Steve’s Powerful and Personal Response to Stuttering
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 14 ต.ค. 2018
- When an audience member shared her struggle with stuttering, Steve got personal and shared his own battle in the past.
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If someone doesn’t want you because of a speech impediment they don’t deserve you.
I agree wholeheartedly
Or maybe men want a regular convo...
I believe so too..bottom line is that we are all human beings.
Good communication is key.
@@TravelerVolkriin Then men should talk. A person's stuttering doesn't keep them from being able to have a conversation.
When she started crying, she didn’t stutter and she said a lot
JaM EvolvE
It’s only certain words that causes a stutter
She was relaxed
One of my soldiers studder and you can tell she is so uncomfortable but no one makes her feel bad we understand
My mom used to tell me, if I'm anxious that I'm going to stutter, I will. Relax and take my time, it's the best advice I've ever gotten. I say the same thing about driving a car, if you feel like you're driving badly you will lol it's all anxiety, it's hard to break but it takes time. Nothing is wrong it just takes practice to relax yourself
My son stutter i just tell him to slow down and relax then he dont stutter
I was so impressed that he took time out of the show to help this person! He knew the pain she was going through and he knew he could help her overcome it! That's a good heart!
Her starmering is fair compare to mine, but i thank God it didn't stop me from achieving my dream. I practice medicine now
@@sicklecellman2456 That is fantastic!
When she started crying that was her finally talking to someone who truly understands how she feels and can articulate her feelings 💜
Her stuttering was basically gone after he told her there was nothing wrong with her haha. I hope she's doing ok
Also in her monologue at the beginning the stuttering went after about 15seconds. Comes from thinking too much
My brother has stutters. When he gets nervous or has to say a big sentence it gets so bad
I have a very mild stutter when I'm nervous, especially when I have to present something in front of other people. I always think about what I want to say next and how I'm going to say it, while I haven't even finished the first sentence. I stumble across words, mix them up, miss them, repeat them, and so on. I think it can't really be considered stuttering, because I experience it not that often, but I'm not sure, really. There's also a reason to why this happens to me, I guess: when I was smaller, I always used to talk a lot, for example when I wanted to tell about something really exciting. But some people that were close to me at that time and who I looked up to interrupted me every time to tell me how boring it was to listen to me, because it took me so long to tell something. But since I didn't want to leave out important aspects, I began to talk faster, so that they wouldn't have to wait too long. :/
This was great, I have been researching "why do i stutter a lot" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Rincaas Stammify Blocker - (do a google search ) ? Ive heard some extraordinary things about it and my co-worker got amazing results with it.
I'm screaming hahahaha
She stuttered as she began telling her story of how stuttering is affecting her dating life, she stopped stuttering when she was giving praise to Steve, then started stuttering again when she closed her opening question by asking how she can personally get over this. When she internalizes she stutters. She was so sure of Steve but didn't have the same confidence in herself. I hope she builds the confidence she deserves to see how beautiful and significant she is.
Great observation
I noticed that as well.
hmalikfnp my ex friend used to stutter too. I think it was related to childhood trauma and insecurity. Now she’s in college and has her own apartment with her friends. We aren’t friends anymore but she seems happy and I’d noticed as we got older her stuttering had gotten better. So I hope that having more life experiences, growing up, and becoming her own person has helped ❤️
hmalikfnp yes I noticed that as well
hmalikfnp like she's hot😍
It’s so true. Unless you have a stutter you don’t really know the frustration of not being able to finish your sentence. I watched this about 3 months ago (I had a very bad stutter) and after trying this I stutter only occasionally instead of during each sentence. I’m so glad I came across this video because it has really changed my life
im very happy for you. i still stutter and have done so since i was 9. it really is painful and especially when you look around and see how people just talk freely without any blocks, extensions or repetitions. anyway, im happy you managed to get rid of it :)
@@BohemPlus same feeling bro :(
@@BohemPlus same. It's plagued me my whole life. Speaking on the phone is the most difficult -- I usually get hung up on before I can eek out, "I sssssssssssspeak with a stttttttttutter, please bbbbbbbbbbeeeee patient." Humans are so cruel. The only time my speech is 100% fluent without any prolongations or blocks is when I'm singing, so this is truly my preferred way of communication.
