely talk ,way worse than this girl and hid from everyone .Hypnotherapy and talking to anyone and everyone helped me .I also volunteered in jobs where I could communicate with people more .By 24 i was fine but stuttered when I was nervous and now in my early 30s i don't stutter at all .
    Any stutterers out there ,don't give up ,u will be alright 🤙

    • @christineowori750
      @christineowori750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'm happy for you Dillon L! I like the part where you said you put yourself out there. Sometimes the way to go is to throw ourselves in front of the very things that terrify us. And face our fears head on. Thanks for sharing.

    • @hmm12336
      @hmm12336 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@christineowori750 🤗

    • @christineowori750
      @christineowori750 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@hmm12336 ❤️❤️ God bless you

    • @hmm12336
      @hmm12336 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@christineowori750 you too ,take care

    • @itsyaboidaboi2545
      @itsyaboidaboi2545 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Christine Owori thank you for that comment bro I am a 14 year old who started stuttering recently and I am doing my best to stop it.

  • @Mrslorri1
    @Mrslorri1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    That's it girl!! When you confront and expose a problem the demise of the problem is sure to vanish completely, that stuttering is as good as gone!

  • @ntongaitimothy824
    @ntongaitimothy824 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Wahoo. African ladies are blessed with beauty, thankyou God. Am in Kenya and loved her much. Welcome back home Kenya Mdm Alanie.

  • @slyyw4181
    @slyyw4181 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Honestly this is the only type of content I’d like to see on my feed for TH-cam , just positivity and uplifting each other

  • @shatyaboyd7671
    @shatyaboyd7671 6 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The entire time my eyes were watery. I struggle with stuttering myself. I so needed this Thank you so much sweetie for being so brave and thank you as well Steve for the advice.

    • @Howtonaturally
      @Howtonaturally 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A lot of people in the comments agree it's more of an anxiety thing. So maybe find out how to overcome social anxiety. Books, classes, online etc. Maybe practice steves advice too.

    • @shatyaboyd7671
      @shatyaboyd7671 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Howtonaturally Thank you!

  • @blackspider1405
    @blackspider1405 6 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    And she's beautiful.. made me tear up a little bit..

  • @JasmineNicoleCogdell
    @JasmineNicoleCogdell 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This made me tear up! SHE’S SO BEAUTIFUL 😭😍💗 God bless you Steve for helping her feel more comfortable!!! 🤗💗

  • @peterpeter872
    @peterpeter872 6 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    She's so Adorable, thanks Steve!

  • @gigirene1591
    @gigirene1591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +204

    She is beyond beautiful ❤️

    • @delanoblanco2248
      @delanoblanco2248 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You too😘

    • @gigirene1591
      @gigirene1591 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Delano Blanco thank you😘

    • @delanoblanco2248
      @delanoblanco2248 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gigirene1591 forgive me for asking but do yo- yo- You stu- stu- stu- stuttering to-to- too?

    • @gigirene1591
      @gigirene1591 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Delano Blanco no I don’t

    • @Bajannubian095
      @Bajannubian095 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She’s gorgeous

  • @MrsBryant1024
    @MrsBryant1024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1003

    What a beautiful brave young lady. My goodness she's gorgeous. The man for her will find her. In Jesus name. 🙏

    • @corneliuschelimo3609
      @corneliuschelimo3609 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She will for sure...the beauty is amazing

    • @okeliaskyers2462
      @okeliaskyers2462 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She did... she came back on the show, she found love.. he is another guy that stutters too

    • @viva6235
      @viva6235 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Damn right, she's beautiful. I want a girl like her.

    • @GinoNL
      @GinoNL 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t want to be mean, but she ugly and religion is man-made. Sorry for the correction.

    • @viva6235
      @viva6235 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@GinoNL Lmao, very funny

  • @amstecy8444
    @amstecy8444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Steve. My name is Ebenezer Gweth from Kenya and am 7 years old. Am using my mum's phone and she let me use her fone to thank you. So today while playing with my friend, they laughed at me when I stuttering, the always do but today I felt very bad. I went home and told my mum and she showed me this video that made me feel better and I cried. From today I will also help other children like me by telling other parents to teach their children not to laugh at others who are stuttering.