I stutter really bad and what he said made me cry with this 😭❤️
Me too❤️
I feel your pain..hopefully we overcome this struggle ♥️
Same here❤️
U ok ❤️💕
You don't have to feel bad okay, you are wonderfully made Trust me.
As a stutterer myself I feel this is inspiring. There is nothing wrong with you, Steve is right
Me too bro
@R3CK3Digau lol
There's nothing wrong with anyone who stutters. May God bless everybody and cure anyone of any thing they may feel holds them back in a spiritual, mental, physical, social, or emotion way.
Feeling insecure about something is the start of individuals believing that something is wrong with them. First thing is to understand that we all may find things wrong with our selfs but we need to know that nothing is wrong with us and we are all great people. Psychologically we have to believe that the things we won't to cure ourselves from is possible but we just have to believe and try to get better at it day by day.
You should’ve thrown in a wee typing stutter for comedic effect
She’s amazing for stepping out of her box🙌🏽
Yes very brave on national television, and she will be rewarded for it. In JESUS NAME
@@TyTy-fi7sm yes indeed!!
Yes very brave much respect to her
I stutter too
Precious Jewlz yesssssssss ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I know Steve's a jokester but I love his serious side. I'm glad he's motivating and helping people.
"Slow down, breathe, and talk slowly makes things worse" A lot of people tend to tell people this but a person that stutters hears this and trys to apply what they heard and definitely stutters more. It has to be a better way to speak to people that have a stutter without causing them to think more and then stutter some more. To everyone that has a stutter I just was to tell you that I love you and I'm here for you the best way that I can be. I truly don't see anything wrong with anyone that stutters and I just want to tell everyone with a stutter that you are great and special because God made you.. If everyone makes you feel bad or can't accept you for stuttering they don't know or love God. ❤️
My boyfriend stutters and I don’t give a damn , I love him 👌
go head my sista!!!!🤗
Jasmyne... That's so sweet. Both of my brothers used to stutter. There was absolutely Nothing wrong with them. They just had to learn how to slow down before speaking.
My step dad stutters a lot too and I'm. Not his bio child but it has affected my brothers I it's kind of like.. We picked up on tht speach. I stutter sometimes but it's like Steve says.. U expect ur gonna stutter so u do.
Lucky dude... wit yo fine ass
What a sweet lady. Bless you both.
She's too beautiful to be treated the wrong way.
So ugly people can be treated the wrong way?
@@codyc722 no obviously... thats not what hes saying
Ford Racing '82 Yeah
she's ugly though?
Ryan Zad just because you find her ugly doesn’t mean she is
I'm in 7th grade and I've been stuttering since I was 4. Hearing his words are very heart warming ❤️
Everything Steve said, especially about other people look at the stutterer is totally true. What's worse is when they make a joke about it, I've been in more fights about that than anything else. People who don't stutter, have no idea what people who do stutter go through on a daily basis.
When someone like Steve Harvey comes around, and shows you what he or she used to quit stuttering. It's like a breath of fresh air.
My sister stutters and it hurts when she thinks people judge so she closes up and stops talking ☹️😭😭
Hayla JAS show her this video
Show her this video, and tell her to be free
Lol 😂
I feel bad for her.
Hayla JAS tell her she isnt the only one, and that it becomes easier to control. My stutter is horrible, to where every 2-4 words i stutter, but i have learned to either push through it with deep breaths or learn new words that won’t impede my speech
This girl is so powerful and beautiful
New Creation Powerful in terms of what? Is she God?
Sheera Abd you don’t have to be God to be powerful and beautiful. This girl is an example.
So powerful !! Thank u beautiful black Queen for being so strong on national TV and Steve Harvey u are amazing !!!!! You are blessed and delivered ! Hope is what I saw, and I know u will be delivered!
I dont stutter but i swear this helped me to be more mindful of how i treat and interact with people.
May God bless you.
I do
I stutter alot when im stressed out
it took a video to teach you not to be disrespectful to all kinds of people?
@@thelasttime684 honey i was never disrespectful. I was just uneducated. Sometimes people think they choose the right words when in fact they did not. I always try to be respectful when interacting with different folks. I could never be mean to someone becUse of something as small as a speech impediment but now i know that the stutter is not there because they are nervous so me telling them "its ok. Calm down" is not as kind and patient as i thought it was. Its ignorant.
I hope tomorrow when you wake up you know not to just jump down people's throats with such a negative output when they say they want to do better. Its unbecoming of a decent human being and comes off as argumentative.
Hope this helps.
As an ex-stutterer, i find this very inspirational! I have learned a lot from steve harvey. His tips + what i learned from this course 'never stutter again' by john isaac really helped me get rid of stuttering. now im teaching my son what i learned from john isaac and steve harvey.
Thanks so much!.. 😊 I needed that. I stutter whenever I get excited, angry, or nervous; my tongue jumps as if; the nerves in it goes haywire. And it's so embarrassing to me. So again; Thanks for the heads up!
Can u give some of the tips u learned from john isaac?
Fffffffffofo foreal?
@@FaisalAhmed-cy8zb Hi Ahmed. You can join his newsletter, he shares tips every day to subscribers :)
@@godofd3rpz19 yooo you wildin
As a person who stutters there are pros and cons to this video. it's brought awareness but the techniques Steve shows are temporary and can trivialise the difficulties it causes.
Majority of the time people's (affect?/effect?)'s are different.
"different strokes for different people". Is there a specific technique you might suggest instead? I'm happy to do a bit of googling.
I feel this. I stutter, I stutter when I get emotional. Everything Steve said is true and I haven’t been to therapy, I’ve just dealt with it. I will try these things . Thank you Steve. Thank you for this brave beautiful young woman. Thank you.
This made me cry heavy. She's beautiful ♡
Yaaaaazzzzz....She showed so much grace, power by simply speaking her truth
I wanna like your comment but it’s at 200 and I don’t wanna ruint it
Yes she is.
Absolutely....
@Apfelsaft Nobody asked what you think
That first trick could apply to everyone. We all need to think b4 we talk.
lol this made me chuckle.
Absolutely
wlehtola that’s right
Lol
Yeah, but it’s helpful to her because stuttering is kinda tied to confidence. By saying it to yourself internally, it calms a person down and helps them be more confident with their speech.
The courage to speak and still ask Steve her question is truly remarkable and inspiring. Most humans wouldn't have even been able to build up the courage to even ask Steve a question because the fear of stuttering then being judged is so powerful
I've watched this severally but anytime I'm watching, when it gets to the point where she's tearing, my tears flows
It’s awesome because you never really noticed Steve stuttered until now. ❤️
Alexis Rush yesss I was like wait he stutters lol
Alexis Rush exactly
stutter
Michelle thanks
I think everyone stutters from time to time. My godsister had the same problem as this beautiful black woman in the video had now she doesn't. What she has is very curable. I have a speech impediment problem
She’s so gorgeous I couldn’t imagine how a man wouldn’t want her
Because it's all made up. A guy will want anything with a pocket in between her legs and even if it doesn't. Men can care less about trivial things such as stuttering, anyone from a woman who has half a body to a woman who doesn't have an actual vagina hole has manage to find a mate. Women are the picky daters, they will dislike a guy for the dumbest reasons like he had blonde hair or he has the same name as my brother
R.O.T.C SEEM you sound a little hurt bud
carson preston right???? something tells me this guy has never been laid 😂
Shero Frizzy Head the truth from the perspective of somebody who has had bad experiences with women*
@@R.O.T.C._SEEM ok incel 😑
I stutter all the time and it makes me sooooo mad when people say”why do you stutter”like you can help it
Stuttering is not something that you can “cure” Steve. I have stuttered all of my life. A stuttering person has to learn the ways to get around it. I CAN NOT say my first name if I was not already involved in conversation when I say it. Steve IS right in that the “speech therapists” I had to go to while in school DID NOT stutter! The safeguards I learned about stuttering were taught to me by a compassionate Air Force Basic Training Instructor. He stuttered, and EVERY other Training Instructor (TI) has his back!
Her cry for help in front of millions immediately healed her; it was in her walk (her stride) and in her talk (the joke). Reminded me of the biblical testimony of Blind Bartimaeus.
chosen2serve1 YES THATS WHAT I WAS THINKING!!
Wow, that's powerful. I didn't see it that way... 🤔
chosen2serve1 yessss. Her walk was so beautiful and how she was talking was amazing. She’s an angle in disguise ❤️
an angle in disguise, that’s quite obtuse
jack dyson yeah her cry for help and to do it in front of millions/world. Then on top of that she’s so beautiful
She seems like such a sweet soul and she’s gorgeous a speech impediment shouldn’t even be a problem when it comes to finding love !! She’s precious
I stutter, too... but if I didn't, I would still date her. She's beautiful and seems very sweet.
Things aint
Thank you for your comment. The problem comes with effective communication like tone and expressing how I feel.
I keep watching this segment because this sweet, precious woman is so brave and needs to be highly admired. To face something head on to conquer it is a huge accomplishment. Im proud of her!!
the problem is stuttering is also about constent anxiety..when you live it every day it is very exhausting...it is not just stuttering
Watched this and it filled me with so much hope about overcoming my stutter.
Thanks, Steve Harvey! 😊
This is so moving, as a person who stutters too I always come back to this video its such an inspiration for us stutters and for who doesn't to respect each other, this truly resonates with me 🙏🏿 thank you Steve!
I stuttered a lot and I still do
I’ve tried this method for the past few days and now I find myself to be social to people the normal
Good job Kenny, keep going!
Kenny we stan u
I'm gonna try it myself
Can you give me an update on how you’re doing I have a stutter and I want to know if this method works
I need part 2 from this one . Who else want ?
Abdillahi Abdisamad yesssssss part 2
How gentle and noble this guy is 😍❤️
I appreciate his care with her 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽he took the time to help with her pain and invested his time into her ! That’s a blessing 🙏🏽🙏🏽
'Oh you doing jokes too' so amazing to see. Great job Steve
Tolu1994 ى
That's because he made her relax.
She's an angel 🥺 I hope she's okay now 💓
She’s such a gorgeous kind soul ♥︎
She has a criminal record in 3 states
This made me tear up! SHE’S SO BEAUTIFUL 😭😍💗 God bless you Steve for helping her feel more comfortable!!! 🤗💗
My son is stuttering and he’s about to turn 4 next month. It’s so hard when he’s trying to make small talk and people walk away. They don’t necessarily realize he’s stuck on a word. I’m SO glad to have seen this. His dad used to have speech therapy for a stutter when he was in elementary and I have major anxiety. I’m not proud to say that I’m the person who is a high sprung multitasker and will often finish or interrupt people when there’s the slightest pause. 🤦🏾♀️🥴I’m working on it and practicing meditation and yoga. I just hope not to be to much of a hindrance to my little one’s speech as he grows 😭😭😭
Where do you think your sons stutter came from? Anxiety?
She is the cutest thing I have ever seen in my life.
she doesn't like when people say that.. she is BEAUTIFUL..
I am a sucker for beautiful girls that stammer
@Heidi Wood ...you are a beautiful soul Heidi
She’s so beautiful
TJ KinG Jr ikr . She’s amazing
My daughter stuttered, and it’s def curable!, I was so scared for her, but I prayed , worked with her myself and it stopped!
Amen. God bless you and your daughter.
Kenzita v beurden both !, I’m a spiritual person!, and WE worked hard, and please Parents be Patient!!!!with your kids!nothing wrong with prayer
@Kenzita v beurden Don't start that.
@@asesina6650 I agree.
Always a blessing Mr Steve!
Thanku🙏
I LOVE that she feels empowered sharing her story!!! What a beautiful woman, not only physically! Bless her and Steve!!!
Well he is very correct about the fact that much stuttering is linked to feelings of anxiety. And he is very correct about anticipation being one of the triggers. And, finally, it is an extremely painful, frustrating and demoralizing affliction. I thank God that I was able to completely overcome it.
How did u overcome stuttering if u don't mind
He mentioned it was linked to feelings of anxiety, so maybe find out how to over come social anxiety. Books, courses, online etc.
One of the things I did was confronted my anxiety by placing myself in an intensive group setting (theater company) where I could make friends and come to the realization that it was ok to trust. Yes, there were those who I did not get along with, but overall it was a great experience. I noticed early on that I could speak without stuttering or stammering when talking with those I trusted, yet I had difficulty talking with strangers. Once I understood that it did not matter whether someone liked me or not, I was able to relax and it all finally went away. The other thing I did was to read passages in books outloud. This trained my vocal and breath muscles. It required some exageration of facial and vocal muscles, but it helped a lot. Muscle memory definitely played into my cure, but most was overcoming my anxiety.
I believe that my cure could have been accelerated had I entered some kind of psychological counseling at an early age. Speech therapy was of little value and help with my situation.
I know the pain stutterers experience...and so it is painful for me to watch others who are afflicted with this disorder. But...I believe that in most cases it can be overcome.
I am still stutoring :(
@@glennsohm6643 I stuttered as a child, so much to where I was barely intelligible. Because of this I was psychologically and emotionally abused by one of my teachers who would openly mock my stuttering in front of my peers which, in turn, led to me being bullied and ostracized by my classmates. This teacher, horribly enough, also happened to be my speech therapist and ran an after school program at her house for parents who worked late hours. It's like I couldn't get away from her torment and I was too terrified of her to tell my parents. Fortunately for me, I was able to fully overcome stuttering by age 8 or so, and it was through sheer willpower and determination...definitely not because of any "help" on her part. So, I get what you mean by it being hard to watch/listen to others who stutter. In fact, as soon as the girl in the video started stuttering, I had to immediately pause it because it's almost painful to listen to...it just brings back so many awful feelings and memories. Only a former stutterer will know just how debilitating it can feel. I truly hope she's able to overcome it.
She can overcome it. Steve did, I did and countless others that now have people complimenting our speaking voices. I was a HORRIBLE stutterer when I was young, and for me as I developed confidence, the stuttering lessened. Now it is gone completely. I pray she too will tackle it.
I also stutter and mine goes up when my stress level increases (maybe during exams). All cases are different, it's not just about confidence.
Forgive me, but did I say it was all about one's level of confidence? I said "for me as I developed confidence....."
❤️
Amen
Belinda Joy sane I overcame it. You will too.
I stutter myself and feel really touched by this. It is such a struggle through life, but it also made me strong.
This brought back strong emotions for me. I have always had a speech impediment and its brought on by stress. While most times it's manageable, there are times when it's extremely unbearable and I can barely talk. It's not a stutter, it's a nervous vocal tick and it used to be so bad I could barely talk, especially if I'm talking on the phone. People make fun of you and they don't understand just how paralyzing it can be. It just makes me angry when I see someone clapping or making jokes about people with speech impediments because they have never lived with such a disability like this. It gets really bad. To this day, I still struggle with this vocal tick and even my therapist has noticed it.
She is so freaking gorgeous ❤️❤️❤️
Steve is telling the ABSOLUTE TRUTH, I use to stutter very bad growing up . However for me breathing exercises helped me, I would take a deep breath let it out and answer. Doing this actually helped me relax, and by high school know one could even tell. Even now if I stammer, I take a quick breath and pause and then speak. Steve this really hit home ! GOD BLESS YOU FOR HELPING HER
You made me cry💔💔💔💔i can feel the pain..facing this problems since a long time..Steeve🌟🌟🌟🌟thank you so much for your inspiring words.
This guy's a national treasure. Wonderful advice at the end for those of us who are listening to the person stuttering. 👍
They replaced his show for Kelly Clarkson's. I'm still mad about that. I miss this show. It was full of light and wisdom.
Damn this is amazing. This is what TH-cam is all about.
Rafel Thompson this isn’t what TH-cam is all about. TH-cam is all about gaming vlogs, twerk videos and political antics. I think you wish this is what TH-cam was all about
Shakalaka Bombastic um... TH-cam is about everything, not just limited to that stuff buddy. But then again no arguing with a biased person
GhostFace _ yup
This woman is so beautiful 😍 💯🙌🏾
Kevin Curtis so beautiful.
Layla Ahmed and so are you 😉😍💯
👏🏾❤
Yes she is beautiful
thank thank you THANK YOU for this vid
myself i stuffer a lot i never watched u in my life but this is my first vid that i watched of u really made me cry a lot
thank you so much!!!...
I normally watch this clip several time and it still puts a smile on my face tht is just as bright as i watched this clip at first...
Her laugh, confidence, and beauty are very attractive and infectious! A man is a fool not to try a relationship with her. She's quality!
Yessa! Makes me wish I was in Los Angeles
She's so darn adorable and beautiful! Stunning young lady!!🤗
U r right.. she is stunning
I wish I could find her aaaaaa!
Steve is indeed a gift to mankind 👌
Thank you sir for all you do 🙏
I call you Steve the genius..you encourage me with teaching the world with all the bitter experiences you have been through to making the world a better place..God bless you and keep for us...
She’s beautiful, hope you’ll be able to overcome it love. You’re gorgeous, you can do this.
Aww that was so touching 😩 I really hope this works for her. And even if it doesn’t, I pray she finds a man who can look past it ❤️
It will work for her, he's giving her tools that will definitely work she just has to practice.
Good
The Tide Family may I get her fb id or name I want to marry her...
she will!!!!
It has worked for her. She was on Drew Lynch's TH-cam channel and is doing much better.
This is beautiful and inspiring! Love everything about this!
Love Steve Harvey ❤️. So compassionate.
Damn ! I pray she have an awesome man of God who isn’t fake but love her wholeheartedly and respect her In Jesus name amen YOU WILL BE GOOD SUGA 😉
passion angel God bless her and amen sister what God has for her is for her
Amen !!
Amen...for her and me 🙏🙌💙
Amen!
Amen
I stutter as well and this made me so emotional 😭✨
We should talk . I stutter too
Sha-Niyah Ortiz it’s hard but we get through it, do you slur too? I do
Sha-Niyah Ortiz UGH YES GIRLLLL
YOUR SO PRETTTYYYYYY
Sending you lots of positive energy Hun.
This is beautiful
Steve is so kind! I just love him!
It's like her whole life no one told her she could get over it. That's what's sad to me. That's a strong woman right there
You don't know what your talking about.
@@ivantheterribler8346 yeah... flip that, are you not paying attention to what you're watching?
@@zzzroxyzzz get over what? You don't know what you're talking about.
@@zzzroxyzzz yeah i know what im watching. Im watching a desperate women who doesn't love herself. Steve harvey should be telling her to love herself and not give her quick fixes to stop stutter.
@@ivantheterribler8346 it's a habit developed from issues that need to be addressed individually per each person's unique reason they find themselves stuttering... to break a bad habit one needs to be aware of when it rears its head the most..
Can i please just admire how GORGEOUS she is!! #wow! #👑😍😍
Noki's Kitchen can I please join you?
Noki's Kitchen let us both because I said the same thing those dudes who turned her down is dumb this girl is gorgeous.
We need an update on her progress
Immediately I could tell this young lady is a gem of a woman! You are one of the sweetest ladies I have ever seen on this show. I like your voice, your face your complexion your hair your eyes your height, how you speak, how soft you are as a person, your gentleness your humbleness. I don't think there is anything I did not like about you! You will not be single for long, I guarantee it! You are a refreshing sight to see! So great to see there are still women like you around! Thank God for you!
First of all, bravo to this woman for standing up and asking the question. I could have never been able to do it.
Steve ain't lying. What he says makes so much sense.
It is for real. As a woman who stutters, when I was younger I had to tell myself 3 times what I was gonna say out loud to even direct a taxi cab driver. People don't understand the mental push you have to constantly give urself just to let the words come out how you think it! But I AK telling you it worked, not all the time but most of the time till now...u don't even know unless am mad that I actually stutter.
She's such a sweetheart
She’s so beautiful, and she immediately stopped stuttering when she cried - i wonder why, it’s hard to conceptualize that but it shows she really can get better ... if she wants to
Ah man this one got me. The way the camera switched to Steve after she first begun stuttering and the way he was looking at her. Tears streaming down my face
Tonight I was making an order from Victoria’s Secret, for my family for Christmas, I apologized for stuttering , after my order was confirmed, the person who works for Victoria’s Secret, mentioned at the end he’s was helped by watching this episode, well I watched it , when I stopped crying, I will be using the method you use, I don’t know how to thank the man who helped me, he didn’t have to use his time or courage to enlighten me, he cared!! Wow there are good people in this crazy time!
Much appreciation to the young man who answers calls for VS and to you!! Christy Wegner
Is it working?
TEAM CHRISTY!!!
How you doing, boo?
How are you now?
Aww how cool is that I am so happy for you!! Hope you are doing well Christy!
I sometimes stutter,and what works for me is if I literally stop and restart the sentence then the stuttering completely goes away ,maybe this is the same principle,And I stutter more of course when I’m nervous or anxious
That's me too, only when I'm anxious, nervous, or upset.
I stutter when i sm nervous or speaking to peoplr im not familiar with or uncomfortable being in the presence of and also sometimes i speak really fast when telling a story which doednt help. Making a conscious effort to think about what youre going to say and speaking a bit slower definitely helps
@Fantastic View thanks for advice, I'll do that.
Once I start to stutter I restructure what I was planning to say on a whole lol
me too.i was born with this.my dad stutter too
You´re the best, Steve. Love you, brotha. Keep up the good work. You gotta fan from straight outta Brazil.
Good work, Steve. Very nice.
She's gorgeous
Agreed. Inside and out.
I agree her personality is beautiful it’s sweet and kind feeling
Absolutely!!!
Her stuttering literally got better within 5 minutes!!
Dr Dermix Girl I noticed that too
Lol it's obvious you don't stutter. Stutterers have good moments and bad moments, it's not like they stutter 24/7. Not trying to be mean BTW just saying.
I think he made her feel comfortable too.
Having a stutter is like playing Russian roulette but instead of fearing that the next time you pull the trigger the gun will fire the bullet you fear thatthe next time you try and speak you'll stutter and just like everytime you pull the trigger of the gun it doesn't fire every time you speak you don't always stutter
I think she went into fight mode and 'performed on stage'
So thanks Steve, luv from India
I have stuttered since Childhood. Anytime I meet someone who stutter I feel empathy, and the need to smile and love them is automatic. At 40 I know what it means to stutter.
She had such a calm and beautiful aura surrounding her💫
I would love the hell out of her. She needs to be my wife.
That is so fake. Auras like the new age ppl think of are not at all how they are. Everything has an aura in some respect. It's just a vibration of energy that can be measured scientifically actually. It's not beautiful or not beautiful. It's just science. It's just their. It's a byproduct of the material and aroms and electricity. You cant describe it as calm and beautiful because it's not visible and no they dont have colors and no they dont have feelings to it. You cant taste it, smell it, see it or feel it as calm or wild. You can feel it in the sense of their being an airy mass though. Sorry I just coudlnt keep quiet because that comment is not authentic.
@@seerking Positive energy is beautiful, though. It's peaceful.
I'm a therapist but I agree with Steve. When therapist
haven't experienced certain things all they have to fall back on are theories. Personal experience counts for a lot. That is why my methods are not conventional. You must get to know the person so that you can support them as an individual. Steve is doing such a great job.
Natalie Wilson everything you learn is neurological, everything you think and do and smell and move, every single function and feeling is neurological. So saying its neurological doesnt really day much. Having thr ability to see and me typing right this second every single movements and press and accuracy and everything is neurological. When your sleeping its neurological. When you wet the bed or pee or poop its neurological. When your afraid or happy or excited or horny. Its neurological l. When you heal after a workout ita neurological, anxiety is neurological. Anyone that dates stuttering is neurological is correct. But it doesn't mean they are neurologically broken. It doesnt mean they have brain damage or nervous system damage at all. Unless you have physical evidence from a doctor that ran scans on your brain that says u have brain damage it's not because of that. But every function will always be neurological. Lol
Hi I had 3 TBI. Do you think that the neurological pattern of speech is different. Like from people who stutter from anxiety? I heard myself recorded at speech before and the breatheing and pattern of the speech is difffferent. IE the rate and
I don't agree with him and I've stuttered my entire life. Different strokes for different folks I guess.
Wow ! Steve, you're amazing ! ♥️🙏🏽. Beautiful young lady !
Love this.. So kind Steve.. ❤️❤️
What a beautiful brave young lady. My goodness she's gorgeous. The man for her will find her. In Jesus name. 🙏
She will for sure...the beauty is amazing
She did... she came back on the show, she found love.. he is another guy that stutters too
Damn right, she's beautiful. I want a girl like her.
I don’t want to be mean, but she ugly and religion is man-made. Sorry for the correction.
@@GinoNL Lmao, very funny
I wonder if this helps with social anxiety too. I am going to try this!
same ;-;
Yes I have bad social anxiety sometimes I have to stop for a few seconds which seems like a long time to others ... I’m very anxious around people . I don’t have a stuttering problem but around certain ppl I do
Ya I blush a lot and it tends to get in the way of what I say
Man i say the dumbest things sometimes bc im anxious and can't think straight.
SavageGirl30 Girlie that’s no where close to stuttering
Ooom God,I love the fact that she took the first step.. I know how that feels coz I have been there, I love her. Thumbs up Steve for that impact over her life, God bless you.
So lovely , Steve you amazing
Steve you the man
you just said what I felt!! He the man!
@@ricardosantiago3489 right on point
Big mouth ref 😂
Did anyone noticed
She is damn so pretty 😍😘
It's why I clicked. I was hesitant because I thought she was 15 in the thumbnail. She has a baby face, but a grown woman's body.
@paxumo how ? for calling her pretty ..
I literally called a great painter to draw her in my heart, mind and soul...
That was amazing!
I used to stutter alot when i was a kid and it went on till I left school! My parents, lecturers, friends and even myself thought it was a disorder. I was afraid to speak and face people. I was happier being silent since i accepted something is wrong with me! But it was all in my head! I realized i was nervous and scared when i was a kid, mainly affected by being bullied in school and also heavily criticized by my parents and lecturers regarding how i performed in schoool.
Leaving school, meeting new people and realizing that theres more in life gained confiddnce in me and just like that - the stutter was gone.